One of my brothers had cancer.
Just over a week ago, I felt a need to get in contact and arrange to go and see him. So last Wednesday, I popped over to Northampton and had a visit.
It was difficult, as he looked gaunt and very jaundiced. Although he kept on drifting asleep, it seemed to mean a lot to him that I was there, with my other brother (his twin).
I got a call a short while ago, to say that my brother passed away this afternoon.
I'm very sorry to hear that and offer my deepest condolences to you and your family in this difficult time. May he rest in peace
Very sorry to hear that. However you can take solace in the fact that you saw him before he died, and it meant a lot to him.
My condolences to you and your family.
Bob
So sorry to learn of your loss. My sincerest condolences to you and your family.
Kind Regards
Roy
So sorry to read this news, Bob :(
Rest assured the thoughts of everyone on the forum are with you and your family at this tragic time.
Quote from: NTrain on November 17, 2015, 07:14:13 PM
One of my brothers had cancer.
Just over a week ago, I felt a need to get in contact and arrange to go and see him. So last Wednesday, I popped over to Northampton and had a visit.
It was difficult, as he looked gaunt and very jaundiced. Although he kept on drifting asleep, it seemed to mean a lot to him that I was there, with my other brother (his twin).
I got a call a short while ago, to say that my brother passed away this afternoon.
I'm really sorry to hear that. Take care of each other, that's so important.
As I am sure you feel as well, this forum is like an extended family sometimes.
The kids sometime kick up a fuss, but when the chips are down, we are all there for each other.
Hi Bob,
I'm very sorry to read that - what awful news.
Is it any consolation that you managed to see him so recently? One often reads of those who don't get there in time and forever rue that missed chance.
Either way, deep condolences to you and your family.
Ben A.
I think it did him good having me visit. He was sufficiently aware of me being there and kept on apologising for drifting asleep.
I am glad I went, as the family bond is strong, despite us all having gone separate ways and only keeping occasional contact.
So sorry to hear that Bob. All the best to you and your family.
Bob, you were able to say goodbye to your brother, and meet up with your other brother.
That's important for all three of you.
My thoughts are with you.
Joe
Sorry to hear your sad news Bob. In time, looking back, I'm sure you'll be glad you made that trip.
So sorry to hear your sad news, my condolences to you and your family, no things are easy at a time like this but just remember the good times.
Ray
Hi Bob
Sorry to hear your news. I had something similar with my gran a couple of years back but I think on reflection that it was easier (for me) to be able to say goodbye properly.
Best wishes, Mike
Sorry to hear your sad news, my condolences to you & your family.
Stu.
I'm sorry, Bob. Heartfelt condolences from all of us here.
-Philip
Sorry for your loss, Bob. All the best.
Sorry to hear your news, Bob. I know how you feel as my brother succumbed to cancer. I too went to see him and was shocked that he looked just like my grandfather. However, like your brother, he was glad to see me and we had a good chat. He too kept drifting off to sleep but we both enjoyed the visit.
Bob So Sorry for your loss. Babs
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss it's never easy but at least you made the right decision to go and visit him .
I lost my Dad when I was nearly 18 he went into hospital with a Dudenal ulcer I was told it was a minor operation I Hated hospitals so didn't visit him he died from complications and I've always regretted not going in to see him .
Bob
So sorry about your loss Bob. I lost my youngest sister to cancer in March and, regrettably, did not get there before she left us. But at least, we have our memories of happier times. David.
Sorry to hear of your loss I hope the fact you were able to see your brother will be of some comfort
Sorry to hear your sad news, Bob. Glad you got to see him.
My condolences and thoughts are with you.
Dave
My condolences to you and your family, it must be comforting that you went to see him.
What was really special, was the meal all us brothers and sisters (with partners and a few assorted other family members) had together in August. My younger sister came across from Canada for a few days.
We managed to get a waiter to take pictures, and the smile on my brothers face, at having us all together, is priceless.
Seriously, that brings a lump to your throat. As I said earlier Bob, we have our memories. David.