Last night my wife was rushed into Newham general with bust stomach ulcer and required urgent operation and just has she was about to have done went into cardiac arrest and is now on a life support machine I home for a quick change of clothes and shower then back .mike
My prayers are with you Mike
Sure you won't have time to check into the NGF, but like others here, wishing you well.
Cheers, NeMo
Sorry to hear this, I hope she recovers soon.
General health input to members
Stomach ulcers are very rare these days since they discovered the majority are caused by a bacteria. It can be cleared up if you take some very strong antibiotics, but you have to spot the symptoms and get treatment. If you get any more than very rare indigestion speak to your doctor.
I am praying for your wife Mike, I hope she gets well soon.
Thinking of you and hoping your wife recovers soon.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you both
Fingers crossed that all goes OK. Our thoughts are with you.
Thinking of you & your wife, hope all goes well
regards Derek.
I am So Sorry to hear of your News I hope your wife recovers soon. God Speed. Babs
I'm sorry to hear that. My thoughts are with you and, as others have said, I hope for the best for her and a good recovery.
I can only echo what has already been said Mike. Good luck to you both.
The same sentiments from me what more can I say other than I hope all goes well and your wife recovers quickly.
Bob
I hope that she recovers quickly Mike, my best wishes to the three of you
Regards,
Alex
Best wishes to you both - I hope she makes a full and fast recovery.
Sorry to here the news Mike , love and prayers to Elsa .... Alan x
Mike
My heartfelt sympathy and prayers are with you and your family.
Ray
Scary times. I wish you both well and back home soon.
Dave G
My prayers are with you and your wife Mike for speedy recovery.
Quick update elsa has another cardiac arrest today they had to work on her for 20 mins and brought her back for the past 5 hours she been in a stable condition and I have come so as I can take my meds and a little sleep thankyou all for kind words much needed.mike
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Quote from: fatso on April 14, 2016, 07:26:06 PM
Quick update elsa has another cardiac arrest today they had to work on her for 20 mins and brought her back for the past 5 hours she been in a stable condition and I have come so as I can take my meds and a little sleep thankyou all for kind words much needed.mike
Thanks for the update, Mike. Very scary stuff. I hope she continues to stay stable and improves soon. Glad you're getting a little rest; I'm sure you're physically and emotionally drained after that.
All the best and my continued wishes for Elsa's recovery.
Grateful for the latest news.
Stay strong. Thoughts are with you both.
Dave G
Quote from: fatso on April 14, 2016, 07:26:06 PM
Quick update elsa has another cardiac arrest today they had to work on her for 20 mins and brought her back for the past 5 hours she been in a stable condition and I have come so as I can take my meds and a little sleep thankyou all for kind words much needed.mike
Our prayers are with you and your wife, Mike. God bless.
Alex
My best wishes too Mike, my thoughts are with you both.
Roy
I have everything crossed for your wife's full recovery, Mike.
Best wishes to you both
May God Bless you both, give you strength and keep you both safe, you are in our Prayers.
My thoughts are with you both Mike. I hope all goes well.
Brian.
I hope she does well and makes a good recovery
Nick R
Have strength my friend. I had my wife in intensive care for a week a couple of years ago and understand what you are going through. My thoughts are with you.
Keep strong, buddy. My thoughts are with you.
ITS WITH DEEP SADDNESS THAT I HAVE SAY ELSA MY LADY PASSED AWAY TONIGHT AT 1959PM IT WAS VERY PEACE FULL MY LOVER AND MOST FRIEND WILL LIVE MY HEART FOREVER
Sad news, sorry for your loss. :(
Stu
Oh no, Mike. I am so very sorry to hear that.
I'm really sorry to hear of your loss I'm sure that we all send our sympathy and that we are all here for you .
Bob
Sad news, indeed. My best wishes at this awful time.
George
My condolences. May she rest in peace.
Brian.
Very sorry to hear of your great loss, our Thoughts and Prayers are with you.
So sorry Mike. Don't know what else to say.
Words do not convey the sadness I feel. Keep strong in the following days. Grief will go but most importantly the happy times will be remembered and she will live on in your heart.
Most sad news, deepest condolences to to you and your family.
There's not much we can say to ease the loss of your lovely
lady.
Sad news,
Deepest condolences to you and your family.
Marco
So sorry to hear this, my condolences to you and your family.
So sorry my friend, I don't know what else to say. I know, from previous posts in other threads, how much the lady meant in your close family life. Sorry Mike, I just don't have the words...
Mike I am very sorry to hear this news, condolences to you and your family, take care.
My sincere condolences.
Dave G
None of our words will ease the pain, but we are all thinking of you.
Remember all the good times you had together.
Sincerest Condolences......... :(
That is so sad. My thoughts are with you.
:sorrysign:
Bob
Hi guys on behalf of my son and I thank you all for wonderful words of kindness and comfort from so many strangers and friends I would like to state that the 24 years Elsa and had where more fun than any man could wish for I am so very honoured and privileged to have had such wonderful loving and caring partner who has given me a outstanding son.mike
Mike
So sorry to here this, my sincere condolences to you and Mike.
I only met Elsa the once and she struck me as a nice caring lady, treasure your memories.
Ray
Mike,
I'm so sorry. I can't imagine what you and your son are going through right now. My deepest condolences,
Philip
I'm very sorry to hear your sad news.
Have only just seen this,
Am so sorry for your loss. Don't have the words but you take care now.
weave.
No words will really help you but our sincere condolences to you and your family
Very sorry to hear your sad news,Mike.Condolences to you and your Son.
Take care of each other....................Ste x
It is difficult to find words that help, but the thought that many people are thinking of you might help you through the coming times.
Mike,
I haven't been on the forum much in the past week and it was awful to read about Elsa. I was just telling my wife that she had survived two cardiac arrests when I read she had passed away. That knocked the wind out of me and I can't imagine the pain you are feeling. I always say that alike people find each other and I'm sure that she was as kind and caring as you. Thinking of you and your son at this terrible time.
Dave
Sorry to hear of your sad loss, Mike. There is nothing anyone can say at a time like this that makes it any easier. Just remember the great times you had together and that time heals all hurts.
Malc
I'm so sorry Mike.
Joe Cassidy
I am so sorry to hear your terrible news and with you all my best wishes, I really do hope that the strong show of support and wishes on this forum is a ray of sunshine trying to break through your dark clouds.
All my best wishes
Simon
Mike So Sorry for your Loss May God be with her and Her Soul will rest in Peace Very Sad Indeed. Babs
Very sorry to hear this news.
Condolences from us.
Skyline2uk
Deepest.condolences
requiescat in pace.
I am so sorry to hear that Mike, My condolences to you and your son.
Alex
So sad and so quick! My sincere condolences to you and your son.
I seem to be just repeating what has already been said in so many previous posts but I too am so sorry at this sad news. I hope you have the strength to get through this traumatic time even though you will never get over it.
My thoughts are with you and your family.
Every time I see another posting it gives the strength to go on Elsa in life walked by my side her spirit will do the same knowing that gives myself and my son the will to carry thank you its a long road ahead but I know you guys will help light my way.mike
Mike
You have my condolences - I know what it can be like to lose someone unexpectedly.
Best wishes
Mike
I echo all that has been said.
Very sorry, - my thoughts are with you.
Sincere condolences.
Quote from: fatso on April 15, 2016, 09:21:47 PM
Every time I see another posting it gives the strength to go on Elsa in life walked by my side her spirit will do the same knowing that gives myself and my son the will to carry thank you its a long road ahead but I know you guys will help light my way.mike
Keep the faith, Mike. You know that there is a host of people praying for you on the forum.
I am sorry for your loss; but heartened that the goodwill in these pages is offering some comfort to you.
Best wishes
Ben A.
My deepest sympathies to you and your son, Mike, for the loss of Elsa. These are tough times for both of you, but you'll pull through.
Best wishes
Webbo
My sincere condolences to you and your son at this sad time.
Best Wishes Alan.
Deepest sympathy at your sudden loss Mike, I know you will draw strength from your son and friends to get through this difficult time.
Kindest regards
Once again thank you all so very much for kind posting I and my son Alvaro are taking get comfort from all your posting knowing that friends and stranger walking every step with us is truly outstanding this day two and its now hitting hard Alvaro and truly hope one we can meet some if not all you to shake by hand and a heart felt thank you its times like this that true friendship shines Mike
Sincere condolences from Kath and me, Mike. Chin up!
REFLECTIONS
Remember all those happy days, those times she called our own
In all those well-loved places where you now grieve alone.
And those small endearing gestures, which you thought you knew so well,
Are fading, as time passes, with her words, her kiss, her smell.
But then there is that moment, that time within the day,
When you feel she is beside you in that old familiar way.
But as you turn to see her smile or receive a tender touch,
There's only a dark shadow of the one you loved so much.
And tears begin to fall in that hole of deep despair,
And memories overwhelm you - more than your heart can bear.
As you remember her gentle grace and her love so soft but strong,
Your heart will simply miss a beat as you miss her life, her song.
You want to rewind the clock and say how much you care;
You want to silence the talk that she's not there to share.
But you smile and chat amiably to family and friends
And hope they do not notice your world is at an end.
But she knows that you will carry on because she told you true
That if she had to choose again, she would still choose
That is beautiful!
Simon
Sorry to hear the news, hope things get better, thoughts and prayers for you tonight in matins.
I've had very little time to dip into the Forum in recent weeks, so I've only today caught up with this thread. May I add my sincerest condolences to everybody else's. I hope she wasn't in pain for too long and that her passing was gentle.
My very best wishes to you and your family.
Chris
Quote from: Papyrus on April 20, 2016, 03:45:36 PM
I've had very little time to dip into the Forum in recent weeks, so I've only today caught up with this thread. May I add my sincerest condolences to everybody else's. I hope she wasn't in pain for too long and that her passing was gentle.
My very best wishes to you and your family.
Chris
Elsa was on a life support machine they worked on her for 32 mins and it was stopped and passed away very peacefully my upsetting news is Elsa had post mortem and we now have to go to a full inquest the corner has given me a temp cert so as I can lay my dear lady to rest until death cert can be given after inquest some time nov/dec.mike
I'm so glad that the coroner has show compassion and to allow you to lay her to rest peacefully. It will allow you to continue your lives with one great worry less and give you the opportunity to come to terms with what has happened and cope better with the future.
Well said, Mito.
Thoughts are with you and yours, Mike.
Dave G
So sorry to hear the news. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. So sorry our prayers and thoughts did not work this time. It is good that the coroner has let you move on to lay your lady to rest, again our deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Once again on behalf of my son and I we are truly taking great comfort from your posting yesterday we went to undertakers to arrange the service today I have received in the post the paper work from the corners Alvaro and I are coping the best we can we eating and also laughing and the wonderful memorise we shared with his mum and I words can not express my gratitude for everyone kind word and prayers respectfully yours Mike. Drummond {aka fatso}
My thoughts and prayers are with you both Mike. God bless.
Paddy
Hi guys and gals its now been two weeks today that Elsa passed away at long last she has been release to undertaker for Elsa last party with us on the 12th may at 10am Then Alvaro and I have write all the events surrounding Elsa passing away for the inquest in November around 9th its going to a very long and hard road ahead but this has to be done.mike
It is hard at the moment. After the funeral things will begin to get better. We lost our eldest son in a car accident. He was a passenger and almost 26. The first few months were very hard going but little by little the pain went, the sadness is still there 18 years on. Remember that even though Elsa's physical life has ended her spirit lives on in your and Alvaro's mind. Be strong both of you and you will come through it all.
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. We haven't spoken before but I have no idea what I would do if this happened to me.
Keep strong and keep yourself and your family positive.
The inquest will be a tough haul to get through but from what I can understand it is a necessary process. A burst stomach ulcer if treated within 24 hours should carry a very low mortality rate
If there is one thing you should be grateful for it is that you were there and that she went peacefully, I can't tell you how many loved ones I've lost in friends or family that I couldn't get to them in time or hadn't seen them for a while and regret not making more time to see them.
Today is day 4 in mine and my sons new chapter in life without Elsa we are coming to terms with events one day at a time the days are and will get brighter laughter will return and where we have so much pain memories will ease it knowing we have very good friends and support from others give the strenght and courage to go forwards also today we are returning back to the model train club in memory of Elsa we have decided to continue the work we have started with more determination .mike
I'm glad you're so positive. Though difficult, it's good to pick up the threads again. Good luck with the return to the club.
I am sorry that I missed this thread before.
Very tough to face it but hang in there, all things will get better from now on!!
From USA, Dats475
Hi guys this my last posting regarding my late partner as life has to go all of you have been such a great comfort to Alvaro & I So please will you very nice mods close this posting knowing that you along with the boss tank and all other have done to very much only two words I can offer you on behalf my son and I
THANK YOU
Day 7 of our new chapter in life Alvaro wanted to go and collect Elsa ashes today from the undertakers its sad to have had to do this but we both have so many wonderful memorise of her in September Elsa finale resting place will be back home in Portugal Elsa sister and two nieces and two nephews along with Alvaro and I are going to scatter here ashes in a wonderful garden that she went to as a child and young woman then will all be able to go forwards a little more knowing we have all done the very best we can for here in life and now in her passing
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