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Title: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Caz on August 26, 2015, 10:11:20 PM
We've got a happy thread and an angry thread but neither of them are quite right as how I currently feel so I've created this "Unhappy Thread" as a halfway house to express disappointment as opposed to anger.   :)

Finally got my MPD working fully automated if needed, even come up with a design for a low relief roundhouse ala Guildford and now my Fleischmann turntable has decided to die on me.  :headbutt:

It has been working hard lately with all the testing I've put it through so shouldn't complain too much I suppose, just annoyed and a bit  :censored: .

Managed to get it all apart and it seems the motor has expired, the magnets have no pull at all, put some of my neomidium magnets on the outside of the motor at a test and it spun again so seems to prove my suspicions.   :'(

Managed to find a spare on the net and have it on order so hopefully be here later in the week or early next so normal service should be resumed soon.   :sweat:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on August 27, 2015, 12:47:58 AM
Hmm, interesting, Caz. I have the same turntable, but it's still in the box. I'm wondering if we have any forum members with the same unit who might have had similar problems, or can comment on it's performance?

George
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: D1042 Western Princess on August 27, 2015, 08:20:54 AM
Quote from: Caz on August 26, 2015, 10:11:20 PM

Finally got my MPD working fully automated if needed, even come up with a design for a low relief roundhouse ala Guildford and now my Fleischmann turntable has decided to die on me.  :headbutt:

It has been working hard lately with all the testing I've put it through so shouldn't complain too much I suppose, just annoyed and a bit  :censored: .

Managed to get it all apart and it seems the motor has expired, the magnets have no pull at all, put some of my neomidium magnets on the outside of the motor at a test and it spun again so seems to prove my suspicions.   :'(


Thanks for starting the new thread but your trouble is worrying, not that I would need a turntable, but I think worrying for others here.
A question? Actually two - how old is your turntable and was it still under guarantee?
I thought Fleishmann equipment was supposed to be better than that.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on August 27, 2015, 08:25:57 AM
Yes, it's Fleischmann, and I too thought the equipment was better. Worrying!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Geoff on August 27, 2015, 08:32:05 AM
I am unhappy with my branch line I thought I had my layout designed right but one of my run off lines is close to a point that it catches the operating lever, ah well I will go back and try again.

I like this unhappy thread.  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Zogbert Splod on August 27, 2015, 11:38:02 AM
Unhappy thread?  :thumbsup:

I don't suppose any of you good folks know where the charger for my electric screwdriver is right now do ya?  If you can find it for me, I'll give you a sixpence to go and get sweeties!

This thread needs a good pinning I say.....
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Caz on August 27, 2015, 07:49:27 PM
Quote from: D1042 Western Princess on August 27, 2015, 08:20:54 AM

Thanks for starting the new thread but your trouble is worrying, not that I would need a turntable, but I think worrying for others here.
A question? Actually two - how old is your turntable and was it still under guarantee?
I thought Fleishmann equipment was supposed to be better than that.

I bought it second hand via an Ebay equivalent about 4 years ago so definitely out of warranty.  Reading through some other forums it is an occasional known problem with their motors losing power. 

You can buy a new motor (just the motor) for about £42 or a whole new innards (motor, relays, gears, pcbs etc) for about £110 (UK).  As it is very important to the operation of Claywell I've ordered a whole new innards direct from Fleischamann for 119.30 euros so with the current rate of exchange it works out a lot cheaper than the £110 UK price.   ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on August 27, 2015, 09:33:59 PM
Quote from: Zogbert Splod on August 27, 2015, 11:38:02 AM
Unhappy thread?  :thumbsup:

I don't suppose any of you good folks know where the charger for my electric screwdriver is right now do ya?  If you can find it for me, I'll give you a sixpence to go and get sweeties!

This thread needs a good pinning I say.....
Agree with the pinning @caz and your PDU will be in the last place you look, guaranteed! 😇
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Zogbert Splod on August 28, 2015, 01:09:09 AM
Quote from: Malc on August 27, 2015, 09:33:59 PM
Agree with the pinning @caz and your PDU will be in the last place you look, guaranteed! 😇
Thanks for the help there Malc.  I'll bung you that tanner when I see ya, coz I just checked what it would cost to mail it to ya!  :bounce:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on August 28, 2015, 09:56:05 AM
Please please pin this thread. I hoped to start one similar some months ago but nobody came forward and pinned it ::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Caz on August 28, 2015, 10:59:06 AM
Quote from: jonclox on August 28, 2015, 09:56:05 AM
Please please pin this thread. I hoped to start one similar some months ago but nobody came forward and pinned it ::)

Glad you like it, now pinned.    :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on August 28, 2015, 11:34:07 AM
I'll be up in Scotland in a couple of weeks, so can pick it up Allan. Any good model shops in Glasgow, Edinburgh, Inverness, Thurso, the Orkneys, Shetlands, Aberdeen or Pitlochry?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Agrippa on August 28, 2015, 11:51:17 AM
Pastimes in Glasgow is worth a visit, lots of used stuff in good condition,
about 6-7 mins from Glasgow centre by subway.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Agrippa on August 28, 2015, 11:56:25 AM
PS to previous post, Harburn Hobbies in Edinburgh worth a visit ,
not the cheapest but v friendly, also Wonderland Models in Edinburgh,
only OO trains but good for materials , paints, plastic kits.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Zogbert Splod on August 28, 2015, 01:44:34 PM
Quote from: Agrippa on August 28, 2015, 11:56:25 AM
...Harburn Hobbies in Edinburgh worth a visit ,
not the cheapest but v friendly...
Second that, a small shop but nice people who do all that they can to help.....
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on August 30, 2015, 12:10:01 PM
Little bit unhappy because I wanted to put a couple of pictures up of my Friday railway activities, but I can't get them to display the right way up.

iPhone 5S, tried flipping photos on the phone and the laptop but always upload at the same odd angle  :thumbsdown:

Skyline2uk 
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on August 30, 2015, 12:26:57 PM
No worries for us members in the southern hemisphere, they look fine!  ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Sprintex on August 30, 2015, 02:12:55 PM
Good old iPhone . . . . . . :poop:

;)


Paul
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on August 30, 2015, 04:11:15 PM
Not going to say that was predictable or anything.....

And lo, the iPhone haters and follows of Andoid doth unite....

;)  :D

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Sprintex on August 30, 2015, 05:13:55 PM
Never had anything Android either so I wouldn't know :D


Paul
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NeMo on August 30, 2015, 05:19:39 PM
Quote from: Skyline2uk on August 30, 2015, 12:10:01 PM
iPhone 5S, tried flipping photos on the phone and the laptop but always upload at the same odd angle  :thumbsdown:

May be a stupid question, but can't you just rotate them in your image editor of choice? If you've got a Mac, just open the image in Preview, hit Command-R twice, it'll be rotated by 90 degrees twice, and Bob's your uncle. Easy.

If you've got a bunch of photos, you can select as many photos as you need to in iPhoto, hit Command-R twice, and again the pictures will be rotated by 180 degrees.

I assume there are similar ways to do this on other operating systems.

If you visit the Apple Discussion forums you'll see this seems to be a known problem (https://www.google.co.uk/search?client=safari&rls=en&q=iphone+photos+upside+down&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&gfe_rd=cr&ei=3CzjVZCONabj8we7zb6IDw#q=iphone+photos+upside+down+site:discussions.apple.com). Whether it's a genuine software bug or a compass calibration issue isn't know to me because my level of interest is zero. (Don't have an iPhone, despite having written for Mac magazines and websites for a dozen years or more; my phone is positively Neanderthal, a Siemens A62, very reliable, week-long battery life, but only does calls and text messages!)

Cheers, NeMo
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on August 30, 2015, 05:20:46 PM

@Nemo, thanks for that. If I can muster the energy I will have another look later on.

@Sprinte Lol fair enough, you are clearly that rare thing, an un-biased phone hater  ;D

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Caz on August 30, 2015, 06:31:07 PM
Quote from: Skyline2uk on August 30, 2015, 12:10:01 PM
Little bit unhappy because I wanted to put a couple of pictures up of my Friday railway activities, but I can't get them to display the right way up.

iPhone 5S, tried flipping photos on the phone and the laptop but always upload at the same odd angle  :thumbsdown:

Skyline2uk

Is this want you wanted, @Skyline2uk (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=1081)

I just took them into an image editing program and rotated them, it is the only way to permanently rotate them, using a viewer to rotate only rotates the image temporarily.

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Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on August 30, 2015, 06:57:30 PM
Erm....they are still showing as upside-down?

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Caz on August 30, 2015, 07:00:42 PM
Try refreshing your browser, usually F5 on most browsers or Control F5 for a forced update.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on August 30, 2015, 07:07:46 PM
Ah ha!

Many thanks @Caz (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=202), I appreciate the effort and apologies for apparent dismissal....

These photos will be on the "Happy Thread" with an explanation shortly  :D

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jack on September 05, 2015, 04:08:07 PM
Not a happy bunny!

I just finished wiring up one of two layout boards, this one has 80% of all the point work on it of which two sets of points are Peco 3 way. Now I always test point work with my 08 Gronk because if that goes across anything so with the rest of the fleet. Now can I get it to go through one set of 3 way through all lanes? No! It will go through the other set fine, even creeps across without problems. I've tried allsorts of things from cleaning to changing which Frog Juicers supplies the 3 way frogs.  :headbutt: :headbutt:

And just to top everything off, one of the fiddle yard points decides to throw its spring!  :whiteflag: :whiteflag:

Maybe I should've put this in the angry thread.  >:(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 05, 2015, 09:28:15 PM
My Toshiba laptop has just self destructed. Locked up solid so had to press restart. Mucho graunching noise from the drive and won't load anything. I'm back to the old steam powered one with Windows XP.
Trouble is, it's so old the battery won't hold a charge and I don't want to leave it on the mains 24/7 so every time I shut down it loses date/time etc :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 05, 2015, 09:42:45 PM
Thanks, Paul, but there's no way I'm taking apart the only thing that will keep me in contact with the forum while I see f the Toshiba can be fixed :no: :worried:

Strange that while this laptop is on the mains the time changes as it should but the entire thing doesn't work when I disconnect the mains lead, so does that mean the mains is putting some power through the cmos battery :confused1: :dunce:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 15, 2015, 10:14:08 AM
I know you can't make an omelette without breaking eggs but I am in the middle of having 3 windows replaced so the 'Hole in the Wall' gang have been busy and it's bloody  :cold:
Needless to say they took all the old ones out rather than do one at a time. :help:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on September 15, 2015, 10:37:58 AM
That'll teach you to throw eggs at the windows  ???
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on September 15, 2015, 10:55:49 AM
A raw egg thrown hard enough will break a window.

Don't know if Australia's old PM Tony Abbott did, but he should have. Anyway, Australia now has a new Prime Minister, Malcolm Turnbull.

I used to go to junior school with a kid called Malcolm Turnbull. On the way walking home, we would stop at this park in a council estate that had swings. We'd get the momentum up and spit at each other as we swung. I'd be a SPITfire and MB would be a MesserSPIT.

Thought you'd all love to hear that.

Just reminds me of Aussie politics, that's all.  :D :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MikeDunn on September 15, 2015, 07:55:59 PM
Less unhappy and more uneasy ...

For the first time in a loooong time, I have no OU to get on with ... or to research for the next curse ...  I can pick my life up from wherever it was I hid it way back when ...

Scary ...  :sweat:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on September 30, 2015, 10:21:11 AM
 :'( Got to go out and give something away in a few minutes . No payment for it just a little pain >:( Why my GPs bloodsucker wont come to me for a blood donation I just cant understand. I bet they don't even give it back after they have looked at it  :scowl:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MikeDunn on September 30, 2015, 10:52:45 AM
Doncha know those vampires only need 1 vial to look at ?  The rest is lunch ...  :-X
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 30, 2015, 11:05:49 AM
As I have an angiogram booked next week and my annual MOT is due, I had to see the flebo plebot vampire last week. "Sharp scratch" said she. "Ouch" said I. Result, one blood stained shirt :veryangry:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on September 30, 2015, 11:12:47 AM
Now I know why I don't like looking at this thread. Medical stories.... ah well, I dump iron rich blood monthly. It goes straight into the bin.

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MalcolmInN on September 30, 2015, 11:29:27 AM
(B should look away now !)

They have the catheter gubbins small enough these days that if you are lucky they will be able to go via your wrist, but will prepare your groin at the same time as backup plan.
Make sure they have one of the monitors where you can see it. It is quite entertaining but they wont give you a DVD to take away :(


Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Zogbert Splod on September 30, 2015, 03:05:06 PM
I've been waiting for a package of some quite expensive bits and bobs.  Parcel Force Tracked...  So, 7am, my phone goes off with a text message,  'got your package, will be delivered today'.  Up I get thinking it may come any minute, but no.  11:20, a knock on the door, the usual postman with my package.  I could have stayed in bed!   So I check the items, all good.  12:45, I decide to have a catchup gonk on the settee.  1:15, text message, 'your package was delivered today'... I'm going to have this here cup of tea, yea, this one, then try again to have an hours gonk...
And tomorrow, I have another tracked package due for delivery. 
" 'O frabjous day! Callooh! Callay!' He chortled in his joy.".....
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on September 30, 2015, 06:35:26 PM
Quote from: Zogbert Splod on September 30, 2015, 03:05:06 PM
I've been waiting for a package of some quite expensive bits and bobs.  Parcel Force Tracked...  So, 7am, my phone goes off with a text message,  'got your package, will be delivered today'.  Up I get thinking it may come any minute, but no.  11:20, a knock on the door, the usual postman with my package.  I could have stayed in bed!   So I check the items, all good.  12:45, I decide to have a catchup gonk on the settee.  1:15, text message, 'your package was delivered today'... I'm going to have this here cup of tea, yea, this one, then try again to have an hours gonk...
And tomorrow, I have another tracked package due for delivery. 
" 'O frabjous day! Callooh! Callay!' He chortled in his joy.".....
Be thankful ZS  - at least your package got delivered as promised
:beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Sprintex on September 30, 2015, 07:10:52 PM
Quote from: Bealman on September 30, 2015, 11:12:47 AM
Now I know why I don't like looking at this thread. Medical stories.... ah well, I dump iron rich blood monthly. It goes straight into the bin.

At least the "armful" I give every few months goes to good use, and I get tea and biccies for me trouble :D

(http://www.sprintexnet.co.uk/Images/sipping%20tea.gif)


Paul
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: GeeBee on September 30, 2015, 11:33:44 PM
Quote from: MalcolmAL on September 30, 2015, 11:29:27 AM
(B should look away now !)

They have the catheter gubbins small enough these days that if you are lucky they will be able to go via your wrist, but will prepare your groin at the same time as backup plan.
Make sure they have one of the monitors where you can see it. It is quite entertaining but they wont give you a DVD to take away :(

Very true but you forgot to mention the 2 3/4 hours laid absolutely flat on a hard board my osteoarthritis really loved that
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MalcolmInN on October 01, 2015, 11:33:27 AM
Quote from: GeeBee on September 30, 2015, 11:33:44 PM
on a hard board my osteoarthritis really loved that
Oh, ouch, where is the 'sympathy' emoticon when you need one .

Yes, you're right I didnt ! Nor did I mention the heart attack(s) they induce when inflating one of the gubbins, thus blocking the artery,  whilst they try to move things round and insert other gubbins ,, and and,, you ask if they have a bottle of whisky handy please ! (but a nice nurse will use the other arm to inject some happy making stuff :) )
Or when they all go away into a huddle in another room and seem to take forever.
No I didnt mention all that cos I didnt want to give NPN or B the hebiejebies  :laugh3:

I was trying to look on the bright side of life :) to tell about the wrist rather than fishing line up the leg stuff LOL !
But with luck he will only need the -gram bit not the -plasty stuff etc !

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 01, 2015, 03:53:04 PM
Just to show my age I'd rather have a radiogram than an angiogram :uneasy:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Ditape on October 01, 2015, 06:21:45 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on October 01, 2015, 03:53:04 PM
Just to show my age I'd rather have a radiogram than an angiogram :uneasy:
Yes I miss the old radiogram as well
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MalcolmInN on October 01, 2015, 06:59:57 PM
Ah yes, with one of those 'wireless' things inside.

pssst, there are a few other grams you may have to meet ? , electro cardio , ummm
oh yes,,, the echo one is amusing, I asked him to let me know if I was pregnant and that I thought he was looking in the wrong place !
He looked sour, as though he had heard it all before - which is why I didnt put it in the jokes section  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 01, 2015, 09:19:57 PM
I've already had the echo and electro cardio ones, Malcolm.
When I heard the 'gurgling' noise on the echogram I asked the nurse if it was her making that racket.
Don't think she had a sense of humour that day ::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MalcolmInN on October 01, 2015, 09:35:27 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on October 01, 2015, 09:19:57 PM
Don't think she had a sense of humour that day ::)
Hmmm, that makes two ! Must be a hazzard of the job, too much ultrasound ruins the funny bone ?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on October 01, 2015, 09:44:32 PM
About 20 years ago a cardiologist decided that it was necessary to monitor my heart during 24 hours - blood pressure and ECG.

For this I had to wear a tape recorder under my clothes for the 24 hour period, but I'm talking about a real cassette recorder in a leather case that the BBC might have used for taping outside broadcasts in the 1960s, not some miniature transistorised marvel of the modern age.

For blood pressure, I had one of those tyre inner tube things strapped to my upper arm, which inflated every 20 minutes. Luckily for my wife it was on my left arm, which is my side of the bed. However, it was a bit embarassing in the train on the way to work when my left arm rose to the horizotal for no apparent reason.

At the end of the day it was a false alarm so I can laugh about it now.

Best regards,


Joe
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 01, 2015, 09:57:38 PM
Funny that 'cos I had to go through all of that after an episode of atrial fibrillation. I did wonder whether to re-enact the Bond film and switch the cassette for one of Military Marching Bands :-X
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on October 02, 2015, 01:31:16 AM
For all you Arduino freaks out there (yes, I class meself as one of 'em since me last birthday), the latest Silicon Chip magazine has an Arduino-based USB electrocardiogram project.

Why you'd want to build one, I'm not quite sure, however  :worried:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 02, 2015, 09:37:31 AM
Does it take cassettes? :laugh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Zogbert Splod on October 02, 2015, 03:14:12 PM
It was a marginal decision.  I almost posted in the 'Distinctly Un-Chuffed' thread.
My KNK cutter arrived.  I opened the outer box, hauled out the inner box and, there, between the boxes was the cutting mat, jammed at a diagonal causing a bend from corner to corner.  'OK,' thinks I, 'that will flatten in a while if I just lay it on a flat surface.'  But no...  I tried putting it on a radiator, I tried pouring some warm, then HOT water across it.  I tried rolling it up against the kink and holding it there with rubber bands for a while.  No difference in any of the efforts. The kink was such that the mat would not pass through the machine without jamming.  So, it was  :poop: -o-gram time!
Now this is why this post is here instead of in the stronger thread.  Within minutes of my email, I received a polite reply containing an apology and the advice that they had dispatched a whole pack of mats as a replacement.  Assuming that they arrive in reasonable time I will have no need to post in the ANGRY place.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 02, 2015, 03:56:21 PM
Sounds like they are looking after you, Allan. Good service :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Zogbert Splod on October 02, 2015, 04:03:15 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on October 02, 2015, 03:56:21 PM
Sounds like they are looking after you, Allan. Good service :thumbsup:
Time will tell, but if they react that well as a general principle, I will be a crappy hamper...  (or do I mean 'happy camper'?)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 02, 2015, 04:05:04 PM
Quote from: Zogbert Splod on October 02, 2015, 04:03:15 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on October 02, 2015, 03:56:21 PM
Sounds like they are looking after you, Allan. Good service :thumbsup:
Time will tell, but if they react that well as a general principle, I will be a crappy hamper...  (or do I mean 'happy camper'?)

Always remember to leave no turd unstoned ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Caz on October 04, 2015, 12:33:00 PM
Wasn't sure as to whether put this in the unhappy or angry threads.  Had a running session this morning, first is to get locos out of their mpd's, all worked fine.  Ran some circuits then started some out and back trains and discovered that the points in the mpd area no longer work.   :veryangry:

It seems all 8 points controlled by one of my CML DAC20 boards (I've got 10 control boards) wouldn't work, can hear a faint buzz whenever I send a throw command but the point doesn't throw.  I suspect it is the in built CDU that has died, it is the first one to do this and the strange thing is it is the newest one, only bought in June.

Question is do I have a go at repairing it myself to save not having the MPD non-operational for a few weeks or bite the bullett and send it back?   :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on October 04, 2015, 01:11:21 PM
It's worth while running a soldering iron over the circuit board, Caz. Sounds like you are not charging the capacitors.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on October 04, 2015, 02:30:37 PM
I had this happen to me ,Toneeze and Shelley came to operate my layout we had a great morning ,came up the house for lunch when we went back no points at all in the fiddle yard we tried a new CDU and then noticed that when I put the second wire in the output of the CDU two point motors buzzed we found which two and discovered that two push buttons were stuck down ,replaced them and we were up and running again.I know Caz,s layout is computer controlled but this might help someone else so they don't panic wondering what's gone wrong.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: fatso on October 04, 2015, 03:00:45 PM
Very sad in my house today my lovely   lady has said no to another 4 speaker for my home theater system along with a new amp that allows atmos format sound  wives they always wins or she think so how to get 4 small little speaker in the amp will  be easy its the same make fatso on mission might be dog for very long time if captured. :laugh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on October 04, 2015, 06:46:04 PM
Quote from: fatso on October 04, 2015, 03:00:45 PM
my lovely   lady has said no to another 4 speaker for my home theater system along with a new amp that allows atmos format sound
Have an extra pint in the evening fatso and you won't notice the difference!! Relatively cheap and very enjoyable solution.
:beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on October 05, 2015, 03:22:32 PM
Currently an unwilling participant in a medical experiment titled "Small Babies as Disease Vectors". Worse, offending small baby not only manages to display all symptoms of said diseases, but remain disgustingly active. On the plus side he only took a couple of days to associate the "uncomfortable snot-removal tubes" with "subsequent nasal relief" and the process no longer requires two people with five arms between them.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MalcolmInN on October 05, 2015, 03:59:40 PM
Quote from: railsquid on October 05, 2015, 03:22:32 PM
Currently an unwilling participant in a medical experiment titled "Small Babies as Disease Vectors".  "uncomfortable snot-removal tubes"

Quote from: Bealman on September 30, 2015, 11:12:47 AM
Now I know why I don't like looking at this thread. Medical stories....
I'm with B
:laugh3: :o   :smiley-laughing: :laughabovepost:

a little too much info I rekons :)

Disease vector you say, Ha, wait till it starts school then worry about what it brings home.
Almost as bad as riding a bus.

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on October 05, 2015, 04:11:15 PM
"Riding" a bus? Do you put a saddle on it or what?  ???
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: petercharlesfagg on October 05, 2015, 04:12:53 PM
Quote from: railsquid on October 05, 2015, 03:22:32 PM
Currently an unwilling participant in a medical experiment titled "Small Babies as Disease Vectors". Worse, offending small baby not only manages to display all symptoms of said diseases, but remain disgustingly active. On the plus side he only took a couple of days to associate the "uncomfortable snot-removal tubes" with "subsequent nasal relief" and the process no longer requires two people with five arms between them.

A mental picture comes to mind of trying to hold an adult male cat to get a tablet down its throat!  (I learnt about wrapping it in a towel, AFTERWARDS!)

Scratches?  You have NO idea!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on October 05, 2015, 04:20:24 PM
Quote from: petercharlesfagg on October 05, 2015, 04:12:53 PM
Quote from: railsquid on October 05, 2015, 03:22:32 PM
Currently an unwilling participant in a medical experiment titled "Small Babies as Disease Vectors". Worse, offending small baby not only manages to display all symptoms of said diseases, but remain disgustingly active. On the plus side he only took a couple of days to associate the "uncomfortable snot-removal tubes" with "subsequent nasal relief" and the process no longer requires two people with five arms between them.

A mental picture comes to mind of trying to hold an adult male cat to get a tablet down its throat!  (I learnt about wrapping it in a towel, AFTERWARDS!)

Scratches?  You have NO idea!

Wrap aforesaid tablet in a piece of tasty chicken. Guaranteed to work at least some of the time. Also, post-operative adult female cat with epic constipation and one of those neck lampshades SHE DOES NOT LIKE... why yes, I have the t-shirt  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MalcolmInN on October 05, 2015, 04:34:58 PM
Quote from: railsquid on October 05, 2015, 04:11:15 PM
"Riding" a bus? Do you put a saddle on it or what?  ???
I wouldnt know what to do with the things these days, it has been so long since.

Much like "taking" a train, wouldnt know how to go about doing it, let alone getting a reasonable ticket to anywhere,
now if they were re-nationalised it would , , ,
ohh errr watavI said now , ,  :D :D :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 07, 2015, 08:31:56 PM
Spent most of today waiting for/having an angiogram. Having shaved the 'top of my right leg' (and adjoining region as instructed they did the job radially i.e. went in from my wrist so there'll be some embarrassing scratching going on for a couple of weeks for no reason :-[. Can't do much for the next 2 days (no driving, no lifting more than a cuppa etc) just in case the artery pops but should be OK after that. The immediate prognosis is that I need a double heart by pass before Christmas :doh: :worried: :help:
Still, there are plenty worse off than me.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: ColinH on October 07, 2015, 08:36:19 PM
Sorry to hear that Nobby. Hope you get treatment quickly and promptly with no messing about with cancelled op appointments etc. Guess it may curtail modelling for a while but should give you even more time for posting on here.

Sure there will be lots of good wishes message winging your way.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Geoff on October 07, 2015, 08:40:46 PM
I wish you good health Mick and I hope they get you sorted soon.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 07, 2015, 08:45:17 PM
Car park cost me £10 so they've had the deposit already :veryangry: :censored:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Mr Sprue on October 07, 2015, 08:52:17 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on October 07, 2015, 08:31:56 PM

The immediate prognosis is that I need a double heart by pass before Christmas :doh: :worried: :help:
Still, there are plenty worse off than me.

Chin up Mick, from what I hear from people that have undergone the opp, all say it was worth it.  ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 07, 2015, 09:11:18 PM
Quote from: Mr Sprue on October 07, 2015, 08:52:17 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on October 07, 2015, 08:31:56 PM

The immediate prognosis is that I need a double heart by pass before Christmas :doh: :worried: :help:
Still, there are plenty worse off than me.

Chin up Mick, from what I hear from people that have undergone the opp, all say it was worth it.  ;)

I hope things go well, (and speedily), for you Mick. I know someone who went through the same thing and, like Mr Sprue said, they said it was the best thing they had ever had done.  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on October 07, 2015, 09:26:11 PM
Wow, Mick. You've just had the hip fixed and now this. Good luck with it, mate.

This getting old business sucks, doesn't it?

George
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on October 07, 2015, 09:50:38 PM
Good luck when you have the operation Mick , you'll soon have to change your name on here to BIONIC MAN at this rate , I really wish you a speedy recovery at least as some one else said you will now have more time to keep us laughing with your jokes on here.
Bob
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MikeDunn on October 07, 2015, 09:51:48 PM
 :o  Not good, but fingers crossed they sort you soon !
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MalcolmInN on October 07, 2015, 11:29:46 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on October 07, 2015, 08:31:56 PMso there'll be some embarrassing scratching going on for a couple of weeks for no reason
and that is just the wrist he is talking about  >:D

Quoteimmediate prognosis is that I need a double heart by pass before Christmas :doh: :worried: :help:
Oh crumbs (< other words are available), well at least they are now on to your job.

I'm just back in /on to interwebby, and catching up with news after an evening watching for and briefly catching an aurora,  so I expect y'all will be tucked up in bed now , ,
but for the morning , ,
best wishes&etc as everyone else has said.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: REGP on October 08, 2015, 12:36:07 AM
Quote from: newportnobby on October 07, 2015, 08:31:56 PM
The immediate prognosis is that I need a double heart by pass before Christmas
Not good news but they will fix you up as good as new, a neighbour of mine had that op just before last Christmass and it hasn't stopped him working on his MG Midget or entering in Classic rallies. This week his daughters had him repairing her old car, so for you N gauge wont be a problem.

Keep us posted

Ray
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Caz on October 08, 2015, 09:09:52 AM
Quote from: newportnobby on October 07, 2015, 08:31:56 PM
. . .  The immediate prognosis is that I need a double heart by pass before Christmas :doh: :worried: :help:
Still, there are plenty worse off than me.

Geez Mick, retirement is supposed to be all honey and roses, you've certainly had a big share of problems since you retired, although it must be a worry, let's hope this op gets you back up running to full strength.   :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on October 08, 2015, 09:23:19 AM
All the best , Mick hope you are soon firing on all cylinders!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on October 08, 2015, 09:38:40 AM
Strewth Mick, if it weren't for bad luck, you'd have no luck at all. Take care of yourself. Time to give up the fags.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on October 08, 2015, 09:44:59 AM
Keep the amber goin' though  :beers: :uneasy:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Ozymandias on October 08, 2015, 12:33:02 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on October 07, 2015, 08:31:56 PM
Spent most of today waiting for/having an angiogram. Having shaved the 'top of my right leg' (and adjoining region as instructed they did the job radially i.e. went in from my wrist so there'll be some embarrassing scratching going on for a couple of weeks for no reason :-[. Can't do much for the next 2 days (no driving, no lifting more than a cuppa etc) just in case the artery pops but should be OK after that. The immediate prognosis is that I need a double heart by pass before Christmas :doh: :worried: :help:
Still, there are plenty worse off than me.

Sorry to hear this, Nobby - take it easy, I hope they get you fixed up good as new as soon as they can.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Zogbert Splod on October 08, 2015, 01:34:40 PM
Blurry 'ell mate, wishing you all the best for a speedy recovery.. (including around the shaved parts!)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on October 08, 2015, 02:01:34 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on October 07, 2015, 08:31:56 PM
Can't do much for the next 2 days (no driving, no lifting more than a cuppa etc) just in case the artery pops but should be OK after that. The immediate prognosis is that I need a double heart by pass before Christmas :doh: :worried: :help:
Still, there are plenty worse off than me.
Take things easy nobby and do as  your told. I believe they work wonders with hearts these days
And of course we shall all be  wishing you well.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Lawrence on October 08, 2015, 08:22:55 PM
I have just spoken to Mick and been my usual sympathetic self  :D So if you are reading this mate, I forgot to bagsy your class 101 if it all goes Pete Tong  ;)  ;D ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: scotsoft on October 08, 2015, 08:34:52 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on October 07, 2015, 08:31:56 PM
Immediate prognosis is that I need a double heart by pass before Christmas :doh: :worried: :help:

Mick, how come you have a double heart, are you some sort of Time Lord?

Cheers John.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on October 08, 2015, 08:40:09 PM
Just picked on your latest news Mick.

Isn't it a comfort to know you have the support of pals like Lawrence and John?  :no:

I'll join in and wish you a speedy and great outcome.

All the best and please keep us updated. :thumbsup:

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on October 08, 2015, 08:48:14 PM
I too have just picked up on your news Mick.
I do hope things work out well for you but please do take it easy for the time being.

Martin
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Roy L S on October 08, 2015, 09:07:14 PM
Best wishes from me as well Mick, hope you get fixed up quickly and things go smoothly.

Regards

Roy
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 08, 2015, 09:48:25 PM
Quote from: Lawrence on October 08, 2015, 08:22:55 PM
I have just spoken to Mick and been my usual sympathetic self  :D So if you are reading this mate, I forgot to bagsy your class 101 if it all goes Pete Tong  ;)  ;D ;D

@Lawrence (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=16)
Just 'cos I nicked your Vomitburger in Burger King last weekend :P
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Lawrence on October 08, 2015, 10:09:39 PM
Quote from: scotsoft on October 08, 2015, 08:34:52 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on October 07, 2015, 08:31:56 PM
Immediate prognosis is that I need a double heart by pass before Christmas :doh: :worried: :help:

Mick, how come you have a double heart, are you some sort of Time Lord?

Cheers John.

Ah! That would explain a lot John, like how he ordered a cheeseburger and ended up with a double bacon cheeseburger!  One for each heart you see  ;)  Had I known this obviously I would have happily handed it over, no questions asked  :confused1:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 08, 2015, 10:16:24 PM
Some folks can be very touchy when you nick their meal :-X
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on October 08, 2015, 10:17:08 PM
I actually quite like the burgers at Burger King  :uneasy:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: GeeBee on October 08, 2015, 10:36:12 PM
Just read all this Mick sorry to hear that, all best wishes for a speedy result
Regards
Graham
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: lil chris on October 08, 2015, 11:08:45 PM
Sorry to hear your bad news Mick, perhaps those Burgers were a bad idea anyway you need to eat a bit healthier something I try to do but not very successfully. Get well soon!, I look forward to seeing you at Bamber Bridge.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: mk1gtstu on October 08, 2015, 11:18:42 PM
Best wishes from me Mick, hope all goes well for you, take it easy! :thumbsup:

cheers, Stu.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on October 10, 2015, 05:38:23 PM
Best wishes Mick  :thumbsup:

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MalcolmInN on October 19, 2015, 01:27:49 PM
Unhappy is :-
When you wake up in the morning
({Frankie} no, wait, titter ye not {/Howerd} )
quiet in the back row :)

,, and find there is only air hissing out of your tap .
You then have to send out for a bottle of water with which to take your pills :(

Happy is :-
when the culprits are found digging a Cribbins down the lane and offer a free bottle of water !
Saved from the clutches of Tesco, phew   :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: David Asquith on October 19, 2015, 04:46:30 PM
An operation for Christmas Mick?  That's different.  All I want is a new train!  Best wishes and I'm sure it will all go well and you are soon enjoying the benefits.

kind regards

Dave
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 19, 2015, 08:57:40 PM
Quote from: Espantrainfan on October 19, 2015, 04:46:30 PM
An operation for Christmas Mick?  That's different. 

:laughabovepost: :laugh:

Timing unknown, Dave, as I've still to hear when I can see a consultant.
I'm determined to get my Poppylino so must last until at least next March or so :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: David Asquith on October 20, 2015, 07:13:58 PM
I'm sure you will be around for many more Marches than the next one.  I hope so any way.  What would the forum be without you?  Sane and boring?

kind regards

Dave
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: paulprice on October 27, 2015, 09:29:48 AM
Quote from: newportnobby on October 19, 2015, 08:57:40 PM
Quote from: Espantrainfan on October 19, 2015, 04:46:30 PM
An operation for Christmas Mick?  That's different. 

:laughabovepost: :laugh:

Timing unknown, Dave, as I've still to hear when I can see a consultant.
I'm determined to get my Poppylino so must last until at least next March or so :D

You should have said something at the Warrington exhibition, I know when they told me I had heart failure the family said the diagnosis was wrong, and they wanted visual proof that I don't have a swinging brick where my heart should be...how rude
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 28, 2015, 12:34:59 PM
Nobby's run of bad luck continues.................

Having decided to have a running session on 'Kimbolted' this morning I placed one of my Farish Warships on the track only to find that, while it's been sleeping in its box, it has split a gear. Worse was to come as, whilst retrieving said Warship, my sleeve caught my weathered class 37 and it plummeted 4ft to the tiled floor of my mancave with a terrible crash, resulting in quite a few pieces scattered round the floor :doh: Having placed the chassis back on the track, the crash has resulted in at least one split gear also :'( :'(
Most embarrassing as this is the first loco I've 'dropped' in 30 years of N gaugeing :-[
Anything further would have to be :censored:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on October 28, 2015, 01:02:57 PM
Been there done that got the tea shirt ,I learnt my lesson I now wear a short sleeved shirt when I'm down the shed even if it's cold ,in the winter I might put the portable gas fire on if I am staying down for a running session ,and can afford the gas.
Bob
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on October 28, 2015, 01:04:30 PM
Jolly bad luck, old chap!  :doh:

Not done that yet but there's time.

Are you able to repair yourself or like me, have to send off to those (much) more capable?

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MalcolmInN on October 28, 2015, 01:05:04 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on October 28, 2015, 12:34:59 PM
Nobby's run of bad luck continues.................
Oh gosh!  :(
Now we need two extra buttons : "Dont Like" & "In Sympathy"
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: bmwm4rkym4rk on October 28, 2015, 01:46:46 PM
I think I missed the start what fell off the layout
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: fatso on October 28, 2015, 03:29:59 PM
Bad luck my son drilled into my finger yesterday causing me to go to hospital for few stitches and month of antibiotic's  this hobby getting more and more dangerous .mike
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on October 28, 2015, 06:12:05 PM
My problem is not with my cuffs but with my beer/wine belly knocking stuff over at the front of the layout when I lean over to fiddle with something near the back.

Best regards,


Joe
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 28, 2015, 08:32:51 PM
Quote from: daveg on October 28, 2015, 01:04:30 PM
Jolly bad luck, old chap!  :doh:

Not done that yet but there's time.

Are you able to repair yourself or like me, have to send off to those (much) more capable?

Dave G

Luckily I know a 'man who can' on the forum, Dave, so I'm hoping he can put Humpty the class 37 back together again (we need a fingers crossed smiley)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on October 29, 2015, 08:09:48 AM
Not happy.

How does a courier deliver two separate parcels from separate shippers to two people at the same address to the wrong address with both parcels returned to the post office marked not at this address. :'(

The labels are nicely laser printed ones not even hand scrawled using the poetic "fingernail dipped in tar". :'(

CFJ
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on October 29, 2015, 08:18:20 AM
Well it is Queensland  ;) :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on October 29, 2015, 04:38:14 PM
 :'( :'( Bang goes my next 2 months loco and baseboard stash of cash.
Realised that our Horse Chestnut tree in the front garden has got a bit out of control again and needs re-pollarding before the winter really sweeps across the country and things fall across the roads etc.
Needs this short back and sides pruning every 3-4 years and I hadnt  the time is due again  :'(
OK so it might only be a few hundred quid  :-\  but when one factors Christmas in as well it starts to look bad
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on October 29, 2015, 05:51:12 PM
Shame Jon as they are such lovely trees.

Fortunately ours is in the corner next to the field so we don't have that challenge. Mind you, the walnut is now huge and a haircut is on the cards. The squirrels got all the crop as well!

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 29, 2015, 08:49:30 PM
Blimey, Jon :o
I never realised that would be so expensive. Might it be worth putting a tenner per month away in a separate account to cover the cost when it comes round?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on October 30, 2015, 06:53:55 AM
That's the sort of thing we do, Mick.

Our long, very tall hedge needs cutting once a year and that's £180.00. A small trim off the big bay tree was an extra £20. It all adds up!  :(

Mind you, it takes 2 guys with all the long reach kit half the morning and they do take the cuttings away.

We'll be doing the walnut pruning ourselves.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on October 30, 2015, 07:22:50 AM
Yep, pay a motza here for garden maintenance....

Me surname might be Green but green fingers I ain't got! Hate gardening. Especially here... lots of nasty evil critters lurk out there.

Worth every cent for a gardener.  :uneasy:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on October 30, 2015, 07:38:53 AM
Oh the joys of a small garden... the only tree we have can be maintained from the upstairs balcony with a long-handled tree-cutting device.

On the other hand we are having a gate put in after someone nicked the Mrs' bike from the drive the other week,,, mystified as to why it needs to be so expensive (for that and something else which needs doing I  won't get much change out of 10 brand new British locos, I presume it's gold-plated titanium hand-forged by some dude who makes samurai swords for a living).
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on October 30, 2015, 09:40:58 AM
Quote from: Bealman on October 30, 2015, 07:22:50 AM
lots of nasty evil critters lurk out there.
And that is just the neighbours.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on October 30, 2015, 09:44:51 AM
 :laughabovepost: ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 30, 2015, 08:00:43 PM
Quote from: railsquid on October 30, 2015, 07:38:53 AM

On the other hand we are having a gate put in after someone nicked the Mrs' bike from the drive the other week

Don't tell me. You daredn't say anything in case they took a fence :laugh:
@railsquid (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=3832)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 30, 2015, 08:52:10 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on October 28, 2015, 12:34:59 PM
Nobby's run of bad luck continues.................



Will it never end?
Took my Mum to Chorley hospital today, didn't spot the required sign and got a parking ticket for being in a designated disabled bay. My own stoopid fault, I know, but am I getting someone else's share of  :poop:?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Caz on October 31, 2015, 11:10:28 AM
Oh dear Mick, you must have really upset someone to have all this bad luck.  Look on the bright side though, it can't get much worse and should start getting better real soon.   :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MalcolmInN on October 31, 2015, 11:43:26 AM
Quote from: newportnobby on October 30, 2015, 08:52:10 PM
Will it never end?
Took my Mum to Chorley hospital today, didn't spot the required sign and got a parking ticket for being in a designated disabled bay. My own stoopid fault, I know, but am I getting someone else's share of  :poop:?
Oh dear !!!!!!!

Coincidentally I was watching a Debate in the Commons ( yea, quiet in the back row, I know I am a sad b,,,,!) which was all about hospital car park charges and whether or not there should be an exemption for carers

The upshot as far as npn and us are concerned is that the minister inter alia said that he had no intention of writing that into the bill but would include "Carers" in the list of directives to trusts etc. alongside the existing suggested concessions including regular family members who may not be receiving carers allowance, many of which are implemented already across the country although not often known, it is therefore  "a good idea to ask locally what concessions are in place." ( my quote of what I think he was saying ;) )
Hansard is online, with a lag of approx 3hrs, if anyone wants to check ( I know I know ! :) )
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 31, 2015, 12:13:53 PM
Quote from: Caz on October 31, 2015, 11:10:28 AM
Oh dear Mick, you must have really upset someone to have all this bad luck.  Look on the bright side though, it can't get much worse and should start getting better real soon.   :)

The only bright side I can see at present is that somebody somewhere must be having some good luck while I get their share of the bad stuff, Caz :hmmm:

Quote from: MalcolmAL on October 31, 2015, 11:43:26 AM

Coincidentally I was watching a Debate in the Commons ( yea, quiet in the back row, I know I am a sad b,,,,!) which was all about hospital car park charges and whether or not there should be an exemption for carers


I did see that on the news, Malcolm. My Mum is probably more spritely than I am so I'm no carer but as both my sisters work I am the 'go to' person when Mum has to see consultants/have check ups etc.
As the hospital car park in question is run by Vinci I don't know whether the hospital gets anything from them. I know my Mum marched in and tried to appeal on the basis I was acting as her transport but the response she got was "It doesn't matter if he parked there with a dead body in his car - it won't make any difference"
The only saving grace is that, although the penalty was £40, if paid within 28 days it's reduced to £20 so it wasn't an earth shattering amount. I'm just tee'd off with myself more than anything else :unimpressed:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: GScaleBruce on October 31, 2015, 12:18:21 PM
It's a very small consolation, but... http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-34680289 (http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-34680289)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MalcolmInN on October 31, 2015, 12:34:32 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on October 31, 2015, 12:13:53 PMI don't know whether the hospital gets anything from them
,
"It doesn't matter if he parked there with a dead body in his car - it won't make any difference"
,
I'm just tee'd off with myself more than anything else :unimpressed:
I got the impression from the debate that the sub-cons only income is what they get in "fines", the hospital gets the regular parking 'lucre
,
Ha ha, dead body! hoot ! well that has to be worth £20 alone :)
,
Yep, could have been worse.

That was another item in the debate : that it is in the interests of (some) companies to make the signage less than obvious. That was when an onnerable member opposite had proposed various levels of charges and exemptions with bays for each and,
err and,
and

everyone nodded off, ;D
Actually, I jest, it was talked out of time by the Minister himself




Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Agrippa on October 31, 2015, 02:00:56 PM
Just as well Richard III wasn't buried there, he'd have
been fined ££££ squillions...............
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on November 02, 2015, 03:39:07 AM
I saw a sign which said "Smile and be happy for things could be worse" so I smiled and was happy and lo things got worse.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Geoff on November 03, 2015, 02:43:50 PM
Well I went onto Uswitch today to compare tariffs and I could save £270 and I thought I am quids in, but when answering all the questions it came to Smart meters and it told me if I change over I cannot use my smart meter because that belongs to another energy company and they will not let the cheaper energy company have anything to do with it.

This country is so backwards no one will help anyone else but hey I saved £400 with the smart meter and if I had it taken away I might not check on my usage as much as I do and go back to my old ways.

So what is the point I ask myself of having a switching site if it will not work for 100% of energy users.

Rant over  :veryangry:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MikeDunn on November 03, 2015, 03:29:04 PM
So what stops you switching, saving £270, the old company removing their smartmeter & the new company putting theirs in ?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Geoff on November 03, 2015, 03:51:44 PM
Quote from: MikeDunn on November 03, 2015, 03:29:04 PM
So what stops you switching, saving £270, the old company removing their smartmeter & the new company putting theirs in ?

The point is they should be universal I do not want workmen in my property every time I change supplier.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MikeDunn on November 03, 2015, 04:43:39 PM
Well, until there is a legislative solution you're going to have to put up with Company A wanting to recover their property - or not change from them.  It's not as if you'll be doing this weekly or monthly ...
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: acko22 on November 03, 2015, 05:20:13 PM
Ok then my other half (I would call her better half but not after this news!),

Has been very kind and thoughtful and invited the mother in law down for Christmas, my only thought was  :censored:

Now that's bad enough Christmas till new year but it gets worse!!! I was hoping to have some quiet time at home when I go on leave for 3 weeks (one of them is already spoilt with the in law coming). But nope not only is she down for Christmas but for the entire 3 weeks I am off!!  :'(

So much for my quiet chilled out Christmas, looks like I will have to live with MRS SATAN for 3 weeks! This is going to make 9 months in Afghan look rather pleasant!!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on November 03, 2015, 07:29:03 PM
acko - if your mother-in-law was a member of this forum, she could put a post in the 'Happy Thread' - "yippee, I am going to spend 3 weeks with my favourite son-in-law at Christmas"  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MikeDunn on November 03, 2015, 07:33:50 PM
Could be worse ...
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... she might head to Afghanistan with you  :P
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: acko22 on November 03, 2015, 07:38:21 PM
Quote from: MikeDunn on November 03, 2015, 07:33:50 PM
Could be worse ...
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... she might head to Afghanistan with you  :P

Mike if thats was the case accidents can happen!! >:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on November 03, 2015, 08:05:53 PM
Look on the bright side - there may be more meat on your Mum-in-Law than on a turkey >:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on November 04, 2015, 02:54:17 PM
Quote from: jonclox on October 29, 2015, 04:38:14 PM
:'( :'( Bang goes my next 2 months loco and baseboard stash of cash.
Realised that our Horse Chestnut tree in the front garden has got a bit out of control again and needs re-pollarding before the winter really sweeps across the country and things fall across the roads etc.
Needs this short back and sides pruning every 3-4 years and I hadnt  the time is due again  :'(
OK so it might only be a few hundred quid  :-\  but when one factors Christmas in as well it starts to look bad
Guess the quote to do it all arrived this morning and the quote is only £144 which considering it means pedestrian crash barriers and a C class road control being in place isn't bad when its all considered but its the lump payout this side of Christmas that annoys me
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on November 04, 2015, 03:15:05 PM
The timing could have been better but the quote seems reasonable, Jon.
What chance you can sell the wood to someone who has a wood burner :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on November 04, 2015, 03:49:47 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on November 04, 2015, 03:15:05 PM
The timing could have been better but the quote seems reasonable, Jon.
What chance you can sell the wood to someone who has a wood burner :hmmm:
I suspect all the wood residue is only big enough for chipping so they recon on removing all waste so I`leave them to it
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: silly moo on November 06, 2015, 10:01:33 AM
Anyone else suffer from arthritis? I'm having trouble getting used to the pain in my ankles  :'( my doctor thinks I have either RA or psoriatic arthritis. I've been hobbling round the house trying to come to terms with the fact that I will probably be limited to walking short distances in future. I used to really enjoy long walks.

I'm very thankful that my hands aren't affected and I realize that there are other in far worse a position but getting old sucks!

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on November 06, 2015, 11:04:48 AM
When I had a replacement hip last year they told me my other one had 'moderate wear' but would require doing sometime in the next 5 years. This was due to arthritis.
My youngest sister has problems with both knees and is having cortizone injections, and my Mum used to have to bathe her hands in hot wax many years ago - so yes, it runs in our family sadly :(
Sorry to hear you have to endure the pain, Veronica.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Dorsetmike on November 06, 2015, 11:22:38 AM
I've been using this

https://www.naturesaid.co.uk/products/glucosamine-500mg-msm-500mg-chondroitin-100mg-with-vitamin-c/ (https://www.naturesaid.co.uk/products/glucosamine-500mg-msm-500mg-chondroitin-100mg-with-vitamin-c/)

for about 10 years now, it stopped elbow joint pain, no further problems with joints. (but a bad chest from 40 years smoking even though I gave that up about 12 years ago!)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on November 06, 2015, 11:30:04 AM
Join the club, mate. My major concern is that I pretend to play the guitar, and it's threatening yet another one of my vices hobbies  ;D

I tend to think that it's something to do with not being quite as spritely as we were, but it sure as heck is a pain. Some days literally.  :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on November 06, 2015, 01:50:23 PM
A long time ago I worked back stage in a major London theatre and many of the dancers would regularly take glucosamine to help with their joints. Often backed up with cod liver oil tabs or similar.

Hope you are able to control the discomfort, Veronica.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: silly moo on November 06, 2015, 02:18:23 PM
 :thankyousign:

For the glucosamine suggestion. I will certainly give it a try.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on November 06, 2015, 02:32:09 PM
Get the 1000mg ones, or try Green Lipped Mussel Extract. I take glucosamine daily, but if I start really having issues with my knees, go onto the mussel extract. http://www.arthritisresearchuk.org/arthritis-information/complementary-and-alternative-medicines/cam-report/complementary-medicines-for-rheumatoid-arthritis/green-lipped-mussel.aspx (http://www.arthritisresearchuk.org/arthritis-information/complementary-and-alternative-medicines/cam-report/complementary-medicines-for-rheumatoid-arthritis/green-lipped-mussel.aspx)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on November 06, 2015, 03:53:15 PM
Sorry to hear of your troubles.
I can't help with any solutions but I hope some of those mentioned by others will be of some assistance.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: EtchedPixels on November 06, 2015, 05:36:13 PM
Quote from: silly moo on November 06, 2015, 10:01:33 AM
Anyone else suffer from arthritis? I'm having trouble getting used to the pain in my ankles  :'( my doctor thinks I have either RA or psoriatic arthritis. I've been hobbling round the house trying to come to terms with the fact that I will probably be limited to walking short distances in future. I used to really enjoy long walks.

I'm very thankful that my hands aren't affected and I realize that there are other in far worse a position but getting old sucks!

My mother starting struggling with arthritis a long time ago now. In her case changing to a diet with nothing acid in it, while a lot of hassle, caused remarkable improvement - sufficiently so she has kept that diet up. I'm also quite sure it's not just a placebo effect - there have been times she inadvertently ate something problematic and was bad, but only worked out why afterwards.

I've got arthritis in my jaw, but the main annoyance that causes so far is jokes about overuse 8). In time it will no doubt get worse but the doctors are very very keen to avoid touching it until absolutely unavoidable.

Alan
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on November 06, 2015, 06:57:21 PM
I believe that glucosamine is extracted from crab shells so maybe eating crabs could also help ?

Best regards,


Joe know-all
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on November 06, 2015, 09:18:46 PM
Any kind of oily fish will help ease the pain a bit. Trouble is I don't eat fish so take 1000mg fish oil capsules each day.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trent on November 12, 2015, 12:20:33 AM
Salmon and turmeric definitely help my arthritis ... turmeric can be stirred into almost anything and if done in small doses you won't notice the taste
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MikeDunn on November 12, 2015, 09:13:19 AM
SWMBO says rosehip is good for arthritis ...
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on November 29, 2015, 10:26:53 PM
I am back to hating my house.

Months ago I wrote on here about a damp patch under the window in my railway room. I investigated and repaired what, I believed to be the route cause.

This week I noticed the paint staining was back. I read somethings on the internet suggesting such stains could return without using correct paints before applying emulsion (I didn't). Hoping it was just that, I decided to remove the replacement plasterboard anyway (got loads spare) just to check.

Nope.

Driving wind and heavy rain all day today and running my finger along the lead under the window it's wet. Obviously failed.

I have an idea to protect the gap unde the windowsill outside using plastic l-section (maybe should be there anyway?), but it's clear to me the window frame is nackered anyway and should be replaced.

We have a wedding to pay for. I have no money.

Sodding houses!

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: ozzie Bill. on November 30, 2015, 01:51:54 AM
skyline
as long as, and assuming here, the window sill is not in a high vis area, then here are a couple of "short term" solutions.
1) cover the sill in aluminium flashing which you can get from any builders suppliers. This will slow down or stop further moisture getting in from above. You can also use the flashing above the lintel for the same effect.
2) get some no more gaps type of wet area sealant and trace all around the frame, under the sill etc to prevent water seeping in through those gaps. A quick look at homebase UK would suggest this as the right product http://www.homebase.co.uk/en/homebaseuk/unibond-weather-protect-frame-sealant-cartridge---brown-394253 (http://www.homebase.co.uk/en/homebaseuk/unibond-weather-protect-frame-sealant-cartridge---brown-394253)
Hope I am on the right track here and not 'teaching you to suck eggs'.
Cheers, Bill.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: mr bachmann on November 30, 2015, 11:22:42 AM
before applying emulsion over stained area . treat with a good 'full' undercoat . that's real undercoat the type you thin with turpentine ( not water ) . and give it a couple of coat's - not thinned down .
the same applies for nicotine staining - either strip the wall covering or undercoat the full room ( aren't you glad you quite  :D )
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 09, 2015, 01:14:03 AM
I went for a hospital appointment yesterday, (100 mile round trip). I was the last in  :veryangry: and the specialist says that she had kept me so long as she wanted to speak to me personlly rather than one of the other Doc's speak to me. "Oh oh"  :worried: thinks me. As I have had a consistently high PSA reading for going on for two years and yet two biopsies and other tests are showing nothing, apart from a very enlarged prostate, she wants me to have a different sort of biopsy. "Oh oh"  :worried: thinks me. But, they can not do it at my 'local' hospital, so I will have to go to another one, (200 mile round trip  :thumbsdown: :censored:). This sort of procedure needs a general anisth, anesf,, anysth, they need to knock me out. "Oh oh"  :worried: thinks me. It looks like I am going to need to spend at least one night there and time off work  :unimpressed:. Out of interest, if anyone has had a 'Template Biopsy', could they tell me anything about it from a personal viewpoint - or PM me please? As an aside, can I recommend to you gentlemen out there, especially those in the 40+ age group, to have a word with your GP about a PSA test? All it requires is a simple blood test and, not being too dramatic, it could save your life.  :thankyousign:. David.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Tdm on December 09, 2015, 05:39:22 AM
In response to the post by DannyBoy, I too have Prostrate Cancer, but only in mild form as my PSA readings are now normally only just over the 4.0 reading (anything above 4.0 means you have Prostrate Cancer).

About 4 or more years ago I started passing blood in my urine so went to see my Doctor here in Tenerife who ordered a blood test which came back with a PSA reading of around 8.5.

He then ordered a standard biopsy which came back inconclusive, so I was later sent into Hospital for a "deeper" biopsy where they first knock you out to do it.

When the results came through the Hospital Urologist wanted to perform an Operation to remove the prostrate, but I had read up on the possible side affects of this and so decided first on a 2nd opinion from an English Urologist when I next was over.

In the meantime I was given some anti-biotics which cleared up the blood in the urine problem and my PSA readings gradually went down to around the 4/5 mark. It appeared an infection had caused the initial problem.

The specialist Urologist I saw in the U.K., after having me send him PSA readings of blood tests taken every 6 months, had a different opinion to the Tenerife Urologist (who had advised an Operation), and said that "yes" I had prostrate cancer - but only in mild form, and he recommended purely "monitoring" the situation by having regular blood tests and a biopsy (performed by him personally) once every 2 years.

He said that most likely one in every two males in the World will develop prostrate cancer, but most males do not know it unless they request a PSA test, and that, unless the cancer starts to spread, half of all males will eventually die "with" prostrate cancer, but not "because" of it. 

My last biposy (done in the U.K.) was earlier this year and shows no sign of any further action being required, and my most recent PSA reading was 4.75 (a reduction from circa 5.7 which it was 6 months previously). A PSA reading is not 100% accurate however, and I did have a Scan done as well about 2 years ago just to make doubly sure.

I never think about my prostrate cancer (nor take anything for it), apart from remembering to have regular blood tests, the latest results show more that I need to watch my cholesteral levels which are currently too high (too much good food, wine, and beer).

Hope I have not bored you with this long post, but I would recommend a PSA test (simple blood test) to anyone who hasn't had one, and always get a 2nd opinion if someone tells you that you require an Operation. Also I have no medical training and if we have any Doctors on this Forum - they might have a different opinion.

PS. Another thing my U.K. Urologist said that (if I understood him correctly), in his opinion, an operation to remove the prostrate should only be considered/recommended once the PSA reading goes above 10.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 09, 2015, 05:53:28 AM
Tdm - sorry about your diagnosis, although the outlook for you is looking good - as I said to SWMBO last year, if I am going to get cancer, that is the one I want!  :). Not sure how things will turn out though, cancer has taken half my relatives on my paternal side, including my 'baby' sister earlier this year. My PSA count is consistently around the 20 mark, (yes, I said twenty),  :goggleeyes: and yet two 'normal' biopsies show nothing, hence the need for the 'bigger' one  :help:. A high PSA count does not necessarily mean cancer, but somefink aint right! If forum members would like to do a collective 'fingers crossed', it would be appreciated. ;D. David.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on December 09, 2015, 06:05:43 AM
We haven't got a fingers crossed icon, but if we did, I'd post it  :thumbsup:

Good luck.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on December 09, 2015, 06:44:07 AM
Quote from: Bealman on December 09, 2015, 06:05:43 AM
We haven't got a fingers crossed icon, but if we did, I'd post it  :thumbsup:

Good luck.

Ditto 

All the best. :thumbsup:

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on December 09, 2015, 10:20:23 AM
Scary news for menfolk but I hope you get good news from your consultant, David :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MikeDunn on December 16, 2015, 08:29:50 PM
There I am, reading a nice email from work telling me I'm gonna get an end-of-year bonus.

"Hmmm," thinks you, "the muppet's put this in the wrong thread ...! ::)"

"I need a new microwave" comes the cry from downstairs ... ":censored:", thinks me, "that's a chunk gone already :'("

Fast-forward a few days to this morning ... the microwave's arrived & is in place.  Suddenly, we have a power cut ... after an hour with nothing back (unusual ...) I check the house fuses ... all fine.  Call the 'leccy board & nothing's wrong in the area ... they get me to unplug a few things & retry the fuses - power !

Start plugging back & it all blows again ...":censored:" thinks me ..., ":censored: dishwasher's crapped out !!!"

So much for my bonus buying me some toys  :headbutt: :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on December 16, 2015, 08:36:00 PM
Quote from: MikeDunn on December 16, 2015, 08:29:50 PM
There I am, reading a nice email from work telling me I'm gonna get an end-of-year bonus.

"Hmmm," thinks you, "the muppet's put this in the wrong thread ...! ::)"

"I need a new microwave" comes the cry from downstairs ... ":censored:", thinks me, "that's a chunk gone already :'("

Fast-forward a few days to this morning ... the microwave's arrived & is in place.  Suddenly, we have a power cut ... after an hour with nothing back (unusual ...) I check the house fuses ... all fine.  Call the 'leccy board & nothing's wrong in the area ... they get me to unplug a few things & retry the fuses - power !

Start plugging back & it all blows again ...":censored:" thinks me ..., ":censored: dishwasher's crapped out !!!"

So much for my bonus buying me some toys  :headbutt: :'(
Sad news but - at least you didn't have one of these nasty fires due to a faulty appliance ehhh!
You'll get it sorted in time for Xmas no doubt and I hope you have a good one...  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on December 16, 2015, 08:41:56 PM
Could have been worse, Mike, especially if you'd bought a Hoverboard :worried:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MikeDunn on December 16, 2015, 08:42:25 PM
Quote from: austinbob on December 16, 2015, 08:36:00 PM
Sad news but - at least you didn't have one of these nasty fires due to a faulty appliance ehhh!
Well ... the second time, when I was by the damn thing, I did smell something going ... & it weren't me  ::)  Hence the decision not to :censored: around with it any more but to get a new one.

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You'll get it sorted in time for Xmas no doubt and I hope you have a good one...  :beers:
Supposed to be good ... John Lewis have promised a morning/early afternoon delivery & removal of the old one for Friday. 

Quote from: newportnobby on December 16, 2015, 08:41:56 PM
Could have been worse, Mike, especially if you'd bought a Hoverboard :worried:
Yeah, I understand they leave muck all over the dishes  :P
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Tdm on December 16, 2015, 10:58:44 PM
Think yourself lucky that in a U.K. household you have 60amps to play with before things trip out.

In Tenerife it is only 40amps and everyone (except holidaymakers) know never to have the dishwasher running at the same time as the washing machine!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MalcolmInN on December 16, 2015, 11:58:27 PM
Quote from: Tdm on December 16, 2015, 10:58:44 PM
in a U.K. household you have 60amps to play with
I think that 60A is the norm. but you can apply for 100A.
At least that is what I was told 20 odd year ago when I rewired my place, it may have changed maybe even more now ?

I was unhappy because a storm had brought down a 90ft macrocarpa ( one of mine :( ) across the overhead wires, pulling the meter with consumer unit out through the roof, depositing them with chimney brackets etc. down in the back yard :(
I was even more unhappy after I had dug an 80yd trench by hand to put the new feed in, the Utility were happy to supply the new equipment, cables, duct etc. but not the digging !
All's well in the end, it cant get blown down again  ;D



Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 20, 2015, 06:12:19 PM
I think we should have a 'sad' thread. 'Misty', (the dog shown in my little picture), our cross collie dog that we have had for nearly 17 years, since she was a pup, had to be put to sleep this afternoon. She had been unwell for the last few days, so just after lunch, I rang the vet'. Fortunately, there was someone there and I was told to bring her down. So I took her down to the vet', he gave her the injection and she is now buried in the garden next to our cross labrador who died a couple of years ago. We have two other dogs, plus the cats, but it is still hard. My wife is almost inconsolable.  :'( but we will get over it. Amazing how pets become part of the family. Sorry, I just wanted to tell someone.   :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MikeDunn on December 20, 2015, 06:23:23 PM
I know where you & your wife are ... having lost one of our cats a little while back ...

It's always hard, but especially this time of year, to lose a pet that is pretty much a family member  :(  But better now than at the end of next week, and better she didn't suffer too  :(

Just try & remember the fun times with her (even though this will bring things back hard for a while) and make a fuss of the others a little bit more, as they'll start missing her shortly too.  She looks, in the photo, a lovely collie ...
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on December 20, 2015, 06:53:01 PM
I feel so sorry for you ,unless you've owned a dog you just wouldn't understand they are part of the family we talk to our one year old dog we call her our little girl and we love her as much as our real children . I even shed a tear because one of our guinea pigs died this morning and I have buried her next to the hutch that her sister lives in so that she will be close by. I still miss our dog Buster who died in September last year , Things will get easier but you never forget them .
Bob
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on December 20, 2015, 07:14:10 PM
Know how tough it is to lose a special family pet.

Sad for you all but you'll have great memories I'm sure.

Good advice from Mike.

All the best.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on December 26, 2015, 10:20:40 AM
Small beer compared to what is happening to some folks in this rain sodden country, but my mancave (conservatory) has sprung a couple of leaks so it's buckets and towels time. The rain started at about 10am yesterday and is forecast not to stop until around 5am tomorrow. :unimpressed:
I doubt I'll be able to get anyone round to fix them until the New Year so will be keeping a close eye on it.
Luckily, neither of the leaks are actually affecting the layout..........................................yet :worried:

Never mind the mild temperatures - bring on the cold, frosty but calm weather please.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on December 26, 2015, 11:52:53 AM
Christmas Eve the downstairs loo innards collapse. I can't shift the bolts so mate comes with angle grinder and grim determination. Two hours later all is well.

Boxing Day morning, no hot water. Either the timer is knackered or it's the immersion itself. My power testing gizmo doesn't work even with new battery.

Hi Ho.  :doh:

Dave G

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on December 26, 2015, 02:49:43 PM
Did your Mogwai somehow get wet, Dave? :uneasy:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on December 26, 2015, 09:10:55 PM
Bad time to have no hot water, Dave!  :thumbsdown:

Mick, if it makes you feel any better it's not a very nice day here either (Sunday ). 17° and overcast. However I must admit I'd rather have that than some of the 40+ nonsense it sometimes gets up to at this time of year.  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MalcolmInN on December 26, 2015, 10:42:08 PM
Quote from: daveg on December 26, 2015, 11:52:53 AMEither the timer is knackered or it's the immersion itself. My power testing gizmo doesn't work even with new battery.
I am bound to say "Poor Dave" hope you can get it sorted pdq.

How about a light bulb and a bit of flex ? ( Hint: test the light bulb first on a known good cct., been there Tshirt got caught out like that once ! )

On the other hand I also have to say "what's wrong with the kettle ?"
Here in the balmy SW of England we have not used the central heating for several years, saved us a fortune in heating oil !! If this really is global warming, bring it on  :laugh3:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on December 27, 2015, 12:10:39 AM
Picked up some sort of lurgy while in the UK or on the way back, need antibiotics to shake it off.

Also, how long will it be until the latest Star Wars hype dies down?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MalcolmInN on December 27, 2015, 12:35:40 AM
Quote from: railsquid on December 27, 2015, 12:10:39 AM
Picked up some sort of lurgy while in the UK or on the way back, need antibiotics to shake it off.

Also, how long will it be until the latest Star Wars hype dies down?
sorry for your troubles :(
,
about as long as it took for the previous to die down ? ie never/not yet ???
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: colpatben on December 27, 2015, 09:44:36 AM
Quote from: MalcolmAL on December 27, 2015, 12:35:40 AM
Quote from: railsquid on December 27, 2015, 12:10:39 AM

Also, how long will it be until the latest Star Wars hype dies down?

about as long as it took for the previous to die down ? ie never/not yet ???

Going to see it this afternoon, and I have had my 3D glasses  8) since Avatar was shown.
Suppose I should be on a Sad Persons thread :sorrysign:. Or the 'Happy' thread.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: paulprice on December 27, 2015, 10:15:25 AM
I went to see it last week, I was very disappointed, a very poor film
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on December 27, 2015, 10:19:44 AM
Quote from: colpatben on December 27, 2015, 09:44:36 AM
Quote from: MalcolmAL on December 27, 2015, 12:35:40 AM
Quote from: railsquid on December 27, 2015, 12:10:39 AM

Also, how long will it be until the latest Star Wars hype dies down?

about as long as it took for the previous to die down ? ie never/not yet ???

Going to see it this afternoon, and I have had my 3D glasses  8) since Avatar was shown.
Suppose I should be on a Sad Persons thread :sorrysign:. Or the 'Happy' thread.
Enjoy! I just seem to be missing the Star Wars Appreciation Gene since birth.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Tdm on December 27, 2015, 10:36:54 AM
Colin, it was nice to meet you and your good lady here in Tenerife the other week.

I haven't been to the Cinema since we left the U.K., as there is no need to, we have so many TV channels showing films at all times of the day here, that it is never long before a new release is shown on the "Box".

I think the last time I visited the Cinema was in Jersey, and it was to see the latest episode in the Lord of the Rings trilogy.

As a young boy in my home town of Chorley, Lancashire there used to be 3 picture houses - the Royal, the Plaza, and the Odeon, but now there are none. Every Saturday morning I would go to the Royal (known as the "Bug House" for reasons I won't go into) to watch the latest episode of "Flash Gordon" in his battle against "Ming the Merciless".

I also remember going to the Odeon to watch a new film everybody was raving about called "Rock Around the Clock" and when Bill Haley & the Comets plus Little Richard started belting out the songs that made them famous, everyone got up out of their seats and started dancing in the aisles. Oh happy memories.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Lawrence on December 27, 2015, 10:47:29 AM
Not so much unhappy now but I was on Christmas eve, I thought I would recount the tale if only to give you all a bloody good laugh at my expense.

Having done the dishes (yes ladies, really!) I pulled the plug (one of those ones where you have to turn it and it has a little filter bit on it) from the sink and the water just stayed where it was!  Stuck a skewer in the plug ole figuring it was blocked (Einstein  :confused1:), nothing.  Okay maybe an air lock in the drain.  Now it is a 1 1/2 sink, so 2 drains into the pipe plus the drain from the washing machine, I'll pull the drain from the washing machine see if that clears it.  So I now have the entire contents of the sink cupboard strewn round the kitchen and I pulled the pipe.  A micro second before the end of the pipe detached from the drain the thought occurred " I did put the plug back, didn't I?"
A micro second later it was clear I had not!  I dropped the pipe (instead of putting it back on), grabbed for the plug, nope it was now buried somewhere in the pile of other bits.

"DELLA - GET SOME OLD TOWELS - QUICK"

By the time my good lady returned with the towels the water had reached the hall.  Enter daughter, who had pitched up for our traditional Christmas eve munchies, to be greeted by the now rather sodden back end of her father sticking out of the kitchen cupboard, soaking towels and general kitchen detritus everywhere.  After a lot of swearing and 10 minutes with the plunger (on the sink!) all was sorted again, so we sat down to munchies.

Daughter somehow managed to drop the just sharpened cheese knife onto my hand and it stuck into my finger, fortunately the bone stopped it going right through, so I plodded off to the hall cupboard to get the first aid kit.  Switched the light on, it immediately blew and took out the circuit breaker for the downstairs lights.  I managed to reset it in the gloom, replace the bulb and affix a plaster to my finger.

Christmas day I drank lots of wine, didn't go near the sink or anything sharp  ::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Tdm on December 27, 2015, 11:13:54 AM
Perhaps you are getting rid of all your bad luck before the end of the Year Lawrence, and 2016 will be full of ony good things. Hope so.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MikeDunn on December 27, 2015, 12:52:30 PM
Quote from: railsquid on December 27, 2015, 12:10:39 AM
Also, how long will it be until the latest Star Wars hype dies down?
Bummer re the bug - likely the flight  :(

Re the hype - I'd say 2017 ... just in time for the next one  ::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: mr bachmann on December 27, 2015, 03:48:24 PM
Quote from: daveg on December 26, 2015, 11:52:53 AM
Christmas Eve the downstairs loo innards collapse. I can't shift the bolts so mate comes with angle grinder and grim determination. Two hours later all is well.

Boxing Day morning, no hot water. Either the timer is knackered or it's the immersion itself. My power testing gizmo doesn't work even with new battery.

Hi Ho.  :doh:

Dave G

there should be a re-set button on the thermostat - switch  off emersion heater/remove fuse or whatever ,

https://www.google.co.uk/url?sa=i&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=images&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=0ahUKEwix2K7AsfzJAhWFchQKHRQuBoYQjhwIBQ&url=https%3A%2F%2Fask-a-saint.silversaints.com%2Fposts%2F840842-fault-finding-and-replacement-of-an-immersion-heater&psig=AFQjCNEqxn5oPOC2v7jNrKrXKCcApDiTEQ&ust=1451317496619234 (https://www.google.co.uk/url?sa=i&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=images&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=0ahUKEwix2K7AsfzJAhWFchQKHRQuBoYQjhwIBQ&url=https%3A%2F%2Fask-a-saint.silversaints.com%2Fposts%2F840842-fault-finding-and-replacement-of-an-immersion-heater&psig=AFQjCNEqxn5oPOC2v7jNrKrXKCcApDiTEQ&ust=1451317496619234)

(trying to make you Happy  :D )
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on December 27, 2015, 05:00:12 PM
Quote from: MalcolmAL on December 26, 2015, 10:42:08 PM
Quote from: daveg on December 26, 2015, 11:52:53 AMEither the timer is knackered or it's the immersion itself. My power testing gizmo doesn't work even with new battery.
I am bound to say "Poor Dave" hope you can get it sorted pdq.

How about a light bulb and a bit of flex ? ( Hint: test the light bulb first on a known good cct., been there Tshirt got caught out like that once ! )

On the other hand I also have to say "what's wrong with the kettle ?"
Here in the balmy SW of England we have not used the central heating for several years, saved us a fortune in heating oil !! If this really is global warming, bring it on  :laugh3:

Thanks a lot! It was one of those 'Why didn't I think of that?' moments.

Tested the power using the suggested method and Ta-Da! it was the switch that was the culprit. Just so happened to have a spare in my version of Mary Poppins' bag and we have hot water once more.  :claphappy:

Our New year guests arriving on Wednesday will now not have to suffer us even more smelly than usual. :no:

Happy New Year to All here present and to those you care about - I wish you fun, contentment and health throughout 2016.

:beers:

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on December 27, 2015, 09:16:33 PM
Quote from: daveg on December 27, 2015, 05:00:12 PM

Our New year guests arriving on Wednesday will now not have to suffer us even more smelly than usual. :no:


I thought maybe you were heading off to an exhibition in the near future and were preparing for it, Dave :-X

Glad you have the problem solved.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MalcolmInN on December 27, 2015, 10:20:36 PM
Quote from: daveg on December 27, 2015, 05:00:12 PM
Quote from: MalcolmAL on December 26, 2015, 10:42:08 PM
( Hint: test the light bulb first on a known good cct., been there Tshirt got caught out like that once ! )
and we have hot water once more.  :claphappy:
Brill !  :claphappy:

and you did want to know about my hint ? :) :-
It was when I was learning to be an electrical engineer,
we had to parallel two whacking great generators - If they were anti-phase a bulb between them would light and could not be connected.
If the bulb didnt light they were in-phase and could be connected in parallel.
The bulb did not light so we connected them,
BANG ! ! molten copper balls on the floor from the 1/2" cable and a switch in pieces.
Lecturer had given us a duff bulb and his idea of a fuse was a carfully chosen stout cable,
before elfinsafety but we remembered ever after to test the test equipment, you bet !

Dangerous stuff heavy electrical generation, so I became a light electrical (electronics) engineer LOL !



Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: kiwi1941 on December 28, 2015, 05:15:27 AM
Quote from: daveg on December 27, 2015, 05:00:12 PM
Our New year guests arriving on Wednesday will now not have to suffer us even more smelly than usual.

I thought that it was the visitors, like fish, who began to smell after three days [ancient Chinese proverb]  :D Brian
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on December 28, 2015, 05:48:15 AM
Treadmill... the mighty lager.... with the world's great taste...

Of fish (Monty Python in case folk are wondering wot I'm on about)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on December 28, 2015, 06:46:23 AM
Quote from: Bealman on December 28, 2015, 05:48:15 AM
Treadmill... the mighty lager.... with the world's great taste...

Of fish (Monty Python in case folk are wondering wot I'm on about)

More IPA, George?  :)

Dave G

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on December 28, 2015, 06:55:03 AM
Yep, baked beans on toast with a sprig of holly on it for Christmas and track cleaning fluid for New Year  :uneasy:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on December 28, 2015, 07:00:20 AM
Quote from: Bealman on December 28, 2015, 06:55:03 AM
Yep, baked beans on toast with a sprig of holly on it for Christmas and track cleaning fluid for New Year  :uneasy:

Yum!  :foodanddrink:

Obviously you're a Man for All Seasons.

HNY!! :bounce:

Dave G

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: silly moo on December 28, 2015, 09:36:57 AM
My heart goes out to those people whose houses have been flooded, I can't begin to  imagine how dreadful it must be to have your house flooded and your possessions damaged or lost and then having to move into temporary accommodation. And then you have the uncertainty every time it rains heavily with even more rain en route.

I must admit that I did think of something else as well, is the NRM in danger of flooding?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on December 28, 2015, 10:30:51 AM
My sister lives in an 18th century farmhouse and her cellar was flooded along with the village being cut off, Croston (just down the road) was chest deep in water, Eccleston was closed off as there was a car floating on top of the bridge (which had itself become unsafe) and the lane outside her house was just a river.
Yesterday was dry and today is forecast the same but it looks like high winds and driving rain are due to hit our area again this Wednesday :worried:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on December 28, 2015, 10:44:24 AM
I was in York some years ago just after the flooding. The Ouse was overflowing the towpaths, but IIRC we had to walk up a hill to the NRM. There was no sign of floodwater on that occasion.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Geoff on December 28, 2015, 11:07:26 AM
Lots of incompetence regarding floods the government needs to take a lot of the blame to much money over seas and not enough going to the route of problems in this country, plenty of out of sight out of mind.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: silly moo on December 28, 2015, 11:43:08 AM
Can you imagine, they spend years and years of work and a vast sum of money to restore Flying Scotsman only for it to get damaged in a flood?

I'm pleased to hear that the NRM is on slightly higher ground.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on December 28, 2015, 12:02:33 PM
Some of the problems are caused by planning departments giving builders permission to build on flood plains. There is a clue in the name. Obviously not the only cause.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Tiggy on December 28, 2015, 12:15:01 PM
Hi, just looked and could not find any info on the FS being damaged in the current floods - have you any more info?  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: silly moo on December 28, 2015, 12:26:02 PM
As far as I know it hasn't been damaged in the floods, I was just saying that it would be dreadful if it did.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: silly moo on December 28, 2015, 12:32:16 PM
From the horse's mouth or The NRM Facebook page to be precise:

Flood information: We are open as usual and unaffected by the flooding, however our phone lines are currently down. We advise you to check road closures if you are planning to visit, as access into York is limited.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Tdm on December 28, 2015, 12:51:21 PM
I sympathise with the problems people in the U.K. are having at the moment with the flooding, I used to live in two of the areas currently affected.

Although Tenerife only gets 2 or 3 days of rain a year, when it does rain you know about it, as can be seen in the pictures below taken earlier this year.

(http://i379.photobucket.com/albums/oo231/Tdmak/Castle%20Harbour/Floods2013Dec.jpg) (http://s379.photobucket.com/user/Tdmak/media/Castle%20Harbour/Floods2013Dec.jpg.html)

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Tiggy on December 28, 2015, 01:11:40 PM
Duhh, rereading your comment I can see it was speculation - one numpty here!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MikeDunn on December 28, 2015, 01:11:40 PM
Quote from: Malc on December 28, 2015, 12:02:33 PM
planning departments giving builders permission to build on flood plains. There is a clue in the name.
Agreed, not the only cause - but certainly a substantial one ...

I'm always suspicious when a builder gets permission to plonk a stonking big housing estate in the middle of a flood plain - they ain't already built on for a damn good reason !  Makes you wonder just how they managed to get it through process ...  :hmmm:  After all, if it were really good land, surely the Victorians or Georgians would already have built there.

Always bad news for the home-owners, but the builder don't care - he's already made his large profit &  :censored: off to repeat the same scam elsewhere  :thumbsdown:

So - if you're thinking of moving - always check where the streams/rivers are, how far away from the prospective property, and how high up you are (or not !) from them ... basic sense, but not often followed  :doh:

I don't personally know anyone affected by the flooding, but a mate of mine is helping out the Mountain Rescue teams with the evacuations etc in his small town outside Halifax; his place is on the hill so is safe, other parts of the town aren't as fortunate with the Calder & Ryburn :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on December 28, 2015, 01:25:28 PM
Quote from: MikeDunn on December 28, 2015, 01:11:40 PM
So - if you're thinking of moving - always check where the streams/rivers are, how far away from the prospective property, and how high up you are (or not !) from them ... basic sense, but not often followed  :doh:
Water flows downwards in all directions from Chez Railsquid. This is something I checked before the final contract was signed. Also way inland (no tsunami risk) and no risk of ground liquefaction, though those factors aren't so critical in the UK.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on December 28, 2015, 02:04:30 PM
So tough for those going through the ruin and distress of losing their homes and businesses. That includes farmers with stock and equipment stranded or lost.

The Severn and the Teme are quite high here. Before moving, we made a special point of being a decent distance away from the rivers and on top of that, checked out for the flood risks

A decent legal representative should be looking and asking about such things for you if you're in the process of buying a house but as said, always do your own checks as well. There's loads of info available online.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: A.Carter (BiG-T) on December 28, 2015, 03:37:42 PM
As Mike say's I always wonder what sort of case was put together to allow building on flood plains, the other issue is and has happened around the area I live when the flood plains are built on and as has been done locally flood defenses have been constructed (large earth bunds / embankments), the flood water that used to disperse over the plains has to now go elsewhere. This then potentially put's properties that previously were 'safe' into now possible flood risk areas. A further knock on effect as has happened to friends of ours who got caught in this situation is they can no longer get insurance for flood damage, where the builders and developers have gone and are sitting on nice profits they should be made liable for any problems they have caused by the building permissions they submit & are subsequently granted.

Tony
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on December 28, 2015, 04:05:46 PM
There is huge pressure on local government to get houses built and against that is the not unexpected resistance of many folk who don't want a 'housing estate' tacked on to their peaceful village or local green belt.

I can understand the frustration and anger as mentioned earlier, where a flooding problem may be moved up or downstream to accommodate the developer's ambitions.

Surely though, if permission is given to build on any land, the developer has a duty to ensure that the structure is fit for purpose; that a house is safe to live in? At the same time and equally as surely, those giving the permission to build should ensure that it is indeed 'safe' to build there?

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: colpatben on December 29, 2015, 05:45:00 AM
Quote from: Lawrence on December 27, 2015, 10:47:29 AM
Christmas day I drank lots of wine, didn't go near the sink or anything sharp  ::)
Lawrence

Sinks and sharp knives do not mix.

Not so long ago whilst preparing to wash up (well at least rinsing the stuff for loading into dish washer). The waste disposal unit (yes we do have them in the UK but they are hated by the water companies) was grinding away; I normally have to rescue a few items that march across the draining board preparing to commit Hari Kari by leaping into the jaws of the macerator! However I failed to spot the steel handled paring knife heading for imminent destruction.

Yes in it went handle first but instead of jamming in the 'machine' said machine thought 's** this' and promptly spat it back out point first.

Now having in the past been quite adept at catching fast moving low flying objects i.e. small winged insects, my natural and foolish reaction was to grab for said low flying knife. The resultant injury is now yet another domestic accident statistic in the archives of the NHS.

Here is a pic of the damage to the knife Handle.

(http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/10/thumb_33498.JPG) (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=gallery;sa=view;id=33498)

I will spare Bealman et al from the pic of the injury. The waste disposal unit survived if a little bit noisier than in the past.

BTW Star Wars special effects are great especially in 3D.

My good lady now want a BB8 for her birthday. Mind you she wanted a Meccano Meccanoid for Christmas (Girls and their toys)!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MikeDunn on December 29, 2015, 09:51:13 AM
Quote from: colpatben on December 29, 2015, 05:45:00 AM
My good lady now want a BB8 for her birthday. Mind you she wanted a Meccano Meccanoid for Christmas (Girls and their toys)!
Sounds like she'd get on well with mine !!!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: paulprice on December 29, 2015, 09:52:16 AM
Sounds like your nearly as accident prone as me
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on December 29, 2015, 11:21:21 AM
Everyone involved in electronics has at some stage caught hold of a falling soldering iron, whilst it was switched on. It's a right of passage.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Caz on December 29, 2015, 04:15:52 PM
Quote from: Only Me on December 29, 2015, 11:22:36 AM
Been there, done that, also burnt the carpet ! :D

Ditto here, burnt my hand trying to catch it, dropped and then to save the carpet I put my foot out and ended up burning my toes as well.   :'( :-[
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on December 29, 2015, 04:18:31 PM
Quote from: Caz on December 29, 2015, 04:15:52 PM
Quote from: Only Me on December 29, 2015, 11:22:36 AM
Been there, done that, also burnt the carpet ! :D

Ditto here, burnt my hand trying to catch it, dropped and then to save the carpet I put my foot out and ended up burning my toes as well.   :'( :-[

Nice one, Caz. If you're going to do something, do it properly!  :D

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Tdm on December 29, 2015, 06:26:07 PM
Whilst on the subject of occasionally having "senior" moments and doing stupid & silly things, nothing to do with my model railway, but a few years ago I once caused a multiple accident in our communal car park involving hitting a parked BMW and a new Astra.

The inhibitor switch on my Classic Car (which on an automatic car stops you starting in gear) broke, and I temporarily by-passed the wiring so I could still start the car.

A couple of weeks later I went to start the car one morning, but had forgotten to leave it in "Park" the previous day. I switched on and the car shot forward at some speed hitting the two cars mentioned that were parked directly opposite.

Did a considerable amount of damage to the BMW, less to the Astra, and my car suffered only a broken indicator light. I let the Insurance company sought that one out, and straight away removed the "bypass" wiring I had installed and ordered a new Inhibitor switch from the U.K.

Rather embarassing having to explain to the cars owners what had happened, but examining the damage caused to each vehicle just went to show how strong and solid old cars are compared to their modern day counterparts.

Fortunately not had any more accidents in the several years since, and back to paying the normal (unloaded) Insurance premium now.

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: javlinfaw7 on December 30, 2015, 12:39:44 AM
Modern cars are designed to deform thus using up the energy involved in a crash ,classics ,much as I love them , do not deform thus pass the shock on to the passengers
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on December 31, 2015, 11:37:53 AM
 ::) Please cancel  yesterday.  :'( :'(
From the time a phone call woke us up in the morning till we went to sleep at night everything seemed to be against us.
In fact don't cancel it .................... obliterate it from existence
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on December 31, 2015, 12:38:15 PM
Sounds like it was not a happy Xmas, Jon. Hope 2016 is better for you.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on December 31, 2015, 02:55:11 PM
Quote from: Malc on December 31, 2015, 12:38:15 PM
Sounds like it was not a happy Xmas, Jon. Hope 2016 is better for you.
Christmas itself was quite good but it was just yesterday that saw every move  go wrong
roll on next week and normality  :-\ I say
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on January 03, 2016, 03:31:22 PM
 :worried: Ive felt sorry over the Xmas holiday for all those 'Upt Norf' whose season has been ruined by heavy rain and floods.
We've watched to road past us flood and become impassable quite a few times in the past 41 years but its never risen above the start of our garden. Several in the village have been flooded (small time) over the years but never seriously like those to our northern counties.
Today I' sat here watching the idiots on the road roar past sending spray well above vehicles and causing chaos for those walking on the now sunken pavements.
>:D I hope the cars get waterlogged and breakdown.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 03, 2016, 03:43:57 PM
My sister and her husband live in an 18th century farmhouse on a lane called Syd Brook Lane - although it wasn't a lane on Boxing Day :goggleeyes:

https://www.dropbox.com/s/aa9bsfmkf9jl9to/Our%20Road%202%20%281%29.wmv?dl=0 (https://www.dropbox.com/s/aa9bsfmkf9jl9to/Our%20Road%202%20%281%29.wmv?dl=0)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on January 03, 2016, 03:57:13 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on January 03, 2016, 03:43:57 PM
My sister and her husband live in an 18th century farmhouse on a lane called Syd Brook Lane - although it wasn't a lane on Boxing Day :goggleeyes:

https://www.dropbox.com/s/aa9bsfmkf9jl9to/Our%20Road%202%20%281%29.wmv?dl=0 (https://www.dropbox.com/s/aa9bsfmkf9jl9to/Our%20Road%202%20%281%29.wmv?dl=0)
:doh: Fortunately we have never experienced anything as bad as that (and hope we never do)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on January 03, 2016, 04:11:14 PM
Pretty damp around here in Worcester, too.

Main roads have huge, deep ponds across their whole width and idiots are driving into them making huge waves.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Chetcombe on January 03, 2016, 08:50:40 PM
Have just returned from rescuing Mrs Chetcombe, who has suffered 2 flat tires courtesy of a local pothole. That makes our 4th and 5th puncture on this particular road over the last 4 or 5 years - it connects where we live to civilization and must be the worst road in America  :headbutt:

With two punctures, a tow truck was required and I know the local dealer will not have the tires in stock, so we will probably be without her car until at least Tuesday (if we are lucky...). The only saving grace is that I bought the wheel and tire protection package when I got the car so the tow and the new tires will not cost me anything.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on January 04, 2016, 10:46:48 AM
Quote from: jonclox on January 03, 2016, 03:31:22 PM
:worried: Ive felt sorry over the Xmas holiday for all those 'Upt Norf' whose season has been ruined by heavy rain and floods.
We've watched to road past us flood and become impassable quite a few times in the past 41 years but its never risen above the start of our garden. Several in the village have been flooded (small time) over the years but never seriously like those to our northern counties.
Today I' sat here watching the idiots on the road roar past sending spray well above vehicles and causing chaos for those walking on the now sunken pavements.
>:D I hope the cars get waterlogged and breakdown.
After about 2 hours of rising water the guy opposite attacked the drain covers on the opposite side of the road to us and all the flooding vanished in about 30 minutes for which we are immensely thankful
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 04, 2016, 02:43:34 PM
Quote from: jonclox on January 04, 2016, 10:46:48 AM
Quote from: jonclox on January 03, 2016, 03:31:22 PM
:worried: Ive felt sorry over the Xmas holiday for all those 'Upt Norf' whose season has been ruined by heavy rain and floods.
We've watched to road past us flood and become impassable quite a few times in the past 41 years but its never risen above the start of our garden. Several in the village have been flooded (small time) over the years but never seriously like those to our northern counties.
Today I' sat here watching the idiots on the road roar past sending spray well above vehicles and causing chaos for those walking on the now sunken pavements.
>:D I hope the cars get waterlogged and breakdown.
After about 2 hours of rising water the guy opposite attacked the drain covers on the opposite side of the road to us and all the flooding vanished in about 30 minutes for which we are immensely thankful

Hope some poor sod elsewhere hasn't received a tsunami as a result, Jon :uneasy:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on January 04, 2016, 02:59:30 PM
The water feeds into a stream which in about 5 miles north of us feeds a floodplain that is always in trouble but eventually everything from around here feeds into the Thames at Reading
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on January 04, 2016, 07:55:09 PM
So now you've flooded London? Good on you  :-[

Sorry to those on here who live in London, you could always use your barrier if you turn it round the other way though  :doh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on January 05, 2016, 11:33:08 AM
Quote from: Trainfish on January 04, 2016, 07:55:09 PM
So now you've flooded London? Good on you  :-[

Sorry to those on here who live in London, you could always use your barrier if you turn it round the other way though  :doh:
Clearly you've never heard of "Bazalgette's Bath Plug", a large slightly tapered cast-iron disc located in the bed of the Thames just east of Westminster Bridge, which, when "pulled", can divert excess flow into a network of tunnels clad in cast iron built into the layer of London clay upon which the nation's capital rests.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on January 05, 2016, 11:49:38 AM
Quote from: railsquid on January 05, 2016, 11:33:08 AM
Quote from: Trainfish on January 04, 2016, 07:55:09 PM
So now you've flooded London? Good on you  :-[

Sorry to those on here who live in London, you could always use your barrier if you turn it round the other way though  :doh:
Clearly you've never heard of "Bazalgette's Bath Plug", a large slightly tapered cast-iron disc located in the bed of the Thames just east of Westminster Bridge, which, when "pulled", can divert excess flow into a network of tunnels clad in cast iron built into the layer of London clay upon which the nation's capital rests.
I thought that was the Tube  :-\
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MikeDunn on January 05, 2016, 12:18:20 PM
Only the Waterlogged & City line  ::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 05, 2016, 12:19:42 PM
Quote from: railsquid on January 05, 2016, 11:33:08 AM
Quote from: Trainfish on January 04, 2016, 07:55:09 PM
So now you've flooded London? Good on you  :-[

Sorry to those on here who live in London, you could always use your barrier if you turn it round the other way though  :doh:
Clearly you've never heard of "Bazalgette's Bath Plug", a large slightly tapered cast-iron disc located in the bed of the Thames just east of Westminster Bridge, which, when "pulled", can divert excess flow into a network of tunnels clad in cast iron built into the layer of London clay upon which the nation's capital rests.

Just hope those tunnels don't lead back to Basingstoke :worried: :laugh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 06, 2016, 12:05:43 PM
Having taken the cat to the cattery yesterday, and having psyched myself up for a triple by pass operation tomorrow, I've just had a call to say the master cutter is ill and my op won't occur until 19th Jan. Now to go and collect the cat again. Poor little bugger will wonder what the hell he's done to deserve this.
Only those who have been in the same boat will know how I feel about it all.
Still - at least the house has been dusted, vacuumed etc to within an inch of its life.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: ColinH on January 06, 2016, 12:22:53 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on January 06, 2016, 12:05:43 PM
Having taken the cat to the cattery yesterday, and having psyched myself up for a triple by pass operation tomorrow, I've just had a call to say the master cutter is ill and my op won't occur until 19th Jan. Now to go and collect the cat again. Poor little bugger will wonder what the hell he's done to deserve this.
Only those who have been in the same boat will know how I feel about it all.
Still - at least the house has been dusted, vacuumed etc to within an inch of its life.

Nothing for it Nobby you'll just have to run trains  :hmmm: at least you won't be in hospital when all the junior doctors go on strike.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MikeDunn on January 06, 2016, 12:26:45 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on January 06, 2016, 12:05:43 PM
Now to go and collect the cat again. Poor little bugger will wonder what the hell he's done to deserve this.
Awww, give the poor thing a special dinner & some treats, you'll be in the good books by tomorrow  ::)

Bummer re the cancellation - still, the 19th is close enough, it could have been 3 months away !  Good luck on it  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on January 06, 2016, 12:32:35 PM
You'll be getting the cold shoulder treatment of Mr Tiddles, Mick. They don't like catteries. I go to have my aorta scanned on the 19th, so I'll be thinking of you. Don't worry about the op, (easy to say) you'll just nod off and wake up with pretty nurses fussing over you.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 06, 2016, 12:44:40 PM
Just called the cattery and, blow me down, he's settled in a treat. No doubt I'll be shown the puckered bumhole for a couple of days when I get him back :doh:

Quote from: Malc on January 06, 2016, 12:32:35 PM
Don't worry about the op, (easy to say) you'll just nod off and wake up with pretty nurses fussing over you.

When I went for my pre-op on New Years Eve of course they gave me a good rollicking about smoking (although I have it down to single figures per day now) yet I estimate at least 85% of the nurses I saw around the hospital would be described as clinically obese. Needless to say, I didn't quip 'see you in the gym' :no:
Good luck on the 19th, Malc.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Sprintex on January 06, 2016, 12:56:54 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on January 06, 2016, 12:44:40 PM
When I went for my pre-op on New Years Eve of course they gave me a good rollicking about smoking (although I have it down to single figures per day now) yet I estimate at least 85% of the nurses I saw around the hospital would be described as clinically obese. Needless to say, I didn't quip 'see you in the gym' :no:
Good luck on the 19th, Malc.

And had you gone just outside the doors into a quiet area you'd have probably found a big bunch of the same nurses smoking away in secret - nursing has one of the highest percentages of smokers by profession, and yet you'd think seeing the effects day-in-day-out they'd know better! ::)


Paul
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on January 06, 2016, 02:33:35 PM
All the best for the op. Mike and I think I can say that for most of our members.
Its just a case of roll on the 20th now cause it will all be over by then  :beers:
Of course we wish Malc all the best as well :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 06, 2016, 03:58:25 PM
Well - Hookey (the cat) showed his feelings in no uncertain terms by laying an enormous, gag inducing  :poop: in the cat basket on the way back home. Lord knows when I'll get the stench out of my nostrils :laugh:
Needless to say he's fast asleep on my bed now ::)

Quote from: Sprintex on January 06, 2016, 12:56:54 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on January 06, 2016, 12:44:40 PM
When I went for my pre-op on New Years Eve of course they gave me a good rollicking about smoking (although I have it down to single figures per day now) yet I estimate at least 85% of the nurses I saw around the hospital would be described as clinically obese. Needless to say, I didn't quip 'see you in the gym' :no:
Good luck on the 19th, Malc.

And had you gone just outside the doors into a quiet area you'd have probably found a big bunch of the same nurses smoking away in secret - nursing has one of the highest percentages of smokers by profession, and yet you'd think seeing the effects day-in-day-out they'd know better! ::)


Paul

You're not wrong there, although Lord knows where they go as the entire site is a smoke free zone.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: scotsoft on January 06, 2016, 04:08:11 PM
At least you can be prepared next time with some air freshener  >:D

Cheers John.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on January 06, 2016, 05:26:17 PM
Poor Hookey!

Our Blue does the same thing when he has to travel. At just around 14lb, he's a big cat and makes a similar impression on his carrying device.

Not a nice thing to tidy up but have a try using the Dettol disinfectant aerosol - did the trick here! Boots and Tesco do it for around £3.

For Hookey's next trip, perhaps line his basket with loads of paper towel on top of a newspaper?

All crossable parts crossed for the 19th but no doubt you'll be hereabouts up till then and back again soon after.  :thumbsup:

Dave G


Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: GeeBee on January 06, 2016, 06:00:50 PM
Sorry to hear all the problems will be thinking of you on the 19th
Graham
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: javlinfaw7 on January 06, 2016, 06:33:12 PM
I would be careful with Detol as any disinfectant that turns white in water can be poisonous to cats
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on January 06, 2016, 06:38:17 PM
Quote from: javlinfaw7 on January 06, 2016, 06:33:12 PM
I would be careful with Detol as any disinfectant that turns white in water can be poisonous to cats
Quite right - and also a load of other cleaning agents

'Cleaning and hygiene products such as bleach, cleaning fluids and creams, deodorants, deodorisers, disinfectants (particularly phenolic compounds like 'Dettol' which turn milky in water), laundry capsules and concentrated liquids, furniture and metal polishes. Concentrated washing liquids or powders can burn the feet and skin if cats walk through them.'
Ouch!!
Looks like you need to keep a cat in a cage... :)
See this link for more info..
http://icatcare.org/advice/cats-and-poisons (http://icatcare.org/advice/cats-and-poisons)
:beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on January 06, 2016, 07:03:50 PM
Very good advice.

Apologies if it looked as though I put our animals at any risk.

My suggestion was to disinfect the smelly bits which should always be well rinsed if not rewashed after the risk of lingering germs have been dealt with.

I have a trusty steam mop and attachments that deals with the majority of routine moggie marks and mistakes.  :)

Dave G

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: mr bachmann on January 06, 2016, 07:45:55 PM
could'nt imagine pets been smelly - especialy pussy's  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: DELETED on January 06, 2016, 08:51:16 PM
I'm an oil and gas guy -ex-offshore and while everyone is rubbing their hands with glee at sub £1 / ltr at the fuel pumps, this past 18 months has been a total nightmare.  I can't seem to get any work anywhere, even sweeping workshop floors or stacking shelves.  Just before xmas I reached the point my property has to go -I can't get any work which pays the bills for knocking on for 18 months now and savings are empty.  I would normally go down to my folks for xmas but this year my Mum came up to me and we had a very quiet one.  Was painting walls and boxing up stuff on xmas and new years day, last few days I've been up and down the road in hired vans -we don't have allot of space at Mums so I've had to be ruthless.  It's like re-winding time 20 years ago.

..This new year marks my second out of proper work and pretty low esteem.  I know this s not a political forum but there certain things I see happening -or not (particularly in Scotland) which are not necessarily in  media coverage and well-hiden.  I don't know where to go from here.................
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on January 06, 2016, 08:55:00 PM
Quote from: RST on January 06, 2016, 08:51:16 PM
I'm an oil and gas guy -ex-offshore and while everyone is rubbing their hands with glee at sub £1 / ltr at the fuel pumps, this past 18 months has been a total nightmare.  I can't seem to get any work anywhere, even sweeping workshop floors or stacking shelves.  Just before xmas I reached the point my property has to go -I can't get any work which pays the bills for knocking on for 18 months now and savings are empty.  I would normally go down to my folks for xmas but this year my Mum came up to me and we had a very quiet one.  Was painting walls and boxing up stuff on xmas and new years day, last few days I've been up and down the road in hired vans -we don't have allot of space at Mums so I've had to be ruthless.  It's like re-winding time 20 years ago.

..This new year marks my second out of proper work and pretty low esteem.  I know this s not a political forum but there certain things I see happening -or not (particularly in Scotland) which are not necessarily in  media coverage and well-hiden.  I don't know where to go from here.................
Very sorry to hear your story. I think many of us forget the varying impacts, good and bad, that major changes to industry, prices etc. have on people.
I really hope things work out better for you soon in this new year. Good Luck.
:sorrysign: :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: David Asquith on January 06, 2016, 10:24:27 PM
Keep your chin up RST.  Lots of people on here, are I am sure, rooting for you.  Good luck with your job search and fortunes in general.

Dave
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: David Asquith on January 06, 2016, 10:29:48 PM
Good luck for the 19th Mick and Malc

regards

Dave
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on January 06, 2016, 10:33:37 PM
Sorry to hear of your problems RST. I know it is easy for me to say as, fortunately, I have never been unemployed, although a fair few 'not good' things have happened over the last couple of years - but for anyone to appreciate the good things in life, they have to experience some bad. Good luck to you.  :beers: David.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on January 06, 2016, 10:35:20 PM
What are your skills RST and are you willing to re-locate? I have a lot of good contacts including agencies down this way.

Mick & Malc, good luck to both of you. I know you think you have serious issues but they're nothing compared to the man flu I've had for 3 weeks now. Seriously though, get well soon and I expect to see you both posting on here on the 20th  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: DELETED on January 07, 2016, 01:06:28 AM
Quote from: Trainfish on January 06, 2016, 10:35:20 PM
What are your skills RST and are you willing to re-locate? I have a ghtlot of good contacts including agencies down this way.



I've been trying to Checmove "down south of the border" for years now.  I have allsorts of experience but little/no civils so no flooding checks. ID Checjecks etc.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on January 07, 2016, 01:36:56 AM
I've got a maintenance/handyman position vacant at the moment. Pay isn't great but better than nowt.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: DELETED on January 07, 2016, 03:07:27 AM
Quote from: Trainfish on January 07, 2016, 01:36:56 AM
I've got a maintenance/handyman position vacant at the moment. Pay isn't great but better than nowt.

...cant tell you how many jobs the same I went for this spec.  Truth is they only want a guy already doing this.  This type of thing would be great for me but -impossible to convince them I wouldn't move-off later which just isn't the  case or worse, they are outside my area so cant make commute work. It's a nightmare situation.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on January 07, 2016, 07:08:38 AM
Best wishes and the very best of luck to all that are starting the new year with health and/or work challenges.

I'm now retired but I started work back in 1964 and over the ensuing 50+years I was made redundant 6 times. At one point I was veryclose to losing my home and that, I truly know, is a horrible situation.

Stick with it RST. There is an organisation out there that is looking for you to do what you do best. That happened to me and I spent the last 13 years of my working life with a great company.

All the best!

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 07, 2016, 09:46:25 AM
So sorry to read about your situation, Rich, and can only hope things will improve very soon.
It's worthwhile having a few differing CV's dependent on what job you're after. When I was made redundant I applied for jobs like garage forecourt attendant etc and couldn't understand why I couldn't nail such a job but soon came to realise my CV over-qualified me and the company knew I wouldn't stay in the job if something better came up. As I was prepared to do almost anything just to work and pay bills, I kept a suitably 'dumbed down' CV for such posts.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Milton Rail on January 07, 2016, 11:22:17 AM
Sorry to hear about your situation, I am oil & gas too & it has been a brutal couple of years & no end in sight - hope you get a good start to 2016, I assume you have contacts with the usual suite of agencies that service the oil industry.  Good luck

Cheers,
Andrew
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MalcolmInN on January 08, 2016, 02:58:50 AM
Quote from: newportnobby on January 06, 2016, 03:58:25 PM
Well - Hookey (the cat) showed his feelings in no uncertain terms by laying an enormous, ,, in the cat basket on the way back home.
Needless to say he's fast asleep on my bed now ::)
good job (!) he was not really really displeased with you else he may have done things in reverse order (odure? , -gosh that even taxed google !! haha) and your bed would have been unspeakable !
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: N-Gauge-US on January 15, 2016, 03:38:24 AM
Quote from: newportnobby on January 06, 2016, 12:05:43 PM
Having taken the cat to the cattery yesterday, and having psyched myself up for a triple by pass operation tomorrow, I've just had a call to say the master cutter is ill and my op won't occur until 19th Jan. Now to go and collect the cat again. Poor little bugger will wonder what the hell he's done to deserve this.
Only those who have been in the same boat will know how I feel about it all.
Still - at least the house has been dusted, vacuumed etc to within an inch of its life.

I was just poking through your posts to see if you'd gotten on alright. Sorry about the delay :/ Still wishing you the best with your operation! I hope you've made the best of these extra few pre-surgery days to get some good train time in :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Oldman on January 27, 2016, 07:43:46 AM
More potential train money spent on other things.
Just taxed the car for another year!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on February 08, 2016, 11:25:14 AM
 :veryangry: :veryangry: I knew I was getting off lightly this winter but Ive had to give in and start a course of antibiotics over the weekend  :censored:
Still the last time I needed to use any was back in May last year :scowl:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: scotsoft on February 08, 2016, 11:54:38 AM
Quote from: jonclox on February 08, 2016, 11:25:14 AM
:veryangry: :veryangry: I knew I was getting off lightly this winter but Ive had to give in and start a course of antibiotics over the weekend  :censored:
Still the last time I needed to use any was back in May last year :scowl:

That can't be too bad considering the rotten weather we have had. I hope this will be your first and last lot for a long time  ;)

Cheers John.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Oldman on February 08, 2016, 12:23:08 PM
Quote from: jonclox on February 08, 2016, 11:25:14 AM
:veryangry: :veryangry: I knew I was getting off lightly this winter but Ive had to give in and start a course of antibiotics over the weekend  :censored:
Still the last time I needed to use any was back in May last year :scowl:
You have done better than me, not on any yet this year but spent Xmas and new year on them.

On a different note just had to open the window and now feeling cold but is better than superglue fumes
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: N-Gauge-US on February 08, 2016, 12:24:28 PM
Quote from: jonclox on February 08, 2016, 11:25:14 AM
:veryangry: :veryangry: I knew I was getting off lightly this winter but Ive had to give in and start a course of antibiotics over the weekend  :censored:
Still the last time I needed to use any was back in May last year :scowl:

Feel better Jon! I'be got a little cold myself!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Oldman on February 19, 2016, 07:12:45 PM
New batch of drugs for the system to either accept or reject.
Doctor just started me on pills for rheumatoid arthritis - waiting to see if they help.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: N-Gauge-US on February 19, 2016, 07:17:39 PM
Quote from: Oldman on February 19, 2016, 07:12:45 PM
New batch of drugs for the system to either accept or reject.
Doctor just started me on pills for rheumatoid arthritis - waiting to see if they help.

I hope they do :/
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on February 19, 2016, 09:17:06 PM
Quote from: N-Gauge-US on February 19, 2016, 07:17:39 PM
Quote from: Oldman on February 19, 2016, 07:12:45 PM
New batch of drugs for the system to either accept or reject.
Doctor just started me on pills for rheumatoid arthritis - waiting to see if they help.

I hope they do :/

Likewise. Good luck with the meds.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Luke Piewalker on February 19, 2016, 09:46:48 PM
Just a general lack of mojo here at the moment
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: N-Gauge-US on February 19, 2016, 11:10:21 PM
Quote from: Luke Piewalker on February 19, 2016, 09:46:48 PM
Just a general lack of mojo here at the moment

Anything we can do to lift your spirits? Or something we can do to help get you energized and excited to work on your layout?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on February 20, 2016, 08:11:04 AM
Quote from: N-Gauge-US on February 19, 2016, 11:10:21 PM
Quote from: Luke Piewalker on February 19, 2016, 09:46:48 PM
Just a general lack of mojo here at the moment

Anything we can do to lift your spirits? Or something we can do to help get you energized and excited to work on your layout?

That happens to quite a lot of us, Luke.

I've found a couple of days away from the railway room gets things going again. It can be hard work building a railway!  :sweat:

I'm sure the juices will start to flow again very soon but as offered by N-Gauge-US, anything we can do to provide a kick start, just let us know.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on February 20, 2016, 12:17:07 PM
How about some retail therapy ?

Buy that expensive loco that you've always hankered after but never dared buy ?

My mojo came back on Wednesday - hope yours will arrive soon.


Joe
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on February 20, 2016, 02:43:26 PM
Quote from: Luke Piewalker on February 19, 2016, 09:46:48 PM
Just a general lack of mojo here at the moment
There must be a bug going round  :veryangry: my mojo has completely deserted me at the moment. You have my sympathy 
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: DELETED on February 26, 2016, 12:34:31 AM
Being an Oil and Gas (offshore) guy I couldn't get work for love nor money, nor work for free last year or so!  I got my new taxcode the other week and noticed a small jobseekers deduction which to be nonest hasn't been right for almost 18 months now andI've tried correcting before.  HMRC won't speak to me about it, I'm so fed up waiting on hold for the DWP -then I finally get through they won't speak to me and put me through to a sepaerate deptd.  Another 30mins on hold and that dept have no knowledge of me -can't help -recommend I contact DWP -so where do I go these days;  HMRC problem but they have to get DWP approval -default DWP for my case is to go to HMRC for resolution!!????  Nobody will speak to me about resolving my case, I just end-up on endless hold music.

...I would use their E-Mail service but rather co-incidentally talktallk my provider has made a complete mess of their service so it's between non-existant and barely usable.

Rich
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on February 26, 2016, 12:52:03 AM
Rich, certainly seems like you have cause to complain.  :( .The following link is the HMRC charter -
https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/your-charter/your-charter#A1 (https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/your-charter/your-charter#A1)

There is a section in there about how to complain. Hope it helps.  :thumbsup: David.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on February 26, 2016, 07:30:41 AM
Rich

Try emailing your MP or calling their local office with the details of the problem and ask for his/her help.

All the best - hope you get things sorted and find a worthwhile job very soon.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Lawrence on February 27, 2016, 10:32:22 AM
Looks like I am going to be a victim of the same issues Rich (RST) is experiencing as we do a lot of work for the oil & gas industry, we have just had one person paid off and us techs have been put on short time for 3 months with redundancies to be reviewed at the end of that period.  Losing a third of my salary even for 3 months is going to be tough, and there just is not much out there at the moment.
Rock and a hard place really, can't afford to move, can't afford to stay.  Can only hope things pick up in the next few months.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: GeeBee on February 27, 2016, 11:27:55 AM
So sorry to hear that Lawrence as you say you can only hope things pick up. Fingers crossed for you
Graham
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on February 27, 2016, 11:58:45 AM
Sorry to hear of your situation it's always a worry I've been made redundant several times since I Left school and changed my type of work as well but I've been lucky the longest I was out of work was two weeks and a few days .
I hope you can stay where you are but if not fingers crossed  you will find something else no after what it might be.
Bob
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on February 27, 2016, 01:19:08 PM
An awkward situation, Lawrence, but here's hoping it all turns out for the best. I was made redundant from the BBC in 1995, so started freelance engineering. Never looked back.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on February 27, 2016, 01:53:26 PM
Hope your sales guys can bring in a few contracts, Lawrence.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on February 27, 2016, 04:06:55 PM
All the best, Lawrence.

Been there several times so know the pain and have a set of T shirts.

Hope you find something worthwhile soon.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: silly moo on February 27, 2016, 04:15:33 PM
My daughter was made redundant while she was visiting us for a weeks holiday. Got back to work out her notice only to be knocked off her bicycle by a Royal Mail van. She has a bent bike and two cracked elbows.

Luckily all her friends have rallied round are are looking after her by cooking for her and providing lots of chocolate. The accident hasn't put her off cycling one bit. She loves riding her bike.

She was expecting the redundancy but it's never nice when it actually happens. She is lucky that she will be able to do freelance work but with that you are always wondering where the next job will come from.

I admire her tremendously for coping so well.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on February 27, 2016, 04:23:46 PM
Wish your daughter a speedy recovery and finds herself a really busy freelancer - whatever she may do.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: GeeBee on February 27, 2016, 08:06:08 PM
Had my two favourite locos die this week one just stopped and has not moved since the other the DCC decoder shorted down to the chassis result on very unwell decoder and when I tried to run the other one in DC mode it stuttered forward about an inch the lights went out you can feel the motor spinning but nothing happens
:censored:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: DELETED on February 28, 2016, 12:42:29 AM
Quote from: daveg on February 26, 2016, 07:30:41 AM
Rich

Try emailing your MP or calling their local office with the details of the problem and ask for his/her help.

All the best - hope you get things sorted and find a worthwhile job very soon.

Dave G

...My local MP is of course SNP and I will have nothing to do with that party whatsoever, they're partly why I ended up out of work in the first place.  Sorry, not allowed to talk politics  :worried:

QuoteLooks like I am going to be a victim of the same issues Rich (RST) is experiencing as we do a lot of work for the oil & gas industry, we have just had one person paid off and us techs have been put on short time for 3 months with redundancies to be reviewed at the end of that period.  Losing a third of my salary even for 3 months is going to be tough, and there just is not much out there at the moment.
Rock and a hard place really, can't afford to move, can't afford to stay.  Can only hope things pick up in the next few months.

Over 100,000 oil UK reportedley guys out of work and the government are amazingly quiet about it which says allot.  We won't be producing our oil / ags in the future.  This isn't the worst of it yet and the knock-on effects are huge.  My best wishes to you!  It took me a long time to find work -actually I was looking for work for a long time out the industry and found a great job in the end though I desperately miss it.

[quotey daughter was made redundant while she was visiting us for a weeks holiday. Got back to work out her notice only to be knocked off her bicycle by a Royal Mail van. She has a bent bike and two cracked elbows.

Luckily all her friends have rallied round are are looking after her by cooking for her and providing lots of chocolate. The accident hasn't put her off cycling one bit. She loves riding her bike.

She was expecting the redundancy but it's never nice when it actually happens. She is lucky that she will be able to do freelance work but with that you are always wondering where the next job will come from.

I admire her tremendously for coping so well.][/quote]

...Thats pretty bad news, hope she's OK.  Best wishes.

Rich

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: N-Gauge-US on February 28, 2016, 09:51:03 AM
Very sorry guys. :(

Rich, that sounds like a bureaucratic nightmare :/

Lawrence, I join the others in wishing you all the luck in finding something (hopefully something you enjoy). I hadn't considered what falling oil prices were doing to the British oil and gas industries. :/ Hopefully, being involved in the tech side of things, you'll find something else soon. :)

Silly Moo, I'm so sorry to hear that your daughter's trip ended so badly. :( It must be very frustrating for you, so far away, but it is great that she is so resilient and has such supportive friends around. I hope she has a speedy recovery!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MikeDunn on February 28, 2016, 11:17:11 AM
Quote from: RST on February 28, 2016, 12:42:29 AM
...My local MP is of course SNP and I will have nothing to do with that party whatsoever
Whoever is in is immaterial : they are obliged to assist all constituency members, not just those that voted for them.  See http://www.ukpolitical.info/YouandyourMP.htm (http://www.ukpolitical.info/YouandyourMP.htm) for info (some copied below).
Quote
Once elected, the job of an MP is to represent the people of his or her constituency (constituents) in Parliament, whether or not they voted for him or her. You only have one MP so even if you voted for one of the other candidates and you disagree with the views of your MPs party, your MP is still there to help you with all matters for which Parliament or central government is responsible. 
[...]
Problems often arise with work carried out by central government departments and your MP will be able to help you with such areas as tax problems involving the HM Revenue and Customs
No-one forces you to use them : but you are rejecting what may well be the best source of assistance based on a prejudice ...  You would rather this dispute drags on & on (you've already wasted 18 months by your own admission on this) & you never get it addressed ?

By not using them, you are allowing them to be lax on their job responsibilities.  Why not make them work for a change  ::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Lawrence on February 28, 2016, 02:34:01 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on February 27, 2016, 01:53:26 PM
Hope your sales guys can bring in a few contracts, Lawrence.

Well they keep telling us there are quite a few decent projects in the pipeline (no pun intended) problem is the industry is in such a mess, potential customers are reticent to commit and even then are forcing margins so tight it is hardly worth it.
I even bought a lottery ticket yesterday, would have been better saving the £2 :veryangry:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on March 08, 2016, 07:21:50 AM
Aaargh... so having acquired a Dapol 52, the smoke evidently escaped from the electrickery bits (which is not the subject of this unhappiness blast) so I've finally got round to sending it back before the warranty expires, which is costing a good tenner from this corner of the world. Anyway it just filtered through to me that the repair people are DCC Supplies... guess where I passed within a mile or two in December? Could have saved myself the postage...
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MinZaPint on March 14, 2016, 05:36:40 PM
Well I'm seriously unhappy, for some years now I've been picking up a pal of mine from terminal 4 at Heathrow, I've just found out that they've closed the Wetherspoons (Windsor Castle) where I used to wait with some fodder and a pint!   :censored: It'll certainly cost him a few pints when I get him home!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on March 14, 2016, 08:16:52 PM
Yep, enough to make me cry, for sure.  :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: N-Gauge-US on March 17, 2016, 11:05:12 PM
Having finally, after months of delay, gotten my permanent track layed and everything running smoothly, I decided to ballast. Ballasting was a learning experience and it doesn't look great but it all runs fine. The unhappiness is because I apparently got too much scenic cement into the switch machine and so now it is as dead as a door nail. Actually, it worked one direction until I disassembled it. Now it works neither way. :(  Another one ordered (at the equivalent of 9£) should be here next week. I suppose the hand of God will be signalman for the next week.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Oldman on March 24, 2016, 03:11:59 PM
Looking like Easter is going pear-shaped, when taking my elderly mother shopping she had a funny turn in the supermarket.
Just waiting to hear from the hospital to know if they are keeping her in or I can collect her later.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on March 24, 2016, 03:18:44 PM
Hope you get the OK to collect your Mum and that she's recovered.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: N-Gauge-US on March 24, 2016, 07:15:21 PM
Quote from: Oldman on March 24, 2016, 03:11:59 PM
Looking like Easter is going pear-shaped, when taking my elderly mother shopping she had a funny turn in the supermarket.
Just waiting to hear from the hospital to know if they are keeping her in or I can collect her later.

Sorry to hear it. I hope she is alright!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: GeeBee on March 24, 2016, 11:51:39 PM
Just spent the last week trying to fight off another chest infection and have now been told by DWP that I will not get a decision for another 2 1/2 months *********  :censored:
Graham
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on March 25, 2016, 02:58:06 AM
Fancy expecting any government department to make a quick decision, Graham ::) :telloff: ;)
I really hope you can shake the infection off much quicker than that.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Ditape on March 25, 2016, 05:11:14 AM
Unfortunately 2 1/2 months seems about average for the DWP it took them that long to answer a simple question about my pension, well anyway I hope you get well soon.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on March 25, 2016, 05:28:54 AM
Hope the infection is not too serious and soon clears up. 2 1/2 months for the DWP to answer a query - flipping 'eck - I sent off my forms for my UK pension last week, but, because I live in Ireland, I had to send them to the Irish equivalent of the DWP. I hope both sets of departments don't take 2 1/2 months, I hit 65 at the end of May! I was told that it should all be sorted within 8 weeks.................  :worried:.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: rogercrossley on March 25, 2016, 07:41:12 AM
I think the electorate voted for a low tax-low spend economy by electing the current government, committed to reducing government expenditure. This includes reducing the number of staff at DWP. Very fast decisions on state pensions would depend on additional staffing which would mean higher taxes. Take your pick. (Sorry if this is political, but so is commenting on DWP's performance). Roger.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: GeeBee on March 25, 2016, 11:05:52 AM
Quote from: rogercrossley on March 25, 2016, 07:41:12 AM
I think the electorate voted for a low tax-low spend economy by electing the current government, committed to reducing government expenditure. This includes reducing the number of staff at DWP. Very fast decisions on state pensions would depend on additional staffing which would mean higher taxes. Take your pick. (Sorry if this is political, but so is commenting on DWP's performance). Roger.

:sorrysign:
Sorry if I upset you roger I was not trying to be political I was just saying having had the DWP enforce me changing to PIP in November 2015 and being told it could take up to 16 weeks and now being told last week that it will take a further 10 weeks the stress this is causing is really not nice and 7 months is IMO too long but then I am the one waiting.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: rogercrossley on March 25, 2016, 11:20:23 AM
No apology needed! If you are being 'migrated' (DWP speak!) from DLA to PIP and there is nothing unusual about your claim, DWP should still being paying you the DLA until decision is made. If you need further advice, let me know (rogerandbrendacrossley@sky.com) as Bren advises claimants on how to get best deal from DWP and would be willing to discuss. Roger.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: GeeBee on March 26, 2016, 12:17:29 AM
Quote from: rogercrossley on March 25, 2016, 11:20:23 AM
No apology needed! If you are being 'migrated' (DWP speak!) from DLA to PIP and there is nothing unusual about your claim, DWP should still being paying you the DLA until decision is made. If you need further advice, let me know (rogerandbrendacrossley@sky.com) as Bren advises claimants on how to get best deal from DWP and would be willing to discuss. Roger.

Many thanks for that Roger if things don't improve I will email you for some help, they are still paying my DLA but my mobility car was due to be changed in February, motability have been great and extended the lease for 6 months, problem is my car is manual drive and with the onset of osteo artritis it has been suggested that I drive an automatic and we were just starting the process when all this started.
Never mind it could be worse !!!!!!
Graham
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: rogercrossley on March 26, 2016, 08:28:58 AM
Graham, just get in touch if you need to. Bren will be pleased to help if it's needed. Roger.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Oldman on March 26, 2016, 09:51:40 AM
 :claphappy: Mum is now home again - turned out she had a diabetic turn, first one in over 5 years but they kept her in overnight  just in case
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Oldman on March 28, 2016, 11:02:40 PM
Teenagers - 17years old and whingeing about tooth ache all because a Wisdom tooth is coming through  :doh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on March 28, 2016, 11:18:31 PM
Quote from: Oldman on March 28, 2016, 11:02:40 PM
Teenagers - 17years old and whingeing about tooth ache all because a Wisdom tooth is coming through  :doh:

Ooh, you're a harsh man. Mine have hurt on and off over the years like nothing has hurt before and they still won't remove them  :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on March 29, 2016, 09:45:14 AM
I had to go to the dentist to have a wisdom tooth put in :-[
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on March 29, 2016, 10:15:40 AM
Quote from: newportnobby on March 29, 2016, 09:45:14 AM
I had to go to the dentist to have a wisdom tooth put in :-[

May be it's an idea to go back and ask them to switch it on!  :P

PS: Had mine taken out as they couldn't get them to work.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on March 30, 2016, 12:58:53 AM
Returned mine as they said Norman wanted them back
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on March 30, 2016, 03:25:50 AM
Quote from: Trainfish on March 30, 2016, 12:58:53 AM
Returned mine as they said Norman wanted them back

Were they the ones with the pearl insets, John? :-X
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on March 30, 2016, 04:06:30 AM
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There's a lot of people in this book, but I'm not one of the. Strange, that.  :worried:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on March 30, 2016, 04:28:29 AM
I feature quite strongly in the book 'Nolledge for Idiots' :-[
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on March 30, 2016, 04:35:11 AM
I'll be heading down the club for a few beers later this arvo with a bunch of blokes who sit around the table of NOledge.

It's funny, no matter where in the world you go for a drink, there's always a table of NOledge!  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: paulprice on March 30, 2016, 10:56:53 AM
Quote from: Bealman on March 30, 2016, 04:35:11 AM
I'll be heading down the club for a few beers later this arvo with a bunch of blokes who sit around the table of NOledge.

It's funny, no matter where in the world you go for a drink, there's always a table of NOledge!  :beers:

We call it philosophers corner in my local watering hole
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on March 31, 2016, 01:31:42 AM
Ours is called the office. Unfortunately the manager passed away last year. 'Twas a good wake though!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on April 03, 2016, 05:48:42 AM
Quote from: newportnobby on November 06, 2015, 09:18:46 PM
Any kind of oily fish will help ease the pain a bit. Trouble is I don't eat fish so take 1000mg fish oil capsules each day.
After reading about fish oil here, and with just about joint I have starting to give me stick, I bought a bottle of 1000mg fish oil capsules last week, and have been taking 4 a day.

So far, after a week, no change at all. How long does it take to get a result?

Will I grow gills and fins?

Worried, Wollongong.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on April 03, 2016, 06:00:50 AM
Quote from: Bealman on April 03, 2016, 05:48:42 AM
Quote from: newportnobby on November 06, 2015, 09:18:46 PM
Any kind of oily fish will help ease the pain a bit. Trouble is I don't eat fish so take 1000mg fish oil capsules each day.

Will I grow gills and fins?

Worried, Wollongong.

Don't be daft. All that will happen is that you will get psoriasis......................
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think about it  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on April 03, 2016, 06:14:34 AM
 :laughabovepost: :laughabovepost:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on April 03, 2016, 08:52:35 AM
Dear Worried

Keep taking the tablets. You never know, they may deliver changes you didn't expect!

https://www.google.co.uk/imgres?imgurl=http://static1.squarespace.com/static/51d3cf8fe4b097e07edbf987/5277deefe4b06f1a7db47179/5277fc67e4b0c10d4aa41ddb/1383595125439/FINAL_131101_27x29_AquaCopper_Mermaid_SB.png&imgrefurl=http://theartreserve.com/sitemap.xml&h=720&w=669&tbnid=OwQV39LCPCPBOM:&docid=KaehgWwk22U-ZM&ei=asoAV9iJCITjO-DulbgH&tbm=isch&ved=0ahUKEwjY5ueE_fHLAhWE8Q4KHWB3BXcQMwhxKEowSg (https://www.google.co.uk/imgres?imgurl=http://static1.squarespace.com/static/51d3cf8fe4b097e07edbf987/5277deefe4b06f1a7db47179/5277fc67e4b0c10d4aa41ddb/1383595125439/FINAL_131101_27x29_AquaCopper_Mermaid_SB.png&imgrefurl=http://theartreserve.com/sitemap.xml&h=720&w=669&tbnid=OwQV39LCPCPBOM:&docid=KaehgWwk22U-ZM&ei=asoAV9iJCITjO-DulbgH&tbm=isch&ved=0ahUKEwjY5ueE_fHLAhWE8Q4KHWB3BXcQMwhxKEowSg)

Do take care and drink lots of water!

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: N-Gauge-US on April 04, 2016, 02:52:04 AM
Quote from: Bealman on April 03, 2016, 05:48:42 AM
Quote from: newportnobby on November 06, 2015, 09:18:46 PM
Any kind of oily fish will help ease the pain a bit. Trouble is I don't eat fish so take 1000mg fish oil capsules each day.
After reading about fish oil here, and with just about joint I have starting to give me stick, I bought a bottle of 1000mg fish oil capsules last week, and have been taking 4 a day.

So far, after a week, no change at all. How long does it take to get a result?

Will I grow gills and fins?

Worried, Wollongong.

Supposedly it makes a huge difference with your cholesterol too. It's worth mentioning that if you freeze them before you take them, you don't get those nasty fish burps ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on April 04, 2016, 03:04:46 AM
Unfunny, Dave  :P
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on April 04, 2016, 03:13:18 AM
Quote from: daveg on April 03, 2016, 08:52:35 AM
Dear Worried

Keep taking the tablets. You never know, they may deliver changes you didn't expect!

https://www.google.co.uk/imgres?imgurl=http://static1.squarespace.com/static/51d3cf8fe4b097e07edbf987/5277deefe4b06f1a7db47179/5277fc67e4b0c10d4aa41ddb/1383595125439/FINAL_131101_27x29_AquaCopper_Mermaid_SB.png&imgrefurl=http://theartreserve.com/sitemap.xml&h=720&w=669&tbnid=OwQV39LCPCPBOM:&docid=KaehgWwk22U-ZM&ei=asoAV9iJCITjO-DulbgH&tbm=isch&ved=0ahUKEwjY5ueE_fHLAhWE8Q4KHWB3BXcQMwhxKEowSg (https://www.google.co.uk/imgres?imgurl=http://static1.squarespace.com/static/51d3cf8fe4b097e07edbf987/5277deefe4b06f1a7db47179/5277fc67e4b0c10d4aa41ddb/1383595125439/FINAL_131101_27x29_AquaCopper_Mermaid_SB.png&imgrefurl=http://theartreserve.com/sitemap.xml&h=720&w=669&tbnid=OwQV39LCPCPBOM:&docid=KaehgWwk22U-ZM&ei=asoAV9iJCITjO-DulbgH&tbm=isch&ved=0ahUKEwjY5ueE_fHLAhWE8Q4KHWB3BXcQMwhxKEowSg)

Do take care and drink lots of water!

Dave G
Seeing the "Aqua Marina" pics there; definitely start giving them to the missus. :drool:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on April 04, 2016, 03:35:43 AM
Aqua Marina didn't talk, either  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on April 04, 2016, 06:15:39 AM
Quote from: Bealman on April 04, 2016, 03:04:46 AM
Unfunny, Dave  :P

:sorrysign:  :'(

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on April 10, 2016, 04:57:22 PM
not the best of weeks first the wife's mum dies then i find out  i have colitis now my nanna has died not a good time at all  :'(
john
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on April 10, 2016, 05:04:34 PM
Condolences, John.

A tough time for you just now. Wishing you happier days ahead.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on April 10, 2016, 05:48:15 PM
Really sorry to hear your news life can be very cruel sometimes you have my deapest sympathy.
Bob
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 10, 2016, 09:18:05 PM
Sorry to read that, John :(
They say bad things occur in threes so things should improve for you, I hope.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on April 10, 2016, 11:17:12 PM
Yes, a bad week indeed. Chin up, mate.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Oldman on April 12, 2016, 02:55:25 PM
Hate being a pauper, went past a garage selling one of my all-time favorite cars.Genuine Lancia Delta Integrale
In Martini livery and LHD.
Probably just as well I can't afford it- dread to think what the insurance would be.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 12, 2016, 03:29:25 PM
Probably cost you more to rust proof it for this country than it would to insure!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MinZaPint on April 12, 2016, 04:31:12 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on April 12, 2016, 03:29:25 PM
Probably cost you more to rust proof it for this country than it would to insure!

My mums old fiat 128 resembled a lace curtain by the time she got rid of it! the handbook actually advised using the old sump oil as underseal!  :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on April 14, 2016, 11:45:54 AM
Sat here all morning expecting a phone call from my GPs breath nurse to see where we go from here.
Been a nightmare week with chaotic sleep pattern/hacking cough
Now have zero mojo, zero stamina, zero interest.
Defiantly  a very bad week  :veryangry:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Oldman on April 14, 2016, 12:16:58 PM
Know exactly how you feel Jon , currently waking up at around 0400 hrs after sleeping for about 4 hours and peak flow around 180/200.  Doctor won't do anything until I have had my scans to see if they can do anything other than giving me steroids again with side effects that causing other problems.  Come on NHS sort it out because I feel absolutely  :censored:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on April 14, 2016, 02:04:03 PM
Practice nurse phoned up about 12-30 and I bent her ear quite heavily. :unimpressed: Entered her panic mode and got an instant appointment with GP on Monday morning instead of having to wait till next month.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 14, 2016, 08:28:12 PM
The nearest hospital to me is Chorley and, yeah, they are closing the A & E department as they can't get the staff to run it. It will only re-open when the staffing levels have been attained. The next 'nearest' is Preston and that is a pig to get to/park at.
In the meantime my GP is open Monday, Tuesday morning, Wednesday, Friday and Saturday morning.
Tuesday afternoon they have staff training and Thursday morning you can only see the vampirephlebotomist.
Is it any wonder people head for A & E when they can't see their GP? :unimpressed:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Mito on April 14, 2016, 09:55:34 PM
The same in this part of the world. Having seen my GP in February, I was phoned by the cardiology department in our local hospital to tell me that I had an appointment in November, there was no date earlier than this. A friend of mine who has a non working valve amongst other things has to wait until December.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 14, 2016, 10:10:58 PM
Quote from: Mito on April 14, 2016, 09:55:34 PM
The same in this part of the world. Having seen my GP in February, I was phoned by the cardiology department in our local hospital to tell me that I had an appointment in November, there was no date earlier than this. A friend of mine who has a non working valve amongst other things has to wait until December.

Blimey! :o
I don't think things are as bad as that here :-\
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Dorsetmike on April 15, 2016, 10:41:07 AM
Things seem a bit better here "dahn sarf" my GP practice have 7 doctors covering two locations, surgeries morning and afternoon at both places, even an evening surgery Thursdays and early morning Tuesday from 0700.

I had blood for tests taken on Wednesday this week and have a docs appointment for results next Wednesday. Just hope the rapid response to the tests is not bad news.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Ozymandias on April 18, 2016, 03:39:02 PM
Humph. Just spent three months getting settled in my new flat, the landlord comes round on Friday and gaily announces that he's selling up and I have to find somewhere else to live.

Really annoying - it's a perfect flat and not too expensive. :( Maybe this should be in the angry thread. >:(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 18, 2016, 03:52:28 PM
What a charmer he is, Gideon ::)
What notice has he given for you to find somewhere?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: zwilnik on April 18, 2016, 04:07:19 PM
Quote from: Ozymandias on April 18, 2016, 03:39:02 PM
Humph. Just spent three months getting settled in my new flat, the landlord comes round on Friday and gaily announces that he's selling up and I have to find somewhere else to live.

Really annoying - it's a perfect flat and not too expensive. :( Maybe this should be in the angry thread. >:(

I've had that happen to me before too. It's bloody annoying.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Ozymandias on April 18, 2016, 04:10:48 PM
Thanks guys! :)

I should be able to find somewhere else - I could just do without the hassle and extra expense of moving again. Just as long as it's got a garage for Charlotte the Mini, a spare room for my kids and space for my trains... ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on April 18, 2016, 04:42:37 PM
Tell him you are a sitting tenant and are staying put, but if he makes the right offer, you might consider moving.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Mito on April 18, 2016, 09:11:18 PM
Quote from: Malc on April 18, 2016, 04:42:37 PM
Tell him you are a sitting tenant and are staying put, but if he makes the right offer, you might consider moving.

I agree with that. I don't think he can throw you out. If he wants to sell he's got to include the sitting tenant. Stick in there and let him buy you out.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: paulprice on April 19, 2016, 07:52:13 AM
Quote from: Ozymandias on April 18, 2016, 03:39:02 PM
Humph. Just spent three months getting settled in my new flat, the landlord comes round on Friday and gaily announces that he's selling up and I have to find somewhere else to live.

Really annoying - it's a perfect flat and not too expensive. :( Maybe this should be in the angry thread. >:(
Bloody landlords

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Ozymandias on April 19, 2016, 10:06:30 AM
I'm three months into a six-month contract - but he'd made it pretty plain that he was hoping for a long-term tenant when I first moved in.

I've got three months to find somewhere, so it could be a lot worse - just a pain!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MrDobilina on April 19, 2016, 10:49:16 AM
Quote from: Ozymandias on April 19, 2016, 10:06:30 AM
I'm three months into a six-month contract - but he'd made it pretty plain that he was hoping for a long-term tenant when I first moved in.

I've got three months to find somewhere, so it could be a lot worse - just a pain!

I think you need to read this before making plans

http://www.landlordlawblog.co.uk/2013/07/25/four-ironclad-rights-tenants-have-if-their-landlord-wants-to-sell-their-property/ (http://www.landlordlawblog.co.uk/2013/07/25/four-ironclad-rights-tenants-have-if-their-landlord-wants-to-sell-their-property/)

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: zwilnik on April 19, 2016, 11:03:13 AM
If anything it's a benefit to your landlord to have a sitting tennant. Means that if anyone's buying it to let, they've got income from day one.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: N-Gauge-US on April 22, 2016, 12:11:32 PM
Quote from: Ozymandias on April 19, 2016, 10:06:30 AM
I'm three months into a six-month contract - but he'd made it pretty plain that he was hoping for a long-term tenant when I first moved in.

I've got three months to find somewhere, so it could be a lot worse - just a pain!

Rough luck, Ozymandias. I have had to move a number of times in the last few years, once because of a situation similar to yours, and I know it is absolutely no fun.

And I would consider asking the landlord to help defray your moving costs as compensation for forcing you to move, or imply that you might be less willing to go easily ;)

Whatever ends up happening, I hope you find a new place you like even more (perhaps with more train space?) and that the moving process isn't too dreadful :/
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MrDobilina on April 22, 2016, 12:19:20 PM
Quote from: N-Gauge-US on April 22, 2016, 12:11:32 PM
to help defray your moving costs fund your model railway addiction as compensation
FTFY  :P
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Ozymandias on April 22, 2016, 12:35:23 PM
Quote from: MrDobilina on April 22, 2016, 12:19:20 PM
Quote from: N-Gauge-US on April 22, 2016, 12:11:32 PM
to help defray your moving costs fund your model railway addiction as compensation
FTFY  :P

:laughabovepost:

Very true..! Thanks for all the words of support, guys. :)

I'm kind of resigned to moving now, but trying to view it as the chance to find somewhere even better, with room for the GWR (Gideon's Wildly-overambitious Railway) which is languishing in the garage at former home.

Rents are pretty hideous round my way - I shall just have to restore and sell a lot more locos! ;)

Onwards and upwards!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: paulprice on April 22, 2016, 12:46:24 PM
Quote from: Ozymandias on April 22, 2016, 12:35:23 PM
Quote from: MrDobilina on April 22, 2016, 12:19:20 PM
Quote from: N-Gauge-US on April 22, 2016, 12:11:32 PM
to help defray your moving costs fund your model railway addiction as compensation
FTFY  :P

:laughabovepost:

Very true..! Thanks for all the words of support, guys. :)

I'm kind of resigned to moving now, but trying to view it as the chance to find somewhere even better, with room for the GWR (Gideon's Wildly-overambitious Railway) which is languishing in the garage at former home.

Rents are pretty hideous round my way - I shall just have to restore and sell a lot more locos! ;)

Onwards and upwards!

Move up north, people keep saying its cheaper up here, but being as poor as a church mouse I would not know  :'( :'( :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MrDobilina on April 22, 2016, 01:07:32 PM
Time for my own rant.

So my car has been in service since Monday morning 8am.

I was told yes quick easy job (minor coolant leak) - drain coolant, replace some tubing, seal everything, dry, test. 2 days job, here have a courtesy car all under warranty - me thinking brilliant!

I called them today after hearing nothing all week wondering what is going on. The guy who answered says oh yes I can see your car, its currently up in the air missing the entire front with parts all over the place.....

So.....not a 2 day job then, I have a courtesy car which drives like a tank (Ford Eco Sport - dislike intensely), and I need to go away this weekend on a long 5 hour round trip.

I hate not being informed of this kind of stuff when it is clearly going to have an impact on my plans!

The small silver lining is that they have said that it needs £3500 of parts (new engine effectively) and I don't have to pay a penny. But I want my own car back!!!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: N-Gauge-US on April 22, 2016, 01:25:12 PM
Quote from: MrDobilina on April 22, 2016, 01:07:32 PM
Time for my own rant.

So my car has been in service since Monday morning 8am.

I was told yes quick easy job (minor coolant leak) - drain coolant, replace some tubing, seal everything, dry, test. 2 days job, here have a courtesy car all under warranty - me thinking brilliant!

I called them today after hearing nothing all week wondering what is going on. The guy who answered says oh yes I can see your car, its currently up in the air missing the entire front with parts all over the place.....

So.....not a 2 day job then, I have a courtesy car which drives like a tank (Ford Eco Sport - dislike intensely), and I need to go away this weekend on a long 5 hour round trip.

I hate not being informed of this kind of stuff when it is clearly going to have an impact on my plans!

The small silver lining is that they have said that it needs £3500 of parts (new engine effectively) and I don't have to pay a penny. But I want my own car back!!!

I'm sorry :/ I can certainly sympathize. My own car has been out of commission for a while and I'm finally getting it worked on now, but I'm terrified of what the final bill will be. At least hopefully when you get your car back, it will be in a condition that will last a good while. :) Would've been nice to have been informed though. His description of it all in pieces must have been a bit of a shock! Thank goodness you don't have to pay for it at least :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on April 22, 2016, 03:10:09 PM
Can someone please invent some kind of "app" for communicating with pre-toddlers? The little blighter has taken to awakening at ungodly hours with unspecified complaints, the usual diagnostics (teething? nappy? hungry? thirsty? hug needed?) don't seem to work any more.  :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Ozymandias on April 22, 2016, 03:13:14 PM
Quote from: railsquid on April 22, 2016, 03:10:09 PM
Can someone please invent some kind of "app" for communicating with pre-toddlers? The little blighter has taken to awakening at ungodly hours with unspecified complaints, the usual diagnostics (teething? nappy? hungry? thirsty? hug needed?) don't seem to work any more.  :hmmm:

He/she has probably seen your trains and wants to play! ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Steve Brassett on April 22, 2016, 03:16:04 PM
Quote from: railsquid on April 22, 2016, 03:10:09 PM
Can someone please invent some kind of "app" for communicating with pre-toddlers? The little blighter has taken to awakening at ungodly hours with unspecified complaints, the usual diagnostics (teething? nappy? hungry? thirsty? hug needed?) don't seem to work any more.  :hmmm:
And can you make it work with puppies, as well?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MrDobilina on April 22, 2016, 03:17:29 PM
Quote from: Steve Brassett on April 22, 2016, 03:16:04 PM
And can you make it work with puppies, as well?

I can't make it work with cats let alone kids!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on April 22, 2016, 06:54:43 PM
Quote from: railsquid on April 22, 2016, 03:10:09 PM
Can someone please invent some kind of "app" for communicating with pre-toddlers? The little blighter has taken to awakening at ungodly hours with unspecified complaints, the usual diagnostics (teething? nappy? hungry? thirsty? hug needed?) don't seem to work any more.  :hmmm:

When ours were small I found that holding them by one leg and tapping their heads against the wall seemed to soothe them to sleep. :D (where's that "devil" emoticon thingy)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: N-Gauge-US on April 22, 2016, 07:29:19 PM
Quote from: railsquid on April 22, 2016, 03:10:09 PM
Can someone please invent some kind of "app" for communicating with pre-toddlers? The little blighter has taken to awakening at ungodly hours with unspecified complaints, the usual diagnostics (teething? nappy? hungry? thirsty? hug needed?) don't seem to work any more.  :hmmm:

Sounds like he just wants some attention, which is pretty common. At some point, you just have to put in ear plugs and let them cry it out and eventually they will sleep through the night, I've heard. Not exactly pleasant and some parents can't bring themselves to do it until the child is old enough to talk, but letting them cry in the middle of the night is apparently part of having a baby. Lol Certainly not the part I'm looking forward to! I hope Squiddy JR starts sleeping a little more soundly, soon, as I'm sure you're going crazy getting up and down in the night!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on April 22, 2016, 11:40:46 PM
Having had three, I must have been through that, but it's so long ago I can't remember.

Either that or it's Freudian repression  :uneasy:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on April 24, 2016, 04:15:04 PM
Quote from: N-Gauge-US on April 22, 2016, 07:29:19 PM
Quote from: railsquid on April 22, 2016, 03:10:09 PM
Can someone please invent some kind of "app" for communicating with pre-toddlers? The little blighter has taken to awakening at ungodly hours with unspecified complaints, the usual diagnostics (teething? nappy? hungry? thirsty? hug needed?) don't seem to work any more.  :hmmm:

Sounds like he just wants some attention, which is pretty common. At some point, you just have to put in ear plugs and let them cry it out and eventually they will sleep through the night, I've heard. Not exactly pleasant and some parents can't bring themselves to do it until the child is old enough to talk, but letting them cry in the middle of the night is apparently part of having a baby. Lol Certainly not the part I'm looking forward to!

A word of meta-advice then - all advice you receive concerning your baby will not actually apply to your baby as he/she will have his/her own way of doing things which will not fit into any of the Official Charts/Timelines or the experience of people advising you.

In particular, regarding the baby's grandparents:
Quote from: Bealman on April 22, 2016, 11:40:46 PM
Having had three, I must have been through that, but it's so long ago I can't remember.
their memories will be so outdated and confused that pretty much any advice is guaranteed to be hopelessly wrong.

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Mito on April 24, 2016, 08:38:17 PM
I think we had a baby once but I can't be sure. :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Oldman on April 24, 2016, 08:40:58 PM
Railsquid after 5 grandchildren and the fact the oldest 2 are of an age to produce great-grandchildren I am now worried :doh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MrDobilina on April 29, 2016, 02:24:22 PM
As I mentioned in here recently my car is in for servicing, this has turned into a brand new engine being fitted but the silver lining is that I don't have to pay for it.

The down side is that today I called up to see progress as it's been with them for 12 days now and last Friday they said the new engine was being fitted as we spoke, the front was all off and the new engine was being prepped.

Today however they have told me that the car still isn't ready and won't be ready until the middle to end of next week  :veryangry: :censored:

Whilst I agree this is just an inconvenience it does mean I am still lumbered with a car that does much less miles per gallon and is a nightmare to park as it has a whole wheel on the back of it, not to mention it is at least 1.5x the height of my normal car and feels weird to drive.

I really should have asked if they'd replace the front tires by way of compensating me for the amount of time spent  :censored:ing around with my car :veryangry2:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Oldman on May 04, 2016, 09:35:58 AM
 ??? Probably nothing to worry about but am nervous about my hospital scan later this morning. I just hate the places
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Ozymandias on May 04, 2016, 09:39:40 AM
Quote from: Oldman on May 04, 2016, 09:35:58 AM
??? Probably nothing to worry about but am nervous about my hospital scan later this morning. I just hate the places

Best of luck - I hope it goes well! :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on May 04, 2016, 10:55:13 AM
Quote from: Ozymandias on May 04, 2016, 09:39:40 AM
Quote from: Oldman on May 04, 2016, 09:35:58 AM
??? Probably nothing to worry about but am nervous about my hospital scan later this morning. I just hate the places

Best of luck - I hope it goes well! :)

Ditto good luck from here also
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: GaryAlan on May 04, 2016, 12:27:31 PM
hope all's well mate :wave:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Oldman on May 04, 2016, 02:08:23 PM
That's that out of the way just got to wait for the results in about ten days time
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jerry Howlett on May 04, 2016, 02:41:37 PM
Got to take Mrs "H" for a scan tomorrow and the a mammogram next Monday.  The added bonus is unlike UK hospitals nobody will speak English..  Sorry there is not that much difference nowadays....

Best wishes "Oldman".  Jerry

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 04, 2016, 03:36:41 PM
Quote from: Oldman on May 04, 2016, 02:08:23 PM
That's that out of the way just got to wait for the results in about ten days time

Hope all goes well. It's not easy to maintain any dignity in hospitals, especially if you can't tie robes behind your back :-[
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Oldman on May 04, 2016, 04:43:37 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on May 04, 2016, 03:36:41 PM
Hope all goes well. It's not easy to maintain any dignity in hospitals, especially if you can't tie robes behind your back :-[
Did not have to undress as went suitably clothed - No zips or metal parts in the clothes just had to warn them about the screws in one foot.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 04, 2016, 09:19:16 PM
Quote from: Oldman on May 04, 2016, 04:43:37 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on May 04, 2016, 03:36:41 PM
Hope all goes well. It's not easy to maintain any dignity in hospitals, especially if you can't tie robes behind your back :-[
Did not have to undress as went suitably clothed - No zips or metal parts in the clothes just had to warn them about the screws in one foot.

A strange place to keep prison warders :laugh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Oldman on May 04, 2016, 09:32:05 PM
Used to be great fun when my job involved flying around the world, Airport Security used to hate me until I started carrying a print of the xray showing the reconstruction work which meant I did not have to take socks off and just put the foot in the metal detector.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 04, 2016, 09:43:46 PM
10 years ago my Mum had a quadruple by pass so her breastbone is held together with steel wire. She sets the alarms off at all airports. Not that I have a passport but I can assume the same would now happen to me.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Oldman on May 18, 2016, 08:31:08 PM
Maybe should be in other thread but the one thing (36" Steel Straight Edge) I use when cutting large sheets of board has gone missing. Also need to find the large steel square before I mark out my foam board baseboard.

Just make it another job for the to do list.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 18, 2016, 09:02:08 PM
Quote from: Oldman on May 18, 2016, 08:31:08 PM
Maybe should be in other thread but the one thing (36" Steel Straight Edge) I use when cutting large sheets of board has gone missing.

Have you checked out the yard? :laugh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on May 18, 2016, 09:13:24 PM
 :smiley-laughing: :laughabovepost:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Oldman on May 18, 2016, 09:14:13 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on May 18, 2016, 09:02:08 PM
Have you checked out the yard? :laugh:
Have they got your address Mick so they can fit the regulation jacket with straps :laugh3:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 18, 2016, 09:17:25 PM
Quote from: Oldman on May 18, 2016, 09:14:13 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on May 18, 2016, 09:02:08 PM
Have you checked out the yard? :laugh:
Have they got your address Mick so they can fit the regulation jacket with straps :laugh3:

I'm in an 'open' asylum so don't have to wear the wrap around sleeves until 11pm. Then it's the padded room for me.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: GaryAlan on May 19, 2016, 12:08:39 PM
Day jar view or what!  I'm also missing my aluminium yard rule too :goggleeyes:  Last seen in my dad's new greenhouse.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: GeeBee on May 22, 2016, 11:20:05 PM
Been feeling progressively more unwell throughout the day Temperature now 38.7 Pulse 106 and just been informed the Dr will call about 2 am  :oopssign:
Graham
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: GaryAlan on May 22, 2016, 11:54:19 PM
Get well soon Graham.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on May 23, 2016, 06:17:55 AM
Hope the Doc sorts you out OK, Graham.

Take it easy.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 23, 2016, 10:57:53 AM
Very worrying, Graham.
I hope you're OK and can let us know soonest.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: GeeBee on May 23, 2016, 03:35:40 PM
It seems I have acquired a viral bug so no antidiabolics just rest and lots of fluids unfortunately alcohol free  :'(
ah well if all else fails I will go and have a lay down again. I have slept in excess of 22 hours since Saturday
Many thanks for all your best wishes
Graham
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on May 23, 2016, 04:23:30 PM
Take it easy and get well soon.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on May 23, 2016, 10:50:36 PM
Take it easy, Graham. Shame about the non alcoholic beverages. But if it's any consolation,  a recent blood test showed that my iron levels have gone sky high again (I have haemachromatosis) and my liver function abnormalities have doubled in the past 12 months.

Which means I have to go back on monthly blood dumps - but that's not as bad as what the doctor said to me  ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on May 24, 2016, 11:55:06 AM
Don't go near any of those scrap yards that use huge electromagnets on a crane, George.   :angel:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Tom U on May 24, 2016, 12:36:55 PM
I have always suffered from mild anaemia, despite my copious intake of red wine!
Always gets flagged on my annual medical checkup.
I just tell the doctor that my wife is a vampire.  That seems to close the discussion  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on May 24, 2016, 01:15:36 PM
Bloomin' anaemia!  I forget a lot of stuff too, George.  :doh:  :D

This does remind me that I got a 'yellow letter' from Nursie yesterday. Annual demand for a check up to prove I'm still here. :wave:

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on May 25, 2016, 12:18:46 AM
Quote from: Malc on May 24, 2016, 11:55:06 AM
Don't go near any of those scrap yards that use huge electromagnets on a crane, George.   :angel:
Yeah.... I certainly don't need an Iron Man suit like Robert Downey Jr  8)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Oldman on June 09, 2016, 07:07:10 PM
Maybe this should be in the happy thread but what I have coming up later this month I don't like - have had them before so know what to expect.
Just seen today a specialist having been refered by my GP and so the month wait was worth it in the end, Today 4 phials of blood for blood tests, a chest x ray and have before the end of the month a Barium Meal and a Camera down the throat jobby :thumbsdown:. He also wants the doctor to refer me to a chest specialist in case the problems are related.

Oh the joys of getting older.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on June 09, 2016, 07:26:27 PM
Just been for my 6 monthly visit to the phlebotomist. Took an armful for testing. The joys of being diabetic.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on June 09, 2016, 07:31:38 PM
Quote from: Oldman on June 09, 2016, 07:07:10 PM

Oh the joys of getting older.

Know the feeling! Went for the results of my MRI scan a couple of weeks back. My prostate is that enlarged, it is getting squashed  :o and the specialist  says there is a 'small' shadow, (it is small, they let me see the pics), but he does not think it is anything too serious, but we will find out when I go for my third biposy in about 3 months - this one under general anest, anest, annezth, I will be 'knocked out' for a bit  :goggleeyes:

Anyway, I hope things go well for you.  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on June 09, 2016, 08:30:44 PM
Quote from: Oldman on June 09, 2016, 07:07:10 PM
have before the end of the month a Barium Meal and a Camera down the throat jobby :thumbsdown:.

Make sure you get the camera before someone who is getting it from the other end!

Quote from: Malc on June 09, 2016, 07:26:27 PM
Just been for my 6 monthly visit to the phlebotomist. Took an armful for testing. The joys of being diabetic.

You are Tony Hancock and I claim my £5.

So sorry to hear of everyones' ailments :(

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: lil chris on June 09, 2016, 11:34:47 PM
Hi everyone, if he gets a camera that's been up someones other end has Mick puts it, do not blame me I have not had a colonoscopy for at least 12 months. I used to have that record of Tony Hancock the blood donor, it was funny at the time.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on June 10, 2016, 06:32:19 AM
Best wishes for all that are going through their medical tests.

Camera down the throat - been there - not the nicest thing.

My routine check-up due later this month but hoping for a 'no change' report.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: paulprice on June 10, 2016, 07:33:26 AM
Quote from: daveg on June 10, 2016, 06:32:19 AM
Best wishes for all that are going through their medical tests.

Camera down the throat - been there - not the nicest thing.

My routine check-up due later this month but hoping for a 'no change' report.

Dave G

Good luck Mr Dave
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on June 10, 2016, 11:42:41 AM
 :worried: For once nursie and doctors got things wrong  :hmmm: :help: :help:
Calcium tablets Ive been on for years have been replaced by a super all dancing ,inproved :-\ Trouble is they come with dancing, multi  coloured  flashing cartoon lights that only  I can see  :hmmm:  advised cure.................keep taking them and see if things settle over the first month  :-\
One of my inhalers now changed to  multi  purpose once every 24 hours miracle devise  ??? effects wear off after 18 house usually
Cure .......................as for item 1 above  >:D.
Am I happy................. er          nope  :veryangry: :veryangry:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on June 10, 2016, 11:54:40 AM
Quote from: jonclox on June 10, 2016, 11:42:41 AM
:worried: For once nursie and doctors got things wrong  :hmmm: :help: :help:


Why am I not shocked?
I bet they've found a cheapo substitute in order to save money so tell 'em where to stick it, Jon, and get your old stuff back for you.
My Mum's doctor cheapened one of her meds and Mum ended up in hospital with similar effects to severe sunburn. That was 4 years ago and she still suffers from it to this day :veryangry:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: scotsoft on June 10, 2016, 11:59:49 AM
Why can't they follow the simple rule - If it ain't broke don't fix it.

I feel for you having to endure these side effects and I hope they settle quickly.

Cheers John.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on June 10, 2016, 05:31:47 PM
They wanted to change one of my diabetic medications that has been working well. I was a bit put out and asked why they were changing it. I was expecting some clap trap about price, but it transpired the EU drug administration had withdrawn the European license because it had been killing people. I kept quiet.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on June 10, 2016, 07:50:05 PM
Quote from: Malc on June 10, 2016, 05:31:47 PM
withdrawn the European license because it had been killing people.

That is one way of getting the waiting lists down  :worried:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on June 10, 2016, 09:19:45 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on June 10, 2016, 07:50:05 PM
Quote from: Malc on June 10, 2016, 05:31:47 PM
withdrawn the European license because it had been killing people.

That is one way of getting the waiting lists down  :worried:

True, but it was only occurring in Switzerland ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on June 12, 2016, 11:35:53 AM
This is what happens when drug companies are allowed to do their own field trials. Apparently they had been fiddling the figures to get the drug approved. It was only when the body count started getting a bit high that someone in the US checked. Having said that, most of the medications I take list death as one of the (extremely rare) side effects.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on June 12, 2016, 11:56:46 AM
 :veryangry: :censored:
Due to the heat and medication changes Ive had to give and start  another course of steroids . Hope they will kick in fairly soon start working  soon  :worried:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: kiwi1941 on June 12, 2016, 12:14:28 PM
Quote from: Malc on June 10, 2016, 05:31:47 PM
They wanted to change one of my diabetic medications that has been working well.

Which one? [Brian, A curious diabetic]
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on June 12, 2016, 03:15:18 PM
Quote from: kiwi1941 on June 12, 2016, 12:14:28 PM
Quote from: Malc on June 10, 2016, 05:31:47 PM
They wanted to change one of my diabetic medications that has been working well.

Which one? [Brian, A curious diabetic]
It was Rosiglitazone.   http://www.nhs.uk/news/2010/09September/Pages/rosiglitazone-avandia-drug-suspended-heart-risk.aspx (http://www.nhs.uk/news/2010/09September/Pages/rosiglitazone-avandia-drug-suspended-heart-risk.aspx)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: kiwi1941 on June 12, 2016, 10:34:26 PM
Quote from: Malc on June 12, 2016, 03:15:18 PMWhich one? [Brian, A curious diabetic]
It was Rosiglitazone.   http://www.nhs.uk/news/2010/09September/Pages/rosiglitazone-avandia-drug-suspended-heart-risk.aspx (http://www.nhs.uk/news/2010/09September/Pages/rosiglitazone-avandia-drug-suspended-heart-risk.aspx)
[/quote]

Phew! Not on my list of medictions. Many thanks, Brian
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on June 23, 2016, 12:51:29 PM
Bought two digi-hats online, on Sunday 12th. I had hoped they'd arrive by the weekend, but they didn't arrive 'til Monday 20th. Over the weekend I discovered a split gear on the first loco that I was going to convert, so I ordered a few replacements on Monday and left the conversion 'til their arrival. On Wednesday, the gears arrived and the digi-hats have disappeared :veryangry: My wife insists that she did not move the envelope, but I am convinced it was still there on Tuesday night.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on June 23, 2016, 07:56:41 PM
got the rumble in my guts that signals the my colitis is going to kick off  >:(
have upped my meds so hopefully stop it before it gets too bad
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on June 23, 2016, 08:07:41 PM
I thought it was thunder accompanying the rain we have here  ;D. But I hope the med's work.  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on June 24, 2016, 05:36:36 AM
Unhappy that I can fire off some purchases of British outline trains at a much reduced price. I will say no more.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: mr bachmann on July 06, 2016, 03:45:38 PM
daft lady drivers - I learnt this yesterday , luckily not me ...

http://www.gloucestershirelive.co.uk/pictures-classic-car-punted-on-to-roof-in-stroud-crash/story-29474074-detail/story.html (http://www.gloucestershirelive.co.uk/pictures-classic-car-punted-on-to-roof-in-stroud-crash/story-29474074-detail/story.html)

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Ozymandias on July 06, 2016, 03:51:24 PM
Quote from: mr bachmann on July 06, 2016, 03:45:38 PM
daft lady drivers - I learnt this yesterday , luckily not me ...

http://www.gloucestershirelive.co.uk/pictures-classic-car-punted-on-to-roof-in-stroud-crash/story-29474074-detail/story.html (http://www.gloucestershirelive.co.uk/pictures-classic-car-punted-on-to-roof-in-stroud-crash/story-29474074-detail/story.html)

I used to live in Stroud - I know that road well. Desperately sad about the bubble car - I'd be heartbroken if that was my Mini!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: scotsoft on July 06, 2016, 05:32:11 PM
I thought it was mandatory to be breathalysed after being involved in an accident  :hmmm:

I had the chance to drive one of these bubblecars many years ago and I enjoyed every minute of that drive.

Cheers John.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on July 20, 2016, 10:26:02 AM
well my colitis rumblings have turned into a full blown attack so back on steroids and antibiotics  :censored:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: David Asquith on July 20, 2016, 01:25:53 PM
In West Yorkshire Police breath tests were only mandatory after an accident causing injury.  A police officer has the discretion to breathalize in other situations if he suspects drink or drugs are involved
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on July 20, 2016, 02:29:33 PM
Quote from: JBQFC on July 20, 2016, 10:26:02 AM
well my colitis rumblings have turned into a full blown attack so back on steroids and antibiotics  :censored:
Ouch not good news but the medications should sort it out quike quickly for you I hope
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 20, 2016, 05:17:02 PM
Very sorry to hear your news but hope you're feeling better very soon
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on July 20, 2016, 05:28:43 PM
Quote from: jonclox on July 20, 2016, 02:29:33 PM
Quote from: JBQFC on July 20, 2016, 10:26:02 AM
well my colitis rumblings have turned into a full blown attack so back on steroids and antibiotics  :censored:
Ouch not good news but the medications should sort it out quike quickly for you I hope

In the meantime keep downwind ::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on July 20, 2016, 06:48:07 PM
Quote from: steve836 on July 20, 2016, 05:28:43 PM
Quote from: jonclox on July 20, 2016, 02:29:33 PM
Quote from: JBQFC on July 20, 2016, 10:26:02 AM
well my colitis rumblings have turned into a full blown attack so back on steroids and antibiotics  :censored:
Ouch not good news but the medications should sort it out quike quickly for you I hope

In the meantime keep downwind ::)

down another town would better it can get very bad  :help:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on July 27, 2016, 04:00:57 PM
The Squidlet (18 months old) experienced an unexpected attack of flatulence the other day, the expression of surprise on his face was priceless.

We interrupt this post to note this M5.3 earthquake (http://typhoon.yahoo.co.jp/weather/jp/earthquake/20160727234725.html) shaking Railsquid's trains

In unhappy news, aforesaid Squidlet had his 18 month checkup the other day, and idiot doctor decided he was a slow developer as he was unable to distinguish a giraffe from an elephant. Which is hardly surprising as he has only minimal exposure to either. Now, an octopus and a panda, he would have no problems with. Or a Shinkansen and a picture of a train which runs on our local line...
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on August 01, 2016, 05:33:59 PM
well my birthday treat today was a trip to the doctors as my colitis is still playing up
so now have yet more pills and have to take more of the one i have already got
>:(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 01, 2016, 08:22:42 PM
As I still find it difficult to move without my back jerking my body with spasms I've had to give up my seat on this Thursdays Scarborough Spa Express railway trip. Anyone going to York station between 11.30 and midday will see the steam loco booked to run York-Scarborough-York, currently booked as 8F 48151. :'(
I have X rays at the local hospital on Friday which, to me, are a waste of time as an MRI scan will show up soft tissue which an X ray won't so if I have a prolapsed disc as per my quack surely the MRI scan is the more obvious choice ???
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on August 01, 2016, 08:36:50 PM
Sorry that you are still having problems, Mick and you are having to give the trip a miss.

Do hope things can get sorted for you quickly.

Best wishes to all that are under the weather right now and hope things will be better soon.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 01, 2016, 08:42:43 PM
Thanks Dave - looks like it's my turn to have Liz's 'annus horribilis'
(Glad I didn't miss an 'n' out of 'annus')
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on August 01, 2016, 08:50:05 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on August 01, 2016, 08:42:43 PM
Thanks Dave - looks like it's my turn to have Liz's 'annus horribilis'
(Glad I didn't miss an 'n' out of 'annus')

Indeed - that could've dropped you in a right old hole!  :-X

:wave:

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on August 01, 2016, 09:32:34 PM
Quote from: daveg on August 01, 2016, 08:50:05 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on August 01, 2016, 08:42:43 PM
Thanks Dave - looks like it's my turn to have Liz's 'annus horribilis'
(Glad I didn't miss an 'n' out of 'annus')

Indeed - that could've dropped you in a right old hole!  :-X

:wave:

Dave G

a bit of a bummer that! :-X
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on August 01, 2016, 09:43:49 PM
NPN - Shame about the trip, as the following posts say - 'bit of a bummer'  :). As regards the disc, I, like you, can not see any point in an ordinary x-ray. When I had my MRI scan in May, that only just showed up a 'problem', so an x-ray would be have been totally useless. Which reminds me, hospital appointment should be arriving any time soon.... :sweat:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on August 03, 2016, 06:15:57 AM
Not happy.
Rat chewed through some wires in my car last night.  Spent over an hour splicing in new bits.  >:(

Poison baits laid out in roof cavity. >:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on August 03, 2016, 06:21:39 AM
You sure it wasn't local rats like the ones that took my tools  >:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Webbo on August 03, 2016, 06:25:52 AM
Quote from: NinOz on August 03, 2016, 06:15:57 AM
Not happy.
Rat chewed through some wires in my car last night.  Spent over an hour splicing in new bits.  >:(

Poison baits laid out in roof cavity. >:D

That's what happens when you don't feed them properly.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 05, 2016, 05:34:02 PM
Got all excited today as an envelope appeared through my door from the DVLA.
"Huzzah" I thought. "Those folks are on the ball and have returned my driving licence after the agreed 6 months surrender"
Opened said envelope and it was just a form for me to renew the car tax :'(
Teasers.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: GeeBee on August 06, 2016, 09:33:28 AM
Quote from: newportnobby on August 05, 2016, 05:34:02 PM
Got all excited today as an envelope appeared through my door from the DVLA.
"Huzzah" I thought. "Those folks are on the ball and have returned my driving licence after the agreed 6 months surrender"
Opened said envelope and it was just a form for me to renew the car tax :'(
Teasers.

Now that was really unkind still keeping fingers crossed for you
Graham
👍
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on August 15, 2016, 11:05:41 AM
Off at a tangent here, but during my last 3 visits to the UK, I am always amazed at how much the Brits love their dogs.

We have 'em here in Australia, too, but it always seems to me that EVERYONE there has a woof woof!

Anyway, me old schoolmate posted me a Facebook thing that his mate was asked to leave Weatherspoons Harrogate 'cos he'd taken his dog (looks like a cocker spaniel) into the beer garden.

Seems harsh to me, but there again, here in Aus, you can't take a dog near any premises.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Caz on August 15, 2016, 11:09:32 AM
Probably Health & Hygiene laws especially if they serve food.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on August 15, 2016, 11:33:13 AM
Well, it is Yorkshire  ;D

Just joking, Yorkshire members!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on August 15, 2016, 11:49:45 AM
Quote from: Bealman on August 15, 2016, 11:05:41 AM
Off at a tangent here, but during my last 3 visits to the UK, I am always amazed at how much the Brits love their dogs.

We have 'em here in Australia, too, but it always seems to me that EVERYONE there has a woof woof!
Noted the same a couple of years ago.
Some of the ugliest dogs I have ever seen, some seem to be overly large disfigured rats.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on August 15, 2016, 11:56:41 AM
Yeah, you are probably right... but you can go into country pubs and there often multiple doggies in there.

Mind you, pickled eggs are the menu   ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on August 15, 2016, 11:57:34 AM
Quote from: Bealman on August 15, 2016, 11:33:13 AM
Well, it is Yorkshire  ;D

Just joking, Yorkshire members!

As a Yorkshireman, I resemble that remark  ;D. Most shops and all food places, both here in Ireland and back home, seem to have signs up stating that dogs are not allowed, except 'assistance' dogs. I appreciate that people need 'assistance' dogs, but a dog is a dog  ???
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on August 15, 2016, 12:02:14 PM
I'm talking about loose ones  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on August 15, 2016, 12:30:16 PM
Quote from: Bealman on August 15, 2016, 12:02:14 PM
I'm talking about loose ones  :thumbsup:

Wot - pickled eggs  :worried: :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on August 15, 2016, 01:07:58 PM
 :thumbsup: :laughabovepost:

Hey don't knock pickled eggs, here at the Antipodes I make 'em and attempt to sell 'em.....
except, like woof woofs, they are not allowed in Aussie drinking holes.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Mito on August 15, 2016, 05:49:34 PM
Quote from: Bealman on August 15, 2016, 01:07:58 PM
:thumbsup: :laughabovepost:

Hey don't knock pickled eggs, here at the Antipodes I make 'em and attempt to sell 'em.....
except, like woof woofs, they are not allowed in Aussie drinking holes.

I wouldn't want to knock a pickled egg, I might hurt myself. :'(
I think it's a good idea woof woofs are not allowed in holes, they'd have difficulty getting out. :P
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on August 15, 2016, 06:38:45 PM
Ok people nuffs enuff. No more yolks about pickled eggs. You've cracked enuff eggs for now. I think you've exceeded the shellf life of these scrambled yolks and need to move on to something more hard boiled...
:beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on August 15, 2016, 06:54:37 PM
You can just picture it can't you? Bealman pushing his barrow, fork in hand, shouting "Pickled eggs, get yer pickled eggs".  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on August 15, 2016, 07:02:54 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on August 15, 2016, 06:54:37 PM
You can just picture it can't you? Bealman pushing his barrow, fork in hand, shouting "Pickled eggs, get yer pickled eggs".  :smiley-laughing:
I don't think that's something. I'd want to picture thanks.
:no:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Sprintex on August 15, 2016, 08:03:53 PM
Not surprised George has got pickled eggs . . .


. . . . must be all that Aussie beer :D


Paul
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on August 15, 2016, 11:54:11 PM
 :pint: :pint: :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Webbo on August 16, 2016, 01:46:37 AM
Quote from: Bealman on August 15, 2016, 01:07:58 PM
:thumbsup: :laughabovepost:

Hey don't knock pickled eggs, here at the Antipodes I make 'em and attempt to sell 'em.....
except, like woof woofs, they are not allowed in Aussie drinking holes.


I recall seeing jars of pickled eggs in Oz pubs in bygone years, but I suppose the risk of explosion with the combination of eggs and beer has caused them to be banned. However, now that smoking is not allowed in Oz pubs, the risk of a nasty accident is greatly diminished.

Not only are there lots of dogs in the UK, but they are litterate and literate too judging by the number of signs posted around the country for their benefit. Some of them are archaeology aficionados indicated by the following sign seen at Skara Brae, a Neolithic village excavation on the Orkney Islands:

(http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/42/4229-160816013912.jpeg) (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=gallery;sa=view&id=42996)

Webbo
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Mito on August 16, 2016, 08:29:16 PM
Is dog fouling an Orkney sport?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Webbo on August 19, 2016, 09:39:43 AM
We had our Labrador cross, Kyla, put to sleep a couple of hours ago. She was a wonderful dog and had a very good innings being 2 weeks shy of 17 years old. I am feeling terrible and will miss her greatly.

Webbo

(http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/43/4229-190816093439.jpeg) (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=gallery;sa=view&id=43033)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on August 19, 2016, 09:44:13 AM
So sorry to hear that Webbo. We have had to have two of our dogs put to sleep, (one is my picture), it's like loosing a member of the family, but at least you have your memories.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on August 19, 2016, 09:46:28 AM
Quote from: Webbo on August 19, 2016, 09:39:43 AM
We had our Labrador cross, Kyla, put to sleep a couple of hours ago. She was a wonderful dog and had a very good innings being 2 weeks shy of 17 years old. I am feeling terrible and will miss her greatly.

Webbo
Sorry for your loss Webbo. We all get so attached to our pets and its a great shame and sorrow when they eventually have to leave us.
:sorrysign:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on August 19, 2016, 09:46:58 AM
Sorry to hear of your loss Webbo. IMHO it's almost worse than loosing a family member. Dogs never answer back, stay out late, are glued to a phone or complain. Best thing is to get another dog.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Steve Brassett on August 19, 2016, 10:09:19 AM
As a fellow dog owner, who had to have a dog put down earlier this year, I really feel your pain.  17 years is a mighty fine innings, though, especially for a larger dog.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on August 19, 2016, 10:22:01 AM
 :sorrysign: from a fellow dog lover I know how you feel if you look back we had to have our Buster put to sleep about two and a half years ago he had the dog equivalent of demtia and was loosing the use of his back legs as well ,we now have a lovely little dog called Mitzy but some times I forget and in the night if she wakes me I call her Buster, I will never ever forget him he was like a baby to Val and me , Leave it a while to grieve for your loss and get another dog because a house is not a home without a dog.
Bob
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on August 19, 2016, 12:35:22 PM
Really sad for you, Webbo.

Give yourself a little time and then, if you can, find a new member of the family to love and care for.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 19, 2016, 01:14:32 PM
A horrible time for all concerned, Webbo. If all participants agree find yourself another dog asap (preferably from a centre caring for strays)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on August 19, 2016, 05:28:39 PM
What a beautiful old girl! They break your heart when they go, don't they, even if they have lived to such a good age. I know from experience that the easiest way to get over your grief is to get another as soon as possible. Our old dog is 14 now and we hope he has another couple of years in him, but we also have his 1 year old great-grand-daughter who we refer to as the monster raving loony puppy... She drives us mad, but the house wouldn't be the same without either of them.

Sympathy and best wishes from our family.

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: lendix on August 19, 2016, 06:20:56 PM
Needed somewhere to be unhappy too.
I included a motorised turntable in my new layout, and sought help from the forum re controlling it. In the end, used a Locotech motor, and powered both the bridge and the motor from a track control on my also new Morley Vortrack controller through a spdt switch. Worked perfectly, really nice and slow, even able to stop the turn spot on, but......
The track control eventually (after several months of use) began to get hot, and eventually stopped working in one direction. Got told off severely by Morley who said the track control should not be used for the TT motor. (Actually, I still can't see why, it's only a 12v DC motor less powerful than for a loco). They repaired the controller for me (making their point pretty severely again), so now I have a turntable with an unpowered power! Somehow I need to find a way to power it again with a rheostat of some sort - and a major rewire too, which is a pain.
If anyone's got any ideas or suggestions, they'd be welcome.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Mito on August 19, 2016, 10:45:51 PM
I'm sorry about your loss Webbo. I too recently had to put down one of our dogs who lost the use of her back legs. It's hard but time heals and when you're ready another dog will help you through.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Webbo on August 20, 2016, 02:11:53 AM
Thank you all for your kind words. And my belated sympathies to those who have lost a dog or cat especially fairly recently.

We lost another dog about 18 months ago due to sudden illness (Jess) which I found to be very hard, but time did heal although I still really miss her. At least with Kyla, we knew the end of her days could not be very far away as she had renal disease and was gradually deteriorating. Even so, we have lost a dear friend and member of the family. After our first dog died, we obtained a kelpie puppy who is a real joy but is hyperactive and a bit destructive to car seatbelts, television remotes, the garden, the house.

Webbo

 
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on August 20, 2016, 07:13:54 AM
Just did a quick read on Kelpies as I'd not heard of them before.

http://www.yourpurebredpuppy.com/reviews/australiankelpies.html (http://www.yourpurebredpuppy.com/reviews/australiankelpies.html)

Wow! You certainly seem to have a ball of fire (fur) there.

All the best and please keep us in touch with your canine developments.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jillingsbri on August 20, 2016, 08:14:05 AM
I'm not happy with this apparent two tier speed limit system that exists on the Marchwood bi-pass Nr Southampton.

There is a 40 mph limit for a large section, presumably because of including a couple of busy juctions and a school crossing (fare enough I guess).  I've travelled this route daily for the last 20 years and can honestly say I and the other drivers have habbitually edged over to the nearside to allow motor cyclists to overtake safely when seeing them fast approaching in the rear view mirror.  These guys have absolutely no regard for the speed limit, nor for the weather/traffic conditions.  They just have to pass everything in front of them, and it is a very busy petrol tanker route (Nr Fawley Refinery)  I swear some of these bikers must have a death wish ::)

Hence the apparent two tier system >:(

No I'm not anti biker, as I was one myself for about 35 years.  However, I'm now 73 and put my longevity partially down to not riding like a complete idiot all those years.

And another thing, while I'm on a roll  ;)  Talking about death wishes. How come cyclists either ignore red traffic lights and some, not all, insist on riding at night, sometimes down completely dark roads (Including said bi-pass) with no lights whatsoever.  In the sixties I would have had my collar felt for either one. How times change  :hmmm:

Incidentally, is the reason for some speed cameras facing  away from oncoming traffic, to see the registration of motorcycles.  Not having one on the front of course.

That's my rant for the day ;)

Cheers| Brian

PS. The layour is on hold as I'm skint :'(  Just had to have a new car alternator fitted... :thumbsdown:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on August 20, 2016, 09:15:44 AM
Quote from: lendix on August 19, 2016, 06:20:56 PM
Needed somewhere to be unhappy too.
I included a motorised turntable in my new layout, and sought help from the forum re controlling it. In the end, used a Locotech motor, and powered both the bridge and the motor from a track control on my also new Morley Vortrack controller through a spdt switch. Worked perfectly, really nice and slow, even able to stop the turn spot on, but......
The track control eventually (after several months of use) began to get hot, and eventually stopped working in one direction. Got told off severely by Morley who said the track control should not be used for the TT motor. (Actually, I still can't see why, it's only a 12v DC motor less powerful than for a loco). They repaired the controller for me (making their point pretty severely again), so now I have a turntable with an unpowered power! Somehow I need to find a way to power it again with a rheostat of some sort - and a major rewire too, which is a pain.
If anyone's got any ideas or suggestions, they'd be welcome.

I'd be inclined to get a 16V transformer and a cheap controller (eg. Hornby), that should replace your good one on this duty. I do agree with you that it should be capable of doing the job, however if you continue to use it the manufacturer could be difficult. At least with a cheapo you won't lose much if it too goes belly up
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Webbo on August 20, 2016, 09:45:58 AM
Quote from: daveg on August 20, 2016, 07:13:54 AM
Just did a quick read on Kelpies as I'd not heard of them before.

http://www.yourpurebredpuppy.com/reviews/australiankelpies.html (http://www.yourpurebredpuppy.com/reviews/australiankelpies.html)

Wow! You certainly seem to have a ball of fire (fur) there.

All the best and please keep us in touch with your canine developments.

Dave G

Dave, what the piece has to say that you refer to is pretty right. My wife and I knew exactly what we were getting into as our Jess who died more than a year ago was also a Kelpie. The way I look at it, dogs like Kelpies and Border Collies are a big effort but provide a big reward. The destructive behaviour has subsided as Tilly grows from a puppy into an adult, but she still seems intent on digging her way to China. Kelpies are probably the quintessential Australian farm dog being used extensively to round up sheep and other live stock so there are lots of them in this country. They are popular in cities too.

Webbo
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jerry Howlett on August 20, 2016, 08:59:31 PM
Bit late on this thread but having lived in Italy for 11 years now we have our own "Pet Sematary".  All gone in the last 3 years and the oldest was only 13 and we had one who died in the car en route to the vets!!!..... We are now the proud companions of 2 rescue dogs but still shed the odd tear or lots when I find pictures of the old boys and girl.
Our hearts go out to you Webbo.
Jerry

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on August 22, 2016, 06:56:53 PM
 :'( Breathing collapsed with infection Wednesday 7:15PM, in hospital by 8:30PM, future uncertain. More news as and when. :'(

(typed out by son)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on August 22, 2016, 07:10:00 PM
Quote from: jonclox on August 22, 2016, 06:56:53 PM
:'( Breathing collapsed with infection Wednesday 7:15PM, in hospital by 8:30PM, future uncertain. More news as and when. :'(

(typed out by son)

Sorry to learn that.

Get better very soon, Jon!

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Caz on August 22, 2016, 07:21:07 PM
Get better soon Jon, you certainly get your share of health problems makes mine seem a piece of cake. 
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Oldman on August 22, 2016, 07:45:56 PM
All the best Jon thoughs with  you and yours get well soon
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on August 22, 2016, 07:58:35 PM
Fingers crossed, Jon. Get well soon.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on August 22, 2016, 08:17:23 PM
 :sorrysign: to hear that Jon you sure do go through the wars don't you ,I hope you make a speedy recovery.
Bob
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 22, 2016, 08:39:51 PM
So sorry to hear that, Jon. Come back to us soon. Best wishes.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Webbo on August 22, 2016, 11:48:41 PM
Pneumonia? Very sorry to hear this Jon. Hope to see you on the go before long.

Best wishes
Webbo
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on August 23, 2016, 08:22:10 AM
Hey Jon you'd better get well cos if you die I'll kill you!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on August 23, 2016, 03:29:30 PM
Small improvement today, more news at the end of the week I hope.

(typed by son)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Pengi on August 23, 2016, 03:35:33 PM
Wishing you all the best Jon, keep fighting
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: marco neri on August 24, 2016, 05:46:44 AM
What an earthquake tonight...I' m awake from 3,36 tonight....sadly centre of Italy (where I live) is highly seismic zone..

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Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on August 24, 2016, 05:57:01 AM
Quote from: marco neri on August 24, 2016, 05:46:44 AM

What an earthquake tonight...I' m awake from 3,36 tonight....sadly centre of Italy (where I live) is highly seismic zone..

Picking up the news this morning - we are 1 hour behind you. Hope you are OK.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: marco neri on August 24, 2016, 06:01:47 AM
Yes,
Thank you...me and my family are all OK....

Marco


Quote from: daveg on August 24, 2016, 05:57:01 AM
Quote from: marco neri on August 24, 2016, 05:46:44 AM

What an earthquake tonight...I' m awake from 3,36 tonight....sadly centre of Italy (where I live) is highly seismic zone..

Picking up the news this morning - we are 1 hour behind you. Hope you are OK
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: marco neri on August 24, 2016, 06:20:35 AM

http://www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-37171953 (http://www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-37171953)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 24, 2016, 09:46:17 AM
So sorry to hear about the fatalities and injured, Marco. :(
The lovely buildings can be replaced.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on August 24, 2016, 10:19:47 AM
I hope none of your family and friends have been affected by the tragedy ,one of my friends wife's family live in Italy and I've checked with him but they all live in the north but they do have one friend who lives in the area who they are trying to contact but can't get through yet hopefully it's just a communication problem.
Let's hope the death toll doesn't go up more once they start clearing the damage.
Bob
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: marco neri on August 24, 2016, 10:33:52 AM
Hi Bob,
'Til now me, my family and my friends are all OK....communications are very difficult ....telephone lines are all overpowered, especially in our zone...the real problem is that have been shocked many small towns over the mountains (Appennini) very difficult to rescue..roads and bridges are damaged...

Marco
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jerry Howlett on August 24, 2016, 02:18:50 PM
Hi Marco,

We had a couple of small tremors here over the last 2 years they only lasted a few seconds and that is scary. Luckily for us we are too far north to have felt last nights one. Our thoughts are with you and all those affected.

Auguri

Jerry
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: marco neri on August 24, 2016, 02:28:20 PM
Hi,
I know about Tuscany last two years...

Grazie Jerry
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on August 24, 2016, 03:47:12 PM
Hi Marco, glad you & your family are ok. If there's anything we can do just ask.
best wishes Steve
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: marco neri on August 24, 2016, 04:14:17 PM
Hi Steve,
Many thanks for your wishes and thoughts....at moment situation is not too bad.....army, fire fighters and other military polices are doing a good work..
However will be my first thought ask to if you can do anything...

Thank you all guys

Marco
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: marco neri on August 26, 2016, 08:56:24 AM

Last (sad) news..
It seems there are 3 english victims...owner of an holiday-house in that zone...

Marco
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jerry Howlett on August 26, 2016, 09:39:10 AM
Marco,

The UK TV stations are giving this huge coverage, heard about the huge "aftershock" this morning, and they have said there have been 600 small aftershocks. That must be worrying for everyone.

Once again I wish you all the best.

Jerry






Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on August 26, 2016, 10:03:33 AM
Keep us posted Marco ,it's very sad when nature takes a turn for the worst.
But at least you and your family and friends are all ok.
I'm sure every one on the forum feels sorrow for those families that that have lost relatives and friends .
Bob
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: REGP on August 26, 2016, 10:31:43 AM
Marco

Glad to hear you and your family are OK, I hadn't realised you were so near to the centre.

Ray
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Oldman on August 26, 2016, 06:13:13 PM
Fed up with this hot weather, have had a visit to A&E due to breathing problems on Wednesday,
Been told by the Gp and respiratory team at the hospital to take it easy and not do anything strenuous once the temp gets over 26°or I shall be back in A&E on oxygen.
Not good because of the impending home move.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on August 26, 2016, 07:29:54 PM
Quote from: Oldman on August 26, 2016, 06:13:13 PM
Fed up with this hot weather, have had a visit to A&E due to breathing problems on Wednesday,
Been told by the Gp and respiratory team at the hospital to take it easy and not do anything strenuous once the temp gets over 26°or I shall be back in A&E on oxygen.
Not good because of the impending home move.
So sorry to hear that Oldman. But with a bit of luck the British weather will be back to the normal chill and buckets of rain soon...
:beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Sprintex on August 26, 2016, 07:45:58 PM
Quote from: austinbob on August 26, 2016, 07:29:54 PM
Quote from: Oldman on August 26, 2016, 06:13:13 PM
Fed up with this hot weather, have had a visit to A&E due to breathing problems on Wednesday,
Been told by the Gp and respiratory team at the hospital to take it easy and not do anything strenuous once the temp gets over 26°or I shall be back in A&E on oxygen.
Not good because of the impending home move.
So sorry to hear that Oldman. But with a bit of luck the British weather will be back to the normal chill and buckets of rain soon...
:beers:

Here's hoping!

Flippin' sick of this heat now  >:(


Paul
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 26, 2016, 08:17:00 PM
Our nearest A & E has been closed as they can't staff it :unimpressed:
The next one is miles away.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on August 26, 2016, 08:17:43 PM
Quote from: Sprintex on August 26, 2016, 07:45:58 PM
Quote from: austinbob on August 26, 2016, 07:29:54 PM
Quote from: Oldman on August 26, 2016, 06:13:13 PM
Fed up with this hot weather, have had a visit to A&E due to breathing problems on Wednesday,
Been told by the Gp and respiratory team at the hospital to take it easy and not do anything strenuous once the temp gets over 26°or I shall be back in A&E on oxygen.
Not good because of the impending home move.
So sorry to hear that Oldman. But with a bit of luck the British weather will be back to the normal chill and buckets of rain soon...
:beers:

Here's hoping!

Flippin' sick of this heat now  >:(


Paul
Typical Brit Paul... Complain if its too cold and also if its too hot.
So what is the ideal Brit temperature???
:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Sprintex on August 26, 2016, 08:20:42 PM
Quote from: austinbob on August 26, 2016, 08:17:43 PM
Quote from: Sprintex on August 26, 2016, 07:45:58 PM
Quote from: austinbob on August 26, 2016, 07:29:54 PM
Quote from: Oldman on August 26, 2016, 06:13:13 PM
Fed up with this hot weather, have had a visit to A&E due to breathing problems on Wednesday,
Been told by the Gp and respiratory team at the hospital to take it easy and not do anything strenuous once the temp gets over 26°or I shall be back in A&E on oxygen.
Not good because of the impending home move.
So sorry to hear that Oldman. But with a bit of luck the British weather will be back to the normal chill and buckets of rain soon...
:beers:

Here's hoping!

Flippin' sick of this heat now  >:(


Paul
Typical Brit Paul... Complain if its too cold and also if its too hot.
So what is the ideal Brit temperature???
:D

Not me, I NEVER complain about it being cold. Would rather it was 2 degrees C than 22! ;)


Paul
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Buffin on August 26, 2016, 08:21:50 PM
Ideal temperature? Colder if it's hot, and hotter if it's cold  :doh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on August 27, 2016, 01:27:15 PM
With all these complaints about the heat it beats me how the Brits managed to conquer so many hot countries.

I doubt if they would be able to do it again today  :)

Best regards,


Joe
(in Paris, 35°C)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Yet_Another on August 27, 2016, 03:51:56 PM
It was mostly the Scots. They wore skirts. ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Agrippa on August 27, 2016, 05:06:13 PM
Quote from: Yet_Another on August 27, 2016, 03:51:56 PM
It was mostly the Scots. They wore skirts. ;D

They were in the sporran legion...... ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on August 30, 2016, 08:12:01 PM
Yes and they kilt a few foreigners in the process
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on September 01, 2016, 09:16:08 PM
 :doh: :searchingsign:
Quote from: Oldman on August 26, 2016, 06:13:13 PM
Fed up with this hot weather, have had a visit to A&E due to breathing problems on Wednesday,
Been told by the Gp and respiratory team at the hospital to take it easy and not do anything strenuous once the temp gets over 26°or I shall be back in A&E on oxygen.
Not good because of the impending home move.
Take care my friend.  Once A&E get theiir hands firmly on its  agony to get away fron them
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: paulprice on September 03, 2016, 08:21:30 PM
Is it just me, but am I the only one that thinks model shops that don't clearly price their stock are a little off the wicket
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on September 03, 2016, 08:30:02 PM
Quote from: paulprice on September 03, 2016, 08:21:30 PM
Is it just me, but am I the only one that thinks model shops that don't clearly price their stock are a little off the wicket
Anyone high streetshop, market stall, internet trader or whoever else who doesn't clearly price things or worse still doesn't price it at all gets no business from me.
If they can't show a price then I assume they are overcharging and go no further.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: paulprice on September 03, 2016, 08:38:21 PM
Quote from: port perran on September 03, 2016, 08:30:02 PM
Quote from: paulprice on September 03, 2016, 08:21:30 PM
Is it just me, but am I the only one that thinks model shops that don't clearly price their stock are a little off the wicket
Anyone high streetshop, market stall, internet trader or whoever else who doesn't clearly price things or worse still doesn't price it at all gets no business from me.
If they can't show a price then I assume they are overcharging and go no further.
Exactly I'm not saying who, but I will not be going to Bideford again to visit the shop
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on September 03, 2016, 08:41:53 PM
It needn't all be bad news. About 18 months ago my (then) fiancee swallowed her principles and ventured into a dress shop in Brighton that didn't display any prices. She came out with her wedding dress!!

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 03, 2016, 09:46:45 PM
Quote from: Crooked Spire on September 03, 2016, 09:38:44 PM

Its so they can keep putting up prices each time the manufacturer does even though its old stock.

That's only the same as shops stocking up on ciggies just before a Budget - not illegal but not cricket either :no:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: red_death on September 03, 2016, 10:33:34 PM
Quote from: Crooked Spire on September 03, 2016, 09:38:44 PM
a Farish  loco listed online that is higher than the RRP has ever been.

An RRP is just that a recommendation - a shop is free to set its own price at whatever level they deem appropriate.  If they are too expensive then presumably they won't sell (or at least until they are the only place left to buy it!).
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: paulprice on September 03, 2016, 10:35:16 PM
Quote from: Crooked Spire on September 03, 2016, 09:38:44 PM
Quote from: paulprice on September 03, 2016, 08:21:30 PM
Is it just me, but am I the only one that thinks model shops that don't clearly price their stock are a little off the wicket

Its so they can keep putting up prices each time the manufacturer does even though its old stock. Certainly one of the Bideford models shops does this. They have a Farish  loco listed online that is higher than the RRP has ever been.

Colin

I think you and I are thinking of the same place, still I found a great model shop in Barnstable, spending a week in SR territory had no effect on me though.....
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: paulprice on September 03, 2016, 10:48:57 PM
To me its not a good way to do business, very crafty, still lots of people must find it acceptable. Anyway it means I manage to keep hold of my pennies for a little while longer  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on September 06, 2016, 01:35:05 PM
Well doh... unhappy at myself... a while back the Mrs. brought home from a nice adjustable workbench-style lamp which had fallen off the back of an inventory. As I wasn't doing any modelling at the time, it languished a while until its utility became apparent and has done sterling service. Until the other day, when I rather uncarefully yanked the flexible head in a direction it probably shouldn't, and something made a clicking noise, and it went dead. "Hopefully just the light element", methunk, and ordered a new one. That didn't work. But - being a dab hand at smearing solder about, I thought I'd have a crack at dismantling it to see if I'd twisted a contact somewhere or something... Having dismantled it, I then noticed it has a "push-and-hold" type switch on the base, which if pressed and held, makes it work...

What had happened is that I'd pushed the lamp base slightly off the "workbench" so this switch was no longer in contact with its surface, breaking the circuit... Still at least I have a replacement light element should I needed....
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 06, 2016, 01:55:58 PM
If you'd had a few Germans local to you you could have got them round because, as we know, many Hans make light work :laugh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jerry Howlett on September 06, 2016, 02:06:36 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on September 06, 2016, 01:55:58 PM
If you'd had a few Germans local to you you could have got them round because, as we know, many Hans make light work :laugh:

:smiley-laughing: :smiley-laughing: :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Tom U on September 06, 2016, 03:20:19 PM
I take a dim view of such light hearted jokes.  They turn me off.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on September 06, 2016, 03:40:11 PM
Illuminating comments, guys  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 06, 2016, 03:45:57 PM
I think we should all lighten up, even if Railsquid did take a dim view of the circumstances  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on September 06, 2016, 03:47:50 PM
OK, I know I'm not the brightest bulb in the forum...
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on September 06, 2016, 06:35:28 PM
 :censored: :censored: :censored:

Its only 14 weeks to Christmas and i have just had my first email promoting a Christmas Shop.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 06, 2016, 06:42:41 PM
Quote from: Snowwolflair on September 06, 2016, 06:35:28 PM
:censored: :censored: :censored:

Its only 14 weeks to Christmas and i have just had my first email promoting a Christmas Shop.

:o :goggleeyes: Christmas should be banned until December 1st - at the earliest!!!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on September 06, 2016, 06:50:22 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on September 06, 2016, 06:42:41 PM
Quote from: Snowwolflair on September 06, 2016, 06:35:28 PM
:censored: :censored: :censored:

Its only 14 weeks to Christmas and i have just had my first email promoting a Christmas Shop.

:o :goggleeyes: Christmas should be banned until December 1st - at the earliest!!!

Is that 1st December this year or 2017?

Just checkin'!  :dunce:  :wave:

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 06, 2016, 07:05:26 PM
We could have Christmas just in a Leap Year  ???. Actually I do not mind Christmas, but the adverts/shop stock seems to get earlier every year, that's is why it should not be allowed until December. Mind you, if I have to work during Christmas Day, I get paid triple time, so it's not all bad  ;).
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Sprintex on September 06, 2016, 08:10:29 PM
Delivering mostly Christmas promo stock today  :claphappy:

My favourite time of year, waving goodbye to the horrible hot weather and looking forward to darker evenings and crisp cold mornings. Oh, and CHRISTMAS of course!!  :bounce:


Paul (big kid)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on September 06, 2016, 10:06:40 PM
Quote from: Sprintex on September 06, 2016, 08:10:29 PM
Delivering mostly Christmas promo stock today  :claphappy:

My favourite time of year, waving goodbye to the horrible hot weather and looking forward to darker evenings and crisp cold mornings. Oh, and CHRISTMAS of course!!  :bounce:


Paul (big kid)

My favourite time too---- soon be waving goodbye to horrible cold weather and off to India, Christmas dinner of lobster on the beach, no repeats on telly just sunshine, good food and cheap booze! :claphappy: :laugh: :P
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: camelback on September 07, 2016, 05:14:10 PM
Do not mention der christmas or you vill be shot.
James.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on September 07, 2016, 05:56:03 PM
Christmas    Christmas    Christmas


:Pyou missed
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on September 07, 2016, 07:53:57 PM
Case to transfer a few of these posts to the Happy Thread me thinks  :D

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: camelback on September 08, 2016, 03:37:34 PM
Quote from: steve836 on September 07, 2016, 05:56:03 PM
Christmas    Christmas    Christmas


:Pyou missed
Ve are vatching you and we know where you liff ha haa.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Byegad on September 27, 2016, 07:24:16 PM
I've comprehensively melted the right side of my GF B1 with a soldering iron. :ouch: :poop: :rain: :headbutt: Luckily the chassis is relatively unharmed and the thing still runs.

So I'm looking at buying a suitable body of a 4-6-0 and rebuilding the tender side with plastic card.

Any suggestions for a suitable body?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 30, 2016, 02:35:34 PM
I don't/can't go to the cinema any more as the sound is so loud it pounds through my chest and is most uncomfortable.
This is a great shame as Dan Brown's 'Inferno' is out starring Tom Hanks. Having visited at least 2 of the locations where it was filmed I could follow the book and sort of 'know where I was'
The book itself is an incredibly good read with very disturbing undertones. I guess I'll just have to wait for the DVD :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: lil chris on September 30, 2016, 04:31:54 PM
I have the opposite problem I can hardly hear stuff on the TV, it is either too quiet or too loud when the adverts come on.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on September 30, 2016, 05:07:13 PM
I'm with Chris! Not keen on Dan Brown, though. Started " The Davinci Code" but gave up halfway through. I thought it was a decent story badly written and haven't touched one of his books since.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on September 30, 2016, 05:07:24 PM
Sympathies, Mick.

I'm sure that cinema sound has got a lot louder since most if not all have gone over to digital kit.

With the TV, we've find the sound level is all over the place with the ads booming out if we're not fast enough to the mute button. Best action is to record and watch later so you can speed through the ads.

Other times I need the sub titles on to follow what's going on with all the mumbling and/or rapid dialogue.

Grief! I'm getting old and don't like it one bit.  :(  :worried: Good job I'll have forgotten all this by tomorrow!  :wave:

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on September 30, 2016, 05:08:46 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on September 30, 2016, 02:35:34 PM
I don't/can't go to the cinema any more as the sound is so loud it pounds through my chest and is most uncomfortable.

Me too. Especially the pre-feature ads which for some unearthly reason are at double volume, or so it seems.

I guess that as Medics suggest younger generations are damaging their hearing listening to music too loudly on their ever-present earphones or in cars or when out 'clubbing' (the latter sounds positively Neanderthal), and it's these same generations that provide most of the audiences at the cinemas, then the proprietors maybe think they need especially loud soundtracks to get the dialogue and diatribe across.

Who knows?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 30, 2016, 09:31:03 PM
I had the same situation at the last concert I went to - Paul Rodgers at Wolverhampton.
The main set was wonderful as you could hear everything so clearly, but for the encore(s) I'm sure the sound engineer just punched the volume up to setting 11 and went for a drink. The waves of noise just made me leave.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on October 01, 2016, 02:02:19 PM
So it was you that caused confusion by getting up in the middle of the row in front of me!!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: acko22 on October 06, 2016, 07:05:45 PM
Bugger, balls and  :censored:

I have literally blown my sodding phone up with a grenade!! Long story but doing live house clearance range as safety staff and I forgot my phone in one of the houses and well grenade V a Samsung Galaxy S5 I can now say exclusively say that while they don't explode on charging, they don't react to explosions well either!!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on October 06, 2016, 07:51:45 PM
Quote from: acko22 on October 06, 2016, 07:05:45 PM
Bugger, balls and  :censored:

I have literally blown my sodding phone up with a grenade!! Long story but doing live house clearance range as safety staff and I forgot my phone in one of the houses and well grenade V a Samsung Galaxy S5 I can now say exclusively say that while they don't explode on charging, they don't react to explosions well either!!

Sir, that is really unfortunate, sorry about that I really am.

However I would be lying if I said I didn't just snigger.....

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: red_death on October 06, 2016, 07:55:59 PM
Quote from: acko22 on October 06, 2016, 07:05:45 PM
I have literally blown my sodding phone up with a grenade!! Long story but doing live house clearance range as safety staff and I forgot my phone in one of the houses and well grenade V a Samsung Galaxy S5 I can now say exclusively say that while they don't explode on charging, they don't react to explosions well either!!

PMSL!  :laughabovepost: :laughabovepost: :laughabovepost:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 06, 2016, 08:29:58 PM
No more roaming charges as it's your phone that's doing the roaming......all over the place :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on October 06, 2016, 08:53:44 PM
If you were with Vodaphone it was probably the best thing to do with it. :laugh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 06, 2016, 10:24:59 PM
Now come on peoples - this is not funny, it is a sad day and bear in mind, it could happen to any one of us..........Well those of us who go chucking live grenades about  :-X
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: acko22 on October 06, 2016, 11:53:26 PM
I would have offered to take a picture of what is left but well.... it was a camera phone so....... yeah that's not going to happen!!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on October 07, 2016, 12:00:49 PM
Any possibility of claiming under warranty?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on October 07, 2016, 12:04:58 PM
I doubt it. I,m sure the makers would claim improper use, or some such trumped up excuse.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on October 07, 2016, 12:07:05 PM
Quote from: Malc on October 07, 2016, 12:00:49 PM
Any possibility of claiming under warranty?

Yes, something like:

"Dear Samsung, are you aware that your exploding battery problem may not be limited to the latest models?"

As long as they don't check the remnants you send in for TNT residues you might get away with it. ;)

Or not. :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: zwilnik on October 07, 2016, 12:33:05 PM
Quote from: acko22 on October 06, 2016, 07:05:45 PM
Bugger, balls and  :censored:

I have literally blown my sodding phone up with a grenade!! Long story but doing live house clearance range as safety staff and I forgot my phone in one of the houses and well grenade V a Samsung Galaxy S5 I can now say exclusively say that while they don't explode on charging, they don't react to explosions well either!!

You made it safe with a controlled explosion ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on October 13, 2016, 09:30:58 AM
Well this morning has been fun for the future Mrs Skyline...

Had a series of texts saying her Rover Mini has thrown up an oil warning light and "isn't well".

We have suspected gearbox is not long for this world and she is now concerned she has pushed her too far.

Booked in first thing tomorrow morning, so when the bill lands an entry into the angry thread may be happening.

I said all along old cars (especially those made by Rover with whatever was left in the factory in 2001) are a sure fire way to pain when used as every day transport.

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Sprintex on October 13, 2016, 02:25:55 PM
I've heard quite a few horror stories about the appalling quality of the final run of Minis, almost as if it was "get them out the door at any cost". Someone in the club I belonged to bought a year 2000 Sportpack Cooper and decided to waxoyl inside the wheel arches to protect it. On removing the front wheels he was astounded to find the underside of the wings was in primer with not even any topcoat!  :goggleeyes: And this on a car with no plastic arch-liners like modern cars have, so subject to muck, road salt and everything else chucked up by the tyres!


Paul
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on October 13, 2016, 02:39:25 PM
Quote from: acko22 on October 06, 2016, 07:05:45 PM
Bugger, balls and  :censored:

I have literally blown my sodding phone up with a grenade!! Long story but doing live house clearance range as safety staff and I forgot my phone in one of the houses and well grenade V a Samsung Galaxy S5 I can now say exclusively say that while they don't explode on charging, they don't react to explosions well either!!

:laughabovepost:
If you're quick, you could get a Samsung Note 7 as a replacement. They blow up without having to resort to grenades!  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on October 13, 2016, 02:52:12 PM
Quote from: Sprintex on October 13, 2016, 02:25:55 PM
I've heard quite a few horror stories about the appalling quality of the final run of Minis, almost as if it was "get them out the door at any cost". Someone in the club I belonged to bought a year 2000 Sportpack Cooper and decided to waxoyl inside the wheel arches to protect it. On removing the front wheels he was astounded to find the underside of the wings was in primer with not even any topcoat!  :goggleeyes: And this on a car with no plastic arch-liners like modern cars have, so subject to muck, road salt and everything else chucked up by the tyres!


Paul
Go house hunting in Cowley today and you'll still find rooms decorated in exotic colours such as Aqua, Sunburst Yellow, Oasis Green, Safari Beige. Friends who worked at Cowley in the British Leyland era, have told of how they would 'lift' tins of car paint to decorate their homes. This was seen as a perk of the job. To avoid the bean counters questioning why more paint was being used, less was applied to the product! :o
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Ian Bowden on October 23, 2016, 02:15:45 PM
Morning planned installing sound chips.First up blue pullman, sucessfully installed one end after 4 prayers and a blood sacrifice to the carpet god. First chip produced a fizzing sound and authentic exhaust smell. Continued to fit second chip everything fine until bogey came off. crawl around issuing the incantation "oh dear" and finally find parts. then body wont fit, cut away part if toilet compartment to fit speaker. All ok and running fine-ish.
As no chip for other end of pullman start on deltic. Comes apart easily (in my experience a bad omen). fitted chip with little problem just had to trim the top of the cab end slightly. As there is little room for speaker I fitted a minature speaker. Again no difficulty and it should fit in roof :hmmm: first test it worked but I could barely hear the sound. Oh well plan B cut part of body to fit speaker, need full strip down for that and there is already a suspect connection to the motor due to a slip with screwdriver. One chip fitted one blown and one partly working a good morning.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on November 08, 2016, 12:19:47 PM

Re this:

Quote from: Skyline2uk on October 13, 2016, 09:30:58 AM
Well this morning has been fun for the future Mrs Skyline...

Had a series of texts saying her Rover Mini has thrown up an oil warning light and "isn't well".

We have suspected gearbox is not long for this world and she is now concerned she has pushed her too far.

Booked in first thing tomorrow morning, so when the bill lands an entry into the angry thread may be happening.

I said all along old cars (especially those made by Rover with whatever was left in the factory in 2001) are a sure fire way to pain when used as every day transport.

Skyline2uk

£2200.00

:headbutt:

That is all

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on November 08, 2016, 12:25:05 PM
Quote from: Skyline2uk on November 08, 2016, 12:19:47 PM

Re this:

Quote from: Skyline2uk on October 13, 2016, 09:30:58 AM
Well this morning has been fun for the future Mrs Skyline...

Had a series of texts saying her Rover Mini has thrown up an oil warning light and "isn't well".

We have suspected gearbox is not long for this world and she is now concerned she has pushed her too far.

Booked in first thing tomorrow morning, so when the bill lands an entry into the angry thread may be happening.

I said all along old cars (especially those made by Rover with whatever was left in the factory in 2001) are a sure fire way to pain when used as every day transport.

Skyline2uk

£2200.00

:headbutt:

That is all

Skyline2uk

Ouch!

Difficult to judge when a car is past fixing but that's gonna hurt.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on November 08, 2016, 12:31:31 PM
Any other car I would have scrapped.

But this one has actually gone up in value since we got it (not enough to cover that cost but hey) and the Mrs-to-be really loves it.

Plus, the case for my Revolution 92s is a slam-dunk now, THEY shouldn't decide to fire their oil pump through their own gearbox....(fingers crossed anyway).

Skyline2uk

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Mirrlees on November 08, 2016, 01:23:08 PM
Quote from: Skyline2uk on November 08, 2016, 12:19:47 PM

Re this:

Quote from: Skyline2uk on October 13, 2016, 09:30:58 AM
Well this morning has been fun for the future Mrs Skyline...

Had a series of texts saying her Rover Mini has thrown up an oil warning light and "isn't well".

We have suspected gearbox is not long for this world and she is now concerned she has pushed her too far.

Booked in first thing tomorrow morning, so when the bill lands an entry into the angry thread may be happening.

I said all along old cars (especially those made by Rover with whatever was left in the factory in 2001) are a sure fire way to pain when used as every day transport.

Skyline2uk

£2200.00

:headbutt:

That is all

Skyline2uk

Ouch  :veryangry2:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on November 08, 2016, 01:40:33 PM
Thanks mate

Oh, and in case people are wondering why this is still on the "Unhappy thread" rather than the "Angry thread".....

I suppose I am not really angry.....just disappointed.....

As I shall demonstrate to the mini when it returns with a large branch from a nearby bush....a-la Basil!

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Croxy on November 08, 2016, 02:00:28 PM
Ugggg.....hate those unplanned breakdowns so annoying...... I was on a motorcycle trip a few years ago and my Harley Davidson decided to self destruct in West Virginia.....needless to say the wife wasn't too happy about having to drive 8 hours to rescue me and then turn around and come back home.....then there was the repeat drive the following weekend to retrieve the bike......all because of a 1 dollar piece of plastic.......would have been 6,000 to repair.

.....needless to say I got rid of it and am back on a Honda now.......

There comes a time when you have to decide if it's really worth fixing.........don't want to throw good money after bad.....if the repair was more than the car is worth.....I'd cut my losses.......

Very frustrating for you.......  :sorrysign:

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on November 08, 2016, 02:42:15 PM
(http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/45/2975-081116142627.jpeg)

:help: My railway room's been trashed!  :uneasy:

We're having the kitchen rebuilt and the boiler relocated and everything is jammed into the two spare bedrooms and the loft. And, to add to the hilarity of nations, the pup's come into season!

There has been drink taken...

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Croxy on November 08, 2016, 02:54:25 PM
Quote from: Papyrus on November 08, 2016, 02:42:15 PM
(http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/45/2975-081116142627.jpeg)

:help: My railway room's been trashed!  :uneasy:

We're having the kitchen rebuilt and the boiler relocated and everything is jammed into the two spare bedrooms and the loft. And, to add to the hilarity of nations, the pup's come into season!

There has been drink taken...

Cheers,

Chris

:laughabovepost: :laughabovepost: :laughabovepost:

How annoying with all of those line obstructions......better get Network Rail crews in there to sort it out.........  :goggleeyes: :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Webbo on November 09, 2016, 07:08:02 AM
Quote from: Skyline2uk on November 08, 2016, 12:19:47 PM

I said all along old cars (especially those made by Rover with whatever was left in the factory in 2001) are a sure fire way to pain when used as every day transport.

Skyline2uk


Not all old cars are a sure fire way to pain. My dear 1997 Mitsubishi has just passed 300,000 km and is still running strongly. Over the years repair costs have almost all been restricted to wear-out items like brake linings, tyres, muffler, clutch, battery etc,. She doesn't have any of the modern gizmos like Blue Dentures, but she can still pick up her skirts and go. Good for carrying dogs and depreciation is zero. As I type this, I'm touching wood.

(http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/45/4229-091116070652.jpeg) (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=gallery;sa=view&id=45322)

Webbo


Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on November 10, 2016, 02:23:40 PM
Fnaargh, a week off work and I end up with a stubborn will-sapping cold leaving me barely able to contemplate running the odd train, let alone any actual modelling. On the plus side I seem to have hallucinated my way to a modified track plan, which - if it is doable - will remove the unsatisfactory bits of the current design. Purists will still hyperventilate at the implausible juxtapositions but it works for me.  :angel:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on November 10, 2016, 04:41:26 PM
Hope you feel better soon, Squiddy. That's if you want to feel better or keep enjoying the hallucinations :laugh3:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on November 10, 2016, 06:40:41 PM
Free hallucinations !

That's not to be "sneezed" at. :D

Get well soon.


Joe
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on November 10, 2016, 07:18:26 PM
Quote from: railsquid on November 10, 2016, 02:23:40 PM
  Purists will still hyperventilate at the implausible juxtapositions but it works for me.

As long as it works for you, let the other hyperventilate at your implausible juxtapositions  :thumbsup:.  Hope the hallucinations are of the nice kind!  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: DELETED on November 10, 2016, 11:18:03 PM
Very minor thing in the grand scale of things but I am annoyed with myself:

A while back I convinced myself (sucsessfully) NOT to buy any railway magazine which chooses to include and wrap junk mail inside a sealed plastic bag.  Today I broke that rule buying latest Hornby hermetically sealed magazine again :doh:
Second -I like Hornby Magazine but while one of the great contributors is an exceptional modeller and a great contributor to the magazine including his Ngauge works -I cannot stand anything to do with him as he's mixed political views with his hobby on his own website. He's only about 12 miles from me which is unusual to find in the Highlands around Inverness! But such a shame we are a million miles apart.  Ignorance would have been bliss which is why we should never be allowed to bring national politics into hobbies!!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on November 12, 2016, 02:42:54 PM
Feeling depressed after yet another sleepless night the good lady and I went to the seaside fours days ago for a short walk and some Pie'n'Chips.
That cheered me up. :thumbsup:

Today a letter arrived to celebrate our journey to the sea. A nice little missive from my good friends at the Lincolnshire Police Traffic Process Unit. Something about photographic evidence and a 30 mph limit.  :doh:

Now I'm even more cheerful.  :(

Better buy another model train. :D

That'll restore the balance. :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on November 25, 2016, 06:07:42 PM
Despite my best laid plans it seems I will be unable to attend my first Warley show this weekend due to very poor health of late.

Still, I wish everyone, exhibitors and visitors alike, a successful show - and don't spend too much! :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on November 25, 2016, 07:06:55 PM
Hope it is nowt too serious Mike and that you soon improve. And never mind missing Warley - think of the money you have saved!  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on November 25, 2016, 07:21:45 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on November 25, 2016, 07:06:55 PM
Hope it is nowt too serious Mike and that you soon improve. And never mind missing Warley - think of the money you have saved!  :beers:

Many thanks is David, I've had a long term illness for over 25 years but the current sapper of my strength is late-onset asthma that began in May after serious bronchitis and is yet to stabilise.  Getting there though, albeit haltingly slowly.

But as to saving money....... unfortunately this iPad on my lap is connected to some mysterious force that channels various packages directly to my door! ;). Three are due any day now. :D

:beers: - -and maybe a glass or two of Cuba's finest with lime and Coke. :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on November 25, 2016, 08:02:15 PM
unfortunately this iPad on my lap is connected to some mysterious force that channels various packages directly to my door!

My laptop does that - must have the same fault  ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: colpatben on November 25, 2016, 08:10:44 PM
Just seen my estranged Fathers empty house in a Cornish village on rightmove. Not sure how I feel as I know the will named a charity as the benificiary.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on November 25, 2016, 08:35:59 PM
Quote from: daffy on November 25, 2016, 06:07:42 PM
Despite my best laid plans it seems I will be unable to attend my first Warley show this weekend due to very poor health of late.


Hope you're feeling more chipper very soon, Mike.

Quote from: colpatben on November 25, 2016, 08:10:44 PM
Just seen my estranged Fathers empty house in a Cornish village on rightmove. Not sure how I feel as I know the will named a charity as the benificiary.

That's got to have created a wide range of emotions, Colin.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on January 14, 2017, 05:59:54 PM
So... when I win the EuroMegaBallBillion lottery or whatever (note to self: buy tickets) I will employ some mad scientist types to build me a time machine and I will go back to the 1960s and personally hunt down all N gauge manufacturers and forcibly force them to use a Single Standardized Coupling Socket. They can stick with the Arnold coupler,or go with some weird proprietary design, as long as it can be pulled out and replaced by another arbitrary type, and that without having to dismantle the locomotive/power car chassis.   >:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on January 14, 2017, 10:48:01 PM
Quote from: railsquid on January 14, 2017, 05:59:54 PM
So... when I win the EuroMegaBallBillion lottery or whatever (note to self: buy tickets) I will employ some mad scientist types to build me a time machine and I will go back to the 1960s and personally hunt down all N gauge manufacturers and forcibly force them to use a Single Standardized Coupling Socket. They can stick with the Arnold coupler,or go with some weird proprietary design, as long as it can be pulled out and replaced by another arbitrary type, and that without having to dismantle the locomotive/power car chassis.   >:D

Oddly I was talking to my good lady this very morning about the lack of clarity, for me at least, of what couplers are out there, what's compatible with what, and what's good and what's bad, how they are each mounted, and why on Earth are there so many different types?

Okay, so the answer to the last one is pretty obvious, but I can't help but hanker after a thread on here penned by a knowledgeable set of individuals who can set the current situation straight.

As a newcomer to N, I have recently bought a few trains from Kato and Fleischmann (and a Tomix track Cleaning car) and already there are 4 different coupling types to contend with. And as for understanding what NEM pocket types there are, and all the other couplers that may fall into my possession over the coming years, I am, as with many things these days, confused.

There are some posts on this forum on the subject, but a dedicated and comprehensive thread would be an asset.

Any takers? It would make me and I'm sure many others, very happy.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on January 15, 2017, 12:16:08 AM
Quote from: daffy on January 14, 2017, 10:48:01 PM
Quote from: railsquid on January 14, 2017, 05:59:54 PM
So... when I win the EuroMegaBallBillion lottery or whatever (note to self: buy tickets) I will employ some mad scientist types to build me a time machine and I will go back to the 1960s and personally hunt down all N gauge manufacturers and forcibly force them to use a Single Standardized Coupling Socket. They can stick with the Arnold coupler,or go with some weird proprietary design, as long as it can be pulled out and replaced by another arbitrary type, and that without having to dismantle the locomotive/power car chassis.   >:D

Oddly I was talking to my good lady this very morning about the lack of clarity, for me at least, of what couplers are out there, what's compatible with what, and what's good and what's bad, how they are each mounted, and why on Earth are there so many different types?

Okay, so the answer to the last one is pretty obvious, but I can't help but hanker after a thread on here penned by a knowledgeable set of individuals who can set the current situation straight.

As a newcomer to N, I have recently bought a few trains from Kato and Fleischmann (and a Tomix track Cleaning car) and already there are 4 different coupling types to contend with. And as for understanding what NEM pocket types there are, and all the other couplers that may fall into my possession over the coming years, I am, as with many things these days, confused.

There are some posts on this forum on the subject, but a dedicated and comprehensive thread would be an asset.

Any takers? It would make me and I'm sure many others, very happy.
I think there was an article on the subject in the NGS journal not so long ago, but I suspect it wasn't comprehensive. I'm just waking up to the wide range of coupling types Kato in particular makes use of. I discovered one of my locos needs a type I'd never seen before, luckily it's not a problem to get hold of the parts here.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on January 20, 2017, 02:35:45 AM
It's after 2:30 in the morning and I'm still awake - again! :( The prospect is, if all goes according to form, that I shall still be awake as the big hand is on the 12 and the little one is between 5 and 6. :(
In the interim I shall be, in turns, jumpy, exhausted, shattered, half-dead and going out of my mind.
Then, at last I shall go to sleep, not to wake again until at least an hour later! :(

Such has been my nightly joy now for months, with few respites, as the drugs I have to take to control the asthma that originated back in April continue to demonstrate their intolerance to me.

I put it that way because it makes me feel better, but in truth it's this damned body of mine that is the villain of the peace. I've got more intolerances than I care to mention, and this is just the latest. Doc's had me on more variations on a theme of asthma control than I can accurately recall, and though the asthma doesn't bother me much at all now (unless I stop taking the drugs), the drugs do!

So it'll be back to the Doc next week for yet another review and a request to come off the steroids - it's them at the root of this - and try the non-steroidal approach. But they are none too effective, it seems, and have their own group of side effects that will probably......................... :(

Ah well, at least it's peaceful here - except for the idiot tapping his fingers on an iPad screen. :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on January 20, 2017, 04:19:55 AM
hope you can drift.of soon   Had a few rounds of heavy.duty insomnia myself  , never fun.

Early afternoon hete in Tokyo so wide awake of course.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 20, 2017, 10:23:52 AM
Very sorry to hear that, Mike, and hope things improve for you very soon.
I tend to find watching snooker or darts has the desired effect but don't think it will do for you :no:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on January 20, 2017, 11:32:46 AM
There's always the Australian open tennis which Mrs B puts on....  :sleep:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on January 20, 2017, 11:53:07 AM
Quote from: Bealman on January 20, 2017, 11:32:46 AM
There's always the Australian open tennis which Mrs B puts on....  :sleep:

Have you never considered that she puts it on for just that reason? :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on January 27, 2017, 12:07:40 PM
My e-bay account has been hacked and hijacked. >:(
13 items were listed for sale, i-phones etc around US$600 each.  They were listed on 25/1/17 for ending in about a week but half "sold" within 2 days.  Now two buyers have start requests for refunds.

Contacted e-bay who blocked any money transfers, reset my account balance to zero, reset my password, removed the listings.  Stated that they will take care of correspondence arising and I am not responsible for any transactions.
Now just going through the long process of changing passwords to something new I am sure to forget. :(

Haven't a clue how my account was compromised. ???

CFJ
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on January 27, 2017, 12:26:45 PM
That's awful.

And though eBay have picked up the reigns of the problem and cleaned your account, have they kept your good seller status intact? Hope so.

I doubt you will ever know just how this has happened, but if it happens to banks and large corporations with their protective systems etc, what chance is there that individuals can counter the determined hacker?

Here's hoping you can get back to normal as soon as possible.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 27, 2017, 12:35:19 PM
It's always a shock when something like this happens as it's a violation.
I hope everything gets back to normal for you very soon.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on January 27, 2017, 12:41:05 PM
This getting old trip is very depressing.
Made a PCB for 4 CT current sensors as test prototype board unit works fine, then decided I also need a couple of PCBs with only 2 current sensors on each.  So run Eagle and delete 2 sensors of components.  Make a couple of the 2 sensor boards, populate one and test.  Doesn't work.
Try to see what I did wrong, an hour later realise that the comparator chip has been wired for inputs 3 & 4 but the outputs are for 1 & 2.  :'(  Some copper track cutting and some jumper wires and IT WORKS.  OK back to Eagle to fix the errors.

Decided to make some PCBs for my arduino to Loconet circuit.  Prototyping board ones work fine but I need about 20 so PCB it is.  Trusty Eagle out again, make PCB design, print, etch, drill, tin, and populate.  Doesn't work! ???  Can set board addresses but it won't respond to DCC requests.
Found the problem, had hooked the comparator inputs the wrong way around.  Just need to cut some tracks, move a resistor, add two wire jumpers.  Cut out the 22K resistor rather than the 220K resistor, arrrrgh.  :laugh3:

CFJ
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on January 27, 2017, 12:47:31 PM
I had to give up making circuit boards when my wife complained of the funny colour her not so stainless sink was going.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on January 27, 2017, 12:50:07 PM
I can sympathise with line 1 but I'm refusing to join so staying at an ever-young almost 70!

As for the rest of your postNinO z, I have absolutely no idea what you are talking about but it sounds awful!

Hope you get better soon.  :wave:

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on January 27, 2017, 12:51:33 PM
Quote from: NinOz on January 27, 2017, 12:41:05 PM
This getting old trip is very depressing.
Made a PCB for 4 CT current sensors as test prototype board unit works fine, then decided I also need a couple of PCBs with only 2 current sensors on each.  So run Eagle and delete 2 sensors of components.  Make a couple of the 2 sensor boards, populate one and test.  Doesn't work.
Try to see what I did wrong, an hour later realise that the comparator chip has been wired for inputs 3 & 4 but the outputs are for 1 & 2.  :'(  Some copper track cutting and some jumper wires and IT WORKS.  OK back to Eagle to fix the errors.

Decided to make some PCBs for my arduino to Loconet circuit.  Prototyping board ones work fine but I need about 20 so PCB it is.  Trusty Eagle out again, make PCB design, print, etch, drill, tin, and populate.  Doesn't work! ???  Can set board addresses but it won't respond to DCC requests.
Found the problem, had hooked the comparator inputs the wrong way around.  Just need to cut some tracks, move a resistor, add two wire jumpers.  Cut out the 22K resistor rather than the 220K resistor, arrrrgh.  :laugh3:

CFJ

What's that in English? :-[ :doh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on January 27, 2017, 12:54:54 PM
See what happens when you get old.

Can't even hype intullegbly. :drool:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on January 27, 2017, 01:04:38 PM
Getting old is compulsory. Growing up, however, is entirely optional and I have no intention of doing so!
After all I'm only 70.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: mickeyflinn on January 27, 2017, 01:13:45 PM
Quote from: steve836 on January 27, 2017, 01:04:38 PM
Growing up, however, is entirely optional .......................

I quite agree.
I'm still young at 54, but I still watch Thunderbirds (both the original & the new series) & buy models & toys relating to it.
I also enjoy looking through Hot Wheels cars whenever I see them (but I am mainly looking for TV related models).
I was also bought a Lego VW Beetle for Christmas to add to my Lego VW Camper Van & Lego Mini Cooper!!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on January 29, 2017, 03:24:30 PM
Gawdammit I hate smate@r$3phones, Mrs. Squid managed to get hers slightly damp a while back and it decided to no longer work, so I procured a replacement (there's a locomotive which won't get bought) which decided to give up the ghost in some other interesting way. Fortunately it seems in the intervening period the original phone seems to have dried out and work again, but it cost me an evening faffing about. Grrr.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on January 29, 2017, 03:38:11 PM
Quote from: railsquid on January 29, 2017, 03:24:30 PM
Gawdammit I hate smate@r$3phones, Mrs. Squid managed to get hers slightly damp a while back and it decided to no longer work, so I procured a replacement (there's a locomotive which won't get bought) which decided to give up the ghost in some other interesting way. Fortunately it seems in the intervening period the original phone seems to have dried out and work again, but it cost me an evening faffing about. Grrr.

Look on the bright side - you now have a spare phone, (if you have another evening spare to faff about to get it working).   ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on January 29, 2017, 03:53:27 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on January 29, 2017, 03:38:11 PM
Quote from: railsquid on January 29, 2017, 03:24:30 PM
Gawdammit I hate smate@r$3phones, Mrs. Squid managed to get hers slightly damp a while back and it decided to no longer work, so I procured a replacement (there's a locomotive which won't get bought) which decided to give up the ghost in some other interesting way. Fortunately it seems in the intervening period the original phone seems to have dried out and work again, but it cost me an evening faffing about. Grrr.

Look on the bright side - you now have a spare phone, (if you have another evening spare to faff about to get it working).   ;D
The faffing about has revealed that the "spare" device will probably need its battery replaced, which I could probably do myself if I follow a 20-step guide off the interwebs after acquiring the requisite specialist tools, or farm out to a specialist shop, which will cost the equivalent of another couple of coaches (this is how I measure things these days :D ). Still, #firstworldproblems, there was a time in my life living in the former East Berlin when I was unable to have even a humble landline phone.

Oooh, did I mention the Squidlet has managed to dislodge an elastic band-like traction tyre from his "Plarail" tram? Repairable but it seems I need to acquire a special triangular screwdriver (cost: ca. 1 Japanese freight wagon) to do that.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on January 29, 2017, 04:57:33 PM
QuoteOooh, did I mention the Squidlet has managed to dislodge an elastic band-like traction tyre from his "Plarail" tram? Repairable but it seems I need to acquire a special triangular screwdriver (cost: ca. 1 Japanese freight wagon) to do that.

If you mean a triangular socket in a screw or bolt head, many of these will undo with a standard flat-head screwdriver bit. Just needs to be a snug fit and ever so slightly smaller than one side of the triangle. :thumbsup:

Or use a Birmingham screwdriver. ;) :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 29, 2017, 05:51:02 PM
Quote from: daffy on January 29, 2017, 04:57:33 PM

Or use a Birmingham screwdriver. ;) :D

:computerangry: :computerangry: ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on January 30, 2017, 07:46:08 PM
I just discovered I have arthritis in my hands.

Is this a deal breaker for N gauge modelling ?

Best regards,


Joe
(59 years old)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on January 30, 2017, 07:51:11 PM
Quote from: joe cassidy on January 30, 2017, 07:46:08 PM
I just discovered I have arthritis in my hands.

Is this a deal breaker for N gauge modelling ?


Not at all Joe. You may well find that you have to use the help of the numerous aids that are available, like the 'third hand', even things like pegs, foldback clips, rubber bands etc., but arthritis is not a bar to modelling - even 'n' gauge. I have arthritis in my thumbs - it just means I have to be a bit careful. Hope it is not too bad.  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on January 30, 2017, 07:56:56 PM
Thanks for the words of encouragement.

I too have it in my thumbs.

I had difficulty taking selfies one-handed with my phone this weekend - my other arm was round my girlfriend's shoulders.

Best regards,


Joe
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on January 30, 2017, 07:57:31 PM
I don't think so Joe. SWMBO is an avid knitting fan and was diagnosed with arthritis some years ago and was advised to keep knitting - and that's exactly what she did. She's just knitted half dozen cardigans and a blanket for our great granddaughter.
So just keep at it while you can would be my advice. What does your doctor say?
:beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on January 30, 2017, 08:03:54 PM
Quote from: joe cassidy on January 30, 2017, 07:56:56 PM

I had difficulty taking selfies one-handed with my phone this weekend - my other arm was round my girlfriend's shoulders.


See what I mean about using aids - you could have used one of those selfie stick things  :). Mind you, I am not sure what you could use to cuddle your girlfriend  :goggleeyes: :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on January 30, 2017, 08:07:01 PM
Thanks Bob.

I haven't discussed it with the Doc yet - I'm just going by the report that came with the X-rays.

I'm just worried that he'll tell me that if I don't take loads of steroids every day, in a few a years my hands will look like chicken's feet.

Best regards,


Joe
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: scotsoft on January 30, 2017, 08:14:56 PM
I have arthritis in almost every moving joint and I can manage most things to do with n gauge. Those I can't manage I find the mechanical aids mentioned do help with the other things.

Cheers John.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on January 30, 2017, 08:19:52 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on January 30, 2017, 08:03:54 PM
See what I mean about using aids - you could have used one of those selfie stick things  :). Mind you, I am not sure what you could use to cuddle your girlfriend  :goggleeyes: :smiley-laughing:

To quote Marvin Gaye :

"Ain't nothing like the real thing"

Thanks to all for your reassuring words. I'll let you know what the doc says at the end of the week.

Best regards,


Joe
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Mito on January 30, 2017, 09:02:35 PM
I too have arthritis in several fingers and in the shoulders coupled with calcified tendons in my arms. If you're into alternative medicine then cider vinegar and honey is worth considering. There is plenty of info on the net about it. Don't take steroids. They will do you more harm than good.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on January 30, 2017, 09:12:21 PM
Thanks for the words of encouragement Mito.

I've noted :

1) OK for fish and chips at least 3 times per week (with cider vinegar)
2) a glass or two of cider (or something similar) with every meal in case the vinegar doesn't work

Best regards,


Joe
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on February 02, 2017, 11:31:48 AM
The Doc confirmed that I have arthritis.

I was hoping that it might be repetitive strain injury but no such luck  :(

Best regards,


Joe
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on February 02, 2017, 11:44:50 AM
Sorry to hear that, Joe. :(
I went through decades of serious arthritic pain before getting a replacement hip and all is well now.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on February 02, 2017, 07:52:36 PM
I wonder if a replacement hip will help those of us who have arthritic thumbs  ??? ;D. Seriously, glad "all is well" with you now NPN.  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on February 02, 2017, 07:55:13 PM
With his artificial hip and bypass surgery, he is being changed into the Million Dollar Man in stages. 😃
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on February 02, 2017, 08:01:09 PM
The fact that the arthritis could spread is the thing that worries me.

If I sleep too long on my side I sometimes feel pain/discomfort in my hips.

Time for another glass of cider vinegar (at the pre-vinegar stage and made from grapes rather than apples).

At least I'm still young in my head !

Best regards,


Joe
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Mito on February 02, 2017, 09:24:44 PM
Sorry to hear it's been confirmed. Do try the cider vinegar honey mix.  It does work, albeit slowly. Alcohol is an excellent pain killer. :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on February 07, 2017, 08:58:29 PM
I'm unhappy about the way that a newcomer to this forum, who unwittingly started a poll about which railway company people prefer, was shot down in flames without anyone explaining to him in a kind way that his poll was unrealistic.

Best regards,


Joe
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: mr bachmann on February 07, 2017, 09:29:20 PM
totally agree with the above , after all La'al Ratty never got a mention  :( :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on February 07, 2017, 09:43:51 PM
Quote from: joe cassidy on February 07, 2017, 08:58:29 PM
I'm unhappy about the way that a newcomer to this forum, who unwittingly started a poll about which railway company people prefer, was shot down in flames without anyone explaining to him in a kind way that his poll was unrealistic.

Best regards,

Joe

My thoughts entirely, Joe.
OK - the poll was very constrictive in options but the thread subject itself was quite interesting :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on February 07, 2017, 10:44:25 PM
I agree Joe. :thumbsup:

I've noted a propensity for this bad form of late on some threads.  The poll is a case in point, but I have noted it a few times lately where a poster has asked a perfectly legitimate question, or made a particular point or statement, but receives answers or comments in reply that are, well, rude and uncalled for IMO.

We come here to ask for or give of information (and waffle and jape a lot too)  and those asking are often confused by what they have previously tried, been advised, or read and so are looking for clarity, not censure or criticism.
Asking a question is a signal for help, and those replying should do so with grace, kindness and understanding.
And if a question or request is not understood, or poorly phrased, we should simply ask the O.P. for clarification or further information.

And if we disagree with a statement or viewpoint of another, we may argue or debate, but we should never decry or insult.

Courtesy costs nothing and is invaluable.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jerry Howlett on February 08, 2017, 09:32:02 AM
I will apologise here to @funnysunny365 (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=5938), for ANY OFFENCE CAUSED by my response to his poll.

Jerry
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on February 08, 2017, 10:12:40 AM
Basically, the moderating team certainly do not want to upset or alienate any members of this forum, especially new ones!  :thumbsup:

However, the poll seemed to be an enthusiastic venture which really wasn't going anywhere.

George
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on February 08, 2017, 12:40:30 PM
Perhaps the moderating team could send a private message to such offenders instead of inflicting a public humiliation on them.

Remember our motto :

"Welcome ! There is no such thing as a stupid question."

Best regards,


Joe
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on February 08, 2017, 12:44:34 PM
Quote from: joe cassidy on February 08, 2017, 12:40:30 PM
Perhaps the moderating team could send a private message to such offenders instead of inflicting a public humiliation on them.

Remember our motto :

"Welcome ! There is no such thing as a stupid question."

Best regards,


Joe
Sounds like a good idea...
:thankyousign:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on February 13, 2017, 10:57:20 PM
Quote from: Herzel on February 13, 2017, 10:50:12 PM
Incensed but not angry - the ridiculous prices of DCC decoder chips.

I'm looking for a GWR 57xx. At Hattons one (not GWR) for DC (DCC ready) comes to c£70.
The "Great Western" model "DCC fitted" comes to £98.

WHAT? £28 for an item that probably costs less than £1 to make and sell in China. Talk about rip off. 

Now I suppose I have to look for a good used one. I am NOT paying £28 for something I don't want.
Or maybe there are other shops.

...

If you can source DCC decoders for £1 each I will take 100  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on February 14, 2017, 12:02:06 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on August 18, 2016, 04:25:29 PM
Last year my GP referred me to a consultant at Chorley hospital regarding my breathlessness and this resulted in me having a triple by pass in January 2016.
Today I have been to see this consultant in Chorley and his first question to me when I walked into his consulting room was "Have you had your operation yet?" to which my reply was "You're joking, right? Are you telling me you don't know?"
I filled him in on the details and then he asked me what medications I was on. At this point I blew my stack and shouted at him "Why aren't such details on your  :censored: computer system? How come you know so little about my medical history considering you referred me for the operation in the first place?"

Nothing is overshadowing my happiness at getting my driving licence back but I find the lack of communications/computer systems in the medical arena to be absolutely shocking. All those years ago a great fuss was made in my medical practice about putting all my records on computer so they could be accessed by anyone who needed to know my medical history. Bah :censored: :censored: :censored: :censored:


Oh dear. I have to go to the hospital Thursday afternoon to see the above moronic consultant. I wonder if he'll have read any notes off the computer or will just ask silly questions again. I guess there will either be a post from me in The Angry Thread or an ASBO served on me for assault :uneasy:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jimbo on February 14, 2017, 12:29:08 PM
He wasn't the one who did the op then? Mind you, wouldn't surprise me if he was! There are some good ones around though. There doesn't seem to be a personal touch anymore sadly, i'm sorry to hear that, good luck on Thursday  :thumbsup:.....try and stay calm!  :uneasy:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on February 14, 2017, 02:13:20 PM
Quote from: Herzel on February 14, 2017, 09:05:31 AM
Quote from: Snowwolflair on February 13, 2017, 10:57:20 PM
Quote from: Herzel on February 13, 2017, 10:50:12 PM
Incensed but not angry - the ridiculous prices of DCC decoder chips.

I'm looking for a GWR 57xx. At Hattons one (not GWR) for DC (DCC ready) comes to c£70.
The "Great Western" model "DCC fitted" comes to £98.

WHAT? £28 for an item that probably costs less than £1 to make and sell in China. Talk about rip off. 

Now I suppose I have to look for a good used one. I am NOT paying £28 for something I don't want.
Or maybe there are other shops.

...

If you can source DCC decoders for £1 each I will take 100  :D

I'm sure it would promote DCC far more - better still sell them as a loss-leader to get the thing in - manufacturing cost I'm guessing is about 30p. I'll send you a sackful when I find out who makes them.

I've had some dealings with the Chinese / electronics, so have a good idea of what such things cost. (I did a bit of work on a similar thing: MIDI back in the day when it was hewn from solid silicon!

But there it is. The hobby cutting its own throat. Fashion is one thing. Getting ripped off is another.

:D
I'd switch to DCC in an instant at that price. Unfortunately I have ca. 150 non-DCC-compatible units (many of them multiple), price + conversion effort is a no-no.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on February 14, 2017, 03:11:51 PM
Nothing like as bad as Mick's aggro but our 2 year old fridge/freezer packed up last night.

Best the service/repair people can do is a week today so mad panic moving as much stuff as poss to the old freezer in the garage plus some to kind neighbours who have room in theirs.

Now, after half a dozen chaser type phone calls, we're told there's a discrepancy in the paperwork for our new solar panels and a huge reduction on what we'll be paid for the power we generate.

Bah!  :censored:

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: red_death on February 14, 2017, 03:12:41 PM
Quote from: Herzel on February 14, 2017, 09:05:31 AM
I'm sure it would promote DCC far more - better still sell them as a loss-leader to get the thing in - manufacturing cost I'm guessing is about 30p. I'll send you a sackful when I find out who makes them.

I've had some dealings with the Chinese / electronics, so have a good idea of what such things cost. (I did a bit of work on a similar thing: MIDI back in the day when it was hewn from solid silicon!

But there it is. The hobby cutting its own throat. Fashion is one thing. Getting ripped off is another.

But manufacturing is hardly the dominant cost for decoder manufacturing (some are not made in China but in Europe still).  R&D and other overheads have a much greater impact when you are only selling a relatively small number of chips (compared to mass market consumer electronics DCC decoders are a tiny business).

So you might well be right that the manufacturing cost is £1 or less, but that isn't really relevant...

Cheers, Mike
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Nick on February 14, 2017, 03:54:23 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on February 14, 2017, 12:02:06 PM
Oh dear. I have to go to the hospital Thursday afternoon to see the above moronic consultant. I wonder if he'll have read any notes off the computer or will just ask silly questions again. I guess there will either be a post from me in The Angry Thread or an ASBO served on me for assault :uneasy:

Take a deep breath, and console yourself that you're not alone with these troubles. I had similar problems with my second eye problem, 18 months ago. One doctor (a registrar, I think) read my file and somehow concluded that I'd had an op when I hadn't - the problem fixed itself.  He was looking at my retinal problem from the previous year, I think! :headbutt:

Then he wanted me to keep going back for check ups, even though my sight had recovered, and the consultant was ready to sign me off, because: "Most people feel better if we keep reviewing..."

Not me!! I hate walking in through the doors of the place. It's a damn good job they don't check my blood pressure in the eye clinic. It'd blow the top of the sphygmomanometer thingy if they were still using the old fashioned sort! :veryangry:

Best of luck, nobby.

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on February 14, 2017, 04:17:58 PM
Quote from: Jimbo on February 14, 2017, 12:29:08 PM
He wasn't the one who did the op then?

No - he was the one who put me onto Blackpool hospital (they were wonderful folks).

Quote from: Nick on February 14, 2017, 03:54:23 PM

Best of luck, nobby.



Thanks Nick. I must admit I get 'white coat' syndrome :uneasy:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: REGP on February 14, 2017, 04:36:05 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on February 14, 2017, 04:17:58 PM
No - he was the one who put me onto Blackpool hospital (they were wonderful folks).

Well at least he got something right then!

Ray
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on February 14, 2017, 04:41:56 PM
Good luck with your appointment Mick @newportnobby (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264) .

I've had to see an Orthopaedic Consultant for my back and neck.
I've had to seen ENT Consultant for my ears and nose and ...er.. throat.
I've had to see a Respiratory Consultant for my chest.
I've had to see an Opthalmic Consultant for my eyes.
I've had to see a Psychiatric Consultant for my mind.
And I've had to see a Maxillo-Facial Consultant for my teeth.

But I've never had to see a Moronic Consultant, so I guess one part of me must still be perfectly healthy. :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on February 14, 2017, 09:20:16 PM

@daffy (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=5634)
Thanks, Mike.
I need to be nice to him as I want him to get me a chest X ray as I'm not sure my 'zipper' is healing properly and there may also be some residual nerve end damage. If he does get the X ray I'd also like him to run it past an oncologist as, up until the op, I had smoked for 50 years and it would be good to know if all is OK in that respect.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on February 14, 2017, 09:35:19 PM
Sounds like a good plan for Thursday Mick - "be insistent" is my motto when I see the Docs and anything is worrying me.
:beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on February 14, 2017, 09:38:58 PM
@newportnobby (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264)  Good luck on Thursday Mick. Now I can not complain over the way I have been treated by the Irish 'elf service, apart from the time things have taken. However,, when I got the "we can't see anything obviously wrong" speech last November, (after 3 years of tests and waiting), I was told to return this May and to take the results of a recent PSA test with me. A lady in the Doctors surgery rang me four weeks ago to arrange a blood test in April! Anyway, I have to take the results with me to see the specialist in May and a thought struck me  :ouch:. Why do I have to make a 200 mile round journey to take the results with me, so the specialist can say that the new tablets are doing their job, or not as maybe, when everything could be done over the 'phone  ???. Apart from the specialists time and my time and, as I work nights, I will have to take 2 days off work, the appointment could be allocated to someone who is at the begininng of their treatment.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Ian Bowden on February 14, 2017, 11:14:48 PM
Quote from: Jimbo on February 14, 2017, 12:29:08 PM
He wasn't the one who did the op then? Mind you, wouldn't surprise me if he was! There are some good ones around though. There doesn't seem to be a personal touch anymore sadly, i'm sorry to hear that, good luck on Thursday  :thumbsup:.....try and stay calm!  :uneasy:
they wear masks so you don't recognise them.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jerry Howlett on February 16, 2017, 03:15:06 PM
Hope all went well today Mick @newportnobby (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264) .

Had a trip to Lucca Hospital today to pick up results for Mrs "H"'s latest scan, now all we need is someone with a degree in Astro Physics to decipher it all. Decided to open a bottle of wine instead...

Jerry
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on February 16, 2017, 04:11:52 PM
Great decision Jerry.  :thumbsup:

Here's hoping there's good news hidden in those galactic scribbles.

All the best to you both.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on February 16, 2017, 04:25:07 PM
Quote from: Jerry Howlett on February 16, 2017, 03:15:06 PM
Hope all went well today Mick @newportnobby (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264) .


And the same from me!

Jerry - hope 'Mrs H' gets the news she wants - as Dave G says "All the best to you both".  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on February 16, 2017, 04:30:56 PM
@dannyboy (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=4209)

Please see............
http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?topic=670.msg429857#msg429857 (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?topic=670.msg429857#msg429857)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Steamie+ on February 23, 2017, 05:10:27 AM
Had my 2nd redundancy consolation yesterday and now the Flipping boss's are moving the goal posts. It now seems i may and will have to work 10 weeks after the day they give there are now two of us earmarked for redundancy, the other guy still only has to do 30 days which equates to 3 weeks 3 days to work, i will need to carry on until beginning of June.

They never mentioned anything about 10 weeks to me in the 1st consolation, only 30 days, it seems now that i have been with them for 10 years they can evoke this rule, it is so they don't have to pay me any redundancy pay for which they cant claim back any tax and while i now will have to pay tax on the pay, i will end up worse off. Heart is not in the job anymore, seems i won't get any management perks like a lot i hear about.

Ten years and you are thought less of nowadays......  :very angry:   

I think i may have put this in the wrong Thread...... :( :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on February 23, 2017, 08:13:24 AM
Are you gonna look for another job or retire Steamie?
If you look for another job then you can use the 10 weeks to go to interviews etc. That'll give you a chance to look around while your still getting paid.
If you're gonna retire then more time to do the N gauge stuff.
Hope everything works out ok for you.
:beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jimbo on February 23, 2017, 08:52:34 AM
I'm very sorry to hear that Steamie  :(......keep a stout heart, I hope you find some way of dealing with this and hopefully there will be a satisfactory outcome for you.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on February 23, 2017, 09:15:32 AM
 :sorrysign: to hear your news Steamie this happened to me a few years ago but they paid me from Dec to Feb .I signed on the first week in Feb and and my son asked me o drive him down to our local retail park ,we noticed a poster in one of the unocupied shops it was for Argos I asked my wife to call in to the Argos in town and pick up a form filled it in popped it down to the shop ,nexr day had a phone call went for interview got the job ,in the mean time recieved a cheque from job center phoned and said I have found a new job so sign me of .The following week I got a letter saying as I had now got a job can I return the money that they sent .
I sent the letter back with something I cant repeat on here written in big black felt tip ,never heard another word from them .I worked at Argos for five years before I retired ,and it was the first time in my working life I had a really nice leaving present.
Bob
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on February 23, 2017, 09:30:18 AM
Sorry to hear this Steamie. Has the other guy worked for less years than you. I am wondering why you will be worse off as the company will have to pay you Statutory Redundancy Pay as well as for the 10 weeks work period.

Or am I misunderstanding your situation?

Full details about redundancy on the .Gov website here:
https://www.gov.uk/redundant-your-rights/overview (https://www.gov.uk/redundant-your-rights/overview)

Whatever happens, look forward to the next big adventure if you can.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on February 23, 2017, 10:33:50 AM
 :thumbsdown: I think very few employers these days have any soul, few see employees as anything more than just numbers.

I hope you find a positive outcome @Steamie+ (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=5847) and can look back on this with a wry smile soon.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on February 23, 2017, 11:51:12 AM
Quote from: Bob Tidbury on February 23, 2017, 09:15:32 AM
I worked at Argos for five years before I retired ,and it was the first time in my working life I had a really nice leaving present.
Bob

@Bob Tidbury (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=3442)
Did you have to wait 3 minutes and collect it from Counter B? ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on February 23, 2017, 03:20:05 PM
Mick Im not joking we would have been sacked if we took that long , in our store we had a wall full of certificates for the fastest store in the south . A lot of people dont realise how many people work in the stores apart from Christmas there was one person in the stockroom upstairs one downstairs doing the picking AND the collection counter and one on the till and one in jewelry the only time we took that long was if we had a young girl or me upstairs and you had to pick flat pack furniture or something upstairs was on the top shelf of the rack which was 16 ft high .Occasionally you could call on the jewelry assistant to help out if there was a few customers .The under manager sometimes helped as I just couldnt run round like youngsters but I was very good on the collection counter in fact I was sellected  by winning the Argos X factor in London Victoria store and was in one of the training videos  I had to go to Liecester Fosse Way store for the filming with five other winners, we had good fun .
When our store opened we really had a good team it was very hard work for me at my age.  Argos is definately a job for youngsters and after five years I had to admit I just couldnt cope anymore .
So if you hear of people knocking Argos just let them know and see if they would work at that pace.
Bob
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Steamie+ on February 24, 2017, 06:39:11 AM
Quote from: daffy on February 23, 2017, 09:30:18 AM
Sorry to hear this Steamie. Has the other guy worked for less years than you. I am wondering why you will be worse off as the company will have to pay you Statutory Redundancy Pay as well as for the 10 weeks work period.

Or am I misunderstanding your situation?

Full details about redundancy on the .Gov website here:
https://www.gov.uk/redundant-your-rights/overview (https://www.gov.uk/redundant-your-rights/overview)

Whatever happens, look forward to the next big adventure if you can.

Thank you for your comment Mick, i am so confused about it all, at the 1st meeting they said i would have 30 days notice and may be paid for the 30 days, get Garden leave for which i am led to believe is paid but if required to go in to work if needed or work the 30 days notice. But now they are saying 10 weeks, again i have been told because they have to give me 1 weeks notice for every year of service, which is ok if i don't have to work it, but has i have said my heart isn't in the job anymore, even my manager has said he can see it isn't and it would be better for all concerned if they finished me on the 15th of March. 

I didn't sleep that well before all this, but now i hardly get any sleep at all.    :( :( :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Steamie+ on February 24, 2017, 06:44:32 AM
Quote from: austinbob on February 23, 2017, 08:13:24 AM
Are you gonna look for another job or retire Steamie?
If you look for another job then you can use the 10 weeks to go to interviews etc. That'll give you a chance to look around while your still getting paid.
If you're gonna retire then more time to do the N gauge stuff.
Hope everything works out ok for you.
:beers:

Thanks Bob, they have said yes i can go for job interviews ( they are required by law to allow me ) but the contract manager has said because i start at 10am try to get the interview before then or even come to work and then go later for the interview, i won't repeat what i was thinking at the time.      :censored:

I am going to retire whatever the outcome and yes more time to work on the layout, i am surely missing working on it everyday like i used to before.  :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on February 24, 2017, 08:55:52 AM
Rod, the company may be following the rules but I would strongly urge you to see someone like Citizens Advice just to make sure.  Give them all the facts and they will check that all is above board, or not. From what you are saying it does seem that the company is not exactly sure of its responsibilities when it comes to redundancy and payment in lieu of notice.

It all depends on your employment contract with them, that is, what notice they legally have to give you. I suggest you don't go into contract details here, but with the Citizens Advice people because they will be better placed to give best advice. However, keep posting developments and worries here so we can all keep supporting you.

By getting independent advice you will at least have the knowledge that you made sure you looked after Number One.

It might help you sleep once the uncertainties are more clearly understood.

Take care.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Fardap on February 24, 2017, 09:01:51 AM
Totally agree with Daffy don't just believe what they are telling you get independent advice Citizens Advice will know or put you in touch with someone who does.

Regarding the interviews, they cannot dictate to you when you take the interviews, you are also eligible to take training courses during that time, re-training/learning, again CAB will know all this and advise accordingly.

Good luck, whatever your eventual plans make sure you get everything you are owed out of it.


Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Yet_Another on February 24, 2017, 10:43:44 AM
I absolutely agree with this. Definitely get some independent advice, because having recently been through redundancy myself, my experience doesn't tally with what you're being told.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Nick on February 24, 2017, 11:12:59 AM
Hi Rod,

First, every sympathy for your situation - redundancy is not a pleasant process to be caught up in. I've been through it too many times - on both sides of the fence, as an employee, as a manager (more than once) and as a husband and as a parent. It's always a horribly difficult situation which is extremely hard to handle because of the emotions flowing around.

I'm a chartered accountant, not an HR professional, so I can't give you professional advice as such on this.  But daffy is absolutely right - CAB will be able to help you, or a trade union rep, or, ideally, a friendly HR manager if you or any of your family or friends know one. They can talk to your specific financial circumstances, contracts, rights, etc.

If you don't want to seek out one of these, I strongly recommend reading these pages on  gov.uk (https://www.gov.uk/redundant-your-rights/notice-periods). They may answer your questions, point you in a helpful direction, or even set your mind at rest that you aren't being mistreated. Even if they just prepare you for a face-to-face chat they will be helpful.

It's impossible for me to know exactly, but FWIW this is my take on the issues that you have flagged up:
Best of luck - this phase of tension, distrust and uncertainty over dates, entitlements and plans is the worst part emotionally speaking for most people, mainly because of the sense of not being in control of your life. It will pass, and you will emerge into the sunlit uplands of endless railway modelling...  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on February 24, 2017, 03:52:16 PM
Back at the biginninng of Feb. my wife slipped on the back path and ended up on her b*m  :(
She eventually got back indoors and came upstairs in tears of agony.
After a week of taking painkillers she eventually  drove  :doh: to the GPs.
Still taking prescribed tablets she is no better and still in agony if she tries to drive.
I think I shall have to call the doctor out to see her after the weekend
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on February 24, 2017, 05:50:27 PM
Quote from: jonclox on February 24, 2017, 03:52:16 PM
Back at the biginninng of Feb. my wife slipped on the back path and ended up on her b*m  :(
She eventually got back indoors and came upstairs in tears of agony.
After a week of taking painkillers she eventually  drove  :doh: to the GPs.
Still taking prescribed tablets she is no better and still in agony if she tries to drive.
I think I shall have to call the doctor out to see her after the weekend
Worth trying an osteopath, Jon. I've not had much luck with GPs with my back. The osteopath has sorted me out a few times.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on February 24, 2017, 08:59:22 PM
Quote from: Malc on February 24, 2017, 05:50:27 PM

Worth trying an osteopath, Jon. I've not had much luck with GPs with my back. The osteopath has sorted me out a few times.
Thanks Malc but as even getting in and out of a car is agony  Driving or even being a passenger in a car  is not going to be easy.
Ive just found one within 2 miles of us and will contact them on Monday
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on February 24, 2017, 10:08:07 PM
Jon, if the pain is that bad I suggest A&E as soon as possible. Did the GP have the injury X-rayed? It could just be a trapped nerve or disc, but it might equally well be a fracture, and two days agony to wait for someone who might not be able to help will seem like a lifetime to your wife.

I would call an ambulance now if I were you if you have no other way of getting her to hospital. She should not drive herself.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Mito on February 25, 2017, 09:54:05 PM
+1 to above. There is no point in suffering any longer than is necessary.
M y wife suffers too from reduction in lung capacity, a non specified lung disease. I don't know what it's called in English. She has been in hospital for a week for an op and strangely during that time she has used no oxygen nor taken any cortisone. Normally she has 2 to 3 hours a day on oxygen and a quarter to half a tablet of cortisone. I'm not suggesting you have an op :no: . I can give you details of the medications she has if you are interested. The latest have certainly improved her capacity.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Steamie+ on February 26, 2017, 06:40:13 AM
Quote from: Nick on February 24, 2017, 11:12:59 AM
Hi Rod,

First, every sympathy for your situation - redundancy is not a pleasant process to be caught up in. I've been through it too many times - on both sides of the fence, as an employee, as a manager (more than once) and as a husband and as a parent. It's always a horribly difficult situation which is extremely hard to handle because of the emotions flowing around.

I'm a chartered accountant, not an HR professional, so I can't give you professional advice as such on this.  But daffy is absolutely right - CAB will be able to help you, or a trade union rep, or, ideally, a friendly HR manager if you or any of your family or friends know one. They can talk to your specific financial circumstances, contracts, rights, etc.

If you don't want to seek out one of these, I strongly recommend reading these pages on  gov.uk (https://www.gov.uk/redundant-your-rights/notice-periods). They may answer your questions, point you in a helpful direction, or even set your mind at rest that you aren't being mistreated. Even if they just prepare you for a face-to-face chat they will be helpful.

It's impossible for me to know exactly, but FWIW this is my take on the issues that you have flagged up:

  • giving 30 days notice is not part of the legal rules, so I assume that it is the minimum notice period in your contract of employment. But, since you have worked in your job for over 2 years, you are legally entitled to more: one week for each year of service (to a maximum of 12 weeks). It sounds like someone didn't realise the details of your situation at first, which isn't ideal, to say the least. IMHO, it's inexcusable. :veryangry:
  • Many companies, perhaps most, don't actually require people to work this notice period out - they pay a PILON (Payment in Lieu of Notice) and release you, taking the view that long-faced employees hanging on with  their hearts not in the job are no help to anyone, and in certain circumstances can be actively damaging/dangerous. Yours isn't taking that route. But since they would probably prefer not to pay you, and you apparently would have preferred to go earlier, there may be room for a little give and take over this. But, but, but - take specific advice on the knock-on consequences if you go down that route.
  • you are entitled to "reasonable" time off for job hunting. But my understanding is that you are only entitled to be paid for a small amount of it. If you are on a five-day week, that is for just two days in total (40% of a week)  So if you took a day off each week for the 10 week period, you could be docked 8 days' pay (10 days - 2 days). Although he or she may have put it with all the tact of a runaway elephant, your contract manager may have been doing you a favour with their advice - if you go for interviews outside work time, you won't be docked pay.
Best of luck - this phase of tension, distrust and uncertainty over dates, entitlements and plans is the worst part emotionally speaking for most people, mainly because of the sense of not being in control of your life. It will pass, and you will emerge into the sunlit uplands of endless railway modelling...  :)

Firstly Thank You so much for your reply Nick, it is very encouraging to get so much friendly helpful advice. There was mention of PILON, but they weren't very clear about what or how it would be implemented i.e. If i would need to work it / how much i would paid and it may reduce my redundancy payment, how it wasn't explained clearly to me. They kept on saying did i understand what was being said, all i could think at the time what are they saying to me, (its you said 30 days notice and now 10 weeks and i may not get what we mention in our 1st meeting) my head was all over the place.

2nd i asked do i have to take a position they may find for me that i feel is not suitable, (at the pst meeting the HR person said "No if you don't feel like it is for you, you don't have to" then in my 2nd meeting so turned around and said yes you do other wise i would lose any right to redundancy pay. It really does seem has they don't won't to pay me at all and what me to work my notice. Is it true that they only have until the end of the notice when they 1st said i was in danger of being made redundant which is 30 days and will end on the 15th of March, they have until then to try to find me a suitable position within company.

Thanks again for your help Nick

Rod.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Nick on February 26, 2017, 05:59:31 PM
Quote from: Steamie+ on February 26, 2017, 06:40:13 AM

Firstly Thank You so much for your reply Nick, it is very encouraging to get so much friendly helpful advice.

No worries. I've pm'ed you in reply, rather than post what turned into a long message into this thread.

All the best
Nick
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Calnefoxile on February 27, 2017, 11:59:45 AM
Quote from: jonclox on February 24, 2017, 08:59:22 PM
Thanks Malc but as even getting in and out of a car is agony  Driving or even being a passenger in a car  is not going to be easy.
Ive just found one within 2 miles of us and will contact them on Monday

Jon,

I suspect she may have damaged her Coccyx, right at the base of her spine, it's the remnants of 'our' tails.

My missus did pretty much the same and she was in agony for weeks, as they reckoned that she'd fractured it. There really is not much that can be done except strong painkillers and tea & sympathy.

Regards

Neal.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on February 27, 2017, 12:15:58 PM
Quote from: Calnefoxile on February 27, 2017, 11:59:45 AM
Quote from: jonclox on February 24, 2017, 08:59:22 PM
Thanks Malc but as even getting in and out of a car is agony  Driving or even being a passenger in a car  is not going to be easy.
Ive just found one within 2 miles of us and will contact them on Monday

Jon,

I suspect she may have damaged her Coccyx, right at the base of her spine, it's the remnants of 'our' tails.

My missus did pretty much the same and she was in agony for weeks, as they reckoned that she'd fractured it. There really is not much that can be done except strong painkillers and tea & sympathy.

Regards

Neal.

I fractured my coccyx around a decade ago. Now (still) need my orthopaedic cushion when sitting anywhere for more than an hour, car, sofa, work. I have this cushion:
https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B007W2MX1I/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o03_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1 (https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B007W2MX1I/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o03_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on February 27, 2017, 01:28:44 PM

The pain has now shifted down to her ankle area but anti inflamitary  tablets are at last seeming to be taking effect.
She is still waiting to see  what the  oesteopath has to say about things :doh:................(and you think that I am stubbon)  :doh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Steamie+ on February 28, 2017, 04:17:31 AM
Hope she gets some relief soon Jon, she must be in a lot of pain, it's not easy sitting when you have hurt the bottom of your spine and it seems now it has travelled down to her ankles, i suspect it is hard for her to walk now .

Hope you wife gets better soon, take care Jon.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread/ Feeling Down
Post by: Steamie+ on March 02, 2017, 07:43:07 AM
Well i have tried to be positive this week but it doesn't seem to be working, had these little pains most of the week and feeling tired a lot, Anne bless her has tried very hard to get me going but the work situation is really getting me down, hopefully seeing the Grandsons this weekend at the Preston show will bring me back to my normal self, in fact i know i will. Not sleeping much at all, getting up every hour to go to the loo, i do get back to sleep almost straight away, but no energy for anything. Got at least another week and a half to go before i find out if they what me to work another 10 weeks or let me go on the 15th March.

Come on the weekend and the kids will make me smile they always do.     :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread/ Feeling Down
Post by: austinbob on March 02, 2017, 08:30:41 AM
Quote from: Steamie+ on March 02, 2017, 07:43:07 AM
Well i have tried to be positive this week but it doesn't seem to be working, had these little pains most of the week and feeling tired a lot, Anne bless her has tried very hard to get me going but the work situation is really getting me down, hopefully seeing the Grandsons this weekend at the Preston show will bring me back to my normal self, in fact i know i will. Not sleeping much at all, getting up every hour to go to the loo, i do get back to sleep almost straight away, but no energy for anything. Got at least another week and a half to go before i find out if they what me to work another 10 weeks or let me go on the 15th March.

Come on the weekend and the kids will make me smile they always do.     :)
A good model railway show followed by a couple of pints of non track cleaning IPA might help you feel better.
Hope things get resolved soon. There's nothing worse than uncertainty about important matters.
:sorrysign: :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on March 02, 2017, 09:42:46 AM
I'm sure the Preston Show will cheer you up, Steamie, but I'm not sure about the couple of pints of non track cleaning IPA.
That might increase the loo visits to every ½ hour! :worried:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Steamie+ on March 03, 2017, 03:30:52 AM
Quote from: newportnobby on March 02, 2017, 09:42:46 AM
I'm sure the Preston Show will cheer you up, Steamie, but I'm not sure about the couple of pints of non track cleaning IPA.
That might increase the loo visits to every ½ hour! :worried:

I am sure the show will Mick, the Daughter will be there to stop me spending to much too, though i may get something for the boys..lol.    :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Rob H on March 03, 2017, 10:55:07 AM
@Steamie+ (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=5847)
I really feel for you having to go through this trauma, but have you sought out any professional help yet ?
It seems to me that you're putting yourself through a lot of pain and anguish, perhaps unnecessarily, seeking advice could pay great dividends in the future.
If you've already sought advice and it hasn't helped, I'm sorry and really hope things work out for you,
Rob.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on March 07, 2017, 01:36:19 PM
Quote from: jonclox on February 24, 2017, 08:59:22 PM
Quote from: Malc on February 24, 2017, 05:50:27 PM

Worth trying an osteopath, Jon. I've not had much luck with GPs with my back. The osteopath has sorted me out a few times.
Thanks Malc but as even getting in and out of a car is agony  Driving or even being a passenger in a car  is not going to be easy.
Ive just found one within 2 miles of us and will contact them on Monday
Things are finally improving and Ann was able to drive a couple of miles today......still in miscomfort but the pain is far less as long as she takes things slowely
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on March 07, 2017, 02:18:10 PM
Glad to hear she is improving, Jon. I found sitting down a problem, so I invested in one of these...
Beurer HK35 Electronic Heat Pad . It did help me. https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B001KPMN1I/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_tai_OcSVybC7THAN8 (https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B001KPMN1I/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_tai_OcSVybC7THAN8)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Steamie+ on March 08, 2017, 03:30:54 AM
Really glad to hear that Jon.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Steamie+ on March 08, 2017, 03:36:22 AM
It's getting weird this, tried to modify post and the error came up again.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jimbo on March 08, 2017, 07:43:13 AM
That's good to know Jon.....let's hope things improve further.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on March 21, 2017, 07:55:22 PM
Life's getting to be a struggle lately, particularly with my asthma, which first appeared this time last year, still proving difficult to get under control. >:(

I've lost count of the drugs that the Docs have tried so far, but after a visit to hospital yesterday I'm on an increased dose of the latest one, with a new prescription for another to add to it if it proves troublesome.

Well, after another bad nights sleep and a day feeling like something you're supposed to scoop and bag, I'm pretty sure Plan B (or is it Plan 276?) will soon see the light of day.

Funny thing is I got some blood test results yesterday that the Respiratory Nurse introduced with a lovely long laugh: seems I'm a bit allergic/intolerant of a lot of things. They measure this by what are known as IgE levels, and the bottom line is that the Reference Range for these in your average normal person is between zero and 120. Mine comes in at a supreme 1648! :goggleeyes:

Top of the allergen culprits so far is the little arachnid known as the House Dust Mite, the particular allergen being........ its poop and pee!   :worried: Seems on that score alone I am over 270 times more sensitive to the little blighters than most folks. :o. Shrimps and Prawns are now a no-no, and long grass (the stuff with the long seed heads like silky smooth ears of corn - aka Timothy grass) is a problem for me.

Of course, they didn't test everything - "thousands of possibles" said the nurse - so I think I'll start living in a plastic bubble like Michael Jackson once did. :(  Now we have just another 1230 of those IgE thingummybobs to identify.

But at least I have a good idea where the asthma is coming from. :). As to where it's going to.............. :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on March 21, 2017, 08:04:10 PM
At least you're not allergic to alcohol  :beers:

Best regards,


Joe
P.S. John Travolta was "the boy in the bubble"
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on March 21, 2017, 08:07:09 PM
Quote from: joe cassidy on March 21, 2017, 08:04:10 PM
At least you're not allergic to alcohol 

He might be - they just have not tested for it yet  :smiley-laughing:. (Sorry Mike).
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on March 21, 2017, 08:17:15 PM
Er.... um.... yep! :(. Alchohol has long been identified as something that causes me real problems. Not the usual ones, but even in very small quantities - one short or half a pint of best - I get lots of unwanted side effects, all of which mean I avoid the stuff. (I only enjoy a pint with others as an emoji.)

Ain't life grand! :D

:beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jimbo on March 21, 2017, 08:19:25 PM
Sorry to hear all that Mike, what a palaver!  :uneasy:, a good friend of mine suffered with his chest a lot and i'm sure that was a lot to do with dust mites, got rid of all his carpets in the end and layed laminate flooring in every room in the house, (With some help of course) and eventually things did improve a fair bit......once the dust settled from all the work!!!  :confused1:, anyway all the best with it and hope something can be done to ease the problem.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on March 21, 2017, 08:36:15 PM
Jon Clox has some new inhalers that  sound like they could be a good substitute for booze ?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on March 21, 2017, 09:23:57 PM
So sorry to hear that news, Mike. It must be very debili deebill knackering for you.
I guess the condition precludes you from pets as well?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on March 21, 2017, 09:44:24 PM
Oddly not, Mick. Tests came back negative for cat and dog allergens. Go figure. :hmmm:

Glad you managed to choose the right descriptor eventually. ;) :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Webbo on March 21, 2017, 10:46:46 PM
Daffy, from your signature, I take it that succotash in on your list of no-nos as well?

All seriousness aside, are these allergies something you have developed later in life? Over the last 6 months, my wife has developed something that the doctor thinks is irritable bowel syndrome. Not sure what causes highly adverse and uncomfortable reactions in her digestive system, but wheat products, pulses (peas etc.), oat meal, most cheeses, onions, are some of the identified culprits. The trouble is that leaving these things out of her diet has not fixed the problem so there may be many other foods that should be avoided. This situation is not just a nuisance, but it is an affliction that reduces quality of life as it does yours I'm sure, Mick. And, no more pizza for me.

Webbo
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: kiwi1941 on March 21, 2017, 11:45:13 PM
Daffy -My father suffered from asthma for some years in the 1950's until it was determined that he had an allergy to Penicillium mould growing in our cellar; we moved and, although he was never the same again, he lived to 86. He too could not drink beer without becoming wheezy, presumably due to the yeast mould remnants present. Might be worth mentioning it to your nurse/GP. HTH, Brian
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Steamie+ on March 22, 2017, 05:05:30 AM
Hi Mick, you will get to the stage when everything is a no no to you, i think will all have something we are allergic to at some point like watching idiots on telly shouting when they are trying to be funny, seriously though i really feel for you, Anne has now been told after a trip to the hospital yesterday to see her consultant that her Broncilitous, how ever you spell it, is getting worse, slowly making her life harder, but she still has the heart of a Lion and she gets on with her life has best has she can.

Really hope you can get something sorted Mick at least you have still got your sense of humour and it doesn't stop you from going on your layout.     :thumbs:

(NPN)         Deliberating  lol      :thumbs:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on March 22, 2017, 09:22:02 AM
Thanks all. :thumbsup:

I just reckon I'm allergic to modern living - something that many seem to be experiencing in one way or another. Been ill in odd ways - nothing you would call 'major' thank heavens - for the last 27 years. Asthma is just a recent complication that has hit me harder than I like. Collectively all my problems can be very debilitating a lot of the time, and things occasionally, like when I started this rant, get on top,of me.

Still, I mainly keep cheerful, play the guitar badly and the fool better, and continue to grab what I can out if life. At the moment that's lots of little Swiss trains. :D

Now, if I can just get this darned builder to get a door knocked through to my garage I can get the proper layout built! >:(. All I have to do is avoid the dust! :thumbsup:

Ps - I'll comment on questions asked later - have to go out and get new bedding and stuff to combat the evil dust mite right now.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Fardap on March 22, 2017, 11:40:47 AM
As previously mentioned changing to hard flooring might help, also a hoover with a HEPA filter which catches those excremental blighters would seem a worthy purchase...
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on March 22, 2017, 11:36:28 PM
Evening all - well, we spent a bit of money today on new bedding, including anti-allergy pillows, and protective bug-proof covers for pillows and mattress. Also looking into room/house humidity and the merits or otherwise of air purifiers.
All sorts of info in the www, but a lot of it is sales hype, but when filtered out and proper research looked at (as a scientist I always look to The Cochran Collaboration for the real gen), there is consensus on the mite problem associated with bedding and carpets.
My wife exhausted herself yesterday throughly cleaning my bedroom, and we shall establish a strict and very frequent cleaning regime there, and in the rest of the house.  Thankfully we already use a HEPA rated vacuum, as Fardap suggested.
Now working out the cost of carpet changing to wood floor or some such - bit annoying as we recaroeted with top quality when we moved in just I er 3 years ago. But health is more important than wealth.

The allergens that dont affect me asthma-wise are lots of the usual suspects: moulds, fungi, animal dander, weed spores and pollens...... it's a long list. I'm hoping to get tested for as many things as I do find troublesome in other ways, most of which are foodstuffs, and these have been bothersome for decades: pure sugar, peppers, vinegar and other acidics, onions, most spices and herbs, yeast extract, malt extract, white flour,  cornflour, sodium nitrate, potassium nitrite, most chocolate, coffee, ...... the list goes on, and jeez, ain't eating boring these days!

@Webbo (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=4229) , your wife has my empathy and sympathy, cos finding out what mucks us up is a painstaking business, and finding your favourite foods are the things that cause you harm is just not funny or welcome. And sometimes you start to wonder if you're imagining it all! Sadly, you're not. My own journey has been a long one and started more than 30 years ago, though I only know that with hindsight. I've been aware however now for over 20 years. I have found the 'no' list getting longer, and occasionally something's get back on the 'yes' list for a while, only to return to the 'no' list at some indeterminate point. But at least my diet is one of the healthiest on the planet, even if I continue to feel like the proverbial pile.  I do hope your wife gets to the root of what is causing her the greatest problems. Professional help via proper allergy tests - bloods and skin-prick testing, is something I heartily recommend, but the old adage (well, it's my old adage anyway) is 'If what you just ate makes you feel lousy just like the last time(s) you ate it, STOP EATING IT cos your body is telling you it don't like it.'

As for alchohol, it does affect asthma, and mucks up the drugs, but I have a long-standing problem that means low dose alcohol just makes me ill. I often call it 'alchohol poisoning' just cos the term seems to fit the headaches, yucky feeling, and overall debility it engenders. And with half a pint inside me I know I would not be capable of driving a car, the effect is that strong. And to think that back in my twenties I used to think I was an alchoholic cos I was always the 'last man standing' at beer and spirit based parties. How things change.


Right, that enough from me - if I tell you any more about myself I could be subject to identity theft!  ;) Time to let other unhappy folks get a look in on this thread. :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Webbo on March 23, 2017, 12:10:24 AM
Thank you Daffy for your supportive words. And, I hope that your new bedding makes a big improvement for you.

Since I've known my wife she has been somewhat lactose intolerant and intolerant to MSG and something in white wine that sets off migraines. If you know what the enemy is, you can deal with it. What has happened lately is that the list of foods that are causing severe digestive problems has expanded greatly and is only imperfectly known. She will be getting allergy tests done as you suggest.

Webbo
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on March 23, 2017, 08:06:44 AM
As your wife's symptoms are this troublesome I would recommend more than allergy testing. I'm sure you are arware of the many digestive tract conditions that can cause discomfort, but all can be ruled in or out with testing, and it may be that a simple lifestyle change is all that is needed, such as (for example only) a need to avoid gluten to alleviate Celiac Disease, or avoiding the foods that cause IBS.

I've had all sorts of tests in my life, and all kinds of worries of what it might or might not be that affects me.  I have therefore had cameras sent where cameras shouldn't go, and samples of this that and the other sent to all manner of labs. Thankfully the photographic survey was just a pleasant  ;) excursion to visit uncharted and uncorrupted territory, but the others gave answers and assurances. All I wish is that I'd asked for it to be done earlier to save all the worry I went through, which is a waste of energy and makes you ill!

Once again, all the best for you wife's recovery from whatever ails her. :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Webbo on March 23, 2017, 08:22:45 AM
Thank you Daffy

I'm a scientist too (retired) and believe that there is a rational explanation to what's happening to Judy. There still has to be a reason for IBS and why it has happened all of a sudden. Now I'm thinking antibiotics and mucking up of the bacterial systems in the digestive tract. There is an enormous amount to know in medicine which is ever increasing and I sometimes think that our overworked GPs are not keeping pace despite their best intentions.

Webbo
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on March 23, 2017, 08:52:03 AM
Yes, our modern environments, the things we eat, the drugs we take, the things we buy - all must have an impact upon the human body that are really hard to identify. I read recently an American study that concluded that we spend up to 90% of our time indoors, and that indoor environments are very often more polluted than outdoor city streets. Chemicals in carpets, plastics, and other sources of 'out gassing' (not what some wags may be thinking :) ), aerosols, liquids and sprays for cleaning or deodorising, dry atmosphere in central heated buildings, or bad humidity, and the bugs and mites that love these cosy environments we create for ourselves.

And we all know about the outdoor environment with its pollutants, so it is little wonder we have so many 'odd' health issues these days. The human body is an amazing but delicate machine, and though science does a fantastic job identifying all manner of causes and effects, we are all as individual as snowflakes so finding 'cures' for all will be a job for the lives of thousands for centuries to come. And of course the time-lag between scientific study and discovery, to the dissemination of a curative through the medical professions, is enormous.
It's at times a gloomy picture, but on balance I think it is amazing what we have discovered thus far, and both science and medicine are advancing exponentially.

There is hope for us all, someday.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Steamie+ on March 24, 2017, 04:47:54 AM
Feeling a bit down, got my wage slip for what i thought would be my last pay from work and it is only one months pay!!!! They are now saying i have to wait until the end of April before i can get all the money they have said i would receive, minus the last two weeks of this month which is included in the 10 week pay in lieu.

Still not able to have closer from them for another month and then i will still have to wait until i get my P45 for my pension from them, because i have to prove that i no longer work for them and it is one of the forms of ID.

Had enough of it all.      :( :( :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on March 24, 2017, 05:58:48 AM
That is a bit of a pain in the derriere - I think I would feel like a  :'( if I were in your shoes. I do not know the ins and outs of redundancy/final pay etc., but the one consolation I can see is that you have the money to look forward to.  Whatever happens, good luck in the future.  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Steamie+ on March 24, 2017, 07:11:09 AM
Quote from: dannyboy on March 24, 2017, 05:58:48 AM
That is a bit of a pain in the derriere - I think I would feel like a  :'( if I were in your shoes. I do not know the ins and outs of redundancy/final pay etc., but the one consolation I can see is that you have the money to look forward to.  Whatever happens, good luck in the future.  :beers:

:thankyousign: David, it's just so annoying that they have had loads of time to sort out my final pay and then i can close all ties with them.    :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on March 24, 2017, 09:20:08 AM
Sad to hear this Steamie, but it's only a month, and I suggest filling that time with trains, trains, and more trains. :thumbsup: 
And maybe some very loud music, a few beers, and lots of walks or just sitting out in the warm Spring sunshine and watching the new life dawning that is your retirement.
:beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on March 24, 2017, 03:05:40 PM
Now that's what I call a Good Plan, daffy.  :thumbsup:

Go for it, Steamie!

:beers:

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: N-Gauge-US on March 24, 2017, 03:41:34 PM
Quote from: Steamie+ on March 24, 2017, 04:47:54 AM
Feeling a bit down, got my wage slip for what i thought would be my last pay from work and it is only one months pay!!!! They are now saying i have to wait until the end of April before i can get all the money they have said i would receive, minus the last two weeks of this month which is included in the 10 week pay in lieu.

Still not able to have closer from them for another month and then i will still have to wait until i get my P45 for my pension from them, because i have to prove that i no longer work for them and it is one of the forms of ID.

Had enough of it all.      :( :( :(

Sorry to hear it, Steamie. I'm sure you're ready to be done with it ( and with them!). Hopefully it will pass quickly and you'll get to do a bit of what daffy suggested ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on March 24, 2017, 06:23:38 PM
Quote from: escafeld on March 24, 2017, 05:44:21 PM
Quote from: Steamie+ on March 24, 2017, 04:47:54 AM
Feeling a bit down, got my wage slip for what i thought would be my last pay from work and it is only one months pay!!!! They are now saying i have to wait until the end of April before i can get all the money they have said i would receive, minus the last two weeks of this month which is included in the 10 week pay in lieu.

Still not able to have closer from them for another month and then i will still have to wait until i get my P45 for my pension from them, because i have to prove that i no longer work for them and it is one of the forms of ID.

Had enough of it all.      :( :( :(

Hardly a big deal. They could have made you work the notice period rather than paying you PILON which would have meant you didn't get your final pay or redundancy money until the end of May and you would have had to go into work each day, regardless of whether they had any work for you to do.

I'm sorry, but I think that is rather an insensitive comment given the problems Steamie has been experiencing over his redundancy.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Nick on March 24, 2017, 06:31:43 PM
Quote from: escafeld on March 24, 2017, 05:44:21 PM

Hardly a big deal. They could have made you work the notice period rather than paying you PILON which would have meant you didn't get your final pay or redundancy money until the end of May and you would have had to go into work each day, regardless of whether they had any work for you to do.
:censored: hell...

I didn't know that the NHS had opened an Empathy Bypass Clinic. Or did you have the work done privately?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on March 24, 2017, 07:27:30 PM
It's just a harmless way of expressing extreme dissatisfaction with an event, situation or perhaps someone's inappropriate post!!
:hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on March 24, 2017, 07:41:41 PM
It seems you might have had a bad day... So I suggest, without  :censored: swearing that its probably best to abort this bit of the unhappy thread. Have a good weekend.
:) :wave:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: N-Gauge-US on March 24, 2017, 07:42:03 PM
Quote from: escafeld on March 24, 2017, 07:23:54 PM
Quote from: Nick on March 24, 2017, 06:31:43 PM
:censored: hell...

Why do males on this forum regularly have to use :censored:

There's no need for swearing (or implying swearing) on here or in life. You don't get it from the few female members on here.

Not only is that sexist, it's also inaccurate. I know plenty of women who swear; the expectation that they not is because some men perceive it to be unladylike. As to your question, swearing is a cross-linguistic universal (something you find in all languages) and is a normal part of human expression. Its use is meant to convey a range of emotions and reactions, often appropriately. In this case, what I find more inappropriate is that you chose to reply to someone else's perfectly reasonable distress with callous insensitivity and then defended it as a personal retaliation for a previous slight by the poster.  :no:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Nick on March 24, 2017, 08:07:10 PM
WRT the swearing discussion, interestingly I was reading an article in one of the broadsheets earlier this week which was highlighting that serious public swearing has become a female trait, not a male one.

I have no evidence to support that, except to say that it accords with my experience of office environments from the mid/late 80s onwards.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: N-Gauge-US on March 24, 2017, 08:22:18 PM
Quote from: escafeld on March 24, 2017, 07:46:26 PM
Quote from: N-Gauge-US on March 24, 2017, 07:42:03 PM
Quote from: escafeld on March 24, 2017, 07:23:54 PM
Quote from: Nick on March 24, 2017, 06:31:43 PM
:censored: hell...

Why do males on this forum regularly have to use :censored:

There's no need for swearing (or implying swearing) on here or in life. You don't get it from the few female members on here.

Not only is that sexist, it's also inaccurate.

So which of the few females in this male dominated forum have you see use the  :censored: ?

I found 4 using the search function in 2 minutes, but I'm not going to list them because you seem to have turned it into some sort of badge of shame, but you can do the same very easily. My point is that swearing isn't and shouldn't be gendered, nor is it something to be particularly maligned. Moreover, we are talking about people using the censored smiley, not writing long, profane posts; your reaction is disproportionate.  This: :censored: isn't especially offensive.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Mito on March 24, 2017, 08:41:32 PM
When I was at school many years ago we were taught that swearing showed a lack of vocabulary and intelligence. I still hold with that. There are plenty of ways to express oneself without resorting to expletives, yes I swear but not to replace adjectives or verbs, only to relieve the pain when I hit my thumb with a hammer.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on March 24, 2017, 08:52:58 PM
Quote from: escafeld on March 24, 2017, 08:42:44 PM

Also I know of a male who was reprimanded for swearing in front of a female colleague

Bit harsh, especially if he didn't know it was her turn :D

This is just the 'Unhappy Thread' so obviously it hasn't reached the 'Angry' phase yet.
I know. Let's get back to playing trains.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Mito on March 24, 2017, 08:55:29 PM
Quote from: escafeld on March 24, 2017, 08:45:33 PM
Quote from: Mito on March 24, 2017, 08:41:32 PM
When I was at school many years ago we were taught that swearing showed a lack of vocabulary and intelligence. I still hold with that. There are plenty of ways to express oneself without resorting to expletives, yes I swear but not to replace adjectives or verbs, only to relieve the pain when I hit my thumb with a hammer.

You mean you don't just say "that hurt" and carry on.  :)

"Oh dear, it appears that the hammer has come into contact with my thumb." Believe that and you believe pigs can fly. :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: N-Gauge-US on March 24, 2017, 09:01:52 PM
Quote from: Mito on March 24, 2017, 08:41:32 PM
When I was at school many years ago we were taught that swearing showed a lack of vocabulary and intelligence. I still hold with that. There are plenty of ways to express oneself without resorting to expletives, yes I swear but not to replace adjectives or verbs, only to relieve the pain when I hit my thumb with a hammer.

That was and is a common assumption, but socio-linguistic studies have actually shown the opposite. People who swear more tend to have larger lexicons and make verbal associations more quickly and there have been several studies that have correlated intelligence quotients (IQ tests) with the frequency of profanity used. The idea that people who swear can't come up with a 'better word' is a false one. High-frequency swearers are much better at neutral synonym replacement in testing environments, implying that they can come up with more alternatives to swearing and do so more quickly than those who do not swear,  but elect not to because swearing conveys the full semantic intent.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Sprintex on March 24, 2017, 09:08:08 PM
Quote from: N-Gauge-US on March 24, 2017, 09:01:52 PM
People who swear more tend to have larger lexicons and make verbal associations more quickly and there have been several studies that have correlated intelligence quotients (IQ tests) with the frequency of profanity used.



:censored: right! :D



<--------


Paul
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on March 24, 2017, 09:09:37 PM
Wow N gauge US ... Just let me consult my dictionary and I'll get back to you on that!!

:confused2: :hmmm: :o
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on March 24, 2017, 09:31:25 PM
Quote from: escafeld on March 24, 2017, 09:28:59 PM

(I don't know whether I would if I hit my thumb with a hammer as I have never been stupid enough to do it)

:laughabovepost: - get out of that! :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Mito on March 24, 2017, 09:43:45 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on March 24, 2017, 09:31:25 PM
Quote from: escafeld on March 24, 2017, 09:28:59 PM

(I don't know whether I would if I hit my thumb with a hammer as I have never been stupid enough to do it)

:laughabovepost: - get out of that! :)

I can only assume that a hammer is an alien object to you. :hmmm:  Assaults on thumbs is one of lifes less pleasurable pastimes but "enjoyed" by many. :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Sprintex on March 24, 2017, 09:58:43 PM
Quote from: escafeld on March 24, 2017, 09:52:54 PM
Know fully how to use a hammer properly which is why I haven't hit my thumb (does it hurt by any chance?), and very good at DIY (I think my husband might know which end of the screwdriver you use if I pass it to him the right way round) Fitted three kitchens and two bathrooms over the years. Oh and replaced part of the central heating system

And I wouldn't want to break my thumbnail after spending hours painting it.

Class reply :claphappy:


Paul
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on March 24, 2017, 10:57:04 PM
Jeez! :o While I was out listening to some great live music it seems someone declared World War Three! :goggleeyes:

I'm  so :censored: unhappy, so :censored: saddened and so :censored: angry about certain posts I've just had the misfortune to read on this thread that I think I'll just accept that some folks don't have an altruistic side.

PS - the word I have self-censored in this post is 'very'. I used the censored emoticon purely to convey just how 'very', without having to type ' very, very, very, very ' three times.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: N-Gauge-US on March 25, 2017, 12:06:15 AM
Quote from: escafeld on March 24, 2017, 09:28:59 PM
Quote from: N-Gauge-US on March 24, 2017, 09:01:52 PM
Quote from: Mito on March 24, 2017, 08:41:32 PM
When I was at school many years ago we were taught that swearing showed a lack of vocabulary and intelligence. I still hold with that. There are plenty of ways to express oneself without resorting to expletives, yes I swear but not to replace adjectives or verbs, only to relieve the pain when I hit my thumb with a hammer.

That was and is a common assumption, but socio-linguistic studies have actually shown the opposite. People who swear more tend to have larger lexicons and make verbal associations more quickly and there have been several studies that have correlated intelligence quotients (IQ tests) with the frequency of profanity used. The idea that people who swear can't come up with a 'better word' is a false one. High-frequency swearers are much better at neutral synonym replacement in testing environments, implying that they can come up with more alternatives to swearing and do so more quickly than those who do not swear,  but elect not to because swearing conveys the full semantic intent.

The only study I was aware of was published in the journal Language Science in December 2015. This was widely reported to state that but was reported incorrectly.

What it did was measure Verbal Fluency. The test measured how many swear words a participant could say within a timeframe and then the participants where asked to recall a list of unrelatred words. What the study showed was that people who know more words also know more swear words. This only measures linguistic intelligence and says nothing about a persons intelligence.

But then I'm just a thick blonde as I don't swear

(I don't know whether I would if I hit my thumb with a hammer as I have never been stupid enough to do it)

I take tremendous offense to your insinuation that I was somehow calling you a "thick blonde." To be perfectly honest, you seem bent on battling everyone, as I hardly think mito was saying a hammer must be a foreign object to you because you are a woman, but because you are apparently the only person in the known world to be immune from human error when using a hammer and, somehow, when everyone else does it, it's because they are "stupid" or don't "know fully how to use a hammer properly."

As for the rest of it, linguistic or verbal intelligence is a major component of most IQ tests and most theories of intelligence(s). I'd list other articles, but I feel like you're less interested in learning than in being right, so here you go: you're right; we shouldn't swear on the forum. That's why it's already against the rules. The censor icon isn't swearing. What I think you're asking is that people not use an emoticon that expresses the user's frustration, which is an unreasonable request.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on March 25, 2017, 04:31:48 AM
Quote from: daffy on March 24, 2017, 10:57:04 PM

PS - the word I have self-censored in this post is 'very'. I used the censored emoticon purely to convey just how 'very', without having to type ' very, very, very, very ' three times.

But you've typed 'very' 6 times in that post :confused1: :dunce:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Steamie+ on March 25, 2017, 06:25:22 AM
Thanks Daffy, Daveg and N-Gauge-US, for your kind thoughts and has for you escafeld, you really don't know anything about me and what i have been going through, all i what is to have closer on my time with the company, and it's not really all about the money, we are all not money grabbing and no i won't swear because this is a family forum, it seems to me like a certain other individual on this forum you just what to have an argument, i will not take you up on it, just enjoy your modelling please has all of us do with what ever we do, whether it is running trains, scratch building, making Dioramas or just drooling at what others have.

This is an unhappy Thread and not an angry Thread.    Happy Modelling.       :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Sprintex on March 25, 2017, 09:42:43 AM
OK people I think this is getting too personal now, no reason to go making assumptions and throwing insults at each other when, as many of you have said, we know very little about each other apart from what we read on this forum.

Back to being mildly 'Unhappy' please.

:thankyousign:


Paul
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: broadsword on March 25, 2017, 09:51:32 AM
How about a " foaming at the mouth thread" then people could
swap insults without offending the rest of the forum.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on March 25, 2017, 09:56:37 AM
Quote from: broadsword on March 25, 2017, 09:51:32 AM
How about a " foaming at the mouth thread" then people could
swap insults without offending the rest of the forum.
I suggested a similar 'Rant' thread.
Whether you call it 'Foaming at the mouth' or 'Rant' thread you could post your frustrations into this thread, or have them moved to the thread by the mods.
People who don't want to read them could Filter them out in their profile.
Happy days -  :) :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on March 25, 2017, 10:03:42 AM
Quote from: newportnobby on March 25, 2017, 04:31:48 AM
Quote from: daffy on March 24, 2017, 10:57:04 PM

PS - the word I have self-censored in this post is 'very'. I used the censored emoticon purely to convey just how 'very', without having to type ' very, very, very, very ' three times.

But you've typed 'very' 6 times in that post :confused1: :dunce:

Darn it! >:( Hoist by my own petard and exposed by a night owl! :(

:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on March 25, 2017, 10:11:56 AM
Quote from: escafeld on March 25, 2017, 10:04:58 AM
Quote from: Sprintex on March 25, 2017, 09:42:43 AM

Back to being mildly 'Unhappy' please.


But I was happy before you posted that and now you want me to be unhappy  :(
OMG my brain hurts!!! Time for another cuppa.
??? :confused2: :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Sprintex on March 25, 2017, 10:18:30 AM
Quote from: austinbob on March 25, 2017, 09:56:37 AM
Quote from: broadsword on March 25, 2017, 09:51:32 AM
How about a " foaming at the mouth thread" then people could
swap insults without offending the rest of the forum.
I suggested a similar 'Rant' thread.
Whether you call it 'Foaming at the mouth' or 'Rant' thread you could post your frustrations into this thread, or have them moved to the thread by the mods.
People who don't want to read them could Filter them out in their profile.
Happy days -  :) :beers:

So what do you think the Angry Thread is for then if it's not having a rant?? ::)

As for swapping insults, if you find that sort of thing amusing then kindly find another forum to do so.

Quote from: escafeld on March 25, 2017, 10:04:58 AM
Quote from: Sprintex on March 25, 2017, 09:42:43 AM

Back to being mildly 'Unhappy' please.


But I was happy before you posted that and now you want me to be unhappy  :(

Of course I don't want you to be unhappy, I just don't want to be wasting finger-energy moving posts from here to the Happy Thread :D


Paul
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on March 25, 2017, 10:23:03 AM
Quote from: Sprintex on March 25, 2017, 10:18:30 AM
Quote from: austinbob on March 25, 2017, 09:56:37 AM
Quote from: broadsword on March 25, 2017, 09:51:32 AM
How about a " foaming at the mouth thread" then people could
swap insults without offending the rest of the forum.
I suggested a similar 'Rant' thread.
Whether you call it 'Foaming at the mouth' or 'Rant' thread you could post your frustrations into this thread, or have them moved to the thread by the mods.
People who don't want to read them could Filter them out in their profile.
Happy days -  :) :beers:

So what do you think the Angry Thread is for then if it's not having a rant?? ::)

As for swapping insults, if you find that sort of thing amusing then kindly find another forum to do so.

Ouch!!!  :o
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Steamie+ on March 25, 2017, 10:35:23 AM
All I said that I was unhappy about the way work are dealing with me. I don,t want to tell everyone what caused it in every detail, but I never said anybody on this forum are money grabbing and I don,t think I implied it either. Has for  being in a clique that is one of the reasons I don,t go on the site that is full of cliques.

Think it's about time I stopped posting on here and just read some of the posts that interest me.

I will continue to support the forum in any way I can, I am hoping to do that at the little meet NPN and I are trying to set up.

Happy Modelling all.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Nick on March 25, 2017, 10:37:40 AM
Great Scott! (I think that's safe, but perhaps not.) What a needless fuss.

As the person who inadvertently triggered this maelstrom, I'd just like to point out that the word that the :censored: emoji/smiley was standing in for in my post was very considerably milder than the word that @escafeld (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=5876) assumed I was hiding. I could probably have typed it. We don't all think the same way.

Which only goes to show how much trouble can be caused by making assumptions.

If I can, I am now going to unsubscribe from the Discussion threads and stick to the modelling topics. They are what I'm here for.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Steamie+ on March 25, 2017, 10:40:54 AM
Agree with the above post by Nick. :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: broadsword on March 25, 2017, 10:41:33 AM
The voice of reason !  If there are arguments on the forum they should be
about really important matters, like is real ale over-rated ?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Sprintex on March 25, 2017, 10:47:53 AM
I've already asked politely for the matter to be dropped, and now come the "But sir . . . " excuses and the "I agree with so-and-so" posts.

Maybe if people thought a bit more BEFORE they posted certain things about how they might come across we wouldn't need to be having this discussion?

END OF DEBATE


Paul
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on March 25, 2017, 10:49:18 AM
Quote from: broadsword on March 25, 2017, 10:41:33 AM
The voice of reason !  If there are arguments on the forum they should be
about really important matters, like is real ale over-rated ?

Yes. :thumbsup:  To both points. :)

But then I am REALLY unhappy cos some years ago I discovered I was allergic (seriously) to all such alchohol, real or.... er.... unreal. >:(

:D :D :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: broadsword on March 25, 2017, 10:57:33 AM
[quote author=daffy link=topic=29358.msg437508#msg437508 date=1490438

But then I am REALLY unhappy cos some years ago I discovered I was allergic (seriously) to all such alchohol, real or.... er.... unreal. >:(
:D :D :D
[/quote]

Now that's a suitable topic, sadly... :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jimbo on March 25, 2017, 11:37:50 AM
Quote from: daffy on March 25, 2017, 10:49:18 AM
Quote from: broadsword on March 25, 2017, 10:41:33 AM
The voice of reason !  If there are arguments on the forum they should be
about really important matters, like is real ale over-rated ?

Yes. :thumbsup:  To both points. :)

But then I am REALLY unhappy cos some years ago I discovered I was allergic (seriously) to all such alchohol, real or.... er.... unreal. >:(

:D :D :D

I think I know how you might feel, I haven't had it diagnosed but I've been avoiding (Sometimes unsuccessfully) bread for some Months now as it has a detrimental affect which I won't describe........had one pint of real ale not so long ago which I enjoy very occasionally and the next day!....Well, you can imagine! I suspect it may be a yeast intolerance that seems to have developed, as I said still to be diagnosed though, the symptoms only last for a full day if I just drink water until the evening then i'm fine but what a palaver it is! Avoiding bread especially is a lot harder than I thought!  :worried: (The odd Jim Beam is ok though!  :whistle:)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Steamie+ on March 25, 2017, 11:51:00 AM
Quote from: Jimbo on March 25, 2017, 11:37:50 AM
Quote from: daffy on March 25, 2017, 10:49:18 AM
Quote from: broadsword on March 25, 2017, 10:41:33 AM
The voice of reason !  If there are arguments on the forum they should be
about really important matters, like is real ale over-rated ?

Yes. :thumbsup:  To both points. :)

But then I am REALLY unhappy cos some years ago I discovered I was allergic (seriously) to all such alchohol, real or.... er.... unreal. >:(

:D :D :D

I think I know how you might feel, I haven't had it diagnosed but I've been avoiding (Sometimes unsuccessfully) bread for some Months now as it has a detrimental affect which I won't describe........had one pint of real ale not so long ago which I enjoy very occasionally and the next day!....Well, you can imagine! I suspect it may be a yeast intolerance that seems to have developed, as I said still to be diagnosed though, the symptoms only last for a full day if I just drink water until the evening then i'm fine but what a palaver it is! Avoiding bread especially is a lot harder than I thought!  :worried: (The odd Jim Beam is ok though!  :whistle:)

Yeast the main ingredient of the elixir of life....  :hmmm:  Jack Daniels or any Bourbon for me Jimbo...   :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on March 25, 2017, 11:57:13 AM
Hi Jimbo, sorry to hear that, but like you I have problems with bread (both the baked stuff and the other dough ;) )
I don't know how extensive your reaction to bread is, but mine started years ago with white bread and other white flour breads (granary, so called 'brown bread' and others), and of course cakes and the like.

However, I have discovered that wholemeal bread is not always a problem. I say 'not always' because a lot of wholemeal breads also contain wheat flour ofbthe standard refined (white) kind, so these are problematic. At present the only loaf I can eat with zero problems is Allinson Classic, but then they have just changed the wrapper so maybe the recipe has changed to. Time will tell.

Anyway, the point is, I have had to spend a long time - years in fact - finding what I can and cannot eat, and with all the additives and complex recipes in all food these days it's a darned minefield.

With your ale problem it does sound like a yeast intolerance, but you need an expert diagnosis as yeast and yeast extract is put in all manner of things these days, some you would not expect.

As for your favourite tipple, most of the yeast from fermentation is lost in the distilling processes. If it does prove a problem in time you will just have to move to gin and vodka, which are yeast free. :)

Bon chance, mon ami. :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on March 25, 2017, 12:05:13 PM
I went "gluten free" for about one year.

It was OK - I lost about 5kg.

The only problem was eating "on the hoof" - difficult to make a sandwich with rice !

Best regards,


Joe
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on March 25, 2017, 12:09:04 PM
Quote from: joe cassidy on March 25, 2017, 12:05:13 PM

The only problem was eating "on the hoof" - difficult to make a sandwich with rice !

Or while riding a horse! :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on March 25, 2017, 12:12:11 PM
Yeah - I had to give up playing polo  :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jimbo on March 25, 2017, 12:15:49 PM
Thanks guys! I should go to the doc's really but I very rarely do for anything and the last time I went for a minor skin blemish that appeared it really didn't seem like she wanted to be there as much as I didn't! Probably had a bad week or something I know how overloaded they can get, anyway, i'm only suspecting it's yeast as when I lay off the bread for a long while i'm fine, it could of course be flour or wheat but i suppose i really need to get proper tests done and a professional opinion, it's strange though i seem to be ok on flat breads i.e. fajitas and pitta breads etc which lead me to think it's yeast  :hmmm:, i'm just sort of experimenting/self diagnosing really...thanks for the tip about gin and vodka!  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jimbo on March 25, 2017, 12:17:41 PM
Quote from: daffy on March 25, 2017, 12:09:04 PM
Quote from: joe cassidy on March 25, 2017, 12:05:13 PM

The only problem was eating "on the hoof" - difficult to make a sandwich with rice !

Or while riding a horse! :D

I wondered why they always seem to have long faces
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on March 25, 2017, 12:47:10 PM
Quote from: Jimbo on March 25, 2017, 11:37:50 AM
Avoiding bread especially is a lot harder than I thought!  :worried: (The odd Jim Beam is ok though!  :whistle:)

Very messy trying to make cheese or beans on Jim Beam, though I reckon it would be delicious. :food:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on March 25, 2017, 12:49:30 PM
So would you if all you got to eat was muesli (without sugar) and you had to eat it out of a bag hung round your neck with your hands tied behind your back.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Sprintex on March 29, 2017, 02:51:05 PM
No sadder than any other unless you have a specific reason?


Paul
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on March 29, 2017, 03:37:42 PM
My guess is Brexit but I really don't want to go there :sleep:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Sprintex on March 29, 2017, 03:41:20 PM
Nor should anybody think of going there if they want to continue as a member on here . . .


Paul
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on March 29, 2017, 03:41:38 PM
My thoughts also, Mick.   :worried:

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: themadhippy on March 29, 2017, 04:29:38 PM
I most definitley want to go  there
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on March 29, 2017, 05:43:08 PM
My condolences, escafeld.

It's never easy to say goodbye to someone special.

I hope she leaves you with many happy memories.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on March 29, 2017, 06:05:40 PM
I know it's difficult getting over the loss, but console yourself with the fact that at 94, she had a good innings.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on March 29, 2017, 06:23:24 PM
May I add my condolences escafeld.

I have now lost all my grandparents and parents, as has my wife. With one exception they all lived long lives, and for that I always give thanks.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Sprintex on March 29, 2017, 06:34:07 PM
Always sad to lose a loved one, thoughts are with you and your family  :(

As Daffy said at least she had a long and mainly happy life.


Paul
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on March 29, 2017, 06:37:28 PM
Yes, a sad day indeed. Very sorry to hear of your loss.
:sorrysign:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: N-Gauge-US on March 29, 2017, 07:05:57 PM
Quote from: escafeld on March 29, 2017, 06:14:37 PM

Thank you. She had a very full and mainly happy life right to the end. The last couple of years she had been in and out of hospital but that didn't seem to slow her down. I guess that the expectation is she was always going to come out again. On the positive side she didn't suffer when the end came.

I think dealing with my 77 year old mother is going to be the hard part as they were more like sisters than mother and daughter

Very sorry for your loss, escafeld. Longevity can be a blessing or a curse, and I'm glad that she lived happily until the end. So many people spend their final years in pain or sorrow; that she did not should be a real comfort, in time. I feel for your mother too, as it sounds like she lost a best friend and a mother. Maybe take this time of grief as an opportunity to grow closer to her and, in doing so, help her heal by filling the void your grandmother has left. Again, my deepest sympathies,

Philip
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jimbo on March 29, 2017, 08:07:11 PM
So sorry Escafeld, thoughts and best wishes at this troubling time.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on March 29, 2017, 08:41:59 PM
I'm very sorry to hear of your loss :(
Take great care of your Mum. Mine is 83 and has had a couple of severe operations in the last 12 years but still manages to shame me with her energy (although her driving is getting a little shaky ;))
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Steamie+ on March 29, 2017, 08:57:35 PM
Sorry to hear about your lose.  :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Mito on March 29, 2017, 09:13:43 PM
A sad day, yes, but remember the happy times you all had with her. And plenty of hugs for your mum and lots of support.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on March 29, 2017, 09:27:44 PM
Sorry to hear of your loss Escafeld. But, as others have said, remember the good things and look after your Mum.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 03, 2017, 03:53:34 PM
@austinbob (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=2403)
The good news is the Farish 8F 372-154 ordered from Time Tunnel Models (North Berwick) arrived via DPD exactly as they said it would.
The bad news is it was dead as a dodo. Nada, zilch, rien etc :'(
They are mailing me a returns postage label and back it will go. Needless to say, for such a venerable beast they have no replacement :'( :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on April 03, 2017, 04:26:52 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on April 03, 2017, 03:53:34 PM
@austinbob (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=2403)
The good news is the Farish 8F 372-154 ordered from Time Tunnel Models (North Berwick) arrived via DPD exactly as they said it would.
The bad news is it was dead as a dodo. Nada, zilch, rien etc :'(
They are mailing me a returns postage label and back it will go. Needless to say, for such a venerable beast they have no replacement :'( :'(
I believe Alton model centre have another one in stock. If you like I can check it out and get it for you. Price is £103 and something. If it works ok I can post it to you and you can send me a cheque for loco plus postage.
Just let me know.
:beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jonclox on April 03, 2017, 04:35:14 PM
Quote from: escafeld on March 29, 2017, 05:27:40 PM
Its a sad day as my 94 year old grandmother passed away this morning
:sorrysign: and I do mean that  :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on April 03, 2017, 06:09:13 PM
Quote from: escafeld on April 03, 2017, 05:44:17 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on April 03, 2017, 03:53:34 PM
@austinbob (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=2403)
The good news is the Farish 8F 372-154 ordered from Time Tunnel Models (North Berwick) arrived via DPD exactly as they said it would.
The bad news is it was dead as a dodo. Nada, zilch, rien etc :'(
They are mailing me a returns postage label and back it will go. Needless to say, for such a venerable beast they have no replacement :'( :'(

Stockton Modeller are showing it as in stock £94.99

http://www.stocktonmodeller.co.uk/372154-class-8f-48750.ir?cName=railways-graham-farish-locomotives-steam (http://www.stocktonmodeller.co.uk/372154-class-8f-48750.ir?cName=railways-graham-farish-locomotives-steam)
The advantage of Alton model centre is that I can personally go and check the loco before buying it for Mick.
He's already had one cheap loco go belly up.
:beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 03, 2017, 08:15:24 PM
Many thanks, Bob, and thanks also to Escafeld for searching that one out.
Truth be told I'd prefer a late crest one so if anyone knows the whereabouts of a 372-151.................
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on April 03, 2017, 08:31:14 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on April 03, 2017, 08:15:24 PM
Many thanks, Bob, and thanks also to Escafeld for searching that one out.
Truth be told I'd prefer a late crest one so if anyone knows the whereabouts of a 372-151.................
I'll keep me eyes open for that one Mick.
:beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on April 04, 2017, 03:03:03 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on April 03, 2017, 08:15:24 PM
Many thanks, Bob, and thanks also to Escafeld for searching that one out.
Truth be told I'd prefer a late crest one so if anyone knows the whereabouts of a 372-151.................

Or you could wait for the new "improved" version.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on April 04, 2017, 03:20:14 PM
Quote from: steve836 on April 04, 2017, 03:03:03 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on April 03, 2017, 08:15:24 PM
Many thanks, Bob, and thanks also to Escafeld for searching that one out.
Truth be told I'd prefer a late crest one so if anyone knows the whereabouts of a 372-151.................

Or you could wait for the new "improved" version.
And which decade has that been promised for?   :no:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 04, 2017, 04:43:47 PM
Quote from: austinbob on April 04, 2017, 03:20:14 PM
Quote from: steve836 on April 04, 2017, 03:03:03 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on April 03, 2017, 08:15:24 PM
Many thanks, Bob, and thanks also to Escafeld for searching that one out.
Truth be told I'd prefer a late crest one so if anyone knows the whereabouts of a 372-151.................

Or you could wait for the new "improved" version.
And which decade has that been promised for?   :no:

I think I'll have 'decayed' before seeing it ::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on April 10, 2017, 07:53:41 PM
I inherited an N gauge Model railway a week ago (and a bottle of Laphroaig)
Funeral tomorrow...(11/04/17)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: scotsoft on April 10, 2017, 08:00:47 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on April 04, 2017, 04:43:47 PM

I think I'll have 'decayed' before seeing it ::)

Would we notice any difference?  >:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 10, 2017, 08:26:45 PM
Quote from: The Q on April 10, 2017, 07:53:41 PM
I inherited an N gauge Model railway a week ago (and a bottle of Laphroaig)
Funeral tomorrow...(11/04/17)

Good in one respect but awful to benefit like that :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 10, 2017, 08:28:03 PM
Quote from: scotsoft on April 10, 2017, 08:00:47 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on April 04, 2017, 04:43:47 PM

I think I'll have 'decayed' before seeing it ::)

Would we notice any difference?  >:D

That's rotten :laugh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on April 11, 2017, 12:06:20 PM
Having back problems again. Went to the osteopath on Friday, seems to have made it worse.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 11, 2017, 12:11:47 PM
I can thoroughly recommend Anadin Ultra 200mg Ibuprofen liquid capsules for Back & Muscle Pain, Malc.
They are amazing little green workers, if you're OK with Ibuprofen.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: N-Gauge-US on April 11, 2017, 01:45:08 PM
Quote from: The Q on April 10, 2017, 07:53:41 PM
I inherited an N gauge Model railway a week ago (and a bottle of Laphroaig)
Funeral tomorrow...(11/04/17)

I'm sorry for your loss :/ I hope the layout will be a good way for you to remember your lost loved one. All the best
Philip
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on April 11, 2017, 03:25:13 PM
Quote from: N-Gauge-US on April 11, 2017, 01:45:08 PM
Quote from: The Q on April 10, 2017, 07:53:41 PM
I inherited an N gauge Model railway a week ago (and a bottle of Laphroaig)
Funeral tomorrow...(11/04/17)

I'm sorry for your loss :/ I hope the layout will be a good way for you to remember your lost loved one. All the best
Philip

I share the sentiment and can't say better
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on April 11, 2017, 03:38:41 PM
Quote from: Malc on April 11, 2017, 12:06:20 PM
Having back problems again. Went to the osteopath on Friday, seems to have made it worse.

Oh dear and you usually say how much easier things often are after a visit.

Hope it clears up OK.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on April 11, 2017, 07:09:49 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on April 11, 2017, 12:11:47 PM
I can thoroughly recommend Anadin Ultra 200mg Ibuprofen liquid capsules for Back & Muscle Pain, Malc.
They are amazing little green workers, if you're OK with Ibuprofen.
Unfortunately, as a diabetic, I'm not supposed to take ibuprofen.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on April 11, 2017, 07:18:50 PM
Quote from: Malc on April 11, 2017, 07:09:49 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on April 11, 2017, 12:11:47 PM
I can thoroughly recommend Anadin Ultra 200mg Ibuprofen liquid capsules for Back & Muscle Pain, Malc.
They are amazing little green workers, if you're OK with Ibuprofen.
Unfortunately, as a diabetic, I'm not supposed to take ibuprofen.
In fact Malc, if you look at current advice on ibuprofen anyone over 65 should check with their GP before taking the drug on a regular basis. Particularly if you have diabetes or heart problems. Also there are tight recommendations on dosage.
Read the instructions and talk to your GP is the message.
:beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on April 11, 2017, 07:20:39 PM
Quite correct, Bob. I fail on 2 counts, age and being diabetic.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on April 11, 2017, 07:25:15 PM
I fail on three counts Malc. The two that affect you plus the words on the instructions are too small to read!!!
:hmmm: :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on April 12, 2017, 10:47:47 AM
Thanks for the info folks, I'm type 2 and no one has mentions this to me before.
I'll have to check with the doc in a couple of months when I'm in for the six monthly review.

Luckily I've got 5 years before 65.

Unluckily I'm also "Susceptible to Malignant Hyperpyrexia under Anaethesia" which will limit the options somewhat...
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on April 21, 2017, 08:24:18 AM
Just been to a model train web site.
Search for info but can't find so will have to send a note.  Wonder what are the chances of getting a reply?
On to the site Contact Me form.  Filled out name , e-mail and question.
Hit send.   :)
No you missed a required field.  Sure I filled out fields marked as required.
Oh, I have to select a how-did-you-find-us box to proceed.  Usually I just select some rubbish answer where I am forced to provide some info not relevant to the e-mail or outcome.  I wouldn't give much for the accuracy of any the data they get.  ;)
Hit send again.
No you missed a required field. ???
A "are you a robot box".  OK, used to this, usually type the four letters and numbers in the obscured text box.  Oh pictures.  Just have to select the pictures which have street numbers shown (3 out of 9).  Done. :)
Oh another set of pictures with street numbers.  OK done.
Another set of pictures this time having to identify mountains.  :confused2:  Done.
Oh joy! another set of mountains to select.  Done.  :(
Apparently, I still could be a smart robot (how did they know worked for a semi-government company?) so now I have to identify street signs.  :'(  DONE.
Surprise, Surprise, another set of street signs.  >:(  How much longer can this go on?  :worried:DONE.  >:D

Hell, it has accepted me as a non-robot.  Is the next step to prove I am human? :drool:

NO WAY!  I can press the send button and then away the message flies.  :laugh3:

I wonder what one has to do to actually buy something from this guy?  :hmmm:

Regards,
CFJ
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on April 21, 2017, 09:59:35 AM
The company i work for have put on the internal internet some of our records, so we can update things like telephone numbers and addresses. It also shows your pay band  and grade.

This cause some discussion on pay bands which have never been revealed before...
That shows the personnel department  have been lying to me and my boss by saying I was in a higher pay grade than those in the next door lab. (Their stuff comes to me when they can't do it)

My boss has alway apologised to me about how low my pay is...

Not a happy bunny :( >:(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on April 21, 2017, 10:11:56 AM
Quote from: The Q on April 21, 2017, 09:59:35 AM
The company i work for have put on the internal internet some of our records, so we can update things like telephone numbers and addresses. It also shows your pay band  and grade.

This cause some discussion on pay bands which have never been revealed before...
That shows the personnel department  have been lying to me and my boss by saying I was in a higher pay grade than those in the next door lab. (Their stuff comes to me when they can't do it)

My boss has alway apologised to me about how low my pay is...

Not a happy bunny :( >:(

Erm....

I could be wrong but that sounds decidedly dodgy in terms of data protection. My company treats personal data, especially pay, like nuclear launch codes!

The problems disclosure would cause are huge, as it seems you are finding out. A word with HR is DEFO warranted!

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on April 21, 2017, 10:40:33 AM
I've probably not explained it properly, you can only see your own codes not anyone elses, it was in the discussions after this system came about, we discovered HR are a bunch of Lying B******
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread - Michele Scarponi
Post by: RailGooner on April 23, 2017, 10:39:16 PM
Italian pro cyclist Michele Scarponi was involved in a fatal accident during a training ride on Saturday.

Pro cyclists can be a moody bunch, but Scarponi was well liked by his peers - many have spoken fondly of his jovial nature and not just this weekend. His most successful season was 2011 when he finished the Giro d'Italia second to winner Alberto Contador in General Classification (GC). Scarponi was later promoted to 1st in GC when Contador received a retrospective ban.

Major wins
   Grand Tours
      Giro d'Italia
       General classification (2011)
       Points classification (2011)
       3 individual stages (2 in 2009, 1 in 2010)

   Stage races
      Tirreno–Adriatico (2009)
      Volta a Catalunya (2011)
      Giro del Trentino (2011)

Scarponi is survived by a wife and two children.

Riposa in pace Michele
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: marco neri on April 23, 2017, 10:57:29 PM

A very unlucky man...a real champion, I did not want believe to the sad new..

Ciao Michele :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on April 23, 2017, 11:14:46 PM
Alejandro Valverde, winner of todays Liege-Bastogne-Liege, in a moving post-race interview has dedicated his prize money to Scarponi's family.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 24, 2017, 09:58:48 AM
As a huge fan of cycling road racing I was very shocked to hear the news and my thoughts go out to his family and friends :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on May 29, 2017, 01:13:08 PM
John Noakes, best known for co-presenting Blue Peter in the 60s and 70s, died yesterday. He'd suffered with Alzheimer's for many years.

His tenure as a Blue Peter presenter was the longest at 12 years. I can remember him completing a free fall parachute jump with the RAF Falcons Display Team. I remember his dog Shep too. John and Shep were Blue Peter for me - the two of them were more dynamic and down-to-earth than was the norm for Auntie B at the time.

I find it difficult to believe that he was never honoured - I think at least a CBE was warranted.

He is survived by his wife of 52 years.

Rest in peace John
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on May 29, 2017, 02:13:42 PM
I've been away for a few days so lots to catch up on.

Another 'special person' off the list then.

I too remember BP with John and Shep and still use, daft I know,  the phrase 'Down, Shep' should I hear a dog bark.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: broadsword on May 29, 2017, 02:24:47 PM
Sad news, he was a down to earth likeable character, not
like the posh Auntie Beeb presenters of the time.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on May 29, 2017, 02:30:50 PM
Quote from: daveg on May 29, 2017, 02:13:42 PM
I've been away for a few days so lots to catch up on.

Another 'special person' off the list then.

I too remember BP with John and Shep and still use, daft I know,  the phrase 'Down, Shep' should I hear a dog bark.

Dave G

Not daft at all Dave.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 29, 2017, 03:38:15 PM
A sad loss but he and Shep are re-united now. I also remember him fondly from 'Go with Noakes'.
With the TT starting next week here's a clip of the man and Shep......
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q8cTRSV6dLI (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q8cTRSV6dLI)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on June 01, 2017, 05:30:21 PM
... and it's farewell to Roy Barraclough.  :goodbye:

Lovely bloke. Met him years back while I was still involved with theatre work.

Roy was doing a comedy with the late Hugh Paddick and the pair of them came back to ours for a quick post show snifter. I remember howls of laughter with stories of working Kenneth Horn and Les Dawson.

More than 'just the one' made the entire night one to remember.

Cheers Roy! :beers:

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: broadsword on June 01, 2017, 08:35:38 PM
Yep, much underrated comedy actor, remember seeing him
with Les Dawson. also appeared as a barman in Rising Damp.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on June 01, 2017, 08:45:38 PM
Cissie and Ada reunited again. There'll be many a laugh upstairs now.
RIP, Roy :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on June 06, 2017, 05:12:50 PM
RIP Peter Sallis, who has left us aged 96.

Brilliant in Last of the Summer Wine and irreplaceable as the voice of Wallace.

Fabulous run but still sad. Condolences to everyone who will miss him, including that Wonder Dog!

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on June 06, 2017, 05:20:06 PM
I concur. He always seemed a kind and gentle bloke. He'll be sadly missed.
:(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Yet_Another on June 08, 2017, 10:38:54 AM
Unhappy with Hatton's IT systems.

I got a notification that a second hand HST coach I'm after was in stock, so I went and ordered it and another thing, just because I was there. Then their payment system stuffed up, and 24 hours later, I'm told the coach isn't in stock, and the payment for the other thing was refused. Not surprising, as I didn't provide the details.

So two phone calls and a cancelled order. Actually, three phone calls, because they phoned me about it just after I'd finished talking to them.

:(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on June 09, 2017, 02:40:45 PM
MId summer all the tourists are about to invade and
http://www.edp24.co.uk/motoring/drivers-face-nine-months-of-delays-and-diversions-on-the-a47-around-king-s-lynn-wisbech-and-peterborough-1-5055333 (http://www.edp24.co.uk/motoring/drivers-face-nine-months-of-delays-and-diversions-on-the-a47-around-king-s-lynn-wisbech-and-peterborough-1-5055333)

33 mile detours..... :worried:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on June 09, 2017, 02:59:20 PM
That looks like it's going to be a nightmare :o
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on June 09, 2017, 03:35:07 PM
Though this will affect my travel at times I think the website writer has a tiny bee in his bonnet about roadworks and speed cameras. I'm just happy they are resurfacing this busy road, and the fact that it is being done over the summer/autumn months makes good sense to me.

And most of the work will be done at night anyway.

Not that I will enjoy the diversions or traffic jams. ;)

Thanks for the heads up The Q. :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on June 09, 2017, 05:12:17 PM
Grrrr.
Went into Benson's Beds this morning to order 2 single mattresses.
We knew which mattresses we wanted and the price so shop took all details saying they would be delivered on Friday.
So.....says the shop assistant that's an extra £47 for delivery.
No, no we say.....we'll collect them from the shop. What time will they be in on Friday?
Unbelievably they Cannot deliver to the shop only to home addresses!!
Apparently as there is often only one assistant in the shop they cant have orders delivered there for Health and Safety reasons!  Hard to believe.
Needless to say we'll start again and get the mattresses elsewhere.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Steamie+ on June 10, 2017, 07:01:46 AM
That's a load of rubbish Martin, what's happing to our country, it's going stupid. We ordered a new sofa from Sofology last year and they wanted us to pay extra for delivery because we wanted it delivered at the weekend, needles to say we  :wave: ed them goodbye.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on June 10, 2017, 08:03:09 PM
Quote from: port perran on June 09, 2017, 05:12:17 PM
Grrrr.
Went into Benson's Beds this morning to order 2 single mattresses.
We knew which mattresses we wanted and the price so shop took all details saying they would be delivered on Friday.
So.....says the shop assistant that's an extra £47 for delivery.
No, no we say.....we'll collect them from the shop. What time will they be in on Friday?
Unbelievably they Cannot deliver to the shop only to home addresses!!
Apparently as there is often only one assistant in the shop they cant have orders delivered there for Health and Safety reasons!  Hard to believe.
Needless to say we'll start again and get the mattresses elsewhere.
What a difference today.
Ordered the same two mattresses in a local store in Penryn. Slightly lower price, plus an extra discount for ordering two. Really excellent service.
Free delivery or we can pick them up.
Glad we waited till today.

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on June 10, 2017, 08:34:04 PM
That is nice to hear - local shop comes good. It seems that the bigger the company, the less the company cares about customer satisfaction. I don't know if the attitude is "we are too big to bother about one customer, as we have so many", but, as has been proved on this one forum, it is very easy to let a lot of people know about poor, (and good), customer service.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Steamie+ on June 11, 2017, 07:41:14 AM
Agree with above.   :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on June 11, 2017, 07:46:21 AM
Top tip from latest Viz mag:

Turn your sofa into a sofa bed by simply forgetting your wife's birthday.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Steamie+ on June 11, 2017, 08:06:45 AM
Did that with my 1st George...lol  :laugh3: :laugh3:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Ian Bowden on June 11, 2017, 09:52:16 AM
So many locos to buy - so little money  :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on June 11, 2017, 11:08:51 AM
Quote from: Ian Bowden on June 11, 2017, 09:52:16 AM
So many locos to buy - so little money  :'(

So true.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on June 11, 2017, 09:25:19 PM
Agree with above, and I have 5 on order 😳
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on July 28, 2017, 10:49:50 AM
 :'(  :laugh3: :'(
Just spent 44 minutes with Telstra (telco) online chat trying to find out the reason why my new sim card in a new mobile data modem can't/hasn't been registered or activated.  This is my third time in 9 days.
Gave them an initial post of relevant info; sim, order, account, phone numbers along with the error I get when I try to use the new modem.  Got passed to three "operators"
who proceeded to ask questions laid out in the original post. 
The last straw was the last person asking if I had received the sim card and modem and then asking for the sim number. :help:
Please, all I want is someone who can read, comprehend and retain a little info from a previous post.  Is this asking too much?

AAARRRRGGGGGHHHH!!! :censored:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on July 28, 2017, 10:54:14 AM
To which thread are you referring to here?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on July 28, 2017, 11:20:54 AM
Quote from: Bealman on July 28, 2017, 10:54:14 AM
To which thread are you referring to here?
Funny Bealman.  Very Funny.
Just let me roll over for another kick. :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: paulprice on July 28, 2017, 11:36:25 AM
What's the deal with Nasal hair?

Before I reached 40 I was happily unaware that they existed, my nostril where just a bogey mine.

Suddenly now I have reached 41 my body has decided to produce these things over night, and they grow faster than bamboo. I mean how long do they have to be, and why do they attach themselves to your tender parts.

Yesterday I decided enough was enough with one of them, so I wrenched it out, I have just finished CRYING NOW!!!! I'm sure it was attached to my nether regions.

I'm now sitting at my desk, wondering if I should get all my mail changed from Mr Price to Mrs Price, and another of the pesky  :censored: :censored: buggers has decided to sprout from my other nostril

I HATE GETTING OLD ITS PANTS
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on July 28, 2017, 11:51:27 AM
It'll be your ears next... :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: paulprice on July 28, 2017, 11:55:43 AM
Quote from: austinbob on July 28, 2017, 11:51:27 AM
It'll be your ears next... :D

Great another thing to look forward to
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Dorsetmike on July 28, 2017, 11:56:40 AM
https://www.amazon.co.uk/s/ref=nb_sb_ss_c_2_7?url=search-alias%3Ddrugstore&field-keywords=nostril+hair+trimmer&sprefix=nostril%2Caps%2C144&crid=JM7DWQQ7PHET (https://www.amazon.co.uk/s/ref=nb_sb_ss_c_2_7?url=search-alias%3Ddrugstore&field-keywords=nostril+hair+trimmer&sprefix=nostril%2Caps%2C144&crid=JM7DWQQ7PHET)

Should be summat there that will sort it out. At 40 you're only a youngster, wait until you're more than twice that then you can claim to be getting old. :whistle:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on July 28, 2017, 01:25:15 PM
Just you wait PP!

Nasal hair is just the beginning!  >:D

Hair moves almost overnight. That which was upon your bonce goes south as you have already reported to nose, soon it'll be ears, shoulders, etc, etc.

Reminds me of the bit in Malcolm in the Middle where Hal (the dad) stands in the kitchen and is literally sheared by Lois. http://malcolminthemiddle.wikia.com/wiki/File:Lois%27_Debut,_shaving_Hal%27s_back._(YECGH (http://malcolminthemiddle.wikia.com/wiki/File:Lois%27_Debut,_shaving_Hal%27s_back._(YECGH)!!!).png

Happy days!

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on July 28, 2017, 01:44:06 PM
I reckon it's the follicles growing forgetful with age and getting confused about where they should actually be.

Now how to stop all my muscle concentrating itself around my midriff?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 28, 2017, 02:18:16 PM
I always remember the 'Baldy man' (Gregor Fisher) who pulled at a nasal hair and pulled and pulled while the small amount of hair on his head unravelled and disappeared :smiley-laughing:

Try to pluck these hairs out as, just like growing a beard, trimming just causes them to grow faster and thicker. The hair on my head is quickly vanishing and appearing up my nose and in my lugholes whilst my eyebrows get totally out of control :-[
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: broadsword on July 28, 2017, 02:38:25 PM
Sounds like you're turning into a werewolf,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, :o
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Tom U on July 28, 2017, 02:48:58 PM
Man goes into the barber shop.
He has just 3 hairs on his head.
Barber: How would you like the cut, sir?
Customer: I want it formal; one left, one right, one back.
Barber starts to comb and style...but...
Barber:  Sorry sir, one hair fell out, how would you like it now?
Customer:  OK, make it semi-formal; one left, one right.
Barber starts to comb and style...but...
Barber:  Sorry sir, another hair fell out, what now?
Customer:  To hell with it...leave it casual.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 28, 2017, 02:53:04 PM
Quote from: broadsword on July 28, 2017, 02:38:25 PM
Sounds like you're turning into a werewolf,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, :o

With an egg in a nest on his head ::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on July 28, 2017, 06:06:56 PM
Then there was the guy who went to the barber and asked for a haircut like Tony Curtis.

He fell asleep in the chair and let the barber get on with it.

When he woke up he found he was totally bald.

"Don't you what Tony Curtis' haircut looks like !" he screamed at the barber.

"Of course I do" replied the barber,

"I've seen him in 'the King & I' 5 times".

Best regards,


Joe
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on July 28, 2017, 09:47:10 PM
Or a similar Tony Curtis joke. The guy asks for a Tony Curtis haircut and ends up with a short back and sides. He exclaims, "Tony Curtis doesn't look like this!". The barber retorts,"Well he would if he came in here"
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 28, 2017, 09:59:36 PM
Oh Gawd. Next thing someone will be quoting the TV advert about a Lionel Blair haircut.
:oopssign: :-[
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on July 28, 2017, 10:05:55 PM
The Tony Curtis joke was around in the 50s, long before the TV advert.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on July 28, 2017, 10:15:37 PM
What joke  ???. (I was just a nipper in the 50's).  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on July 29, 2017, 07:44:23 AM
Quote from: dannyboy on July 28, 2017, 10:15:37 PM
What joke  ???. (I was just a nipper in the 50's).  :)

TRy this:

https://youtu.be/RH7Ze1t7b04

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: broadsword on July 29, 2017, 08:36:33 AM
Quote from: Malc on July 28, 2017, 10:05:55 PM
The Tony Curtis joke was around in the 50s, long before the TV advert.

I always regarded the Tony Curtis gag as among the best jokes of all time.

Like  Q     Who was the last man to box Sonny Liston ?

        A     The undertaker.................
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on July 30, 2017, 08:51:14 AM
Quote from: paulprice on July 28, 2017, 11:36:25 AM
What's the deal with Nasal hair?

Before I reached 40 I was happily unaware that they existed, my nostril where just a bogey mine.

Suddenly now I have reached 41 my body has decided to produce these things over night, and they grow faster than bamboo. I mean how long do they have to be, and why do they attach themselves to your tender parts.

Yesterday I decided enough was enough with one of them, so I wrenched it out, I have just finished CRYING NOW!!!! I'm sure it was attached to my nether regions.

I'm now sitting at my desk, wondering if I should get all my mail changed from Mr Price to Mrs Price, and another of the pesky  :censored: :censored: buggers has decided to sprout from my other nostril

I HATE GETTING OLD ITS PANTS

Just wait it's ears next!!!!  :-X
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jerry Howlett on July 30, 2017, 11:06:26 AM
 :laughabovepost: :smiley-laughing: :smiley-laughing: :smiley-laughing: :smiley-laughing: :laughabovepost:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Big bad John on September 10, 2017, 12:54:19 AM
 :-[ I was warned! I should have heeded @Bob Tidbury (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=3442) when I told him I'd bought a Dapol manor and he said check the front bogie screw as his had fell out while he was testing it. Guess what! The little bugger wasn't there when I took the loco of my test track. I've used my best eyeball a magnet and my hand held Vax but it seems that the fiddle yard fairies have magicked it away forever. I suppose it serves me right as I was trying to wind Bob up when he was telling me. Now where do I find a replacement screw of that size.  :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 12, 2017, 12:07:22 PM
Received a letter today from the N Gauge Society dated 9.10.17 to say my membership expired July 2017. Of course, this is my fault for not remembering a subscription I paid for 3 years ago but is it asking the impossible to have a reminder sent before the expiry date rather ' the horse has bolted so you'll miss out on at least 1 journal' letter?
Not angry but not happy either :unimpressed:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 12, 2017, 12:14:16 PM
I may be wrong, but I thought reminders were sent - maybe they forgot you. However @newportnobby (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264)  you should be able to get a copy of the issue you have missed Mick.
http://newweb.ngaugesociety.com/?page_id=71 (http://newweb.ngaugesociety.com/?page_id=71)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on October 12, 2017, 12:49:59 PM
Tell me which issue you are missing Mick and if I have it I'll send you my copy as I've read it and no longer need it. :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 12, 2017, 04:01:22 PM
Quote from: daffy on October 12, 2017, 12:49:59 PM
Tell me which issue you are missing Mick and if I have it I'll send you my copy as I've read it and no longer need it. :)

:pmsign:
:thankyousign:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: woodbury22uk on October 12, 2017, 04:48:50 PM
Quote from: paulprice on July 28, 2017, 11:36:25 AM
What's the deal with Nasal hair?

Before I reached 40 I was happily unaware that they existed, my nostril where just a bogey mine.

Suddenly now I have reached 41 my body has decided to produce these things over night, and they grow faster than bamboo. I mean how long do they have to be, and why do they attach themselves to your tender parts.

Yesterday I decided enough was enough with one of them, so I wrenched it out, I have just finished CRYING NOW!!!! I'm sure it was attached to my nether regions.

I'm now sitting at my desk, wondering if I should get all my mail changed from Mr Price to Mrs Price, and another of the pesky  :censored: :censored: buggers has decided to sprout from my other nostril

I HATE GETTING OLD ITS PANTS


I think there is the possibility that you are too young for model trains. Just spotted that the Busch N Tarmac Road is :-

-Scenery item
-Not a toy - designed for collectors over the age of 232
-May require assembly

Only another 163 years before I qualify.

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Busch-7087-N-Tarmac-Road/dp/B0000WOHLG/ref=pd_rhf_yast_1?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B0000WOHLG&pd_rd_r=HCBBG91XV6K5H74PST7A&pd_rd_w=wh2JD&pd_rd_wg=AxkPt&psc=1&refRID=HCBBG91XV6K5H74PST7A (https://www.amazon.co.uk/Busch-7087-N-Tarmac-Road/dp/B0000WOHLG/ref=pd_rhf_yast_1?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B0000WOHLG&pd_rd_r=HCBBG91XV6K5H74PST7A&pd_rd_w=wh2JD&pd_rd_wg=AxkPt&psc=1&refRID=HCBBG91XV6K5H74PST7A)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 16, 2017, 05:10:24 PM
During the weekend, our 7 year old dog 'Bonnie' became unwell, having been on a prescription diet for two years. I told my wife that I would ring the Vets this afternoon. I went to bed this morning after working last night and when I got up, it was obvious that 'Bonnie' was in a bad way, so I rang the Vet. I was told that, due to the storm affecting Ireland, I could not take her until tomorrow morning. At first I was quite annoyed, but could not really complain, as my wife had sent a message saying that she was staying with one of her work colleagues as the shop she works in had closed and I had received a call from work telling me not to go in tonight as the factory was shutting down, due to the storm. Anyway, to the point, 'Bonnie' has just died, peacefully, but how do I ring my wife and tell her? She was devastated when 'Misty', (in my little picture), died nearly two years ago and we still miss her.  So, I am sat here, waiting for the weather to improve a bit, before I go dig another hole in the garden. Just wanted to offload. Thanks for reading.
As an afterthought, there is always someone worse of than oneself - I have just heard that there are thousands in Ireland without electricity and sadly, one lady has been killed. Life can be a pain at times.  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on October 16, 2017, 06:45:10 PM
Sorry to hear of your sad loss, Dannyboy. Non pet owners don't understand that you are not losing a pet, but a valued and loved member of the family. I don't envy you having to tell your wife.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: woodbury22uk on October 16, 2017, 06:52:37 PM
Feel for you @dannyboy (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=4209) I had a similar situation when our cat died. My wife was 3000 miles away, and when she got home, I was going to be away. Very difficult to break the news over the phone when you can't hold the other person. A hug or cuddle always helps.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 16, 2017, 07:14:50 PM
As you say Malc, it is a bit like loosing a member of the family. I have now contacted my wife - she is heartbroken but has made me promise to not go pick her up because of the weather, so I will not be able to console her properly until tomorrow. I started digging a hole but had to stop as, apart from getting dark, the rain has come back, although it is not quite as windy as it was. Living where I do, there will be trees down somewhere on the lane that I have to drive on so we will see what comes with the morrow. The internet is back after being down for a couple of hours, so I can still 'talk' to people, but the mobile is still down. Thanks to Malc and Mike. I will get the bottle of 'Jura' out in a bit!  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on October 16, 2017, 07:56:07 PM
 :heart: David ( @dannyboy (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=4209) )
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 16, 2017, 08:28:39 PM
As a pet owner I know only too well what you're going through, David. :(
My thoughts are with you and your wife. Have a Jura for me, please
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 16, 2017, 08:32:27 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on October 16, 2017, 08:28:39 PM

My thoughts are with you and your wife.    Thanks Mick - appreciated.

Have a Jura for me, please    Err, does that mean I have to have two  ??? :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 16, 2017, 08:33:18 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on October 16, 2017, 08:32:27 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on October 16, 2017, 08:28:39 PM

My thoughts are with you and your wife.    Thanks Mick - appreciated.

Have a Jura for me, please    Err, does that mean I have to have two  ??? :)

At least!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on October 16, 2017, 08:42:43 PM
When the last of my cats died some years ago, at the grand old age of 15, I was devastated. Pets are family to those of us who welcome them into our lives, and their passing is inevitably a traumatic experience.

May the storm in your life soon pass, and may your wife return safely to you so that you may both get far greater comfort than the Jura can give.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on October 16, 2017, 08:44:27 PM
Danyboy Im so sorry to read your sad news ,as Malc and Daffy have said a pet is not just an animal its one of the family and  a very loyal friend those that havnt ever had a dog will never realise what its like to loose a friend and member of the family so you have my sympathy.
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on October 17, 2017, 06:06:06 AM
I could only repeat what has already been said.

Always hugely sad when a loved pet leaves us.

Absolutely love our big Blue but still miss those that are no longer here.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on October 19, 2017, 02:11:22 PM
So - I have a bit of damp and mould in a small room at the back of the house. Builders take a look and say some of the rendering needs replacing and the wall needs damp proofing. Inside needs cleaning and repainting. Just a few hundred pounds - sorted.

Next I strip everything out from inside the room so it can be cleaned up and redecorated.
Builders take a look and say walls have no damp course and floor is quarry tiles on sand. Outside the walls need special treatment - drilling holes in bricks and pumping in special liquid damp course. New concrete covering around wall and new drainage to prevent water collection.
Inside - replace plaster, add new insulation board and plaster board, repair any other damage.

Total cost is now £7k

So no new N gauge toys for quite a while and bread and water rations.

:hmmm: :veryangry:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on October 19, 2017, 02:20:32 PM
@austinbob (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=2403)

Think about getting a second opinion. We had similar conversations with damp "specialists", long story short, didn't need damp proof course injecting, didn't need replaster just changed ventilation routine, some outside adjustments. Good as gold. Two out of three specialists wanted to go the  £5k route, the other cost us nothing. In return we got him to do the woodworm treatment.

Just my experience. I do property maintenance by the way.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on October 19, 2017, 02:30:30 PM
Quote from: emjaybee on October 19, 2017, 02:20:32 PM
@austinbob (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=2403)

Think about getting a second opinion. We had similar conversations with damp "specialists", long story short, didn't need damp proof course injecting, didn't need replaster just changed ventilation routine, some outside adjustments. Good as gold. Two out of three specialists wanted to go the  £5k route, the other cost us nothing. In return we got him to do the woodworm treatment.

Just my experience. I do property maintenance by the way.
Thanks emjaybee.
No cheap short cut I'm afraid - 3 different builders all have same conclusion. Only difference is we ignored the first two and took short cuts with result that things are now much worse. we actually have soil inside the room now where its worked its way through the wall.
Got to be done I'm afraid.
:beers:
Bob
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 19, 2017, 02:58:37 PM
Very sorry to hear that, Bob :(
Complete bummer.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: themadhippy on October 19, 2017, 04:00:59 PM
poxy ruddy banks.Had my account with the same place  for donkeys years,  the big sell offs took place and the small freindly local got bought out but the new owners  offered me the same type of account so all was good,until today when a new card arrived.Its one of those  contacless jobbies that i dont want,phone bank,no problem we'll issue a non contactless  card , just let me take some details ,o hang  that type of  account isnt eligible for a debit card only a cash card. So explain please why for the past 9 years ive been with you ,and the many years previous ive had a debit card? erm ere mmm dont know.Ok put me onto an acount that can,without any charges or overdraft facilitates,just like my acount was  .we dont do one.Ok then what can you offer me? Let us just check your credit history,are those details correct sir we cant find any  details of any loans, mortgage,or credit card ? yep thats right i avoid em.well were sorry theres nothing we an offer you apart from the account your currently on :veryangry:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on October 19, 2017, 04:21:01 PM
What a pain. I suppose its called 'customer care' these days.
Time to find another 'caring' bank.
:no:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on October 19, 2017, 05:10:43 PM
I don't know who you are with, but my wife was issued with a contactless card, which she didn't want. Lloyd's changed it with no problems.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: themadhippy on October 19, 2017, 05:23:12 PM
QuoteLloyd's changed it with no problems
Getting it changed wasnt the problem,they were ready to change it until they discovered that  i had the very basic account ,and that account isn't   eligible for debit cards,and never has been,even though ive  had a debit card  with  the account for years.
QuoteTime to find another 'caring' bank
Indeed,however a trawl throught the T's and C's for the basic acounts all say you cant have one if you have another bank account elsewere :veryangry:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on October 19, 2017, 05:37:43 PM
Nothing to stop you swapping banks. Most banks will do a transfer of your account for you, moving over all direct debits and notifying all those who regularly pay into your account, et cetera. Some banks currently offer an incentive to do so. When I moved to Halifax bank some time back they paid me £100 for the privelage.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on October 19, 2017, 05:40:56 PM
Quote from: daffy on October 19, 2017, 05:37:43 PM
Nothing to stop you swapping banks. Most banks will do a transfer of your account for you, moving over all direct debits and notifying all those who regularly pay into your account, et cetera. Some banks currently offer an incentive to do so. When I moved to Halifax bank some time back they paid me £100 for the privelage.
Must say I've been with Halifax for years and no problems so far.... Touch wood.
:beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Ian Bowden on October 22, 2017, 01:03:28 AM
For some perverted reason your credit rating increases when you have more debt.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: thebrighton on October 22, 2017, 10:02:49 AM
Quote from: Ian Bowden on October 22, 2017, 01:03:28 AM
For some perverted reason your credit rating increases when you have more debt.
Oh yes, years working for Lloyds in a past life taught me that. I used to have a top notch credit rating but since I paid off my mortgage and now don't owe a penny to anyone it's quite rapidly falling. The way the system works is that if someone is lending you money and you're paying it back no problem you are obviously a good risk. The system can't comprehend that you don't need to borrow money so assumes you're not as no one will lend to you so you are obviously a poor credit risk.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 22, 2017, 10:21:23 AM
It's why lots of people got into trouble. If you struggled to pay off an existing credit bill all the banks did was extend your credit limit. Not that I have ever struggled, but at one stage my credit limit was £10500.
I told the bank not to be so  :censored: stupid and reduce it to a max of £500 ::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on October 22, 2017, 10:27:04 AM
I have a credit limit of $29000 on a card, which tried to cancel, and I got someone who had a basic grasp of English trying to talk me out of it.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on October 22, 2017, 11:11:59 AM
Quote from: Lindi on October 22, 2017, 11:00:46 AM
Quote from: newportnobby on October 22, 2017, 10:21:23 AM
It's why lots of people got into trouble. If you struggled to pay off an existing credit bill all the banks did was extend your credit limit.

Banks would only extend the credit limit if you are making regular payments.

Quite true, but when that regular payment, from some, is the bare minimum because that's all they can afford, then as far as I'm concerned to increase the credit limit of someone in that position, as I know they have done, is morally reprehensible and financially irresponsible.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on October 22, 2017, 11:45:39 AM
Grrr.
Caught the train yesterday from Redruth to Bristol and return to watch the football. A trip I make 5 or 6 times a season with Cross Country trains.
The up trip was fine (if a little crowded).
Coming home however. First confusion for all at Temple Meads where the train was shown as foe Exeter (not the booked Penzance). No platform announcements other than this is the 17.43 to Exeter.
It was only after the train left that it was announced that the train would indeed terminate at Exeter (due to a member of staff being unavailable),
We all had to disembark and wait one hour for the next service.
On questioning the train manager it be ame apparent that it was the new train manager (Exeter to Penzance who was unavailable).
The coyager then continued to Penzance empty.
Ok probably couldn't be helped but the staff at Temple Meads were of no help and didn't seem aware of the problem at all.
Not good PR. It's not too bad for those of us who know a bit about railways but the general public on the platform were obviously very confised and anxious.
Anyway, as luck would have it I eventulaay arrived 64 mins late at Redruth so a compensation claim is on its way to Cross Country.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on November 22, 2017, 03:16:50 PM
Gah, after finally training my parents not to CC: their entire address books when forwarding "funnies", my mother has gone and done it again, and I bet half the recipient list are running unpatched Windows XP.

Farewell current primary personal email address, it was nice knowing you.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on November 22, 2017, 03:46:32 PM
I feel your pain, Squiddy.
My mother uses an iPad and I have shown her time after time how to strip all other addresses out but still she forwards any mails I send her to her friends with my mail address on display, and any I get from her always have every pensioners' mail addresses in the UK and beyond, I swear :doh:
I suppose I ought to be glad at her age she is using her tablet as well as taking them but it is most frustrating as, somewhere, she has a piece of paper where I wrote the process down.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on November 23, 2017, 03:09:23 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on November 22, 2017, 03:46:32 PM
I feel your pain, Squiddy.
My mother uses an iPad and I have shown her time after time how to strip all other addresses out but still she forwards any mails I send her to her friends with my mail address on display, and any I get from her always have every pensioners' mail addresses in the UK and beyond, I swear :doh:
I suppose I ought to be glad at her age she is using her tablet as well as taking them but it is most frustrating as, somewhere, she has a piece of paper where I wrote the process down.

On the plus side, I did persuade my parents to make the switch to Macs a while back, and since then I no longer spend any significant time fending off support requests and those I do get I have a reasonable chance of answering ("yes I do work in IT, but the last time I used Windows on a daily basis was when NT was still a thing").
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Lawrence on November 24, 2017, 08:35:40 AM
Quote from: railsquid on November 23, 2017, 03:09:23 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on November 22, 2017, 03:46:32 PM
I feel your pain, Squiddy.
My mother uses an iPad and I have shown her time after time how to strip all other addresses out but still she forwards any mails I send her to her friends with my mail address on display, and any I get from her always have every pensioners' mail addresses in the UK and beyond, I swear :doh:
I suppose I ought to be glad at her age she is using her tablet as well as taking them but it is most frustrating as, somewhere, she has a piece of paper where I wrote the process down.

On the plus side, I did persuade my parents to make the switch to Macs a while back, and since then I no longer spend any significant time fending off support requests and those I do get I have a reasonable chance of answering ("yes I do work in IT, but the last time I used Windows on a daily basis was when NT was still a thing").

Fortunately, mother never switches her PC on these days and contents herself with her ipad, which she royally screws up frequently, she has learned not to forward her 'funny' emails from her friends to me which is a blessing  ::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on November 28, 2017, 12:44:21 PM
I paid my first visit to Warley on Saturday and while there picked up a Dapol Britannia for £60 on the Dapol stand :) My first Dapol, as my other locos are Graham Farish.

I was unable to test it while there, as my train home was due. I got home and found it was faulty :( It is very noisy, grinds and rattles even more loudly every few seconds, appears to have a tight spot once per revolution and derails if the grinding happens while crossing points or even on curves in reverse.

Apparently common with these locos.

It is now on its way to DCC Supplies.

Not a good start to Dapol ownership!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Yet_Another on November 29, 2017, 06:33:31 PM
Just cancelled my preorder for the Graham Farish class 40 with sound. An emergency replacement alternator for the car has put paid to that. :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on November 29, 2017, 08:51:21 PM
I used to have to sort out my parents computer as long my nephew's and nieces kept loading all sorts of carp on it. They are now old enough and sensible enough not to do that....now I have to sort out my great nephew's and nieces carp off the computer....
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: camelback on November 30, 2017, 12:27:15 PM
I would buy them an aquarium for their carp.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on November 30, 2017, 02:21:04 PM
Or find somewhere else they can parc their carp ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jimbo on November 30, 2017, 02:46:57 PM
Surely there must be a carp park nearby?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on November 30, 2017, 04:09:35 PM
Quote from: Jimbo on November 30, 2017, 02:46:57 PM
Surely there must be a carp park nearby?

I was pond-ering on that as well but I fear this topic is getting far too deep for me.

Dave G

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on November 30, 2017, 04:51:03 PM
 :hmmm:

The mystery of the disappearing post? :uneasy:

I'm sure I had a notification of a lengthy one here in my email Inbox at 04:12pm but..............

Guess all this carping on has led us into the Twilight Zone.

Edit/update: checking my email boxes, seems post#913 in this thread has made an unexpected second appearance in my Inbox, two days after it's first notification.  Very strange :confused1: - but I shan't lose any sleep over it! :no:

:beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on November 30, 2017, 10:32:54 PM
One day God calls down to Noah and says "Noah, I want you to make me a new Ark".
Noah replies, "No probs God, anything you want after all you're the boss".
But God interrupts, "Ah but there's a catch this time Noah, I want not just a couple of decks, ..... I want 20 decks one on top of the other".
"20 DECKS!", screams Noah, "Well, OK Big Man, whatever you say, should I fill it up with all the animals just like last time?"
"Yep, that's right, well ..... sort of right.......this time I want you to fill it up with fish" God answers.
"Fish?" Queries Noah.
"Yep, fish ... well, to make it more specific Noah, I want Carp, wall to wall, floor to ceiling - Carp!"
Noah looks to the skies, "OK God, let me get this right, you want a New Ark?"
"Check".
"With 20 decks, one on top of the other?".
"Check".
"And you want it full of Carp?".
"Check"
"But why?" asks the perplexed Noah, who was slowly but surely getting to the end of his tether.
"Well...." says God, "I just thought it would be nice to have a Multi-Storey Carp Ark"
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: woodbury22uk on December 01, 2017, 09:14:12 AM
Quote from: stevewalker on November 30, 2017, 10:32:54 PM
One day God calls down to Noah and says "Noah, I want you to make me a new Ark".
Noah replies, "No probs God, anything you want after all you're the boss".
But God interrupts, "Ah but there's a catch this time Noah, I want not just a couple of decks, ..... I want 20 decks one on top of the other".
"20 DECKS!", screams Noah, "Well, OK Big Man, whatever you say, should I fill it up with all the animals just like last time?"
"Yep, that's right, well ..... sort of right.......this time I want you to fill it up with fish" God answers.
"Fish?" Queries Noah.
"Yep, fish ... well, to make it more specific Noah, I want Carp, wall to wall, floor to ceiling - Carp!"
Noah looks to the skies, "OK God, let me get this right, you want a New Ark?"
"Check".
"With 20 decks, one on top of the other?".
"Check".
"And you want it full of Carp?".
"Check"
"But why?" asks the perplexed Noah, who was slowly but surely getting to the end of his tether.
"Well...." says God, "I just thought it would be nice to have a Multi-Storey Carp Ark"

The original one has been restored and is alive and well at the Chiswick House Lantern Festival.


(http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/58/1599-011217091338.jpeg)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on December 10, 2017, 11:31:37 AM
Woke this morning - hey, it is still, just, morning - to find a foot of snow outside! :veryangry: :censored: :veryangry: :censored: :veryangry:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on December 10, 2017, 11:46:36 AM
Quote from: RailGooner on December 10, 2017, 11:31:37 AM
Woke this morning - hey, it is still, just, morning - to find a foot of snow outside! :veryangry: :censored: :veryangry: :censored: :veryangry:
Hasn't reached us in North Hampshire yet.  :no:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on December 10, 2017, 12:01:02 PM
At least the garden looks tidy at last.
(http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/59/497-101217115913.jpeg)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on December 10, 2017, 12:21:35 PM
Blue the cat is far from happy but Mr Robin has got his breakfast!

(http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/59/1087-101217122022.jpeg) (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=gallery;sa=view&id=59110)

(grabbed shot through the kitchen window)

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on December 10, 2017, 02:51:44 PM
Quote from: RailGooner on December 10, 2017, 11:31:37 AM
Woke this morning - hey, it is still, just, morning - to find a foot of snow outside! :veryangry: :censored: :veryangry: :censored: :veryangry:

I see you've offset this by posting the same in the 'Happy Thread' but with different smilies :D
Not a single flake up here :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on December 10, 2017, 03:35:00 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on December 10, 2017, 02:51:44 PM
Quote from: RailGooner on December 10, 2017, 11:31:37 AM
Woke this morning - hey, it is still, just, morning - to find a foot of snow outside! :veryangry: :censored: :veryangry: :censored: :veryangry:

I see you've offset this by posting the same in the 'Happy Thread' but with different smilies :D
Not a single flake up here :'(

Yes, I'm quite divided. The child within is always pleased to open the curtains to snow. :bounce: But the adult me knows what chaos it brings. >:(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on December 11, 2017, 10:31:18 AM
Snow what Snow? it's just rained for the last two days...  >:(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MinZaPint on December 11, 2017, 01:55:32 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on December 10, 2017, 02:51:44 PM

Not a single flake up here :'(

Aren't you forgetting someone Mick  :smiley-laughing:  :sorrysign:
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Post by: Newportnobby on December 11, 2017, 04:01:54 PM
Quote from: MinZaPint on December 11, 2017, 01:55:32 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on December 10, 2017, 02:51:44 PM

Not a single flake up here :'(

Aren't you forgetting someone Mick  :smiley-laughing:  :sorrysign:

:ouch: :ouch:
Hurts, Mummy, hurts :'( :'( :'(
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Post by: Kudi on December 20, 2017, 06:53:32 PM
I was wondering what your experience might be with Traintrax. I ordered stuff from them 10 days ago, got a "despatched" email one day later, but still have not received any consignment. Is that par for the course?
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Post by: daffy on December 20, 2017, 07:37:36 PM
That's unusual in my experience over the last year.. I suggest you email or call Keith at TrainTrax as I have always had efficient service from him. The Christmas delivery period is always a little fraught with some delays, but 9 days from despatch I would consider excessive.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 20, 2017, 09:20:09 PM
I would definitely contact Keith. I have ordered quite a few bits from him over the last year and I do not think any of his packets have taken nine days to get to me here in Ireland.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Ian Bowden on December 21, 2017, 04:53:14 AM
Definitely contact Keith. The only time it has taken more than a few days was when he was on holiday and he gave notice in advance. Even then he monitored his emails.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Kudi on December 22, 2017, 05:31:04 PM
Thank you for all your helpful comments. My parcel finally arrived today.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on December 22, 2017, 05:43:20 PM
That's good news. And a Merry Christmas to you. :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on December 27, 2017, 03:23:34 PM
As of 10 minutes ago something has gone in my back and I'm reduced to slowly hobbling round the bungalow with the aid of a walking stick. It is painful to stand up, to sit down and most things in between. It's even painful to sit here in a straight backed chair and type.
I'm not looking forward to trying to get out of bed in the morning :worried: :uneasy:
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Post by: Bob Tidbury on December 27, 2017, 03:37:02 PM
Newport Nobby go to bed with a bottle of whiskey or Brandy and a flexible tube and then you dont need to get out of bed  and if you get a funnel  hosepipe and a bucket then your all sorted ,you wont be able to  (play trains ) but you could put a video on and watch trains .
On a more serious note go steady mate we dont want you ill youve had enough problems of late ,if it gets worse call the Vet out they answer calls quicker than doctors.
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 27, 2017, 06:11:32 PM
Bob is right in every respect Mick  - whiskey, flexible tube, video, Vet. Seriously, take it easy.  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on December 27, 2017, 06:48:51 PM
Good advice (mostly!  :D ).

Take it easy, Mick.

Dave G
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Post by: REGP on December 27, 2017, 07:20:55 PM
Mick
Think I've been there with a slipped disc mate, bed rest certainly helped. Unfortunately no one suggested Scotch as pain killer, but a call to the "vet" will be in order if doesn't ease up quickly.

Ray
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Post by: daffy on December 27, 2017, 10:05:18 PM
Commiserations Mick. If, and I must stress the 'if', you have what is technically termed a prolapsed disc, I know just how you must be feeling. I've suffered with the misnomer of 'slipped disc' for decades. When it plagues me, as it surely will and sometimes for no good reason, I find a good anti-inflammatory painkiller - Ibuprofen is my current choice of over the counter drugs - and the direct application of an ice pack to the affected area, is the most judicious treatment.

I have never found heat treatments (i.e. Hot water bottles, pads etc) have any more than a temporary, even illusory benefit, whereas wrapping one of those freezer box packs in a tea-towel and sitting or lying with it exactly where it hurts, has a lasting benefit. (If you try this, don't keep it in one place for too long as you'll get skin-freeze!)

I also avoid immobility as much as possible, when possible, as in my experience at least it prevents the muscle spasms 'setting in'. Gentle exercise is the third weapon in my arsenal.

The Doc may be the first port of call if the pain and discomfort (even extreme pain at times for me) persists, but when I get a serious bout of back pain then I will always seek out on Osteopath.

But see the Doc soonest for a full and proper diagnosis.

And NO alchohol - it'll mess up the drugs and make you depressed! :sorrysign:

Get well soon! :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jack on December 28, 2017, 07:14:20 AM
I feel you pain @newportnobby (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264)  I'm with @daffy (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=5634) all the way on this one!

I'm seeing my osteopath later today having put my back out again a few days ago just by turning around in a chair!

Generally speaking, she won't see me until at least three days after the event of the back going and me taking ibuprofen. Something to do with the easing of muscle spasms before she works her 'magic'.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on December 28, 2017, 07:44:33 AM
How are you today buddy?

Concerned Bealman
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on December 28, 2017, 10:58:34 AM
Thanks, All.
Bit of a sleepless night as I could not get comfortable and then the cat wouldn't wait for his breakfast this morning so up at 05.45 ::) Back to bed to watch the news and doze a while. It's quite painful to actually stand and walk initially but then, apart from a constant tugging pain in a band round my lower back, it's actually not so bad. I do take Anadin 'Back & Muscle' pain tablets or 'the little green workers' as I call them and the Ibuprofen in them helps a lot. I hope, with care, it will ease itself out with some gentle exercise. Saturday will be the next challenge as I need to drive to the supermarket for sustenance for both the cat and myself. I'll have a test in the cul-de-sac tomorrow.
My brother-in-law is a vet and he knows about my back issues. Often he has said my cat is OK but I need putting down :worried:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: REGP on December 28, 2017, 12:45:07 PM
Glad to hear there's some improvement Mick.
Ray
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: David Asquith on December 28, 2017, 01:58:49 PM
You can't keep a good un down.  Hope you recover fully soon.

Dave
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on December 28, 2017, 03:23:15 PM
Best wishes.
Do take it easy though.
If you really find driving too painful get the supermarket to deliver. We can't have the cat going hungry now can we.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on December 28, 2017, 07:53:00 PM
Made a mistake today. I ordered some clothes from M & S on line and went into the local store to pick them up. Normally a 5 min job. Not today. I joined a queue of about 8 people most of whom seemed to be returning their complete set of Christmas presents. About 30 mins later I got my goods.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on December 29, 2017, 12:38:50 PM
Quote from: Lindi on December 28, 2017, 08:01:46 PM
Quote from: Malc on December 28, 2017, 07:53:00 PM
Made a mistake today. I ordered some clothes from M & S on line and went into the local store to pick them up. Normally a 5 min job. Not today. I joined a queue of about 8 people most of whom seemed to be returning their complete set of Christmas presents. About 30 mins later I got my goods.

I also collected an order from M&S this afternoon (served straight away). In my local store they have a dedicated till that only does orders/collections. All returns have to go through the main tills
Our store also has a dedicated collection point, but it was shut and all collections were from the returns counters. Just as we were leaving, an assistant went along the now much longer queue and asked if anyone was just picking up orders. Typical.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on January 10, 2018, 01:58:57 AM
Kangaroo kicked a big hole, about 500mmx100mm, in a lounge room window. :o
Blood in pools and bloody footprints so I hope it is still ok. :worried:

$300 to fix.


CFJ    :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on January 10, 2018, 02:26:32 AM
Oh dear! Yeah, they're not cheap to replace. Had a similar experience, but the culprit was a labrador.

I guess Skippy is now limpy!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on January 24, 2018, 10:01:38 PM
We went down to the Ropetackle Arts Centre in Shoreham this evening to see one of our favourite Irish folk bands. Not a pleasant journey down, but you expect that in January. Went to the desk to pick up our tickets (ordered online, which we have done many times before) and they couldn't find them. Concern and puzzlement on our part. Fortunately, I found the email confirmation on my phone and showed it to the lady. She checked my account on her computer and asked who we had come to see. Lunasa, we said. Not tonight, said she, tonight it's Pee Wee Ellis Funk Ensemble! We were 5 days too early...  :doh: Retreat in confusion and embarrassment to a local hostelry for a swift half to make the journey worthwhile.

Still, at least the diary malfunction was in the right direction. If we'd been 5 days too late we'd have been gutted.

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on January 24, 2018, 10:08:42 PM
That is definitely an 'oops' moment! Still, look on the bright side, you got your swift half and you can look forward to going all over again.  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: ozzie Bill. on January 25, 2018, 09:25:16 AM
Chris, that is classic and I suspect that some of the replies will belong in the happy thread! Anyway, enjoy the concert and let's hope the journey is not so bad second time around!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: lil chris on January 25, 2018, 11:06:34 PM
Bit of a sickner today I have been to the dentist. My crown kept coming loose, I must have paid to have it glued back numerous times. The dentist said he wanted to sort it properly so I finally agreed, its cost me small fortune, put it this way my wallet hurts more than my mouth.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: lil chris on January 25, 2018, 11:12:30 PM
I guess this is you in bed @newportnobby (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264) love these vids so true has all cat owners know.

https://simonscat.com/films/bed-head/
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on January 26, 2018, 09:43:01 AM
Thanks Chris.

Made my morning, especially after Blue decided 05:30 was a good time to wake me up!

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 26, 2018, 09:48:59 AM
@lil chris (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=1784) Sorry to hear about your tooth, Chris, but the Simon's Cat film was sooooo close to what Hookey does. His favourite trick is to walk round the top of my head, get onto the bedside table and then rap me on the head to wake me up. It's so funny I just can't be cross with him even if it's the middle of the night.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: javlinfaw7 on January 26, 2018, 05:27:14 PM
8:00 am this morning I was wakened by a shriek coming from my son's room Ripley our normally angelic little cat woke him by dropping a dead sparrow on his face
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on January 26, 2018, 05:38:07 PM
Well, that's one less to count for the RSPB survey this weekend!  :)

Our cats usually bring us a present of a mouse - not so bad when they are whole, but when they are not .....  :sick2:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Mito on January 26, 2018, 05:52:29 PM
I was having a siesta one day and our cat brought a snake in, still very much alive and dropped it on my crutch, I've never got out of bed so quickly!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: javlinfaw7 on January 26, 2018, 06:10:53 PM
Streaky our less than angelic cat does like to share his mice, but normally just leaves us the head on the door step
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on January 27, 2018, 11:29:33 AM
There is no feeling like the one you get when you venture into the kitchen barefoot, first thing in the morning to put the coffee on and find the inner workings of something small and furry squeezing up between your toes. It does help you wake up quickly though.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on January 27, 2018, 11:45:23 AM
Yuk!  :sick:

We have similar problem here except it's cockroaches as big as mice.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on January 27, 2018, 01:08:04 PM
Knew there was a reason Australia is so far away from everywhere else.

It does put me in mind of the time I was living in an apartment here with a Japanese-style room (tatami'n'stuff), was sleeping on the futon on the floor next to the windows, which had "shoji" (sliding doors made of a wooden lattice covered in squares of translucent paper), woke up, while still lying down opened said shoji to see what was happening in the world outside when something small and black thudded onto the pillow. Now I am not A Mr Wide Awake in The Morning kind of person but believe me it was  matter of seconds before the balcony doors were opened, the unwelcomed guest propelled onto the balcony with a flick of a pillow where it made the acquaintance of the underside of something solid which was happily close to hand.

(The pillow was later irradiated then cast into the mouth of an active volcano).
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Geoff on January 27, 2018, 10:55:21 PM
I have had the flu jab and now I have the flu, I know there are so many strains of flu but I do not want this one.

Any one else with the flu I wish you well.

Good night god bless
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jimbo on January 28, 2018, 10:27:42 AM
Quote from: Geoff on January 27, 2018, 10:55:21 PM
I have had the flu jab and now I have the flu, I know there are so many strains of flu but I do not want this one.

Any one else with the flu I wish you well.

Good night god bless

I had a flu jab at work a few years ago as it was being offered for free, and guess what......got the full blown flu! Wether it was coincidence or not I don't know but I haven't had one since, I don't want to put people off it because it may well be beneficial to some but I feel for you! Hope you have a swift recovery....Having said that I haven't had the flu since!......That was a few years ago as I said sooooo, it may well have done the trick!!!  :dunce: who knows! LOL!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on January 28, 2018, 11:17:45 AM
Curiously the flu jab does not contain active flu virus, but often the body reacts to the jab with flu like symptoms. Having had flu in 1982, I couldn't move for about 4 days, ached all over and didn't eat a thing, I sympathise with anyone suffering.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Geoff on January 28, 2018, 12:20:52 PM
Well I had the worse night ever but when the flu jab comes round later this year I will have it again, the wife has had the flu think I am 2 days behind her, my body is in so much pain, anyway going for another sleep if my body will let me.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on January 28, 2018, 06:11:36 PM
I'm in a spot of bother, chaps (and chapesses). My best beloved cracked the edge of the screen on her smartphone (Samsung S8, which appear to have a reputation for fragile screens so be warned!). I offered to put a dab of superglue on the crack to stop it getting any worse and smooth off the rough edge. Malheureusement, the glue ran off into the power switch which is now stuck fast.  :'( I hope my tame phone repairer can fix it tomorrow, otherwise I am looking at forking out for a new phone... Oh well.

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on January 30, 2018, 03:12:02 PM
Quote from: ozzie Bill. on January 25, 2018, 09:25:16 AM
Chris, that is classic and I suspect that some of the replies will belong in the happy thread! Anyway, enjoy the concert and let's hope the journey is not so bad second time around!

Temporary hijacking of the happy thread!
Well, we got the right evening at last! Great gig last night. It was the band's last night of a short UK tour before heading off to the states and they were firing on all cylinders - best we have ever seen them play. We are friends of the guitar player and the flutie knows us too, so we had long chats with them and Blanche got hugs so it all came right in the end!

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on January 30, 2018, 11:42:11 PM
I had just got out of bed, shortly after lunchtime today, (not being lazy, I was preparing myself for working tonight), when Louisa rang me. My sister had been trying to contact me to inform me that my Mum had passed away this morning. Whilst I am obviously sad and upset over this, to be honest, I think, in a guilty way, that it was for the best. Apart from being 86, Mum was suffering from some sort of Dementia which seemed to be getting worse. I think it all started when my sister passed away a couple of years ago. Mums short term memory was terrible. She was always complaining to me that my brother never rang her and, conversely, would complain to my brother that I never rang, yet we both rang 3 or 4 times a week. Still, she has now got her wish, as she always said she wanted to be with my Dad and sister.  RIP Mum.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: ozzie Bill. on January 31, 2018, 04:29:44 AM
Sorry to hear about your Mum, but don't feel guilty. Well done for expressing your feelings here amongst this community. Thoughts are with you and your family. Cheers, Bill.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on January 31, 2018, 04:52:49 AM
Condolences, mate. Several people I knew well have passed away because of dementia, and like you, I thought it for the best as their quality of life was non-existant.

Best wishes, buddy.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on January 31, 2018, 07:25:56 AM
Sorry to read your news but I do understand what you mean about feeling sad but with some relief that what was a tough time is over.

I'm sure you and your family will have many great memories of better days.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on January 31, 2018, 07:35:07 AM
So sorry to read of your loss David. My thoughts are with you.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on January 31, 2018, 08:22:40 AM
Very sorry to hear of your loss ,and I fully understand what you mean about being sad but at the same time relief .
Its so sad to see someone close gradually getting worse ,My father inlaw suffers with Altziemers and Dementure  and its horrible watching someone who was so fit and clever reduced to being allmost like a baby and sometimes he doesnt even recognise my wife and her brother .
Regards and deapest sympathy
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 31, 2018, 09:23:20 AM
You have my deepest sympathy, David. It really is a 'rock and a hard place' to be in that situation.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Caz on January 31, 2018, 11:52:39 AM
It's always so sad to lose someone very close but with very little quality of life it is usually for the best, I've told my family if I ever get to the state where quality of life is nil then they have my permission to whatever is necessary.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on January 31, 2018, 12:21:55 PM
So sorry to hear your news.
I can only echo the thoughts of others.
It really is for the best. Remember the good times and chin up.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on January 31, 2018, 12:41:49 PM
There is a rare event happening right now; a blood, blue, super moon and we have a thick unbroken cloud cover :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jerry Howlett on January 31, 2018, 02:21:29 PM
David, Condolences.

Jerry
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Delboy on January 31, 2018, 02:58:51 PM
Deepest sympathy David at the loss of your Mum. As previously mentioned, always remember the good times.
Dennis.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Mito on January 31, 2018, 06:22:09 PM
Sad news but there will be plenty of happy memories. I too believe in quality of life not quantity.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Zogbert Splod on January 31, 2018, 07:21:10 PM
Sympathy David. It's not easy to realise right now but, in time, you will be able to smile at her memory and remembering the good times.

Regards, Allan.....
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Geoff on January 31, 2018, 07:30:46 PM
So sorry to hear your mum has passed please accept my condolences.

My mother died of dementia and I know what you are going through, take care my friend.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on January 31, 2018, 07:34:35 PM
My condolences to you and your family David.

I lost my mother many years ago to an awful illness, but she has never left me.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jimbo on January 31, 2018, 10:04:17 PM
Very sad, bless her! Only the very best wishes to you and your family through a difficult time, I am truly sorry David.

Jimbo.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: David Asquith on February 01, 2018, 08:38:23 AM
Condolences David.  At least her anguish has ended.

Dave
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on February 03, 2018, 07:28:43 PM
on one hand well done amazon order placed last night at 1800 with free delivery delivered it today but not good news left it on the door step in full view of every on and not put a card through the door this is the second time they have done this time to complain i think :censored:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on February 03, 2018, 08:35:19 PM
Quote from: Lindi on February 03, 2018, 07:58:31 PM
Quote from: JBQFC on February 03, 2018, 07:28:43 PM
on one hand well done amazon order placed last night at 1800 with free delivery delivered it today but not good news left it on the door step in full view of every on and not put a card through the door this is the second time they have done this time to complain i think :censored:

You should complain every time. I've found there online chats are the best for this although they can sometimes be a bit time consuming as the person who is dealing with you has multiple chats on the go at the same time. If you are an Amazon Prime member then you should be able to get a month free otherwise try to get a credit to your account.

i have complained the first time i got a £5 refund
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on February 04, 2018, 10:12:01 AM
Quote from: JBQFC on February 03, 2018, 08:35:19 PM
Quote from: Lindi on February 03, 2018, 07:58:31 PM
Quote from: JBQFC on February 03, 2018, 07:28:43 PM
on one hand well done amazon order placed last night at 1800 with free delivery delivered it today but not good news left it on the door step in full view of every on and not put a card through the door this is the second time they have done this time to complain i think :censored:

You should complain every time. I've found there online chats are the best for this although they can sometimes be a bit time consuming as the person who is dealing with you has multiple chats on the go at the same time. If you are an Amazon Prime member then you should be able to get a month free otherwise try to get a credit to your account.




i have complained the first time i got a £5 refund


well this time they have offered free express delivery on my next order  :censored:so time for another complaint

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on February 04, 2018, 11:41:53 AM
Quote from: JBQFC on February 04, 2018, 10:12:01 AM
Quote from: JBQFC on February 03, 2018, 07:28:43 PM
on one hand well done amazon order placed last night at 1800 with free delivery delivered it today but not good news left it on the door step in full view of every on and not put a card through the door this is the second time they have done this time to complain i think :censored:

well this time they have offered free express delivery on my next order  :censored:so time for another complaint

I agree. I intensely dislike this form of redress. "Sorry we cocked up, spend more with us and we'll see if we can mess it up faster next time!"

Best of luck with your complaint. :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on February 04, 2018, 04:30:26 PM
Could have been worse. It could have been sent via Yodel..............

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3328577/Overly-enthusiastic-delivery-man-surprises-customer-leaving-parcel-waiting-ROOF.html (http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3328577/Overly-enthusiastic-delivery-man-surprises-customer-leaving-parcel-waiting-ROOF.html)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on February 04, 2018, 06:34:57 PM
One of my sailing club members has been seriously ill with cancer, and about three weeks ago it was arranged the nearest broad would be especially opened, and we all went up there. He was helped to a boat that was loaned, by another member.  But he enjoyed a sail with his wife and two children on board and him in control on the helm as we all sailed together...


Today I lowered the flags to half mast...
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Delboy on February 05, 2018, 10:46:52 AM
Sorry to here that
RIP
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on February 05, 2018, 01:41:56 PM
The Q What a nice story but with such a sad ending my thoughts are with you and his family .
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on February 05, 2018, 02:20:56 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on February 04, 2018, 04:30:26 PM
Could have been worse. It could have been sent via Yodel..............

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3328577/Overly-enthusiastic-delivery-man-surprises-customer-leaving-parcel-waiting-ROOF.html (http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3328577/Overly-enthusiastic-delivery-man-surprises-customer-leaving-parcel-waiting-ROOF.html)

Around here if someone pulled a stunt like that. they'd have the honchos of the offending company polishing the floor with their foreheads on national TV and the actual projectile delivery operator would find himself seconded to a posting somewhere closer to Russia than Tokyo.

Back on topic, flu. Not sure if squid flu or Hong Kong Phooey flu or what, but need brain and lungs back.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on February 05, 2018, 07:57:18 PM
Quote from: daffy on February 04, 2018, 11:41:53 AM
Quote from: JBQFC on February 04, 2018, 10:12:01 AM
Quote from: JBQFC on February 03, 2018, 07:28:43 PM
on one hand well done amazon order placed last night at 1800 with free delivery delivered it today but not good news left it on the door step in full view of every on and not put a card through the door this is the second time they have done this time to complain i think :censored:

well this time they have offered free express delivery on my next order  :censored:so time for another complaint

I agree. I intensely dislike this form of redress. "Sorry we cocked up, spend more with us and we'll see if we can mess it up faster next time!"

Best of luck with your complaint. :thumbsup:

well its pays to be persistent got a refund of £10  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on February 05, 2018, 08:07:10 PM
Good result! :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on February 05, 2018, 08:18:22 PM
Quote from: railsquid on February 05, 2018, 02:20:56 PM
Quote from: newportnobby on February 04, 2018, 04:30:26 PM
Could have been worse. It could have been sent via Yodel..............

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3328577/Overly-enthusiastic-delivery-man-surprises-customer-leaving-parcel-waiting-ROOF.html (http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3328577/Overly-enthusiastic-delivery-man-surprises-customer-leaving-parcel-waiting-ROOF.html)

Around here if someone pulled a stunt like that. they'd have the honchos of the offending company polishing the floor with their foreheads on national TV and the actual projectile delivery operator would find himself seconded to a posting somewhere closer to Russia than Tokyo.

Back on topic, flu. Not sure if squid flu or Hong Kong Phooey flu or what, but need brain and lungs back.
Hope you start to feel better soon.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Yet_Another on February 18, 2018, 05:09:59 PM
I was on my way to the Warley open day, when the car coughed and died as I got on to the M5.

Several hours later, I'm back home, sans car, not having got to Oldbury.

The car is parked outside a local garage, with more fault codes in it's electronics that the mind can comfortably comprehend, all of them intermittent. How long is it going to take them to find and fix the suspected Canbus comms fault? How long is a piece of string?

Very not happy.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MistyEyedWanderer on February 27, 2018, 04:23:35 PM
Hmm, the unhappy thread, seems to me an ideal place to let rip.
Has any one had dealings with the fabled legend, http://www.railwayeng.com (http://www.railwayeng.com) ?

Because its appears, that I dared to:
A. Ask a question about track standards
B. Fish for advice from a pro.
C. Not immediately understand or agree as a novice
D. Dare to pay for goods and services
E. Not provide every intimate detail that is available via paypal
F. Fail to please his Majesty in every way.

I have sent the most undeserving polite English gentleman's letter I possibly could, for troubling his Lordship.

We will see If I get my stuff or not as I (foolishly) sent my wad directly to his paypal account as his effing cart was broken.  :censored:

I was angry.  Now unhappy.  And more than a little hurt.  I'm glad that I have met some good murican's previously , or this might well have put me off the whole place.

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Zogbert Splod on March 06, 2018, 01:07:35 PM
I have not been in possession of a television set for many years now.  I don't like television.  Since I moved into my current address, some seven and a half years ago, I have had three visits from TV license plonkers, i have also had three letters from them asking me to purchase a license and to provide proof of having done so, or let them know that I don't need one.  I have responded to this online each time.  That's all OK (ish)...   However, today, I got a letter advising me that I am to be visited by an 'enforcement officer' to confirm that I do not have a TV and that I do not watch live broadcasts on line.
The attendance at my door of a 'representative' wishing to confirm that nothing has changed I can deal with.  But an 'enforcement officer'?  Really?
While I question the morality of the thing in general, I also have to wonder how much of the licence fee goes to checking up on whether people are paying their licence fee!  It seems that there is a visit to an address every 5 seconds, day, evening - including weekends. 10,101 visits a day they say.  I wonder how many people, on the streets and in various offices around the country, are involved in this.  I wonder what the total cost of policing this is.
It's the implied threat of a visit from an 'enforcement officer' that has got me wound up.  Does anyone else find that offensive?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on March 06, 2018, 01:17:03 PM
I am very puzzled by my Ipad ,As everyone knows I am an absolute idiot with technical things  I cant open Facebook the Icon is still.on.the screen but its a dark picture its normaly blue ,I have tried to uninstall.it but it wont let me .
If I go to appstore and go to facebook the app says open but if you click.on that  nothing happens ,has anyone got a simple answer to help.me.
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on March 06, 2018, 01:25:51 PM
Quote from: Zogbert Splod on March 06, 2018, 01:07:35 PM
..
  Does anyone else find that offensive?

I once went through a period of a few years without a TV or any other qualifying devices. I got so fed up with the bullying and harassment from the Licensing plonkers*, that I wrote to them promising legal action if they continued. Never heard another word from them.

* A very suitable description Zogbert.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: njee20 on March 06, 2018, 04:44:59 PM
Quote from: Bob Tidbury on March 06, 2018, 01:17:03 PM
I am very puzzled by my Ipad ,As everyone knows I am an absolute idiot with technical things  I cant open Facebook the Icon is still.on.the screen but its a dark picture its normaly blue ,I have tried to uninstall.it but it wont let me .
If I go to appstore and go to facebook the app says open but if you click.on that  nothing happens ,has anyone got a simple answer to help.me.
Bob Tidbury

There's a pending update - go into the App Store and go to updates - you should be able to force it through if it's not already done it.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on March 06, 2018, 05:13:30 PM
Quote from: njee20 on March 06, 2018, 04:44:59 PM
Quote from: Bob Tidbury on March 06, 2018, 01:17:03 PM
I am very puzzled by my Ipad ,As everyone knows I am an absolute idiot with technical things  I cant open Facebook the Icon is still.on.the screen but its a dark picture its normaly blue ,I have tried to uninstall.it but it wont let me .
If I go to appstore and go to facebook the app says open but if you click.on that  nothing happens ,has anyone got a simple answer to help.me.
Bob Tidbury


There's a pending update - go into the App Store and go to updates - you should be able to force it through if it's not already done it.

If that doesn't cure the problem, I've found one of the most common cures for iPad odd behaviour is to shut down completely and reboot it.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on March 06, 2018, 06:16:46 PM
Ive tried a complete shut down and left it off overnight rebooted and still.no joy.
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on March 06, 2018, 06:41:54 PM
Are you running the latest version of the Apple operating system, iOS 11?

If not I would suggest doing a backup of valued data before downloading and installing the update that should show in your Settings app.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Yet_Another on March 06, 2018, 08:24:01 PM
Quote from: Zogbert Splod on March 06, 2018, 01:07:35 PM
It's the implied threat of a visit from an 'enforcement officer' that has got me wound up.  Does anyone else find that offensive?

Yes. I've had skirmishes with that lot for 35 years, and their bully-boy missives have changed little. I seem to recall that I'm on the list for a visit as well. Good luck to them, I'm not here that much.

Just carry on regardless. I think I filled in some sort of declaration online that satisfied them for the time being.

I don't know if you have them north of the border, but down south, we have these 'traffic enforcement officers' who have little power but wielding a radar gun. Same sort of thing, really.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on March 06, 2018, 08:29:12 PM
I now need to post in the Happy thread after several attempts and help from two or three mates Ive actually got Facebook running again at last .
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on March 06, 2018, 08:32:00 PM
Good to hear everything is up and running fine,  Bob.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on March 23, 2018, 07:38:14 PM
 Credit card hacked. :'( Three dodgy transactions. Reported 1st one 3 days ago. Bank put watch on account and two more dodgy transactions today reported by bank. Both blocked awaiting my approval.
Original transaction will be refunded and new card issued.
Not good but impressed the way bank sorted it quickly and without question.
Got to go through hassle of updating online accounts now.
:hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on March 23, 2018, 07:46:06 PM
I know the feeling well Bob - see my post in 'Angry' thread on 19th March.  As I said in that post, I have to compliment the Bank on how quick they picked it up. Within 90 minutes of the 4 fraudulent transactions, they were trying to contact me. One of the transactions has already been returned to my account and I received the new PIN today. Unfortunately, the card has not arrived yet, so can not use it at Ally Pally on Sunday!  :(

@austinbob (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=2403)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on March 23, 2018, 08:56:12 PM
My wife's account was hacked a few months ago and her bank warned us very quickly. We were very impressed by the service. What I don't understand though is how the hackers did it because she hardly uses her account. She pays with everything either with her credit card or my account!!

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on March 23, 2018, 11:05:01 PM
Quote from: Papyrus on March 23, 2018, 08:56:12 PM
My wife's account was hacked a few months ago and her bank warned us very quickly. We were very impressed by the service. What I don't understand though is how the hackers did it because she hardly uses her account. She pays with everything either with her credit card or my account!!

Cheers,

Chris
On one of the two occasions this happened to me, I was told I had authorized a change to the account online. I pointed out that this account I had specifically asked for it to be blocked from all  internet and phone changes. To which they finally agreed it had been done. So the only way for it to register an online account change was an inside job,

At which point I was given a reference number for the police. My account was sorted, and it all went very quiet from the bank.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on March 24, 2018, 10:02:59 AM
Quote from: austinbob on March 23, 2018, 07:38:14 PM
Credit card hacked. :'( Three dodgy transactions. Reported 1st one 3 days ago. Bank put watch on account and two more dodgy transactions today reported by bank. Both blocked awaiting my approval.
Original transaction will be refunded and new card issued.
Not good but impressed the way bank sorted it quickly and without question.
Got to go through hassle of updating online accounts now.
:hmmm:
Just noticed that the day my credit card was hacked was also the day I signed up to Facebook. Coincidence??
:hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: EtchedPixels on March 25, 2018, 11:38:24 PM
Alas poor acoustic guitar

It's now reached the point where even without string tension the wood on the body and neck is too distorted to fix (and the bridge has been held on with boatbuilders glue for some time - good stuff boatbuilders glue). It's something like third hand but it's still sad to see it go.

Feels like it ought to get a proper funeral pyre.

Alan
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on March 25, 2018, 11:47:20 PM
You could do what Jimi Hendrix did, squirt lighter fluid all over it and set fire to it  8)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on March 26, 2018, 03:20:33 PM
Quote from: EtchedPixels on March 25, 2018, 11:38:24 PM
Alas poor acoustic guitar

It's now reached the point where even without string tension the wood on the body and neck is too distorted to fix (and the bridge has been held on with boatbuilders glue for some time - good stuff boatbuilders glue). It's something like third hand but it's still sad to see it go.

Feels like it ought to get a proper funeral pyre.

Alan

I take it that there isn't a truss rod in the neck?  I assume that string tension has pulled the neck out of true? Prop the head and body on a couple of bricks and hang a heavy bag of wet sand over the neck. It ruins the varnish, but could give you a bit more life from it.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: red_death on March 26, 2018, 03:23:49 PM
Quote from: austinbob on March 24, 2018, 10:02:59 AM
Just noticed that the day my credit card was hacked was also the day I signed up to Facebook. Coincidence??

Yes - how could signing up for Facebook lead to your card being hacked? Unless you posted all your card details on Facebook in a post I fail to see the link.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: njee20 on March 26, 2018, 03:52:22 PM
Got to agree with Mike there! They may be the subject of the current "data breach du jour", but that's a bit of a stretch!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on March 26, 2018, 04:04:39 PM
Quote from: red_death on March 26, 2018, 03:23:49 PM
Quote from: austinbob on March 24, 2018, 10:02:59 AM
Just noticed that the day my credit card was hacked was also the day I signed up to Facebook. Coincidence??

Yes - how could signing up for Facebook lead to your card being hacked? Unless you posted all your card details on Facebook in a post I fail to see the link.
That's cos there's no link!! But twas a coincidence though.  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: red_death on March 26, 2018, 04:09:19 PM
Apologies Bob - I took your post possibly too literally! 

There is so much huff and puff about the evils of Facebook and so much myth spread that I think people need to understand the real risks.

Being overcautious on the web limits your ability to take full advantage of all the benefits (of which there are many) of the web.  Still better to be slightly overcautious that not cautious enough!

Cheers, Mike
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Yet_Another on March 26, 2018, 08:13:14 PM
I'm thinking that it's quite possible that there are databases of card details out there, just waiting for the right personal details to be exposed.

I'm sure that many will have seen the Barclays advert where the fraudster integrates multiple data sources to gather enough info on a young woman to be able to impersonate her online.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on March 26, 2018, 08:24:25 PM
Almost certainly Tony.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on April 15, 2018, 05:02:22 PM
Just been fitting Seep point motors. Three fitted and working no problem. Fourth - poked operating rod through point actuator (SL-E389F) and point just fell apart. Actuator arm and one of the point blades just dropped off WHAT!!  :veryangry:
Now I've got to buy a new one and lift a couple of lengths of track (with lots of isolating sections already wired up of course!!) and replace the point.
Two steps forward and one step back as usual.
:'( :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on April 29, 2018, 09:30:13 PM
After spring teased us with a few days of warmer weather, winter has come back to bite us on the  :censored: . So what happens? Our central heating boiler chooses this weekend (Friday evening, natch) to have a sulk and refuse to light. :'(

Thank goodness for a gas fire, an oil-filled electric radiator and an emotion heater.

More expense.

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on April 29, 2018, 09:34:40 PM
People often say that I can be a bit cold.

Quote from: Papyrus on April 29, 2018, 09:30:13 PM
..
an emotion heater.
...

Where can I get one? :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on April 29, 2018, 09:41:11 PM
I have an emotion heater at home. Unfortunately, she does not always heat the emotions I want heating!  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 29, 2018, 09:51:47 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on April 29, 2018, 09:41:11 PM
I have an emotion heater at home. Unfortunately, she does not always heat the emotions I want heating!  :)

Now that's what I call living on the edge, David :worried:
I just hope your emotion heater wasn't looking over your shoulder at that moment in time
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on April 29, 2018, 09:57:06 PM
I'm not daft  :no:. I am at work and the lovely Louisa is at home 15 miles away.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 03, 2018, 10:59:49 AM
Ordered 10 x Dapol BR weathered 20T mineral wagons from Rails whose website stated "Availability: Ordered on request" and received an acknowledgement telling me delivery would be approx 7-10 days. I've now received an e mail today from Rails stating their delivery from Dapol has arrived and there were no mineral wagons on it. When they contacted Dapol, Rails were informed they were discontinued.
I'm not really a happy bunny :unimpressed:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on May 03, 2018, 11:48:21 AM
So they will be appearing on ebay in a few days marked 'rare' !  ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: silly moo on May 03, 2018, 01:01:21 PM
We have just been traipsing around looking for an electronic item that was supposedly in stock at three different stores. The stock was shown on their computer system but when we got to two of the stores there was nothing. Eventually after quite a bit of time and petrol, it was third time lucky.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Ian Bowden on May 04, 2018, 11:00:29 PM
Quote from: Zogbert Splod on March 06, 2018, 01:07:35 PM
I have not been in possession of a television set for many years now.  I don't like television.  Since I moved into my current address, some seven and a half years ago, I have had three visits from TV license plonkers, i have also had three letters from them asking me to purchase a license and to provide proof of having done so, or let them know that I don't need one.  I have responded to this online each time.  That's all OK (ish)...   However, today, I got a letter advising me that I am to be visited by an 'enforcement officer' to confirm that I do not have a TV and that I do not watch live broadcasts on line.
The attendance at my door of a 'representative' wishing to confirm that nothing has changed I can deal with.  But an 'enforcement officer'?  Really?
While I question the morality of the thing in general, I also have to wonder how much of the licence fee goes to checking up on whether people are paying their licence fee!  It seems that there is a visit to an address every 5 seconds, day, evening - including weekends. 10,101 visits a day they say.  I wonder how many people, on the streets and in various offices around the country, are involved in this.  I wonder what the total cost of policing this is.
It's the implied threat of a visit from an 'enforcement officer' that has got me wound up.  Does anyone else find that offensive?
They probably have a few people running round pretending to be a lot. I am dubious of the figure of 10,101 visits (a nice round number) a day as that equals 2,626,260 visits a year (based on 5 day working week). With the average household comprising of say 3 people and a population of 65,000,000 that equates to about 1 in 10 households not having a TV licence.
I get these threats regularly, my usual answer is what part of the address theatre indicates we should have a TV set.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on May 05, 2018, 07:32:26 AM
 I would advise  anyone bothered in this manner by the Licence checkers to complete a declaration that you don't need a licence. The TV Licensing website gives this page for doing just that:

http://www.tvlicensing.co.uk/check-if-you-need-one/topics/telling-us-you-dont-need-a-tv-licence (http://www.tvlicensing.co.uk/check-if-you-need-one/topics/telling-us-you-dont-need-a-tv-licence)

It might stop the plonkers! :D


Just a warning: note that you don't need to have a TV nowadays to be required to have a TV Licence. Note the wording near the top of the page linked above:
QuoteYou don't need a TV Licence if you:
never watch or record programmes on any channel as they're being shown on TV or live on an online TV service, and
never download or watch BBC programmes on iPlayer – live, catch up or on demand.
This could be on any device, including a TV, desktop computer, laptop, mobile phone, tablet, games console, digital box or DVD/VHS recorder.

So if you don't have a TV but use another device to watch BBC programs, the nice folks from the Licensing Police could be knocking on your door! :o

PS - for full clarity, here's the wording from the Licensing website that gives the exact detail of when you do have to have a licence:

Quote[You need to be covered by a TV Licence to
watch or record live TV programmes on any channel
download or watch any BBC programmes on iPlayer – live, catch up or on demand.
This applies to any provider you use and any device, including a TV, desktop computer, laptop, mobile phone, tablet, games console, digital box or DVD/VHS recorder./quote]
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on May 05, 2018, 10:53:07 AM
When I worked for the Beeb, I used to get letters demanding payment for a TV license. Each time I responded by saying we didn't require one. After a few years of this I got fed up and called them. The guy I spoke to told me his wife was a great Archers fan and if I could get her some publicity info, he could get us off the mailing list. A quick call into the Archers office and a large envelope in the post and we were off the list. Please note, I don't think this works for anyone else.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 05, 2018, 12:21:00 PM
Strewth! I think I'd rather pay a licence fee, Malc
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Ian Bowden on May 05, 2018, 07:58:19 PM
What gets me riled about the declaration is they have us down 3 times in their records and despite several assurances that it has been corrected we inevitably get 3 separate threatening letters.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: silly moo on May 24, 2018, 01:57:27 PM
Being driven bonkers by passwords. :veryangry: In this electronic age you seem to need a password for almost everything including this forum and remembering them is a real test, unless they are all the same which is inadvisable. I store mine in an app on my iPad but if that were to get stolen I'd be in trouble so I need to back them up on a piece of paper which isn't safe either but trying to remember them all is the worst and I'm not even senile yet  ???
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: zwilnik on May 24, 2018, 02:23:52 PM
Quote from: silly moo on May 24, 2018, 01:57:27 PM
Being driven bonkers by passwords. :veryangry: In this electronic age you seem to need a password for almost everything including this forum and remembering them is a real test, unless they are all the same which is inadvisable. I store mine in an app on my iPad but if that were to get stolen I'd be in trouble so I need to back them up on a piece of paper which isn't safe either but trying to remember them all is the worst and I'm not even senile yet  ???

if you're using an iPad, switch on iCloud Keychain storage. Then all your passwords are stored securely on iCloud, which means you can use it to auto-fill most web ones and access them in an emergency (from any of your devices ). If you've switched 2 factor authentication on then nobody is going to get access to them if the device is stolen (especially if you've got Find my iPad on, because you can remote lock it)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: zwilnik on May 24, 2018, 02:24:57 PM
Besides that, you live in South Africa at the moment don't you? Don't you have flamethrowers fitted to your iPad for security like they do on the cars there? :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: silly moo on May 24, 2018, 02:33:26 PM
No real flame throwers on cars here but sometimes we could do with them! Leaving SA for good on Sunday. In a recent robbery my iPad wasn't stolen but my phone and laptop were, they had lots of passwords on them so everything had to be changed, adding to the confusion.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on May 24, 2018, 03:18:36 PM
Well safe journey and a happy landing wherever you plan to be, Veronica.  :wave:

Hope you'll still be on the Forum, too.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: njee20 on May 24, 2018, 03:35:36 PM
Either use a password manager, meaning you need only remember one password, or take a unique attribute from the site the password is for; so have NGFpassw0rd or BBCpassw0rd or whatever - easy to remember and unique by site.

Aaaaand remember that despite what we're told, longer and simple is far harder to crack than short and complex. A sentence is immeasurably better than throwing random symbols and numbers into the mix.

If you want to check how secure your password is you can do so here (https://howsecureismypassword.net/)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on May 24, 2018, 03:50:43 PM
Quote from: njee20 on May 24, 2018, 03:35:36 PM

If you want to check how secure your password is you can do so here (https://howsecureismypassword.net/)
I don't think I'd wanna be entering any of my passwords into a site not known to me !!!  ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 24, 2018, 03:59:06 PM
@silly moo (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=279)
Are you sad to be leaving SA, Veronica, and where are you heading to (if you don't mind me asking, of course)?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: njee20 on May 24, 2018, 04:05:43 PM
Quote from: austinbob on May 24, 2018, 03:50:43 PM
Quote from: njee20 on May 24, 2018, 03:35:36 PM

If you want to check how secure your password is you can do so here (https://howsecureismypassword.net/)
I don't think I'd wanna be entering any of my passwords into a site not known to me !!!  ;)

There's healthy scepticism and... ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: broadsword on May 24, 2018, 06:06:52 PM
Passwords a real pain, in a financial office I worked in we had to change our personal
passwords every week, some people used the football league teams which gave about
100 weeks worth, I used the books of the bible and kept a bible in my desk bookmarked.
No matter the system chosen the humourless techhead who was the  it administrator
wanted us to have passwords like Q2>Jn67??87Wx.....needless to say he was ignored !
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on May 24, 2018, 09:51:46 PM
I use loco names and number and keep a book of them near my computer. Then when I need a password I have a diary in which I just enter the number to remind me.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 24, 2018, 10:25:14 PM
My e mail account has a password with 7 letters, 3 numbers and a currency sign and still I get spammed now and then ::) It's bad enough me try to remember the password myself! :dunce:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on May 25, 2018, 08:14:16 AM
G.D.P.R.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on May 25, 2018, 08:17:58 AM
passwords..
I have a formula to do with the sites name. Well three formulas,
One for non financially involved sites, Like this one,  the simplest formula
One for shopping. slightly more complicated.
One for banking . Complicated but, easy to remember the formula.

Each of the three  formulas is different from each other, so knowing one won't lead you to the next. There is more to the formulas but there is no way I'd be mentioning that on here!!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on May 25, 2018, 10:12:08 AM
For banking and other key areas, such as the Government Gateway, pensions, etc, I have very complex passwords, only a few of which I can ever recall without sight of a written copy.
For online shopping I use slightly less complex passwords, and NEVER allow a website to keep payment data for future transactions.
For other websites, such as this one, I use simpler passwords, usually of at least ten characters, that are never duplicated.
I also clear out cookies and website data almost every day.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on May 25, 2018, 10:30:05 AM
Quote from: The Q on May 25, 2018, 08:14:16 AM
G.D.P.R.

I've received yet another email from yet another company I've dealt with sometime in the last thirty years, telling me about the amendments to their data protection T&C's or whatever. I get lots of these, as I'm sure you all do, and sometimes I'm darned if I can remember if I ever dealt with some of the companies that email me :hmmm:

But the thing is, what do I do with this latest one? :uneasy: 

a. Nothing, and stay listed with them.
b. Nothing and be deleted from their listing.
c. Press on a hyperlink button and stay listed with them.
d. Press on a hyperlink and be deleted from their listing.
e. Press on a hyperlink button to bring up a form that I have to amend or complete to stay listed with them.
f. Press on a hyperlink button to bring up a form that I have to amend or complete to be deleted from their listing.
g. Take pot luck, read only the first line to conform it's about GDPR, then delete the email without further action.

Choices, choices......... ???

Now wouldn't it be nice if they all followed the same process. It would have saved an hour or more of my life over the last few weeks if they had!  :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: themadhippy on May 25, 2018, 10:34:24 AM
just  use http://enigma.louisedade.co.uk/enigma.html (http://enigma.louisedade.co.uk/enigma.html) to  make your passwords,set the ring ground and plugboard to something you can remember,then type in your chosen password.Luckily blechley park is half missing so  your passwords should be secure
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on May 25, 2018, 11:06:53 AM
Quote from: themadhippy on May 25, 2018, 10:34:24 AM
just  use http://enigma.louisedade.co.uk/enigma.html (http://enigma.louisedade.co.uk/enigma.html) to  make your passwords,set the ring ground and plugboard to something you can remember,then type in your chosen password.Luckily blechley park is half missing so  your passwords should be secure

Well It's Missing a T, I noticed 'cos I used to live there...
An interesting site , but if someone else uses it they can decode your password...
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 25, 2018, 11:23:59 AM
@daffy (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=5634)
Even though I ceased looking for a job some 9 years ago I still get mails from agencies I've never managed to unsubscribe from. Now they send me a stay/go message I'm using the opportunity to the full :D >:D. As times/circumstances change so do our needs, so newsletters from model shops etc are quite welcome. It may be the situation one has slightly cheaper utilities bills if you have paperless statements so mails from such companies become a necessity. On balance, I only remain with those I've used in the last year. It won't take much to sign up again should the need arise.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jerry Howlett on May 25, 2018, 03:32:08 PM
I have been away from the world of work for over 12 years. This week I started to getemails with lists of jobs back in my old home town of Ware.  Despite some of the interesting salaries, commuting may be a bit of a problem and interfere with the already slow progress of layout rebuilding.

Jerry
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on May 25, 2018, 03:58:16 PM
Quote from: The Q on May 25, 2018, 11:06:53 AM
Quote from: themadhippy on May 25, 2018, 10:34:24 AM
just  use http://enigma.louisedade.co.uk/enigma.html (http://enigma.louisedade.co.uk/enigma.html) to  make your passwords,set the ring ground and plugboard to something you can remember,then type in your chosen password.Luckily blechley park is half missing so  your passwords should be secure

Well It's Missing a T, I noticed 'cos I used to live there...
An interesting site , but if someone else uses it they can decode your password...

I also used to live in Bletchley, I concur that it should have a 'T'.

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 25, 2018, 04:09:20 PM
Quote from: emjaybee on May 25, 2018, 03:58:16 PM
Quote from: The Q on May 25, 2018, 11:06:53 AM
Quote from: themadhippy on May 25, 2018, 10:34:24 AM
just  use http://enigma.louisedade.co.uk/enigma.html (http://enigma.louisedade.co.uk/enigma.html) to  make your passwords,set the ring ground and plugboard to something you can remember,then type in your chosen password.Luckily blechley park is half missing so  your passwords should be secure

Well It's Missing a T, I noticed 'cos I used to live there...
An interesting site , but if someone else uses it they can decode your password...

I also used to live in Bletchley, I concur that it should have a 'T'.

Of course it should have a 'T'. Otherwise it would just b 'i' ::) :laugh3:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on May 25, 2018, 04:13:17 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on May 25, 2018, 04:09:20 PM
Quote from: emjaybee on May 25, 2018, 03:58:16 PM
Quote from: The Q on May 25, 2018, 11:06:53 AM
Quote from: themadhippy on May 25, 2018, 10:34:24 AM
just  use http://enigma.louisedade.co.uk/enigma.html (http://enigma.louisedade.co.uk/enigma.html) to  make your passwords,set the ring ground and plugboard to something you can remember,then type in your chosen password.Luckily blechley park is half missing so  your passwords should be secure

Well It's Missing a T, I noticed 'cos I used to live there...
An interesting site , but if someone else uses it they can decode your password...

I also used to live in Bletchley, I concur that it should have a 'T'.

Of course it should have a 'T'. Otherwise it would just b 'i' ::) :laugh3:

I can't help thinking you've got too much time on your hands...

:hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: acko22 on May 27, 2018, 06:59:02 AM
Well as a number of you know I have been on away with work for some time, but I was rushed home to be with family on emergency compassionate travel landing at Heathrow to be greeted with train tickets to get back north ASAP.

But Virgin trains just shocking!! Worked had booked me on the 1700 service but Virgin wouldn't let me travel on an earlier service unless I paid an extra 45 pounds.
That wouldn't have been an issue if I had my bank cards with me or my phone had any life to get family to pay the extra, but all I had was the clothes on my back a bag and my emergency travel documents, to say unhappy is a polite way off saying totally  :censored: off!!
The attitude shown by the staff at Euston well honestly if you travel through their apart from a few members of staff I just wouldn't bother!

Thankfully the situation at home hasn't got any worse and now I can be with my family it what is a distressing time!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on May 27, 2018, 07:14:39 AM
Sorry to learn that a difficult situation was made worse by 'Jobsworth' attitude.

Hope life gets easier very soon.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: StufromEGDL on May 27, 2018, 07:58:56 AM
@acko22 (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=4166)

Comp cell should have called me. I'm on Standby at RS3 all weekend specifically for this type of move.
Glad you got home in time though...hope all is as good as it can be.

Later,
Stu from EGDL.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on May 27, 2018, 07:46:51 PM
That sort of attitude certainly does not help in circumstances like yours. You would think the 'jobsworth' could have made some enquiries of a supervisor or something, if only for the good PR it would generate. Anyway, I hope things work out okay.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on May 27, 2018, 08:05:14 PM
in my day, back when Pontias was a pilot, there were RTO offices at most London railway stations, and they would I'm sure been ably to sort something out for you.

no doubt all gone now, in the interests of 'efficieny / economy / cost cutting'

just like the military, army, navy and air force, hospitals, as opposed to a couple of wards in an NHS hospital

may I join the others in hoping that all is not as bad as was initially thought.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: acko22 on May 27, 2018, 09:21:37 PM
Hi gents,

Thanks for you good wishes, @StufromEGDL (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=36) if I knew that I would have got them to get you on call with your driving even from Heathrow it would have taken less time!
@class37025 (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=311) I won't lie I have no idea what an RTO is, but having been with family and now maybe not calmer but relieved to be with family I can say that Oxford station is the exact opposite of what I experienced at Euston, when returning from tours they use to (and most likely still do) send someone out to meet you and get you sorted and on your way with as much help as they can offer, even offering to carry kit for you (brave when you consider how heavy we like our bags) on one occasion a mate of mine missed the last train home and they sorted him out with a taxi to a station where there was a later train which could get him home.

So I would never slag the entire railways staff off as I know there are plenty of good guys out there just my luck to get stuck with the jobsworths yesterday right at the time I needed it the least
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on May 28, 2018, 08:41:44 AM
RTO, I'm sure I've got that right, was IIRC rail transport office, basically a small movements section.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on May 28, 2018, 12:25:11 PM
Well, here we are, May Bank Holiday, and the start of the annual mad month in our village of Lindfield. Today is the Village Run, when they close some roads and we have dozens of sweaty bodies pounding up the lane near our house with their breath coming in short pants...

Then, on Saturday, it is Village Day. Usually a lovely day, but they close the High Street, so you have to choose your journeys carefully and the sound of the PA can be heard a mile away.

The week after it is the South of England Show for 3 days. The weather is usually vile. They don't close any roads, but for some reason they direct the leaving traffic through our village which clogs up the roads again.

Then a week later, the icing on the cake comes in the form of the London-Brighton Bike Ride. Again, they don't close any roads but the High Street is one-way southbound and you can't cross the road because the stream of cyclists belting down the hill is quite literally continuous, at least during the morning, so it makes no sense to try and go anywhere. The keen ones are practising the route already...

Worthy causes all, but we do wish it wouldn't all come at once.  :uneasy:

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: talisman56 on May 28, 2018, 12:42:34 PM
Quote from: Papyrus on May 28, 2018, 12:25:11 PM
Well, here we are, May Bank Holiday, and the start of the annual mad month in our village of Lindfield. Today is the Village Run, when they close some roads and we have dozens of sweaty bodies pounding up the lane near our house with their breath coming in short pants...

Then, on Saturday, it is Village Day. Usually a lovely day, but they close the High Street, so you have to choose your journeys carefully and the sound of the PA can be heard a mile away.

The week after it is the South of England Show for 3 days. The weather is usually vile. They don't close any roads, but for some reason they direct the leaving traffic through our village which clogs up the roads again.

Then a week later, the icing on the cake comes in the form of the London-Brighton Bike Ride. Again, they don't close any roads but the High Street is one-way southbound and you can't cross the road because the stream of cyclists belting down the hill is quite literally continuous, at least during the morning, so it makes no sense to try and go anywhere. The keen ones are practising the route already...

Worthy causes all, but we do wish it wouldn't all come at once.  :uneasy:

Cheers,

Chris

I used to live in Lindfield, and that brings back all sorts of memories of 'when I were a lad'...
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 31, 2018, 12:35:48 PM
Sadly our Maplins has finally bitten the dust :(
Always handy for the odd pack of 'stuff' whilst avoiding postage costs from the major on-liners.
Hey Ho.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on May 31, 2018, 12:39:30 PM
You were lucky, none of the 3 Maplin's branches around here ever had what I wanted without visiting all 3 to get it.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 31, 2018, 12:46:35 PM
Quote from: Malc on May 31, 2018, 12:39:30 PM
You were lucky, none of the 3 Maplin's branches around here ever had what I wanted without visiting all 3 to get it.

You had choice? Luxury! ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on May 31, 2018, 12:48:39 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on May 31, 2018, 12:46:35 PM
Quote from: Malc on May 31, 2018, 12:39:30 PM
You were lucky, none of the 3 Maplin's branches around here ever had what I wanted without visiting all 3 to get it.
One in the city centre, one in Solihull and one in Redditch. About a 30 mile round trip.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 31, 2018, 01:28:38 PM
Just placed an order with Rapid Electronics
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on May 31, 2018, 01:42:25 PM
I used to use Maplin when they were a few people in a shed somewhere around Southend. You ordered a catalogue and it arrived with all the staffs photos on the inside and a free SI-FI poster.
Then they got bought out, moved up north somewhere, built huge warehouses and took shops all over the country and became generally useless.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on May 31, 2018, 02:16:20 PM
The wikipedia page gives some interesting information -

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maplin_(retailer)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on May 31, 2018, 02:40:04 PM
Their service certainly went down hill a while back but I still feel sorry for those that have lost their jobs.

Good luck to all those looking for other work - been there!

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 31, 2018, 03:01:51 PM
Quote from: The Q on May 31, 2018, 01:42:25 PM

Then they got bought out, moved up north somewhere, built huge warehouses and took shops all over the country and became generally useless.

You can't stop progress :no: :laughabovepost:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: mickeyflinn on May 31, 2018, 05:35:12 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on May 31, 2018, 12:35:48 PM
Sadly our Maplins has finally bitten the dust :(
Always handy for the odd pack of 'stuff' whilst avoiding postage costs from the major on-liners.
Hey Ho.
Have you tried CPC Farnell in Fulwood, Preston. They're online, have a physical shop, and are generally cheaper than Maplins are/were.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on May 31, 2018, 08:28:26 PM
They went downhill after they stopped the holiday camps.

Hideyhe, hideyhi !
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: outofgauge on May 31, 2018, 08:38:45 PM
Joined the long list of companies that got wayyyyyyy to big -seemed to be far to expensive -(called last year when on site in Wrexham for a switch for our broken genny- would have bin cheaper to buy a new genny!) I'm another hands up for rapid at Colchester  or if I'm rushing CPC at Preston-don't mind waiting or I use click an collect -one more visit to the trade counter and I get another £5 voucher for free  :claphappy:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 31, 2018, 09:23:12 PM
Quote from: joe cassidy on May 31, 2018, 08:28:26 PM
They went downhill after they stopped the holiday camps.

Hideyhe, hideyhi !

Silly boy. That was Butlitz :laugh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on May 31, 2018, 10:04:29 PM
You're just Pontinsficating now  :D

I'll get my (red) coat.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: broadsword on May 31, 2018, 10:35:23 PM
Quote from: joe cassidy on May 31, 2018, 08:28:26 PM
They went downhill after they stopped the holiday camps.

Hideyhe, hideyhi !

Jeffrey can't hear you !
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 05, 2018, 05:57:27 PM
Gad, but it's hot, Fanshawe! :sweat:

I know there are some sun lovers out there but these temperatures are becoming somewhat tiresome now. I'm afraid this heat kills off my appetite and also any chance of sleep. As a rule, in this country, we don't have things like air conditioning so have to pay a fortune to power companies to run fans. Have a shower? 10 minutes later when you've dried yourself off you'll need another one ::)
Constantly running air con in the car thus using extra fuel and paying the fuel companies more for it. Watering the patio pots with a watering can because our water company, United Utilities, have asked us not to use hose pipes as, if we don't, they will impose a hosepipe ban. Brainless  :censored: deliberately setting fire to moorlands and woodlands thus putting emergency service personnel and wildlife at risk. Our poor dear pets sweltering in their fur coats while some of their brainless owners shut them in cars.
And yes, as sure as it starts to rain for more than a day, there'll be complaints about that as well.
One thing you can be assured of. Having bought myself a new motorbike which I collect in a couple of weeks time and intend to ride only in the dry, then it it will rain for days on end.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on July 05, 2018, 06:07:06 PM
It's known as Murphy's law or other names Mick , good luck with your motor bike ,Val still wants another motorbike and side car ,she had one and the kids used to love going to school in it .
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: mr bachmann on July 05, 2018, 06:16:42 PM
good news on the bike Mick - but you bikers must be mad paying a few grand just to get  :censored: wet when it rains  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on July 05, 2018, 06:39:38 PM
Enjoy your bike Mick.
And, it's good to see the sun again down here. We've had 4 wet days since Sunday (sometimes very wet). Shame we can't send some up to you.
Anyway, it's sun all the way again in the forecast for us but at least our pets (tortoises) love it.
:)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: outofgauge on July 05, 2018, 07:53:26 PM
You won't be rushing Up to Rivy barn on a Sunday anytime soon then Mick ! Looks like you'll be frequenting the lesser popular bike spots on a Sunday-Settle is getting popular -and you can pop round to dcc concepts gaff and say hello !
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on July 06, 2018, 08:08:10 AM
Do scamers have a season?

5 answered calls over the last 2 weeks from a recorded voice "Nichole" of the NBN telling me they have urgently trying to contact me and will be turning off my internet in 24 hours if I don't arrange a connection with their technician.  "press 1 to talk to the technician".
At least 8 answered calls in last 3 weeks from someone from Telstra claiming my cable modem is generating errors and causing problems on the internet.  They will help me check it and fix it.  Most calls are slightly different but still the same core approach.
2 approaches from hawkers at the door claiming to save me money; by basically scaming for power retailers.  I have had 4 of these within the last year.  How many times do they think the same people would fall for their lies, ommissions and misrepresentations?  Last one I played along until I received a contract by e-mail which I then rejected.  Most interesting to study the techniques used.
Also not answered a goodly amount of calls which were obviously from scammers.
Just waiting for the yearly flood of calls and e-mails from the "tax office" about refunds or amounts I need to send in the form of i-tune or gift cards to avoid a gaol sentence.

Anyone for reintroduction of the stocks for these annoying sods?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on July 06, 2018, 08:37:19 AM
Stocks are just not enough for these people. :no: Those they successfully scam do not necessarily have the mental tools to recognise and deal with them properly - like ignoring them or telling them to take a hike - and the results for these unfortunates can range from irritating, costly, or can even be life changing and disastrous.

I'm a peace loving man, but I'm having great difficulty getting the image of a Firing Squad out of my mind. :veryangry2:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on July 06, 2018, 08:40:31 AM
I simply do not answer unknown numbers.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 06, 2018, 10:26:49 AM
Quote from: Bealman on July 06, 2018, 08:40:31 AM
I simply do not answer unknown numbers.

Likewise. Caller display is well worth having. I don't answer calls from mobiles to my landline either as, for whatever reason, my brain cell can't equate mobile numbers to people like it can with landline numbers. My mobile doesn't work at home as there is no reception from any of the suppliers so it's not switched on until I go out. If the caller display shows 'International' I just ignore it. If it's a member of the Royal Family in trouble I'm sure they'll leave a message :laugh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MinZaPint on July 06, 2018, 11:33:37 AM
My "Little Treasure" taunting me not with a pic of the fabulous Crab sandwich but a pic of the bar stocked with my favourite local brewery's finest

(http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/67/523-060718112944.jpeg)

some women have no :heart: but she bought me back a bottle of Lyme Regis brew  :-*
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on July 06, 2018, 11:37:48 AM
I wasn't going to respond to this but you just reminded me I'm out the stuff  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 06, 2018, 12:37:59 PM
Not only that but the barmaid obviously pays you to drink there! :goggleeyes:
Where is this pub, David? (Strictly between you and I, and maybe 5000 other members :D)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jerry Howlett on July 06, 2018, 12:44:03 PM
Is it still brewed at Bridport ?

Remember sampling their products back in 1975 in the "Ship Inn" on the last day of the Bridport Branch, I believe I caught the penultimate train from there, luckily DMU's in those days had toilets.

Jerry
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on July 06, 2018, 02:06:28 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on July 06, 2018, 12:37:59 PM
Where is this pub, David? (Strictly between you and I, and maybe 5000 other members :D)

Ah Mick, you have failed to pass today's test - spot the barmaid (is that term still used these PC days?) and her emblazoned Polo shirt. :)

:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 06, 2018, 03:52:36 PM
Quote from: daffy on July 06, 2018, 02:06:28 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on July 06, 2018, 12:37:59 PM
Where is this pub, David? (Strictly between you and I, and maybe 5000 other members :D)

Ah Mick, you have failed to pass today's test - spot the barmaid (is that term still used these PC days?) and her emblazoned Polo shirt. :)

:D

To a large extent I'm not up to date with what's PC or not so I hope 'barmaid' is still an acceptable term. Maybe it should be 'barperson'?
All I know is she's paying someone what looks like £20 for drinking there :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on July 06, 2018, 04:06:50 PM
why do they always put these logos on the eerrr 'chest' area, where it is not 'pc' to look long enough to read them  :-[
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: acook on July 06, 2018, 07:05:51 PM
Because it was dreamed up by a man who kept getting caught looking.
Ready made excuse for looking now.

Frequently caught Alan
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Caz on July 07, 2018, 04:42:05 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on July 06, 2018, 10:26:49 AM
If the caller display shows 'International' I just ignore it. If it's a member of the Royal Family in trouble I'm sure they'll leave a message :laugh:

No point me or George calling you then if we have a forum problem.   ::)   :P
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on July 14, 2018, 07:24:05 PM
Tomorrow I shall be attending a Teddy Parachute Drop at my Grandchildrens local church. Apparently, and it distresses me greatly ;), the eldest of the three, who is 5 years old, seems to have no idea what a 'Teddy' actually is!
Her plan was for her entry into the competition to be a fluffy tiger, or some such. When her Nanny said it should be a Teddy, she was totally non-plushed and couldn't see the problem.

So tomorrow, as the clock on the church tower launch pad strikes the half hour after 1:00pm, rather than a glorious array of wonderful teddy bears descending from the above, it is highly likely that my eyes will be assailed by a loud, brash and dare I say gaudy collection of objects floating down, ranging from Unicorns, through Smurfs and large-eyed Princesses (without an ounce of stuffing between them), to every Disney character you care to name - and even Pooh is most definitely NOT a teddy bear!

I mean, what IS the World coming to? :confused2:

Roosevelt will probably turn in his grave! :o









But the kids will love it! :D - the parachuting toys, not the grave-turning bit! :no:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 14, 2018, 11:18:32 PM
I trust you'll be going dressed as a Teddy Boy? :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Railwaygun on July 15, 2018, 12:18:31 AM
Quote from: daffy on July 14, 2018, 07:24:05 PM
Her plan was for her entry into the competition to be a fluffy tiger, or some such. When her Nanny said it should be a Teddy, she was totally non-plushed and couldn't see the problem.


i thought the teddies were fully plushed??
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Mito on July 15, 2018, 08:27:14 PM
Quote from: Railwaygun on July 15, 2018, 12:18:31 AM
Quote from: daffy on July 14, 2018, 07:24:05 PM
Her plan was for her entry into the competition to be a fluffy tiger, or some such. When her Nanny said it should be a Teddy, she was totally non-plushed and couldn't see the problem.


i thought the teddies were fully plushed??
New maybe, but they tend to be de-plushed by little fingers.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on July 15, 2018, 09:47:27 PM
Just an update on the parachuting Teddies....

A grand time was had by all, and over 50 assorted treasured cuddlies floated down from the parapet of the church tower. Happily the majority were in fact teddy bears, though the odd penguin, unicorn, toothless dragon, and dog braved the descent. Some sailed serenely down, some were swept into trees and bushes, and more than a few merely plummeted as their 'chutes failed to deploy in time. Star performer - I'm biased - was my 5 year old grand-daughters entry. This was eventually agreed to be a teddy (after much cajoling and parental persuasion), in fact one of two fine brown bears that her Nanny had given her from her own special collection some years ago. As the Jump Master flung young teddy out into the void, his parachute filled most opportunely and he floated down to land, to the utter surprise of the man making souvenir badges, directly upon the man's head! Happily no real damage was done to either character, though as a precaution young teddy, in common with all other contestants, was rapidly stretchered off to the nearby Medical Table, where tender care was administered, plasters and bandages were carefully applied, and he was returned to his proud owner.
There were no winners, no losers, and cake and orange juice was available to all for a donation to church funds.
And it was a glorious sunny day!

So a happy ending in the unhappy thread.
:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on July 25, 2018, 09:19:16 AM
Very unhappy yesterday ,I went down the shed in the morning opened the windows and put the fans on to try and cool it down.
My mate came in the afternoon to test some locos ,and due to this unusual weather and my laziness I have found major electrical problems with isolation gaps closed up NO IRJs just cut track ,even some switches not working , so I wish I had taken the time to fit the IRJs  it might have made a difference .
One track in the fiddle yard  that wasn't pinned down very well had actually expanded so much that as the train passed it was hitting the train on the next line .
Oh well I suppose in the winter the gaps will be so big that the wheels will drop into them and the train will de rail ,it's all part of having a model railway.
Running evening will have to be cancelled again tonight.
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on July 25, 2018, 10:02:15 AM
Cut a hole high up in the eaves of the shed, fit a flap controlled by a green house window opener. It will reduce the problem..
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on July 25, 2018, 11:40:44 AM
I don't expect the IRJs would have made a difference, Bob. It must have got really warm in your shed. My railway room is in a well insulated loft and I haven't had any issues. Do you have the walls and roof insulated?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on July 25, 2018, 03:32:00 PM
Malc , yes the walls are insulated and fitted with plasterboard ,plus two inch thick polystyrene in the roof .
The Q , that might be the answer or an extractor fan ,fittedvas high as I can.
Thanks guys  at the moment it's too hot to do any work on or in the shed but I will try bigger air vents first as they are reasonably cheap and my future son in law can help fit them for me.
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: trkilliman on July 25, 2018, 04:05:08 PM
I have insulated two garden sheds and half of my block garage that was used to house tropical fish tanks.

I used Celotex/Kingspan that is used in new buildings and extensions. It has roughly twice the insulatory values of Polystyrene. Polystyrene will also hold a lot of moisture if you do not leave air gaps when fitting it. In a fire the toxic fumes it gives off will get you in a confined space.

In my block garage it was a pleasure to go into the fishroom in the weather we are having...the insulation works both ways. My wooden sheds are both now used for model railway purposes, but do not stay quite as cool as the garage.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on July 26, 2018, 08:15:03 AM
Celotex isn't that great in a fire for fumes either, as it's what the insulation was in Grenfell tower. However It's perfect for a shed. If the fire has reached through the shed walls to the celotex:
A, you won't save the Shed,
B, It's time to stand well back and wait for the fire brigade..

Remember to double glaze the windows, It makes a big difference. I just screwed on acrylic plastic over the windows, with a couple of small holes at the bottom to let out any condensation..

If you really want to go over the top then fit one of these (scaled to the shed) with a air control flap inside. it's what I did, it's very effective... this isn't mine though.


(http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/67/6067-260718081402.jpeg) (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=gallery;sa=view&id=67690)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jon898 on July 26, 2018, 01:35:17 PM
Quote from: The Q on July 26, 2018, 08:15:03 AM
Celotex isn't that great in a fire for fumes either, as it's what the insulation was in Grenfell tower. However It's perfect for a shed. If the fire has reached through the shed walls to the celotex:
A, you won't save the Shed,
B, It's time to stand well back and wait for the fire brigade..

Remember to double glaze the windows, It makes a big difference. I just screwed on acrylic plastic over the windows, with a couple of small holes at the bottom to let out any condensation..

If you really want to go over the top then fit one of these (scaled to the shed) with a air control flap inside. it's what I did, it's very effective... this isn't mine though.


Or go really over the top from here:  http://www.weathervanes-direct.co.uk/train-weather-vanes.asp (http://www.weathervanes-direct.co.uk/train-weather-vanes.asp)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on July 26, 2018, 02:02:54 PM
oooH, How can I get one of those without SWMBO finding out the price?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: talisman56 on July 26, 2018, 02:17:54 PM
Quote from: The Q on July 26, 2018, 02:02:54 PM
oooH, How can I get one of those without SWMBO finding out the price?

You'll have a bit of trouble trying to smuggle it by her, as well...
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on August 22, 2018, 03:14:55 PM
RIP Irish Champion Gaesten Amazin' Marky del Grancanna
aka 'Marco' or Markie'
22nd June 2002 - 22nd August 2018

(http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/68/2975-220818144454.jpeg)

Marco has finally rolled into the terminus.

It was our privilege and pleasure to share the second half of his life with him. He was a lovely, gentle soul who made lots of friends in the 8 years he was with us, and we have his great-grand-daughter and his great-great-grand-daughter to soften the loss.

His health had been rickety for 18 months and at least 3 times we thought his hour had come (new readers, start on the Happy Thread, page 254, post#3805) but this time there was no doubt. Despite this, he was happy and active right up to the weekend - this was his last visit to the beach just a week ago:

(http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/68/2975-220818144622.jpeg)

We shall miss him, of course, but he had a good long life and we have no regrets.

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Train Waiting on August 22, 2018, 03:41:11 PM
Very sorry to hear of your loss, Chris.  Marco was a beautiful dog.

With all best wishes.

John
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on August 22, 2018, 03:53:54 PM
Sorry to hear about Marco Chris. Not easy when you lose a family friend as I well know, but at least you had 8 good years with him.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Mito on August 22, 2018, 05:14:00 PM
It is always sad to loose a four legged friend but you have happy memories of him and two of his offspring to remember him by.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on August 22, 2018, 05:58:59 PM
Sorry to read your news of Marco. He did an excellent job though, didn't he?

Plenty of good memories and a couple young relatives to keep you on your toes.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Philip. on August 22, 2018, 06:03:14 PM
So sorry to read about Marco, he looks handsome in the photos
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Delboy on August 22, 2018, 07:51:54 PM
As a fellow dog lover I am very sorry to hear about Marco
You have plenty great memories of his time with you to help you through this sad period
Dennis
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 22, 2018, 09:38:38 PM
A huge loss :(
My smashing cat is starting to show his age now and I'll be in bits when he goes.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on August 23, 2018, 07:28:21 AM
Always so very hard when we lose a loved pet, whatever he or she may be.

After reaching the hardest decision to say goodbye, for more than 30 years I have had the vet come to the house. I couldn't possibly put an old friend under stress and take them away from their home.

It also lets me howl me eyes out in private.

Please can we change the subject now?  :(

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on August 23, 2018, 08:34:12 AM
To change the subject. They BQ are stopping the 10% discount for all but gardening on the old Gits card. yes I know there is a thread about it, but it doesn't make me any happier..
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: tutenkhamunsleeping on August 23, 2018, 11:37:39 AM
So sad to hear Marco is now chasing cars in doggie heaven :(

Thanks to the wonders of the interweb, however, he'll be living on in the memories of quite a few of us.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Webbo on August 23, 2018, 11:44:56 AM
Chris, ditto on what Steve has just posted.

I know how it feels to lose canine friends - still dearly miss my Kyla and Jess.

Webbo
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on August 24, 2018, 12:21:27 PM
I will be celebrating having a birthday tomorrow.
My grand-daughter is coming to stay with us for five days next week.
At the end of next week we are staying with old friends for a few days.
In September we are going on holiday to Cornwall.

So why am I writing all this in the unhappy thread? :(

Well, last night, after almost 20 years of perfect service and without prior warning the crown on my right hand maxillary incisor (the big one at the front) gave up the ghost! :'(

Now I am left with a hole in my smile just as all these 'public' events are coming up. I visited my dentist this morning and learnt that it could not simply be stuck back on, so I have three choices:
1. A root canal treatment prior to a new crown being fitted on a post insert;
2. An addition to my partial upper plate;
3. Root extraction and an implant.

The bad news is my dentist has no bookings available until 4th September :o , and neither have any other dentists, private or otherwise, I have so far contacted.

Ah well, looks like I'll just have to keep my mouth closed - which my wife says might be a good thing. I have no idea what she means. :D

I wonder if I put the old crown under my pillow tonight whether or not the Tooth Fairy (or her half-sister  ;) ) will leave me anything other than a gappy smile come the morning?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on August 24, 2018, 12:31:00 PM
All I can say is, chin up, mate.

My daughter went to a twenty first back in the day.

She slipped on the kitchen floor smashed her front tooth, but still turned up.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: broadsword on August 24, 2018, 01:04:30 PM
I was in Morrisons supermarket and using the self service check out. While sorting out
change I dropped a £1 coin which rolled under a cabinet and I couldn't retrieve it.... :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on August 24, 2018, 01:14:58 PM
Happy Birthday for tomorrow daffy  :beers:. And don't forget, when you smile, keep your mouth shut!  :D. (Could not find a way to black out one of the teeth on the smiley  :-X).
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 24, 2018, 04:22:34 PM
Quote from: daffy on August 24, 2018, 12:21:27 PM

I wonder if I put the old crown under my pillow tonight whether or not the Tooth Fairy (or her half-sister  ;) ) will leave me anything other than a gappy smile come the morning?

I used to get a tanner from the Tooth Fairy for a tooth. What's the exchange rate for a crown, and will the Tooth Queen visit?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on August 25, 2018, 07:40:52 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on August 24, 2018, 04:22:34 PM
Quote from: daffy on August 24, 2018, 12:21:27 PM

I wonder if I put the old crown under my pillow tonight whether or not the Tooth Fairy (or her half-sister  ;) ) will leave me anything other than a gappy smile come the morning?

I used to get a tanner from the Tooth Fairy for a tooth. What's the exchange rate for a crown, and will the Tooth Queen visit?

A crown for a crown?  5 shillings that is, 60 old pence,  25 new pence..
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: paulprice on August 25, 2018, 07:58:14 AM
Quote from: The Q on August 25, 2018, 07:40:52 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on August 24, 2018, 04:22:34 PM
Quote from: daffy on August 24, 2018, 12:21:27 PM

I wonder if I put the old crown under my pillow tonight whether or not the Tooth Fairy (or her half-sister  ;) ) will leave me anything other than a gappy smile come the morning?

I used to get a tanner from the Tooth Fairy for a tooth. What's the exchange rate for a crown, and will the Tooth Queen visit?

A crown for a crown?  5 shillings that is, 60 old pence,  25 new pence..

Its like a different world, are you chaps Time Travellers or something  :P

I mean YOUNG MODERN TRENDY PEOPLE like me have not idea what your on about,  :angel: :angel: :angel:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: outofgauge on August 25, 2018, 08:04:32 AM
Be careful the halo doesn't slip and choke you young man ! Shows how far behind we are -my grandchildren got £5 for the first tooth out and then £2 there after .  :bounce:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on August 25, 2018, 08:30:39 AM
Quote from: outofgauge on August 25, 2018, 08:04:32 AM
my grandchildren got £5 for the first tooth out

£5!!  :o. That would have done a mouthful each for my 2 sisters, brother and myself - with change!  :goggleeyes:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on August 25, 2018, 09:17:49 AM
Despite leaving the crown under my pillow last night, sadly it was not replaced with any coin, gold, or jewel by any ethereal be-wingéd creature. :(

I guess the current economic situation is affecting all levels of life, real or imagined, and that the fairy lights at the end of the tunnel have been turned off indefinitely. :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Philip. on August 25, 2018, 11:35:19 AM
Quote from: dannyboy on August 25, 2018, 08:30:39 AM
Quote from: outofgauge on August 25, 2018, 08:04:32 AM
my grandchildren got £5 for the first tooth out

£5!!  :o. That would have done a mouthful each for my 2 sisters, brother and myself - with change!  :goggleeyes:

A tanner per tooth was the going rate when I was a nipper  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 12, 2018, 02:58:01 PM
Just when I'm trying to save some dosh for things N gauge railways related (such as the forthcoming maroon Thompson coaches from Farish), my washing machine has decided to self destruct and now sounds like I've emptied a couple of horseshoes into the drum. I am now £250 worse off for a new one coming next Tuesday (i.e. a rake of the aforesaid Thompsons)
However, I have not put this post in the Angry Thread as, when I bought this place 8 years ago, the couple left it for me. I have no idea how long they had it but it has done sterling service so I can't whinge too much. The timing just sucks ::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Delboy on September 12, 2018, 03:39:10 PM
Well Mick,
If your new one last you another 8 years for £250 you will be posting in the Happy Thread topic.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on September 12, 2018, 04:33:55 PM
You obviously didn't select the correct program on the machine, Mick!

I suppose it being an older bit of kit, it may not have the almost essential 'Horseshoe' washing option!

Darned nuisance though but with any luck your usual Christmas vouchers will come to the rescue.

Dave G

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on September 12, 2018, 06:09:05 PM
I know how you feel Mick. This year my washing machine, oven and fridge have all conked out :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on September 12, 2018, 07:22:28 PM
Well Mick, the good news is that the all-new, all-singing and dancing new machine will be with you on Tuesday, so that gives you plenty of time to put out ads and posters, cos from that date you will be able to take in washing for all your overworked and time-stressed neighbours. At a rate of, say, £20 a wash-load you would soon have enough for the Thompsons.

:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 12, 2018, 09:07:11 PM
 :laughabovepost:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: themadhippy on September 12, 2018, 10:01:46 PM
Quotemy washing machine has decided to self destruct and now sounds like I've emptied a couple of horseshoes into the drum. I am now £250 worse off for a new one coming next Tuesday
should have dug out yer 13mm spanner and  13mm deep socket/nut spinner before ordering new,sounds like the suspension bolts have worked loose
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 12, 2018, 10:23:26 PM
Quote from: themadhippy on September 12, 2018, 10:01:46 PM
Quotemy washing machine has decided to self destruct and now sounds like I've emptied a couple of horseshoes into the drum. I am now £250 worse off for a new one coming next Tuesday
should have dug out yer 13mm spanner and  13mm deep socket/nut spinner before ordering new,sounds like the suspension bolts have worked loose

Oh boy - do I know that feeling :-[
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on September 13, 2018, 12:02:53 AM
Ours recently made nasty noises and twisted up the door/drum seal. I feared the worse, but investigation soon showed that it was nothing more than a snapped suspension spring. £14 for a new pair.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Intercity on September 20, 2018, 07:15:05 AM
Got home from work and walked in to find what appeared to be the HVAC unit pumping out heat (it was in the mid 80s today), a bit of investigating and the Condenser wasn't running, the heating unit had switched to emergency heat (some sort of default setting), not looking forward to this call out as new condensers usually start at $2k and depending which one is needed can top out a little over $8k.

Going to affect my purchases for a while I think.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on September 20, 2018, 07:29:32 AM
Yeah, things like this have a habit of happening, and you've got no alternative except to fix on the spot, which, as you say,  bites into money for proper stuff.

One day I went out the side of Chez Bealman to discover that the hot water tank had burst, and was sending a fountain of high pressure hot water all over the neighbour's car!

So that used up a bit of pocket money very unexpectedly.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: colpatben on September 20, 2018, 08:03:44 AM
Quote from: Bealman on September 20, 2018, 07:29:32 AM

One day I went out the side of Chez Bealman to discover that the hot water tank had burst, and was sending a fountain of high pressure hot water all over the neighbour's car!

So that used up a bit of pocket money very unexpectedly.

Could've earned some extra pocket money if you had got a sponge & shampoo and washed his/her car using your hotish water  ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on September 20, 2018, 08:24:04 AM
 :laughabovepost: :laughabovepost:

Except I have an extreme aversion to washing cars.   :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Intercity on September 21, 2018, 03:09:22 PM
The technician arrived yesterday, and a thorough check showed the HVAC unit and condenser to be in good working order, it was the thermostat that packed up, so instead of a $2k+ to fix it should be a couple hundred for one of those fancy smart/WiFi work it off your phone thermostats.

This probably should be in the happy thread, but I'm still unhappy that the system doesn't work.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 21, 2018, 03:11:44 PM
The happy bit is that there is quite a drop from 2k to 2 hundred.  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on September 21, 2018, 11:06:49 PM
That is definitely a case to be happy!  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jerry Howlett on September 22, 2018, 03:11:01 PM
One of those **** moments.
Mrs "H" slipped on the last stair of our spiral staircase on Tuesday, so after 3 days in the wonderful local Hospital she is resident in our living room for the next 35 Days with an ankle broken in 3 places.  Not a happy bunny...  So the progress on the layout has come to an immediate full stop as I really need to be within shouting distance.
She cannot even leave the house as there is a long flight of stairs to negotiate from our front door to the adjacent road.  I may however begin to start an escape tunnel in the direction of the local Bar...  Just in case!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on September 22, 2018, 04:28:19 PM
Quote from: Jerry Howlett on September 22, 2018, 03:11:01 PM
One of those **** moments.
Mrs "H" slipped on the last stair of our spiral staircase on Tuesday, so after 3 days in the wonderful local Hospital she is resident in our living room for the next 35 Days with an ankle broken in 3 places.  Not a happy bunny...  So the progress on the layout has come to an immediate full stop as I really need to be within shouting distance.
She cannot even leave the house as there is a long flight of stairs to negotiate from our front door to the adjacent road.  I may however begin to start an escape tunnel in the direction of the local Bar...  Just in case!

Perhaps a baby alarm between Mrs H and the railway room?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on September 22, 2018, 05:22:09 PM
Quote from: Jerry Howlett on September 22, 2018, 03:11:01 PM
One of those **** moments.
Mrs "H" slipped on the last stair of our spiral staircase on Tuesday, so after 3 days in the wonderful local Hospital she is resident in our living room for the next 35 Days with an ankle broken in 3 places.  Not a happy bunny...  So the progress on the layout has come to an immediate full stop as I really need to be within shouting distance.
She cannot even leave the house as there is a long flight of stairs to negotiate from our front door to the adjacent road.  I may however begin to start an escape tunnel in the direction of the local Bar...  Just in case!

Mrs H will be chewing the carpet if she's stuck in one room for 5 weeks... I hope you are a good cook!

Best wishes for a swift recovery.

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on September 22, 2018, 05:23:52 PM
Oh dear!

I know how painful a damaged ankle can be so huge sympathy for Mrs H, and I suppose you too Jerry as you'll be run ragged.

All the best.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 22, 2018, 06:44:10 PM
Give Mrs. H our sympathy but tell her it will be okay - she has you to look after her! Of course, nobody knows what state you will be in in 5 weeks!  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Hailstone on September 22, 2018, 06:54:13 PM
I'm glad that she is out of hospital and back at home, so give her my best wishes and I hope that all will be well

Regards,

Alex
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jerry Howlett on September 22, 2018, 08:16:07 PM
Quote from: steve836 on September 22, 2018, 04:28:19 PM
Quote from: Jerry Howlett on September 22, 2018, 03:11:01 PM
One of those **** moments.
Mrs "H" slipped on the last stair of our spiral staircase on Tuesday, so after 3 days in the wonderful local Hospital she is resident in our living room for the next 35 Days with an ankle broken in 3 places.  Not a happy bunny...  So the progress on the layout has come to an immediate full stop as I really need to be within shouting distance.
She cannot even leave the house as there is a long flight of stairs to negotiate from our front door to the adjacent road.  I may however begin to start an escape tunnel in the direction of the local Bar...  Just in case!

Perhaps a baby alarm between Mrs H and the railway room?

ALEXA has this capability...  and it's corresponding "device" is called Train room, simples you would think..  Until Mrs "H" calls them Alisa,Alossa, Alfie, finally female dog (changed by forum)..   Alas the Amazon programme does not permit the latter title. 
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jerry Howlett on September 22, 2018, 08:18:36 PM
Quote from: steve836 on September 22, 2018, 04:28:19 PM


Mrs H will be chewing the carpet if she's stuck in one room for 5 weeks... I hope you are a good cook!

Best wishes for a swift recovery.

Chris

Luckily I am the Chef in the house...  well for evening meals anyway.  Who will make my DECENT cups of Tea I wonder..
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jerry Howlett on September 22, 2018, 08:21:53 PM
Thanks to you all for your kind thoughts.

I truly hope that the sufferring will only be to the progress on the layout, but I suspect I will come a close second. :D :D :D

Jerry
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on September 22, 2018, 08:52:01 PM
 :sorrysign: to hear of Mrs Hs accident and hope the ankle heals quickly ,I'm sure you will look after  her to make up for all the days she has looked after you.
I've never met her but give her my best wishes .
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 22, 2018, 09:15:15 PM
So sorry to hear of Mrs H's accident, Jerry, but found her terms for Alexa hilarious :smiley-laughing:
When the cast is removed please ensure it's destroyed immediately as the last thing you need is Mrs H armed with a plaster club out for revenge on your cooking and care :uneasy:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on September 22, 2018, 11:03:30 PM
Yes, the Amazon anecdote cracked me up too. I hope she recovers quickly.  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jerry Howlett on September 23, 2018, 08:39:09 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on September 22, 2018, 09:15:15 PM
When the cast is removed please ensure it's destroyed immediately as the last thing you need is Mrs H armed with a plaster club out for revenge on your cooking and care :uneasy:

Sh****   hadn't thought about that one, I have replaced all cutlery with plastic substitutes and relocated the carpentry tools. Now I will have to think of a "Cunning plan" to prevent Mrs "H" keeping this and any future casts as a "Souviner"    Of course I could just be extreemly nice to her but wheres the fun in that ?
:whistle: :whistle: :whistle:

Seriously though thanks to all of you for keeping me on the right side of sanity.
It is at a time like this living away from family and friends hits hard.

Jerry
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Mito on September 23, 2018, 08:57:51 PM
With the relatives I've got, I find it an advantage to be living away. I hope Mrs. H gets better quickly and you earn plenty of Brownie Points. :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: silly moo on September 26, 2018, 10:37:47 AM
I'm feeling a real twit and really feeling my age after slipping on the stairs of our rented house on Monday. Ended up with a very dramatic cut on my ankle and a fractured shoulder.

Was patched by the wonderful NHS at the local hospital. I now have a bandaged ankle and a sling and am no use to man nor beast.

I'm very thankful that it wasn't worse so I'm just left with feeling a really silly.

We are looking for a house - it will be a bungalow.

We lived in our previous house for nearly twenty years, that had stairs and I didn't slip once  :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on September 26, 2018, 10:49:39 AM
Quote from: silly moo on September 26, 2018, 10:37:47 AM
I'm feeling a real twit and really feeling my age after slipping on the stairs of our rented house on Monday. Ended up with a very dramatic cut on my ankle and a fractured shoulder.

Was patched by the wonderful NHS at the local hospital. I now have a bandaged ankle and a sling and am no use to man nor beast.

I'm very thankful that it wasn't worse so I'm just left with feeling a really silly.

We are looking for a house - it will be a bungalow.

We lived in our previous house for nearly twenty years, that had stairs and I didn't slip once  :'(

Most important thing is you are ok.

And I am 33 and have slipped on many things (sometimes even when sober).

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: silly moo on September 26, 2018, 11:27:42 AM
 I think I might have bounced better if I'd had a few glasses of wine  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on September 26, 2018, 11:47:31 AM
Quote from: silly moo on September 26, 2018, 11:27:42 AM
I think I might have bounced better if I'd had a few glasses of wine  :D

:laughabovepost:

See, a great excuse to not be sober at home again  :D

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jerry Howlett on September 26, 2018, 04:11:42 PM
Veronica, I blame Mrs "H" for not drinking enough on the day of her fall.

Get well soon..

Jerry
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 26, 2018, 04:26:49 PM
Here's wishing you a speedy recovery, Veronica :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on September 26, 2018, 04:27:47 PM
Agree with Mick. Get well soon.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on September 26, 2018, 05:31:42 PM
Ouch!

Hope you can sling the sling ASAP

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Hailstone on September 26, 2018, 05:36:16 PM
get well soon Veronica

All the best,

Alex
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on September 26, 2018, 05:44:27 PM
Hopefully you will be back to normal very soon.
Take care and take it easy.
Martin
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Pjlons83 on September 26, 2018, 06:30:54 PM
"Unhappy" is maybe a bit strong but this week I ordered lots of bits for my micro-layout project. 2 packages arrived today........... both track joiners! (Normal and insulated) Of all the things to turn up first; the only things I can't play with! I supposed that's just the gamble when ordering from lots of different places on eBay. 

I have to say though; massive thumbs up to AGR Model Railway Stores for super faster service!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on September 26, 2018, 06:40:44 PM
I'm not a happy bunny today ,I went to change the name and number on a Dapol Western I fitted the name and number one side ,then the name on the other no problem ,when I went to cut the other number from the fret it pinged into the air and must be swallowed up by the carpet monster ,if anyone has got a set or just one number for Western Champion D 1015 going spare PLEASE  PM
me  but for now it will just have to be numbered on one side only.
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Intercity on September 26, 2018, 07:02:08 PM
Are they metal, any possibility of running a magnet over the carpet to see if it picks it up.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 26, 2018, 09:20:16 PM
If it's metal then stomp around in bare feet. Success guaranteed but oh so painful!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: paulprice on September 26, 2018, 09:22:28 PM
I normally find things like that glued to my fingers, have you checked them, not my fingers or course yours ?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on September 26, 2018, 10:16:52 PM
Tried everything the number has just vanished , The trick of the tights over the vacuum and a magnet but the little blighter is really hiding ,so I think it's going to be a ring to either Shawplan of Fox and order another set.
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on September 27, 2018, 05:34:58 PM
After diligent searching for over a year, off and on, yesterday I finally managed to find the Minitrix Christmas wagon I was missing from my collection on the website of a shop near Stuttgart. DHL delivery price was hefty, but I considered it worth it as the wagon was at a low price compared to others in the series I had seen.

Today PayPal informed me of a refund to my account. :(. A quick email to the seller to learn that the item was no longer available, probably due to a stock oversight or whatever.

Boo hoo. :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on October 03, 2018, 04:28:48 AM
04::00 and the dog gets me up 'cos  he needs out side...
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on October 03, 2018, 09:13:38 AM
Quote from: The Q on October 03, 2018, 04:28:48 AM
04::00 and the dog gets me up 'cos  he needs out side...

could have been worse .... he might not have woken you up  >:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 03, 2018, 09:43:09 AM
Quote from: The Q on October 03, 2018, 04:28:48 AM
04::00 and the dog gets me up 'cos  he needs out side...

I have the same issue with my cat, and before anyone says 'catflap' there's no way I'm putting a catlap in my front door or French windows. There is a litter tray down but he'll only use it in the direst of circumstances :sleep: :sleep:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 03, 2018, 10:24:45 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on October 03, 2018, 09:43:09 AM
Quote from: The Q on October 03, 2018, 04:28:48 AM
04::00 and the dog gets me up 'cos  he needs out side...

I have the same issue with

................. me!  ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on October 03, 2018, 04:27:02 PM
Our cat Blue is also an early riser - 06:00, which means I am too -no catflap ala Mick.

I'm dreading the clocks going back!  :worried:

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on October 03, 2018, 04:53:11 PM
ca. 00:20 in the morning, and my question "does my new-ish smartphone receive earthquake alerts" has been finally answered (it does). Fortunately I am well practiced in these things and carefully screwed the top back on the wine bottle before establishing whether it was a false alarm (it was).

It sounds like this:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on October 03, 2018, 05:38:25 PM
My wife's phone makes a similar sound when it detects I've spent too much on trains. :D

I like the idea of the earthquake alarm. Very neat. Is it an optional or a nation-wide automatic system on all mobiles in Japan.?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on October 09, 2018, 09:13:00 PM
This isn't on "The Angry Thread"....yet.

I will let the retailer in question try to resolve things before a) Naming and b) going off on said "Angry" thread.

This evening beloved and I set about building the cot for Mini Skyline (for once I am organised enough). We were very methodical and careful in how we opened up the boxes and read the kit list.

Almost immediately it becomes obvious 2x parts (small clip bracket thingys) are missing.

We go through the whole lot again. Nope, not here.

Dam.

Fortunately these don't stop the cot actually getting built, they just prevent the under-cot storage draw from being fully retained at the end.

So cot is built, and tomorrow help line will be called.

Now I will be my normal polite self (no, really), but I really want a simple swift resolution. Not being funny, it wasn't cheap this cot / bed and the parts really should be all present and correct.

So, we shall see tomorrow, I shall report back after speaking with them!

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 09, 2018, 09:52:37 PM
Let's hope the outcome appears in the Happy Thread.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Tom U on October 10, 2018, 03:16:31 AM
Let's hope they send the missing parts quickly so that the problem can be put to bed.  :sorrysign:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 10, 2018, 09:30:23 AM
Things might not seem so bad now the problem has been slept on :laugh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on October 10, 2018, 09:55:59 AM
 :claphappy:    :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on October 10, 2018, 01:16:15 PM
Seems the forum has its fair share of comedians  :D

* UPDATE*

So after refusing to talk to me, due to something called GDPR and the account being in my wife's name (leave alone the fact that my card paid for the order  :hmmm:), we got a simple explanation.

As I sort of suspected the part has been missed from several orders (found in the wearhouse in a pile!) and will be sent to us immediately.

Not wonderful service but hopefully a simple fix when they arrive.

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on October 10, 2018, 03:57:19 PM
So we can put that unhappy thread to bed now.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on October 10, 2018, 04:08:13 PM
Quote from: Bob Tidbury on October 10, 2018, 03:57:19 PM
So we can put that unhappy thread to bed now.

::)

Taxi for Bob....

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on October 21, 2018, 09:52:46 PM
Just back from a very relaxing week away (in north Norfolk, since you ask) to find a small disaster. Our 2018 batch of sloe gin is ruined!! :'( The sloe/sugar mixture had started fermenting and smelt foul. With hindsight we should have added the gin before we went away - it seemed to be fine then - although we have left it a lot longer in the past. This has never happened before, but it has been such a strange summer of weather we think that must have affected the sloes. Luckily we still have about 9 bottles left from 2015 and 2016 but we may have to ration it...  :(

Cheers (or not),

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on October 21, 2018, 09:55:12 PM
Thank goodness for Marks & Spencers ready-made sloe gin (just in case).
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on October 22, 2018, 08:41:22 AM
Drat, fell asleep after a long slow 5 hours out sailing yesterday and forgot to go back to bid for a Loco I wanted off ebay..
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 22, 2018, 09:39:38 AM
Had the 6 monthly visit to the fang doctor last Friday morning and am faced with either 4 veneers or 4 crowns. The cost is pretty much the same but he tells me crowns will be much more permanent so crowns it is. Let's just say that's 10 locos worth! :'( :'( :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on October 22, 2018, 11:24:42 AM
My better half just had a crown fitted. Cost me £475. Hope yours are a bit cheaper Mick.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 22, 2018, 11:42:39 AM
Quote from: Malc on October 22, 2018, 11:24:42 AM
My better half just had a crown fitted. Cost me £475. Hope yours are a bit cheaper Mick.

:ouch: Was it one of HM's cast offs, Malc? ;)
Probably best if I keep schtum about the cost of mine :zippedmouth:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on October 22, 2018, 12:18:53 PM
Sympathies Mick.

My NHS dental practice usually has three or four dentists. For the last six months they've had one.
Result? The crown replacement I need has been ongoing for two months! :( therefore I've had no crown now, just a root canal repair so far, for the whole of that time.
Trouble is it's one of my top front teeth, so I have a rather large hole in my smile that my 5 year old grand-daughter describes as "disgusting".
Should get a temporary crown on Thursday, I hope.

I've decided they call it a 'practice' cos they are always practicing ON ME! :D
N.B. Using the American spellings here just for fun.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 22, 2018, 03:26:50 PM
The problem originated when the hospital smashed my top 4 front teeth whilst resuscitating me when I was having my triple bypass 2½ years ago (emergency intubation). The dentist built them up again with amalgam but they've become discoloured and now it needs to be a 'proper' job.
I do like to smile nicely at people but not at present :no:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: GroupC on October 22, 2018, 04:55:51 PM
A friend of mine's found out he's got a brain tumour.

Nothing I can add to that really.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on October 22, 2018, 08:06:38 PM
If you want dental work doing I suggest you go to Goa. I had a set of dentures made cost £60 ( £250 on the NHS) Lots of folks go there just to have implants or veneers done at a fraction of the cost in the UK.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 22, 2018, 09:38:45 PM
I don't have a passport as I swore I would never travel by air again unless it was above 'cattle class' and I also want access to the dentist if things go awry :uneasy:

Quote from: GroupC on October 22, 2018, 04:55:51 PM
A friend of mine's found out he's got a brain tumour.


There's nothing anyone can really add but I wish your friend all the best. They can do wonders these days.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on November 04, 2018, 10:29:18 PM
I'm unhappy with my electronic pepper mill. It's barely a year old and on the blink. :thumbsdown:

Can anyone recommend a reliable replacement?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on November 05, 2018, 09:08:09 AM
Why do you want an electric one when it only takes a couple of twists with a manual one to give you enough pepper for your dish ? ???
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on November 05, 2018, 09:35:22 AM
And if the person concerned has only one hand?
The problem with social media is such details are unknown and assumptions are made which could cause hurt to the person involved.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on November 05, 2018, 10:48:35 AM
Fortunately I have all my fingers, toes, etc. intact and in reasonable working order. But I'm a child of the 20th Century made lazy by advances in technology and manufacturing. Thirty years ago, I'd get up and walk across the room to switch channels on the telly. Now I pass the remote to MBH - can't even be bothered to press a button myself. I really should be using Speech-to-Text software to type this, but I can't be bothered with filling out a Purchase Order.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on November 05, 2018, 12:03:45 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on November 05, 2018, 09:35:22 AM
And if the person concerned has only one hand?
The problem with social media is such details are unknown and assumptions are made which could cause hurt to the person involved.

It wasn't aimed specifically at Steve, but it's something we all need to be aware of as a couple of times dyslexia sufferers have been upset. We just aren't necessarily cognisant of others' problem.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on November 05, 2018, 01:09:29 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on November 05, 2018, 12:03:45 PM
We just aren't necessarily cognisant of others' problem.

That is so true. Up to a couple of years ago, I used to look at 'fat' people and wonder what they were doing to themselves. When my late Sister had her final round of treatment for cancer, she put on an awful lot of weight. When I see a 'fat' person now, I have to stop and think.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on November 05, 2018, 01:55:33 PM
The EDP local paper headline to a page of WW1 text....

"12,000 lives were lost in Norfolk during WW1"

They couldn't be bothered to honour those men by getting it right, 12,000 lives were lost BY men of Norfolk in Northern France and Belgium..

http://www.edp24.co.uk/features/peace-souvenir-a-timeless-record-of-the-end-of-wwi-1-5761119?fbclid=IwAR0_7hJDRJjsFY_rZ3qTNzBpAPkM07CKXiyhk9OVxn40TG8oKQ5xMViDUNA (http://www.edp24.co.uk/features/peace-souvenir-a-timeless-record-of-the-end-of-wwi-1-5761119?fbclid=IwAR0_7hJDRJjsFY_rZ3qTNzBpAPkM07CKXiyhk9OVxn40TG8oKQ5xMViDUNA)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on November 16, 2018, 12:36:33 PM
This is more a 'feeling sorry for myself' post but I've been to the dentist this morning to have 4 temporary crowns which involved 3 injections in my top lip. I am now many pounds poorer, am sat drinking coffee through a straw and with kitchen roll handy, and feel like I've been punched in the cakehole while I wait for the swelling to go down. In two weeks time I have to go and get the 'proper' ones fitted and will be even poorer after that. OK, I'll have a nice smile but C*******s has had it.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on November 16, 2018, 12:42:22 PM
Commiserations, Mick.

Having had crowns fitted I know how you feel.

Guess these repairs are due to the heavy-handed but urgent event during your earlier ticker rebuild.

No chance of getting any help with the bills?

Dave G

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on November 16, 2018, 01:31:39 PM
I know how you feel , particularly money wise!
Nonetheless, it will be worth it in the long run.
Meanwhile.........take it easy.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on November 16, 2018, 01:42:48 PM
I can certainly sympathise. A crown that's probably a decade old had a bit shatter off a few weeks ago. No pain yet, and I'm hoping it stays that way till the new year when I might have some spare money. :-X
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on November 16, 2018, 01:58:52 PM
I am beginning to think that I was lucky when I was the first into the NAAFI one night, in NI, and very shortly the first down on the floor  :-[

for some reason, they all used to turn on us when we turned up  ???

anyway, a couple of weeks at Cosford, ops, and a set of partial dentures, surgical ward so a bottle of Guiness each night [good for the blood]  :beers:

a few years later, into Wroughton, remaining nashers out, and a full set fitted.

those were of course in the days of RAF / ARMY/ Royal Navy hospitals, long sold off and now a ward in an NHS hospital.

so now, teeth like stars, they come out at night n :smiley-laughing:

still got the RAF nashers, real quality, doubt today's NHS ones would last as long.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on November 16, 2018, 02:47:44 PM
just setting up a $60,000 piece of equipment ready for next weeks work.., it went back to the USA when it first arrived, as dead on arrival.
Now it's back ....the cover is fitted backwards and the fan is blowing air out of the fiilter (not sucking it in) so it's making a huge noise, didn't they check it and Calibrate it before sending?

Luckily I just work for the company and It's their money I'm wasting doing this..
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on November 16, 2018, 02:51:58 PM
My sympathies Mick. Having had a crown break off recently that was due to a split root and meant the total loss of the tooth just a week ago, I share your pain.

As for Christmas, your new teeth will be your crowning moment! :sorrysign:




Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on November 16, 2018, 04:11:09 PM
Quote from: daveg on November 16, 2018, 12:42:22 PM

Guess these repairs are due to the heavy-handed but urgent event during your earlier ticker rebuild.

No chance of getting any help with the bills?

Dave G

Spot on, Dave. My front top 4 teeth got smashed during emergency intubation. I had them repaired on the cheap but they became discoloured after 2½ years.
I've not even considered chasing any sort of comp as, at the end of the day, I'm still here thanks to their great work.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on November 17, 2018, 06:35:54 PM
I wouldn't worry about your teeth Mick. If the news is to believed, all you will have soon is gruel, which just requires a good suck and no chewing.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: acko22 on November 27, 2018, 01:14:56 PM
Well I am confused now, so I emailed Network Rail in August for information on two stations (Alfreton and Salford Cresent) mainly the architectural drawings of them.
They are both prefab buildings and they have given me ideas for my layout, so they have finally responded and err they don't have them. how can they not have the drawings of their own buildings I mean I have the drawings and stuff for my house as part of my housing pack from when I bought it!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on November 27, 2018, 01:17:17 PM
you're still not thinking like a civilian.  :no:

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: acko22 on November 27, 2018, 01:19:21 PM
Quote from: class37025 on November 27, 2018, 01:17:17 PM
you're still not thinking like a civilian.  :no:

:sorrysign: still trying to become less institutionalised here! But good to see common sense is still as much as mystical beast on the outside as it is in the madhouse!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jerry Howlett on November 27, 2018, 01:38:10 PM
Quote from: acko22 on November 27, 2018, 01:14:56 PM
Well I am confused now, so I emailed Network Rail in August for information on two stations (Alfreton and Salford Cresent) mainly the architectural drawings of them.
They are both prefab buildings and they have given me ideas for my layout, so they have finally responded and err they don't have them. how can they not have the drawings of their own buildings I mean I have the drawings and stuff for my house as part of my housing pack from when I bought it!

No big surprise to me.  In my days doing Station surveys for the then Railtrack we surveyed 100's of sites many of these were Scotrail Stations. I was working employed by ATOS (I think) lost count after we changed hands but the completed surveys were not available to the other companies after Railtrack folded. I was still working on Scotrail sites when I discovered that they could not access this data. It had cost up to £25,000 for each station survey.  No I did not get a cut...    I guess whoever built your 2 stations did for BR and so the plans probably remain the property of the eesigners / builders.  Uteer blocks in my opinion but probably true.

This has reopened a 13 year old wound, move to Angry thread or the BROS website!!

Jerry
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on November 27, 2018, 01:53:25 PM
Quote from: class37025 on November 27, 2018, 01:17:17 PM
you're still not thinking like a civilian.  :no:

:laughabovepost: :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Ian Bowden on November 27, 2018, 08:29:31 PM
I thought Salford crescent was heavily modified as part of the ordsall chord. I read somewhere there was issues with the platform depth. If so that was in the last few years
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on November 27, 2018, 09:11:35 PM
So I'm part of a team of four providing IT services to a teaching/research department of a leading university. Today we attended a 'consultation' meeting on the future provision of IT services. Under the smoke-screen of reducing risk - the real reason as ever is cost cutting by reducing the wage bill - we've been officially notified that we at risk of redundancy, while they now look to contract out service provision.

The Head of Administration (HoA) pointed to increasing issues over the past 12 months. When I pushed for examples, she eventually mumbled about one incident some two years ago. Apparently the main culprit was the previous IT Manager, who HoA replaced 12 months ago with her own man - that position should've been mine.

I wasn't going to go quietly and pointed out that if one of her managers failed, then she had failed also: 1) she failed to manage the failing manager; 2) she failed by rewarding the failing manager with a new management position; 3) she failed by appointing her own man, who then managed a year of increasing issues.

So who are the people now paying the price for this catalogue of management failures?  Yep, the workers! :veryangry: I should be angrier than I am, but I feel sadness and disappointment the most. Teaching and research will be the biggest losers.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Hailstone on November 28, 2018, 01:13:47 AM
Unfortunately a common story in this day and age, people promoted by their ambition which usually is twice as far as their ability should normally take them, my own company suffered this too, I count myself fortunate to have escaped before the lunatics completely controlled the asylum!

My condolences

Alex
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Train Waiting on November 28, 2018, 08:22:53 AM
Looks, to me, like it might be a TUPE situation, if contracting out goes ahead.  That might be a good question to ask the lady as part of the consultation procedure.

Best wishes.

John
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on November 28, 2018, 12:39:42 PM
Yes John, should the 'consultation' conclude that outsourcing is the correct course to steer, we'll be offered TUPE. I'm a union rep and have great support from local and regional union officers. We managed yesterday to extract a commitment to a full and open consultation of all stakeholders. So I'm now trying to persuade my colleagues to seize any interaction with academics as an opportunity to lobby for our inhouse services.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on November 28, 2018, 12:47:58 PM
When we got taken over at one section of Bacton gas works they found a way round TUPE, sacking all 200 of us, only re-employing 100. That of course got rid of any outstanding pension rights for the employees., and those remeployed were on lower wages..
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on November 28, 2018, 01:57:32 PM
remember the moto

illegitimae non carborundum

or for those who did not suffer latin at school

don't let the b******s grind you down  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on November 28, 2018, 02:12:39 PM
The trouble with outsourcing is that there is a lot of underbidding to get the job. Our in house team worked out a cost doing a job. The bids came in at £50k cheaper, so we allowed staff to take redundancy as well as applying TUPE. At the end of the first year of a 2 year contract, the winner said they needed another £50k to do the job. They didn't get it and didn't get the contract the following year. In regard to the TUPE, the contractor had several sites about 20 miles away and moved most of our staff there and brought in cheaper staff. Because of all the travelling the majority of our old staff left after 6 months.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on November 28, 2018, 02:31:19 PM
before I retired, I was working nights on security, and the site I was on had a quite state of the art system, with CCTV, alarms, computerised control of entry etc.

the computer terminals we used for this were on the clients own network, but the majority of the systems were outsourced from a security company.

so, at 03 sodding o'clock when the system failed, if it was the clients part of the system we called their duty IT tech, and he would either talk us through a reset procedure, or come in and sort the problem.

if it was the security company's parts of the system we called them, they then got their duty tech to call us, and he could be anywhere in the southeast on another fault, and we could still be waiting for him to arrive five hours later when we handed over to the day shift.

of course it was cheaper, but where when the system worked staff could get on site by simply swiping their pass, when it didn't we needed to call in extra staff to man barriers giving entry to the site, and others to check passes entering the buildings.

outsourcing of critical services NEVER works.

when Professor Plum's computer fails, can he afford to wait most of the day to get it sorted, rather than Fred from IT popping up in ten minutes to rectify the fault ?

as always, bean counters only see one thing, then blame everyone else when their decision turns out to be wrong.

then they usually get promoted and cause even more chaos in their new post. :censored:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on November 28, 2018, 04:19:50 PM
Quote from: class37025 on November 28, 2018, 02:31:19 PM
..
when Professor Plum's computer fails, can he afford to wait most of the day to get it sorted, rather than Fred from IT popping up in ten minutes to rectify the fault ?
...

I've lost track of the number of times the receptionist has collared me on my way in - Prof. Plum is having trouble with his powerpoint in front of a 200+ capacity lecture theatre. Sometimes one of us might go around to Prof. Plum's house to sort out a problem with his BT broadband. Another time Prof. Plum brings his daughter's laptop in - can we help him fit more memory etc. All that'll soon stop!

I'm now stopping every academic I pass and saying "farewell and best wishes for the future!" and then painting them a dire picture of the future. They have the power to stop this, if we can stir them into action. :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on November 28, 2018, 04:30:24 PM
Quote from: Malc on November 28, 2018, 02:12:39 PM
The trouble with outsourcing is that there is a lot of underbidding to get the job. Our in house team worked out a cost doing a job. The bids came in at £50k cheaper, so we allowed staff to take redundancy as well as applying TUPE. At the end of the first year of a 2 year contract, the winner said they needed another £50k to do the job. They didn't get it and didn't get the contract the following year. In regard to the TUPE, the contractor had several sites about 20 miles away and moved most of our staff there and brought in cheaper staff. Because of all the travelling the majority of our old staff left after 6 months.

I've been through all this just over a decade ago. And that experience played out pretty much as you describe Malc. Last day of work inhouse, we swapped the backup tapes at the end of the day and turned out the lights. First day of work for the outsourced lot, I and 2 other server admins plus our old manager were shown into a call centre and given headsets "welcome to your new jobs as the world's best paid call loggers!". We were only allowed to log calls mind, we were explicitly barred from offering the caller solutions! Within a year we'd all left with varying degrees of mental ill-health.

I'm much wiser and aware of my rights this time around. :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on November 28, 2018, 04:34:44 PM
Quote from: RailGooner on November 28, 2018, 04:19:50 PM
Quote from: class37025 on November 28, 2018, 02:31:19 PM
..
when Professor Plum's computer fails, can he afford to wait most of the day to get it sorted, rather than Fred from IT popping up in ten minutes to rectify the fault ?
...

I've lost track of the number of times the receptionist has collared me on my way in - Prof. Plum is having trouble with his powerpoint in front of a 200+ capacity lecture theatre. Sometimes one of us might go around to Prof. Plum's house to sort out a problem with his BT broadband. Another time Prof. Plum brings his daughter's laptop in - can we help him fit more memory etc. All that'll soon stop!

I'm now stopping every academic I pass and saying "farewell and best wishes for the future!" and then painting them a dire picture of the future. They have the power to stop this, if we can stir them into action. :beers:

WAY TO GO  :thumbsup:

some jumped up admin [person] decides he/she can score a few brownie points by saving a few £s, ok will probably cost £1,000s in the long run, but WTF, so give it too them big time.
when the real customers realise the true results, perhaps he/she will get his/her due deserts and an INFORMED decision will be made.

fingers crossed.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on November 29, 2018, 12:12:21 AM
Unfortunately it never works like that. I've worked under a couple of bosses that came up with hair brained solutions. They don't stay in the job more than 2 years. They can blame their predecessor for the problems for that length of time, then they move either sideways or more usually up. This is because they can say they have saved the department £x,000, so get a better job, where they repeat the process. There is no justice in this world I'm afraid.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Ian Bowden on November 29, 2018, 04:42:13 PM
It's all part of the outsourcing game. The new company makes certain that existing staff don't remain on site so there is no experience to fall back on if the client ends the contract. They might cherry pick the best but move them to another customer, but that is getting scarcer.
I worked for a council where they employed a consultant to improve the services. The method used was in each department get rid of the highest paid and claim efficiencies made. The fact that the ones got rid of were often carrying the department was never a consideration.
A good example is we developed an automatic link from a member of the public logging a problem to it being sent to the correct department. In the interests of efficiency it was replaced by a phone app where someone printed out the reports and then emailed the department with the wrong information
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on November 29, 2018, 09:19:41 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on November 16, 2018, 12:36:33 PM
This is more a 'feeling sorry for myself' post but I've been to the dentist this morning to have 4 temporary crowns which involved 3 injections in my top lip. I am now many pounds poorer, am sat drinking coffee through a straw and with kitchen roll handy, and feel like I've been punched in the cakehole while I wait for the swelling to go down. In two weeks time I have to go and get the 'proper' ones fitted and will be even poorer after that. OK, I'll have a nice smile but C*******s has had it.

2 more numbing injections and the temporaries chiselled off, the permanent porcelain crowns are in place. More coffee through a straw until about a couple of hours ago but settling down now.
Total bill just under £1600. C*******s is definitely  :censored:
That's almost 6 Farish coaches :doh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on November 29, 2018, 09:33:33 PM
6 Farish coaches cost £1600  :o :goggleeyes: ???. Just think though Mick, you will have a lovely smile now.  ;)  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on November 29, 2018, 10:25:57 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on November 29, 2018, 09:33:33 PM
Just think though Mick, you will have a lovely smile now.  ;)  :thumbsup:

As the old song goes "Fangs for the memory"

Quote from: dannyboy on November 29, 2018, 09:33:33 PM
6 Farish coaches cost £1600  :o :goggleeyes: ???.

Yes - I was just joshing but mark my words ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on November 30, 2018, 07:50:13 AM
Glad to hear you have your smile back, Mick. :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on November 30, 2018, 07:57:52 AM
Bit sad about the wallet though. ;)

The Clash:

London calling at the top of the dial,

After all that can you give us a smile  ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on November 30, 2018, 09:23:02 AM
I've just spent an hour and a bit filling out part 1 of the annual assessments, the boss will be fillling out his part 2 of the assessments, then we have to have a meeting where we agree to fill out part 3 of the assessments, which will of course mirrors his.
All written in American HR not English language. It's so bad they have to run courses on how to fill it all in and what it means..

What  a waste of time and it's total BXXXXXXXs
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on November 30, 2018, 09:33:38 AM
Have you touched base yet?

My favourite saying from real estate agents and sales people.

"OK, text you in the New Year and touch base"

>:(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on November 30, 2018, 11:10:18 AM
Quote from: Bealman on November 30, 2018, 09:33:38 AM
Have you touched base yet?

My favourite saying from real estate agents and sales people.

"OK, text you in the New Year and touch base"

>:(

Remember to wash your hands before and after touching anyone's base!  :D

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on November 30, 2018, 11:15:42 AM
anyone touches my base, I breaka their arms  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on November 30, 2018, 11:33:19 AM
SWMBO dropped a repeat prescription for a couple of her meds in to the GP surgery last week.

phoned the pharmacy monday, got the prescription, but one item needs ordering, will be in tuesday.

phoned tuesday, all in so down there, collected bag of assorted meds, and headed home.

SWMBO opened bag ...

item 1. 2x right item  :thumbsup:
item 2. 2 x 'what the hell are these ?'  :'(

should have been 2 x 200mcg of one thing, but was 2 x 100mcg of something else. label correct, item wrong  >:(

back to pharmacy, collared pharmacist, and by now in full RAFP SNOWDROP 'YOU HORRIBLE LITTLE MAN' mode..  :veryangry:

'don't know how that happened'

not the reply I was looking for !

'well I do. the person who picked the items didn't do their job, and the pharmacist who then checked the items didn't do theirs either. result my wife got wrong meds  :censored:'

he did then replace the items with the correct ones, and I left, carefully noting the grid reference of the pharmacy  >:D

but............
1. what if SWMBO was on her own, and didn't realise the mistake ?
2. what if the wrong meds had reacted with other meds she's on ?
3. how often is this mistake made, in spite of a supposed two person check system ?
4. presumably the wrong items cannot now be given to anyone else, so wastage at what cost ?

so.........

a few wee drams later, and a phone call to NHS England to raise a formal complaint.

now awaiting their response.

am I over-reacting ?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on November 30, 2018, 11:57:30 AM
@class37025 (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=311)

No!

It'll be interesting to learn what may happen next.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on November 30, 2018, 12:16:31 PM
@class37025 (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=311)  IMHO you are certainly not overreacting. that is a very dangerous mistake and should be reported beyond the pharmacy itself. The wrong meds can kill.

If it's been done once, it may happen again, or has happened before. If two people prepared and checked the original prescription, including the Pharmacist, obviously their system has a real problem.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: austinbob on November 30, 2018, 12:28:45 PM
Broke a tooth yesterday so this a.m. at the dentist to get it fixed.
£125 for 20 mins work. Not in Newport Nobby's expensive dental work price range, but, still the price of a new loco.
:(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on November 30, 2018, 02:13:28 PM
Quote from: class37025 on November 30, 2018, 11:33:19 AM
..
am I over-reacting ?

What(!)? Hardly. As you say, it could've played out with a much more disastrous end. Hopefully it is an isolated incident and the pharmacy will learn from it.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on November 30, 2018, 02:59:25 PM
@class37025 (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=311) also, what happens if some other individual got your wife's meds instead of the correct ones. Depending what they are, it could be fatal. You did the right thing in raising a complaint.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on November 30, 2018, 04:00:26 PM
@class37025 (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=311)  Not over reacting at all. The results could have been catastrophic. It's OK for an old scrote like me who has been on meds long enough to spot such a thing straight away but for a relative newbie to prescriptions it's not so easy. It helps that I fill one of those pill dispenser thingies each week with flaps for each portion of the day so Id notice it before anything got to my gob (also helps me remember what day it is :-[ :))

@austinbob (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=2403)
Hope it wasn't your cooking causing the prob!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: snitchthebudgie on December 01, 2018, 10:16:33 AM
No sure whether this belongs on the happy, unhappy, or angry thread.

I reached the milestone (millstone?) age of 65 today.  More time for modelling, perhaps, but a nasty reminder of the advancing years.  No doubt there will be a string of replies saying that I am a mere youngster, but it doesn't feel that way this morning.  :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on December 01, 2018, 10:25:48 AM
Sorry, you no longer qualify as a 'youngster'. :no:

Welcome to the Worshipful Company of Old Gits. :beers:

We are legion, and we rule..... er....... um.........  :uneasy: .....  well, I knew what I was going to write a moment ago. :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on December 01, 2018, 10:27:33 AM
Quote from: daffy on December 01, 2018, 10:25:48 AM
Sorry, you no longer qualify as a 'youngster'. :no:

Welcome to the Worshipful Company of Old Gits. :beers:

We are legion, and we rule..... er....... um.........  :uneasy: .....  well, I knew what I was going to write a moment ago. :(

Snap!  :beers:  :claphappy:

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on December 01, 2018, 10:41:02 AM
 :toot: Happy Birthday @snitchthebudgie (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=4684) you curmudgeonly old git. ;) :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: snitchthebudgie on December 01, 2018, 10:43:31 AM
Look, I may be an old git, but I'm still working on the curmudgeonly bit (I can barely spell it....)  :censored:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on December 01, 2018, 11:21:53 AM
Tried to book a GP appointment online today where you can currently book up to January 14th. Ideally I'd like one in the next 2 weeks as I seem to have an issue with my thumb and my neck (not that it's very interesting to others) and it's been getting worse by the day. How many slots do you think were available? None, not one! I could go to the GP on Monday (no point in phoning as by the time they answer I could walk there as it only takes 15 minutes) and ask for an appointment but their first question will be, "Is it an emergency?" I don't see it as an emergency or I would call 999 but plenty of people seem to abuse this question with a headache (sorry, people don't have headaches these days, according to them they usually have migraines) so I may just do this.
The point of this post though? Surely I should be able to book an appointment somewhere in those 6 weeks shouldn't I?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on December 01, 2018, 11:35:20 AM
@Trainfish (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=262), if you are worried about your condition, dare I suggest you get to the surgery and say you're prepared to wait but need to see a doctor today.

I don't think any receptionist, unless medically qualified,  is permitted to make the judgement that that you cannot be seen by a doctor on an urgent basis.

More than understand the frustration and hope you get the help and advice you need.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on December 01, 2018, 11:41:50 AM
Thanks @daveg (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=1087). That's basically my plan for Monday. They don't actually make the judgement as to whether it is an emergency, they ask you if you think it is. Last time I told them I don't consider it an emergency (see previous 999 comment) but that it was probably more urgent than at least half the people in the waiting room at that time. She gave me an appointment for about an hour later if I remember correctly. The other annoying thing is that they also put up the statistics on how many missed appointments there were in the previous week and I don't think I've ever seen it less than 50. I believe people book appointments 'just in case' and then don't use them. In my eyes they should bring in the 3 strikes and you're out system for this.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on December 01, 2018, 11:45:19 AM
Looking at my GP's online booking system right now, the earliest appointment available is on Dec 14th if I select type: 'Routine'. If I select type: '2-3 Days ahead', the earliest is Jan 7th. If I call them (on Monday morning) I expect I could get an appointment for next week. :confused2:

I can normally get a phone appointment - a Doctor calls me back at an unspecified time - for the same day. Does your GP offer phone appointments John?

Quote from: Trainfish on December 01, 2018, 11:41:50 AM
..
The other annoying thing is that they also put up the statistics on how many missed appointments there were in the previous week and I don't think I've ever seen it less than 50. I believe people book appointments 'just in case' and then don't use them. In my eyes they should bring in the 3 strikes and you're out system for this.

I think unless one misses an appointment due to ill health, there should be a penalty charge - say, £25.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on December 01, 2018, 11:52:31 AM
This way the receptionists have of asking "is it urgent" always amuses me, as this implies some sort of diagnosing ability by the person seeking help.

And if my own habit, and that exhibited by many patients on Channel 5's weekly visit to a GP practise is anything to go by, most patients, when initially asked by the Doctor, "How are you today?" will look on the positive side and answer "Fine, Doc", even if subsequent examination proves they are anything but.

Here's hoping you get seen on Monday. :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on December 01, 2018, 11:55:03 AM
Quote from: RailGooner on December 01, 2018, 11:45:19 AM

I can normally get a phone appointment - a Doctor calls me back at an unspecified time - for the same day. Does your GP offer phone appointments John?

I think unless one misses an appointment due to ill health, there should be a penalty charge - say, £25.

I have had a 'telephone consultation' before for something else and this was followed by an actual appointment about a week later. I'm no doctor but I'm pretty sure I will need to see a GP this time, I don't think it can be cured over the phone.

I partly agree regarding the missed appointment charge but at the same time I can see that being abused too. "I couldn't get there as I was too ill" etc. I don't know what the answer is but something needs to be done.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on December 01, 2018, 11:57:58 AM
Quote from: daffy on December 01, 2018, 11:52:31 AM
This way the receptionists have of asking "is it urgent" always amuses me, as this implies some sort of diagnosing ability by the person seeking help.

And if my own habit, and that exhibited by many patients on Channel 5's weekly visit to a GP practise is anything to go by, most patients, when initially asked by the Doctor, "How are you today?" will look on the positive side and answer "Fine, Doc", even if subsequent examination proves they are anything but.

Here's hoping you get seen on Monday. :thumbsup:

It winds me up when you are in the waiting room and one of the regulars comes in and asks Doris in the corner, "How are you?" When she answers I'm fine, the grandchildren are good etc etc I really want to shout out to her "Why are you taking up a valuable appointment time then if you're fine?" I've refrained until now but catch me on the wrong day and I'm not so sure I could stay quiet when I hear that.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on December 01, 2018, 12:32:06 PM
No idea if it's correct but I'm guessing most appointments are made via the phone.

If you are able to call for an appointment you must almost surely be able to cancel using the same method. If someone has done that for you here again a someone could kindly also make the cancellation on your behalf.

So fortunate where we are as in spite of the everyday 08:00 'appointment-making call jamming', we can be seen by a doc usually on the day.

Good luck!

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on December 01, 2018, 12:37:14 PM
Quote from: daffy on December 01, 2018, 11:52:31 AM
This way the receptionists have of asking "is it urgent" always amuses me, as this implies some sort of diagnosing ability by the person seeking help.
...

Indeed, it takes a qualified physician to make a qualified diagnosis.

Quote from: Trainfish on December 01, 2018, 11:55:03 AM
I have had a 'telephone consultation' before for something else and this was followed by an actual appointment about a week later. I'm no doctor but I'm pretty sure I will need to see a GP this time, I don't think it can be cured over the phone.
...

Sorry John, I wasn't trying to suggest your ailment was trivial - though I sincerely hope it is and hope you get well soon. On at least one occasion (maybe only one occasion even,) a phone appointment resulted in the doctor insisting I immediately attend the surgery. It can be a very quick and efficient route to accessing a qualified physician.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MinZaPint on December 01, 2018, 01:11:33 PM
Quote from: RailGooner on December 01, 2018, 12:37:14 PM
Quote from: daffy on December 01, 2018, 11:52:31 AM
This way the receptionists have of asking "is it urgent" always amuses me, as this implies some sort of diagnosing ability by the person seeking help.
...

Indeed, it takes a qualified physician to make a qualified diagnosis.


My tale

It was over 10 years ago but I rang the surgery and asked for a Doctor to call because I'd come out in spots all over my body! "Can you get to the surgery? ", Yes but as I said I've come out in spots and I've no idea what has caused them. "Well you will have to come in" so off I went, I left my shirt cuffs unbuttoned and when I got to the surgery and saw the receptionist, in a slightly louder voice than usual I related my tale "You said I would have to come in" swept back my sleeves to show the very red spots "These are the spots" She uttered a loud cry "Isolation room!" and I was whisked away past very disturbed waiting patients. It turned out to be nothing infectious fortunately but as the doctor said you should have had a house call.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on December 01, 2018, 01:15:10 PM
I'm not sure that a missed appointment fee would do anything other than annoy those that genuinely forgot or mixed up the dates for those that have booked a routine appointment weeks ahead. Whenever I have been to my GP or to a hospital appointment, they have always been running late and I have had to wait a considerable time. I am sure they factor in for an average number of missed appointments and would be in real trouble if everyone turned up!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on December 01, 2018, 01:47:29 PM
Quote from: RailGooner on December 01, 2018, 12:37:14 PM
Sorry John, I wasn't trying to suggest your ailment was trivial - though I sincerely hope it is and hope you get well soon.
No worries, I didn't take it that way

Quote from: RailGooner on December 01, 2018, 12:37:14 PM
On at least one occasion (maybe only one occasion even,) a phone appointment resulted in the doctor insisting I immediately attend the surgery. It can be a very quick and efficient route to accessing a qualified physician.

So can staging a sit-in at the surgery which is what I will do on Monday if they don't give me an appointment  :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on December 01, 2018, 01:52:14 PM
Quote from: stevewalker on December 01, 2018, 01:15:10 PM
Whenever I have been to my GP or to a hospital appointment, they have always been running late and I have had to wait a considerable time.

Yes but if you turn up late it's a different matter. I was a little bit late once and the electronic check-in machine wouldn't accept me. The receptionist did though with a warning not to be late again as it can throw the whole day out just before telling me there would be a 10 minute delay as the GP was running late! This was of course a GP 10 minutes which in reality is a 30 minute delay.
If I keep replying to these messages I'm going to have to go over to the angry thread  :o
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on December 01, 2018, 01:53:05 PM
 :laughabovepost:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on December 01, 2018, 02:38:46 PM
@Trainfish (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=262)
And they wonder why people go to A & E to sit for hours and clog the place up, John ::)
Our GP has a 'walk in' surgery on Mondays if you can be prepared to sit for ages with folks with colds who think the doc should cure them. Tuesday afternoons are set aside for training so no surgery. Thursday there's no GP, just the vampirephlebotomist doing blood tests, and there's no weekend surgeries :unimpressed:

@snitchthebudgie (http://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=4684)
Congrats on reaching the ripe age of 65. I hit this early October and have to say the state pension and heating allowance will help my model train purchases :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on December 01, 2018, 02:58:41 PM
It was rumoured that my surgery were going to have a regular walk-in session but I think they then realised that the queue would probably end up in the supermarket car park next door.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: talisman56 on December 03, 2018, 09:16:47 AM
When I was a lot younger the usual modus operandum was that one went down to the doctor's surgery and sat in the waiting room with everyone else until you got to the front of the queue...

Mind you with all the coughs, sniffles, etc that all the other waitees had you ran the risk of coming out with at least double the ailments you went in with...

Anyone who asks me 'how I feel today' when I'm down at the Health Centre usually gets an answer on the lines of 'I'm here, what do you think?'
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on December 03, 2018, 10:43:53 AM
Quote from: talisman56 on December 03, 2018, 09:16:47 AM

Anyone who asks me 'how I feel today' when I'm down at the Health Centre usually gets the answer on the lines of 'I'm here, what do you think?'

It does make you feel like replying "I'm absolutely ticketty-boo. I just thought I'd spend a few hours seeing what I can catch for a future visit" I took my Mum to A & E once (on the recommendation of her GP, and the 2 nurses on reception bickered for a good 10 minutes as to who was going to book her in ::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on December 03, 2018, 12:57:17 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on December 01, 2018, 01:47:29 PM
So can staging a sit-in at the surgery which is what I will do on Monday if they don't give me an appointment  :(

Sit-in wasn't required. I went there at 9 and saw a GP by 9:30. Left with a form to fill out for physio  :goggleeyes:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on December 03, 2018, 01:23:19 PM
 :jawdropping:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on December 03, 2018, 06:23:53 PM
I shall be at the GPs on Wednesday morning,  my answer would be,  I'm fine,  which I am, as long as I keep taking the pills.  The visit is to the Vampire.  The following week,  I shall visit again and my answer will be I'm fine.  I will be prodded, weighed, measured and get the results of the Vampire.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on December 03, 2018, 09:20:35 PM
Finally got through to the tax people at HMRC today and they agreed I have overpaid quite a large sum of tax. I'm told they'll put a form in the post within the next 14 days for me to fill in and return, and that any payment would then take 20 working days to be made. The cogs grind very slowly for them but I think t'would be different if I was at fault :unimpressed:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on December 03, 2018, 09:29:17 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on December 03, 2018, 09:20:35 PM
..
they'll put a form in the post within the next 14 days for me to fill in and return, and that any payment would then take 20 working days to be made
...

To be continued... in the Happy Thread around mid Jan 2019. :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on December 03, 2018, 09:53:14 PM
Quote from: RailGooner on December 03, 2018, 09:29:17 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on December 03, 2018, 09:20:35 PM
..
they'll put a form in the post within the next 14 days for me to fill in and return, and that any payment would then take 20 working days to be made
...

To be continued... in the Happy Thread around mid Jan 2019. :D

no - don't forget there is christmas postal delay, closed for HMRC christmas party, christmas, new year, HMRC new years party..........

might get it by easter, if HMRC don't have an easter party  >:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Ian Bowden on December 03, 2018, 11:39:20 PM
Quote from: snitchthebudgie on December 01, 2018, 10:16:33 AM
No sure whether this belongs on the happy, unhappy, or angry thread.

I reached the milestone (millstone?) age of 65 today.  More time for modelling, perhaps, but a nasty reminder of the advancing years.  No doubt there will be a string of replies saying that I am a mere youngster, but it doesn't feel that way this morning.  :'(
Just wait soon your days will filled so full with NHS appointments that you wonder what leisure time was, and you will know off by heart every poster and magazine in the waiting room. Seriously you will soon find you don't have enough hours in the day with all your new found leisure activities.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: woodbury22uk on December 04, 2018, 02:47:51 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on December 03, 2018, 09:20:35 PM
Finally got through to the tax people at HMRC today and they agreed I have overpaid quite a large sum of tax. I'm told they'll put a form in the post within the next 14 days for me to fill in and return, and that any payment would then take 20 working days to be made. The cogs grind very slowly for them but I think t'would be different if I was at fault :unimpressed:

As a new State Pension recipient, my wife recently found out that tax on the State Pension is charged on what she has been paid plus the amount sitting in the Government's bank that she did not receive until two weeks into the new tax year. This means that a new state pension recipient is liable for the tax on up to 4 weeks pension accrued but not paid at 5 April. So if your first pension idue week is in early March you could receive no money in the tax year but be liable for the tax on the 4 weeks of accrued pension!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on December 04, 2018, 06:39:42 AM
That's interesting, Mike. Not sure I understand but no real surprise.

My state pension isn't taxable at source but forms a chunk of my personal allowance. My 'other' pensions get taxed and have their own tax codes.

There's no escape!

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: talisman56 on December 04, 2018, 09:46:06 AM
Quote from: The Q on December 03, 2018, 06:23:53 PM
I shall be at the GPs on Wednesday morning,  my answer would be,  I'm fine,  which I am, as long as I keep taking the pills.  The visit is to the Vampire.  The following week,  I shall visit again and my answer will be I'm fine.  I will be prodded, weighed, measured and get the results of the Vampire.

Aaah, the annual 'MoT' - I went down to have the blood-sucking bit done last week, and within 24 hours had a phone call from them saying we didn't like something we saw, can we have another lot?  :worried: ???
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: woodbury22uk on December 04, 2018, 09:47:25 AM
Quote from: daveg on December 04, 2018, 06:39:42 AM
That's interesting, Mike. Not sure I understand but no real surprise.

My state pension isn't taxable at source but forms a chunk of my personal allowance. My 'other' pensions get taxed and have their own tax codes.

There's no escape!

Dave G


Yes Dave, it was a bit surprising. She drew down a pension amount which meant the total income she received in the tax year was £12 over her personal allowance. The tax she had to pay was over £70 because HMRC counted the weeks of State Pension due before 5 April but which she did not receive until 10 April. This "accrued" amount put her £350 over her personal allowance.

From the Income Tax (Earnings and pensions) Act 2003, Part 9, Chapter 5 :-

"577
United Kingdom social security pensions
(1)
This section applies to—
the state pension,
graduated retirement benefit,
industrial death benefit,
widowed mother's allowance,
widowed parent's allowance, and
widow's pension.

578
Taxable pension income
If section 577 applies, the taxable pension income for a tax year is the full amount of the pension, benefit or allowance accruing in that year irrespective of when any amount is actually paid. "


If a person is in employment the relevant date for tax is the date that an amount is actually received, not earned or accrued.


Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: talisman56 on December 04, 2018, 09:49:03 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on December 03, 2018, 09:20:35 PM
Finally got through to the tax people at HMRC today and they agreed I have overpaid quite a large sum of tax. I'm told they'll put a form in the post within the next 14 days for me to fill in and return, and that any payment would then take 20 working days to be made. The cogs grind very slowly for them but I think t'would be different if I was at fault :unimpressed:

Don't forget to ask for interest on the overpayment - after all, they rack that on any underpayment you have to make, along with the 'late payment' penalty...  >:(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on December 04, 2018, 09:49:58 AM
Quote from: talisman56 on December 04, 2018, 09:46:06 AM
Quote from: The Q on December 03, 2018, 06:23:53 PM
I shall be at the GPs on Wednesday morning,  my answer would be,  I'm fine,  which I am, as long as I keep taking the pills.  The visit is to the Vampire.  The following week,  I shall visit again and my answer will be I'm fine.  I will be prodded, weighed, measured and get the results of the Vampire.

Aaah, the annual 'MoT' - I went down to have the blood-sucking bit done last week, and within 24 hours had a phone call from them saying we didn't like something we saw, can we have another lot?  :worried: ???

I sincerely hope your repeat test brings good results..
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Ian Bowden on December 04, 2018, 01:17:20 PM
Quote from: woodbury22uk on December 04, 2018, 02:47:51 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on December 03, 2018, 09:20:35 PM
Finally got through to the tax people at HMRC today and they agreed I have overpaid quite a large sum of tax. I'm told they'll put a form in the post within the next 14 days for me to fill in and return, and that any payment would then take 20 working days to be made. The cogs grind very slowly for them but I think t'would be different if I was at fault :unimpressed:

As a new State Pension recipient, my wife recently found out that tax on the State Pension is charged on what she has been paid plus the amount sitting in the Government's bank that she did not receive until two weeks into the new tax year. This means that a new state pension recipient is liable for the tax on up to 4 weeks pension accrued but not paid at 5 April. So if your first pension idue week is in early March you could receive no money in the tax year but be liable for the tax on the 4 weeks of accrued pension!
Unless they have finally fixed the problem in the first year of retirement the inland revenue computer includes an estimate of earnings that includes the last years earnings plus state pension in the calculation of tax code. When I retired i queried the tax calculation and it was immediately recalculated manually. 
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on December 04, 2018, 01:34:13 PM
another point to consider, if your wife does not use all her tax allowance for her pension/s, she can transfer 10% [IIRC] of her tax allowance to you.

We did that when my wife retired, as my various pensions took me over my allowance.

worth looking into, 1d saved is 1d towards an N gauge loco  >:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: talisman56 on December 06, 2018, 10:47:04 PM
Quote from: talisman56 on December 04, 2018, 09:46:06 AM
Quote from: The Q on December 03, 2018, 06:23:53 PM
I shall be at the GPs on Wednesday morning,  my answer would be,  I'm fine,  which I am, as long as I keep taking the pills.  The visit is to the Vampire.  The following week,  I shall visit again and my answer will be I'm fine.  I will be prodded, weighed, measured and get the results of the Vampire.

Aaah, the annual 'MoT' - I went down to have the blood-sucking bit done last week, and within 24 hours had a phone call from them saying we didn't like something we saw, can we have another lot?  :worried: ???

So I went down for another blood sucking session, and after the deed was done, the nurse went to update the computer and suddenly said 'wait - they wanted a fasting blood test'. The person on the phone didn't say that, says I. 'OK, these are useless, can you come in again, after fasting this time?'  >:(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on December 07, 2018, 10:18:50 AM
left hand - right hand  :veryangry:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: GroupC on December 09, 2018, 02:23:15 PM
Quite a few pages ago I posted that my friend had found out he has a brain tumour.

Since then it was diagnosed as the least bad sort, still needing surgery to remove however. He's now had another MRI and they told him it wasn't what they first thought. He's going in tomorrow for a 6-hour op to have it removed. All of this is awful enough but he apart from the initial "access" phase into his head, shall we say, he has to be awake for he whole operation.

Sort of puts stuff into perspective really and I cannot begin to imagine how his wife and family will be feeling tomorrow.

If anyone has 5 minutes spare tomorrow from about noon could they please send positive vibes towards Leeds General Infirmary. I would appreciate it greatly.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on December 09, 2018, 03:33:25 PM
Quote from: GroupC on December 09, 2018, 02:23:15 PM
apart from the initial "access" phase into his head, shall we say, he has to be awake for he whole operation. If anyone has 5 minutes spare tomorrow from about noon could they please send positive vibes towards Leeds General Infirmary. I would appreciate it greatly.

Yikes! I'll do my best
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on December 09, 2018, 04:17:55 PM
I shall as well

May I please just add @GroupC (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=2036) , as somebody who has spent the last week dealing with medical staff (though I am pleased to say for a far happier reason that your poor friend and their family) and I firmly believe that they are exceptionally skilled and deeply caring people.

Yes others have pointed to some admin issues within the NHS on this and the angry thread (and yes I have experienced this as well), but the core medical skill is superb.

Your friend is right where they need to be

All the best

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Ian Bowden on December 10, 2018, 01:59:04 PM
This was from a series about the NHS in about 2008

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dd7ziJsnnvo (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dd7ziJsnnvo)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Np_cbF_tyWY (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Np_cbF_tyWY)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on December 10, 2018, 02:43:22 PM
Quote from: GroupC on December 09, 2018, 02:23:15 PM
..
If anyone has 5 minutes spare tomorrow from about noon could they please send positive vibes towards Leeds General Infirmary. I would appreciate it greatly.

:heart:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on December 10, 2018, 08:45:59 PM
I think this should be in the sad thread .
Val and me had a phone call at five o'clock the other morning and we were told to get down to Swindon as soon as we could her Dad had just been taken to hospital and was in recuss unit we arrived at about six and things were not looking good the doctors gave him some morphine to help him ,by the evening he had picked up so much that we were told it was OK to go home so we did BUT we had another call to say he had taken a turn for the worse so we jumped in the car and arrived at midnight but unfortunately we were too late he had passed away ,I wish we had stayed down the night before and Val could have been by his side at least Vals Mum was there .
Some members of the Forum are coming to visit me tomorrow and Mum told me NOT TO CANCEL as there is nothing we can do at the moment and I need something to cheer me up ,Val is staying down with her to help sort things out .
I hope that people will understand why I havnt cancelled the day , It will really help me to feel better being with friends and not sitting on my own mopping and feeling sad .
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on December 10, 2018, 09:36:48 PM
Very sad news, Bob, but I think you're doing the right thing in not cancelling your meet up. At times like this we all need friends.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on December 10, 2018, 09:49:53 PM
Commiserations Bob. Yes, spending time with friends and being distracted for a while is probably a good idea.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on December 10, 2018, 10:13:38 PM
My best wishes to you Bob, and Val. Take comfort from the company of friends.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Delboy on December 11, 2018, 09:25:32 AM
Hi Bob,
Sorry to hear your sad news.
I second what everyone else has said.
Regards to you and yours at this sad time.
Dennis.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jerry Howlett on December 11, 2018, 08:04:20 PM
All my best to you Bob.

Jerry
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 11, 2018, 08:40:53 PM
Sad news Bob and I can only repeat what others have said. I hope Val and her Mum are okay.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: crewearpley40 on December 11, 2018, 08:47:27 PM


from us all our prayers and thoughts are with you and the family at this time. the next running session will be in 2019, hopefully

from us all at the forum
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: talisman56 on December 13, 2018, 05:19:57 PM
Quote from: talisman56 on December 06, 2018, 10:47:04 PM
Quote from: talisman56 on December 04, 2018, 09:46:06 AM
Quote from: The Q on December 03, 2018, 06:23:53 PM
I shall be at the GPs on Wednesday morning,  my answer would be,  I'm fine,  which I am, as long as I keep taking the pills.  The visit is to the Vampire.  The following week,  I shall visit again and my answer will be I'm fine.  I will be prodded, weighed, measured and get the results of the Vampire.

Aaah, the annual 'MoT' - I went down to have the blood-sucking bit done last week, and within 24 hours had a phone call from them saying we didn't like something we saw, can we have another lot?  :worried: ???

So I went down for another blood sucking session, and after the deed was done, the nurse went to update the computer and suddenly said 'wait - they wanted a fasting blood test'. The person on the phone didn't say that, says I. 'OK, these are useless, can you come in again, after fasting this time?'  >:(

Another half-armful of blood extracted on Monday, heard nothing yet so looks like they're happy at the moment. End of next week I see the nurse for the second part of the MoT so I'll get all the gen then, hopefully.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on December 14, 2018, 12:35:17 AM
A couple of years ago I posted about our eldest son (then 12) having an sudden fit (a severe one, culminating in cardio-respiratory arrest). After tests that found nothing, it was put down to an allergy to Hyoscine - it being the first time he'd had Kwells travel sickness pills.

Three years have passed without any recurrence, but yesterday morning, just as I was about to give him a lift to the bus stop on my way to work, he collapsed and fitted again (no arrest this time). So it looks like he actually has epilepsy :(

Now waiting for a referral to a Neurologist.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on December 14, 2018, 07:38:02 AM
There's been a number of posts here recently and I am sad and sorry for the trials and tribulations that folks have had and some are going through just now.

I hope that the sharing of those is of some comfort.

The best I can do is wish that the soon upon us Christmas and New Year brings you happier and healthier times.

Dave G

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on December 14, 2018, 08:03:30 AM
Yes, all the best to all members who have had sadness recently.

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on December 14, 2018, 09:29:36 AM
It's never good to get news like some of the posts but worse on the run up to what most folks look forward to - a break from work for a few days to celebrate the season. :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on December 17, 2018, 09:11:23 PM
Quote from: class37025 on November 30, 2018, 11:33:19 AM
SWMBO dropped a repeat prescription for a couple of her meds in to the GP surgery last week.

phoned the pharmacy monday, got the prescription, but one item needs ordering, will be in tuesday.

phoned tuesday, all in so down there, collected bag of assorted meds, and headed home.

SWMBO opened bag ...

item 1. 2x right item  :thumbsup:
item 2. 2 x 'what the hell are these ?'  :'(

should have been 2 x 200mcg of one thing, but was 2 x 100mcg of something else. label correct, item wrong  >:(

back to pharmacy, collared pharmacist, and by now in full RAFP SNOWDROP 'YOU HORRIBLE LITTLE MAN' mode..  :veryangry:

'don't know how that happened'

not the reply I was looking for !

'well I do. the person who picked the items didn't do their job, and the pharmacist who then checked the items didn't do theirs either. result my wife got wrong meds  :censored:'

he did then replace the items with the correct ones, and I left, carefully noting the grid reference of the pharmacy  >:D

but............
1. what if SWMBO was on her own, and didn't realise the mistake ?
2. what if the wrong meds had reacted with other meds she's on ?
3. how often is this mistake made, in spite of a supposed two person check system ?
4. presumably the wrong items cannot now be given to anyone else, so wastage at what cost ?

so.........

a few wee drams later, and a phone call to NHS England to raise a formal complaint.

now awaiting their response.

am I over-reacting ?

UPDATE
received a letter from NHS England [southeast] a few days later with a form for SWMBO and I to sign to allow them to request her records, talk to surgery, and to pharmacy, and to contact me on her behalf.

also received a phone call from the investigating officer, confirming that they take this very seriously, and will proceed as soon as form returned, which it has been.

good news is SWMBO had another repeat prescription a couple of days ago, to see her over Xmas and New Year [ took the trailer down to collect it  >:D :smiley-laughing: ] and all was correct.

we'll now see what happens in the New Year.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on January 02, 2019, 01:27:00 PM
So, here I am, at work, and getting a bit bored now.

I've been in since 9am and I've pretty much done all that needs doing. Plus I ate my lunch sarnies a couple of hours ago. And I've nearly polished off a family tin of Quality Street. :foodanddrink:

Tomorrow I will be happy! :claphappy: Tomorrow I will get a lie-in and loaf around at home all day. Tomorrow, I will take TOIL for today.

Today, I'm the only one in at work, because I'm the only idiot who didn't realise today was a block-leave day! :dunce: :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on January 02, 2019, 02:09:22 PM
But come tomorrow - you will be a happy idiot!  ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 02, 2019, 05:34:34 PM
Quote from: RailGooner on January 02, 2019, 01:27:00 PM
Tomorrow I will get a lie-in and loaf around at home all day.

Brown? White? Sliced? Unsliced? Come on - we need to know these important things ::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: GroupC on January 02, 2019, 05:38:53 PM
If he's loafing around all day he won't be sweating cobs at least.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 02, 2019, 05:40:59 PM
is that a bpun  :smiley-laughing:

I'm rolling around laughing :-[
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on January 02, 2019, 06:38:13 PM
Do(ug)h !  :doh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on January 02, 2019, 08:24:39 PM
Sliced white. None of this fancy dancy renaissance artisanal spelt sourdough whole grain tosh for me. :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on January 03, 2019, 12:32:07 AM
Why not? You could make a whole meal out of that!  :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Madann01 on January 03, 2019, 06:50:12 PM
It was a difficult decision whether or not to post this on the angry thread or start a new very angry thread :veryangry: But following a tantrum and a couple of G&T's my mood has subsided into unhappiness :(
Having spent most of the Xmas and new year period track laying some hidden sidings and loops on my new layout, today was the day to test the track for any bad connections or bumps etc and fix any problems arising before starting on the main part of the layout.
Things started well and all seemed to work well using a trusty old loco to do the testing, so I thought that might take the opportunity. To run some new locos purchased about 5 years ago but have never been out of their boxes :) the first one out spluttered into life moved half an inch and stopped and after about 10 minutes of jerky movements just sat there silently waiting for me to administer the last rights and add it to my growing static loco display cabinet,  :scowl: The second loco was unpacked and set on the rails only to sit there buzzing away merrily but despite some gentle persuasion refused to move at all. :'(

Sorry am becoming angry again so will change thread to the angry thread to continue my rant. :veryangry2:   
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 03, 2019, 07:18:22 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on January 03, 2019, 12:32:07 AM
Why not? You could make a whole meal out of that!  :hmmm:

may be time to wrap this up  :)

getting a pita long in the tooth  :-[
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 16, 2019, 01:07:28 PM
Quote from: class37025 on December 17, 2018, 09:11:23 PM
Quote from: class37025 on November 30, 2018, 11:33:19 AM
SWMBO dropped a repeat prescription for a couple of her meds in to the GP surgery last week.

phoned the pharmacy monday, got the prescription, but one item needs ordering, will be in tuesday.

phoned tuesday, all in so down there, collected bag of assorted meds, and headed home.

SWMBO opened bag ...

item 1. 2x right item  :thumbsup:
item 2. 2 x 'what the hell are these ?'  :'(

should have been 2 x 200mcg of one thing, but was 2 x 100mcg of something else. label correct, item wrong  >:(

back to pharmacy, collared pharmacist, and by now in full RAFP SNOWDROP 'YOU HORRIBLE LITTLE MAN' mode..  :veryangry:

'don't know how that happened'

not the reply I was looking for !

'well I do. the person who picked the items didn't do their job, and the pharmacist who then checked the items didn't do theirs either. result my wife got wrong meds  :censored:'

he did then replace the items with the correct ones, and I left, carefully noting the grid reference of the pharmacy  >:D

but............
1. what if SWMBO was on her own, and didn't realise the mistake ?
2. what if the wrong meds had reacted with other meds she's on ?
3. how often is this mistake made, in spite of a supposed two person check system ?
4. presumably the wrong items cannot now be given to anyone else, so wastage at what cost ?

so.........

a few wee drams later, and a phone call to NHS England to raise a formal complaint.

now awaiting their response.

am I over-reacting ?

UPDATE
received a letter from NHS England [southeast] a few days later with a form for SWMBO and I to sign to allow them to request her records, talk to surgery, and to pharmacy, and to contact me on her behalf.

also received a phone call from the investigating officer, confirming that they take this very seriously, and will proceed as soon as form returned, which it has been.

good news is SWMBO had another repeat prescription a couple of days ago, to see her over Xmas and New Year [ took the trailer down to collect it  >:D :smiley-laughing: ] and all was correct.

we'll now see what happens in the New Year.

received today a letter from NHS England, together with an enclosed letter from the pharmacy chain head office, which highlighted that the check by the pharmacist manager had not been done properly.
abject apologies, and details of steps taken to prevent a recurrence from the pharmacy chain, plus the comment that 'an alert note has been placed on you wife's records' presumably on the lines of

for f***s sake don't c**k up again on this one, hubby is a pain in the a**e'  :D

as for NHS England, they will be carrying out frequent checks to ensure no recurrence.
so all in all, a positive outcome, and possibly explains my being greeted by the pharmacist manager last week with 'have I upset you, I've been having to fill in piles of forms for NHS England, and it took hours'  :smiley-laughing:
he didn't like my comment that if he'd done his job properly in the first place, he wouldn't have had the forms to fill in  >:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on January 16, 2019, 05:32:40 PM
Just learned that I will lose my job at the end of the month.

I'm 61 so I don't hold out much hope of ever finding another job :'(

Best regards,



Joe
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on January 16, 2019, 05:40:28 PM
Tough news, Joe!

Hope things work out OK.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on January 16, 2019, 05:42:55 PM
Thanks a lot Dave.

I'm not the only one.

The company went bust so there are over 200 of us in the same boat.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on January 16, 2019, 06:23:42 PM
That's a shock for you, (being polite there!). Hopefully you can find something else and if you can't, I hope it is not too much of a hardship for you.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on January 16, 2019, 06:46:48 PM
Hopefully things will work out well for you Joe.
It's a shock at the moment but there just might be light at the end of the tunnel in the end.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on January 16, 2019, 07:04:43 PM
I can only repeat others and say I hope everything works out for you Joe.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Train Waiting on January 16, 2019, 09:09:31 PM
I'm very sorry to hear that.

It's truly horrid news to receive.

All the best.

John
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on January 16, 2019, 09:39:24 PM
Thanks to all for your commiserations/good wishes.

To be honest it wasn't a shock as we knew that the company was in difficulty.

The shock will come when I look for work as I'd been with the company for 34 years.

Anyway I've survived 2 divorces so no doubt I'll get through this too.

All the best,


Joe
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 16, 2019, 09:57:58 PM
Very sorry to hear that after your long years of loyal service, Joe. Hopefully the fact you've not jumped from job to job will stand you in good stead. All the best and please keep us posted.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: talisman56 on January 16, 2019, 10:52:11 PM
Sorry to hear of your impending unemployment, Joe.

I have been made redundant twice through companies going 't*ts up' in seven years (early 2007 and late 2013). After the last one and at 57, I made upwards of 40 job applications in the following six months, and apart from the rare acknowledgement of receipt of my application, heard nothing else. I could imagine the young HR upstarts getting their socks off to count up my age from my DoB on the forms...

A small inheritance and the discovery that I could activate the pension that ended up in the Pension Protection Fund from the first company meant that I could retire early, so I had a bit of luck there, I hope you have luck in your job search.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Delboy on January 23, 2019, 03:03:45 PM
This pales into insignificance when compared to poor Joe's plight, (Good luck on the job front Joe - hope it all turns out for you.), but here goes.

It seems like I may need a new 3D printer motherboard but waiting for absolute confirmation as it is going to be £100. I am hoping to get it under warranty but the company, whom I bought it through, say that beyond 30 days I must send it back to the manufacturers (in China).  >:(
Once I know the true extent of the problem I will see if it is possible to acquire the part for free and fix it myself. I guess that is the problem with purchasing from a manufacturer in China.
Perhaps someone in the legal profession on the forum could advise me of my rights with this one. It doesn't seem correct that you can buy an item in the UK,with a 12 months warranty, and the supplying company can relinquish all responsibility once you have had the item more than 30 days.
:veryangry:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on January 23, 2019, 03:38:17 PM
Hi Delboy 
It isn't correct that the co you bought the printer from can relinquish responsibility. Under the sale of goods act the responsibility is theirs. I would suggest that you tell them that you will refer the matter to their local trading standards department. That will probably be enough to shift the lead, but if not carry out the threat.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Delboy on January 23, 2019, 04:25:50 PM
Hi Steve,
Thanks for your reply. Based on your answer I have just spoken to Citizen's Advice and they have confirmed what you say - that, under the 12 months they should offer me a free repair or replacement. However here is the rub:-

The onus is on me to prove that I have not caused the fault due to misuse or mishandling of the 3D printer.
How the  :censored: am I going to be able to prove that with an item like a 3D printer that can be subject to any form of misuse during its operations.
Makes you wonder whether a 12 months warranty is worth the paper it is written on for certain items.
:hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on January 23, 2019, 04:39:32 PM
I would insist that as it is a motherboard fault and not the moving parts that you cannot have misused it,
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on January 23, 2019, 05:19:02 PM
Quote from: Delboy on January 23, 2019, 04:25:50 PM
... under the 12 months they should offer me a free repair or replacement. However here is the rub:-

The onus is on me to prove that I have not caused the fault due to misuse or mishandling of the 3D printer.

I think there is a bit more to that - "If you discover the fault within the first six months from delivery, it's presumed to have been there from the time you received it - unless the retailer can prove otherwise."
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Delboy on January 23, 2019, 07:12:32 PM
Quote from: Malc on January 23, 2019, 04:39:32 PM
I would insist that as it is a motherboard fault and not the moving parts that you cannot have misused it,

I think you make a good point there Malc.


Quote from: stevewalker on January 23, 2019, 05:19:02 PM
Quote from: Delboy on January 23, 2019, 04:25:50 PM
... under the 12 months they should offer me a free repair or replacement. However here is the rub:-

The onus is on me to prove that I have not caused the fault due to misuse or mishandling of the 3D printer.

I think there is a bit more to that - "If you discover the fault within the first six months from delivery, it's presumed to have been there from the time you received it - unless the retailer can prove otherwise."
Thanks for the comment Steve, but I am not sure I agree with this line of reasoning. If you spend good money on a product that has a 12 month warranty, then the assumption must be that the manufacturer has confidence that , under normal use, the product will not fail during that 12 months warranty period. To suggest that a product cannot be deemed worthy of a warranty repair after 6 months of ownership cannot be correct in my opinion. It is surely not about whether the fault was deemed to be there from the beginning, but more about an assurance that the product you have acquired lasts the lifetime of the warranty.

Delboy
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on January 24, 2019, 12:37:18 AM
Quote from: Delboy on January 23, 2019, 07:12:32 PM
Quote from: Malc on January 23, 2019, 04:39:32 PM
I would insist that as it is a motherboard fault and not the moving parts that you cannot have misused it,

I think you make a good point there Malc.


Quote from: stevewalker on January 23, 2019, 05:19:02 PM
Quote from: Delboy on January 23, 2019, 04:25:50 PM
... under the 12 months they should offer me a free repair or replacement. However here is the rub:-

The onus is on me to prove that I have not caused the fault due to misuse or mishandling of the 3D printer.

I think there is a bit more to that - "If you discover the fault within the first six months from delivery, it's presumed to have been there from the time you received it - unless the retailer can prove otherwise."
Thanks for the comment Steve, but I am not sure I agree with this line of reasoning. If you spend good money on a product that has a 12 month warranty, then the assumption must be that the manufacturer has confidence that , under normal use, the product will not fail during that 12 months warranty period. To suggest that a product cannot be deemed worthy of a warranty repair after 6 months of ownership cannot be correct in my opinion. It is surely not about whether the fault was deemed to be there from the beginning, but more about an assurance that the product you have acquired lasts the lifetime of the warranty.

Delboy

It is not that items are not worthy of warranty repair after 6 months - indeed you can claim for up to six years in many cases! It is simply that for the first six months, you don't have to prove anything. After that, you need to show that it was a manufacturing defect and not mis-treatment by you. You can go to a third party to produce a report and, if it shows that it was likely a fault from manufacture, you can get the item replaced or repaired AND be refunded the cost of the report.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Delboy on January 24, 2019, 08:05:19 AM
Hi Steve
Thanks for your clarification
I will consider my options and make a decision on the way forward
Delboy
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: GroupC on January 28, 2019, 04:21:22 PM
Quote from: GroupC on December 09, 2018, 02:23:15 PM
Quite a few pages ago I posted that my friend had found out he has a brain tumour.

Since then it was diagnosed as the least bad sort, still needing surgery to remove however. He's now had another MRI and they told him it wasn't what they first thought. He's going in tomorrow for a 6-hour op to have it removed. All of this is awful enough but he apart from the initial "access" phase into his head, shall we say, he has to be awake for he whole operation.

Sort of puts stuff into perspective really and I cannot begin to imagine how his wife and family will be feeling tomorrow.

If anyone has 5 minutes spare tomorrow from about noon could they please send positive vibes towards Leeds General Infirmary. I would appreciate it greatly.

To refer to the above quote from me...

I went to see my friend today. His tumour which started as Grade 1, the least bad one, turned rapidly into a Grade 4, the absolute worst, hence the surgery I mentioned.

He got back home on New Year's Eve and starts chemo and radiotherapy this Thursday, for 6 weeks, to target the remaining parts of the tumour they were unable to remove during surgery. He told me the whole story of his last few weeks (incl Christmas in LGI) today and you really would not want to have been him!

Incredibly he looks really fit and well and you'd never guess what he's undergone, or what he still has to undergo, or that he even has anything at all wrong with him, from his outward persona, which is great, but of course he still has the cancer.

I'd like to say thanks, if I didn't before, to those who replied, read or even scanned over my initial post. We still need your help! From what he's said the NHS has been amazing (an overused word in society today, but here it is spot on) so huge thanks too, to all at LGI and the various labs which have dealt with him.

So... Keep fighting Peter!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on January 28, 2019, 04:55:09 PM
Excellent news, GroupC and well done your pal and all the team at LGI.

A colleague had a quite similar experience some years back and came out of it 100% so all the very best for the next phase of treatment.

Well done you too for being obviously such a great friend.  :thumbsup:

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on January 28, 2019, 05:42:38 PM
Best wishes to Peter and a  :thankyousign: to you @GroupC (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=2036)  for being a friend to him. 
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: paulprice on January 28, 2019, 07:06:20 PM
We are very lucky to have the NHS
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on January 28, 2019, 09:03:31 PM
Quote from: paulprice on January 28, 2019, 07:06:20 PM
We are very lucky to have the NHS

As somebody who has not long became a father for the first time, ahmen to that!

@GroupC (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=2036) ; hears to your friends continued passage along a difficult road, but ultimately to recovery. He has a great friend in you and my positive thoughts!

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: paulprice on January 28, 2019, 09:07:12 PM
The chaps at the NHS did not give up on me, and kept the fella with the scythe away from me on a few occasions
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 28, 2019, 09:47:06 PM
Quote from: paulprice on January 28, 2019, 09:07:12 PM
The chaps at the NHS did not give up on me, and kept the fella with the scythe away from me on a few occasions

Likewise. I had nightmares for over a year afterwards but I won't hear a word said against the hands on ladies and gents of the NHS
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: paulprice on January 28, 2019, 09:51:45 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on January 28, 2019, 09:47:06 PM
Quote from: paulprice on January 28, 2019, 09:07:12 PM
The chaps at the NHS did not give up on me, and kept the fella with the scythe away from me on a few occasions

Likewise. I had nightmares for over a year afterwards but I won't hear a word said against the hands on ladies and gents of the NHS
Nightmares for that long, its been just over two weeks since I got out and I'm having nightmares every night. I've not really slept since I got out
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on January 28, 2019, 09:57:36 PM
About six years ago my kidneys stopped due, in the main, to quite nasty food poisoning.

Blues and twos to A&E, the main guy warned that I could be on dialysis forever.

Somehow and with a load of powerful meds, some weeks later I was sent home fully functional with the farewell of 'You're the best result we've had this year.'

Can't forget that and those that dug me out of a very deep hole.

Humbling.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on January 28, 2019, 09:59:28 PM
Quote from: paulprice on January 28, 2019, 09:51:45 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on January 28, 2019, 09:47:06 PM
Quote from: paulprice on January 28, 2019, 09:07:12 PM
The chaps at the NHS did not give up on me, and kept the fella with the scythe away from me on a few occasions

Likewise. I had nightmares for over a year afterwards but I won't hear a word said against the hands on ladies and gents of the NHS
Nightmares for that long, its been just over two weeks since I got out and I'm having nightmares every night. I've not really slept since I got out

Chin up, PP.

Promise it will get better.  ;)

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: paulprice on January 28, 2019, 10:04:26 PM
Quote from: daveg on January 28, 2019, 09:59:28 PM
Quote from: paulprice on January 28, 2019, 09:51:45 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on January 28, 2019, 09:47:06 PM
Quote from: paulprice on January 28, 2019, 09:07:12 PM
The chaps at the NHS did not give up on me, and kept the fella with the scythe away from me on a few occasions

Likewise. I had nightmares for over a year afterwards but I won't hear a word said against the hands on ladies and gents of the NHS
Nightmares for that long, its been just over two weeks since I got out and I'm having nightmares every night. I've not really slept since I got out

Chin up, PP.

Promise it will get better.  ;)

Dave G

Its getting better :) my wound is seeping less so it must be on the mend and I can get around the ground floor of the house pretty well :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on January 29, 2019, 07:57:10 PM
i have just lost a third friend in less than a year  two under 50 and one under 30  :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: thebrighton on February 02, 2019, 12:28:01 PM
Unhappy but lucky up until now. I've bought many a chassis from Japan and all have arrived with no issues. For the first time a £26.00 purchase has come to the attention of HM Customs and a £13.20 fee is due. I know an £8 chunk is RM's fee but in total it's over 50% of the cost of the item :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on February 02, 2019, 02:01:41 PM
Sadly I think rather than being unlucky this time, you've been lucky previously. It's the reason I stopped buying from Japan and the States.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on February 02, 2019, 02:11:59 PM
I agree, just think you've been lucky so far.

wouldn't dare to suggest HMRC been set new targets  :-[

I've been very lucky with many kits etc for wargames, and ummmm[ SWMBO might see this, so will not commit details] one or two Cl37s  :angel: over the years, and only got the dreaded duty once.

OK, I don't mind the duty, what annoys the hell out of me is that Royal Snail charges me £8 for me to drive to their depot, always one you can't walk / get a bus to, to pay them to take the duty.

why can't HMRC just e-mail me, let me pay the duty on line, and cut out the robbing b******s at RM ?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on February 02, 2019, 03:00:59 PM
Quote from: class37025 on February 02, 2019, 02:11:59 PM
..
why can't HMRC just e-mail me, let me pay the duty on line, and cut out the robbing b******s at RM ?

Because the good ship RM is sinking quickly enough as it is. Without little earners like this to help bailout a little, they'd be sunk already. :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on February 02, 2019, 04:16:59 PM
Quote from: RailGooner on February 02, 2019, 03:00:59 PM
Quote from: class37025 on February 02, 2019, 02:11:59 PM
..
why can't HMRC just e-mail me, let me pay the duty on line, and cut out the robbing b******s at RM ?

Because the good ship RM is sinking quickly enough as it is. Without little earners like this to help bailout a little, they'd be sunk already. :D

I may be wrong but I believe RM handles it as a delegated customs function and their "markup" pays for the customs shed and to employ dedicated RM staff.  so its the government that are dodging the cost of processing them at customs.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: themadhippy on February 02, 2019, 05:22:04 PM
Today im unhappy being back in the uk were its a cold,2C outside,and being charged £4  for a pint,compared to yesterdays 34C and 8000 kip(80p) for a pint.Heating is on full bore and im still cold were as yesterday the AC was on full bore and i was still sweating.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Delboy on February 02, 2019, 05:33:02 PM
Quote from: themadhippy on February 02, 2019, 05:22:04 PM
Today im unhappy being back in the uk were its a cold,2C outside,and being charged £4  for a pint,compared to yesterdays 34C and 8000 kip(80p) for a pint.Heating is on full bore and im still cold were as yesterday the AC was on full bore and i was still sweating.

Interested to know where you have been?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on February 02, 2019, 05:42:38 PM
Laos?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: themadhippy on February 02, 2019, 06:02:31 PM
Indeed Laos PDR. most people mistakenly think PDR means  People's Democratic Republic when it actually means Please Dont Rush,a pretty accurate description of the country
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on February 02, 2019, 06:23:00 PM
WHAT ?
government dodging it's responsibilities ?
how could you suggest such a thing ?
next you'll be suggesting they don't want to comply with the wishes of the people, or that they would use funds to repair their duck houses .....

oh of course some did  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: thebrighton on February 02, 2019, 07:17:11 PM
Quote from: Snowwolflair on February 02, 2019, 04:16:59 PM
I may be wrong but I believe RM handles it as a delegated customs function and their "markup" pays for the customs shed and to employ dedicated RM staff.  so its the government that are dodging the cost of processing them at customs.

Spot on. RM has to operate and staff an entire department to deal with customs charges. Also in order to get the parcels released it (I'm 99% sure it still does) also pays the duty and then has to reclaim it from the customer and, of course, they don't always pay so RM lose out. £8, although a pain, is a lot less than some other carriers and isn't something RM make any kind of profit out of and is part of their Universal Delivery License obligations.
From a retired postie.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on February 13, 2019, 05:20:33 PM
I was shredding some old documents and receipts when I discovered... an old-style paper £10 note! Great, that's something to put on the Happy Thread, I thought. The next day we were on grand-parenting duty so we took Babygrand into town to the soft-play centre and while we were there I paid the note into my account. When we got back to the car we had overstayed our welcome and we got a £25 parking ticket.  :(

The Lord giveth, the Lord taketh away. Ho hum.

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on February 13, 2019, 06:14:42 PM
Had some unhappy news today The Essex N gauge show at Weeley has been cancelled it was a really nice show last year ,but Steve the organiser has had to cancel it this year due to unforeseen circumstances .
But there is a good end to this I can now go to the Berkshire Area N Gauge Groups show at Sindlesham on the 30th March and do something to help them as they allways make me wellcome at their running sessions .
The show is not very big but they do set a good standard of exhibits and at least two trade stands John Burnham the stock box man and the local model shop from Twyford  and of course the usual club second hand stall.
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on February 13, 2019, 07:15:59 PM
not a good couple of days for me my colitis has blow up big time spending more time in the toilet than anywhere else
so a trip to the doctors today got some meds but have to wait till tomorrow for the pharmacist to get them in
and on top of that my Dad has been taken in to hospital with eyesight  problems

John   
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on February 13, 2019, 07:26:13 PM
Hope things soon improve for you and your Dad John.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on February 13, 2019, 08:32:33 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on February 13, 2019, 07:26:13 PM
Hope things soon improve for you and your Dad John.

Wot David said.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on February 13, 2019, 10:03:27 PM
Quote from: JBQFC on February 13, 2019, 07:15:59 PM
not a good couple of days for me my colitis has blow up big time spending more time in the toilet than anywhere else
so a trip to the doctors today got some meds but have to wait till tomorrow for the pharmacist to get them in
and on top of that my Dad has been taken in to hospital with eyesight  problems

John

I have lived with somebody who was so afflicted and I know how horrid it can be for sufferers John.

Please do pass on my best to your Dad as well.

Positive thinking to you both

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on February 14, 2019, 08:38:51 AM
 me too
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: themadhippy on February 21, 2019, 10:03:43 AM
First day back to work  after the christmas break :'( only seems like yesterday when i slammed the warehouse doors shut.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on February 21, 2019, 10:07:48 AM
When did you start your Christmas break? October? :goggleeyes:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: themadhippy on February 21, 2019, 06:24:22 PM
cheeky git, we didnt finish  until the 22 of december
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on February 21, 2019, 06:28:24 PM
Things have changed since you retired Mick.

The bosses are trying to bring back slavery.

Best regards,


Joe
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on February 21, 2019, 06:28:41 PM
What job have you got that gives you such a long break?  ??? I had to retire to get a break that long.  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on February 21, 2019, 07:39:24 PM
wot's a christmas break ?
before I retired I worked 4 on - 4 off 12 hr night shifts, didn't matter what day / night it was, no christmas break for a couple of months there  >:(

mind you, since I've retired I work  7 on - 0 off 24 hrs shift system, just for a different boss, .....SWMBO   :help:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on February 21, 2019, 10:50:57 PM
Am unhappy to have discovered by chance - via the thread RAF Tornado aircraft farewell flypasts (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?topic=44425.0) - that RAF Leuchars is now Leuchars Station. Did lots of dets there with 101 producing some of my best ever hangovers.

Like the time I was the last one onboard the last jet of a 4 bird det returning to Brize. Chocks was a perfectly reasonable 09:30 for a straight transit back to Brize, no brackets. Yet I nearly missed it and I should've been on the second jet. I wasn't so much hungover as still drunk! :dunce: :beers:

The next thing I knew was waking up in an empty jet, at a silent Brize. :confused1: Making my way offboard I found a note in the galley: "Lock up the jet and the Squadron before you go home!".  :confused1: The time was about 6pm! :goggleeyes:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on February 22, 2019, 08:44:21 AM
 :thankyousign:
Yes it's always sad to see one of the old faithfuls replaced, but thats progress I suppose. I'm old enough to remember Meteors and Canberras ( although I wasn't in the armed forces) and Bloodhounds for air defence.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on March 21, 2019, 12:44:09 PM
a quick update my colitis is not getting any better and my doctor wants me to finish my coarse of meds before doing any thing else 
my Dad is getting move to a hospis so they can sort out his meds
i have now just found out my father in law has died

2019 is not been very good to me  :'(

John
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on March 21, 2019, 01:07:00 PM
Sorry to hear your news John - my condolences on your loss. Hopefully things will start to improve for you.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on March 21, 2019, 01:12:06 PM
JBQFC  :sorrysign: to hear of your loss ,I know how you must be feeling we had two funerals to attend in Janurary My Father in Law at the beginning of the month and a very good friend at the end of the month ,it's hard for anyone who hasnt had this to understand how you feel .
Deepest Sympathy
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on March 21, 2019, 01:29:40 PM
My sympathies to you John.

And here's hoping the treatments for both yourself and your Dad can soon bring improvements.
With my wife awaiting an operation and my older brother having experienced two strokes in the last eight weeks, I can fully understand your feelings at this time.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on March 21, 2019, 01:32:41 PM
Quote from: class37025 on February 21, 2019, 07:39:24 PM
wot's a christmas break ?
before I retired I worked 4 on - 4 off 12 hr night shifts, didn't matter what day / night it was, no christmas break for a couple of months there  >:(

mind you, since I've retired I work  7 on - 0 off 24 hrs shift system, just for a different boss, .....SWMBO   :help:

You too, I did 27 years of that of 2 12 hour days, 2 12 hour nights 4 off or 4 12 hour days 4 off 4 12 hour nights 4 off.. Now I'm on 8 hour days for 4 more years then I join the second half of your shift pattern..
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on March 21, 2019, 01:40:26 PM
Quote from: RailGooner on February 21, 2019, 10:50:57 PM
Am unhappy to have discovered by chance - via the thread RAF Tornado aircraft farewell flypasts (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?topic=44425.0) - that RAF Leuchars is now Leuchars Station. Did lots of dets there with 101 producing some of my best ever hangovers.

Like the time I was the last one onboard the last jet of a 4 bird det returning to Brize. Chocks was a perfectly reasonable 09:30 for a straight transit back to Brize, no brackets. Yet I nearly missed it and I should've been on the second jet. I wasn't so much hungover as still drunk! :dunce: :beers:

The next thing I knew was waking up in an empty jet, at a silent Brize. :confused1: Making my way offboard I found a note in the galley: "Lock up the jet and the Squadron before you go home!".  :confused1: The time was about 6pm! :goggleeyes:
I miss going to Leuchars too, I was part of the team (civilian) that installed test stations of the ADV radar there, and then went up there several times a year to service several bits of it..
By chance there was a WO who was  there who was a mere Cpl when I knew him Some years before, and also a Cpl who was on my intake into the RAF. Both were by this time looking after the Rapier Electronics..
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on March 21, 2019, 07:52:11 PM
Thank you all for your sympathies and best wishes

John and Clare
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on March 27, 2019, 07:45:34 PM
my dad lost his battle yesterday  :'(
i am feeling sad but he is no longer suffering and trying to remember the happy time

John
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on March 27, 2019, 07:53:09 PM
That's tough.

Remember the good times, remember he's at peace.

We're all here for you  bloke. Chin up.

M.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on March 27, 2019, 07:53:54 PM
Sorry to hear of your loss John but as you say, his suffering is over. I know it seems a bit trite, but it does get easier. However, we never forget - I still remember some of the things my Dad used to do and say, and he left us 22 years ago.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on March 27, 2019, 09:27:23 PM
So sorry to hear that, John. My condolences to you all.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on March 27, 2019, 09:35:10 PM
 :sorrysign:  My deepest sympathy in your loss ,I really do understand how you feel ,but as you said  No more pain and now at peace .
Regards
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on March 27, 2019, 10:13:39 PM
 :heart:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on March 28, 2019, 08:07:37 AM
My deepest sympathy too, John
Best wishes Steve
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Delboy on March 28, 2019, 08:27:24 AM
So sorry John.
My deepest sympathy at this sad time.
Take comfort in the knowledge you are in all our thoughts.
Remembering the good times will keep you strong.

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on April 21, 2019, 09:37:03 AM
Last night we had a small family get together. The family arrived and we sat in the garden chatting for a while, before two of us went to get a Chinese takeaway for everyone. We got as far as the cash machine, before getting a call that my wife had had an accident, so we rushed back.

She was lying pretty well face down, conscious, bleeding a bit and with her leg at a funny angle in the mangled wreckage of our camping table.

We stopped her moving until an ambulance arrived and miraculously she'd only suffered cuts and bruises - we really couldn't believe that her leg could get in that position without something being broken.

The downside is that we spent the entire night in A&E while our guests looked after our children and after various tests, she was admitted at  7:45 this morning (12 and a 1/4 hours after she fell). She is now in for further tests to determine why she blacked out and fell (for the second time), why her heart rate has been elevated all night and whether it is anything to do with the very nasty meds that she is on for rheumatoid arthritis.

Meanwhile I have returned home to relieve our guests and reassure our children.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on April 21, 2019, 09:54:39 AM
Best wishes for a speedy and complete recovery.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on April 21, 2019, 09:58:27 AM
wishing her a speedy recovery, and hopefully a quick identification of the cause, with hopefully a simple resolution.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 21, 2019, 10:35:29 AM
Very sorry to hear this, Steve, and I hope the medics can get to the bottom of the problem.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on April 21, 2019, 10:49:58 AM
Hope your wife is soon okay Steve and the problem is sorted out. You raise the possibility that the problem may be due to her current medication. I work on the theory that we are given a medicine to cure a problem, but that medicine may have side effects, so you are given a medicine to cure the side effects etc etc. I have to take a tablet every day ad infinitum, but that tablet gives me rhinitis. The Doctor said that she could give me something for that, I said, "No thanks". Best wishes to your wife.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on April 21, 2019, 12:33:04 PM
Best wishes to your wife Steve I hope they can sort out her problem soon ,in the meantime look after yourself and your children .
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Delboy on April 21, 2019, 01:22:12 PM
Steve, sorry to hear about your troubles. Hope they get to the bottom of the blackouts and I wish your wife a speedy recovery.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on April 21, 2019, 01:58:15 PM
I do hope your wife is ok and that the medics are able to get tothe bottom of what's happening.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daversmth on May 09, 2019, 02:15:36 PM

I knew there was a reason I shouldn't have reversed those trucks into the sidings ...

(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/77/5576-090519141439.jpeg) (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=gallery;sa=view&id=77216)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on May 09, 2019, 02:24:48 PM
Bit of a tight curve to get on that turntable, methinks.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Lawrence on May 09, 2019, 05:04:17 PM
Well the boss and I are part way through a little road trip whereupon last Saturday we knocked on the door of a somewhat startled @Newportnobby (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264) and invited ourselves in for coffee  :D we all met up after for some nosh once he had recovered his composure. We headed to Kent the next day to have a couple of days with my brother, but there appears to be no model shops near him. Tuesday saw us head to Peterborough where we did eventually find Trains 4 U, very nice chap, lots of British stock and I asked if he had any American or Japanese stuff. We headed upstairs where he presented us with a box of rather battered stuff that the had/were putting on ebay. Much of it was pretty wrecked but I did spot a Kato Tokkaido E217 4 car set, unboxed, rather scruffy with some detail parts missing, I asked what he wanted for it, "it's on ebay for only£80" he beamed, I explained that I had just purchased a brand new, boxed E217 set from Japan, delivered for £58 and wouldn't be making an offer.
The following morning it was coming down in stair rods so we binned the planned visit to the cathedral and headed for East Yorkshire, en route we visited Melton Mowbry, a fine looking cathedral there too but no model shops and still hissing down so we didn't really stray far from the car, a short stop into Beverly, which we found to be much the same as Melton. We arrived at our final destination in Driffield.  This morning I called 53A models just outside Hull and asked if they had any American or Japanese N gauge, either new or secondhand, to be told there was no call for it around there, so we jumped in the car and nipped along to Croppers in Bridlington, he had about a dozen bits of N gauge (all British) and told me second hand N was like rocking horse droppings, so we got in the car and came back. It's been blowing a gale and hissing it down ever since Liverpool scored their 4th goal the other night and the general lack of model shops has been disappointing hence this is in the unhappy thread.
Della was taken by a class 03 shunter in Trains 4 U, the look on @Newportnobby (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264) face was priceless and the RAF Manston museum is well worth a visit, other than that I'm a bit dischuffed. Ah well, home on Saturday and hopefully the Glenrothes show on Sunday if my back can take anymore driving  :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daversmth on May 09, 2019, 05:12:36 PM
Quote from: railsquid on May 09, 2019, 02:24:48 PM
Bit of ax tight curve to get on that turntable, methinks.

Turntable fed from the other end out of shot, methinks.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 09, 2019, 09:17:57 PM
@Lawrence (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=16)
In my defence I was engrossed in hoovering my belly button when the doorbell went. I looked out of the window and didn't recognise the car. I then opened the door and, at first, didn't look at faces but just saw a couple standing there and thought 'here comes the spiel for the Watchtower' or something similar. It was only when Lawrence spoke the immortal 'Hello Scrote' that I realised who my visitors were. Absolutely gobsmacked they would come down the west coast side to get to Kent, let alone call in on me! Great to see Lawrence and Della and am disappointed they couldn't find anywhere with any decent US/Japanese N gauge stock. Hope the Glenrothes show is a better hunting ground.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on May 09, 2019, 10:51:58 PM
If I call in I'll be expecting more than tea. Lawrence certainly was a long way from home but I'll be further  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on May 10, 2019, 01:26:31 AM
Quote from: daversmth on May 09, 2019, 05:12:36 PM
Quote from: railsquid on May 09, 2019, 02:24:48 PM
Bit of ax tight curve to get on that turntable, methinks.

Turntable fed from the other end out of shot, methinks.

Tongue firmly in cheek, methinks  :angel:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on May 18, 2019, 05:06:17 AM
Went to vote in Federal elections today at local state school.  What a disappointment.
No cake stand full of tasty homemade cakes, not even a sausage sizzle. :(
Will have to check online next time to see where to vote.

Consolation in that Bealman will get excited at this blatant political post. :D

What are meth-inks?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on May 18, 2019, 05:50:47 AM
There was a sausage sizzle at ours  :P
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on May 18, 2019, 06:26:49 AM
Quote from: Bealman on May 18, 2019, 05:50:47 AM
There was a sausage sizzle at ours  :P
Obviously our electorate has no need to encourage voters to do their civic duty. :angel:
Vote buying at the extreme. :thumbsdown:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on May 18, 2019, 12:30:46 PM
is it just me, or does anyone else feel it's pure bad manners to ignore PMs ?

I was always trained that e-mails/PMs should be read and at least acknowledged at the start of each shift, or as they arrived during a shift.

so to log on, read various threads, and later log off without responding in any way to a PM sent a couple of days ago is acceptable now ?

:censored:

sorry, but more likely to result in any offers of help being withdrawn and further contact severed  >:D

it takes a couple of seconds to read a PM and reply

'sorry, very busy, will get back to you'

or am I expecting too much in this day and age ?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: mark100 on May 18, 2019, 12:40:03 PM
Quote from: class37025 on May 18, 2019, 12:30:46 PM
is it just me, or does anyone else feel it's pure bad manners to ignore PMs ?

I was always trained that e-mails/PMs should be read and at least acknowledged at the start of each shift, or as they arrived during a shift.

so to log on, read various threads, and later log off without responding in any way to a PM sent a couple of days ago is acceptable now ?

:censored:

sorry, but more likely to result in any offers of help being withdrawn and further contact severed  >:D

it takes a couple of seconds to read a PM and reply

'sorry, very busy, will get back to you'

or am I expecting too much in this day and age ?
I removed Facebook instant messenger off my mobile phone as I found it to intrusive on my own private life. people messaging me in the early hours just to send some dumb meme. I just respond to them on the main PC when I log on to it.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on May 18, 2019, 12:55:49 PM
luckily I don't use faceache, twit features or any of the other 'social media' platforms si I don't have that problem.

if someone wants to contact me they can phone me, e-mail me, or if on this forum, PM me, the reason for my post.

when I log on to the forum, alerts tell me if I have any PMs, so I can then check / read/ reply.

also, I get an alert on my e-mail account if I get a PM on the forum.

my points was, is it too much to expect people, when they log on to the forum, not to  :censored: ignore PMs ?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 18, 2019, 01:13:41 PM
Totally agree with you. We've obviously been dragged up proper :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: mark100 on May 18, 2019, 02:49:18 PM
Quote from: class37025 on May 18, 2019, 12:55:49 PM
luckily I don't use faceache, twit features or any of the other 'social media' platforms si I don't have that problem.

if someone wants to contact me they can phone me, e-mail me, or if on this forum, PM me, the reason for my post.

when I log on to the forum, alerts tell me if I have any PMs, so I can then check / read/ reply.

also, I get an alert on my e-mail account if I get a PM on the forum.

my points was, is it too much to expect people, when they log on to the forum, not to  :censored: ignore PMs ?
I apologise, it is annoying when you send messages out and get no reply, I have never had a problem on here though, but I have been trying to contact a group who need donations to fund new wheel sets for a preserved loco. posted on the group and sent pm's which have been read and still no reply. so as far as i'm concerned the loco can rust to the rails and I will offer my funding elsewhere.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on May 18, 2019, 03:57:51 PM
Quote from: class37025 on May 18, 2019, 12:30:46 PM
is it just me, or does anyone else feel it's pure bad manners to ignore PMs ?

I was always trained that e-mails/PMs should be read and at least acknowledged at the start of each shift, or as they arrived during a shift.

so to log on, read various threads, and later log off without responding in any way to a PM sent a couple of days ago is acceptable now ?

:censored:

sorry, but more likely to result in any offers of help being withdrawn and further contact severed  >:D

it takes a couple of seconds to read a PM and reply

'sorry, very busy, will get back to you'

or am I expecting too much in this day and age ?
Is this a general problem or just one person, if the latter wouldn't a personal message be more appropriate
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on May 18, 2019, 05:58:24 PM
 :hmmm: This is my first activity (reading or posting) here since Wednesday evening. But I've been logged in here - on several machines - all the time between then and now.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on May 18, 2019, 06:19:40 PM
I too leave myself logged on all the time, but my point is that where someone is off line, then logs on for a while, then goes off line again, it gets up my nose when they cannot be bothered to at least acknowledge a PM, especially if they are after something, be it a model, info or whatever.

and if they are not responding to PMs, there doesn't seem much point in sending them another PM.

perhaps when they do decide to reply and say, " yes I'll take that class whatever" I should just ignore them.

but I wasn't brought up / trained like that.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on May 18, 2019, 06:54:15 PM
I have to agree that it is bad manners to ignore a PM, or an email that is asking for help or information etc.  I presume you know that the person concerned is receiving the PM's. I have been corresponding with a newish member of the forum for a couple of weeks by PM and latterly by email and even if I can not immediately reply, I reply as soon as I can. Likewise, the forum member also acknowledges my PM/emails. I too, must have been dragged up correctly.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on May 22, 2019, 02:49:39 PM
I've served in HM Armed Forces to defend the free and liberal society we enjoy in the UK. I've worked in the NHS and currently work in higher education, both themes that benefit this society. You see, I love this society of ours. Sure it has flaws and imperfections, but there's no other society I'd rather be a member of!

But what the :censored: is it coming to when this (https://www.theregister.co.uk/2019/05/16/police_face_recognition/) happens?



Please: this is a societal matter and not a political matter!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on May 22, 2019, 03:11:16 PM
RIP Thomas the Tank Engine, the poor blighter has developed a North American accent. Apologies to anyone from/in North America, but it's just wrong.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 25, 2019, 01:09:34 PM
Still trying to shake off what I believe to be a bout of bronchitis and now, this morning, something in my left calf has gone and I'm limping around like a limp thing with a gammy leg.
This getting old stuff really sucks :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: javlinfaw7 on May 25, 2019, 02:02:04 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on May 25, 2019, 01:09:34 PM
This getting old stuff really sucks :(
Beats the alternative
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on May 25, 2019, 03:50:17 PM
Quote from: javlinfaw7 on May 25, 2019, 02:02:04 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on May 25, 2019, 01:09:34 PM
This getting old stuff really sucks :(
Beats the alternative
As George Burns said when Michael Parkinson asked him what it was like being 98.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on May 28, 2019, 08:25:03 PM
more bad luck for me the wife Clare is now in hospital
she went to the doctors this morning as she had a abscess on her behind that was very painful
doctor sent her to A and E they drained the abscess but she needs a small op to seal up the hole to stop it filling up again

John
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on May 28, 2019, 08:53:58 PM
I hope it's a quick job John and she is soon on the mend. I take it you have one of those swimming rubber ring thingys waiting for her? ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on May 29, 2019, 09:26:55 AM
Quote from: dannyboy on May 28, 2019, 08:53:58 PM
I hope it's a quick job John and she is soon on the mend. I take it you have one of those swimming rubber ring thingys waiting for her? ;)

yes just had a phone call to say she is having it done at 10.00
she will be out today but will not be able to drive till tomorrow so as i don't dive that means a taxi home
so her car will be in the hospital car park for 2 day so the parking bill is going to be £££

John
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on May 29, 2019, 09:40:45 AM
JBQFC  phone the car park people and tell them what's happened and if you can get confirmation note from the hospital and MAYBE common sense will prevail and you won't have to pay , Other wise you will have to sell your locos to pay the bill .Our hospital car park is now £3-50 an hour min charge .
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on May 29, 2019, 09:42:34 AM
If you are AA or other with recovery they can probably help.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on May 29, 2019, 10:20:03 AM
Even if they do charge you for the whole period, most hospitals have a much lower per day rate for in patients, but often don't publicise it. You usually have to go to the car parking desk or security and ask.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on May 29, 2019, 12:57:37 PM
Quote from: stevewalker on May 29, 2019, 10:20:03 AM
Even if they do charge you for the whole period, most hospitals have a much lower per day rate for in patients, but often don't publicise it. You usually have to go to the car parking desk or security and ask.

i phoned the hospital and yes they do have a cheap day rate for in patients Phew

John
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on May 31, 2019, 11:40:38 AM
Got to go for a colonoscopy tomorrow. Just about to start the course of laxatives. Not really looking forward to it.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on May 31, 2019, 11:45:18 AM
Good luck with that @Malc (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=497).  :worried:

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on May 31, 2019, 12:01:59 PM
I felt very bloated after mine - they pump you full of inert gas to expand things to give them a better view - which was painful, I can't lie. But that lasted a few hours only and was the only pain/discomfort I felt. The actual procedure was totally free of pain/discomfort, aside from the discomfort of irrational embarrassment that men of our generation might feel.

Best wishes for a thoroughly uninteresting result. :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on May 31, 2019, 12:05:58 PM
I agree with Railgooner, although I didn't suffer any pain from the gas.

It was done under general anaesthetic so I felt groggy afterwards.

Take a taxi home if you don't have anyone to accompany you.

All the best Malc,



Joe
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on May 31, 2019, 12:24:45 PM
I hope things go well @Malc (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=497)  and somebody comes back to you and says "That was a waste of time, there's nowt wrong".  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 31, 2019, 12:26:18 PM
All the best, Malc
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on May 31, 2019, 01:10:23 PM
When I had mine some years back the whole journey through the deep recesses of my gut were shown on a TV screen conveniently placed for me to watch. :goggleeyes:  Fascinating stuff that took my mind off the very minimal discomfort. Don't remember having any anaesthetic, but think not.

All in all the inevitable pre-procedure nervous anxiety was the worst of it, and the need to keep within a few feet of the bathroom once the Pikolax (or whatever they give you to flush out your innards) takes effect is soon apparent.

Best wishes to you Malc. :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on May 31, 2019, 01:13:26 PM
Just taken the first half litre of the Moviprep. I am now putting on my running spikes.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on May 31, 2019, 01:57:30 PM
May I refer you to https://singletrackworld.com/2009/02/the-picolax-thread-returns/ (https://singletrackworld.com/2009/02/the-picolax-thread-returns/)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on May 31, 2019, 02:02:50 PM
Quote from: stevewalker on May 31, 2019, 01:57:30 PM
May I refer you to https://singletrackworld.com/2009/02/the-picolax-thread-returns/ (https://singletrackworld.com/2009/02/the-picolax-thread-returns/)

Seems my iPad and that link don't like each other. Or the site is full of pop-ups, ads, and other things that mean it's taking forever to settle down. Sorry Steve, but I'll give it a miss thanks.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on May 31, 2019, 02:17:26 PM
Hmm. Loads instantly on my PC, but is rather slow on my Android phone, although it does work and isn't full of ads for me. I don't have any Apple products to try it on.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on May 31, 2019, 02:30:11 PM
It did work on my iPad, but there were loads of ads. However I have drunk the first litre and it's having zero effect, apart from sitting like concrete in my stomach.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on May 31, 2019, 03:51:06 PM
Stay upstairs!!

All the best.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on May 31, 2019, 03:53:26 PM
Quote from: stevewalker on May 31, 2019, 01:57:30 PM
May I refer you to https://singletrackworld.com/2009/02/the-picolax-thread-returns/ (https://singletrackworld.com/2009/02/the-picolax-thread-returns/)

The advice to have moist toilet wipes at the ready is very sage. :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jon898 on May 31, 2019, 05:59:41 PM
Quote from: RailGooner on May 31, 2019, 03:53:26 PM
Quote from: stevewalker on May 31, 2019, 01:57:30 PM
May I refer you to https://singletrackworld.com/2009/02/the-picolax-thread-returns/ (https://singletrackworld.com/2009/02/the-picolax-thread-returns/)

The advice to have moist toilet wipes at the ready is very sage. :D

That link is hilarious.  :smiley-laughing:

Last time I had the "procedure", they pumped me full of Versed (Midazolam) and I didn't have a care in the world.  Don't know if NHS offers that, but may be worth asking...

Jon
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on May 31, 2019, 08:24:41 PM
I don't want to encourage you to have a laugh at Malc's expense ..................................but I will.

Check out the Simpsons episode where Homer undergoes a coloscopy and Bart turns it into a video game !


P.S. The result of my coloscopy was all in order
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: lil chris on May 31, 2019, 11:19:27 PM
I have had a few Colonpscopy's,I have Chrones disease,I usually have one every three years and I am due another this year. My appointment is near the end of July unless it gets cancelled again. I had picolax myself last time, the general advice is stay near the loo. I seem to have a lot of discomfort with these operations and last time beacuse of the painkillers they would not let me go home on my own in a taxi like I usually do. The wife had to come and collect me, she has a driving licence but does not drive so came in a taxi to collect me. The wife says I probably have so much pain because I am a tight arse, no sympathy at all. good luck Malc.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on June 01, 2019, 01:43:51 PM
All over and done now. Should really post this in the happy thread, but thought I'd close this issue. No trace of cancer or precancerous cells, no polyps, all looking good. Relatively pain free apart from a couple of times when the scope was going around corners. Because of the gas used to inflate the bowel, I'm F**ting for England.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Delboy on June 01, 2019, 04:03:15 PM
Great news then Malc.
Time for a few celebratory beers or perhaps not with what your backside has been through lately!!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on June 01, 2019, 04:54:10 PM
Avoid naked flames for the next 24 hours!

Delighted you've got the 'All Clear' - celebrate with a beer -  soon!

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: lil chris on June 01, 2019, 08:20:50 PM
Nice one Malc I am pleased for you, all clear that's what we all want to hear. They usually find a few polyps with me but has long as the attend to them I am happy to the regular checks I have from our wonderful health service.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on June 01, 2019, 09:51:54 PM
It's great to hear all is well  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on June 02, 2019, 09:09:34 AM
Glad to hear you had a good result Malc. :thumbsup:

Spent a long day in hospital myself yesterday as my wife Sheila had to have a complex hysterectomy and is feeling pretty rough and exhausted today. Surprisingly they may send her home later today, but I'm hoping they will keep her in for one more night, at least until she is able to eat without issues, and the full effects of all the drugs they pumped into her have worn off. At least she has only minor pains, but the next few months are going to be a long slow recovery, during which yours truly will be kept busy doing all I can to help her recovery. I'm likely to be very busy as she will have to take ir very, very easily, especially over the next few weeks. Time for me to put my cooking, ironing, shopping, household cleaning and other skills to their sternest test!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on June 02, 2019, 09:25:49 AM
Good one, Malc.  :thumbsup:

I had 14 polyps removed. You win easily, mate. Zero is good.  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on June 02, 2019, 09:36:41 AM
Quote from: daffy on June 02, 2019, 09:09:34 AM
Time for me to put my cooking, ironing, shopping, household cleaning and other skills to their sternest test!

Please immediately write a manual and send it to me please @daffy (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=5634)
I hope Sheila recovers quickly but, if you prove to be good, progress may be slow ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on June 02, 2019, 09:52:08 AM
Good news Malc.

And Daffy, I hope that Mrs Daffy makes a full recovery and gets back to normal asap.

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Philip. on June 02, 2019, 10:03:34 AM
Quote from: daffy on June 02, 2019, 09:09:34 AM
Glad to hear you had a good result Malc. :thumbsup:

Spent a long day in hospital myself yesterday as my wife Sheila had to have a complex hysterectomy and is feeling pretty rough and exhausted today. Surprisingly they may send her home later today, but I'm hoping they will keep her in for one more night, at least until she is able to eat without issues, and the full effects of all the drugs they pumped into her have worn off. At least she has only minor pains, but the next few months are going to be a long slow recovery, during which yours truly will be kept busy doing all I can to help her recovery. I'm likely to be very busy as she will have to take ir very, very easily, especially over the next few weeks. Time for me to put my cooking, ironing, shopping, household cleaning and other skills to their sternest test!

I'm sure you'll be well supervised  ;) Best wishes to her for her recovery  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on June 02, 2019, 10:30:22 AM
Seconded. Good luck mate.  :thumbsup: :beers:

George
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on June 02, 2019, 10:42:16 AM
Jenny had a hysterectomy some years ago and it is quite a long recovery process. No heavy lifting or strenuous work for at least 3 months. Our GP felt that 4 months off work would be better. So @daffy (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=5634) make sure you look after Sheila. I can recommend the "Margaret's Patten cooking for two" book or a good take away menu.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on June 02, 2019, 11:05:38 AM
I'd be going with the latter.

Getting rest and recovering is more important than cooking.

Plenty of time for that when you're better.  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on June 02, 2019, 11:17:25 AM
I hope Sheila recovers well and is soon (ish) back to normal @daffy (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=5634) . As George says, takeaway menus are easier, as are anything that just needs a microwave.   :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on June 02, 2019, 11:21:35 AM
Thanks evergone, much appreciated and I shall pass on your good wishes to Sheila - when I can get hold of her. Had an email earlier but I suspect her iPad and iPhone are needing charging, and a she can't get out of bed to plug them in...... :doh:  I'll ring the hospital and get them to sort that.

Quote from: Newportnobby on June 02, 2019, 09:36:41 AM

Please immediately write a manual and send it to me please @daffy (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=5634)

The Manual is already written  :) and has a Preface which is worth quoting here:

"When consulting this authoritative Manual, please bear in mind the following key point: under no circumstances whatsoever should partners or husbands (hereinafter referred throughout as 'menfolk') attempt to digress from the procedures described in either outline or detail."

In short, the entire contents may be summed up in one instruction that is repeated ad nauseum throughout. I should point out that, with considerable help from others of her kind, the Manual was written - if 'written' is the right word - by my wife.

And that instruction? Well, it's quite simple really:

"Just do what I tell you, when I tell you, and do it properly".

:D

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on June 02, 2019, 11:24:21 AM
Get into the hospital and sort it!  :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on June 02, 2019, 11:43:50 AM
Quote from: Bealman on June 02, 2019, 11:24:21 AM
Get into the hospital and sort it!  :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

Already sorted now, but can't get to her until this afternoon as the Manual has already been invoked via email less than an hour ago. :(


Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: talisman56 on June 02, 2019, 12:22:13 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on June 02, 2019, 09:36:41 AM
Quote from: daffy on June 02, 2019, 09:09:34 AM
Time for me to put my cooking, ironing, shopping, household cleaning and other skills to their sternest test!

Please immediately write a manual and send it to me please @daffy (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=5634)

I recently advised my nephew at his wedding reception: 'there are only two phrases that a wife wishes to hear: "Yes, dear" and "No, dear": I will leave it to you to decide which one is the appropriate reply for the situation you are faced with...'

Quote from: Newportnobby on June 02, 2019, 09:36:41 AM
I hope Sheila recovers quickly but, if you prove to be good, progress may be slow ;)

Seconded
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on June 02, 2019, 03:39:03 PM
Quote from: Bealman on June 02, 2019, 11:05:38 AM

Getting rest and recovering is more important than cooking.

Plenty of time for that when you're better.  :thumbsup:

Not entirely sure @daffy (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=5634) should tell that to Sheila or it could be him in the hospital :uneasy: :worried:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on June 02, 2019, 04:33:17 PM
Quote from: talisman56 on June 02, 2019, 12:22:13 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on June 02, 2019, 09:36:41 AM
Quote from: daffy on June 02, 2019, 09:09:34 AM
Time for me to put my cooking, ironing, shopping, household cleaning and other skills to their sternest test!

Please immediately write a manual and send it to me please @daffy (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=5634)

I recently advised my nephew at his wedding reception: 'there are only two phrases that a wife wishes to hear: "Yes, dear" and "No, dear": I will leave it to you to decide which one is the appropriate reply for the situation you are faced with...'

Quote from: Newportnobby on June 02, 2019, 09:36:41 AM
I hope Sheila recovers quickly but, if you prove to be good, progress may be slow ;)

Seconded

and if all else fails .................

"what do you think, dear ?"

followed by

"Exactly what I was thinking !"

phew got me out of the  :poop: on more than one occasion  :-[
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on June 02, 2019, 07:37:42 PM
Quote from: class37025 on June 02, 2019, 04:33:17 PM

phew got me out of the  :poop: on more than one occasion  :-[

I found I was always in the  :poop:
It was only the depth that varied ::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on June 02, 2019, 08:47:05 PM
Well, the shackles are on, the whip is in her hand, and life will be somewhat different for a while  :confused1: - she"s home! :claphappy:

:oopssign: Coming dearest one..............  :goodbye:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on June 02, 2019, 09:27:27 PM
Quote from: daffy on June 02, 2019, 08:47:05 PM
Well, the shackles are on, the whip is in her hand, and life will be somewhat different for a while  :confused1: - she"s home! :claphappy:

:oopssign: Coming dearest one..............  :goodbye:

You do know this is a family friendly forum, right?

Keep it in the bedroom!

:-X
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on June 12, 2019, 12:43:43 PM
Damn! Just found out that yesterday was National Forklift Safety Day and I missed it. :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on June 12, 2019, 01:27:57 PM
Quote from: RailGooner on June 12, 2019, 12:43:43 PM
Damn! Just found out that yesterday was National Forklift Safety Day and I missed it. :'(
pity my forklift licence expired about 18 years ago.. and it was written in arabic..
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on June 15, 2019, 10:35:40 AM
I'm not sure whether to post this in the unhappy thread or the angry thread, as it's a bit of both.

Unhappily, I will not be making it to TINGS this year as I planned. I hoped to catch up with forum people I've met, and ones I haven't. The recent post about the NYMR steam day got me angry because I could have tied that into the trip.

Unfortunately, after a visit to the surgeon who did my ankle, it turns out that it's not healing properly, and I'm going to be in the moonboot and crutches until at least the end of August.

The bottom line is that if there is no improvement by Christmas, my leg could be amputated below the knee.

That's not going to happen.

But what I do have to face up to is that the UK trip is just not going to happen this year.

See ya'all next year!  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on June 15, 2019, 10:48:50 AM
Health first! :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on June 15, 2019, 11:21:44 AM
Sypmathy and best wishes that it all joins back together properly!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on June 15, 2019, 11:56:45 AM
That's a bit of bar-steward news, George!

Sincerely hope whatever is holding up the healing process can be kicked into touch and you tell us you're a boot-free man.

All the best!

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Philip. on June 15, 2019, 12:04:49 PM
Wishing you a swift return to full health Bealman  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MinZaPint on June 15, 2019, 12:17:13 PM
Very sorry to hear your news George, I enjoy your postings particularly your travelogues, look after yourself.
Best wishes
David
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: silly moo on June 15, 2019, 12:26:08 PM
So sorry to hear that, as the others have said, health first. A long flight wouldn't do a semi healed ankle any good so better safe than sorry.

Start planning the 2020 visit and run lots of trains while you recuperate.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on June 15, 2019, 12:41:07 PM
They are experimenting in the UK with leaches to promote healing and blood flow reinstatement in this sort of case.  Might be worth asking about.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on June 15, 2019, 04:55:01 PM
So sorry to hear that George. I was feeling a bit sorry for myself as my prostate has been 'playing up' again over the last 10 days or so - news like that tends to put things into perspective. I hope things do not turn out for the worse and the ankle heals as it should, but I like your spirit - "That's not going to happen".  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on June 15, 2019, 07:38:26 PM
Sorry to hear your sad news, George. I was looking forward to a meet up and maybe a few beers. But as others have said, better safe than sorry and get well soon.
Funnily enough, I thought of you this afternoon. I went on a visit to the Heads of Steam museum at the North Road Station in Darlington and saw this.
We had a chat about it on another thread.
(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/78/497-150619193721.jpeg)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on June 15, 2019, 08:09:55 PM
So sorry to hear your news George.
Stay positive, I'm sure that things will improve in the near future.
Martin
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on June 15, 2019, 10:25:41 PM
Thanks, folks!  :beers:

Basically the bad infection in the hospital is the culprit. Some crucial hardware still hasn't got new bone attached to it, hence immobility boot and pain.

Anyway, Malc, good old Locomotion is in better nick than it would have been left where it was!

Oh, one more unhappy note, though.... the compressor at the club sprung a leak last night. No more tap beer until Monday at least!  :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Philip. on June 16, 2019, 04:44:36 PM
Not sure where to put this, but, went to watch my future son-in-law play cricket today, 10 miles away. Got there for 1pm, game started at 1.30pm, back home by 3.30pm. It didn't go well  :o :o :o :o
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on June 16, 2019, 05:12:45 PM
Quote from: Philipp on June 16, 2019, 04:44:36 PM
Not sure where to put this, but, went to watch my future son-in-law play cricket today, 10 miles away. Got there for 1pm, game started at 1.30pm, back home by 3.30pm. It didn't go well  :o :o :o :o

Sounds like son in law's side were bowled out for not very many!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Philip. on June 16, 2019, 05:32:27 PM
Quote from: port perran on June 16, 2019, 05:12:45 PM
Quote from: Philipp on June 16, 2019, 04:44:36 PM
Not sure where to put this, but, went to watch my future son-in-law play cricket today, 10 miles away. Got there for 1pm, game started at 1.30pm, back home by 3.30pm. It didn't go well  :o :o :o :o

Sounds like son in law's side were bowled out for not very many!

28  :smiley-laughing: :smiley-laughing: :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on June 16, 2019, 05:39:20 PM
Quote from: Philipp on June 16, 2019, 04:44:36 PM
Not sure where to put this, but, went to watch my future son-in-law play cricket today, 10 miles away. Got there for 1pm, game started at 1.30pm, back home by 3.30pm. It didn't go well  :o :o :o :o

Could have been worse. Depending on your opinion of your son-in-law that could have ended up in the Angry thread or the Happy thread ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Philip. on June 16, 2019, 05:46:24 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on June 16, 2019, 05:39:20 PM
Quote from: Philipp on June 16, 2019, 04:44:36 PM
Not sure where to put this, but, went to watch my future son-in-law play cricket today, 10 miles away. Got there for 1pm, game started at 1.30pm, back home by 3.30pm. It didn't go well  :o :o :o :o

Could have been worse. Depending on your opinion of your son-in-law that could have ended up in the Angry thread or the Happy thread ;D
I think the world of him, and he did score 4 of the 28 so the unhappy thread [for the team] seemed more appropriate, I think  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on June 16, 2019, 05:48:10 PM
at least he's playing real cricket, not on a phone or something-pad  ::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on June 16, 2019, 09:22:24 PM
Quote from: Philipp on June 16, 2019, 04:44:36 PM
Not sure where to put this, but, went to watch my future son-in-law play cricket today, 10 miles away. Got there for 1pm, game started at 1.30pm, back home by 3.30pm. It didn't go well  :o :o :o :o

So you spent 1h30 in a deck chair drinking beer ?

Always look on the bright side of life  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on June 27, 2019, 10:34:31 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on June 20, 2019, 02:33:10 PM
Huzzah!
Finally got the above mentioned chappie round and he can get a couple of his guys to me next week. He appears to know his stuff and talked me through what was needed. All access is from the outside so no dismantling required, and all for the cost of an N gauge loco :)

Well the chap was going to phone me last Thursday or Friday to let me know when it could be fixed this week. Needless to say the weekend came and went without a call so I phoned his landline and left a message on Monday night. Still nothing heard from him so this morning I called his mobile from my landline which costs me money (I'm a tight wad but get free anytime calls to landlines) and, lo and behold, got to him straight away. After many feeble excuses I now have (supposedly) 2 guys coming round at 07.45 tomorrow morning to cure the leak in the mancave.
More news as it comes off the telex machine.........................
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: crewearpley40 on June 27, 2019, 10:40:35 AM
Lets hope walmsley and do a decent job mick. 9am be more civil time
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on June 27, 2019, 11:41:12 AM
Quote from: crewearpley40 on June 27, 2019, 10:40:35 AM
Lets hope walmsley and do a decent job mick. 9am be more civil time

As a regular viewer of BBC Breakfast and getting up at 07.00 Tuesdays/Thursdays to go to the gym it's no great shakes, Chris :no:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on June 27, 2019, 12:03:55 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on June 27, 2019, 11:41:12 AM
Quote from: crewearpley40 on June 27, 2019, 10:40:35 AM
Lets hope walmsley and do a decent job mick. 9am be more civil time

As a regular viewer of BBC Breakfast and getting up at 07.00 Tuesdays/Thursdays to go to the gym it's no great shakes, Chris :no:

That's just wrong on three counts:

1: Breakfast TV

B: Getting up at 7am

4: Going to the gymn

:-X
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on June 27, 2019, 12:17:48 PM
Quote from: emjaybee on June 27, 2019, 12:03:55 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on June 27, 2019, 11:41:12 AM
Quote from: crewearpley40 on June 27, 2019, 10:40:35 AM
Lets hope walmsley and do a decent job mick. 9am be more civil time

As a regular viewer of BBC Breakfast and getting up at 07.00 Tuesdays/Thursdays to go to the gym it's no great shakes, Chris :no:

That's just wrong on three counts:

1: Breakfast TV

B: Getting up at 7am

4: Going to the gymn

:-X

Absolutely, I get up at 10am, have freshly brewed coffee and fruit for breakfast and take my wife to the gym. 

I play BBC News on my computer, best comedy show on. :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on June 27, 2019, 01:16:00 PM
What time do you pensioners in the UK go to the pub ?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on June 27, 2019, 01:18:12 PM
Quote from: joe cassidy on June 27, 2019, 01:16:00 PM
What time do you pensioners in the UK go to the pub ?

Anytime  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on June 27, 2019, 04:01:18 PM
Quote from: joe cassidy on June 27, 2019, 01:16:00 PM
What time do you pensioners in the UK go to the pub ?

Depends on the quality of the company, Joe.

Well behaved and just like my mum = Hardly ever/never  :(

Occasional a bit naughty = 19:00 ish  ;)

Quite often naughty = 17:30 ish  :D

Very naughty and therefore my bestest pals ever = They're open!  :claphappy:  :beers:

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MinZaPint on June 27, 2019, 04:10:48 PM
@joe cassidy (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=1484) When you're buying! just let us know  :beers:  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on June 27, 2019, 05:26:47 PM
Quote from: daveg on June 27, 2019, 04:01:18 PM
Quote from: joe cassidy on June 27, 2019, 01:16:00 PM
What time do you pensioners in the UK go to the pub ?

Depends on the quality of the company, Joe.

Well behaved and just like my mum = Hardly ever/never  :(

Occasional a bit naughty = 19:00 ish  ;)

Quite often naughty = 17:30 ish  :D

Very naughty and therefore my bestest pals ever = They're open!  :claphappy:  :beers:

Dave G
And we usually meet up a lunchtimes, so what does that say about us, Dave?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on June 27, 2019, 05:39:53 PM
Quote from: Malc on June 27, 2019, 05:26:47 PM
Quote from: daveg on June 27, 2019, 04:01:18 PM
Quote from: joe cassidy on June 27, 2019, 01:16:00 PM
What time do you pensioners in the UK go to the pub ?

Depends on the quality of the company, Joe.

Well behaved and just like my mum = Hardly ever/never  :(

Occasional a bit naughty = 19:00 ish  ;)

Quite often naughty = 17:30 ish  :D

Very naughty and therefore my bestest pals ever = They're open!  :claphappy:  :beers:

Dave G
And we usually meet up a lunchtimes, so what does that say about us, Dave?

you have your priorities right  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on June 27, 2019, 07:39:07 PM
Quote from: Malc on June 27, 2019, 05:26:47 PM
Quote from: daveg on June 27, 2019, 04:01:18 PM
Quote from: joe cassidy on June 27, 2019, 01:16:00 PM
What time do you pensioners in the UK go to the pub ?

Depends on the quality of the company, Joe.

Well behaved and just like my mum = Hardly ever/never  :(

Occasional a bit naughty = 19:00 ish  ;)

Quite often naughty = 17:30 ish  :D

Very naughty and therefore my bestest pals ever = They're open!  :claphappy:  :beers:

Dave G
And we usually meet up a lunchtimes, so what does that say about us, Dave?

Without letting the cat out of the bag @Malc (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=497) , shall we just say that lunchtime is somewhere between 'They're open' and closing time!  ;)

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on June 27, 2019, 09:17:56 PM
This seems to have morphed into a Happy Thread :pint:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on June 27, 2019, 09:19:48 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on June 27, 2019, 09:17:56 PM
This seems to have morphed into a Happy Thread :pint:

Every cloud...
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on June 27, 2019, 09:25:06 PM
Quote from: emjaybee on June 27, 2019, 09:19:48 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on June 27, 2019, 09:17:56 PM
This seems to have morphed into a Happy Thread :pint:

Every cloud...

........very often contains rain. There. That should get us back to being unhappy :P ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Dorsetmike on June 27, 2019, 09:32:28 PM
Can't remember the last time I was in a pub, they don't serve mead, I sits 'ere and quietly sups.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on June 27, 2019, 09:37:40 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on June 27, 2019, 09:25:06 PM
Quote from: emjaybee on June 27, 2019, 09:19:48 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on June 27, 2019, 09:17:56 PM
This seems to have morphed into a Happy Thread :pint:

Every cloud...

........very often contains rain. There. That should get us back to being unhappy :P ;)

Ah, there he is!

;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on June 28, 2019, 09:26:17 AM
Don't go the the pub any more.

The two nearest are "gastro Pubs" ie unfriendly to drinkers unless you pay a fortune for a meal.
The Next two, one I don't think it's been repainted since they banned smoking, but it is still a pub. The other is a pub that serves food, not too bad but not worth the journey. Once I  retire I expect I'll frequent a pub more often.. There's one just round the corner from the MRC, and I'll be spending a lot more time there..
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on June 28, 2019, 09:30:47 AM
WHATS A PUB   :confused2: I'm coffeee total .
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Philip. on June 29, 2019, 04:07:50 PM
Our 9 year old pooch has a problem with his skin and shedding a lot of fur. The last week or so he has started drinking more and doing huge pees so we thought we'd better get him to the vet.

Two bloodtests and a full MOT and it turns out he has "hypothyroidism" which is quite common in older large dogs. The bank account is now £300 lighter [insurance claim going in] and he's now on antibiotics and tablets to sort his thyroid out. Got to go back in 2 weeks for another blood test and see if the thyroid tablet strength needs adjusting. He'll be on those for the rest of his life, but fingers crossed he's now sorted.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on June 29, 2019, 04:11:23 PM
I hope he soon gets sorted Philipp. Our pets can be expensive, but would we be without them?  :no:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on June 29, 2019, 04:13:24 PM
glad to hear it's sorted.
at that age meds are better than an op, and you can't put a price on a friend

dogs rule  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on June 29, 2019, 05:22:58 PM
It's an unfortunate fact that pets get more expensive to run as they get older. Our old dog was on tablets for a heart murmur for years (he always swallowed them without a fuss as he knew they would shortly be followed by breakfast or dinner). Then as he got frailer the visits to the vet became more and more frequent. The insurers paid up without quibble, but the premiums went ballistic. But he was a lovely dog - he was with us until just after his 16th birthday and he repaid us every penny we spent on him. We still have his great-grand-daughter and great-great-grand-daughter to keep us active!

Hope your dog is still with you for many years to come, Philipp.

Cheers, Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on June 29, 2019, 05:25:17 PM
Those symptoms ring a bell :-[

Being serious, I hope the meds work and your pet is back to normality very soon.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on June 29, 2019, 05:56:19 PM
Hope the meds do the trick. Always a worry when a special pal is poorly.

Our Blue (British Blue super cat)  is 11 and his insurance premium almost doubled when he reached 10.

Chatted with our home visiting vet (a blessing!) and we now invest the original premium in his own premium bonds account. So far just a few minor calls so no financial pressure and the tiniest hope Blue will make us a million!  :D

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Philip. on June 29, 2019, 06:02:51 PM
thanks everyone, much appreciated, I love him to bits so I don't care about the money, if it is just hypothyroidism then it'll cost about £20 a month for the tablets which is nothing, and a blood test once a year just to keep a check on things. Wife reckons I care more for him than I do for her, can't think why  :hmmm: :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on June 29, 2019, 08:17:18 PM
As has been said before, lock them both in a shed for 24 hours and when you let them out, see who is the most pleased to see you >:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on June 29, 2019, 08:45:08 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on June 29, 2019, 08:17:18 PM
As has been said before, lock them both in a shed for 24 hours and when you let them out, see who is the most pleased to see you >:D

Bad man!

(Funny man)

Bad man!

:smiley-laughing:

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: zwilnik on June 29, 2019, 09:22:16 PM
Quote from: Philipp on June 29, 2019, 06:02:51 PM
thanks everyone, much appreciated, I love him to bits so I don't care about the money, if it is just hypothyroidism then it'll cost about £20 a month for the tablets which is nothing, and a blood test once a year just to keep a check on things. Wife reckons I care more for him than I do for her, can't think why  :hmmm: :D

My ex's cat had the same, although the tablets were a little more (about £30 a month). As this particular cat really hated taking tablets and it would be every day, she opted for a radiotherapy treatment instead where they essentially irradiate the offending thyroid to reduce it and pretty much cure the condition. Cost about £2000 and you're not allowed near your radioactive cat for a fortnight, but the cat's still going strong some 3 years later.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on June 30, 2019, 04:25:11 PM
Cats and tablets don't go together. With a dog, you just wrap the tablet in bacon and throw it for them. We tried everything to get our cat to take a worming tablet when we first got her. We crushed it in her food, but she ate all the food and left the bits of tablet. We popped it in her throat and she spat it out. Eventually took her to the vet and he gave her an injection. Fortunately for the next 11 years she never needed tablets.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: themadhippy on June 30, 2019, 04:59:53 PM
How to give a cat a pill:

  1)  Pick up cat and cradle it in the crook of your left arm as if holding a baby. Position right forefinger and thumb on either side of cat's mouth and gently apply pressure to cheeks while holding pill in right hand. As cat opens mouth, pop pill into mouth. Allow cat to close mouth and swallow.

    2)Retrieve pill from floor and cat from behind sofa. Cradle cat in left arm and repeat process.

   3) Retrieve cat from bedroom, and throw soggy pill away.

    4)Take new pill from foil wrap, cradle cat in left arm, holding rear paws tightly with left hand. Force jaws open and push pill to back of mouth with right forefinger. Hold mouth shut for a count of ten.

    5) Retrieve pill from goldfish bowl and cat from top of wardrobe. Call spouse from garden.

   6)Kneel on floor with cat wedged firmly between knees, hold front and rear paws. Ignore low growls emitted by cat. Get spouse to hold head firmly with one hand while forcing wooden ruler into mouth. Drop pill down ruler and rub cat's throat vigorously.

   7)  Retrieve cat from curtain rail, get another pill from foil wrap. Make note to buy new ruler and repair curtains. Carefully sweep shattered figurines and vases from hearth and set to one side for gluing later.

  8  )  Wrap cat in large towel and get spouse to lie on cat with head just visible from below armpit. Put pill in end of drinking straw, force mouth open with pencil, and blow down drinking straw.

  9)  Check label to make sure pill not harmful to humans, drink 1 beer to take taste away. Apply Band-Aid to spouse's forearm and remove blood from carpet with cold water and soap.

10)  Retrieve cat from neighbor's shed. Get another pill. Open another beer. Place cat in cupboard, and close door onto neck, to leave head showing. Force mouth open with dessert spoon. Flick pill down throat with elastic band.

   11) Fetch screwdriver from garage and put cupboard door back on hinges. Drink beer. Fetch bottle of Scotch. Pour shot, drink. Apply cold compress to cheek and check records for date of last tetanus shot. Apply whiskey compress to cheek to disinfect. Toss back another shot. Throw T-shirt away and fetch new one from bedroom.

   12) Call fire brigade to retrieve the damn cat from tree across the road. Apologize to neighbor who crashed into fence while swerving to avoid cat. Take last pill from foil-wrap.

13)   Tie the little @!!@#@#$%'s front paws to rear paws with garden twine and bind tightly to leg of dining table, find heavy-duty pruning gloves from shed. Push pill into mouth followed by large piece of steak filet. Be rough about it. Hold head vertically and pour 2 pints of water down throat to wash pill down.

   14) Consume remainder of Scotch. Get spouse to drive you to the emergency room, sit quietly while doctor stitches fingers and forearm and remove pill remnants from right eye. Call furniture shop on way home to order new table.

  15)  Arrange for RSPCA to collect mutant cat from hell and call local pet shop to see if they have any hamsters.

How to give a dog a pill:

1)   Wrap it in cheese.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on June 30, 2019, 07:23:06 PM
quote "How to give a dog a pill:

1)   Wrap it in cheese."

you know my husky  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on June 30, 2019, 08:58:53 PM
Quote from: class37025 on June 30, 2019, 07:23:06 PM
you know my husky  :smiley-laughing:

Your dog, your voice or your Hillman? :confused1:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on June 30, 2019, 09:03:55 PM
I could say I don't remember the Hillman Husky .......... but I was brought up to not tell fibs!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on June 30, 2019, 11:30:47 PM

(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/79/311-300619232340.jpeg) (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=gallery;sa=view&id=79018)

or in his more usual, coiled spring, state poised ready to leap into action at the drop of a biscuit


(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/79/311-300619233004.jpeg) (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=gallery;sa=view&id=79019)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on July 03, 2019, 07:44:35 AM
Quote from: themadhippy on June 30, 2019, 04:59:53 PM


How to give a dog a pill:

1)   Wrap it in cheese.
You didn't know one of our no logner with us Rough Collies, who would quite happily accept the cheese and eat it.. spitting out the pill afterwards...
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Adam1701D on July 04, 2019, 08:42:47 AM
Quote from: class37025 on June 30, 2019, 07:23:06 PM
quote "How to give a dog a pill:

1)   Wrap it in cheese."

you know my husky  :smiley-laughing:

We tried this with Harvey, our Romanian Rescue. He was able to keep the pill in his cheek for some time, spitting it out later. Even grinding the pills up and hiding in food was a nightmare...

That's the problem with ex-street dogs; they are extremely crafty. :-)

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on July 11, 2019, 06:23:17 PM
not unhappy but a bit annoyed

i ordered some timber to fix the back fence i wanted 3 x 2 inch  but ordered 3 x 2 CM   :censored:

ARRRRHHH

John
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on July 11, 2019, 06:33:34 PM
Quote from: JBQFC on July 11, 2019, 06:23:17 PM
not unhappy but a bit annoyed

i ordered some timber to fix the back fence i wanted 3 x 2 inch  but ordered 3 x 2 CM   :censored:

ARRRRHHH

John

:laughabovepost:

I'm sorry, but I laughed out loud at that one.

Maybe you could make a scale model of the repaired fence.

;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Lawrence on July 11, 2019, 07:02:24 PM
Quote from: JBQFC on July 11, 2019, 06:23:17 PM
not unhappy but a bit annoyed

i ordered some timber to fix the back fence i wanted 3 x 2 inch  but ordered 3 x 2 CM   :censored:

ARRRRHHH

John

It's going to be a wee fence  :(  ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Delboy on July 11, 2019, 07:05:32 PM
Quote from: Lawrence on July 11, 2019, 07:02:24 PM
Quote from: JBQFC on July 11, 2019, 06:23:17 PM
not unhappy but a bit annoyed

i ordered some timber to fix the back fence i wanted 3 x 2 inch  but ordered 3 x 2 CM   :censored:

ARRRRHHH

John

It's going to be a wee fence  :(  ;D
Not if John glues enough of them together  ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 11, 2019, 09:25:53 PM
Quote from: Lawrence on July 11, 2019, 07:02:24 PM
Quote from: JBQFC on July 11, 2019, 06:23:17 PM
not unhappy but a bit annoyed

i ordered some timber to fix the back fence i wanted 3 x 2 inch  but ordered 3 x 2 CM   :censored:

ARRRRHHH

John

It's going to be a wee fence  :(  ;D

Let's hope it's not electrified then :o
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: themadhippy on July 11, 2019, 09:52:42 PM
Quotei ordered some timber to fix the back fence i wanted 3 x 2 inch  but ordered 3 x 2 CM
You didnt work with spinal tap by any chance?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Lawrence on July 20, 2019, 06:57:40 PM
I bought a couple of locos from one of the guys on Trainboard, nice guy did his best to get me a decent rate on shipping etc etc. Sent me the tracking, it took four days to get from Iowa to Newark, it then took a week to get from London to Perth and, because it is being handled by Parcelforce and not Royal mail the handling fee is £12 not £8 and the handling fee was marginally more then the import VAT.
I called Parcelforce to query this and the guy was just ignorant, kept talking over me, telling it was because of the size, I told him it was 2 small N scale locos, must be the value then, the VAT is less than you fee says I, finally got him to admit he didn't have a clue. Having paid the fee online and rearranged delivery for Tuesday at the earliest, they then informed me they wouldn't deliver to my work address. So I asked if they could deliver it next Saturday, "Oh yes Sir, that will be an additional £12, how would you like to pay"
I said forget it, I wont be here Tuesday, or when he comes back on Wednesday, Thursday or Friday, so you can save your guy several wasted trips and just bring it on the Saturday, I hung up at that point.
Absolutely useless bunch of rip off sods.
I am actually getting so fed up with they way I constantly get ripped off when I buy from Japan or the US because something I want isn't available here, I'm almost considering packing it all in and just flogging the whole flaming load on fleabay.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on July 20, 2019, 07:18:22 PM
I know just what you mean a friend ordered three of those very small four wheel chassis from Plaza Japan on one order  they were very quick delivering the three separate parcels and therefore three lots of import duty and three lots of handling charges .Very annoying when all three chassis and even more could have gone in one little box instead of the three 9inch x 9inch that they each came in .
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on July 20, 2019, 07:25:21 PM
I know exactly how you feel Lawrence. I bought an American engine, (from America funny enough,  :)), via ebay a week ago. The postman comes on Friday and says, "There is a parcel for you David but you have to pay €64.14 in duty and the like".  :o
As I did not have enough cash on me and the postie could not accept a debit card, he has had to take it back and I have to collect it on Monday.  >:(. I realise that duty etc has to be paid on goods imported from non EU countries, but it is still a pain in the derriere!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on July 21, 2019, 01:15:28 AM
Sounds like a lot to be said for your local model shop!

(If you have one, that is)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on July 21, 2019, 12:34:52 PM
Quote from: Bealman on July 21, 2019, 01:15:28 AM
Sounds like a lot to be said for your local model shop!

(If you have one, that is)

I so wish ...................... My nearest one is 30 miles away, but only has a very limited range of n gauge, although it is not too bad for scenickery stuff. Otherwise it is Belfast or Dublin! On my 2 or 3 trips back home, I always say "If we happen to go anywhere near where there is a model rail shop".  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bigmac on July 21, 2019, 12:56:54 PM
cant beat delivery from isle of man to isle of wight...next day.  thats from Union Mills and Track shack.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 21, 2019, 01:06:35 PM
Quote from: Bealman on July 21, 2019, 01:15:28 AM
Sounds like a lot to be said for your local model shop!

(If you have one, that is)

I dare say Lawrence's options for supply of U.S./Japanese railway items from UK sources are very restricted and, maybe for the less mainstream stuff, non existent.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Lawrence on July 21, 2019, 08:14:17 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on July 21, 2019, 01:06:35 PM
Quote from: Bealman on July 21, 2019, 01:15:28 AM
Sounds like a lot to be said for your local model shop!

(If you have one, that is)

I dare say Lawrence's options for supply of U.S./Japanese railway items from UK sources are very restricted and, maybe for the less mainstream stuff, non existent.

Often times it is spare parts, no way a model shop in the UK is going to have the right Tomix motorised chassis for a conversion or traction tyres for a DD51, for example. I also got annoyed at the total lack of parity between the two parties handling incoming goods at the total lack of customer service from Kevin!

@dannyboy (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=4209) 64 euro Tax, ye gods David did you buy a 1:1 scale loco  ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on July 21, 2019, 08:22:49 PM
Quote from: Lawrence on July 21, 2019, 08:14:17 PM

64 euro Tax, ye gods David did you buy a 1:1 scale loco  ;D

I did pay €300 for the engine, so if it is normal Irish VAT at about 20%, that equals €60. I will see when I pick it up tomorrow how the charges are worked out and if necessary query the amount with the Customs people.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on July 23, 2019, 12:27:45 PM
Not quite angry as it seems all within the rules BUT.....

An eBay order placed last Thursday and dispatched on the same day still hasn't arrived at its pick-up point.

Estimated delivery states 23rd - 24th so still ok HOWEVER, postage cost £5 and was described as "other 48 hour courier".

:hmmm:

I rather wish I had a choice over delivery company!

Skyline2uk

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: broadsword on July 23, 2019, 04:32:35 PM
I haven't bought anything from Ebay for a while, but usually I checked the method of
delivery and always chose Royal Mail signed for, even if it meant missing out if that wasn't an option.
I've seen some of these couriers at work locally and wouldn't trust them with a daily paper never
mind an expensive model , as has been said many times UM are the example for others to follow.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Lawrence on July 23, 2019, 08:42:32 PM
For those that haven't, see post#1533

They tried to deliver it today, but left a card because I wasn't in (just like I told them) they will try and re-deliver tomorrow  ;D ;D :no: :no: what a bunch of money wasting muppets they are. I'll make damn sure I get my £12 worth  >:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Lawrence on July 24, 2019, 10:14:53 PM
Parcelfarce left a card (again) today to say they had tried to deliver but I wasn't at home (don't these people listen!) and clearly two attempts was too much for the guy so this time he has left them at the local post office for me to pick up  ;D ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on July 25, 2019, 04:38:10 AM
So, nominally I am self-employed, which means I pay my taxes directly, and was expecting the usual demand from the tax agency for part pre-payment of this year's expected tax, except it never arrived and the deadline is getting closer, so I called the tax agency and after a lot of back-and-forth they explained there was some sort of a mistake in the previous tax return and it needed to be corrected, but I couldn't for the life of me understand what it was as the person on the other end was firing off a bunch of tax-related vocabulary at high speed without subtitles (perversely it would be easier for me to understand the terms if I see them written down), anyway after having my blood pressure shoot through the roof due to imaging having committed some horrendous tax crime beyond my comprehension, I finally worked out the accountant who submitted the tax return had put my income in the wrong damn column  :veryangry:

I expect that can get sorted out, but it's a bit worrying I might never have known there was an issue had I not called  :goggleeyes: ???
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on July 25, 2019, 05:39:02 AM
Indeed. Eeek!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on July 25, 2019, 06:28:56 AM
On the silver lining side I may actually be due some money back... we'll see...
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on August 13, 2019, 08:27:42 PM
SWMBO has not been to good the last couple of days, which has impacted on carriage listing etc, and this morning I had to go to the chemists to pick up her repeat prescription.

'we're having problems getting a couple of the items, it's happening quite a lot recently'  >:(

now having been bombarded by  :censored: politicians, of all colours, going on about Brexit, and how much is being spent on stockpiling everything, from marmalade to morphine apparently, why is it the chemist can't get normal items for a repeat prescription ?

at the risk of being put 'on report' again ...
'...................politicians.............................'  :veryangry:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on August 13, 2019, 09:03:16 PM
There have been problems for a couple of years and not restricted to the UK. Made worse recently, as the EU changed the rules on tamper-evident packaging and this is also causing shortages.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on August 13, 2019, 09:18:01 PM
Quote from: stevewalker on August 13, 2019, 09:03:16 PM
the EU changed the rules on tamper-evident packaging

Not sure if this is relevant or not, but the plastic bottle that I get every month with my tablets in, comes in a cardboard box, with a perforated top to open.  Quite often, the cardboard box has been opened when I get my tablets and I have thought about mentioning it, but have never bothered as the tablet bottle is always sealed. Then it dawned on me last week, most times, the instructions for taking the tablets, (one a day - who needs instructions?), are on the outside of the plastic bottle. How are they going to stick the instructions on the bottle if they don't open the box?   :doh: :-[ . However, what earns this post a place in the Unhappy Thread, is that the bottle top is a right pain to get off and once I have done that there is a seal which I have never been able to pull off - thank goodness I have some craft knifes!  ;) The bottle certainly qualifies as "tamper-evident".
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on August 13, 2019, 10:00:43 PM
'child proof' try '73 year old proof'  >:(

should be able to get a pair of mole-grips and a stanley knife on prescription  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on August 13, 2019, 10:05:20 PM
There was a case reticently of a girl who died as she could not get her EpiPen out of its plastic wrapping.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on August 14, 2019, 11:25:22 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on August 13, 2019, 09:18:01 PM
... the bottle top is a right pain to get off and once I have done that there is a seal which I have never been able to pull off - thank goodness I have some craft knifes!  ;) The bottle certainly qualifies as "tamper-evident".

My wife has rheumatoid arthritis - one of the medications comes as an injection, which she can only just manage to operate, so I normally do it and the other comes as tablets, with a weird lid, that she has no hope of opening herself. What is the point of dispensing RA meds in containers that no-one with RA will be able to open?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on August 14, 2019, 11:26:33 PM
Quote from: class37025 on August 13, 2019, 10:00:43 PM
'child proof' try '73 year old proof'  >:(

should be able to get a pair of mole-grips and a stanley knife on prescription  :smiley-laughing:

Generally speaking, if you can't get a child-proof container open, give it to a child ... they'll normally have it open in seconds!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 15, 2019, 10:29:27 AM
I don't necessarily consider myself feek and weable but there are times when I take the plastic cap off the milk and then just cannot for the life of me heave off the diaphragm underneath :-[
We hates getting old, don't we, preciousssss :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on August 15, 2019, 10:33:35 AM
I think the hardest part of getting old(er), is admitting that fact. I remember the first time I went to see the prostate specialist, sitting in the waiting room thinking that it was full of old men.  :doh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on August 20, 2019, 06:16:48 PM
I have a few days holiday booked for September, staying with my sister and her husband. So why am I unhappy? It has just dawned on me that the day I come back is the day of the Enniskillen Model Rail show! It is held once a year and is the only show I can get to easily, so I am having to miss it.  :'(  Fortunately I am going to the show in Peterborough in December, so at least I will get to see something this year.

For anybody interested in the Enniskillen show -
https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?topic=45768.msg577293#msg577293 (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?topic=45768.msg577293#msg577293)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on August 23, 2019, 10:01:56 PM
Woeful news, people! So dire, I really can't understand why it hasn't pushed all the other bad news off the front pages. Our village bakery (Humphreys, established 1796) has closed! Not because it didn't make a profit - there was always a long queue out of the door. Unfortunately, the master baker, who is in his 80s, has been taken ill and it seems unlikely he will return. We are all hoping it will re-open under new ownership soon but in the meantime there are a lot of people suffering sudden apple turnover deprivation.  :(

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on August 23, 2019, 10:15:41 PM
Hope the baker recovers to enjoy some quality retirement time. I fear that your apple turnovers may never be as good again. :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 23, 2019, 10:41:21 PM
I have channel hopped through all the TV channels but.......nada, zilch, zero, nought, rien, nichts etc
They'll happily report on some Z lister getting a zit on their ugly mug but this is major news and should be granted the gravitas it deserves. A replacement baker of equivalent skill should be rushed to the scene.
I blame society ::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on August 24, 2019, 10:41:46 AM
@Papyrus (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=2975)  I can imagine how you must be feeling. Once a week, I make a 40 mile round trip to Carrick-on-Shannon, primarily to visit a coffee shop there, where they must have a small bakery in the back. They do not make their own bread, but do bake cakes and the like. The strawberry tarts are out of this world. I know both Louisa and myself would be devastated if they stopped. If any of you ever find yourselves in Carrick, I can thoroughly recommend 'Coffeys', just by the bridge over the Shannon, for coffee and maybe a light lunch. :thumbsup: I hope the baker gets back to good health.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on August 24, 2019, 12:49:42 PM
Sounds like a wonderful place! Sadly, we've never quite managed to cross the Irish Sea, despite our love of the music and the dancing and (in my case) the black stuff. One day, perhaps...

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on August 24, 2019, 01:24:11 PM
@Papyrus (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=2975)
If you, (or any other member of the forum), ever do decide to visit 'Lovely Leitrim' let me know.  I can point out some of the sites for you including the Cavan and Leitrim Railway and of course, Coffeys.  ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on August 25, 2019, 07:37:00 PM
Thanks!!  :thumbsup:

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on August 26, 2019, 08:11:33 AM
i bought a display case off a seller on Amazon it arrived damaged due to very poor packaging so put in a complaint and this is the Email i got this morning
Dear JOHN

Thanks for your mail.

We are sorry to hear about the unfortunate situation.We have alerted related department. But please kindly understand that sometimes these things happen and we really have no intention to upset you.

To make things right, we would like to issue a partial refund of GBP3 , do you think it's OK?

We are looking forward to your reply.

We sincerely apologize for all the inconvenience that this may have caused to you.
Sincerely,
Homyl

i have replied demanding a full refund or i will report them to Amazon the refund is not even 50% of the cost
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on August 26, 2019, 07:52:28 PM
they got back to me saying the last Email was sent by mistake  :laugh: and i was due a full refund
so ends well

John
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on August 26, 2019, 07:54:16 PM
Wonder if that was just a coincidence?  ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: grumbeast on August 27, 2019, 03:53:58 PM
Well it's been almost 2 weeks since my nasal surgery thingy and I'm going freakin insane with these two bloody great stents in my nose.. they come out tomorrow (thank goodness) and I can't wait for my two week headache to be over.  I'm unhappy because the ache has been enough of a distraction to even stop me working on the railway grrrr
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on August 27, 2019, 04:01:50 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on August 26, 2019, 07:54:16 PM
Wonder if that was just a coincidence?  ;)

do bears live in the woods ?  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: tutenkhamunsleeping on August 29, 2019, 09:04:42 AM
I'm waiting for a delivery via (and I didn't know this when I ordered) Yodel.

Already fed up of going out to check the roof :censored:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 29, 2019, 09:40:13 AM
 :laughabovepost:

My Lord, but you've changed :goggleeyes:
When did that happen?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: tutenkhamunsleeping on August 29, 2019, 09:46:29 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on August 29, 2019, 09:40:13 AM
My Lord, but you've changed :goggleeyes:
When did that happen?

When I first got a mortgage :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on August 29, 2019, 11:23:17 AM
Quote from: tutenkhamunsleeping on August 29, 2019, 09:04:42 AM

Already fed up of going out to check the roof :censored:

Have you checked @Bealman (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=255) 's bus stop?  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on August 29, 2019, 12:05:30 PM
is there a smug emojie ?

I am very lucky, in that our local rounds have great

posties
parcel force driver
DHL driver
Yodel driver
Hermes driver

and no, you cannot have their names so you can poach them  >:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on August 29, 2019, 12:09:01 PM
Quote from: tutenkhamunsleeping on August 29, 2019, 09:04:42 AM
I'm waiting for a delivery via (and I didn't know this when I ordered) Yodel.

Already fed up of going out to check the roof :censored:

Have you ever seen the musical "Yodeller on the Roof"?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on August 29, 2019, 12:37:08 PM
Quote from: class37025 on August 29, 2019, 12:05:30 PM
is there a smug emojie ?

I am very lucky, in that our local rounds have great

posties
parcel force driver
DHL driver
Yodel driver
Hermes driver

and no, you cannot have their names so you can poach them  >:D

Ewww, who would want a poached postie  :sick2: :sick2:

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on September 02, 2019, 08:21:43 AM
My sailing companion, is in hospital...
He came off his Motor Bike....
Into the front of a tractor...
He was out with a group of motorcycles on a trip something to do with ROSPA!!
The lead bike hit a big pot hole on a bend but managed to recover and not hit the tractor.
My mate was second, hit pot hole and didn't recover..
He's had a couple of days in an induced coma, having smashed lots of Bones on his right hand side.
He is in Addenbrookes at the moment.
Will be returned to the Norfolk and Norwich sometime soon.
He'll be lucky if he gets out before Christmas...
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 02, 2019, 08:44:50 AM
I hope he recovers okay, how ever long it takes.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 02, 2019, 09:44:21 AM
As someone who rides a motorbike occasionally I find this sort of accident sickening. OK, in a car you may damage a wheel but 2 wheelers (powered or not) are horribly vulnerable to this blight on our roads. Grrrrrr :veryangry:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on September 02, 2019, 10:28:13 AM
That sounds horrible. I've had a rough year health wise, still in a boot and on crutches, but what you describe is awful.

It sounds like it is going to be a long recovery.

Best wishes.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Capri_sam on September 02, 2019, 10:40:01 AM
Jeez, that's awful. My stepdad came off his bike quite badly a couple of weeks before my wedding on his way to pick up his suit. He was filtering and just wobbled - claimed he was only doing 15mph but broke a silly number of bones in various places. It was a blessing in disguise though - the X-Ray of his collar bone showed a rare tumour which they managed to catch very early as a result, it likely wouldn't have been spotted until it was too late if he hadn't had the accident. A far from ideal way to find out though! Best wishes to your friend for a full recovery. Any link to the fundraiser site?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on September 10, 2019, 11:10:16 AM
I've no wish to spread unnecessary alarm and despondency (necessary alarm and despondency is a different thing) but a garden centre down the road is putting up its Christmas decorations.

All together, now... bah, humbug! >:(

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on September 10, 2019, 11:22:16 AM
It's even worse at the Antipodes.... the weather starts to get hot into boot!  ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 10, 2019, 12:02:40 PM
Quote from: Papyrus on September 10, 2019, 11:10:16 AM
a garden centre down the road is putting up its Christmas decorations.


I did buy some mince pies in Asda last Saturday.  :-[ (But as I like mince pies, I am not complaining  :))
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on September 10, 2019, 01:52:09 PM
My sailing Companion has been moved to The Norfolk and Norwich  Hospital , now he's in less danger. So I've been for a visit.
the full list of injuries are,
Fractured skull, the impact ripped the front of the filp front helmet off.
Broken right wrist and hand, now pinned and wired up and in plaster.
Broken right Femur, several pins in..
fractured pelvis,
Broken right ankle now pinned and held in a, made to measure holder.

The pot hole on a bend was about 18 inches long 6 inches wide and 4 inches deep, the council has known about it for 3 months, with the markings for the repair to say fix it are wearing off!!

There is further road surface failure for about another 20ft..

The police have investigated and said he will not be prosecuted for dangerous driving, it was an accident he could not avoid..
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 10, 2019, 01:57:43 PM
Errr, he will not be prosecuted  :goggleeyes: What about the Council if they were already aware?  ??? I would advise your friend to speak to a Solicitor - when he is well enough! Hope he continues to improve.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Delboy on September 10, 2019, 01:58:52 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on September 10, 2019, 01:57:43 PM
Errr, he will not be prosecuted  :goggleeyes: What about the Council if they were already aware?  ??? I would advise your friend to speak to a Solicitor - when he is well enough! Hope he continues to improve.

This!!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Phoenix on September 10, 2019, 02:15:46 PM
I do wish your friend well after such a traumatic accident.

We have a terrible problem here with the Weymouth tramway. So many cyclists get their wheels caught in the tracks, and although the council are well aware of this, no resolution can be found.

The track belongs to the railway, the land it is on belongs to the council, and neither will take any responsibility for it  :thumbsdown:

I hope your friend can get a result, but more importantly have a speedy recovery.

All best wishes

Kevin

:beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on September 10, 2019, 02:21:00 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on September 10, 2019, 01:57:43 PM
Errr, he will not be prosecuted  :goggleeyes: What about the Council if they were already aware?  ??? I would advise your friend to speak to a Solicitor - when he is well enough! Hope he continues to improve.

Absolutely and completely agree.

Whilst I am ready to mock "Ambulance Chasers", this in no way falls into that category.

The council needs to be held accountable for this slapdash attitude.

It puts my cycle tire incidents very much in perspective.

I wish your friend @The Q (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=6067) well.

Skyline2uk

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 10, 2019, 02:41:52 PM
If my brother-in-law can successfully sue the council for a BMW alloy wheel (£800) then I suggest your friend can do far better than that when he's feeling more up to it
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on September 10, 2019, 04:52:49 PM
unfortunately, round here the council only 'check' the roads once a year, apparently. this complies, according to them, with their responsibility to 'regularly' inspect roads.

the normal procedure, as I've seen it applied around here, is ignore checking roads, if some member of the public does their job for them and reports a pothole etc, then a few weeks or so later someone will go and spray a white line round it, assuming it 'meets their requirements for a repair'.

of course the paint is soon worn off, but presumably a photo is taken to prove they have marked the hazard.

then some time later a contractor will turn up, shovel some tarmac into the hole, back the lorry over it flatten it, and foxtrot oscar, job done.

of course by now what may have been a 6 inch round and 1 inch deep pothole is probably a couple of feet across and up to 3 or 4 inches deep.

and as soon as there is a bit of rain and a frost, the whole cycle starts again.

:censored: councils
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on September 19, 2019, 07:20:58 AM
Contrary to yesterdays post in the happy thread, my sailing compatriot didn't escape the hospital yesterday... He's caught an infection, he sounded very rough on the phone last night... Dangerous places these hospitals.. they make you sick...
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 19, 2019, 10:14:09 AM
Yep. They won't let you in with an infection but are quite happy to let you out with one :unimpressed:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 24, 2019, 07:36:39 PM
Keighley & Worth Valley Railway.

When I visited last year I bought myself a couple of wagons. I visited last Wednesday whilst on holiday over in the UK. Had a good look round in the shop but could find no n gauge stuff. I asked the man behind the counter about n gauge and got the reply, "We stopped doing that". And to make matters worse, there were no trains running!  :( . If any one intends visiting - no n gauge and make sure you look at the timetable before you go!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on September 24, 2019, 09:56:42 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on September 19, 2019, 10:14:09 AM
Yep. They won't let you in with an infection but are quite happy to let you out with one :unimpressed:

Never a truer word spoken. I'm still on crutches, eight months after four draining operations and a skin graft!  >:(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TrevL on September 26, 2019, 11:35:58 AM
After having few unexplained bladder infections over the past couple of years, the doc finally ordered a series of blood tests.  All came back negative except one, and I had to get retested. This one came back and confirmed I'm borderline type 2 diabetic.  Now here's the gripper.  I'm 67, retired, walk my dog a couple of miles twice a day, shoot archery twice a week, so pretty fit for my age.  BMI of 23, cholestrol of 5, haven't taken suger in ten years, size 32" trousers are slack on me, so pretty atypical for the condition.  I eat a balanced diet with plenty of veggies and fruit.  I have none of the usual symptoms (except bladder infections seemingly????).   So now I'm waiting to see a dietician.  Doc said I need to cut down on carbs, so bread, pasta, potates are on the no-go list. So not a happy bunny.

On the bright side, I get to put my blood/sugar pinprick sharps in my controversially acquired sharps bin.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 26, 2019, 11:45:46 AM
No bread, pasta or potatoes  :goggleeyes:. As you say, there is a bright side  :). Hope things improve for you and having had one a couple of months ago, (related to the prostate), I know bladder infections are not fun!  :no:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on September 26, 2019, 01:59:41 PM
Sympathies Trev.

I'm in a similar state where all the nice things, according to the Doc, are going to be off limits for a while.

Mind you, just before I descend into that dietary dreariness, we're off for a few days where we eat too much, have a few beers and get all the chores done.

October to just before Christmas will be hell but at least I'll have the railway to keep my mind of roast spuds, Yorkshire puds and chocolate cake- I hope!  :(

Bon chance!

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on September 26, 2019, 04:04:05 PM
Quote from: TrevL on September 26, 2019, 11:35:58 AM
After having few unexplained bladder infections over the past couple of years, the doc finally ordered a series of blood tests.  All came back negative except one, and I had to get retested. This one came back and confirmed I'm borderline type 2 diabetic.  Now here's the gripper.  I'm 67, retired, walk my dog a couple of miles twice a day, shoot archery twice a week, so pretty fit for my age.  BMI of 23, cholestrol of 5, haven't taken suger in ten years, size 32" trousers are slack on me, so pretty atypical for the condition.  I eat a balanced diet with plenty of veggies and fruit.  I have none of the usual symptoms (except bladder infections seemingly????).   So now I'm waiting to see a dietician.  Doc said I need to cut down on carbs, so bread, pasta, potates are on the no-go list. So not a happy bunny.

On the bright side, I get to put my blood/sugar pinprick sharps in my controversially acquired sharps bin.
Chances are you'll be put on metaformin pills like me, not injections.  People in my family get to 50 and then become diabetic,  my dad did, my grandmother did,  one of my sisters is on warning..  This claim of it being because you're overweight /eatingbthe wrong this I don't think is entirely true..
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on September 26, 2019, 04:14:13 PM
and keep clear of fruit  :'(

SWMBO's sugar went up recently, nurse went through what she had been eating differently since last review ..
"grapes, apples, bananas, cherries, in other words much more fruit" :thumbsup:

apparently  :thumbsdown: as fruit is high in sugars  :confused2:

just can't keep up with the latest 'fads' of healthy eating, I'll stick to roast beef, roast tatties etc and sod them all  :dighole:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on September 26, 2019, 04:29:08 PM
Quote from: class37025 on September 26, 2019, 04:14:13 PM
and keep clear of fruit  :'(

SWMBO's sugar went up recently, nurse went through what she had been eating differently since last review ..
"grapes, apples, bananas, cherries, in other words much more fruit" :thumbsup:

apparently  :thumbsdown: as fruit is high in sugars  :confused2:

just can't keep up with the latest 'fads' of healthy eating, I'll stick to roast beef, roast tatties etc and sod them all  :dighole:

Very true, but the ripeness of the fruit has a profound effect and you can eat fruit before it gets sweet.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on September 26, 2019, 07:35:22 PM
Quote from: TrevL on September 26, 2019, 11:35:58 AM
After having few unexplained bladder infections over the past couple of years, the doc finally ordered a series of blood tests.  All came back negative except one, and I had to get retested. This one came back and confirmed I'm borderline type 2 diabetic.  Now here's the gripper.  I'm 67, retired, walk my dog a couple of miles twice a day, shoot archery twice a week, so pretty fit for my age.  BMI of 23, cholestrol of 5, haven't taken suger in ten years, size 32" trousers are slack on me, so pretty atypical for the condition.  I eat a balanced diet with plenty of veggies and fruit.  I have none of the usual symptoms (except bladder infections seemingly????).   So now I'm waiting to see a dietician.  Doc said I need to cut down on carbs, so bread, pasta, potates are on the no-go list. So not a happy bunny.

On the bright side, I get to put my blood/sugar pinprick sharps in my controversially acquired sharps bin.
I've been type 2 diabetic for the past 20 years. I eat a fairly sensible diet - not too much of anything. Still have half a sandwich for lunch and cereal for breakfast the odd pint when @daveg (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=1087) drags me kicking and screaming out to lunch. The secret is, as I said, is not too much of those things and not too often.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on September 26, 2019, 09:07:48 PM
Yeah @Malc (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=497) , I have to wear ear defenders cos you make so much noise!  :P

Happy Days!

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on September 27, 2019, 12:35:45 PM
My sailing friend has finally made a home run, and escaped from hospital and got home.
He's now got six weeks at home using a walker to start with then return for a checkup..
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 28, 2019, 10:34:25 PM
A short while ago, I put in an offer for an item on eBay, as it was a 'Buy It Now' or 'Make Offer' item. I appreciate that the amount involved was only a few pounds, but I thought "nothing ventured, nothing gained". I have just received a reply declining my offer, stating that the idea of 'Buy It Now' was for the purchase of multiple items, which would allow for a reduction in the combined postage. The item was listed with free economy postage! Err, how can you discount something that does not cost owt?  :confused1:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on September 29, 2019, 12:34:49 AM
Quote from: dannyboy on September 28, 2019, 10:34:25 PM
A short while ago, I put in an offer for an item on eBay, as it was a 'Buy It Now' or 'Make Offer' item. I appreciate that the amount involved was only a few pounds, but I thought "nothing ventured, nothing gained". I have just received a reply declining my offer, stating that the idea of 'Buy It Now' was for the purchase of multiple items, which would allow for a reduction in the combined postage. The item was listed with free economy postage! Err, how can you discount something that does not cost owt?  :confused1:

Please note that many sellers on FleaBay have the business acumen of a flat cap.

I've come across equally cuckoo logic from time to time.

:laugh3:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on October 04, 2019, 01:29:51 PM
Really sad today as we had to say goodbye to our beautiful Blue.

(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/58/1087-051217072936.png)

Pal, worrier of pheasants and other wildlife. Chief Railway Room Assistant and general all round lovely boy. Laid to rest where the flowers will grow.

The house already seems so different.

Dave G   :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on October 04, 2019, 01:34:44 PM
Sorry, Dave.

Chin up, mate.  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Delboy on October 04, 2019, 01:37:39 PM
So sorry to hear about your loss, Dave. Lots of great memories no doubt?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: tutenkhamunsleeping on October 04, 2019, 01:45:58 PM
Sad news.  I shall raise a glass to him tonight :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 04, 2019, 01:48:04 PM
Sorry to hear about Blue Steve. Having had to have one of our cats put to sleep a few months ago, I know what you are going through. Keep the memories.  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on October 04, 2019, 01:53:12 PM
Deepest sympathy from myself, and Chaos and Penfold.

A cat makes a house a home. They leave an awful big hole in your world.

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Train Waiting on October 04, 2019, 01:58:28 PM
So sorry to hear this, Dave

In July 2017, Panda died in my arms.  Like Pal she is buried amongst the flowers and has a piece of slate, from Honister mine, beautifully inscribed with her name.

In November 2017, just after Armistice Day, Poppy arrived.  She often sits for ages in front of Panda's special place... contemplating.  She loves the train set room and is very happy to assist with modelling activities.

With kindest regards.

John
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on October 04, 2019, 03:07:47 PM
Sympathies from us too, he was a beauty. We've both had 4-legged family members for as long as we can remember and saying goodbye never gets any easier. (You may remember we lost our old dog Markie just over a year ago.)

The best cure is to go to your local rescue centre and come home with another one!

All the best,

Chris (and Blanche)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on October 04, 2019, 03:17:28 PM
Very sorry for your loss @daveg (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=1087) .

We in the west send our condolences (including Mrs Skyline, The Gremlin, Crumble and Nimitz).

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 04, 2019, 03:58:08 PM
I've just given Hookey a huge hug and somewhat dampened his coat at your announcement, Dave.
Having been in the same situation before I know what you feel :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on October 04, 2019, 08:37:02 PM
To some people a cat or a dog are just another animal but to others they are part of the family and are just as important and no matter what they cost it's worth it for all the love and comfort they give you in return ,so Val and me send our sympathy and WE know just how you are feeling .
Another pet will never replace the one you loose but will soon give you the love you miss .
Out little dog Mitzi will never replace our Buster but she has a character of her own and I've grown to love her .
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on October 04, 2019, 09:27:51 PM
Such a sad loss Dave, and so unexpected. I know what he meant to you both. Sympathy from Jenny and I.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on October 04, 2019, 10:00:06 PM
Thanks for all the kind words - much appreciated.

A measure (or two) of Southern Comfort hasn't made it go away but it has softened the end of a hard day.

Sleep tight folks.  :sleep:

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on October 08, 2019, 01:26:16 PM
After a rather slow decline in charge holding capability, my almost 5 year old iPad has finally shown me the Big Black Screen and will no longer charge. :( :( :(

I know these darned expensive devices have a finite battery life of between 4 and 6 years (one chap online has researched and concluded the average life expectancy is 4 years and 3 months), but its still a sad day when it finally dies.

But at least I had it all backed up so I can get a new/refurbished one back up and running soon. :thumbsup: All the main files I've made are also on my Mac and again backed up on a remote drive.

Only when you no longer have one do you realise how much you seem to rely on/get addicted to/just plain use, one of these devices, be it Apple or Android.  I'm now wondering whether to replace it or do without and reclaim those hours 'lost' looking at news items, playing games, and just surfing or otherwise wasting my time. :hmmm:

A new battery will be £99, but the replacement is actually achieved by Apple by issuing a refurbed iPad in stead of the original, and with only a 90 day warranty according to the Apple Care assistant I spoke to yesterday.  A brand new iPad is minimum of a little over £300, with a direct replacement of mine being £448.

Isn't the modern life wonderful?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on October 08, 2019, 02:05:52 PM
Have you tried looking for an independent to replace the battery?

The PC tech that fixed my laptop (overnight, for £30, when the supplier had tried four times without success to rectify a year long problem), also repairs 'i' stuff, screens, batteries etc.

I'd be looking there first.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: njee20 on October 08, 2019, 02:51:56 PM
They're fairly easy to DIY. Significantly easier than (for example) trying to fit sound into an N gauge loco, if you indulge in such things!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on October 08, 2019, 03:58:27 PM
Thanks guys, I thought that might be an option, then I watched this video just now on how to replace the battery DIY-style.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lrB0fe_6fGk (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lrB0fe_6fGk)

With the cost of sourcing a reliable battery and the evident possibilities of not achieving a good result and being left with some electronic scrap, I think i'll leave it to Apple to take my £99 for an as-new replacement.

And locally to me cheapest I can find to do the job, with no worthwhile guarantee is £70+, and I still would have a 5 year old iPad.

:beers:

PS - don't watch the video link unless you are really, really tired and can't sleep cos its  .... zzzzzzzzz :sleep:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: njee20 on October 08, 2019, 04:22:18 PM
Yes I definitely wouldn't advocate using those high street places, the number of people who've had their devices broken by them is massive! I did my son's iPad screen a few weeks ago, no idea why the guy in the video uses playing cards, you get perfectly reasonable tool kits with more suitable tools for pence (in fact every screen I've bought has included one).

£99 for Apple to do it is good, a reasonable choice indeed.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on October 10, 2019, 08:17:27 AM
Talking of battery and recharging issues, has anyone noticed that recent phones (at least the ones at the cheaper end of the mobilverse) have inaccessible batteries?

I had to junk my old HTC one when the battery completely failed, and I notice that my replacement (also HTC) is showing similar symptoms. It took ages to charge today, and is down to 67% after only half an hour or so looking at the NGF.

My local Vodaphone shop doesn't stock htc anymore because of battery problems.

However, I note that my wife's new phone, a low-end Samsung model, is also fully sealed.

Is this the new throw away e-waste money-making environmental threat?

In the time it took to type this, my battery is now down to 64%!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 10, 2019, 08:36:18 AM
It is not just the cheaper end! I have a Samsung Galaxy S10 and that does not have a replaceable battery, although doing a quick search shows ways of getting round this.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on October 10, 2019, 10:25:39 AM
I just realised I've had Bluetooth turned on for a few days. One of my daughters tells me that Bluetooth chews up power.

True?  :hmmm:

I turned it off twenty minutes ago and it seems to have slowed the battery depletion  :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 10, 2019, 10:29:18 AM
I am not sure, but I believe when Bluetooth is turned on, it is constantly looking for, and maintaining, a connection, so the battery is almost constantly in use. Could be wrong, but I am sure someone can confirm or deny this.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on October 10, 2019, 10:50:05 AM
Your theory sounds good...

Depletion definitely slowed down since I turned it off.

Perhaps I should move this to computer problems, but I still stick with my unhappy post, ie, fully sealed phones.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TrevL on October 10, 2019, 10:57:19 AM
Yes, true, bluetooth does use up your power, also true of wifi, both always looking.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on October 10, 2019, 11:04:55 AM
Yup. That's my non-tech understanding also.

The system 'pings' regularly to see what device may respond.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on October 10, 2019, 11:21:11 AM
Very true of Bluetooth <v.3 but Bluetooth v.4< has significantly improved power management. On my current phone (iPhone XR) I leave Bluetooth (v.4) to manage itself. More power would be consumed during the power-up of the Bluetooth components, than during a 24 Hr period of continuous standby.

In a typical day I'll listen to ~2 Hrs of music via Bluetooth, make ~60 minutes of calls, send/receive ~20 SMS, be connected to WiFi for ~22 Hrs. At the end of the day, my battery capacity will be down by ~20%.
:beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on October 10, 2019, 11:30:28 AM
At the risk of further de-railing this thread (although you will note some unhappiness from me further on), something else to bare in mine with phone battery life is how you charge it.

Older types of rechargeable batteries could suffer from the so-called "memory effect", whereby they stop charging above a certain point if they were continuously dis-connected before being fully charged or not run-down to flat (or nearly flat) before charging.

It is from this I believe that we have got into the "leave it charging over night" habit, having flattened it throughout the day.

My understanding is, after reading, Lithium ion doesn't especially like that. It's much better to give these batteries "Little top ups", rather than putting them under long periods of "stress" whilst charging. Not an expert, this is based on some reading.

Now, if its advisable to be putting large quantities of these batteries into vehicles for primary power supply when it's obvious most drivers will "leave it charging over night", thats another matter.... >:D

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on October 10, 2019, 01:04:42 PM
Interesting to know how/when battery is charged affects the battery life on modern phones and tablets.

Re my iPad battery problem: took it to the Apple Store in Milton Keynes yesterday (a near 5 hour drive round trip!) but able to visit family and do shopping too, so not too bad. Good diagnosis of dead/"swollen" battery and immediate decision by them that it would be replaced by same, new, unused model there and then. So far so good.

Problem was they didn't have one in stock, but could get one in three days. Second problem is that I would HAVE to collect, they won't deliver/post it to me. :hmmm: :( :thumbsdown:

Nice young lady advises I could contact Apple Support and ask them to send out a postal pack to return mine and get replacement sent ASAP. Fair idea I thought, not wishing to do another 5 hour drive.

Contacted Apple Support this morning about this. In short - what a  :censored: :censored: palaver! :veryangry:

By the time I had endured over two hours of phone calls - NO exaggeration - and talking to a real stupid and unknowledgeable 'advisor', then finding all contact telephone numbers end up being routed to the same automated female voice who (?) claims she (it?) can understand full sentences, but in fact just hurls me into the dark abyss of dead (after over five minutes of patient waiting) or musically adorned unanswered lines, I was fit to scream. :veryangry:

Eventually I get through to someone who does seem to know most of what they needed to know, and now I'm waiting for a postal pack, will then send my iPad to them, and, upon checking after they receive it, they will send me a new iPad.

All in all, Apple may charge a fortune for their devices; their Apple Store may be full of clever techies who know how to help (I lost count of how many Apple logo T-shirt wearing staff I saw in the MK store. Lets just say lots and lots), but their telephone lines are a disgrace and some of their Apple Support telephone advisors don't know what 'customer service' is supposed to mean. :no: Nor, so it seems to me have much of a clue about their company's own procedures and practises. :veryangry:


But as far as batteries are concerned on iPads - if it's failed they will replace entire iPad with the same, unused model, for a fee of £89 plus £7.44 postage. A 2014 iPad like mine is evidently not a common beast in unused form now, so I imagine that next time it fails I'll have to buy a new one.

As to where all these now defunct batteries end up is anybody's guess. Perhaps a geologist in a few million years time will be able to identify the times we are living in today as a distinct dark layer in the sedimentary rock layers, characterised by a high level of lithium, plastic, some traces of other heavy and precious metals, and the stench of long-dead environmental dreams.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Pjlons83 on October 10, 2019, 06:08:30 PM
I've just opened by bag of "5" capacities that I ordered from eBay a few days ago. Only to find that the single item was a packet of 5. So I now have 25!

If anybody is in the market for 470u 16v capacitors then I'm your man!  :help:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 10, 2019, 06:15:41 PM
Look at it this way - you can put the spare 24 in a safe place and then, when you need another, (in a couplee of years?), you will not be able to find them, so you can order another 1, (or 25).  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on October 10, 2019, 06:17:40 PM
Apparently Apple are working on a solution to the battery problem - clockwork computers/phones.

Remember, I told you about it first :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on October 10, 2019, 06:22:23 PM
There is an article on the BBC that says that even in 200 years Artificial Intelligence will never be able to replace politicians.  That was my last hope I was hoping for something positive before the end of the month  :D

Apparently they cannot make them stupid enough  8)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 10, 2019, 09:22:25 PM
Quote from: daffy on October 10, 2019, 01:04:42 PM
Perhaps a geologist in a few million years time will be able to identify the times we are living in today as a distinct dark layer in the sedimentary rock layers, characterised by a high level of lithium, plastic, some traces of other heavy and precious metals, and the stench of long-dead environmental dreams.

Actually I'm sure I saw that episode of Star Trek Voyager not so long ago.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on October 10, 2019, 09:25:15 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on October 10, 2019, 09:22:25 PM
Quote from: daffy on October 10, 2019, 01:04:42 PM
Perhaps a geologist in a few million years time will be able to identify the times we are living in today as a distinct dark layer in the sedimentary rock layers, characterised by a high level of lithium, plastic, some traces of other heavy and precious metals, and the stench of long-dead environmental dreams.

Actually I'm sure I saw that episode of Star Trek Voyager not so long ago.

Look on the bright side, there will still be a geologist alive in a few million years time.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on October 31, 2019, 08:00:23 PM
i have had a cold for over a week that has set of a Colitis flare
so made an appointment at the doctors this morning  to get some meds for my colitis
doctor gives me a good going over and tells me i have pneumonia and that it may be an infection in my heart so off to A&E i am sent
so after lots of tests and chest x ray i am told my heart is ok but my pneumonia is very bad and to have been signed me of work for two weeks
so a big thank you to east Surry hospital for the great care they gave me this afternoon
but on the up side i may get some modeling while off sick

John
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 31, 2019, 08:02:05 PM
Sorry to hear about the health problems John, but, as you say, time to do a bit of modelling.  :thumbsup: :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 31, 2019, 10:08:44 PM
Sorry you're crook, John, but the good news is your ticker is OK.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on October 31, 2019, 10:14:26 PM
Take it easy and hope you get well soon. :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Pjlons83 on November 01, 2019, 07:34:37 AM
99% of my modelling is done in the evening, sometimes quite late depending what I'm doing. I know sometimes I should just stop when I'm tired but you know when you really want to get something done or you're just so far into something you cant stop?.... Well last night in hindsight I shouldn't have even started but I did as I'd got myself all excited about some transfers I want to make. I've done this before and it worked really well so I was determined.

Anyway, it turns out I completely forgot how I did it last time, after a few hours faffing around I finally got them printed on the (expensive) transfer paper after lots of test prints on normal paper and new inks installed.... I then spent ages getting them the right size; measure, cut, offer up, trim, offer up, trim etc... and then onto the plate of water!  :censored: :censored:

Yep. I totally forgot the spray lacquer step so all the ink just turned the little pool water on the plate into a pretty puddle of expensive ink and transfer paper!  :-[ :-[ 
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on November 01, 2019, 07:47:37 AM
@Pjlons83 (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=6379)

We have all been there and if it's any comfort I did the exact same thing (albeit with a couple of tiny numbers) a couple of weeks back.

Annoying as it is, you won't do it again!

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on November 01, 2019, 12:09:47 PM
Quote from: JBQFC on October 31, 2019, 08:00:23 PM
so a big thank you to east Surry hospital for the great care they gave me this afternoon


Hope you feel better soon John @JBQFC (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=4019) . East Surrey used to have a poor reputation, but two of my friends have literally had their lives saved there, so I think you are in good hands.

Happy modelling!

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on November 01, 2019, 05:56:50 PM
thank you all for the get well messages still not feeling great but today been doing what i always do when ill watching star wars episodes 4 to 6
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Philip. on November 09, 2019, 04:45:35 PM
Caught my first cold in ages, runny nose, cough, sore throat, headache, the lot  :'( can't even blame the kids, they've left home  ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on November 09, 2019, 08:46:33 PM
Sorry to hear that but blame the kids anyway >:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on November 09, 2019, 08:49:15 PM
Have a hot toddy, (or two) and go to bed with a cold, but happy.   :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on November 10, 2019, 03:54:19 PM
We went to a golden wedding do 3 weeks ago and one of our friends was full of cold. That was a Friday.  By Sunday, my better half was sniffing but I was OK. By Monday, I was sniffing. Just getting over it now.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on November 10, 2019, 05:23:40 PM
If I'm sniffing tomorrow morning after reading your post @Malc (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=497) , I'll be wondering about a computer virus! :o :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on November 10, 2019, 06:58:43 PM
Quote from: daffy on November 10, 2019, 05:23:40 PM
If I'm sniffing tomorrow morning after reading your post @Malc (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=497) , I'll be wondering about a computer virus! :o :hmmm:
Should be all right, I think I'm past the contagious stage.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on December 12, 2019, 12:34:02 PM
I see that the Eden Project has upset everyone down here in Cornwall by showing a picture of a "Cornish Pasty" on its web page.
Nothing wrong with that you might say.
Well.......it has a top crimp (that's the strange way they do things in Devon) and worse.........the ingredients include carrots and peas.......carrots and peas, what sort of ingredient is that in a pasty!
Grrrrr  :doh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on December 12, 2019, 01:05:42 PM
what jam was in the other end ?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jack on December 12, 2019, 02:18:04 PM
Quote from: class37025 on December 12, 2019, 01:05:42 PM
what jam was in the other end ?

Jam? :no:   Maybe apple as in the sort you put in a pie, (anyway according to my Cornish grandmother-in-Law the two part pasty is a bit of myth).

And as for peas and carrots in a pasty - well  that would be like giving your "Brain on a chain" Trill budgie food in his dog bowl!!...  ;D

(Must go and find my battle bowler and await incoming...  ;D  )
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on December 12, 2019, 04:25:27 PM
re brain on a chain...

when I went in it was 2 1/2 lbs of raw meat plus 1/2 lb of biscuits per day, tinned meat was only held as an emergency supply.

of course in the end the bean counters powers that be decided to feed tinned meat all the time....

pity, cause some of the water-babies used to make lovely casseroles if you took down a bit of spare meat at the start of your evening airfield patrol  ::)

by the time you'd completed the first patrol and got back to the crash bays, they'd be ready to serve, just at your break time....

bowl for you, bowl for hairy beast  :food:

I noted that on wiki they say the two part pasty is no more, but I remember hearing that it was first in one end, pud in the other.. learn something every day.... mind you, would not dare to argue with your grandmum-in-law   :-X
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on December 16, 2019, 06:35:28 PM
Having mentioned elsewhere that I am rather under the weather right now, I thought I'd moan away here.

Last Tuesday my wife and I drove down to Somerset for a present exchange with her daughter. I'd been feeling a tad tired, and was having waterworks problems and thought a virus was probably at the heart of it, but after a lengthy journey from Lincolnshire in atrocious weather via Newbury to pick up one of my grand-daughters, I was totally exhausted.

At 7:00pm at the B&B we'd booked just south of Bristol my heart rate was 120bpm, and stayed that way until after 5:00am, and I had a severe headache. By now my ability to pass water had diminished considerably and the process was becoming very painful. Sleep was entirely elusive.

With heart rate returning to normal by 10:00am we spent the day with family, but by evening it was clear we'd have to go home earlier than planned, and that night was again sleepless, now due entirely to my waterworks problem. Despite the urgent need to pass water being almost permanent, by morning I had only managed a cupful, and the pain level each time I tried was now at the vocal stage, subsiding only minimally between-times.

Not wishing to be far from home we drove home after breakfast, reaching Boston Hospital A&E around 2:15pm. Four hours later we left for home, me now the less than proud owner of a fully fitted, state of the art, catheter and leg bag. :(, and a possible preliminary diagnosis of a UTI. Oh yes, and i'd thoroughly enjoyed  :no:  :no: a prostate exam, which the Doc thinks I might have passed.

The A&E experience was pretty normal: they were very busy, I was not a priority, a Junior Doctor performed what I think was his first ever catheterisation, and support staff were notably absent. All in all, by the time he'd finished and moved on to his next patient (gawd 'elp 'em), I had a poorly fitted leg bag, a sharp pain at the tip of the problem, and later found I had an unwanted leak from you-know-where, so within two hours of getting home I was calling our local (12 miles away) Urgent Treatment Centre in Skegness, where i spent another fun filled two hours having everything 'adjusted'. Even then, when i got in the car to go home at 12:30am on Friday, I nearly passed out with the pain of sitting, as the original catheter insertion had caused 'trauma' to various tissues, with a minor weeping of blood at the insertion point.

To cap it all the antibiotics I was given at Boston had come complete with side effects, to wit, a bad headache, involuntary body movements, and nervous itching.

Since then things have been very slow to improve, and sleep has been disturbed each night, pain has come in explosive bursts, often unexpectedly, and all in all I feel shattered.

Though the brilliant nurse who helped me at Skegness referred my case to the District Nurse service, today we got a telephone call and were told that they were busy and if I had any issues I should go to Skegness.

And an attempt to get an appointment with my GP for a referral for scans and other tests (the cause of my problem not having yet been ascertained) proved fruitless today, the earliest I can get to see him being Wednesday afternoon.

Heigh ho!

End of moan.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on December 16, 2019, 06:50:31 PM
Wishing you a speedy recovery Mike. :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 16, 2019, 07:00:13 PM
My sympathies Mike. Having experienced many of your symptoms, I can understand what you are going through. After initially being told, "it probably is cancer", and then being told a couple of years later, "it probably isn't cancer", I was put on a daily tablet called 'Combodart', which I have to take 'ad infinitum' They have shrunk my prostate and brought my PSA levels back to near normal, about 5, from a high of well over 20. I urge you to keep pestering the medics until you get a proper diagnosis and get the necessary treatment. I have said a few times before on the forum, please gentlemen, get your G.P. to check your PSA. As I have proved, a high PSA level and 'waterworks' problems are not always a sign of something serious. Good luck to you.  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on December 16, 2019, 07:18:50 PM
Take it easy Daffy.
I hope your symptoms improve in time for you to enjoy Christmas and you go on to make a full recovery.
Martin.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on December 16, 2019, 07:48:27 PM
Seconded...  :thumbsup:

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on December 16, 2019, 07:54:54 PM
Get well soon Daffy.

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on December 16, 2019, 08:12:00 PM
Many thanks guys for your good wishes.  :thumbsup:

It's all a bit worrying, and although it may not be a prostate issue, as my parents and and a brother all had cancer in their lives, although the latter is now hale and hearty, it's a great worry. So yes David, I shall be badgering and bothering the medics with my usual polite forcefulness until things are diagnosed and treated properly.  A PSA test is top of my agenda now.  :thumbsup: As it stands I am due to have the catheter removed for tests soon, and it's likely they'll prescribe a prostate-shrinking drug anyway as a safeguard.

Two additional comments: did you know that Restless Leg Syndrome and Catheterisation are very poor bed fellows?   :'(

And are bladder problems at Christmas time inversely proportional to bank accounts, as my bank account is decidedly empty at the moment?  :hmmm:  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 16, 2019, 08:36:13 PM
Quote from: daffy on December 16, 2019, 08:12:00 PM
all had cancer in their lives, although the latter is now hale and hearty, it's a great worry.

I must admit, I was a bit worried when the Doc's first mentioned cancer as it runs in our family. Grandmother, father, two aunts, a cousin and my little sister all succumbed to it. Plus my other sister has had it, but fortunately is now clear. I think that is why now I just get on with life, if sh*t happens, it happens. I sincerely hope that in your case it is just an infection - I had one earlier in the year, extremely painful - two lots of antibiotics and a fortnight later, cleared up.  And please do not worry Mike, all that does is give you ulcers!  ;)

Empty bank account - full bladder.   :hmmm:

Addit: One other thing Mike, if you ever want to discuss 'things', just PM me.  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Train Waiting on December 16, 2019, 08:39:45 PM
Best wishes, Mike.

John
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on December 16, 2019, 09:19:41 PM
I hope the medics get you sorted soonest, Mike.
What you are going through sounds pretty awful and sleep deprivation helps no one.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on December 16, 2019, 09:38:05 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on December 16, 2019, 09:19:41 PM
I hope the medics get you sorted soonest, Mike.
What you are going through sounds pretty awful and sleep deprivation helps no one.

Thanks Mick, and yes, I do get S.A.D. most years, so I expect my ability to deal with this is somewhat compromised at the moment.
As for poor sleep, the odd thing about the last few nights is the effect of the antibiotic ( Trimethoprim) which, when I do get to sleep for short periods, gives me the weirdest, almost hallucinogenic dreams.

David - I thank you for your comments, and will PM you tomorrow.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on December 18, 2019, 04:42:47 PM
I know how you are suffering, Mike. As a diabetic, I was suffering with a UTI about every 3 months. Eventually I got referred to a urologist who did all sorts of tests, including taking a look inside my bladder (not a pleasant experience). He recommended a prophylactic dose of antibiotics, which I have taken on a night for the last 5 years. Now I find out the antibiotics can cause some lung condition or other, so I have to discontinue them after Xmas. Hopefully my diabetes is better controlled now and the infections won't reoccur. Fingers crossed.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 18, 2019, 07:19:21 PM
My fingers are crossed for you Malc.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on December 19, 2019, 11:17:21 AM
Thanks Malc. I wouldn't wish a single UTI on anybody, let alone one every three months!

I loved the comments made at the hospital when I had mine fitted: "You might experience some discomfort", and "You'll soon find things settle down". All lies in my case, but I saw my GP yesterday and he reckons all is progressing as it should. I now have appointments in two weeks time for a blood test and another consultation with the Doc. My prostate is still not ruled out as problematic but I won't let that thought bother me too much over Christmas and New Year.

Sorry to hear your drug regime has to be stopped Malc. Will an alternative be offered, or will you be on what a previous GP of mine called "a watchful wait"?

So many drugs have possible side effects, most listed in the small print in the packs, but it's impossible to know which ones, if any, will effect you in either the short or long term. I have a history of adverse and atypical reactions to most drugs I've had administered over the years, and finding the one that works and keeps me stable is often a long drawn out affair.
Here's wishing you continued freedom from the long plastic tube!
:beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on December 19, 2019, 09:48:33 PM
When they say a "slight discomfort" they really mean "excruciating pain ".
The GP hopes, as do I, that because my control of the diabetes is much better, there will be less sugar in my urine, so less of a growing medium for bugs. I must remember to drink at least 2 litres of water a day, which is difficult. Give me 2 litres of beer, I can finish that in an hour or so, but water...
If I do keep getting bouts of infection, they will try me on the only other antibiotic left. There is a super antibiotic, but they can't prescribe that long term in case the bugs get resistant.
So I am waiting until the New Year before I risk stopping the drug.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on December 20, 2019, 01:16:47 AM
Quote from: Malc on December 19, 2019, 09:48:33 PM
When they say a "slight discomfort" they really mean "excruciating pain ".
The GP hopes, as do I, that because my control of the diabetes is much better, there will be less sugar in my urine, so less of a growing medium for bugs. I must remember to drink at least 2 litres of water a day, which is difficult. Give me 2 litres of beer, I can finish that in an hour or so, but water...
If I do keep getting bouts of infection, they will try me on the only other antibiotic left. There is a super antibiotic, but they can't prescribe that long term in case the bugs get resistant.
So I am waiting until the New Year before I risk stopping the drug.

If you drink 2 litres of 4% beer then surely you have drunk 96% water haven't you? I'd do that  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on December 20, 2019, 02:09:10 AM
Quote from: Malc on December 18, 2019, 04:42:47 PM
Hopefully my diabetes is better controlled now and the infections won't reoccur.
My daughter is on a keto diet and has had very good success on sugar control resulting in reducing medication from several to one type.  However she is not very fat tolerant so has to reduce the fat content of the diet.  She recommended a read of Diabetes Solution by Richard K. Bernstein.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on December 20, 2019, 02:46:09 AM
After a crappy year on antibiotics and hobbling around on crutches, you all have my sympathies. Take it easy over Christmas, but most of all, enjoy yourselves anyway!  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on December 21, 2019, 10:54:01 AM
Maybe this should be in the Happy thread, but yesterday morning I spent four and a half hours on the Urology Department in Boston Hospital doing crosswords, drinking water, and generally getting bored after the lovely nurse Emma yanked my catheter out and we waited patiently for the sound of Niagara to echo through the disinfected hallways.

Well, Niagara it wasn't, but the tinkling stream is now flowing once more and the drought is over! :thumbsup:

I have to retrain the offending muscles to regain full retention but all in all it looks like the drugs and catheter did their (painful) job.

Fingers crossed for a grand New Year, which I also wish for all.

Happy Christmas! :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: crewearpley40 on December 21, 2019, 12:08:37 PM
Who dislikes christmas shopping ? Just been to local model shop.  Closed. Then supermarkets ..same oldmusic, queue jumping woman, trolley loads 2 to a person,no politeness, then some arrogant woman, on a phone swearing her head off about her ex
Not good.glad im sitting waiting for the bus.

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on December 21, 2019, 12:13:47 PM
join the

BAH-HUMBuG brigade  >:D

been a fully paid up member for years ...

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on December 21, 2019, 12:14:49 PM
I think I'm allergic to supermarkets. The wife won't let me go with her anyway. I think it's something to do with previous experiences of moving unattended trolleys to different aisles, adding certain items to trolleys (sausages in an obviously vegetarians trolley), bumping into a squaddie who was in full camouflage in the fruit & veg aisle and then apologising because I didn't see him, etc etc. I haven't appealed against the ban though.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: crewearpley40 on December 21, 2019, 12:22:29 PM
Thats why i had my walkman in service and annoyed with the woman who swearing down a phone. Walked her trolley clipping the heels of an old lady and catching my thigh. When i said excuse me what sid i receive ?a nasty verbal bombardment. Society
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on December 21, 2019, 12:30:23 PM
I just don't understand the panic from some people, after all ..

they have fridges
they have freezers
the supermarkets will be open boxing day, so it's only one day they are closed

but they act as though the four minute warning has sounded.

pre-plan ?

manners ?

nahhhh
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: exmouthcraig on December 21, 2019, 12:32:26 PM
I'll be at my Sainsbury's at 6.30am Christmas Eve, it will take me 25mins on Scan and Pack I'll be out the door with a full load of traditional Christmas dinner which I cook Christmas day while Mrs EC is 'sorting her horses' code for dragging my heels pretending I have loads to do.

Suits me, I hate her in the kitchen while I'm cooking trying to interfere. As long as I have the radio, a slab of ice cold beer and a few snacks left over from Christmas eve to scoff I'm happy.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on December 21, 2019, 02:52:51 PM
I do my supermarket shop on line! It's easier and as our nearest Tesco is 8 miles away cheaper too.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on December 21, 2019, 03:11:54 PM
that's no fun ...

go in store ...

check model railway mags .. buy if any items of interest

deal with idiot who rams you with trolley  >:D

deal with second idiot who rams you with trolley   >:D

check wine / spirits / beer aisle  :beers:

deal with d******d in car park driving wrong way in one way system [nice big gouge in his car - didn't you see me ... didn't you see directional arrows]

head home, unload, you forgot XXX

open bottle of scottish water ....

all is right with the world  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 21, 2019, 03:16:59 PM
@daffy (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=5634)
I am glad things are improving for you.  Soon be back to 'normal'.  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on December 21, 2019, 04:03:14 PM
Quote from: steve836 on December 21, 2019, 02:52:51 PM
I do my supermarket shop on line! It's easier and as our nearest Tesco is 8 miles away cheaper too.

oh don't start me on that ...

SWMBO makes a list ....

maybe £25 of items....

go to store ....

checkout ....

HOW MUCH  !!!  :censored:

needless to say, list is just a starting point ....

now when I  go down the model shop .....  :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on December 21, 2019, 04:28:57 PM
Went with Mrs Daffy to M&S Food store this morning on the way to Sainsbury's.

Just to buy half a dozen of their lovely mince pies. :thumbsup:

Spent a tad more than they cost - too many temptations one man and his wife can possibly pass by without faltering. :)

At Sainsbury's the rabble were out in force, with the usual car-park polka to contend with. Plenty of trolleys being driven around the aisles by folks who have lost the ability to coordinate eyes with brain. Email advertised vegetables with "long best before date" were nothing of the sort, thus requiring further foray next week into the fray. Went home without buying a thing there.

Now enjoying a mince pie or two to ensure we have the strength to venture forth once again on Monday.

Next year I think we'll hibernate.



Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on December 21, 2019, 06:06:21 PM
It gets really stupid at supermarkets at this time of year.
I did 3 or 4.years as an in-store maintenance technician.  They have to attend the store  Christmas Eve.. 
Punters parking inside trolley parks..
Parking across other shoppers cars or in the entrance to the warehouse loading bay.
I'd often end up acting as traffic warden trying to keep traffic flowing past the filling station as neither would give way.

Punters would,
Do their shopping in night clothes , 
try to push 3 trolleys round at once,
If there was a way to ram something with a trolley they would,
Open fire doors to get out, to save getting through the crowds at the entrance, which of course sets the alarms off.


It does have advantages,   during the last hour the management get desperate to sell all fresh stock that would other wise have to be written off.  One year I came home with a turkey so big,  legs and wings had to be removed to get in the oven and it was 2/3rds off list price.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Calnefoxile on January 03, 2020, 02:33:04 PM

This is more a frustration than unhappy.

I was supposed to be having an Arthroscopy on my right knee today, but thanks to my lovely Wife giving me her sodding cold the anaesthiatist has said that she recommends me to not have the Operation today but to postpone it until 20th January,

Now I kind of understand her thinking in that having the Operation with with a cold brewing 'might' cause complications in the next few days which 'could' include a chest infection, I had no choice but to agree with her.

With SWMBO being a Nurse of some 30 years experience, she did warn me that they may cancel it. I've vented my frustrations with my lovely wife bringing home said cold and have ensured that she understands that she now has to make it up to me in a big way, by ensuring that I am attended too immediately whenever I need a cup of tea  ;) ;) because I'm sure over the next couple of days I will be suffering from full blown, crippling flu and cannot possibly look after myself in anyway, shape or form.

Ahh well it now means I have to go back to work on Monday and not mid-Feb as previously planned  :'( :'( :'(

Cheers

Neal.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 03, 2020, 03:35:37 PM
don't forget to remind her that the best cure for flue is scottish water ... in substantial amounts  :beers:

it may not cure it, but you don't mind the treatment  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on January 03, 2020, 04:48:06 PM
Surely you can't be thinking of going back to work on Monday :no: :o

It could be Man-Flu, and that's really bad  ;) and needs full isolation, probably for a week, and preferably in a train room, with copious supplies of food and beverage made available at all times by a convenient nurse. Thank heavens you have one close at hand.  :thumbsup:

:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: StufromEGDL on January 04, 2020, 10:46:39 AM
Hi Neal,

I must isolate myself from your Man-flu.
Luckily I arrived in MPA yesterday!!

Later,
Stu in EGYP
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Lawrence on January 04, 2020, 01:37:06 PM
Quote from: StufromEGDL on January 04, 2020, 10:46:39 AM
Hi Neal,

I must isolate myself from your Man-flu.
Luckily I arrived in MPA yesterday!!

Later,
Stu in EGYP

Give my regards to the penguins and bennies stills' mate  ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Calnefoxile on January 05, 2020, 03:25:47 PM
Quote from: Lawrence on January 04, 2020, 01:37:06 PM
Quote from: StufromEGDL on January 04, 2020, 10:46:39 AM
Hi Neal,

I must isolate myself from your Man-flu.
Luckily I arrived in MPA yesterday!!

Later,
Stu in EGYP

Give my regards to the penguins and bennies stills' mate  ;)

:laughabovepost: :laughabovepost: :laughabovepost: :laughabovepost: :laughabovepost: :laughabovepost: :laughabovepost:

Now there's a flashback comment if ever I heard/saw one.

Can't be many people on this forum who know what your talking about @Lawrence (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=16)

Cheers

Neal.

P.S. Enjoy @StufromEGDL (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=36) see you when you get back.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Hailstone on January 05, 2020, 04:15:52 PM
Are you there for a while? I suppose the weather at least is reasonable about now. hope you like sheep!

Regards,

Alex
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 05, 2020, 04:21:10 PM
Quote from: Calnefoxile on January 05, 2020, 03:25:47 PM
Quote from: Lawrence on January 04, 2020, 01:37:06 PM
Quote from: StufromEGDL on January 04, 2020, 10:46:39 AM
Hi Neal,

I must isolate myself from your Man-flu.
Luckily I arrived in MPA yesterday!!

Later,
Stu in EGYP

Give my regards to the penguins and bennies stills' mate  ;)

:laughabovepost: :laughabovepost: :laughabovepost: :laughabovepost: :laughabovepost: :laughabovepost: :laughabovepost:

Now there's a flashback comment if ever I heard/saw one.

Can't be many people on this forum who know what your talking about @Lawrence (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=16)

Cheers

Neal.

P.S. Enjoy @StufromEGDL (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=36) see you when you get back.

could make an educated guess, IIRC they had a new heated dog section built a few years ago, not sure if the handlers accommodation is as warm :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 05, 2020, 04:34:01 PM
is 1435 flt still there ?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on January 05, 2020, 04:55:34 PM
Quote from: class37025 on January 05, 2020, 04:34:01 PM
is 1435 flt still there ?

Oooooooo!!!!!

Phantom country!

:drool:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 05, 2020, 04:56:42 PM
thought they'd got that new thing with shoulder pads now  >:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Lawrence on January 05, 2020, 06:45:42 PM
Quote from: Calnefoxile on January 05, 2020, 03:25:47 PM
Quote from: Lawrence on January 04, 2020, 01:37:06 PM
Quote from: StufromEGDL on January 04, 2020, 10:46:39 AM
Hi Neal,

I must isolate myself from your Man-flu.
Luckily I arrived in MPA yesterday!!

Later,
Stu in EGYP

Give my regards to the penguins and bennies stills' mate  ;)

:laughabovepost: :laughabovepost: :laughabovepost: :laughabovepost: :laughabovepost: :laughabovepost: :laughabovepost:

Now there's a flashback comment if ever I heard/saw one.

Can't be many people on this forum who know what your talking about @Lawrence (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=16)

Cheers

Neal.

P.S. Enjoy @StufromEGDL (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=36) see you when you get back.

Oh, I have many interesting tales from my one and only det to MPA, especially as I DJ'd at Lot 22 whilst down there  ;)

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 05, 2020, 07:11:16 PM
Oh Lord - they're all speaking 'in tongues' now ::) :P
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on January 05, 2020, 07:16:08 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on January 05, 2020, 07:11:16 PM
Oh Lord - they're all speaking 'in tongues' now ::) :P

I was not actually thinking those words, but it was on those lines!   ??? ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: StufromEGDL on January 05, 2020, 07:22:54 PM

Hi Lawrence,

Although the 'Lot' doesn't exist anymore, I will probably pop into Brintels (Eric's) to say hi to the Heliops crowd.
Currently, I'm holding SAR/ Comp/ Medevac cover so tied to the block for now.

Later,
Stu in EGYP.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on January 05, 2020, 07:37:41 PM
Tank your next task is to put a translator program on here for us .
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: StufromEGDL on January 05, 2020, 08:51:50 PM
Quote from: class37025 on January 05, 2020, 04:34:01 PM
is 1435 flt still there ?

Indeed it is, as is 1312...not Hercs and Phantoms any more sadly, but Typhoons and the A400M.

Later,
Stu in EGYP
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 05, 2020, 09:02:18 PM
seen some clips of the A400s in the Mach loop....

putting so called yank top guns to shame....

lovely views of the undersides of F-15s against the clouds......

while great shots of the top surfaces of the A400s as they weave through the loop BELOW the photographers.

as usual, RAF leads, USAF follows, as long as it's not too low  >:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on January 05, 2020, 09:16:14 PM
Are the aircraft still named 'Faith', 'Hope', 'Charity', and 'Desperation'?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: StufromEGDL on January 05, 2020, 10:27:52 PM
Hi emjaybee...

Indeed they are and photos below show the decals.

Later,
Stu in EGYP.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on January 05, 2020, 10:47:17 PM
Quote from: StufromEGDL on January 05, 2020, 10:27:52 PM
Hi emjaybee...

Indeed they are but no decals or id on the frame anymore.

Later,
Stu in EGYP.

I did see the original 'Faith' many years ago in Malta. I always thought the addition of 'Desperation' was an interesting choice. It's a nice nod to the past, I'd have loved to have seen the Phantoms with the names on.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on January 06, 2020, 02:44:00 AM
Quote from: Bob Tidbury on January 05, 2020, 07:37:41 PM
Tank your next task is to put a translator program on here for us .
Bob Tidbury

explanation (http://www.montypython.net/scripts/RAFbanter.php)

video version (https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x3v9z74)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on January 06, 2020, 08:30:55 AM
Quote from: railsquid on January 06, 2020, 02:44:00 AM
Quote from: Bob Tidbury on January 05, 2020, 07:37:41 PM
Tank your next task is to put a translator program on here for us .
Bob Tidbury

explanation (http://www.montypython.net/scripts/RAFbanter.php)

video version (https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x3v9z74)

Cor, it's like you're in the Falklands stood in the briefing room.

;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on January 06, 2020, 12:13:28 PM
Quote from: emjaybee on January 05, 2020, 04:55:34 PM
Quote from: class37025 on January 05, 2020, 04:34:01 PM
is 1435 flt still there ?

Oooooooo!!!!!

Phantom country!

:drool:
My first trip down met by Phantoms, then I put in the equipment for Tornado ADV radar testing, last trip down met by Tornados, as I went to survey the equipment for an upgrade (and to calibrate it.).
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Calnefoxile on January 11, 2020, 06:32:23 PM

I've been asked by our frequent flyer friend @StufromEGDL (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=36)  to put these photos up, as he's having some t'internet difficulties 8,000 miles away, anyway enjoy:

(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/86/619-110120182900-860042087.jpeg)
(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/86/619-110120182858-860021675.jpeg)
(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/86/619-110120182858-86002649.jpeg)
(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/86/619-110120182856-860001976.jpeg)
(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/86/619-110120182856-860002346.jpeg)

Cheers

Neal.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: StufromEGDL on January 11, 2020, 07:24:30 PM
Hi Gang,

Thanks @Calnefoxile (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=619) for putting the pics up. I have some bandwidth issues here, so it was easier to message Neal the pics.
However, today's trip resulted in one less bird as part of the wildlife...whoops,😫

Later,
Stu in EGYP
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on January 11, 2020, 07:28:06 PM
AWESOME!!!!!!

:claphappy:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 11, 2020, 08:16:05 PM
wonder if the A400 is any more comfortable than the C-130, guessing not, and presumeably no coffee jockey   :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: StufromEGDL on January 11, 2020, 08:24:51 PM
Hi Gang,

More comfotable ( individual side seats) and filter coffee maker fitted as standard.

Later,
Stu in EGYP
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 11, 2020, 08:34:38 PM
Quote from: StufromEGDL on January 11, 2020, 08:24:51 PM
Hi Gang,

More comfotable ( individual side seats) and filter coffee maker fitted as standard.

Later,
Stu in EGYP

how much a cup  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 11, 2020, 08:53:36 PM
and, do you still get the dreaded

S box "meal" to sustain you through the flight.

personally, recon a rat pack would be more nourishing, but guess all the hexiburners might be a flight safety hazard  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: StufromEGDL on January 11, 2020, 10:20:54 PM
37025

Box meals for pax (full of healthy goodness apparently). Coffee is no charge, but by invite only...🙃

Later,
Stu in EGYP.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 11, 2020, 10:42:27 PM
 :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TrevL on January 15, 2020, 02:59:25 PM
Due the old W7/W10 malarky, building a new 'puter. Ordered the stuff from "Overclockers" (great service I might add), and last night got an email with DPD tracking info. Logged on first thing this morning, and I was 130 on the list, due delivery between 16.00 and 17.00..  The thing is, the van is within a mile of me, so I messaged them to see if I could intercept it.  No, due security issues. Fair enough.  I keep watching the tracker, and the damn van goes right by the end of my street (within 30 yards of my house) with about 90 more deliveries before mine.  Whoever set out the delivery schedule needs his head read! Not happy :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 15, 2020, 07:20:35 PM
When I was in Sales for a company in Bridgnorth we had a manager who didn't drive.
He had no clue as to UK geography and would try to get us to do trips like Eastleigh and Newcastle in the same day ::) Maybe he got a job with DPD
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on January 15, 2020, 09:07:40 PM
I had a manager like that. Leaving Portsmouth, in the evening, for the long drive back to Manchester, he wanted me to drop in to Hereford to look at a problem there on the way back and then drive to Kilmarnock first thing in the morning! I refused.

I got him myself though. He arranged for an installation job to take place in Portsmouth on 27th and 28th December and told me a fortnight before Christmas that I was assigned to supervise the contractor - I took great delight in pointing out that I had already had holidays authorised and had non-refundable ferry tickets booked and accommodation arranged for myself, my wife and our children to spend the full Christmas fortnight in France ... and he had to supervise it himself :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on January 16, 2020, 08:10:43 AM
I was off to a Job near St Andrews, (On Tornado stuff), So the Section secretary booked me into the Golf hotel.... Trouble  was she booked me into the Golf Hotel, Woodhall Spa (Lincolnshire).

Arriving at the Hotel in St Andrews I found it was Closed (it closed for Christmas+- a week), but the Bar was open, so i went in and behind the bar was someone who had served me before (many times)  and he was able to ring round and find me a place just a few hundred yards away..
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on January 16, 2020, 08:22:34 AM
Lucky man!  :thumbsup:

Time to buy a lottery ticket, methinks  :beers:

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on January 21, 2020, 08:43:58 AM
I was woken up this morning by Louisa asking me to get up as she thought one of the cats had had a fit of some sort.  I got up and apparently the cat had his breakfast, then jumped up onto my chair, promptly fell off and, as Louisa described, "started twitching". When I went into the lounge, there he was, dead. So, I had to take Louisa to work in tears, (I was a bit upset myself), and now, when it gets light enough, I have to go dig a hole in the garden. We are now down to four cats and one dog. Whilst I don't have 'favourites', (apart from 'Bella' the one eyed cat who is about 18 years old now), this particular cat had a habit of jumping onto the right arm of my chair, 'talking' to me for a couple of minutes, then walking across my lap to the other chair arm, 'talking' to me again for a couple of minutes and then lying down, half on the chair arm and half on my lap. I will miss that.  :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on January 21, 2020, 08:54:39 AM
As a lover of all animals, but long time cat person, you have my deepest sympathy sir.

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on January 21, 2020, 09:11:38 AM
That sucks my friend. On the up side, he hadn't been suffering a long term illness, disease or injury. He had a meal and passed on swiftly. It is a rare thing for any animal to pass away naturally and quickly, if only we could all go that way.

My condolences to you and your missus.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 21, 2020, 09:46:52 AM
As a cat lover and owner myself, you and Louisa have my deepest sympathies, David :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on January 21, 2020, 09:49:48 AM
I'm not a cat person but I can understand and sympathise with your loss. Best wishes and condolences to you and yours.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on January 21, 2020, 09:55:54 AM
I've never been a huge pet person, but I did have a budgie which was 12 (apparently a long time for a bird) when it carked it just before Christmas.

He would tweet and generally go bananas when you'd come back after being out, and I must admit I miss that.

He had no name, but could talk and say " Georgie's a pretty boy"

Wonder how that happened?  :D

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 21, 2020, 10:03:42 AM
Quote from: Bealman on January 21, 2020, 09:55:54 AM
I did have a budgie which was 12
He had no name, but could talk and say " Georgie's a pretty boy"


Did you ever get the poor budgie's cataracts done, George? :P
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on January 21, 2020, 10:11:20 AM
No, but he was blue, and now bereft of life like another certain blue bird. Beautiful plumage, too :P
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on January 21, 2020, 10:31:24 AM
Quote from: dannyboy on January 21, 2020, 08:43:58 AM
I was woken up this morning by Louisa asking me to get up as she thought one of the cats had had a fit of some sort.  I got up and apparently the cat had his breakfast, then jumped up onto my chair, promptly fell off and, as Louisa described, "started twitching". When I went into the lounge, there he was, dead.

I feel for you both.

We have our fingers crossed today - our 6 month old ginger male is at the vets for castration. We know it is very low risk, but have memories of 9 or 10 years ago, when we put two 6 month old females in for neutering and one died under the anaesthetic before they even started to operate on her.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on January 21, 2020, 06:19:09 PM
Thank you to all who have replied to my post above, by message and the 'Sad' icon - it is nice to know that people do care.  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Train Waiting on January 21, 2020, 06:30:23 PM
Just seen this, David.

That's a terrible thing; I'm really sorry.

I understand fully what you mean by a cat talking to you.  Poppy is very much a conversationalist and isn't pleased if I don't answer when she speaks to me.

With all best wishes.

John and Poppy
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Calnefoxile on January 23, 2020, 11:22:41 AM
Quote from: Calnefoxile on January 03, 2020, 02:33:04 PM

I was supposed to be having an Arthroscopy on my right knee today, but thanks to my lovely Wife giving me her sodding cold the anaesthiatist has said that she recommends me to not have the Operation today but to postpone it until 20th January,

Cheers

Neal.

A quick update:

Had my OP on Monday and am now at home recovering,  although I seem to have grown a couple of eyes on my knee  :D :D :D

Did find a bell app for my phone, but everytime I pressed it the response I got from SWMBO was not the one I expected  :o :o :o who thought that such filth could come out of her, you'd have thought with being a Nurse I'd have more sympathy than, "Get it yourself you lazy %^&*, you need to walk on it"

Anyway after a couple of days of hobbling from the bed to the chair I'm now starting to get a bit more mobile and can make it to the Train Room, so I've now got about 5 weeks before I'm back to work and I'll try and crack on with some modelling.

I'm sure I'll keep you all updated on my progress with stuff, I've lots to do:

Add Stone Lods to my Yeoman & Redland PCA's
Add Coal loads to half of my HAA's
Some NGS Van kits to build
Look at converting some older Farish/Peco wagons to NEM pockets

Think that's the lot, but there's bound to be some more stuff I find as I go along.

Cheers

Neal.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on January 23, 2020, 11:46:41 AM
Glad things went well Neal. As for the next five weeks - make the most of them. And as for SWMBO - you would think you would get more sympathy from a health professional.  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on January 23, 2020, 01:13:23 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on January 23, 2020, 11:46:41 AM
Glad things went well Neal. As for the next five weeks - make the most of them. And as for SWMBO - you would think you would get more sympathy from a health professional.  :)
To health professionals, you are just a piece of meat. I suppose they need to be that way to cope.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on January 23, 2020, 02:11:52 PM
They're not all the same. The surgeon who took me to bits and put me back together again was extremely sympathetic and couldn't do enough.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on January 23, 2020, 07:59:25 PM
My wife was a nurse. If I fall ill, she is very sympathetic and caring - for about 24 hours - after that, it is a case of "Enough, you can sort yourself out now."
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 23, 2020, 08:14:23 PM
Quote from: steve836 on January 23, 2020, 02:11:52 PM
They're not all the same. The surgeon who took me to bits and put me back together again was extremely sympathetic and couldn't do enough.

you sure he put all the bits back ....

and in the right order  :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on January 23, 2020, 08:41:38 PM
Every thing except 80 % of my oesophagus and 40% of my stomach which was affected by cancer. My marbles were lost years ago!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on February 19, 2020, 01:59:03 PM
Having to drink 2 litres of Moviprep today ready for an investigation tomorrow. Not so worried about tomorrow but this stuff tastes awful and even worse, I'm not allowed to wash it down with IPA  :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on February 19, 2020, 02:25:49 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on February 19, 2020, 01:59:03 PM
even worse, I'm not allowed to wash it down with IPA  :(

I thought the Health Service was a caring profession?  ;) Good luck tomorrow John.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on February 19, 2020, 02:30:36 PM
Quote from: stevewalker on January 23, 2020, 07:59:25 PM
My wife was a nurse. If I fall ill, she is very sympathetic and caring - for about 24 hours - after that, it is a case of "Enough, you can sort yourself out now."

could be worse, she could give you a go bag of pills and tell you she needs the bed  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on February 19, 2020, 04:01:17 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on February 19, 2020, 01:59:03 PM
Having to drink 2 litres of Moviprep today ready for an investigation tomorrow. Not so worried about tomorrow but this stuff tastes awful and even worse, I'm not allowed to wash it down with IPA  :(
So use the IPA to clean the track. :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on February 19, 2020, 05:22:31 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on February 19, 2020, 01:59:03 PM
Having to drink 2 litres of Moviprep today ready for an investigation tomorrow. Not so worried about tomorrow but this stuff tastes awful and even worse, I'm not allowed to wash it down with IPA  :(

been there done that go luck hope all go's well

John
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on February 19, 2020, 06:48:59 PM
Quote from: steve836 on February 19, 2020, 04:01:17 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on February 19, 2020, 01:59:03 PM
Having to drink 2 litres of Moviprep today ready for an investigation tomorrow. Not so worried about tomorrow but this stuff tastes awful and even worse, I'm not allowed to wash it down with IPA  :(
So use the IPA to clean the track. :D

Such a waste! Unless you mean isopropyl alcohol of course but that will have to wait a couple of days. If I bend over the layout today who knows what may happen  :goggleeyes:

Quote from: JBQFC on February 19, 2020, 05:22:31 PM

been there done that go luck hope all go's well

John

Thanks John. I'm no virgin to this procedure, about 6 times now I reckon but it doesn't make you any less nervous about the result.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on February 20, 2020, 03:35:09 PM
Just got home and ate 2 quarter pounder burgers immediately as I've not eaten for 42 hours! Usual story, polyps removed and sent away for testing, await the GP call. Was more uncomfortable than before so I had plenty of Entonox, still feeling a little light headed  :laugh3:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on February 20, 2020, 03:37:58 PM
Hope the results come back negative John. Are you sure it is the Entonox making you feel light headed and not the quarter pounders?  ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: GroupC on February 20, 2020, 04:22:16 PM
Quote from: GroupC on January 28, 2019, 04:21:22 PM
Quote from: GroupC on December 09, 2018, 02:23:15 PM
Quite a few pages ago I posted that my friend had found out he has a brain tumour.

Since then it was diagnosed as the least bad sort, still needing surgery to remove however. He's now had another MRI and they told him it wasn't what they first thought. He's going in tomorrow for a 6-hour op to have it removed. All of this is awful enough but he apart from the initial "access" phase into his head, shall we say, he has to be awake for he whole operation.

Sort of puts stuff into perspective really and I cannot begin to imagine how his wife and family will be feeling tomorrow.

If anyone has 5 minutes spare tomorrow from about noon could they please send positive vibes towards Leeds General Infirmary. I would appreciate it greatly.

To refer to the above quote from me...

I went to see my friend today. His tumour which started as Grade 1, the least bad one, turned rapidly into a Grade 4, the absolute worst, hence the surgery I mentioned.

He got back home on New Year's Eve and starts chemo and radiotherapy this Thursday, for 6 weeks, to target the remaining parts of the tumour they were unable to remove during surgery. He told me the whole story of his last few weeks (incl Christmas in LGI) today and you really would not want to have been him!

Incredibly he looks really fit and well and you'd never guess what he's undergone, or what he still has to undergo, or that he even has anything at all wrong with him, from his outward persona, which is great, but of course he still has the cancer.

I'd like to say thanks, if I didn't before, to those who replied, read or even scanned over my initial post. We still need your help! From what he's said the NHS has been amazing (an overused word in society today, but here it is spot on) so huge thanks too, to all at LGI and the various labs which have dealt with him.

So... Keep fighting Peter!

After almost a year of comparative wellness my friend Peter now has a second brain tumour. Chemo won't work apparently and he has refused surgery after the many traumas of the first operation.

Very sadly this means he will almost certainly be leaving us and I can't really bring myself to write much more.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on February 20, 2020, 04:47:44 PM
That is hugely sad but I can understand his decision.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on February 20, 2020, 06:10:02 PM
That is so sad. I feel for him as my 'baby' sister eventually decided that she would have no more medical intervention. Life can be cruel.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on February 20, 2020, 08:04:03 PM
I also understand Peter's decision as my father had to make very similar decisions. It's not easy for those around him either but they do of course have to respect his decision.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on February 28, 2020, 06:55:20 PM
I am unhappy! I have got to the point where I am putting the roof on the station for 'Averingcliffe'. The roof was cut for the two storey section, (three gable 'bits'), and covered in my printed self-adhesive label and I was quite happy with the result. I then realised that I did not have enough printed label remaining to do the long single story bit. No problem thinks I, I will just print another label. Yeh, right. Got it printed and thought that it did not look right so checked it against the roof already done - yup, it is a slightly different shade. So I printed another - same as the first print. I have even got Louisa to check, (in case my eyes are worse than I thought), and yes, she agrees it is a bit different. Since I did the original printing, I have changed the colour cartridge in my printer, but I would have thought the output would be the same from one cartridge to another. So now I have a choice - either cover the single storey bit in the 'wrong' shade and hope nobody notices, (but I will), or re-cover the first bit of roof in the 'wrong' shade as well, so that they match. Problem is, the first bit of roof is stuck down now. Aaagh!  :'(.

Moral of the story - make sure you have enough materials to hand to complete the job in one go!  :doh: :smackedface:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on February 28, 2020, 06:59:30 PM
David

I can't remember what the roof looks like but could you add a light wash of paint or powder to disguise the differing colours?
Martin
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on February 28, 2020, 07:02:14 PM
That is an angle I am thinking about - maybe use a bit of chalk  :hmmm:. I will sleep on it Martin.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on February 28, 2020, 07:36:46 PM
Rooves are not always the same. 12 in  to the ft scale builders often have the same problem, how about doing the nextbit in the new shade and adding one or two slates on the bit already done in the new shade.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on February 28, 2020, 07:42:43 PM
An interesting thought - 'mix and match'.  :hmmm: :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on February 28, 2020, 07:53:17 PM
I've had similar (non rail modelling) issues with colour matching after cartridge changes, so my sympathies are with you David.

If you are going to sleep on it, I suppose it could be said that you will be having a night on the tiles. ;)

:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on February 28, 2020, 08:14:06 PM
  :laughabovepost: Brilliant Mike.  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on February 28, 2020, 10:05:37 PM
@GroupC (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=2036)

:heart: for Peter
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Gordon on March 12, 2020, 12:13:05 AM
Sounds like the time is coming - brace yourselves for the cancellation of model railway shows :-(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on March 21, 2020, 11:34:35 AM
With the closure of our 'Heartbeat' gym classes until further notice I resolved to keep doing some form of exercise so, as the weather seemed to be drying/warming up slightly. the decision was made to get my pushbike prepared for use. All I did was bend down to remove a valve cap and 'Ping' went something in my back and I'm now hobbling around using a walking stick :doh: The pain is so bad at times I feel physically sick. Being abed is great as it takes all weight off my spine but as soon as I'm sat or stood, boy does it hurt. I will not just lie abed, though :no:

As Alannis Morisette would sing 'isn't it ironic' :laugh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on March 21, 2020, 11:39:23 AM
Backs are delicate things. Take care Mick.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on March 21, 2020, 11:41:36 AM
Quote from: dannyboy on March 21, 2020, 11:39:23 AM
Backs are delicate things. Take care Mick.

Thanks, David, but I'm a 'frequent flyer' with this sort of thing so am pretty used to it.
I can just sneeze and trap a nerve in my back so am normally very careful.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Delboy on March 21, 2020, 11:41:59 AM
Sorry to hear about you back, Mick. Normally Ibuprofen would be the ticket but in general we re being advised to limit its use atm due to the coronavirus.
Hope you recover soon. You never know, it may disappear as quickly as it started. Wish the pandemic would then we can all get back to normal asap.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: crewearpley40 on March 21, 2020, 11:45:01 AM
Take it easy mick. Let us know what we can do to help. Railway modelling is a therapeutic thing takes my mind off life and you know we all appreciate you
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on March 21, 2020, 11:49:39 AM
Commiserations Mick. I have a long history of putting my back out so I know just how you feel. Rest up, take the potions that please you (aspirin* or alcohol? :hmmm:). And maybe try to do some spine stretching exercises while lying on your back on the floor - if you can get down there (and up again!) of course.

* Okay, so perhaps ibuprofen is better, but I liked the alliteration.



Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on March 21, 2020, 12:31:55 PM
I've said it before, and I'll say it again, exercise is bad for your health.

Why does no-one listen? Look at joggers, they always look like they're about to keel over.

Look after yourself Mick. I put my back out once try to put a sock on! It's not a nice affliction.

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on March 21, 2020, 12:48:47 PM
know the feeling Mick,
I was pensioned off from the AA for a back injury, many many years ago, and you get used to living with the pain.

I try to keep off pain killers, as they tend, in my experience, to mask the pain, so you don't know if you are doing too much.

most mornings I get out of bed in agony, but once I've got dressed, had a cup of coffee, and walked the dog, it's usually much better.

so my advice is

get a husky  :)

after his/her walk your back will be much better  :thumbsup:

mind you, your feet, ankles, knees, thighs and hips will be killing you instead  :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: woodbury22uk on March 21, 2020, 05:44:25 PM
Mick

Would you like me to send a warm blonde round? Should take your mind off the pain, though she is rubbish at massage. Takes my mind off my sciatica, usually.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on March 21, 2020, 06:16:42 PM
Quote from: woodbury22uk on March 21, 2020, 05:44:25 PM
Mick

Would like me to send a warm blonde round? Should take your mind off the pain, though she is rubbish at massage. Takes my mind off my sciatica, usually.

I didn't know Golden Retrievers could do that.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Mito on March 21, 2020, 08:34:44 PM
It all in the tongue :P
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on March 21, 2020, 08:36:02 PM
ahh, I get it...

she'll come round and make you a sandwich  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on March 21, 2020, 09:00:07 PM
Thanks All, but Liz Hurley is on her way as we speak.
Well - at least in my head she is :laugh3:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on March 21, 2020, 09:01:32 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on March 21, 2020, 09:00:07 PM
Thanks All, but Liz Hurley is on her way as we speak.
Well - at least in my head she is :laugh3:

Mick, I implore you - remember your heart.  ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on March 21, 2020, 09:13:30 PM
Who cares about that? I already have the smile on my face in anticipation :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: exmouthcraig on March 21, 2020, 09:21:31 PM
@Newportnobby (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264)

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Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on March 21, 2020, 09:29:11 PM
 :heart2: :heart2: :thankyousign:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob G on March 22, 2020, 06:41:26 PM
Quote from: exmouthcraig on March 21, 2020, 09:21:31 PM
@Newportnobby (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264)

(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/89/5099-210320212118.jpeg) (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=gallery;sa=view&id=89303)

She looks nice and wholesome Mick.
She might even do some shopping and cleaning for you :)

Keep your spirits up.
Best
Bob
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on March 23, 2020, 10:20:06 AM
I am a contractor and move from project to project, doing typically 18 months at a time. My current client agreed last week to start home working this week (my wife is "vulnerable" and so I don't want to bring the Coronavirus home). This morning we were supposed to go through the fine details of how we were going to manage it at the office, only I arrived and it was all locked up. Drove home, powered up the work laptop, and found that higher management have decided to suspend all work for everyone this week, while they make plans (and some projects may be put on hold completely). Of course all their staff will continue to be paid full wages, while we contractors will be paid nothing  :veryangry:

It's not as if we are dispensible even; of 4 C&I Engineers, 3 of us are contract and the 4th is off sick, long term, having cancer treatment. If we found something else and walked, any replacement would take 4 to 6 months to work up to an understanding of the systems and the work we have already done!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on March 23, 2020, 10:32:56 AM
If they treat you like that I think you should look elsewhere and sod 'em
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on March 23, 2020, 10:34:24 AM
I fully understand your anxiety.

I'm self employed, I do property maintenance, and there's absolutely nothing available to help me. Stressful doesn't even come close.

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on March 23, 2020, 10:46:45 AM
Quote from: steve836 on March 23, 2020, 10:32:56 AM
If they treat you like that I think you should look elsewhere and sod 'em

It's not that easy unfortunately. Almost all my work, despite being from a variety of companies, is tied in to Sellafield, who totally dominate. I am currently contacted to work for Jacobs, but, they are part of a joint venture and I am based in a Sellafield office. Equivalent contracts will almost always have the same end client and they are the ones that have suspended things.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: themadhippy on March 23, 2020, 10:48:37 AM
QuoteI'm self employed, I do property maintenance, and there's absolutely nothing available to help me. Stressful doesn't even come close.
close your company down,at least on paper,and get down the job center and sign on,that way at least youll get a few quid,coucil tax payed,help withaccomadation costs and most important keep your ni payments upto date.once the work picks up sign off
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on March 23, 2020, 10:50:24 AM
Quote from: emjaybee on March 23, 2020, 10:34:24 AM
I fully understand your anxiety.

I'm self employed, I do property maintenance, and there's absolutely nothing available to help me. Stressful doesn't even come close.

Hopefully there will be a help scheme later this week. What is annoying for me is that I can do my work from home, just as well as from the office, but some managers have an attitude of demanding that people are visibly present over all else.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob G on March 23, 2020, 10:53:33 AM
I'm self-employed too. I work in the waste management and renewable energy sector. Waste is supposed to be an important sector, right?

I had three contracts cancelled last Friday. About four months work. And I just paid my Professional Indemnity insurance which was £5k (because there have been a lot of claims recently).

Comedy is all in the....timing.

Bob

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on March 23, 2020, 11:14:55 AM
Check what notice period is defined in your contract - my contract (which is due to end April 6th) allows either party to give one week in notice.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on March 23, 2020, 11:23:38 AM
Quote from: RailGooner on March 23, 2020, 11:14:55 AM
Check what notice period is defined in your contract - my contract (which is due to end April 6th) allows either party to give one week in notice.

The trouble is that there is nothing in the contract to say how many hours you get in that last week - which has never been a problem before, because most people were allowed to work it as normal. If workplaces are closed down, many will just get zero hours that week.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Alan Kyte on March 23, 2020, 11:56:50 AM
Quote from: stevewalker on March 23, 2020, 10:20:06 AM
I am a contractor and move from project to project, doing typically 18 months at a time. My current client agreed last week to start home working this week (my wife is "vulnerable" and so I don't want to bring the Coronavirus home). This morning we were supposed to go through the fine details of how we were going to manage it at the office, only I arrived and it was all locked up. Drove home, powered up the work laptop, and found that higher management have decided to suspend all work for everyone this week, while they make plans (and some projects may be put on hold completely). Of course all their staff will continue to be paid full wages, while we contractors will be paid nothing  :veryangry:

It's not as if we are dispensible even; of 4 C&I Engineers, 3 of us are contract and the 4th is off sick, long term, having cancer treatment. If we found something else and walked, any replacement would take 4 to 6 months to work up to an understanding of the systems and the work we have already done!

This!!, just this is the reason why the new tax regulations that have forced me to go PAYE are so unfair, 30% less money and still all the risk, so evident right now in this current climate.

I've just started working an 18 month contract, again home based and my wife is classed as at risk also.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: talisman56 on March 29, 2020, 02:20:12 PM
About a week before the lockdown muck hit the rotary air movement device, a long-planned and scheculed start was made on replacing our kitchen and converting part of our integral garage into a utility room and downstairs loo.

The work has progressed, to the stage where the floor is ready to receive its layer of tiles - only we can't get any as nobody will deliver them, they're only on shop sale or 'click and collect', neither of which are an option currently, so we are completely stymied.

We're not starving - we have microwave, soup maker and slow cooker available so as long as we can still wander down to the shops occasionally and get food to cook we're OK.

However, this morning, a slow leak in the mixer bar in the shower has got appreciably worse, so I went hunting for a replacement, and found one, and they can deliver - on 9 April!!

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on March 30, 2020, 08:38:51 AM
I had a sad message this morning ,My best mate passed away last night ,I dont think it was Covid 19 as he had been very ill for the passed year after having pnuemonia and being in an induced coma for about two months ,
He had been home for a while then back in hospital ,on and off since before Christmas .
I won't be doing any messages or jokes today .
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on March 30, 2020, 09:06:12 AM
Sorry to hear that Bob and my condolences to his family and yourself. Always sad when a friend leaves us.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: crewearpley40 on March 30, 2020, 09:08:30 AM
Our thoughts go out to you and his family. I would rest and run a couple of trains in his memory
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on March 30, 2020, 09:36:52 AM
Do sad to hear of your loss Bob. My condolences to you and may you raise a glass to his memory and remember the grand times you had together.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Delboy on March 30, 2020, 10:11:08 AM
Deepest sympathy at your loss Bob. Thoughts are with you and his family at this time.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on March 30, 2020, 10:16:18 AM
Sincere condolences to your mate's family and friends, Bob.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on March 30, 2020, 10:19:45 AM
Same from me, Bob
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on March 30, 2020, 09:22:44 PM
This morning my wife's uncle died suddenly. He'd been feeling ill with stomach cramps and one of his sons had travelled up to take him to Sligo General, where he had a massive heart attack.

To my wife, he was the most important and loved family member remaining in Ireland. Obviously we cannot attend the funeral and that is making it even worse for her. More importantly neither can one of his sons who is stuck in France.

Not only was he a well loved family member, well liked in the community, known by all as his wife used to run the local post-office (where they continued to live after it closed down), but also widely known throughout Ireland for his fiddle playing - he was performing only three weeks ago.

Under normal circumstances his funeral would have been absolutely huge, but instead there will be a handful.

Death is inevitable, but how cruel to die at this time.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: crewearpley40 on March 30, 2020, 09:26:10 PM
Steve. From us all. Our wishes, thoughts, prayers and condolences. Stay safe and happy memories. Sure the mods will agree.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: thebrighton on April 07, 2020, 12:06:00 PM
So you paint and line 3 identical coaches and give them a top coat of varnish. 2 go as planned whilst the third decides that the lining transfers you applied will ruck up in numerous places. I could possibly understand if it was the last one to receive the lining in case they hadn't dried enough but it wasn't.
This hobby loves throwing curve balls.....
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on April 07, 2020, 04:21:27 PM
Yup, been there. Not with carriage lining, thankfully, but with wagon transfers which was highly annoying, but not on your scale.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: talisman56 on April 07, 2020, 05:13:16 PM
Quote from: talisman56 on March 29, 2020, 02:20:12 PM
About a week before the lockdown muck hit the rotary air movement device, a long-planned and scheculed start was made on replacing our kitchen and converting part of our integral garage into a utility room and downstairs loo.

The work has progressed, to the stage where the floor is ready to receive its layer of tiles - only we can't get any as nobody will deliver them, they're only on shop sale or 'click and collect', neither of which are an option currently, so we are completely stymied.

We're not starving - we have microwave, soup maker and slow cooker available so as long as we can still wander down to the shops occasionally and get food to cook we're OK.

However, this morning, a slow leak in the mixer bar in the shower has got appreciably worse, so I went hunting for a replacement, and found one, and they can deliver - on 9 April!!

Bit of an update.

The builders have been in and out over the past week or so, and a stack of packs of floor tiles has appeared in the garage. All the plastering, and clean water plumbing has been done, and a hole has appeared in the garden ready for the waste water pipes to be plumbed into the sewer system. This morning, received a text from the site foreman saying that their insurance company has notified them that their insurance does not cover them for work in the current climate [referring them to a clause in the small print headed 'Pandemics'] so they are having to shut up shop for the forseeable future - nice!!!  >:(

The local plumbing supplies place has reopened on a limited basis and I was able to get a shower mixer bar to temporarily replace the existing one pro tem the arrival of the proper one this Thursday (hopefully!)...
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on April 26, 2020, 11:54:54 AM
Sigh

Having a small child has its, erm, challenges as I am sure many of you are aware.

The lockdown is starting to bite in terms of "The Gremlin" getting bored. He is just at the age (16 and a bit months) were he notices he can't do things and hates "no".

That all aside yesterday was rough, even before he decided to finish his evening bottle and, well, spectacularly vomit over his room.

So there we were for nearly 2 hours cleaning floors (thank goodness I decided to have laminated flooring in my former train room), walls, door, rug, bookshelf, teddies, chair and books.

To his credit he was actually delighted to be awake and allowed to watch Thunderbirds Are Go (keep him amused with mum whilst I scrubbed) past bedtime.

However, he then decided to get up at 04:00 because he was hungry.

So completely out of sync and very tired today  :'(

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on April 26, 2020, 12:21:03 PM
Quote from: Skyline2uk on April 26, 2020, 11:54:54 AM
Sigh

Having a small child has its, erm, challenges as I am sure many of you are aware.

The lockdown is starting to bite in terms of "The Gremlin" getting bored. He is just at the age (16 and a bit months) were he notices he can't do things and hates "no".

That all aside yesterday was rough, even before he decided to finish his evening bottle and, well, spectacularly vomit over his room.

So there we were for nearly 2 hours cleaning floors (thank goodness I decided to have laminated flooring in my former train room), walls, door, rug, bookshelf, teddies, chair and books.

To his credit he was actually delighted to be awake and allowed to watch Thunderbirds Are Go (keep him amused with mum whilst I scrubbed) past bedtime.

However, he then decided to get up at 04:00 because he was hungry.

So completely out of sync and very tired today  :'(

Skyline2uk

Sounds like a normal Saturday night to me  :doh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on April 26, 2020, 12:26:17 PM
 :laughabovepost:

I hope you clean your own vom John  :sick2:

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on April 26, 2020, 01:23:09 PM
Quote from: Skyline2uk on April 26, 2020, 12:26:17 PM
:laughabovepost:

I hope you clean your own vom John  :sick2:

Skyline2uk

I'm sick of doing that to be honest  :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Swindon69 on April 27, 2020, 08:23:50 AM
Well it's going to be a rubbish day today - off to the crematorium for my Mother in Laws funeral - due to the lockdown there's only going to be three people there.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on April 27, 2020, 09:59:39 AM
My most sincere condolences.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on April 27, 2020, 10:10:40 AM
Always a sad occasion but even worse in these trying times. My condolences.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on April 29, 2020, 02:31:45 AM
Well, I've had enough for today, or should that be yesterday.

Sunday evening, Chaos (Daddy's little Princess) the cat had respiratory problems, this involved a late night (10.45pm) trip to the emergency vets, two nights in, blood tests, heart scan, fair bit of prodding.

I picked her up this morning, she has a thickening of one of the walls of her heart, and a Thyroid score of 252! (should be less than 50). They think the respiratory problems, the rate went up to 90/min as oppose to 18/20/min, was caused by her 'throwing a clot' as they put it. She now has another two AM tablets to go with the three steroids she has every day, and one PM tablet. I've spent most of the day trying various concoctions to get her to eat; poached white fish, oven cooked chicken, a bit of Penfolds food in with her raw turkey mince etc. The turkey mince with a little Felix and James Wellbeloved seemed most popular. She's looking a bit perkier this evening thank goodness. She is 16-1/2yrs, so I know she's not immortal, but I could do without this at the moment.

Penfold, our 5 yr old cat, went round and had a smorgasbord of what she didn't fancy.

Penfold decided to then throw this lot back up at about 6pm. All round the lounge.

This evening at a little before 6pm the wife went down stairs, a few minutes later passed out and I found her 10seconds later groaning in a heap against the dishwasher. She came round quickly, 111 was called, the call (after the usual 60 questions) was elevated to an 'out-of-hours' GP who called on the phone a little before 7pm. After quite a long consultation with her, the advice was to ship off to A&E. My wife has a respiratory condition of about 12yrs and we've been self isolating for the last six weeks, with the exception of the elderly dementia lady that my wife provides contact and food for and her elderly aunt who we deliver food to once a week. We were not best pleased with having to negotiate A&E. However, masks on and off we went. Only the casualty is allowed in so I was relegated to the car park. I understand the need for this, but it means I was completely in the dark about proceedings. At 10pm I made a convoluted call through a ridiculous, to the point of hilarious, 'speak your request' telephony system, to get to a long ringing phone, who transferred me to another long ringing phone. who put me through to A&E. Seriously, you couldn't make it up. A very helpful Doc gave me some info, said they were waiting on blood tests and a radiologist to double check a brain scan, "probably be a good half hour yet" he said. So fire up the car, nip home, check the wife's horses (which had been fed by someone else, Debbie you're a hero!, as we were in a blind panic), medicate the cat, feed the poorly cat and make sure Penfold was in one piece, shoot back to Banbury, sit in car for another half hour, phone the Hospital again {"sorry, we didn't get that, please repeat your response", again!} speak to Catherines Aunt and try to explain what I could and wait for the Doc to ring my mobile.

They think the wife had a fit. She can't drive until she's been to a 'First Fit Club' (I kid you not!), so cat among pigeons regarding the elderly lady, although I can deal with her Aunt.

Got home at 1.15am, fed elderly cat, got wife showered, and into bed, showered myself and am currently sitting on sofa writing this, eating cheesy biscuits as I've eaten nothing since 2pm, got Penfold asleep on my lap with Chaos asleep on the back of the sofa.

I'm exhausted. I'm worried about my cat and I'm really worried about the wife.

At the moment, life sucks.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on April 29, 2020, 03:00:02 AM
Indeed a  :poop: of a day. Right now, I'd say you need to get a good sleep, even if it's short.

Hope Wednesday has good news for you on all fronts. Please keep us informed.

Go easy, mate.  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on April 29, 2020, 08:20:38 AM
Well, that was a day to forget Mike!  :goggleeyes: I hope your wife is soon back to normal - and the cats. As I say often enough, you have to have lows in life in order to appreciate the highs. Look after your wife and yourself ... and the cats ... and the Aunt ...and the old lady.  ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Swindon69 on April 29, 2020, 08:46:28 AM
Crikey that was an awful day - I hope things resolve themselves in a positive way.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on April 29, 2020, 09:22:20 AM
Not a cat person, but I really feel for you re your better half. A&E not a good place at the best of times and this is far from that. Hope things start to look up for you.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on April 29, 2020, 10:29:32 AM
Cats are just cats. They'll always do something that drives you mad or worries you, but they're worth it!

As for your wife, I hope all goes well. The good news is that (apparently) 50% of the population have a blackout/fit at some point in their lives and for almost all, its a one off, while for the few that have more, it can mostly be managed. I had a one off many years ago (caused by prolonged and severe coughing), my wife had two, close together, last year (nothing in the 12 months since and so okay to drive again now) and my eldest son (16) has epilepsy (zero fits since starting medication).
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on April 29, 2020, 10:49:52 AM
Thanks for the support guys.

Wife seems okay this morning, we've done the horses, I've medicated the cat, given the other one a bollocking for being a pain in the proverbials, and am now having breakfast.

Catherine is going to have to see a neurologist, so at a time when you really want to avoid hospitals it looks like we're going into the eye of the storm. The on-call out-of-hours doctor that rang last night very kindly pointed out that you're 4x more likely to catch Covid in hospital. Can't help thinking she could work on her bedside manner. @stevewalker (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=5329) thanks for the info, I've not had time yet to do the obligatory 'scare the crap outta y'self' Google session yet looking at the issue.

Again, thanks for the moral support, it means a lot.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on April 29, 2020, 11:20:25 AM
I had two fainting spells and was referred to a neurologist before this Covid business kicked off. He said was not unusual to have them if something else triggered it. In my case it was a retching session caused by my difficulty swallowing after an op. for cancer of the oesophagus. So probably nothing to worry about unduly. I hope that SWMBO's appointment will be dealt with in a way that minimises the risk from this nasty virus.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on April 29, 2020, 11:29:22 AM
As a ps. You mentioned bedside manner. When I had a pulmonary embolism a few years back I was in hospital whilst they found out what it was that meant I had difficulty breathing and the consultant came in to announce that I had multiple clots on both lungs. My wife said that she was concerned that one could break off and go to my heart or brain and kill me. The consultant replied" It could kill him where it is!"  Not the answer my wife wanted!
Hope that raises your mood a bit.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on April 29, 2020, 12:08:09 PM
Quote from: steve836 on April 29, 2020, 11:29:22 AM
As a ps. You mentioned bedside manner. When I had a pulmonary embolism a few years back I was in hospital whilst they found out what it was that meant I had difficulty breathing and the consultant came in to announce that I had multiple clots on both lungs. My wife said that she was concerned that one could break off and go to my heart or brain and kill me. The consultant replied" It could kill him where it is!"  Not the answer my wife wanted!
Hope that raises your mood a bit.

Nothing quite like NOT sugar coating it!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on April 29, 2020, 12:35:28 PM
 :laugh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Paddy on April 29, 2020, 01:07:53 PM
Hi Mike ( @emjaybee (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=5604) )

So sorry to hear about your lovely lady wife - you must be so worried.  Hang in there and I am sure the NHS will do their best for her.

As for the cats, totally get where you are coming from.  Henry (our boy) was run down 4 years ago and spent several weeks in ITU hospital - it was touch and go.  The poor fella lost an eye but he has just celebrated his 10th birthday.  It was eye wateringly expensive but worth every penny.  At the end of the day, they are our fluffy children.  ;)

Thinking of you all.

Kind regards

Paddy
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on April 29, 2020, 01:10:54 PM
@Paddy (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=356) you are so right.

Fluffy children...

...expensive, annoying, pain in the A, fluffy children.

Wouldn't be without them.

:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 29, 2020, 01:28:51 PM
Full marks for getting through the last couple of days, Mike. Hope you can catch up on sleep and feeds very soon, and that all concerned are back to normal in a short space of time.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on April 30, 2020, 05:24:17 PM
I have said before people have it worse off in these times and I stand by that.

However completely out of the blue this afternoon (by which I mean I was told I won't have to on Monday) I have been told I am to be Furloughed for 3 weeks in June.

I am told it's so the company can make sure the scheme is used before the Government deadline but I am still in shock. My industry (Aero) is taking a hammering and I am very concerned for the long term future.

It's an industry I love and am proud to be a part of. To see the bottom fall out of it within such a small space of time is horrible  :(

Me being me I am also trying desperately not to let the situation impact my enjoyment of this fine hobby. I fear how long it will be before I can't look at my stock without thinking how long it would feed my family.

Things not that desperate yet but the trajectory is poor.

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on April 30, 2020, 05:44:42 PM
SWMBO has just had a phone call to say she is overdue for a review of her medications, 'would you like to make an appointment ?'

she pointed out that she had had a couple of calls from the NHS saying she should stay indoors for at least 12 weeks, maybe longer, and that I should also not be going out.

ahhhh

'we'll call you again in a couple of weeks'

:veryangry:

talk about left hand and right hand

of course, doctors are not making house calls either, so what is she supposed to do  :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 05, 2020, 09:44:29 PM
While we have an early summer I have this sat in my garage and I can't get out on it.
Unlike a couple of lads from Rochdale who decided to go on a 200 mile trip to Whitby for fish and chips I'm behaving myself. :angel: Still, they got caught by the fuzz (never pleasant ;)) fined, and turned back.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on May 05, 2020, 10:54:26 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on May 05, 2020, 09:44:29 PM
While we have an early summer I have this sat in my garage and I can't get out on it.
Unlike a couple of lads from Rochdale who decided to go on a 200 mile trip to Whitby for fish and chips I'm behaving myself. :angel: Still, they got caught by the fuzz (never pleasant ;)) fined, and turned back.

Police should have done similar to what they did to a couple from Kent who travelled to Cornwall. They fined them and seized their car whilst in Cornwall (https://www.cornwalllive.com/news/cornwall-news/car-seized-after-couple-drive-4078528) due to not having insurance  :goggleeyes:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: exmouthcraig on May 05, 2020, 11:17:28 PM
Mrs EC spotted someone climbing over our locked road gate yesterday. By the time I'd got out she'd scrambled back over and the car drove off.  :veryangry:

The  :censored: bust aload of livestock netting off the gate doing whatever she was doing so I went back with zip ties to put it all back. Whilst doing this a bloke drove past in his 4x4 towing his twin axle touring caravan!!!!! That must be essential!!!

Interestingly the car directly behind was none other then 2 of Leicestershires boys in blue in an unmarked beemer.

I'd of loved a 5 mile trek to see if and where they pulled him but didnt deem being a nosey parker essential either!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on May 06, 2020, 12:23:01 AM
To be fair, many contractors who have to work far from home for extended periods use caravans. Some park up on nearby caravan sites (I used to regularly stay at a B&B while working away. It had an attached site and two vans were there "permanently", owned by workers away from home) and others get permission to stay on their client's car park.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on May 21, 2020, 10:48:55 AM
Went to hospital for day surgery (prostate biopsy).
Arrived at 10am, into surgery at 3:30 pm, left at 5pm.  Delay due to an emergency surgery procedure.
Wouldn't even let me have a drink of water. :(
Now I sit rather uncomfortably. :worried:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on May 21, 2020, 10:57:54 AM
Was it the 'normal' biopsy or the one where they actually give you a general anaesthetic and go in from the outside, (it was called a 'template biopsy' when I had mine)? Either way, if it is any consolation, the discomfort soon wears off.  :thumbsup:. Hopefully you get a good result. My result is a daily tablet and a 'watching brief', with 6 monthly blood tests.  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on May 21, 2020, 10:58:23 AM
Quote from: NinOz on May 21, 2020, 10:48:55 AM
Went to hospital for day surgery (prostate biopsy).
Arrived at 10am, into surgery at 3:30 pm, left at 5pm.  Delay due to an emergency surgery procedure.
Wouldn't even let me have a drink of water. :(
Now I sit rather uncomfortably. :worried:

At least you got your op. I'm waiting for two procedures, but don't expect anything to happen whilst this pandemic is in full swing.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on May 21, 2020, 11:08:57 AM
Quote from: dannyboy on May 21, 2020, 10:57:54 AM
Was it the 'normal' biopsy or the one where they actually give you a general anaesthetic and go in from the outside, (it was called a 'template biopsy' when I had mine)? Either way, if it is any consolation, the discomfort soon wears off.  :thumbsup:. Hopefully you get a good result. My result is a daily tablet and a 'watching brief', with 6 monthly blood tests.  :beers:
Twilight anesthesia (can't remember a thing, but quickly awake when they stop injecting anaesthetic), ultrasound probe in bowel, needles inserted from bowel into prostate.
I would be ok with the tablet outcome, beats surgical removal/chemo.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on May 21, 2020, 11:37:04 AM
Quote from: NinOz on May 21, 2020, 11:08:57 AM
ultrasound probe in bowel, needles inserted from bowel into prostate.


That sounds like what I called the 'normal' biopsy. Nothing was found but a later scan showed a 'dark patch' in the prostate, so the specialist went for the 'template biopsy'. Even that was inconclusive, hence the 'watching brief'. That was about 3 years ago, so I am happy.  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on May 26, 2020, 06:02:06 PM
Blimey I have just read my last entry on this thread, really was in a bad mood that day!

Anyway, compared to that my next one is very tame.

Had to part company with Aviva as our car insurance provider today (well come renewal).

They have been very good over the last three years (I have mentioned as such on here), but for some reason they have gone up over £50 this time round and can't get within that to other providers.

I know loyalty doesn't count for much these days (well, in some places  >:D) but it's always a shame when a decent firm decides they don't need a customer.

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on May 26, 2020, 06:16:13 PM
That is a shame just for the sake of £50 which would not exactly put a dent in the profits of Aviva. Has the job situation improved yet?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on May 26, 2020, 06:32:46 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on May 26, 2020, 06:16:13 PM
That is a shame just for the sake of £50 which would not exactly put a dent in the profits of Aviva. Has the job situation improved yet?

True, it's interesting how far off they were lots of other big names.

In terms of Job; more Furlough on the horizon, but in a away I am reassured they have dates in the future!

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on June 01, 2020, 09:25:28 PM
Just before Christmas last year, and on appearances from Harry Billinge on BBC Breakfast, I used paypal to pay a 3 figure sum (no decimal places - honest!) to the Normandy Memorial Fund.
I subsequently discovered paypal hang onto that money for 3 months (thus getting interest on it in order to not charge anyone using that facility), but despite a couple of mails to the Fund using the contact address on their web page no acknowledgement of my donation has been made. I just get automated replies to the tune of "your mail will be responded to by a member of our team shortly"
I don't want any thanks. I just want to know they have received my money as, to all intents, it's just vanished into thin air ???
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on June 01, 2020, 11:00:15 PM
I'd definitely be chasing that one up.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on June 02, 2020, 03:33:29 PM
Huzzah! Finally acknowledged today.

Please accept our sincerest apologies and delayed thanks for your generous & much-valued gift.

I am so sorry that this was not acknowledged at the time; but I wasn't aware of the donation - we are having issue with PayPal in providing the list of donors who have contributed; at the moment they send us an accumulated donation - without the details of the people who made the gift.
I am hoping to resolve this  frustrating issue soon ..

In the meantime, thank you again for supporting the creation of the British Normandy Memorial - this incredible tribute ( hope to be completed in October this year) would not be possible without people like yourselves.
On behalf of the Normandy Veteran Veteran community and all of us at the Trust - thank you!

Best wishes & warm regards
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on June 02, 2020, 03:52:35 PM
Result Nobby  :thumbsup:

My rant is very minor in comparison hence unhappy thread rather than Angry.

Toolstation order for some mortar (to re-do garden wall) has gone awol.

And due to Covid, no phone contact.

And they are ignoring e-mail / messages.

And the "tracking" number is "not recognised" according to Parcel Force.

Money taken and I am not sure what else I can do. It's only a fiver but first time I have been in this situation and felt completely powerless.

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: themadhippy on June 02, 2020, 03:59:49 PM
Quotetracking" number is "not recognised" according to Parcel Force.
sounds like one of those new special tracking numbers that only tells you your parcel has been delivered,until that point  "this tracking number has not been reconised please check the number or try again later".
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on June 02, 2020, 05:21:25 PM
Quote from: Skyline2uk on June 02, 2020, 03:52:35 PM
And the "tracking" number is "not recognised" according to Parcel Force.
It often happens to me. What Parcel Force are saying is that the barcode on the parcel has not been scanned by the delivery driver. It's just proof of delivery, not really tracking as such.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on June 02, 2020, 06:21:08 PM
Quote from: Malc on June 02, 2020, 05:21:25 PM
Quote from: Skyline2uk on June 02, 2020, 03:52:35 PM
And the "tracking" number is "not recognised" according to Parcel Force.
It often happens to me. What Parcel Force are saying is that the barcode on the parcel has not been scanned by the delivery driver. It's just proof of delivery, not really tracking as such.

Interesting.

Actually I forgot the most infuriating part:

Yes their phone lines are down, but I only found this out after waiting 40 minutes on hold (with a robot counting down wait times) until I was cut off!

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on June 17, 2020, 01:52:29 PM
my colitis has flared up worse than it has ever been  :poop:
so after a couple of day's trying to get hold of my consultant he got back to me today and i have been put on steroids for the first time 
this could be fun not some of the side affects are increased apatite i already eat like a horse so had better do some food shopping and getting short tempered so the idiots i am in charge of at work had better watch out

:veryangry: :censored:

John
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on June 17, 2020, 02:30:30 PM
Sorry to hear that John, hopefully it is just a short lived episode.

(I was going to put that I hoped it would not be a long winded episode but thought better of it.  :-X)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 09, 2020, 08:13:34 PM
At Tesco for the weekly shop yesterday, and they'd removed all one way directives + the queue to get to a till to pay. It allowed far too many 'close encounters' which I was definitely not happy about. On my way out some senile old  :censored: looked closely at the 'NO ENTRY' sign and then just walked in ::) I suspect he'd forgotten what 'NO' meant.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: crewearpley40 on July 09, 2020, 08:23:20 PM
What an idiot mick. Bit more civilised in marks Spencer's for me after an idiotic person would not understand stand back as I have received the off and a green light and locked thr unit doors i worked at 0720 this morning and proceeded to use profanities. I just shut the guards door and window and sat back keeping an eye on the station screens and watched the idiot throw a tantrum. After a ms trip to buy 3 essentials the college age kids were in the park sat 6 on a bench and whatever the smell was it was not a cigarette or a pleasant one. Glad I was home by 250pm and shower
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on July 10, 2020, 05:52:37 PM
The road I live on has been closed near it's entrance to the main road.
The alternatives,
A  heavily pothole road of dirt and sand.
A green lane,  which although tarmac'd is often under sand,  is very narrow single lane,  with some houses forming the edge,  there is a 90degree corner at one point round a house. It's so narrow brambles scratch both side of the car at the same time, and in some places there grass growing down the middle..

They've put lots of signs around the place,  including two on my driveway, no one asked permission..

Why have the closed the road?,  they're replacing a manhole cover in an adjoining road,  all they are doing in our road is parking their vans.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on July 10, 2020, 07:34:03 PM
down at Tesco's today, got all the stuff on SWMBO's list then headed for the wines and spirits aisle  :thumbsup:

only wanted a couple of bottles of pale cream fortified wine ...

some idiot had dumped his trolley in front of them while he was wandering around looking at spirits.

"excuse me, could you move your trolley please, I need to get to the wines"

ignored  >:(

repeated request

ignored again  :veryangry:

moved his  :censored: trolley

"oi, that's mine"

:veryangry: :veryangry:

"actually it belongs to Tesco, I have asked you politely to move it so I can get to what I want twice, and you have ignored me, so I moved it "

took the last two bottle of pale cream fortified wine ...

"I want a couple of those !"

>:D

bleep, bleep  :)

"well, I've scanned them, both. perhaps in future you might show some thought for others"

"you can't take them, I wanted them"

he's 5' sod all, I'm 6'2", ex forces, he doesn't look like he could peel the skin off a rice pudding  ::)

I've got them in my trolley, scanned on my gun  :thumbsup:

"TOUGH"

tastes even better than usual  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on July 10, 2020, 09:01:49 PM
how it could have gone

down at Tesco's today, got all the stuff on SWMBO's list then headed for the wines and spirits aisle  :thumbsup:

only wanted a couple of bottles of pale cream fortified wine ...

some idiot had dumped his trolley in front of them while he was wandering around looking at spirits.

"excuse me, could you move your trolley please, I need to get to the wines"

"sorry, which are you after?"

"pale cream fortified wine"

"oh, I was after a couple of those after I'd chosen the whisky I wanted"

"oh, only two left, tell you what, I'll take one, you can have the other "

"thanks, one will do me for now"

easy, isn't it ?


Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 10, 2020, 09:07:57 PM
Yes, but then it would have been in the 'Happy Thread' and not so newsworthy as "Oik causes fracas in supermarket" :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on July 10, 2020, 09:14:40 PM
 :hmmm:

oik ?

which of us do you mean ?

does HB need to come round to see you ?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: themadhippy on July 10, 2020, 10:23:18 PM
Its a well know fact alcohol leads to aggression
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on July 11, 2020, 12:05:37 AM
Having spent months completely redoing the kitchen (even a new ceiling and wiring), we are getting to the end. We want to get the cupboard doors on and make sure everything is properly squared up before calling someone in to measure up and fit granite or quartz worktops. We are running out of time to do this before our holiday (narrowboating, booked back in January) and so ordered handles last week, so that I could fit the doors this weekend. I checked the tracking number on Friday morning, expecting delivery later in the day, only to find that they have been held in Hermes' depot in Liverpool since Tuesday as the parcel is damaged. I urgently need them this weekend and the package contains 30 handles, even though I only require 22, so even if some are lost or damaged, I will probably be okay. Hermes have no number that lets you speak to a person and using their automated phone service simply directs me to Packlist SL (apparently Ebay), who have no contact numbers either. I managed to use the online chat to speak to Ebay (the Hermes one turned into an email and someone will "get back to you"), Ebay's chat cut me off, because it was taking me too long to type in all the details. The supplier has promised to get back as soon as he can find out what has happened. All I needed was to speak to a person at the depot, who could tell me if at least 22 handles  were still there and intact and they could have just sent it on to me (I'd have even driven the 35 miles each way to pick them up to get them on time) - instead I have had to pay to buy again from another supplier and for next-day delivery. It's all well and good for courier companies to have automated systems, but they can only cope with "my parcel has not arrived" after the due date, "my parcel is marked as delivered, but I have not received it" and the like - there is no option for "you have my parcel and have held it and I need to talk to someone"  :veryangry:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 11, 2020, 09:30:03 AM
Oh dear. I'm expecting a parcel from Herpes :uneasy:
Luckily it's not urgent, though.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on July 11, 2020, 10:26:54 AM
Quote from: themadhippy on July 10, 2020, 10:23:18 PM
Its a well know fact alcohol leads to aggression

as does not being able to get to it  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Philip. on July 11, 2020, 10:36:09 AM
I don't know if there are problems with Royal Mail/Parcelforce in the Cornwall area, but they seem to have ground to a halt. The past 3 months of lockdown they have been brilliant but I have 2 items with Royal Mail and 1 with Parcelforce all sitting in the local DO for the last 2 days saying they are ready for delivery.

Not seen sight nor sound of the Postie since Wednesday or any Parcelforce vans knocking around, somethings amiss  :veryangry:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on July 11, 2020, 11:54:43 AM
Seems to be ok here Phillip.
However, we doget days when I'm pretty sure postie doesn't put In an appearance.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on July 11, 2020, 12:42:00 PM
We only have deliveries on days with a 'u' in them. This was proved last week when I had some backscenes delivered on Sunday !
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: themadhippy on July 11, 2020, 02:22:11 PM
Maybe they've moved all the parcel staff to letters after the post office got hit with a fine for late deliverys
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on July 12, 2020, 02:34:12 PM
re reply 1856

"including two on my driveway, no one asked permission.."

so, trespass ?

possibly fly tipping ?

possibly obstruction ?

I'd remove the signs and stack them out of my way.
then I'd phone council and explain someone has flytipped some scrap metal on my drive.

when they turn up and say 'the signs are ours' my response would be to ask why no attempt to gain my permission, and what were they paying per day to leave their property on my private property.

might not get you very far, but would wind them up.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on July 16, 2020, 02:06:47 PM
don't seem to be able to find a 'mildly miffed to start with but now happy' thread, so I'll post on here.

yesterday, acting on the instructions of SWMBO, I sortied forth, suitably masked, to our local Tesco with a list of items to get, including 'jam doughnuts', with the verbal update of " if you can't get jam ones, get ring ones, but do not get custard ones". :-[

so, I found these in due course

(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/97/311-160720134637.jpeg) (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=gallery;sa=view&id=97048)

not having my reading glasses with me, I scanned the 'jam' doughnuts, and dropped them in the trolley and continued with my task.

yesterday evening SWMBO decided to have a jam doughnut  :worried:

seconds later she called me and said "I enjoyed my jam doughnut"  :thumbsup: "it was custard" :thumbsdown:

my reply of "it said Jam on the bag" did not do much to help.

on donning my reading glasses and checking, yes the bag said 'jam', but the faintly printed label said 'custard'.

so, today, being a bolshie old git, I phoned Tesco customer services, went through all the various options, listen to various spiels about covid, and finally spoke to a human.

a nice human.
a helpful human.
who commiserated with me, and said this should not happen.
if the store did not have any custard doughnut bags, at the very least the label should have been put on so it obscured the jam doughnuts printing.
he would speak to the store and ask them to ensure this doesn't happen again.
he would also send a gift card to cover the cost of the doughnuts.

result  :thumbsup:
what I would call good customer service.
when I was on the AA we used to get what we called 'care bear' courses, on customer care, and were always told

don't say what you can't do, say what you can
own the problem etc

so, Hugh at Tesco,  :thankyousign:

problem is I've now got to eat 3 custard doughnuts by myself  >:D

unless of course HB would help ?  :hmmm:

silly question really, they are edible and more tasty than meecees.

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on July 16, 2020, 03:13:09 PM
Probably easier to catch too, although I suppose that depends on how much of a fight you put up.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on July 16, 2020, 04:03:39 PM
just had a coffee and a doughnut, custard ...

and a pleading HB with his 'I'm starving' face on as he sits in front of me, with his nose inches from my plate  .

so, score is now ...
me - 1
HB - 1

carpet, - custard and sgar being cleaned off by HB

and hopefully, I'll get the third this evening.

and a quick sortie again this afternoon to get a bag of JAM doughnuts, so even SWMBO should be happy  :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Calnefoxile on July 16, 2020, 04:07:33 PM
Quote from: class37025 on July 16, 2020, 04:03:39 PM

and a quick sortie again this afternoon to get a bag of JAM doughnuts, so even SWMBO should be happy  :hmmm:

@class37025 (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=311) don't forget your glasses this time  ;D ;D ;D

Cheers

Neal.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: themadhippy on July 16, 2020, 04:35:59 PM
Might be best to keep a close eye on HB,you dont want him getting caught swapping the jam and custard labels in tescos
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on July 16, 2020, 05:50:21 PM
duly checked both bag and label  :thumbsup:

by the way, why does Tesco never do 'try before you buy' on whisky, only on cheese . crisps / dips etc  :veryangry:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on July 28, 2020, 01:48:15 PM
a toss up between the happy thread or this one, but decided this applied

received a 2nd class small parcel from Bicester [ actually a Heller 1/72 model of a US Coastguard C-130, so not that small, which was posted yesterday  :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:

but

the RM48 letter sent last thursday ie 23rd, has still not arrived.  >:(

rang RM, waited for over 15 minutes listening to their  :poop: music, to be told by a quite disinterested call handler that the 48 'is a target' not a guarantee, my letter is not lost, but 'delayed', and if it was urgent it should have been sent special delivery which guarantees next day, and costs an arm an a leg. :veryangry:
it will not be 'lost' till 7th august.

funny that RM 48 parcels from Hattons seem to arrive either next day or the following one, and the parcel noted above, second class, arrived the next day.

so one  :thumbsup: for RM parcels
one  :thumbsdown: for RM 48
and a definite  :thumbsdown: :thumbsdown: for RM customer services

any wonder so many people lose all trust in the post office ?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Southerngooner on July 29, 2020, 11:42:54 AM
Living here in France we have come to rely on ordering by post, and generally things have been fine. However, we were running out of certain provisions we cannot buy here (decaf teabags, decaf Columbia's coffee - real essentials!) back in May so got our son to buy some bits and send them out. It was getting close to Father's Day so my wife suggested he should put that in the parcel too. Finally, I'd bought 5 Society Sealions from Grid078 (hi Stuart!) which Martyn had taken into his care to pass on to me at the (cancelled) Portsmouth show in April, so suggested they came out too. My son took it all in one box to the Post Office and tracked delivery was over £50, but it turns out he'd used too big a box. Off home again he went and repacked, sending them out later that day. However, he forgot to add tracking.......

You can guess what's happened. No sign of either box. Martyn also sent me an Ultima LMS roof a week later, and guess what, no sign either. Friends here are still waiting on a tent from the UK ordered over four weeks ago, and another friends birthday card to her son (who lives in France so it was an internal mail) has yet to arrive, six weeks after his birthday.

I don't know if it just France, but this is unusual. Ironically, other things like the Shapeways J50 I'm currently building came much quicker than predicted, plus all the bits from N Brass got here in a week.

Bloomin' frustrating and bizarre......

Dave
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on July 29, 2020, 12:07:06 PM
If it is a postage contract seller then they will book and pay for the parcel online.  This does not mean it has been posted only that it has been paid for.

So Paid Thursday, not ready for collection on Friday and they don't collect Saturday or Sunday.  If you are lucky it was collected end of day Monday.

You might get it today or tomorrow if they have not lost it. :worried:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on July 29, 2020, 01:13:12 PM
I was basing the despatch on this received thursday

"Order Marked as Despatched – Sent By Courier Service: RM 48

but you might be right with your scenario.

posted two 2nd class parcels last thursday to two forum members, one arrived saturday, the other is still with Pat, apparently, still showing as received at the post office but nothing else.

couriers not doing much better, ordered a backpack for my oldest grandson for when he goes to his new school, marked as despatched sunday, and Yodel show as collected by third party and in transit to Yodel on the 26th at 15:00, but since then nothing.

yet youngest grandson's birthday pressie from Smythes, deliverd by Yodel, arrived two days later,
and a parcel of paints from Hattons arrived the next day via DPD.

it just seems so hit and miss at the moment.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on July 30, 2020, 01:59:33 PM
still no sign of the RM48,

but they did kindly deliver today a credit card bill dated two days ago  >:( :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on July 30, 2020, 02:05:25 PM
In the Postal Stakes race, 'Bill' will always beat 'Letter' and 'Parcel'.  ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on July 31, 2020, 04:30:24 PM
still no sign of the RM48 today, or the parcel being delivered to the forum member, so once again [I'm a glutton for punishment] got onto RM

after 35mins got a response, explained I wanted to check on two items, gave details of the RM48.....

'due to be delivered on monday'
'is that next monday or last monday ?'
'next monday'.
'where is it now ?'
'don't know, it's not tracked through the system'
'so when was it scanned into the system?'
'midnight last thurday'
'so if you don't know where it is, how can you say it will be delivered next monday?'
'err'

then tried for the parcel to the forum member...
'shows as posted last thursday'
'yes that's right, but not showing as delivered yet'
'we have up to 6 pm this evening before it is classed as missing'
'is missing the same as lost?'
'err, no'
'so when can I claim compensation for the 'missing' parcel and send a replacement one for you to lose'
'you can claim on line after 6 pm tonight'
'what cover do I have?'
'I'll check'

'it's £20 or the value of the contents, whichever is less'
'contents were £60, plus your charge of £4.10 to lose it'
'sorry, you'll need to speak to claims'

:'( :'( :'( :'(
postie did however deliver a pile of leaflets and catalogs today, either unaddressed or to 'the occupier',
just a pity they can't deliver what people have paid for  :censored:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on July 31, 2020, 04:37:24 PM
Quotepostie did however deliver a pile of leaflets and catalogues today

I did read somewhere there is a petition running to make all advertising through letterboxes should be made of soft absorbent material suitable to be used as cat litter or toilet paper.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on July 31, 2020, 04:45:02 PM
Quote from: Snowwolflair on July 31, 2020, 04:37:24 PM
Quotepostie did however deliver a pile of leaflets and catalogues today

I did read somewhere there is a petition running to make all advertising through letterboxes should be made of soft absorbent material suitable to be used as cat litter or toilet paper.
A friend of mine saves all the unwanted junk mail and waits until he gets some prepaid envelopes. He stuffs the junk mail inside and posts them.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on July 31, 2020, 05:47:43 PM
Quote from: Snowwolflair on July 31, 2020, 04:37:24 PM
Quotepostie did however deliver a pile of leaflets and catalogues today

I did read somewhere there is a petition running to make all advertising through letterboxes should be made of soft absorbent material suitable to be used as cat litter or toilet paper.

@newportnobby would vote for that  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 31, 2020, 09:42:08 PM
Quote from: class37025 on July 31, 2020, 05:47:43 PM
Quote from: Snowwolflair on July 31, 2020, 04:37:24 PM
Quotepostie did however deliver a pile of leaflets and catalogues today

I did read somewhere there is a petition running to make all advertising through letterboxes should be made of soft absorbent material suitable to be used as cat litter or toilet paper.

@newportnobby would vote for that  :smiley-laughing:

Amen, brother. :thumbsup:

Quote from: Malc on July 31, 2020, 04:45:02 PM

A friend of mine saves all the unwanted junk mail and waits until he gets some prepaid envelopes. He stuffs the junk mail inside and posts them.

I'm collecting unsolicited mail from Virgin and will be posting it all back to Beardie Man with no postage paid
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on August 03, 2020, 11:36:39 AM
should be in the finally happy thread ..

RM48 finally arrived this morning  :bounce:

scanned into their system 23rd  July, delivered 3rd August  :veryangry:

why on earth do they call it '48' ?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: tutenkhamunsleeping on August 03, 2020, 11:40:08 AM
Quote from: class37025 on August 03, 2020, 11:36:39 AM
scanned into their system 23rd  July, delivered 3rd August  :veryangry:
why on earth do they call it '48' ?

The parcel has normally been to 48 different depots en-route :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on August 03, 2020, 11:49:46 AM
Quote from: class37025 on August 03, 2020, 11:36:39 AM

scanned into their system 23rd  July, delivered 3rd August  :veryangry:

why on earth do they call it '48' ?

It is actually a 48 day service and you have got it early?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 15, 2020, 09:55:41 PM
Damned TV schedulers. OK, this weekend we have on the telly (for me, anyway)

Cricket
Cycling
F1

I only have Freeview. The Beeb can't drag themseves into this century and have '+1' channels like many others. ITV4 + 1 appears in my programme listings but with no programmes to select so....
I watched the F1 (followed by the making of a Maserati - great prog!) while I recorded the cycling. The cricket will be recorded later tonight but........
Tomorrow I'll be watching 5 hours or so of MotoGP and will then have to watch the cycling and cricket. Short break and then watch the F1 race proper whilst recording the cricket and cycling yet again to watch Monday. All this sport is just so hectic. I'm so glad I cannot abide snooker unless insomnia has struck me.

Edit:- Up early this morning so watched the cycling. No cricket to watch due to the weather
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TrevL on August 16, 2020, 10:14:36 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on August 15, 2020, 09:55:41 PM
Tomorrow I'll be watching 5 hours or so of MotoGP

From where are you watching that Mick?  (and don't say the settee :smiley-laughing:)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: talisman56 on August 16, 2020, 01:21:56 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on August 15, 2020, 09:55:41 PM
Damned TV schedulers. OK, this weekend we have on the telly (for me, anyway)

Cricket
Cycling
F1

I only have Freeview. The Beeb can't drag themseves into this century and have '+1' channels like many others. ITV4 + 1 appears in my programme listings but with no programmes to select so....
I watched the F1 (followed by the making of a Maserati - great prog!) while I recorded the cycling. The cricket will be recorded later tonight but........
Tomorrow I'll be watching 5 hours or so of MotoGP and will then have to watch the cycling and cricket. Short break and then watch the F1 race proper whilst recording the cricket and cycling yet again to watch Monday. All this sport is just so hectic. I'm so glad I cannot abide snooker unless insomnia has struck me.

Edit:- Up early this morning so watched the cycling. No cricket to watch due to the weather

The BBC treat iPlayer as their +1.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 16, 2020, 02:52:09 PM
Quote from: TrevL on August 16, 2020, 10:14:36 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on August 15, 2020, 09:55:41 PM
Tomorrow I'll be watching 5 hours or so of MotoGP

From where are you watching that Mick?  (and don't say the settee :smiley-laughing:)

I get my phone and broadband from BT so pay them a pittance each month to have BT Sport 1 and 2. Every time they try to put the price up I just tell 'em to take it away and they've relented every time so far. My luck will run out, I'm sure.

Quote from: talisman56 on August 16, 2020, 01:21:56 PM

The BBC treat iPlayer as their +1.

I can't get that on my telly (I'm a Luddite, remember)
I'm happy to watch a short prog on my laptop via the iPlayer but an hour's too long really.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: themadhippy on August 16, 2020, 03:20:26 PM
QuoteI'm happy to watch a short prog on my laptop via the iPlayer but an hour's too long really.
plug yer laptop into the telly,with the added advantage of  the  forum in widescreen
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on August 16, 2020, 03:39:21 PM
As Mick says, he is a Luddite, so I don't think the laptop plug will fit into the hole where the clockwork key fits.  ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: themadhippy on August 16, 2020, 03:54:28 PM
QuoteAs Mick says, he is a Luddite,
Ah of course,i didnt think it through,and   the shock to his system if the moving pictures on the screen suddenly were in colour instead of the usual black and white might be too much for him.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 17, 2020, 09:07:43 AM
Quote from: dannyboy on August 16, 2020, 03:39:21 PM
As Mick says, he is a Luddite, so I don't think the laptop plug will fit into the hole where the clockwork key fits.  ;D

A Luddite I may be but I have progressed to steam powered TV, David :telloff:
I'm still using some of that coal you kindly sent me

Quote from: themadhippy on August 16, 2020, 03:54:28 PM

the shock to his system if the moving pictures on the screen suddenly were in colour instead of the usual black and white might be too much for him.

Eh? Colour? What will they think of next? Maybe some easy way to switch the TV on and off :idea:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on August 17, 2020, 09:17:53 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on August 17, 2020, 09:07:43 AM
Quote from: dannyboy on August 16, 2020, 03:39:21 PM
As Mick says, he is a Luddite, so I don't think the laptop plug will fit into the hole where the clockwork key fits.  ;D

A Luddite I may be but I have progressed to steam powered TV, David :telloff:
I'm still using some of that coal you kindly sent me

My apologies Mick, I should have realised you would be more up to date these days. If you require more supplies of coal, just let me know, I will tie a bag full to the pigeons feet.  :)


Quote from: Newportnobby on August 17, 2020, 09:07:43 AM
Eh? Colour? What will they think of next? Maybe some easy way to switch the TV on and off :idea:

I have heard that it is possible to send a TV signal away from Earth and into space, the signal then apparently hits a metal thingy and the signal then comes back to Earth straight into your house. I mean, c'mon, how does it know where you live?  ???
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: tutenkhamunsleeping on August 17, 2020, 09:38:33 AM
Quote from: dannyboy on August 17, 2020, 09:17:53 AM
I mean, c'mon, how does it know where you live?  ???

Because you're not wearing your tinfoil hat ::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Calnefoxile on August 17, 2020, 05:09:55 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on August 16, 2020, 02:52:09 PM
I get my phone and broadband from BT so pay them a pittance each month to have BT Sport 1 and 2. Every time they try to put the price up I just tell 'em to take it away and they've relented every time so far. My luck will run out, I'm sure.

Quote from: talisman56 on August 16, 2020, 01:21:56 PM

The BBC treat iPlayer as their +1.

I can't get that on my telly (I'm a Luddite, remember)
I'm happy to watch a short prog on my laptop via the iPlayer but an hour's too long really.

Mick @Newportnobby (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264)

In all seriousness if you have a BTVision box, Iplayer is included as is Netflix and a couple of other Apps.

Cheers

Neal.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 17, 2020, 08:24:20 PM
Quote from: Calnefoxile on August 17, 2020, 05:09:55 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on August 16, 2020, 02:52:09 PM
I get my phone and broadband from BT so pay them a pittance each month to have BT Sport 1 and 2. Every time they try to put the price up I just tell 'em to take it away and they've relented every time so far. My luck will run out, I'm sure.

Quote from: talisman56 on August 16, 2020, 01:21:56 PM

The BBC treat iPlayer as their +1.

I can't get that on my telly (I'm a Luddite, remember)
I'm happy to watch a short prog on my laptop via the iPlayer but an hour's too long really.

Mick @Newportnobby (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264)

In all seriousness if you have a BTVision box, Iplayer is included as is Netflix and a couple of other Apps.

Cheers

Neal.

No BTVision Box, Neal. Just a BT Youview box connected to the internet hub and to my telly via HDMI. All I get is BT Sports 1 & 2. I don't want the rest of the stuff as it's purely so I can watch MotoGP.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on August 19, 2020, 06:01:11 PM
Does anyone else have problems with Railmatch paint?

My difficulties start with the screw-cap bottles, which I don't like. It's all too easy to glue them solid with paint. If you manage to avoid this and unscrew the bottle successfully, the seal is inevitably stuck to the rim of the bottle and you have to carve it away with a knife. However, my dischuffedness reached new levels today. I managed to force my way into the bottle only to discover that the whole lot had dried solid, even though the seal had been stuck so completely to the bottle that I couldn't get it off in one piece. How could that happen? I tried a second bottle of a different colour and that was exactly the same. It's not as if the paint is old, either, perhaps a couple of years, and barely used. I have old Humbrol tinlets, maybe 30 years old, and apart from the fact that you have to stir them for hours and hours, the paint is perfectly fine. In future, I think, Railmatch will be paint of last resort.

Dinner had better be good...

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on August 19, 2020, 06:08:17 PM
I can not comment on your paint woes Chris, but I do believe that a smear of Vaseline on the screw thread will help the top come off the bottle easily.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: themadhippy on August 19, 2020, 06:44:50 PM
QuoteI have old Humbrol tinlets, maybe 30 years old, and apart from the fact that you have to stir them for hours and hours
people are still manually stiring  paint?
https://www.titanshobby.com/tools-titans-hobby-electric-paint-shaker-compatible-with-all-kind-of-pots.2.1.1.gp.1.uw (https://www.titanshobby.com/tools-titans-hobby-electric-paint-shaker-compatible-with-all-kind-of-pots.2.1.1.gp.1.uw)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on August 19, 2020, 06:54:09 PM
As @Papyrus (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=2975) can not get the tops off of his paint bottles, he would be safe putting them in the washing machine - that would get them well stirred and it is free. (He still would not be able get at the paint though   :hmmm:).
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 19, 2020, 09:34:32 PM
As far as paint solidifying in the jar, does not ye olde trick of storing them upside down work?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on August 20, 2020, 04:24:50 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on August 19, 2020, 06:08:17 PM
I can not comment on your paint woes Chris, but I do believe that a smear of Vaseline on the screw thread will help the top come off the bottle easily.

My initial reaction was "that's a clever idea" but then I thought, what would happen if the Vaseline got into the paint? I would have thought it might mess up one's nice smooth paint job...

Quote from: themadhippy on August 19, 2020, 06:44:50 PM

people are still manually stiring  paint?
https://www.titanshobby.com/tools-titans-hobby-electric-paint-shaker-compatible-with-all-kind-of-pots.2.1.1.gp.1.uw (https://www.titanshobby.com/tools-titans-hobby-electric-paint-shaker-compatible-with-all-kind-of-pots.2.1.1.gp.1.uw)

Dear, dear, dear, electric this, electric that... Let's go back to manual tools and save the planet!  ;D

Quote from: Newportnobby on August 19, 2020, 09:34:32 PM
As far as paint solidifying in the jar, does not ye olde trick of storing them upside down work?

I've done that in the past with tins, but I would imagine it would only cement a screw cap on even solider, wouldn't it? Might be worth a try, I suppose - nothing to lose!

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TrevL on August 20, 2020, 04:55:06 PM
Plus 34quid to stir a tin of paint ??? :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Calnefoxile on August 20, 2020, 05:04:57 PM

I totally agree about Railmatch paints, I have a few that have had to be binned because they've gone solid, even adding some thinners hasn't worked. I also have some tins of Humbrol paints that are at least 10 years old and with a good stir and a drop of thinners, are perfectly ok.

Also I have one of these https://www.railroomelectronics.co.uk/Adhesives-Glue-s-Paint-s/Paint-Brushes/Product-88456.aspx# (https://www.railroomelectronics.co.uk/Adhesives-Glue-s-Paint-s/Paint-Brushes/Product-88456.aspx#) which I use to stir paints, not quite £34, although Adrian seems to be out of stock of them.  ;) ;) ;)

Regards

Neal.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on August 20, 2020, 05:23:22 PM
Quote from: Calnefoxile on August 20, 2020, 05:04:57 PM

Also I have one of these https://www.railroomelectronics.co.uk/Adhesives-Glue-s-Paint-s/Paint-Brushes/Product-88456.aspx# (https://www.railroomelectronics.co.uk/Adhesives-Glue-s-Paint-s/Paint-Brushes/Product-88456.aspx#) which I use to stir paints, not quite £34, although Adrian seems to be out of stock of them.  ;) ;) ;)


That looks just like the cheap milk frothers.  As regards the Vaseline tip, I only meant a thin smear on the threads.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on August 20, 2020, 06:06:25 PM
I always wipe round the 'touching' points of lid and tin with a rag/tissue before replacing the lid. It significantly reduced 'stickage'.

As for drying out, I can't help with that.

Lastly, mechanical stirrer for modelling paint? That's a solution for a problem that doesn't exist, isn't it?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MinZaPint on August 21, 2020, 11:18:55 AM
If the paint needs mixing, I pop it on the washing machine or tumble dryer with a spot of blue tac, need to coordinate with the other half on that  :-*, needs to be turned on (the machine not the other half  ::))
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on August 21, 2020, 12:31:13 PM
Quote from: MinZaPint on August 21, 2020, 11:18:55 AM
If the paint needs mixing, I pop it on the washing machine or tumble dryer with a spot of blue tac, need to coordinate with the other half on that  :-*, needs to be turned on (the machine not the other half  ::))

Get SWMBO turned on and it would give you something to do while the paint is mixing! :angel:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on August 21, 2020, 12:37:10 PM
I thought of a reply involving the comment above from Steve and vibrations from washing machines and then I remembered this was a family forum!  :-[
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on August 21, 2020, 01:51:59 PM
taking a lead from rattle cans, I add a couple of BB shot into each tin / bottle when opened, and this seems to help with mixing when the tin / bottle is shaken.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 21, 2020, 02:16:03 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on August 21, 2020, 12:37:10 PM
I thought of a reply involving the comment above from Steve and vibrations from washing machines and then I remembered this was a family forum!  :-[

Me too. The sheer thought of my ex and the washing machine on spin cycle..............ugh :sick2:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on August 21, 2020, 06:47:13 PM
This thread has gone off in a slightly different direction to the one I envisioned...  :uneasy: :hmmm:

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Lawrence on August 21, 2020, 06:47:42 PM
A worthwhile investment for me so far

https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/Shaken-Not-Stirred-Gel-Nails-Polish-Shaker-Lacquer-Mixer-Varnish-Bottle-Shaking/223962112755?hash=item34252ea2f3:g:2U4AAOSwMVZe-Ykr (https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/Shaken-Not-Stirred-Gel-Nails-Polish-Shaker-Lacquer-Mixer-Varnish-Bottle-Shaking/223962112755?hash=item34252ea2f3:g:2U4AAOSwMVZe-Ykr)

Pop each paint in for 30s every time you go to the railway room/shed whilst you do something else, not lost a tin/bottle of paint yet
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on August 21, 2020, 10:28:35 PM
I have been planning to migrate everything from our home server onto a (less power hungry) replacement. I had originally planned to use a pcie version of the Dell Perc6i (the old server uses an integrated version of the same card) to run a RAID array. Second thoughts have lead me to buy a different card and cables and a pair of 6TB drives, as the Perc6i can't support disks over 2TB. All arranged, cables arrived yesterday, card due today and weekend freed up ready for it. All day the tracking info has shown delivery before 9 pm and that it was received into the depot at 1:24 am (about 3 miles away from me). It has stayed the same all day, until 10 pm when it has suddenly changed to possibly being delivered on Monday  :veryangry: All my plans thrown into chaos and I'll not be able to do it until at least next weekend due to work commitments ... and maybe not for weeks, depending what else comes up.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on August 23, 2020, 09:51:37 PM
Quote from: stevewalker on August 21, 2020, 10:28:35 PM
I have been planning to migrate everything from our home server onto a (less power hungry) replacement. I had originally planned to use a pcie version of the Dell Perc6i (the old server uses an integrated version of the same card) to run a RAID array. Second thoughts have lead me to buy a different card and cables and a pair of 6TB drives, as the Perc6i can't support disks over 2TB. All arranged, cables arrived yesterday, card due today and weekend freed up ready for it. All day the tracking info has shown delivery before 9 pm and that it was received into the depot at 1:24 am (about 3 miles away from me). It has stayed the same all day, until 10 pm when it has suddenly changed to possibly being delivered on Monday  :veryangry: All my plans thrown into chaos and I'll not be able to do it until at least next weekend due to work commitments ... and maybe not for weeks, depending what else comes up.

Oh well! you could always do some modelling instead.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on August 23, 2020, 10:54:32 PM
I did finally manage to get hold of it, but it put me back a day (meaning I was still up working on it at 3am) and data is still transferring now. What really got me was that they sent me an email saying that it was delayed "due to external factors", despite it being checked in at the depot, 3 miles away, at 1:24 am - and then again, the next morning at 4:59 am ?????

After much discussion - particularly about the 3-day timeframe, meaning that I would be worried about going out or to the garage or shed for up to three days, as my wife cannot get down the stairs quickly when the doorbell rings, due to health and disability problems (she injured herself trying to do so a couple of months ago), they promised to look into it and "prioritise it". I could have done without the prioritisation  and lived with a Monday delivery, if I had known that it would not arrive on Saturday or Sunday.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on August 24, 2020, 01:16:50 PM
We ordered some boxes off Amazon, Yodel said they would be delivering Thursday. We haven't been going out much lately as I am a high risk if I get infected. On Wednesday we popped out for 30 mins to post a letter and when we got back we found the card saying they couldn't deliver as they needed a signature but would try Thursday. Thursday comes and we get a ring on the doorbell. By the time I had got my mask on and got to the door, they had left the box and departed. Why couldn't they have done that the day before?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: tutenkhamunsleeping on August 24, 2020, 01:21:47 PM
Quote from: Malc on August 24, 2020, 01:16:50 PM
Why couldn't they have done that the day before?

3 across: Because they're a bunch of (7 letters) ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 24, 2020, 01:44:41 PM
Quote from: tutenkhamunsleeping on August 24, 2020, 01:21:47 PM
Quote from: Malc on August 24, 2020, 01:16:50 PM
Why couldn't they have done that the day before?

3 across: Because they're a bunch of (7 letters) ;)

I must have gone wrong somewhere as I just can't get that 'W' to fit in with 5 down :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: njee20 on August 24, 2020, 03:19:59 PM
Quote from: stevewalker on August 23, 2020, 10:54:32 PM
After much discussion - particularly about the 3-day timeframe, meaning that I would be worried about going out or to the garage or shed for up to three days, as my wife cannot get down the stairs quickly when the doorbell rings, due to health and disability problems (she injured herself trying to do so a couple of months ago), they promised to look into it and "prioritise it". I could have done without the prioritisation  and lived with a Monday delivery, if I had known that it would not arrive on Saturday or Sunday.

Sounds like a prime candidate for a remote doorbell. £20 well spent.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on August 24, 2020, 04:24:36 PM
A remote repeat on the doorbell could well be useful and I have been considering one. However, it wouldn't have helped when I had to be at the shops on Saturday.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: themadhippy on August 24, 2020, 04:57:16 PM
How will a remote door bell get someone down the stairs quicker? A note by the door bell saying "be patient slow moving vehicle" maybe a better option
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on August 24, 2020, 05:53:29 PM
A remote doorbell would at least let me know that someone was at the door if I was in the garage or shed - and I can get from those a whole lot quicker than my wife can even get from the bed to the top of the stairs. Signs are not of much help, as couriers are under pressure to keep moving and can't hang around while she struggles to get sat up, then stood, then find a dressing gown, then "crawl" down the stairs - believe me, it is a very slow process!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on August 24, 2020, 09:57:28 PM
Quote from: stevewalker on August 24, 2020, 04:24:36 PM
A remote repeat on the doorbell could well be useful and I have been considering one. However, it wouldn't have helped when I had to be at the shops on Saturday.

It might as you could have talked to the delivery man and asked him to leave it somewhere out of sight.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on August 24, 2020, 10:07:04 PM
That sort of remote doorbell is something that I have been thinking of, but I haven't the time at the moment to make one - I won't buy one, as all but extremely expensive versions rely upon communicating via a remote server, leaving you with ongoing fees (in some cases), the possibility of the service being discontinued or downgraded, etc. One that communicates through my router directly to my phone or via a service running on my home server is what I need, but they are very pricey.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: zwilnik on August 24, 2020, 10:22:31 PM
Quote from: stevewalker on August 24, 2020, 10:07:04 PM
That sort of remote doorbell is something that I have been thinking of, but I haven't the time at the moment to make one - I won't buy one, as all but extremely expensive versions rely upon communicating via a remote server, leaving you with ongoing fees (in some cases), the possibility of the service being discontinued or downgraded, etc. One that communicates through my router directly to my phone or via a service running on my home server is what I need, but they are very pricey.

Also criminals using them to identify wealthier houses that might be worth hitting.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: njee20 on August 25, 2020, 08:24:04 AM
How does a doorbell help criminals identify wealthy houses? Looking at RightMove seems far more straightforward. Or Google Maps. Or walking down the street.

I wasn't necessarily meaning one you can talk to people, just a wireless one, so you can hear it in the garage. There are dozens on Amazon for £10-£12. We've got one, and it is good I must say, you don't need to be under house arrest when you're expecting a parcel; easy enough to dash in from the garage.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: tutenkhamunsleeping on August 25, 2020, 08:41:50 AM
Quote from: njee20 on August 25, 2020, 08:24:04 AM
I wasn't necessarily meaning one you can talk to people, just a wireless one, so you can hear it in the garage. There are dozens on Amazon for £10-£12. We've got one, and it is good I must say, you don't need to be under house arrest when you're expecting a parcel; easy enough to dash in from the garage.

Yes, we've got one of those and it works well :thumbsup:  My sister has one of those Ring video doorbells and it works rather less well for her, wi-fi and network lag we assume.

If I'm expecting a parcel, however, my best friend is a CCTV camera viewable on my iPad.  I can see a van pull up and be halfway down the two flights of stairs from the man-cave before the doorbell rings.  Some couriers don't linger and this saves me chasing them down the street ::)

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on August 25, 2020, 10:10:27 AM
@tutenkhamunsleeping (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=1490) just as a matter of interest, Steve. Which cctv camera do you have. Mine has been disconnected because the servers have been switched off. I don't need internet access, just like you I want to see who's arriving.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: tutenkhamunsleeping on August 25, 2020, 10:20:04 AM
Quote from: Malc on August 25, 2020, 10:10:27 AM
just as a matter of interest, Steve. Which cctv camera do you have.

I couldn't tell you exactly without climbing up a ladder, but they're Hikvision HD examples.  The geek in me wanted 4k, but SWMBO doesn't share my enthusiasm for all things tech.  Picture is excellent, nevertheless.  The police have been full of praise  on the couple of occasions they've asked for footage of incidents in the road.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on September 07, 2020, 04:11:34 AM
Just had my cat put down due to terminal health problems.
18 years old.
Doesn't get any easier no matter how many deaths one experiences. :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: tutenkhamunsleeping on September 07, 2020, 06:49:57 AM
Quote from: NinOz on September 07, 2020, 04:11:34 AM
Doesn't get any easier no matter how many deaths one experiences. :'(

You're right. My heart goes out to you at this sad time.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 07, 2020, 08:15:52 AM
So sorry to hear that, as you say, it does not get any easier.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on September 07, 2020, 09:38:58 AM
I don't like cats much, but you have my sympathy for your loss.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 07, 2020, 09:55:29 AM
So sorry to hear that. Having gone through it a few times I can sympathise
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on September 07, 2020, 10:02:48 AM
That sucks mate. I've a 17 yr old cat with health issues and I'm dreading the inevitable day.

I take solace from the fact that as a responsible caring cat owner, you enrich each other's lives, and I take comfort in having the honour of being their caretaker.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on September 08, 2020, 12:29:34 AM
Commiserations. We've had it twice, plus one that died when she was in for neutering. The good thing is that you know you are doing the right thing and preventing suffering.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Graham on September 08, 2020, 04:41:31 AM
still stuck in lockdown, for us in this part of Aus, it will be 12 weeks under curfew before they let us out, NOT HAPPY, want to get back to the train club.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on September 08, 2020, 04:58:42 AM
Yep, you guys are doing it tough down there, for sure.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Graham on September 08, 2020, 07:36:10 AM
The Chairman is finally admitting our systems weren't up to handling this second wave.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on September 16, 2020, 10:35:49 PM
One of my trailer tyres is cracking due to age and lack of use and the spare was even worse. I need the trailer this weekend, so rather than have the expensive hassle of having new tyres fitted (and the problems of getting them in by Friday), I decided to buy a pair of new wheels and tyres, which works out cheaper than a pair of fitted tyres and to keep the good tyre/wheel as a spare.

I was bouncing back and forth between different adverts and managed to click on the wrong one that used an identical picture, so instead of 10" wheels for 4" PCD hubs and 3/8" studs, I've got ones for 100mm PCD hubs and 12mm studs :( I can either pay 20-odd quid to get the new tyres moved onto the old (and scruffy) wheels or pay 46 quid for replacement hubs to fit the stub axles and get a replacement spare later. I've decided on the latter.

What a waste of money and time due to a moment not paying enough attention.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on September 16, 2020, 10:38:46 PM
Quote from: Graham on September 08, 2020, 07:36:10 AM
The Chairman is finally admitting our systems weren't up to handling this second wave.

Although, to be fair, are anyone's? The news just now was stating that per head of population, the UK is performing more tests than any other European country, which suggests that no matter how many were made available, it would never be enough.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on September 16, 2020, 10:47:30 PM
Quote from: stevewalker on September 16, 2020, 10:38:46 PM
Quote from: Graham on September 08, 2020, 07:36:10 AM
The Chairman is finally admitting our systems weren't up to handling this second wave.

Although, to be fair, are anyone's? The news just now was stating that per head of population, the UK is performing more tests than any other European country, which suggests that no matter how many were made available, it would never be enough.

Local news covered a school today where one kid was sent home with sniffles but no test confirmation and thirty parents and children plus siblings from their bubble all wanted tests despite having no symptoms.   That's over 90 test requests all not meeting the test criteria, no wonder the testing system has crashed if that's happening all over the country.  SHEEP leading SHEEP.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on September 16, 2020, 10:55:10 PM
I must admit that if one of my children had symptoms, or a classmate did, I'd want them tested ASAP - but that's because my wife is classed as vulnerable and it'd be nice for both her and my children to not actively avoid each other for a fortnight and for me to not have to (because of spending time with the kids) sleep on the sofa to avoid the possibility of passing it to her.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on September 16, 2020, 11:01:02 PM
Quote from: stevewalker on September 16, 2020, 10:55:10 PM
I must admit that if one of my children had symptoms, or a classmate did, I'd want them tested ASAP - but that's because my wife is classed as vulnerable and it'd be nice for both her and my children to not actively avoid each other for a fortnight and for me to not have to (because of spending time with the kids) sleep on the sofa to avoid the possibility of passing it to her.

I agree so would I if the test worked, but the tests biologically don't work if you don't have symptoms, so the 90 odd people, if the got the tests they are demanding, would be a waste of tests as without symptoms the tests are meaningless.

The tests do not detect incubating Covid19.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: themadhippy on September 16, 2020, 11:32:48 PM
QuoteI was bouncing back and forth between different adverts and managed to click on the wrong one that used an identical picture
if you bought them online then use the distance selling rules to send em back
QuoteSHEEP leading SHEEP.
or   "in line with NHS guidelines",if youve been in close contact with someone showing symptoms you get tested too,even though the initial persons test is negative,or do  those guidelines only apply to politicians?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on September 16, 2020, 11:35:37 PM
Quote from: themadhippy on September 16, 2020, 11:32:48 PMor do  those guidelines only apply to politicians?

you are back to SHEEP again  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on September 17, 2020, 12:21:33 AM
While it may not work at the pre-symptom stage for those that later develop symptoms, children are more likely to be asymptomatic throughout, which makes waiting for symptoms before testing more problematic.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on September 18, 2020, 02:34:54 PM
bought a pair of boots off e-bay at the end of may for walking HB.

arrived quickly, and appeared to be of reasonable quality for the price.....

but noticed last week that the stitching between the leather panel around the laces and the fabric panel on the right boot was coming undone, so monday messaged the seller [trading as Dallas-Shoes] with photos of the problem.
wednesday, with no response or even acknowledgement of my message, I sent a further message, with another photo of the now larger fault.
today, with still no response from the seller, I contacted E-bay, but was told it was too long ago for them to get involved  :confused1:
I was however advised to contact my credit card company, the original purchase was during my 3 month row with Paypal over their 'limiting' my account, to claim a refund from them.
seller now advised of this and will be seeing if the credit card scheme is any use.

meantime, ordered another pair, FROM A DIFFERENT SELLER OF COURSE, on wednesday which arrived this morning.
look ok, but no doubt time, and HB walking, will prove if first impressions are right  :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 18, 2020, 05:03:47 PM
Hope you get things sorted to your satisfaction Chris. I have the opposite experience with an ebay seller, but will post under the 'Happy' thread later.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on September 18, 2020, 08:02:09 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on September 18, 2020, 05:03:47 PM
Hope you get things sorted to your satisfaction Chris. I have the opposite experience with an ebay seller, but will post under the 'Happy' thread later.

errr Alan ?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 18, 2020, 08:08:19 PM
Quote from: class37025 on September 18, 2020, 08:02:09 PM

errr Alan ?

I knew when I said Chris that I meant Alan.  :-[
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on September 18, 2020, 08:11:38 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on September 18, 2020, 08:08:19 PM
Quote from: class37025 on September 18, 2020, 08:02:09 PM

errr Alan ?

I knew when I said Chris that I meant Alan.  :-[

bless you my son, your transgression is forgiven  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TrevL on September 18, 2020, 08:35:11 PM
Don't be so pedantic Brian :smiley-laughing: :smiley-laughing: :smiley-laughing: :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on September 19, 2020, 01:19:55 AM
Quote from: themadhippy on September 16, 2020, 11:32:48 PM
QuoteI was bouncing back and forth between different adverts and managed to click on the wrong one that used an identical picture
if you bought them online then use the distance selling rules to send em back

The description was correct, it was just me not looking properly. Anyway, returning them was not an option, as I need the trailer tomorrow, so I've picked up replacement hubs that match the wheels and they are now fitted.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on September 21, 2020, 12:46:43 AM
Well we're in isolation (for a few days at least). Our middle son has had a "cold" for a couple of days, but one Saturday/Sunday night was also feeling sick and running a temperature. This morning I booked a COVID-19 test for him and took him in the afternoon. Now we have to wait for the result.

Beautifully timed so as to prevent his older brother taking his mock A-levels starting on Monday - which may be vitally important if exams get cancelled again next Spring :(

On the good side, although we had to drive 45 minutes each way to a drive-through test centre (we could have attended a walk-though much closer to home, but didn't fancy the possibility of standing in line for some time with other people), we were dealt with immediately. There were also others being dealt with when we arrived and when we left, so although there were no queues, it looks like they are getting the appointment system right and it is working well.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daveg on September 21, 2020, 07:26:12 AM
Mixed blessings there.

Hope everyone stays healthy, Steve and exams go to plan.

Dave G
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on September 21, 2020, 08:18:31 AM
Yes, fingers crossed that it's not covid, Steve.  :thumbsup:

And hi, Dave - long time no hear!  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on September 21, 2020, 03:10:01 PM
A quick update. No news on the test result yet, but all of his year have been sent home today, as another child *has* tested positive and as Liam has been in contact with him, he'll have to stay home for a fortnight, regardless of his own test results. However, if his test is negative, myself, my wife and our other two sons can go out again
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 21, 2020, 03:27:57 PM
Hopefully the result will be a negative Steve. (Where's the 'fingers crossed' thingy?).  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on September 23, 2020, 03:47:41 PM
Still no test results 3 days from the test, despite numerous other parents having test results back the next day. Phoning 119, results in a message that they are too busy to chase test results and to just keep self-isolating (14 days for the household). Meanwhile my eldest son has been unable to take his A-level mocks (which could be vitally important if there is disruption to the real  A-levels next year) and four businesses have lost income because we have had to cancel my wife's hairdressing appointment, my birthday meal out, my son's birthday meal out and, if the results still aren't here tomorrow, a combined birthday/anniversary meal/drinks/overnight stay in the hotel where we had our wedding reception.

As the tests are barcoded and will be scanned before sending from the test site, when arriving at the lab and at various stages, I can't understand why they can't just make its status available online and avoid all the people calling to chase up delayed results.

Much more of this and  it'll be elevated to the Angry Thread!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 23, 2020, 04:05:32 PM
Bit of a farce really, but Happy Birthday to you and your son and Happy Anniversary.  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on September 23, 2020, 04:17:37 PM
Thank you.

None of it matters that much, it's just the enforced, but likely unnecessary disruption to plans that is so irritating - and knowing that others are not having to wait so long.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on September 23, 2020, 10:48:14 PM
Wahay  :claphappy: Liam's test result arrived just before 8pm and is negative, so although he has to stay in for the rest of the 14 days (as he has been in contact with a confirmed case), the rest of us are released. James and Darragh are back to school tomorrow (just what they wanted - not) and Tric and I's birthday/anniversary meal/drinks/overnight stay in the hotel is still on. The bar shutting at 10pm is not good, but we'll cope  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 24, 2020, 09:29:47 AM
Great news, Steve.

Quote from: stevewalker on September 23, 2020, 10:48:14 PM
Tric and I's birthday/anniversary meal/drinks/overnight stay in the hotel is still on. The bar shutting at 10pm is not good, but we'll cope  :D

I guess you'll have to find something else to do after the bar closes. Maybe take a board game with you..................or not ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 24, 2020, 09:35:53 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on September 24, 2020, 09:29:47 AM
I guess you'll have to find something else to do after the bar closes. Maybe take a board game with you..................or not ;)

You could always take a wagon kit with you and, as it is your anniversary do, Tric could help you ............   ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on September 24, 2020, 10:02:17 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on September 24, 2020, 09:29:47 AM
Great news, Steve.

Quote from: stevewalker on September 23, 2020, 10:48:14 PM
Tric and I's birthday/anniversary meal/drinks/overnight stay in the hotel is still on. The bar shutting at 10pm is not good, but we'll cope  :D

I guess you'll have to find something else to do after the bar closes. Maybe take a board game with you..................or not ;)

The bar must be closed and empty by 10 so they will finish serving before then. The board game or kit would best be left behind to give you something to do when you get back. :beers: perhaps a few beers in the fridge
Title: Music
Post by: BarryH on October 01, 2020, 12:41:25 AM
Why do people who have purchased a musical instrument think that ownership gives them the right to inflict the so called music they generate upon others.
My wife and I enjoy bush camping for the serenity. Quite often there are people, notably guitar owners who insist on disturbing the peace. (Note that I didn't call them musicians).
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on October 01, 2020, 01:24:16 AM
Years ago I regularly used to see a guy, in a kilt, practicing on his bagpipes, while walking up and down the central reservation of a dual-carriageway.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 01, 2020, 03:10:33 AM
Last year we saw a guy playing the bagpipes on Westminster Bridge in that London. He had a cap or something in front asking for donations so he could afford to see his daughter if I remember correctly. An hour later we saw him supping pints in the Red Lion in Parliament Street. At £6.85 a pint we decided we wouldn't put anything in his cap.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 01, 2020, 09:15:26 PM
Now that I have calmed down a bit, I have decided the 'Unhappy' thread will do for this post. I had a dentists appointment for a check up in April, but because of Covid, it was postponed. I received a text last month saying they were taking appointments again, so, as I had a bit of a 'twinge' last week, I telephoned and made an appointment for next Thursday. As is the usual practice, I received a text today asking me to text 'Yes' or 'No' just to confirm. BUT, added to the text was the fact that there would be a €10 surcharge. As the Government is not providing dentists here, (apparently), with PPE, the dental practice is making the surcharge to help cover the extra PPE and disinfecting regime etc. As I am still getting the occasional 'twinge', I will keep my appointment. I will however insist that a couple of Euro be deducted from the €10 surcharge, as the text message also adds that I have to wear a mask - so they can pay for it! I have not heard of one other business in Ireland, (or elsewhere for that matter), that is asking customers to pay for the extra costs incurred due to Covid.  >:(. (On reflection, maybe this should have gone in the 'Angry' thread).
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Calnefoxile on October 02, 2020, 08:45:26 AM

David,

This is the same with my Dentist in Blighty, but only for Private patients, not NHS Ones.

Cheers

Neal.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 02, 2020, 09:09:52 AM
Neal.
There is no NHS as such in Ireland. A 'Medical Card'  is available to people with low earnings, which gives mostly free treatment, (or at least a free visit to the Doctor), but (un)fortunately, Louisa's wage plus my pensions means I am not entitled to one. Things will change when I hit 70 next year, but I will have to study the figures as it is all earnings related.   :confused1:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on October 02, 2020, 10:35:45 AM
Quote from: Trainfish on October 01, 2020, 03:10:33 AM
Last year we saw a guy playing the bagpipes on Westminster Bridge in that London. He had a cap or something in front asking for donations so he could afford to see his daughter if I remember correctly. An hour later we saw him supping pints in the Red Lion in Parliament Street. At £6.85 a pint we decided we wouldn't put anything in his cap.

perhaps his daughter was the barmaid ?  :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 02, 2020, 11:09:56 AM
You may well be right but he was the only one in the pub wearing a skirt. Honest  :no:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on October 06, 2020, 02:45:33 PM
In August we returned from a week on a narrowboat, to find that the RCD had tripped and we'd lost all the food in the fridge and freezer.

Since then we have replaced the RCD and the MCBs that it was protecting, with RCBOs, so as to split up the drain though all of the filters on equipment in our house. So far, so good, no more trips - but the fridge/freezer itself failed last night and we have lost the whole lot again ... we'd just had a delivery during the day too!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on October 06, 2020, 02:49:15 PM
Sounds like the trip was a warning that the fridge was failing.  Hope you were insured.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: themadhippy on October 06, 2020, 03:35:44 PM
keep the freezer door shut and you should be fine for  12hours,more if the freezer is rammed full
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on October 06, 2020, 03:39:45 PM
We know the cause of the trips - too many electronic items with mains filters that (by design) leak to earth and the whole house being on a single RCD, so it being permanently on the verge of tripping. The fridge-freezer itself is running quite happily, but not getting the fridge or freezer below 9°C and not bothering to put the warning lights on either.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on October 06, 2020, 03:43:17 PM
Quote from: themadhippy on October 06, 2020, 03:35:44 PM
keep the freezer door shut and you should be fine for  12hours,more if the freezer is rammed full

Unfortunately, although it is actually running (just failing to cool), the warning lights and sounder have not come on - so the first we knew of it was when we found the food in the freezer already defrosted.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on October 06, 2020, 03:44:23 PM
I keep three freezers, two small and one larger, the oldest being nearly 15 years old but works fine.  One is always filled with that years fruit picking so if one goes it will all be  moved around and my wife will spend three days making jam.  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 06, 2020, 03:47:01 PM
Quote from: stevewalker on October 06, 2020, 03:43:17 PM
so the first we knew of it was when we found the food in the freezer already defrosted.

Get it all cooked quick and invite the neighbours round for a party ............. oh, hang on, that's not allowed now.  ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 06, 2020, 10:12:03 PM
Quote from: stevewalker on October 06, 2020, 03:39:45 PM
We know the cause of the trips - too many electronic items with mains filters that (by design) leak to earth and the whole house being on a single RCD, so it being permanently on the verge of tripping. The fridge-freezer itself is running quite happily, but not getting the fridge or freezer below 9°C and not bothering to put the warning lights on either.

Sounds to me like there could be a refrigerant leak. In my opinion it's not worth the cost of repairing due to the low cost of replacement equipment these days.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 06, 2020, 10:22:52 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on October 06, 2020, 03:47:01 PM
Quote from: stevewalker on October 06, 2020, 03:43:17 PM
so the first we knew of it was when we found the food in the freezer already defrosted.

Get it all cooked quick and invite the neighbours round for a party ............. oh, hang on, that's not allowed now.  ;)

If a funeral is held for the fridge then 30 people are allowed :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on October 06, 2020, 11:50:20 PM
I can't find a coffin big enough - my wife can't even reach the top shelves!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on October 06, 2020, 11:55:16 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on October 06, 2020, 10:12:03 PM
Quote from: stevewalker on October 06, 2020, 03:39:45 PM
We know the cause of the trips - too many electronic items with mains filters that (by design) leak to earth and the whole house being on a single RCD, so it being permanently on the verge of tripping. The fridge-freezer itself is running quite happily, but not getting the fridge or freezer below 9°C and not bothering to put the warning lights on either.

Sounds to me like there could be a refrigerant leak. In my opinion it's not worth the cost of repairing due to the low cost of replacement equipment these days.

Quite possibly. The previous one lasted many years and I had to replace sensors a number of times. In this case, with no fault indicated, I am not going to investigate further and we have another one on order, which being a little deeper front to back, has similar capacity while being a bit shorter (good for my wife) and has temperature displays on the OUTSIDE - why on earth do so many have indicators and/or warning lights that you can only see once the door is open?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Philip. on October 08, 2020, 10:19:58 AM
For the first time in over 10 years I won't be going to the Ski Jumping in Bischofshofen in January. Firstly the uncertainty of actually being able to travel or not on the 2nd of January due to us potentially finally crashing out of the EU 2 days prior {will planes fly, do I need a visa etc] and now blasted Covid, I today cancelled the hotel.

Thankfully I hadn't booked any flights as I was holding off to see what transpired. I'm absolutely gutted if I'm honest but just couldn't risk it.

Hopefully things will have calmed down by 2022  :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on October 09, 2020, 09:39:53 AM
Didn't come close to winning a meat tray at my local club tonight.

Yeah, not exactly global earth changing news, but I'm still unhappy about it and this is the unhappy thread  ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on October 09, 2020, 09:54:43 AM
Quote from: Bealman on October 09, 2020, 09:39:53 AM
Didn't come close to winning a meat tray at my local club tonight.

Yeah, not exactly global earth changing news, but I'm still unhappy about it and this is the unhappy thread  ;)

Here we go...

...back to your 'first world problems' again.

::)

;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on October 09, 2020, 09:58:07 AM
 :laughabovepost: :smiley-laughing:

Me mates have gone home and I'm bored!  ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: njee20 on October 09, 2020, 11:11:13 AM
Quote from: Trainfish on October 01, 2020, 03:10:33 AM
Last year we saw a guy playing the bagpipes on Westminster Bridge in that London. He had a cap or something in front asking for donations so he could afford to see his daughter if I remember correctly. An hour later we saw him supping pints in the Red Lion in Parliament Street. At £6.85 a pint we decided we wouldn't put anything in his cap.

There was a busker in San Francisco whose 'patch' was the queue at the Fishermans' Wharf cable car station, a veritable hotbed of jovial tourists. He was extremely upfront in saying he welcomed donations, but in no way did he seek pity, he paid a fortune for the licence for that spot, he had a holiday home in Hawaii, and had put two kids through "college" on the procedes. I liked his honesty.

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 09, 2020, 11:46:54 AM
I thought this item (https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/model-village-camping-scene-/373240795635?nma=true&si=VjYqbNjPLgmmpy9NJ4ScpY532XQ%253D&orig_cvip=true&nordt=true&rt=nc&_trksid=p2047675.l2557) would be perfect for my campsite. It arrived today and it turns out there are more items than in the picture but they are all Orribly Oversized. Return requested but I'm disappointed as they would have been ideal.

(https://i.ebayimg.com/images/g/TzoAAOSwuPJfcdlI/s-l1600.jpg)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Delboy on October 09, 2020, 12:02:44 PM
I notice the ebay advert does not give a scale so perhaps they are OO gauge?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 09, 2020, 12:27:08 PM
They are indeed OO (Orribly Oversized) gauge but they are listed in the N gauge section. Collectables>Model Railways & Trains>N Gauge>Parts & Accessories>Buildings, Tunnels & Bridges
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Graham on October 09, 2020, 10:44:31 PM
Quote from: Bealman on October 09, 2020, 09:58:07 AM
:laughabovepost: :smiley-laughing:

Me mates have gone home and I'm bored!  ;)
well at least you can go out to the club

some of us dream of that.  :'( :'( :'(

one day we will be free.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on October 10, 2020, 09:49:13 AM
 Not with the idiots around here. My wife is classed as vulnerable and has hardly been out of the house for months. Yesterday, she was due blood tests and x-rsys, so I drove her there, then to a Tesxo click and collect and then to M&S for some items missing from our order. I was busy putting our items on the belt and didn't notice what was going on, until the cashier (unable to wear a mask for medical reasons) complained to us thay the woman in front had not had a mask, was coughing and was, by her own admission, WAITING FOR THE RESULT OF A COVID-19 TEST  :censored: what doesn't she understand about self-isolating?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TrevL on October 15, 2020, 11:43:18 AM
Yesterday I ordered a bookcase thingy from Ikea.  First shock was £40 delivery for a £41 item.  But because of lockdown, I can't go pick it up from Warrington, so swallowed that and paid with payal.  Receipt was issued almost immediately, and cash gone from bank account.  Within 5 minutes, Ikea issued a refund for the total, but gave no reason why, and they had the nerve to tell me it would take a few days for the refund to get in my account.  Why? They took the money instantly, pity they can't refund instantly?  Moan over.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on October 15, 2020, 11:51:20 AM
My son celebrates his 21st birthday today and on Saturday he comes home on leave for the first time since joining the army last month.

I was looking forward to taking him out for a slap-up meal this weekend but unfortunately the French government has announced a 9 pm curfew starting at midnight on Friday.

I hope my wife will rise to the occasion on the cookery front  :no:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 15, 2020, 11:58:33 AM
Quote from: joe cassidy on October 15, 2020, 11:51:20 AM
My son celebrates his 21st birthday today

Happy Birthday to your son - hope you all enjoy your meal, (even if it is just jam sandwiches).

Quote from: joe cassidy on October 15, 2020, 11:51:20 AM

the French government has announced a 9 pm curfew starting at midnight

That sounds more Irish than French.  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TrevL on October 15, 2020, 12:00:59 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on October 15, 2020, 11:58:33 AM
Quote from: joe cassidy on October 15, 2020, 11:51:20 AM
My son celebrates his 21st birthday today

Happy Birthday to your son - hope you all enjoy your meal, (even if it is just jam sandwiches).

Quote from: joe cassidy on October 15, 2020, 11:51:20 AM

the French government has announced a 9 pm curfew starting at midnight

That sounds more Irish than French.  :)

To be sure, to be sure ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on October 15, 2020, 12:03:10 PM
I'm a plastic paddy  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 15, 2020, 12:32:21 PM
Out of curiosity why does the meal have to finish after 9pm? Can you not just go out earlier? :confused2:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on October 15, 2020, 12:36:34 PM
Our president said that in order to be tucked up in bed at 9 pm you have to leave the resto at 8:30 pm.

If your meal (avec apero) lasts 2 hours you have to start at 6:30 pm.

That's a bit early, even for Americans  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on October 15, 2020, 12:38:38 PM
So when are the French going to be able to visit their mistresses  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 15, 2020, 12:39:57 PM
I can just picture it now, the three of them sat at the table, spoons in hand, just about to start on the profiteroles and along comes the waiter, who whips the plates away, saying "désolé, il est 9 heures".   :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on October 15, 2020, 12:41:25 PM
"Dommage" pour le tip  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on October 15, 2020, 01:19:13 PM
not a good week for me Monday i find out a work mate of ten years has died 3 weeks after retirement
the same day i find out that Jenifer the wife of one of my mums brothers has died 
yesterday one one of my best mates gran died
and now to top all that i think my colitis is getting ready to kick off

John
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on October 15, 2020, 01:23:03 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on October 15, 2020, 12:39:57 PM
I can just picture it now, the three of them sat at the table, spoons in hand, just about to start on the profiteroles and along comes the waiter, who whips the plates away, saying "désolé, il est 9 heures".   :smiley-laughing:

Only Basil Fawlty could get away with that  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on October 15, 2020, 01:25:11 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on October 15, 2020, 12:39:57 PM
I can just picture it now, the three of them sat at the table, spoons in hand, just about to start on the profiteroles and along comes the waiter, who whips the plates away, saying "désolé, il est 9 heures".   :smiley-laughing:

To which you reply "Je regret c'est trop tard pour payer l' addition"
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 15, 2020, 01:30:42 PM
Quote from: JBQFC on October 15, 2020, 01:19:13 PM
not a good week for me

As you say John, not a good week. My condolences - and I hope you are wrong about the colitis.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on October 15, 2020, 01:39:05 PM
My Mum (will be 92 years old on 25 October) was taken into hospital last Saturday with various problems.

Since then her condition has been, to quote M Python, "going up and down like the assyrien empire".

Unfortunately visits to the hospital are forbidden.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 15, 2020, 01:45:05 PM
I hope it turns out to be nothing too serious Joe.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on October 15, 2020, 01:47:18 PM
Thanks David  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 15, 2020, 03:48:17 PM
Quote from: joe cassidy on October 15, 2020, 01:39:05 PM
My Mum (will be 92 years old on 25 October) was taken into hospital last Saturday with various problems.

Since then her condition has been, to quote M Python, "going up and down like the assyrien empire".

Unfortunately visits to the hospital are forbidden.

That's the worst part. Bad enough your Mum's hospitalised (hope she improves soon) but with no visits allowed it makes matters worse for both you and her :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on October 16, 2020, 11:45:16 AM
Thanks Mick. They do allow visits when the end is nigh, but only one person.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on October 16, 2020, 11:55:52 AM
I have got 2 self-assembly Ikea beds being delivered tomorrow  :worried:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 16, 2020, 12:00:42 PM
You will be able to put your mask on, stand 2 metres away, cup/mug/glass in hand and watch them self assemble.  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on October 16, 2020, 12:02:47 PM
I hope that Ikea don't forget to include the magic wand.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on October 16, 2020, 12:03:53 PM
IKEA are now selling hookers, you have to  :censored: them yourself.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 16, 2020, 12:15:13 PM
Apparently our local school has become an academy and it's sponsored by IKEA.
They say the lessons are ok, but morning assembly takes ages.

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on October 16, 2020, 01:51:30 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on October 16, 2020, 12:15:13 PM
Apparently our local school has become an academy and it's sponsored by IKEA.
They say the lessons are ok, but morning assembly takes ages.
Elsewhere they have granted a GroanButton
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on October 16, 2020, 01:53:20 PM
Quote from: joe cassidy l

Only Basil Fawlty could get away with that  :)
/quote]
I think someone has been taking lessons..
https://www.edp24.co.uk/news/crime/norwich-man-who-was-dragged-along-by-car-then-used-axe-to-damage-vehicle-1-6885601 (https://www.edp24.co.uk/news/crime/norwich-man-who-was-dragged-along-by-car-then-used-axe-to-damage-vehicle-1-6885601)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 16, 2020, 03:19:06 PM
Whenever I bought something from Ikea I ended up with a bedroom shed and a few bits left over :confused2:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: themadhippy on October 16, 2020, 03:39:42 PM
A  middle class punk  went to ikea and told the assistant ,"my girlfriend insists i need  a sofa bed,have you got any?" the assistant  replies
"Don't be told what you want
Don't be told what you need
There's no futon
No futon
No futon for you"
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on October 16, 2020, 04:04:26 PM
Something wrong with the forum software, this is not the Groaner thread.  :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on October 16, 2020, 04:16:10 PM
No.

This is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay funnier.

:whistle:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on October 16, 2020, 04:30:09 PM
Quote from: themadhippy on October 16, 2020, 03:39:42 PM
A  middle class punk  went to ikea and told the assistant ,"my girlfriend insists i need  a sofa bed,have you got any?" the assistant  replies
"Don't be told what you want
Don't be told what you need
There's no futon
No futon
No futon for you"

That's a half-sized joke if ever I read one.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on October 16, 2020, 06:43:26 PM
Ok so this post is only here for dramatic effect (and I can't find a "how do I explain this to the wife" thread), and I am in fact happy....

Secured my Christmas present from the Wife (to be locked away till the big day of course) today.

Only problem is it has come via @Mirrlees (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=340) (Sir Tim of Hitch) and of course I was subjected to the famous "up sell".

So extra package needs to make its way into the house...

And what's worse is I have to go go the den of the master salesman himself to pick up the items.

How is a man of fragile will when it comes to tiny trains to cope in such a place?!

:o :goggleeyes:

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Mirrlees on October 16, 2020, 07:16:49 PM
Quote from: Skyline2uk on October 16, 2020, 06:43:26 PM
Ok so this post is only here for dramatic effect (and I can't find a "how do I explain this to the wife" thread), and I am in fact happy....

Secured my Christmas present from the Wife (to be locked away till the big day of course) today.

Only problem is it has come via @Mirrlees (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=340) (Sir Tim of Hitch) and of course I was subjected to the famous "up sell".

So extra package needs to make its way into the house...

And what's worse is I have to go go the den of the master salesman himself to pick up the items.

How is a man of fragile will when it comes to tiny trains to cope in such a place?!

:o :goggleeyes:

Skyline2uk

I can increase the bill if so desired?  Well I'll increase if you don't desire either.

Lots of nice shiny things for you.

:bounce:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on October 26, 2020, 08:04:24 PM
well as i suspected my colitis has flared up spent the last three days either in bed sleeping or on the toilet 
cannot get hold of my consultant and my doctor is hopeless  :censored:

John
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 26, 2020, 08:07:55 PM
Sorry to hear that. My mum's doc is working from home. What use that is to mankind only the doc knows ::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Mirrlees on October 26, 2020, 08:18:46 PM
Quote from: JBQFC on October 26, 2020, 08:04:24 PM
well as i suspected my colitis has flared up spent the last three days either in bed sleeping or on the toilet 
cannot get hold of my consultant and my doctor is hopeless  :censored:

John

Sorry to hear.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 26, 2020, 09:05:12 PM
@JBQFC (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=4019)  hope it's a relatively short bout John.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on November 01, 2020, 01:33:01 AM
Saturday was the QLD state election day.  Voting was at my local high school polling booths. 

In the past you had to run the gauntlet of committed excited people handing out party how-to-vote cards, lineup to get the voting form, cast your vote then exit past fund raising home-baked cake stalls and sausage sizzle stall.  Always came away with at least half a dozen fresh lamingtons, if you got there early enough.  :drool:

On this Saturday just a couple of subdued people handing out cards, couple of placards on the entry fence, no queues, school hall basically empty, no cakes, no sausage sizzle.  Overall very minimalist depressing atmosphere. :(

Even though we haven't had Covid cases for a while, certainly felt the effects of maintaining control.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: themadhippy on November 01, 2020, 01:41:25 AM
QuoteSaturday was the QLD state election day.
At least you got to vote,all the local uk elections  that were due  in may  have been  postponed until may next year,unless the goalposts change again
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on November 01, 2020, 01:47:16 AM
I've always found voting stations depressing, I'm afraid - even without covid.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Yet_Another on November 01, 2020, 11:20:16 AM
It's mostly the stupid people who are allowed to vote that I find depressing.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on November 01, 2020, 11:27:36 AM
Quote from: Yet_Another on November 01, 2020, 11:20:16 AM
It's mostly the stupid people who are allowed to vote that I find depressing.

It's the cynical, power-hungry, corrupt, un-caring sods who take advantage of the stupid people being allowed to vote that I REALLY find depressing.

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on November 01, 2020, 11:41:45 AM
Fear not. When I rise to power I'll put an end to the drudgery of voting.

I'll put an end to many things, but I'll start with voting.

:veryangry:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on November 01, 2020, 11:46:02 AM
It's the crazy folks with guns being allowed to vote and intimidate others that I find depressing/frightening.

Oh, that's in America, sorry.

By comparison voting here in the UK is wonderful.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on November 01, 2020, 12:13:45 PM
Quote from: Yet_Another on November 01, 2020, 11:20:16 AM
It's mostly the stupid people who are allowed to vote that I find depressing.

If we only had clever people voting we might get clever politicians, and where is the fun in that  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on November 01, 2020, 12:22:32 PM
Quote from: Yet_Another on November 01, 2020, 11:20:16 AM
It's mostly the stupid people who are allowed to vote that I find depressing.

Since ballot forms are normally 100% populated by the stupid, one could argue that only the stupid should be allowed to vote. :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on November 01, 2020, 01:55:21 PM
Dear Internet,

I have ordered the item I was researching on line so no need to keep showing me adverts for the exactly the same product or anything remotely like it any more.

Thanks

Railsquid.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on November 01, 2020, 02:01:27 PM
Flamin' annoying ain't it? Especially when it is over a fortnight since the item was ordered.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on November 01, 2020, 03:20:33 PM
Particularly when the same adverts pop-up when you wife or child uses the computer and it is instantly obvious what birthday/Christmas presents you've been looking for.

I am fed up of all the tracking that goes on on the internet and the sites that make it very difficult to opt-out, hiding some of the options way down a list that must be opened at each level and individually switched off. The browser already has a Do Not Track setting, just read that and do it! I have no problem with adverts (some sites need them for funding), but I don't want to be tracked and targeted. At the very least a Reject All button (at the top of the page or pop-up) should be mandated.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on November 01, 2020, 03:35:42 PM
I know what one of my Christmas presents will be. My wife bought it from John Lewis using our internet account. I make a point of not looking at the account purchase history this time of year, but I couldn't help but notice the email request I received last week, complete with full colour photo of the item, asking me to review my recent purchase. :doh:

I also dislike it when I look at an item on a website that later sends me an email that says something like "Did you miss something?" or "Did you find something you like?" or "Is there something we can help you with?"
I never reply with what I'm thinking. ;) In fact I never reply!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: themadhippy on November 01, 2020, 03:55:56 PM
Quoteand the sites that make it very difficult to opt-out,
Better still are those that dont have an opt out option,all you get is "we use cookies bla bla bla ,by clicking proceed you accept this ".
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on November 03, 2020, 03:02:22 PM
 :'(

Well that teaches me to count my auction wins before they arrive / are tested.

I was over the moon about winning a loco I had wanted for ages (see happy thread). Paid a lot but I considered it worth it.

Now it's here and it's got running issues / damage.

I am now going to have to face the returns process.

Gutted.

:'(

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on November 15, 2020, 12:25:05 PM
Two of Louisa's Aunts have suffered strokes this year. One is currently in a care home as her daughter is unable to look after her 24/7. The other Aunt, Maria, was allowed home from hospital but subsequently re-admitted as she was not eating. We learnt last week that Maria not only had pneumonia, but had caught the  :censored: Covid virus whilst in hospital. Sadly, we have been informed that she passed away this morning. I often spoke with Maria on the telephone and did visit her once on one of my trips back to Bradford. One thing that struck me about Maria was the fact that she still had a strong Italian accent, even though she had lived in Bradford for most of her 80 plus years. A nice lady who will be missed. Because of this  :censored: Covid, neither Louisa nor myself have been back to England for over a year and can not go over now.  I know the health service in England, as here in Ireland and probably worldwide, is under extreme pressure, but you would think, by its very nature, a hospital would be a safe environment. Okay, I will put my practical head on now and realise, by their very nature, hospitals can not be totally safe environments, but still ....  :'(. RIP Maria.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on November 15, 2020, 01:09:01 PM
My condolences David.
Last weekend I had to go into hospital for a minor op. and was swab tested before being given a bed. Fair enough, but the results of the test didn't materialise until after I had left so I rather wonder what's the point as  if I had the virus I would have been admitted, spread the  bug all round the hospital and left before they knew.
I rather think that the new test which gives results within 15 mins would be better used vetting those who need to go into hospital, rather than wasting it by testing the general population of Liverpool.
Rant over.

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TrevL on November 19, 2020, 01:50:23 PM
What's the world coming to???  ???
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/entertainment-arts-54999375 (https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/entertainment-arts-54999375)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on November 19, 2020, 01:59:47 PM
Quote from: TrevL on November 19, 2020, 01:50:23 PM
What's the world coming to???  ???
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/entertainment-arts-54999375 (https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/entertainment-arts-54999375)

Those of us of a certain age and disposition can always sing along with our preferred words  8)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on November 19, 2020, 02:00:49 PM
How ridiculous is that?  :goggleeyes: It is okay to play the original on one BBC channel but not another?  ???

And to quote from the piece
Andy Parfitt, the station's controller at the time, explained the U-turn by saying its audiences were "smart enough to distinguish between maliciousness and creative freedom",
is he saying that the audiences are not smart enough to make the distinction now? I could be offended by the insinuation.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on November 19, 2020, 02:08:37 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on November 19, 2020, 02:00:49 PM
How ridiculous is that?  :goggleeyes: It is okay to play the original on one BBC channel but not another?  ???

And to quote from the piece
Andy Parfitt, the station's controller at the time, explained the U-turn by saying its audiences were "smart enough to distinguish between maliciousness and creative freedom",
is he saying that the audiences are not smart enough to make the distinction now? I could be offended by the insinuation.
My feelings exactly.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: themadhippy on November 19, 2020, 02:18:18 PM
Nice to see the bbc keeping up there double standards,when released spasticus by ian dury was banned,as it was deemed offensive,now there using it as a trailer for one of there programs
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: grumbeast on November 19, 2020, 04:20:32 PM
I'm a firm believer in society changing and becoming more considerate in its choices, however that only works if context is taken into account.. and in this case it's clearly being thrown out, It just goes too far.  When did we become a society of outrage and shaming?  I blame social media myself :( makes me sad
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on November 19, 2020, 04:22:13 PM
Has Benny Hill been banned in the UK ?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on November 19, 2020, 04:25:27 PM
heavens forbid  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on November 19, 2020, 04:47:54 PM
Quote from: joe cassidy on November 19, 2020, 04:22:13 PM
Has Benny Hill been banned in the UK ?

Not as far as I know but Mr. Pastry has been banned for being a tart
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on November 19, 2020, 05:50:55 PM
you are guaranteed to lift the spirits, @Newportnobby (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264)



vodka
brandy
whisky
whiskey
rum
gin

:beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on November 20, 2020, 12:11:08 PM
Not angry yet, but not overjoyed.

What's peoples experience with Royal Mail at the moment?

Bought the Mrs Christmas present via evil bay and only after checking out noticed it was "recorded second class".

This means the seller is woefully under insured for the item, but also means it had a 5 day estimate on delivery.

That's came and gone with no sign and I can't get the tracking number to work.

I know it's my actually a tracking number, but would be nice if it did something.

Is Royal Mail swamped right now?

Skyline2uk 

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on November 20, 2020, 12:15:47 PM
Quote from: Skyline2uk on November 20, 2020, 12:11:08 PM
Not angry yet, but not overjoyed.

What's peoples experience with Royal Mail at the moment?

Bought the Mrs Christmas present via evil bay and only after checking out noticed it was "recorded second class".

This means the seller is woefully under insured for the item, but also means it had a 5 day estimate on delivery.

That's came and gone with no sign and I can't get the tracking number to work.

I know it's my actually a tracking number, but would be nice if it did something.

Is Royal Mail swamped right now?

Skyline2uk

Yes they are swamped, also a tracking number is issued and "dispatched" marked long before the item leaves the vendors building.  If the bulk pickup by Royal Mail is delayed it can be sitting in the vendors premises for days and it will only show on Royal Mail tracking when it gets to a sorting office.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on November 20, 2020, 12:19:26 PM
Humph.

Well why the hell send an item of this value that way?

Oh well, PayPal dispute if it came to it.

More annoyed at the idea of finding something else!

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on November 20, 2020, 01:05:36 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on November 19, 2020, 04:47:54 PM
Quote from: joe cassidy on November 19, 2020, 04:22:13 PM
Has Benny Hill been banned in the UK ?

Not as far as I know but Mr. Pastry has been banned for being a tart

He should've been banned for not being funny.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on November 20, 2020, 01:26:49 PM
re reply #2066, mostly I've found 2nd signed for pretty good, but there have been exceptions, in one case I posted a parcel to a member in an Oxford post code, which arrived 15 days later, while a parcel to me, also from an Oxford postcode arrived the next day.

my worst one was a second class signed for posted the same day as a order from China was despatched, that arrived three days before the 2nd signed for.

these days, for anything over £50, I recomment special delivery, next day by 16:00 at the moment, and not had one parcel fail that, insured for £500, as opposed to £50, and you can choose which day to post, so if someone will be home friday, post it thursday, rather than just sending it and hoping it arrives when someone is there, sods law says it will arrive the one day there is no one there to accept it.

but, overall, I think RM is actually doing an amazing job in the circumstances, just wish bills sent 2nd class didn't always arrive the next day  :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on November 20, 2020, 01:45:52 PM
Quote from: class37025 on November 20, 2020, 01:26:49 PM
.......... you can choose which day to post, so if someone will be home friday, post it thursday,.............

..............but, overall, I think RM is actually doing an amazing job in the circumstances, just wish bills sent 2nd class didn't always arrive the next day  :'(

Or in some cases if someone (the wife) will be at work on Friday, post it Thursday  :D

I also agree that in general the Post Office/Royal Mail are doing an excellent job. Remember though that there are often restrictions at the sorting offices. We had one at the Swindon depot which lasted about 2 weeks and disrupted all deliveries in the area.

On the subject of tracking and eBay, I have sold/sent various items recently. I use online click & drop and as soon as you print that label eBay says it has been dispatched! I tell people I will post within 5 days and this message from eBay doesn't help. I usually manage to post the next day if everyone has paid but people do expect items to arrive within 2 days of that notification.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on November 20, 2020, 01:54:53 PM
I'm old enough to remember when you could send something through the GPO and be sure it would arrive the next day.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on November 20, 2020, 02:02:25 PM
I remember when I was buying my first house I sent a 2nd class letter to my solicitor one morning. I had a call from him that afternoon for sending it back so promptly! Turns out after speaking to someone who works at Devixes sorting office that everything sent 1st class went to Swindon for sorting. Everything sent 2nd class was sorted in Devizes so if it ended up in the pigeon hole before that round had been collected it went out the same day! It doesn't work that way now, everything goes to Swindon for sorting  :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on November 20, 2020, 02:29:41 PM
Generally I am happy with Royal Mail and certainly have trusted their Special Delivery with some rather special items recently.

It's this eBay seller not using Special Delivery that sort of riles. It was free postage but I would much rather have paid for special!

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on November 20, 2020, 02:37:05 PM
Quote from: steve836 on November 20, 2020, 01:54:53 PM
I'm old enough to remember when you could send something through the GPO and be sure it would arrive the next day.

and 1st and 2nd deliveries every day, now you are lucky to get one a day.

never been the same, as so many things, since it got flogged off, [didn't it call itself consignia or some such
for a while ] the guys on the front line are great, IMHO, it's the  :censored: management and bean counters that muck everything up.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on November 20, 2020, 02:43:52 PM
Quote from: class37025 on November 20, 2020, 02:37:05 PM
it's the  :censored: management and bean counters that muck everything up.

Which seems to be the case with most businesses that are bigger than a 'small business'.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on November 20, 2020, 03:08:43 PM
surprising, as most of them have been to university !

perhaps that's the problem ...

got a degree ...

but

got no  :censored: idea of how to do the job  :veryangry:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on November 20, 2020, 03:53:26 PM
Quote from: steve836 on November 20, 2020, 01:54:53 PM
I'm old enough to remember when you could send something through the GPO and be sure it would arrive the next day.

A few years ago, MOSI (Museum of Science and Industry) in Manchester had a display of telephone and postal items. Amongst them were postcards, from Victorian times (IIRC), sent in the morning and requesting an RSVP for Tea THAT AFTERNOON.

There was also a letter from a solicitor in Manchester, to one in Liverpool, expecting to receive a reply before close of business the same day.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on November 20, 2020, 04:09:01 PM
Quote from: stevewalker on November 20, 2020, 03:53:26 PM
Quote from: steve836 on November 20, 2020, 01:54:53 PM
I'm old enough to remember when you could send something through the GPO and be sure it would arrive the next day.

A few years ago, MOSI (Museum of Science and Industry) in Manchester had a display of telephone and postal items. Amongst them were postcards, from Victorian times (IIRC), sent in the morning and requesting an RSVP for Tea THAT AFTERNOON.

There was also a letter from a solicitor in Manchester, to one in Liverpool, expecting to receive a reply before close of business the same day.

That was back in the day when people were very very cheap to employ so there were lots of them to do things.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on November 20, 2020, 04:33:08 PM
when I lft school in the 60's, several of my friends were looking at ...

leave school
apprenticeship
job

stay with firm

make foreman

stay with firm

maybe make manager

retire at 65 with 50 years service ans a good pension, and a watch [not made in china]

no chance of that  now...

chances of an apprenticeship  :hmmm:

chance of a job after  :hmmm:

chances of working for the same firm for 50 years  :poop:

chances of actually getting further up the ladder  zilch, 'management' need to be university graduates

don't of course need to know sod all about the job, just have a bit of paper.

remember when nurses were

student nurse
SEN
SRN
maybe Sister
if very lucky Matron

heaven help us
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: themadhippy on November 20, 2020, 04:48:07 PM
Quotechances of an apprenticeship
Theirs plenty of apprenticeships available,in coffee making,cleaning,shop assistant and several other very highly skilled jobs that require years of training.Of course there not a loop hole to paying below the minimum wage,nor do they devalue the apprenticeship  scheme of old.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on November 20, 2020, 04:59:10 PM
Whilst I agree that the labour market and job retention / progression is perhaps not what it once was...

...There are exceptions.

I actually know of one firm that has a very competitive apprentice program. It is of course heavily over subscribed, but said firm has had at least one CEO who started off in this way.

I certainly will be encouraging Mini Skyline to consider all possible routes into employment.

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on November 20, 2020, 08:15:25 PM
Quote from: Skyline2uk on November 20, 2020, 04:59:10 PM

I certainly will be encouraging Mini Skyline to consider all possible routes into employment.

Skyline2uk

Not too soon I hope. Not until the new year at least  :goggleeyes:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on November 20, 2020, 08:21:21 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on November 20, 2020, 08:15:25 PM
Quote from: Skyline2uk on November 20, 2020, 04:59:10 PM

I certainly will be encouraging Mini Skyline to consider all possible routes into employment.

Skyline2uk

Not too soon I hope. Not until the new year at least  :goggleeyes:

What? And have him miss prime chimney sweeping season?!

Humbug  >:D

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on December 01, 2020, 03:47:16 AM
Wasn't sure where to post this - happy thread, angry thread, so I put it here. Perhaps we should have a shell shocked thread.

We have no NHS in Oz..... you basically need to pay into a private health fund or you're dead in the water, so to speak. Mrs Bealman informed me this morning that she found out from our health fund that the total cost of my two months stay in hospital at the start of 2019, including theatre fees, etc etc amounted to A$70,000!!!

Almost had to be re-admitted!

Thank God we pay for top cover.  :worried:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on December 01, 2020, 04:40:38 AM
Quote from: Bealman on December 01, 2020, 03:47:16 AM
Wasn't sure where to post this - happy thread, angry thread, so I put it here. Perhaps we should have a shell shocked thread.

We have no NHS in Oz..... you basically need to pay into a private health fund or you're dead in the water, so to speak. Mrs Bealman informed me this morning that she found out from our health fund that the total cost of my two months stay in hospital at the start of 2019, including theatre fees, etc etc amounted to A$70,000!!!

Well it's nice to hear they support the performing arts, at least. Were the plays any good?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on December 01, 2020, 04:44:34 AM
Ha bloody Ha.  :D

I do know I watched a lot of movies!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Graham on December 01, 2020, 06:18:13 AM
I know what you mean, i just found the ability to check our spend on our health fund and found they had paid out over $100K in the last 12mths for SWMBO's various stays.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on December 01, 2020, 06:21:27 AM
Scary, isn't it.  :o
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TrevL on December 01, 2020, 06:31:13 AM
Kinell!!!
What is the monthly premium?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on December 01, 2020, 06:43:25 AM
A lot. It is one of the biggest deductions from the joint Bealman income.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on December 01, 2020, 08:00:10 AM
Quote from: Bealman on December 01, 2020, 03:47:16 AM
We have no NHS in Oz.....
Ah, we have medicare?
They are paying for all my cancer treatment at public hospitals.  No cost to me.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on December 01, 2020, 08:13:27 AM
Glad you can claim that, I cannot.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on December 01, 2020, 10:18:15 AM
So glad we've got the NHS !
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on December 01, 2020, 12:14:46 PM
Damn me, it's happened again.  >:(

I ordered my wife's Christmas present over t'interweb, using my laptop on supposedly 'private' window. The very next day, up pops an advert for exactly the same website on my wife's Bookface page on her smartphone. "Oooh, look," she says, "These are interesting...". I grunted something non-committal (I'm good at that) and she scrolled on to something else. Fortunately, I don't think she cottoned on, but that's not the first time that has happened, and I want to know why it does and how I can stop it. It's only a matter of time before she takes the bait and orders something I have already bought her.

Where is the teeth-gnashing emoji when you want it?

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 01, 2020, 12:25:04 PM
These 'smart' devices are damned smart. A few times a week, I look at the newspaper back home, on line, on my desktop computer only. My smartphone has now started bringing me news articles from that newspaper.   ???. And as for the number of advert's I see for cameras, just cos' I was looking last week ........
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on December 01, 2020, 12:31:53 PM
Quote from: Papyrus on December 01, 2020, 12:14:46 PM
Damn me, it's happened again.  >:(

I ordered my wife's Christmas present over t'interweb, using my laptop on supposedly 'private' window. The very next day, up pops an advert for exactly the same website on my wife's Bookface page on her smartphone. "Oooh, look," she says, "These are interesting...". I grunted something non-committal (I'm good at that) and she scrolled on to something else. Fortunately, I don't think she cottoned on, but that's not the first time that has happened, and I want to know why it does and how I can stop it. It's only a matter of time before she takes the bait and orders something I have already bought her.

It works the other way round too, there was an angsty period when the interwebs thought my wife would be interested in seeing adverts for N gauge trains  :-X

If your wife's smartphone is using your domestic internet wifi, the interwebs is most likely taking a guess that people surfing from your IP address (regardless of browser settings) are interested in that product. If it's the kind of thing your wife has previously taken an interest in the algorithms will certainly sit up and take notice, especially if there's the opportunity to repetitively show you ads for stuff you've just bought. :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Yet_Another on December 01, 2020, 12:34:06 PM
Unless you've used a VPN to spoof your IP address, they will have correlated the location & interests and served appropriate adverts accordingly. If at any time either of you has used the other device, they will have inferred a connection between the devices and will use that info as well. Even if you have used a VPN, if the latter is the case, they'll have you anyway. Best thing is to just not use the internet.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NScaleNotes on December 01, 2020, 12:36:11 PM
Did you use Google in your private session? If so Google knows what you searched for even though you're in Private mode.
Maybe there's a persistent tracking cookie that's accidentally been given permission to run in Private mode.
Also sounds like they've made the link between all the different devices in your household perhaps because someone has logged into the same thing on every device at some point.

Maybe clear out all your cookies/temp Internet files, get an ad-blocker if you don't already have one or use host file blocking. Use a more private search engine for secret purchases like Startpage or DuckDuckGo. Yes I know they aren't quite as good. Also don't use browser add-ons, particularly search engine add-ons and be careful of searching in the address bar unless you know what search engine it's using.

If you want the ultimate slightly more complicated solution download a Linux Live CD, rip it to CD or USB, put it in the relevant drive, boot-up, use the temporary Linux OS to browse the web to do your purchases. When you're done, shut-down and take the CD/USB out and go back to your original system. Super private and relatively easy.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on December 01, 2020, 12:44:55 PM
My wife is convinced I've ordered this as it pops up on her laptop for some obscure reason  :doh:

(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/102/262-011220124422-1026051269.jpeg)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 01, 2020, 12:49:18 PM
Quote from: Yet_Another on December 01, 2020, 12:34:06 PM
Best thing is to just not use the internet.

Brilliant idea!  :thumbsup:

Err....how do we get our daily NGF fix though?  ???
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Yet_Another on December 01, 2020, 12:58:08 PM
Oh, the irony! ::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on December 01, 2020, 01:21:06 PM
Quote from: NScaleNotes on December 01, 2020, 12:36:11 PM
Did you use Google in your private session? If so Google knows what you searched for even though you're in Private mode.
Maybe there's a persistent tracking cookie that's accidentally been given permission to run in Private mode.
Also sounds like they've made the link between all the different devices in your household perhaps because someone has logged into the same thing on every device at some point.

Maybe clear out all your cookies/temp Internet files, get an ad-blocker if you don't already have one or use host file blocking. Use a more private search engine for secret purchases like Startpage or DuckDuckGo. Yes I know they aren't quite as good. Also don't use browser add-ons, particularly search engine add-ons and be careful of searching in the address bar unless you know what search engine it's using.

If you want the ultimate slightly more complicated solution download a Linux Live CD, rip it to CD or USB, put it in the relevant drive, boot-up, use the temporary Linux OS to browse the web to do your purchases. When you're done, shut-down and take the CD/USB out and go back to your original system. Super private and relatively easy.

Yup, I do clear out cookies etc after every session, and I use an ad-blocker. The search engine I use (Opera) obviously piggy-backs on Google, so that is probably where the leaks are going. I can barely keep my head above water where 'puters are concerned, so Linux etc are out of my league, but I might try your other suggestions.

Thanks, (and to everybody else),

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on December 01, 2020, 09:08:27 PM
You could try using DuckDuckGo instead of Google for your searches.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Calnefoxile on December 24, 2020, 01:27:57 PM
Doh!!!  :'( :'( :'( :'(

Needed some switches to finish off the control panel for my foray in to German TT, duely ordered 10 on-off-on switches from Rapid. They turned up today and as I was about to install them, I flicked the lever and it didn't latch, "Eh says I"  ??? ??? So I tried another one, same result  ??? ???

Onto the Rapid website to check out what I'd ordered. It then dawned on me I'd forgotten the difference between (on)-off-(on) and on-off-on, one with brackets are momentary switches, the ones without are latching switches  :headbutt: :headbutt: :headbutt:

So back to Rapid Online and the correct switches (Hopefully) now ordered, I could send the other ones back, but I'm sure they'll be useful for something in the future  ;) ;)

Ahh well no running trains this side of Christmas.

Have a good xmas one and all.

Regards

Neal.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on December 25, 2020, 02:15:55 AM
If they were on-on-on I'd take a few off you but I'm guessing they're not?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on January 04, 2021, 09:18:17 AM
well today is meant to be my first day back at work but i am at home waiting for the doctor to phone me
my colitis has flared up looks like a dose of steroids to start 2021

John
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on January 04, 2021, 11:36:54 AM
Quote from: JBQFC on January 04, 2021, 09:18:17 AM
well today is meant to be my first day back at work but i am at home waiting for the doctor to phone me
my colitis has flared up looks like a dose of steroids to start 2021

John

Sorry to hear that John. must be uncomfortable. Isn't there a permanent fix?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on January 04, 2021, 12:16:29 PM
Quote from: steve836 on January 04, 2021, 11:36:54 AM
Quote from: JBQFC on January 04, 2021, 09:18:17 AM
well today is meant to be my first day back at work but i am at home waiting for the doctor to phone me
my colitis has flared up looks like a dose of steroids to start 2021

John

Sorry to hear that John. must be uncomfortable. Isn't there a permanent fix?
Thanks Steve
but nope no cure they not even sure what causes it so it is just a case on managing symptom's during flare ups and hoping it go's into remission

John
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on January 04, 2021, 12:21:42 PM
I hope things soon improve for you John.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on January 04, 2021, 08:54:53 PM
Back to lockdown. I don't have any problem with lockdown as such, but I was due to hire a 7.5 tonner to pick up a second-hand, sectional garage on Saturday and as the seller needs it out of the way so that he can build his own new garage, it is likely to be skipped and dumped before I am allowed to go and pick it up. It has taken many months to find one with panels compatible with my existing garage and I will probably find it difficult to find another - at least at any sensible price :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on January 04, 2021, 08:58:06 PM
If you can argue it is to do with "moving house" you can still go ahead.

See attached regulations


There are further reasonable excuses. For example, you may leave
home to fulfil legal obligations or to carry out activities related to buying,
selling, letting or renting a residential property, or where it is reasonably
necessary for voting in an election or referendum.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 04, 2021, 09:32:51 PM
there you are, problem solved.

tell SWMBO how much you spent on the railway last year ....

and you'll be living in your newly enlarged garage  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on January 05, 2021, 08:36:17 AM
Problem is, the van hire place will be closed.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on January 05, 2021, 08:39:58 AM
Quote from: Malc on January 05, 2021, 08:36:17 AM
Problem is, the van hire place will be closed.
Not necessarily, many businesses hire vehicles for work, so there will still be a call for them to be available..
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on January 05, 2021, 05:45:01 PM
Just when you thought things couldn't get any worse, Sainsbury's have got Easter eggs in stock...

:'( :headbutt:

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 05, 2021, 05:48:13 PM
and Tesco's  :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: mickeyflinn on January 05, 2021, 05:48:47 PM
Quote from: Papyrus on January 05, 2021, 05:45:01 PM
Just when you thought things couldn't get any worse, Sainsbury's have got Easter eggs in stock...

:'( :headbutt:

Cheers,

Chris
Our local Tesco was selling hot-cross buns on Boxing Day!!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on January 08, 2021, 12:51:45 AM
Arrhh!  We will be entering a 4 day lockdown in 7 hours.  A person with covid traveled about Brisbane area.
Just discussing how lucky Queensland had been so far with life being essentially as normal.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on January 08, 2021, 11:46:04 AM
Here in Ireland, we are now in lockdown until at least the end of the month. I am quite happy with that. What makes me unhappy, (even angry), is the fact that our Government stated, when the lockdown was announced just this week, that some school students would go to school for three days a week. Apparently schools are 'safe' but nobody says anything about the students going from an 'unsafe' area to a 'safe' area and then back to an 'unsafe' area at the end of the school day. The virus does not stay outside the school gates!  >:(. What is even more annoying though, is the fact that the Government decided yesterday that the schools will now stay shut, 48 hours after they said they could open.  >:(. It is no wonder that some people do not know what is happening when the Government can say one thing one day and then change their minds two days later. I know I have said this before, but why on earth can we not have a total lock down, (with some exceptions of course), for two or three weeks? Rant over, (maybe this should be in the angry thread).
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on January 08, 2021, 11:49:16 AM
It's the same in France - government speak has variable geometry
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on January 08, 2021, 11:53:41 AM
Quote from: joe cassidy on January 08, 2021, 11:49:16 AM
It's the same in France - government speak has variable geometry

Every announcement moves them half way to where they should be.  The problem if you always move just half the remaining distance you never get there.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 10, 2021, 08:51:33 PM
Like a fool I joined something called 'Next Door' which I thought would allow me to help others in my area and seek help where I needed it. All I see is the 'Twitface' type posts such as one bloke yesterday who posted "It was icy this morning"
No  :poop: Sherlock. Guess what - it's winter. Wake up and smell the coffee ::)
Just deactivated my account.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: crewearpley40 on January 10, 2021, 08:57:04 PM
Your better off @Newportnobby (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264) staying on this forum and helping all us lovely gauge modellers with your words of advice, ideas. What an idiot making that comment. I stood outside whilst on my saturday shopping as one man said " its ( censored word ) freezing. " again  i share the same thought wake up man, I  and 2 others are waiting due to a late delivery for the store to open
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on January 11, 2021, 01:48:16 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on January 10, 2021, 08:51:33 PM
Like a fool I joined something called 'Next Door' which I thought would allow me to help others in my area and seek help where I needed it. All I see is the 'Twitface' type posts such as one bloke yesterday who posted "It was icy this morning"
No  :poop: Sherlock. Guess what - it's winter. Wake up and smell the coffee ::)
Just deactivated my account.

Next Door works well around here and you can pick up loads of freebies from people. I recently got a tile cutter and a mitre saw for the princely sum of nowt  :thumbsup:

We do get the odd one now and again like your icy comment but people ignore it and they go away.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on January 14, 2021, 10:22:50 AM
Flippin' Brexit! I have a 'standing order' with Amazon for delivery of my coffee and have just received an email from them -

Dear Customer,

We apologise for the inconvenience, our priority is to ensure your subscriptions are delivered according to your delivery schedule.
However, due to changes in the trading relationship between the EU and UK, the product ...........  is no-longer available for auto-delivery to your address, therefore your subscription has been cancelled.


It is not the end of the world, I can buy the coffee elsewhere, (I hope!), but the price from Amazon was quite reasonable, plus there was the advantage of knowing it would be there. Now I have to find a supermarket or other supplier.  :(

Addit: I have just been checking Amazon. The products are still available, but of the four suppliers I checked, (including Amazon themselves), three will not post to Ireland and the fourth -  :censored: - the item cost was just over €24 PLUS €34 for postage.  :goggleeyes:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on January 16, 2021, 02:12:59 PM
I am back with another 'Brexit' moan! I have two packets due from the UK.  I have just received an email from AnPost stating that I have to pay VAT and a collection fee for a parcel being delivered from outside the EU.  The email states that the 'Customs Value' is €23.04, so VAT is €4.83 plus a collection fee of €3.50.  I can not work out what I have on order that has a value of €23.04, the nearest is an order from 'Rails', which cost me £32.00p. But, whatever it is, I have paid UK VAT on the two items from the UK, so I am paying both UK and Irish VAT. Surely the UK items should be sent VAT free. I know that there have been teething problems with Customs etc on goods coming from the UK to EU countries - in fact I read earlier this week, that approximately 20% of all goods leaving the UK can not do so, (or can not be admitted into Ireland), due to incorrect paperwork.  Governments and exporters have had four(?) years to prepare for Brexit.  :veryangry:. Once I get my parcel, I will be contacting the seller to ask why I have been charged UK VAT!  :censored:. Rant over. At least the collection fee is only €3.50.  :). (Apparently the maximum fee AnPost will charge is €10.00 depending on the parcels value).
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 16, 2021, 02:24:59 PM
you are lucky, Robbing Mail charge £8 flat. :veryangry:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: ImpInaBox on January 27, 2021, 05:22:03 PM
Not so much an unhappy post as a "Duh - what's the point?" post.  I just received an email from Rails announcing the "Bachmann Europe Combined 2021 Catalogue". 

I bought the 2019 Graham Farish catalog way back when I first started this lark and I'm still waiting for some of the stuff from that to get beyond the 'Due soon, pre-order now' stage!    :confused2:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 28, 2021, 04:49:02 PM
ordered some paints from Liverpool, and cause RM won't carry them, they got sent by DPD.

so instead of having to wait a couple of days, it's due next day.

get the e-mail 'Jamie will deliver your parcel between 11:59 and 12:59 today'.

what happens, he turns up at 11:57  >:(

you really can't get the staff these days  :veryangry:

of course he then can't give me my parcel till 11:59 cause his reader won't let him scan it before my one hour window  :censored:

luckily both Jamie and Craig, the two DPD drivers who deliver here, are lovely guys, and it's always a pleasure to chat to them, at a suitable distance of course, for a couple of minutes.

but it must be so frustrating for them.

ok, on this thread with tongue in cheek  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on January 29, 2021, 01:28:37 AM
I think I had a similar experience on Wednesday with Hermes. I had some beer delivered by Hermes. He pressed the doorbell (unusual as they usually tap on the door even though I have a sign asking them to use the doorbell), placed it on the outside doormat and stepped back. I answered the door and he greeted me with a cheery hello. All good so far. He then photographed the package and scanned the barcode. It didn't/wouldn't scan. He said he would have to call his manager and would call from his van. 10 minutes later he returned and told me that his manager said he should return the parcel to the depot. He told me he refused as the customer, me, was expecting the parcel and was happy to receive it. Of course I was happy, it was beer! So, he left it with me and apologised for the hassle. Poor sod has probably been sacked now for not doing as he was told but fair play to him for using common sense. 10/10 to the driver and 0/10 for his manager.

Erm, I'm unhappy with his manager which is why I'm on this thread.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 29, 2021, 10:59:31 AM
Quote from: Trainfish on January 29, 2021, 01:28:37 AM
He pressed the doorbell (unusual as they usually tap on the door even though I have a sign asking them to use the doorbell)

I find any workmen or posties and even my brother-in-law completely ignore the doorbell and rap on the door ::) I make a point of opening the door and ringing the doorbell myself. If it doesn't work I know it needs new batteries and why they knocked. If it does work, it serves to make them look foolish >:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on January 29, 2021, 11:18:14 AM
I can understand delivery-beings reluctance to use the door bell. In my surveying days, I used to avoid using them them as well. I found the majority either didn't work, or were so quiet the occupant didn't hear. If there was a door-knocker, I used that every time, otherwise I would ring the bell AND knock on the door. I sometimes got funny looks, but at least they answered the door.

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Dorsetmike on January 29, 2021, 12:06:17 PM
I don't have a door bell problem - don't have a doorbell! There's an entry phone at the main door into the building, that's the only way in if you don't have a key, the door into the flat just has a knocker.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on January 29, 2021, 12:15:19 PM
Quote from: Dorsetmike on January 29, 2021, 12:06:17 PM
I don't have a door bell problem

Neither do I - no door!  :).

Okay, I have a door, but do not have a letter box. Before I bought the special, secure delivery box from the post people, the postman usually put the mail in the car - I leave it unlocked during the day, (and at night if I forget  :doh:). Either that or it went through a small window that the cats use.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on January 29, 2021, 12:19:47 PM
The cats deliver the mail? Amazing  :goggleeyes:

(http://fleetcouriers.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/Cat-Mail.jpg)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on January 29, 2021, 12:24:31 PM
Just tried 8 times to book a vaccination slot on the nhs site. Get right to the "Save and Accept" and it tells me one of the slots is no longer available. Doesn't say which one, so you have to go through the whole process again. I've lost the Will to live.  I think I will wait for the call from my GP.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 29, 2021, 12:26:16 PM
Quote from: Dorsetmike on January 29, 2021, 12:06:17 PM
I don't have a door bell problem - don't have a doorbell! There's an entry phone at the main door into the building, that's the only way in if you don't have a key, the door into the flat just has a knocker.

as Frankie Howard would say

"ooo er Mrs "
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 29, 2021, 12:27:44 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on January 29, 2021, 12:19:47 PM
The cats deliver the mail? Amazing  :goggleeyes:

(http://fleetcouriers.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/Cat-Mail.jpg)

looks just like my postie  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 29, 2021, 01:29:31 PM
Sneezed in the supermarket this morning and.................................STREWTH!!!!! :o

(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/105/264-290121102823-105474886.jpeg)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on January 29, 2021, 01:35:20 PM
Are you sure that wasn't from using too much pepper (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?topic=52914.0)?  :doh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 29, 2021, 01:46:56 PM
perhaps he got pepper-sprayed for not sanitising his trolley handles  ;D

some of those security guys can be absolute  :censored:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 29, 2021, 01:49:23 PM
it's ok, you can say what you want ...... he can't hear you  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MinZaPint on January 29, 2021, 02:02:48 PM
Quote from: Malc on January 29, 2021, 12:24:31 PM
Just tried 8 times to book a vaccination slot on the nhs site. Get right to the "Save and Accept" and it tells me one of the slots is no longer available. Doesn't say which one, so you have to go through the whole process again. I've lost the Will to live.  I think I will wait for the call from my GP.

Hi Malc, my GP call came through a couple of days after the NHS notification, I'm glad I waited as the GP appointment was very well organised I was in and out in 20 minutes and 15 of that was the sitting time in case of a reaction. It also saved me a 20 mile journey! 3 GP practices had got together to set this up in a local sports club. Cheers David
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 29, 2021, 02:21:23 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on January 29, 2021, 01:35:20 PM
Are you sure that wasn't from using too much pepper (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?topic=52914.0)?  :doh:

I would deny having seen that but I 'rated' it :doh: :-[
I've been in this bunker too long.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: woodbury22uk on January 29, 2021, 02:23:24 PM
Quote from: Malc on January 29, 2021, 12:24:31 PM
Just tried 8 times to book a vaccination slot on the nhs site. Get right to the "Save and Accept" and it tells me one of the slots is no longer available. Doesn't say which one, so you have to go through the whole process again. I've lost the Will to live.  I think I will wait for the call from my GP.

Booked my two appointments fairly easily by following a tip from someone who had your experience @Malc (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=497) . The trick is too not choose the first time slots offered. Choose the third or fourth and everything goes through smoothly.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on January 29, 2021, 02:35:36 PM
I tried booking at the end of next week on a day that said both AM and PM available. Having chatted to one of my friends, the whole of south Birmingham has had the same letter today, so will leave it to tonight to try again.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on January 29, 2021, 02:47:43 PM
You lot are lucky I live in Suffolk, the lowest county in the UK  for rolling out the vaccine.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 29, 2021, 02:49:09 PM
so far been on the phone to Virgin media for over 1 hour, 46 minutes to actually get a reply, 'transferring you to the cancellations dept', and their music is  :poop:

still waiting so this may well end up on the  :censored: angry thread...
but we are dealing with Virgin media, so no surprise.

tried to up my payments during contract, but did admit I could leave without penalty ..

:claphappy: :claphappy: :claphappy: :claphappy: :claphappy: :claphappy: :claphappy:

they are  :poop:

can't get hold of them
when you do, it's Mumbai ..
don't listen
just read script
no  :censored: help at all...

basically like BT, who once told me I was not a customer, in spite of the number of bills in my hands 
:veryangry:

so trying to tell them to stuff their service where the sun don't shine..

but the  :censored: won't answer their phones, so I guess I'm not the only one fed up with their  :poop: service and looking to move elsewhere.

looks like this will shortly, or in a couple of hours when they answer their phones, be moved to the  :censored: :censored: :censored: angry thread, where I apparently, according to @newportnobby, belong !
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 29, 2021, 03:56:47 PM
probably should be on the happy thread, please note @newportnobby  :smiley-laughing:, but after just over 1 3/4 hours on the phone, I should be, on the 15th Jan, free of beardie and his useless company.

box / polybag to be sent to return his kit, and new hub from new provider to be posted.

as expected, nothing from beardie & co about the total loss of phone / tv / broadband for two days before xmas, but hey, as long as the dds come in who cares  :veryangry:

hence off to, hopefully, pastures new [and cheaper] and lets be honest, TV these days is  :poop:, nothing really worth watching, I prefer dvds, but of course 'if there is the capability to receive TV signals' you have to pay the licence fee.
even if you never watch BBC, who get your licence fee, because there is sod all worth watching.

and I was so looking forward to my free licence this year  :veryangry: :veryangry: :veryangry: :veryangry:

doubt many MPs pay a licence fee, no doubt got some scam in place.

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 29, 2021, 04:15:34 PM
I do have concerns about your blood pressure, Alan. Maybe you should amend your forum name to Buster Bloodvessel :hmmm: ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 29, 2021, 04:24:34 PM
@newportnobby, don't worry, a couple of hours with HB and my blood pressure is down to normal, one advantage of having a big hairy beast.

he sticks his head in my lap, I stroke his head / tickle his ears, and the stress just fades away...

unlike SWMBO, stroke her head, tickle her ears and it's another 'what's up with you?'

dogs are calming, wives   :hmmm: :hmmm: :hmmm: :hmmm: :hmmm: NOT
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Foxhound on February 03, 2021, 12:30:59 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on January 29, 2021, 04:15:34 PM
I do have concerns about your blood pressure, Alan. Maybe you should amend your forum name to Buster Bloodvessel :hmmm: ;)


(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/105/8774-030221123049.jpeg) (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=gallery;sa=view&id=105774)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Foxhound on February 03, 2021, 12:38:50 PM
@class37025 (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=311) I am also stuck with the bearded idiot and his motley media denizens, and yes, I am on Ramipril for hypertension. Seriously considering binning the whole thing and going for a Freeview+ box and a phone and broadband package from somebody who understands the following;
1. I don't want p0rn channels on my list
2. I don't want sport channels on my list
3. I don't want God channels on my list
4. I don't want 'free' Sky movies for 3 months that overnight become extremely expensive Sky movies because nobody reminds you to cancel the offer
5. If I want TV and broadband, why can I not just bin my landline if nobody uses it anyway?

Spawn of Satan.

I will never forgive him for Operation Princess and Virgin CrossCountry, nor for this inept nonsense of a media provider.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on February 03, 2021, 12:46:00 PM
Quote from: Foxhound on February 03, 2021, 12:30:59 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on January 29, 2021, 04:15:34 PM
I do have concerns about your blood pressure, Alan. Maybe you should amend your forum name to Buster Bloodvessel :hmmm: ;)


(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/105/8774-030221123049.jpeg) (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=gallery;sa=view&id=105774)

no photos please, respect my privacy  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Foxhound on February 03, 2021, 12:51:46 PM
@class37025 (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=311)

https://www.dailymotion.com/video/xc86ab (https://www.dailymotion.com/video/xc86ab)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on February 03, 2021, 12:52:58 PM
Quote from: Foxhound on February 03, 2021, 12:38:50 PM
@class37025 (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=311) I am also stuck with the bearded idiot and his motley media denizens, and yes, I am on Ramipril for hypertension. Seriously considering binning the whole thing and going for a Freeview+ box and a phone and broadband package from somebody who understands the following;
1. I don't want p0rn channels on my list
2. I don't want sport channels on my list
3. I don't want God channels on my list
4. I don't want 'free' Sky movies for 3 months that overnight become extremely expensive Sky movies because nobody reminds you to cancel the offer
5. If I want TV and broadband, why can I not just bin my landline if nobody uses it anyway?

Spawn of Satan.

I will never forgive him for Operation Princess and Virgin CrossCountry, nor for this inept nonsense of a media provider.

after advising the idiots I was leaving them, with no penalty in accordance with their e-mail when the tried to up my price mid contract, got a 'sorry you're leaving' e-mail, then a couple of days later another telling me they are adding, free, kids channels and fitness channels to my package.

I don't need kids progams, it's just SWMBO and me here, and I don't need exercise classes, I've got a  :censored: husky  :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on February 03, 2021, 12:54:16 PM
Quote from: Foxhound on February 03, 2021, 12:51:46 PM
@class37025 (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=311)

https://www.dailymotion.com/video/xc86ab (https://www.dailymotion.com/video/xc86ab)

I take it the royalty cheque is in the post  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Foxhound on February 03, 2021, 12:58:09 PM
Quote from: class37025 on February 03, 2021, 12:52:58 PM
Quote from: Foxhound on February 03, 2021, 12:38:50 PM
@class37025 (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=311) I am also stuck with the bearded idiot and his motley media denizens, and yes, I am on Ramipril for hypertension. Blah blah blah.....

Spawn of Satan.

I will never forgive him for Operation Princess and Virgin CrossCountry, nor for this inept nonsense of a media provider.

after advising the idiots I was leaving them, with no penalty in accordance with their e-mail when the tried to up my price mid contract, got a 'sorry you're leaving' e-mail, then a couple of days later another telling me they are adding, free, kids channels and fitness channels to my package.

I don't need kids progams, it's just SWMBO and me here, and I don't need exercise classes, I've got a  :censored: husky  :'(


(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/105/8774-030221125722.jpeg) (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=gallery;sa=view&id=105776)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Foxhound on February 03, 2021, 12:59:41 PM
Quote from: class37025 on February 03, 2021, 12:54:16 PM
Quote from: Foxhound on February 03, 2021, 12:51:46 PM
@class37025 (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=311)

https://www.dailymotion.com/video/xc86ab (https://www.dailymotion.com/video/xc86ab)

I take it the royalty cheque is in the post  :)

I believe Ivor's sons jealously guard the copyrights and royalties. There are some very popular songs and poems of his that were in Peel Sessions that they won't let the BBC release. Swines.  :veryangry:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on February 03, 2021, 01:58:24 PM
Quote from: class37025 on February 03, 2021, 12:52:58 PM
I don't need kids progams, it's just SWMBO and me here, and I don't need exercise classes, I've got a  :censored: husky  :'(

Alan, you don't have to do the exercises, they're there for viewing pleasure only  :thumbsup:

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on February 03, 2021, 02:03:30 PM
That definitely an other way to work up a sweat.  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: talisman56 on February 04, 2021, 07:17:05 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on February 03, 2021, 01:58:24 PM
Quote from: class37025 on February 03, 2021, 12:52:58 PM
I don't need kids progams, it's just SWMBO and me here, and I don't need exercise classes, I've got a  :censored: husky  :'(

Alan, you don't have to do the exercises, they're there for viewing pleasure only  :thumbsup:


I think I collapsed after the first 30 seconds. And I was only watching the video...  :sweat:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on February 05, 2021, 02:56:46 PM
Ordered a new transformer from Megapoints on Tuesday, Dave posted it Wednesday using 'Tracked 48' so should receive it today which is why I ordered it Tuesday, ready for tonight. Message from Royal Mail this morning at 07:25 said "Sorry, your item went to Marlborough DO in error, so we re-routed it immediately. More information will be available as it travels through our network." In other words they messed up and have sent it back to Swindon sorting centre. So, unless postman Pat works later than usual on a Friday and remembering we only get post on days with an 'S' in them then it looks like 'Tracked 48' will become 'Tracked 72'.

I know it's only a day late (if it goes to the correct town tomorrow morning) but I have paid for 48 hour service and that's what I should get shouldn't I?

This will go into the angry thread if it doesn't arrive tomorrow morning  >:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on February 05, 2021, 03:47:14 PM
If the item does not arrive within 48 hours, you are entitled to claim that part of your payment back from the seller. It is a bit rough on the seller, but they should be able to get the cost back from Royal Mail.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on February 05, 2021, 04:02:25 PM
personally, I'd contact RM direct ...

listen to  :poop: hold music

continue ..

then complain 'I paid for xx you managed to send to wrong sorting office, refund me, direct with compensation for the stress'

might work ?

otherwise, Tesco, water bottle from skips, 4* in bottle, RM sorting office, bit of rag / Tesco paper towel from trolley sanitising [most don't bother  :veryangry:]

box of matches

and at least you'll feel better  >:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on February 05, 2021, 04:45:29 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on February 05, 2021, 02:56:46 PM
I know it's only a day late (if it goes to the correct town tomorrow morning) but I have paid for 48 hour service and that's what I should get shouldn't I?

Think yourself lucky. Just before Christmas we were thinking about buying another bookcase to match an existing pair that we bought years ago, but put it off for a couple of weeks as we were busy getting organised. During the first week in January, we decided it was time to order - only to find that they'd discontinued it over Christmas, could no longer deliver and could only offer local collection of clearance stock ... with the nearest being over 120 miles away!

Last week, I spotted one on Ebay, still in its packaging and bought it. It was due yesterday, but one of the two packages arrived on Tuesday and they appear to have lost the other one. It looks like our only choice is to throw out (or give away) two perfectly good bookcases and buy three matching new ones  :censored:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on February 07, 2021, 08:07:44 PM
managed to come off my bike on some black ice tonight now got a very painful hip and left leg  :censored:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on February 08, 2021, 06:25:42 PM
Quote from: JBQFC on February 07, 2021, 08:07:44 PM
managed to come off my bike on some black ice tonight now got a very painful hip and left leg  :censored:

woke up this morning in even more pain so phoned 111 got lots of good advice and a visit from a paramedic 10/10 for them they told me to phone my doctors to get some painkillers 2 calls later and promised call backs have not happened  :censored:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on February 08, 2021, 06:40:42 PM
Quote from: JBQFC on February 08, 2021, 06:25:42 PM
Quote from: JBQFC on February 07, 2021, 08:07:44 PM
managed to come off my bike on some black ice tonight now got a very painful hip and left leg  :censored:

woke up this morning in even more pain so phoned 111 got lots of good advice and a visit from a paramedic 10/10 for them they told me to phone my doctors to get some painkillers 2 calls later and promised call backs have not happened  :censored:

Shame you don't live near me as I have some Codeine spare.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on February 09, 2021, 09:45:26 AM
Grape vine is growing nicely along the fence with bunches of grapes forming.
My neighbour is convinced that his dog will be poisoned by a grape if the dog should eat one.  So will have to get out the stepladder (6foot solid fence) and trim back any parts of the vine on his side of the fence. :(
Why do people believe such rubbish posted on the internet? :'(

http://www.thedogplace.org/NUTRITION/Grapes-Poison-Dogs-Myth-09061-bja-nl.asp (http://www.thedogplace.org/NUTRITION/Grapes-Poison-Dogs-Myth-09061-bja-nl.asp)
Know people with grape vines and dogs (my father had a grape vine and dogs), no sign of any problem even for vineyard dogs.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on February 09, 2021, 09:48:18 AM
Quote from: NinOz on February 09, 2021, 09:45:26 AM
Grape vine is growing nicely along the fence with bunches of grapes forming.
My neighbour is convinced that his dog will be poisoned by a grape if the dog should eat one.  So will have to get out the stepladder (6foot solid fence) and trim back any parts of the vine on his side of the fence. :(
Why do people believe such rubbish posted on the internet? :'(

I wouldn't bother, just remind him he can prune any branches that grow over his side!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TrevL on February 09, 2021, 09:56:16 AM
Unfortunately, your neighbour is correct about the threat of poisoning his dog.  My friends Jack Russell died within the day of helping himself to grapes from the fruit bowl.  Raisins will do the same.  The vet couldn't help him.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on February 10, 2021, 11:07:15 PM
Just found out tonight that I lost a good friend to COVID a few weeks ago. That's the trouble with this damned virus, you don't get to hear things. Al was a former work colleague, boss, occassional drinking buddy, lived about 75 yards down the road for years but moved 3 years ago to look after his then wife in a bungalow (she had motor neurone disease) in a nearby village. She died in June last year which was the last time I saw Al. I bumped into him at the Great Western Hospital car park in Swindon when he was visiting her in her final days. I'm absolutely gutted  :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on February 10, 2021, 11:49:44 PM
Tough break John. It's a very cruel world at the moment. My wife has lost three of her ex work friends to Covid.

Remember the good times.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on February 10, 2021, 11:59:57 PM
He was only 61. I am trying to remember the good times and there were many usually involving work or beer in both this country and others. The worst part right now is that I only found out today and as he lived 75 yards down the road the funeral cortege passed right past my house today. I never saw it as I didn't know about it. Seems COVID took him in less than 2 weeks in January. I will be the wrong person for someone not wearing a mask to get too close to me for quite a while. This is the 3rd person I've known and the hardest to take by a long way. I also know his brother Pete really well who I will contact tomorrow. I hate to think how he will be feeling as they were as close as brothers could ever be   :(

I hate this f*&$ing virus
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on February 11, 2021, 12:27:29 AM
Yeah, it sucks.

One of the wife's old colleagues was 38yr old bloke, with a 2yr old daughter and another on the way.

It really gets my goat when these ******* start bleating about 'rights', etc.

I think anyone who doesn't think it's serious should be made to assist in the care of the Covid dead.

I also think the TV info-adverts are too soft.

It's a real kick in the guts not being able to properly pay your respects.

Stay strong, we're all here for you.

M.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on February 11, 2021, 12:44:49 AM
Thanks Mike, that sounds painful for your wife's colleague, too painful and so unfair. I 100% agree regarding those people and as I say, they would not want to cross me right now or in the next few days as believe me I would for the first time break the social distancing rules with some very non-social impact distancing. We all go through the guilt thing, why haven't I spoken to them recently etc but it's so difficult to do in these horrible times. I was going to do some work on the layout tonight but have resorted to having a few strong beers instead in memory of Alan, a friend, work colleague, mentor etc etc. I remember having a beer with him in Damascus, Kumasi (Ghana for those who don't know) and many many other places. He really was a top bloke and never had a bad word to say about anyone. I was working for him when I lost my own father in 1998 and he could not have helped more, an incredibly kind and considerate man. Aside from family he is the person no longer here who I will remember most and I can't think of more than a handful of others who will ever be above him. I worked with him from when I was 15 doing my apprenticeship, then I worked for him when he and another guy left to start their own business, then I sub-contracted to him too including in Syria and Ghana etc. Another sad thing is that his mother is still around and you really shouldn't be saying farewell to your own kids, it's just in the wrong order.
I'm waffling now and should really finish my beer and go to bed. I will be in a bit of a daze for a while though with this news but believe it or not I see people on here as good friends and I know they can help get through times like this even though I have met very few in person so far.

Thanks for your support  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on February 11, 2021, 09:57:59 AM
Alan sounds like the kind of guy we'd all want as a friend, mentor etc and nothing I can say will ease the pain of his loss as I'm likely to just degenerate into a rant about the Covidiots.
Stay strong, John
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on February 11, 2021, 10:03:51 AM
That's tough news John. My condolences. I've been fortunate so far in that those of my aquaintance who've caught the virus have recovered and hopefully with the vaccine coming on line that good fortune will continue.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: StufromEGDL on February 11, 2021, 10:05:58 AM
Hi John;

I empathise with the grief you feel about losing a good friend taken too early. I have suffered the loss of friends and colleagues before their time due to the nature of my work. Whilst nothing can ever replace them, their memories live on and a glass is raised or a private nod of recognition is made when the anniversary of their passing occurs. No one will ever understand what friends, especially good ones, mean to each of us and no amount of words will ever replace the pain. The only thing we can do as a community is understand, give you time, space and support and promise to be here if you need to have a rant.

A friend remembered is always a friend.

Regards;
Stu from EGDL
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on February 11, 2021, 10:16:55 AM
There are plenty of comments above about how you have plenty of friends on here John and I agree with them all. This Covid thing has, fortunately, not affected me personally in that way, but a favourite Aunt of Louisa's had a stroke and, whilst in hospital, caught the virus and sadly passed away. Her name was Maria and was Louisa's last remaining link to her Italian origins and what made it worse was the fact that she could not go back to the UK for the funeral. A lot of things have been said about the Covidiots, so I will not add to them, but there are a lot of people feeling your anger - and pain. Raise another glass to your friend John.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on February 11, 2021, 10:26:08 AM
Sorry John

Please be kind to yourself mate

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on February 11, 2021, 11:40:04 AM
I'm really sorry for you, John. 61 is far too young an age, anyway, and the manner of his passing only makes it worse. We feel relatively unscathed here. Only one person we know has succumbed, and that was my favourite aunt who died from covid in January. She was 88, so had had a good life, but I will have to miss her funeral.

And some people complain because they can't go on holiday...

All the best,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on February 11, 2021, 01:37:50 PM
Every 1 of you guys is amazing, thanks. I'm having a really rough day today as it's just about sunk in that we'll never enjoy a pint and a bit of banter again. I don't feel ashamed to admit that I've shed more than a tear or 2 today. Thanks again all.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: REGP on February 11, 2021, 01:45:34 PM
John

When we lose a close friend or mentor, part of them lives on in you, from those unspoken lessons you learnt from them just being themselves.

Ray
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on February 11, 2021, 01:48:29 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on February 11, 2021, 01:37:50 PM
Every 1 of you guys is amazing, thanks. I'm having a really rough day today as it's just about sunk in that we'll never enjoy a pint and a bit of banter again. I don't feel ashamed to admit that I've shed more than a tear or 2 today. Thanks again all.

That's what friends are for!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Foxhound on February 11, 2021, 02:40:43 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on February 11, 2021, 01:37:50 PM
Every 1 of you guys is amazing, thanks. I'm having a really rough day today as it's just about sunk in that we'll never enjoy a pint and a bit of banter again. I don't feel ashamed to admit that I've shed more than a tear or 2 today. Thanks again all.

I'll raise a glass to your pal tonight, John. So sorry to hear your news. I've just sat through a meeting at work about how we reopen our cancer ward after the second brush with the virus in the last six months - and it's bloody hard knowing that the people we are caring for have had the fear of this to deal with let alone what they're already trying to come to terms with.

Have a beer and run a few trains tonight, blow the cobwebs away. He'd want you to.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob G on February 11, 2021, 02:49:10 PM
John

Sorry mate
Just seen your message.
Be gentle on yourself. Nothing you can do about it.
I just wish we could make the necessary political decisions a bit faster and not have to worry about placating rebel MPs, and maybe we might just get out of this mess.
Covid is not something that should be politicised but it is, none the less.

Bob
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on February 13, 2021, 01:54:58 PM
I just need to get this off my chest regarding Alan. You will see from the messages and pictures in the link below what a great guy Alan was. I feel a lot 'better' about it today but I know that there will be challenging days ahead. As I think I said previously, apart from family this is the closest person and best friend I have ever lost. He was good to me over the years, he was my boss when he lent me some money to buy my first house, also gave me loads of time off work (fully paid) when I lost my father and many other events. Just a fantastic guy all round. I just wish I could meet up for a beer with Pete his brother. I could tell you loads of funny/scary stories about the time all 3 of us spent together over the 40+ years we have known each other.
Sorry for 'going on' about Alan but it's my way of dealing with such a tragic and unexpected loss.

RIP Alan Moore (https://www.funeralguide.co.uk/obituaries/85627?fbclid=IwAR3XIcl0Yx2-i7w0c8_lK-ZeyMVFmqcGSAKDFKr2RBbJ-ycTOHcrBbdXO3U), or AGM as I would usually call him.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on February 13, 2021, 02:09:55 PM
Alan seems to have been held in high regard and remembered with affection by a lot of people.  Always sad when such a person leaves this world. I am sure a lot of forumites will agree when I say we do feel your pain.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on February 13, 2021, 10:43:23 PM
I've only discovered this and now realise my Antipodean silliness has been coming at a bad time. Please accept my condolences and apologies.

George
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on February 14, 2021, 03:45:10 AM
I saw no sillyness mate. Even if I did I wouldn't take a fence . I may be a little Mary right now so I'm off to bed and will check my posts  in the morning as it's not always accurate when using my foam in the lift with voice recognition  and I May be a little tiddler ex clam Asian Mark
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on February 14, 2021, 12:47:24 PM
Just remembered I posted the above rather late last night/early this morning. I think either I or my phone needs a software update  :doh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on February 14, 2021, 01:08:04 PM
or maybe both :smiley-laughing:

glad to see you survived the night.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on February 14, 2021, 01:56:43 PM
I did indeed survive and now I'm going back to the loft for more.

I've now got another unhappiness. See below for my picture of non-working locomotives. What do they have in common?

(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/106/262-140221135516-1063791735.jpeg)

Yes, they're all ruddy Dapol! I find the Dapol locos always look good but they're certainly not without their problems are they? The latest addition was the class 33 last night. Just stopped running. No excess heat, no smoke, no movement. The lights work though. I had a quick look inside but there was nothing obviously wrong. I did find a switch to turn off the headcode lights front and rear though. I didn't know this existed. I suppose I'll have to have a Dapol fixing day soon. Or at least an attempt to fix.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on February 26, 2021, 09:52:59 AM
does anyone else get annoyed when a member asks for info or is looking for an item, you PM to say you have one and suggest they get in touch to discuss, and they don't even acknowledge the PM.

makes you feel it's a waste of time trying to help some people.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on February 26, 2021, 09:55:07 AM
Well, I've read what you said, but I'm not going to reply. :P
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on February 26, 2021, 10:05:02 AM
perhaps I should PM you  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on February 27, 2021, 09:55:11 AM
Had my vaccine jab Thursday morning (Oxford/Astrazeneca) and some side effects kicked in yesterday. I just could not stay warm and was very tired so retired to the warmest place in the house i.e. my bed at 4pm, dozed until 6pm ish, watched DS9 then Enterprise then Next Generation and slept from 9.30 ish through to 8am today. Still feel like  :poop: but, hey, it's much better than the alternative!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on February 27, 2021, 10:06:52 AM
Apart from catching coronavirus at the vaccination centre, i suffered no ill effects of the Pfizer jab, not even a sore arm.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on February 27, 2021, 10:09:04 AM
Sounds like a similar reaction to the Oxford as my own, Mick, though what's so wrong with the alternative? I think Babylon 5 is so much better than Enterprise? :D

A day or two from now you'll be back to normal. :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on February 27, 2021, 10:10:58 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on February 27, 2021, 09:55:11 AM
but, hey, it's much better than the alternative!

An American comedian (Bob Hope?) said the same when asked what it was like to be 90.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on February 27, 2021, 10:12:32 AM
Quote from: daffy on February 27, 2021, 10:09:04 AM

A day or two from now you'll be back to normal. :thumbsup:

Normal? Whassat? ???
(Thought I'd get that in before everyone else does)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on February 27, 2021, 10:14:13 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on February 27, 2021, 10:12:32 AM
Quote from: daffy on February 27, 2021, 10:09:04 AM

A day or two from now you'll be back to normal. :thumbsup:

Normal? Whassat? ???
(Thought I'd get that in before everyone else does)

That's totally round the hat rack just like the rest of us.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on February 27, 2021, 10:21:42 AM
Quote from: steve836 on February 27, 2021, 10:10:58 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on February 27, 2021, 09:55:11 AM
but, hey, it's much better than the alternative!

An American comedian (Bob Hope?) said the same when asked what it was like to be 90.
Nearly, it was George Burns at 99 on the Parkinson show.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on February 28, 2021, 11:50:39 AM
Minor disasterette...:

(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/107/2975-280221114517.jpeg) (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=gallery;sa=view&id=107020)

Fortunately, it wasn't stuck down and is repairable.

The moral of the story is - always make sure everything on the shelf above the layout is secure.

:( :dunce:

Cheers,

Chris

PS. I really must fill in the gap between the two areas of cobbles...
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on February 28, 2021, 01:21:30 PM
Nothing to do with earthquakes ?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on February 28, 2021, 01:39:22 PM
bit baffled,
listed two locos yesterday for sale,

got this

Your listing requires approval. Once approved your listing will become visible and will then be able to add pictures.

then I get told listing refused cause no photos  :veryangry:

just relisted the first one again, WITH PHOTO and got the same message.

now totally baffled
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on February 28, 2021, 04:36:22 PM
listing both now approved, so is the message an error, or do you need to have a listing approved before you can add photos.
or should you add photos in the first place and ignore the message ?

where is my scottish water  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on February 28, 2021, 04:38:18 PM
Quote from: class37025 on February 28, 2021, 01:39:22 PM

just relisted the first one again, WITH PHOTO and got the same message.


No idea why on that one ???
Mods have been told not to approve ads without pics and I think the initial message about adding pics once the ad is approved is very misleading.
Over to Admin.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on February 28, 2021, 04:59:35 PM
I have to agree with Mick. The first classified I posted I was told I had to add a picture, which I did and the advert' was then approved. I was then told I could add pictures. Might be handy if the message about adding pictures after approval is re-worded a bit.  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on February 28, 2021, 05:04:05 PM
as ever, Mick, we thank you for your input.

hopefully you are feeling a bit / much better today.

I was lucky, first flue jab this year, hadn't bothered before though SWMBO has been having them, with and without reaction, for some years.
then the first vaccine jab, and no problems there, though I did note on the 'script' on the computer the question 'are you pregnant ?', so I did confirm to the lady who gave me the jab that as I am 'a' 74 and 'b' male, no I was not pregnant.  :smiley-laughing:

I have laid in a stock of bananas, just in case. :-[

stay safe
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on February 28, 2021, 06:12:38 PM
Are the bananas in case you get a tropical variant?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on February 28, 2021, 06:39:45 PM
Quote from: steve836 on February 28, 2021, 06:12:38 PM
Are the bananas in case you get a tropical variant?

Nope, he's just too tight to buy boomerangs.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: talisman56 on March 01, 2021, 04:22:20 PM
Had my Covid jab at Ashton Gate yesterday lunchtime, rested for 15 minutes before joining SWMBO back at the car (she said 'I'm coming along just in case you can't drive when you get out'). Had a burger and coffee for lunch then went for a walk along the Bristol harbourside.

Felt fine yesterday but woke up this morning with tenderness around the jab site, and a really thick head and nacent nausea.

The nausea has gone and the thick head eased a bit, but still feeling not right. Hoping everything will be OK once I've had a good night's sleep...
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on March 01, 2021, 09:12:08 PM
Hope you feel better tomorrow. I'm OK now but felt really rough for 3 days.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on March 12, 2021, 10:54:08 AM
Some may recall a couple of years ago my mancave (aka the conservatory) sprang a small leak in the roof. Well, in the recent windy wet weather it's happened again. I got the repairers out to it yesterday and they have sealed the ornate uPVC piece at the apex with sealant guns. However......
.....as the roof is over 12 years old and seals are likely to perish (sorry, Mr.Attenborough) etc I've decided to bite the bullet and have a new roof which will likely be a simpler, more solid type e.g.
https://www.penworthamglass.com/conservatory-warm-roofs.html (https://www.penworthamglass.com/conservatory-warm-roofs.html)

I'm waiting a quote (expected to be several £1000s) and will have to empty the layout out :'(
I'm on record as saying it has to be broken down to fit 'proper' electrics, point motors etc and fix some poor joints by relaying track so will obviously combine the two and hopefully have the roof done in June. It's going to put a severe crimp in my 'nest egg' but I must have the peace of mind water cannot get in and it should be cooler in summer/warmer in winter as well.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: crewearpley40 on March 12, 2021, 11:04:30 AM
Mick. Sorry to hear the roof issues. Hope you gain a fair quote and can leave the layout without fear of unwanted rain.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on March 12, 2021, 12:39:54 PM
Best thing you can do Mick. Our conservatory used to get extremely hot in the summer, freezing in the winter. I took off the polycarbonate roof, built up the walls by a few courses and fitted a flat roof. I fitted down lighters in the ceiling and I'm amazed at the difference it makes.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on March 12, 2021, 12:53:22 PM
Hammering down with hail and rain so a good test of the sealant fix.......................
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Nbodger on March 12, 2021, 02:08:06 PM
Mick,

This roof business could get really serious, you may have to sell the trains to pay for it  :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on March 12, 2021, 09:38:42 PM
I'd make him an offer for the trains but we already have a kettle and even that is at the back of the cupboard  :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Yet_Another on March 22, 2021, 10:46:02 PM
I bought my first house in 1986, in Cheadle Heath, Stockport. In an idle moment, I've just surfed the Disused Stations website for Cheadle Heath, as I knew there was a station there:

http://www.disused-stations.org.uk/c/cheadle%20heath/index.shtml (http://www.disused-stations.org.uk/c/cheadle%20heath/index.shtml)

My unhappiness is more sadness, really; that I missed the Blue Pullman, whose only stop along its entire route was at the station, and that just 20 years later, there was barely any evidence of a station there at all. There isn't any now, since they built the Morrisons on the site.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on April 04, 2021, 03:24:58 PM
Dolorous tidings, good people...

(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/108/2975-040421152027.jpeg)

We have just cracked open our last bottle, and the 2020 brew isn't ready to drink yet  :( .

Whatever are we going to do when it's gone?

Cheers (not),

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 04, 2021, 07:22:06 PM
Quote from: Papyrus on April 04, 2021, 03:24:58 PM
We have just cracked open our last bottle, and the 2020 brew isn't ready to drink yet  :( .

Whatever are we going to do when it's gone?


Remember it fondly and tell the 2020 batch to hurry up!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Dorsetmike on April 04, 2021, 07:30:48 PM
You could also try a drop of mead

https://lymebaywinery.co.uk/product-category/mead/ (https://lymebaywinery.co.uk/product-category/mead/)

I prefer the "Traditional" but a friend gives a thumbs up to the black cherry so I may give that a try.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on April 05, 2021, 11:29:41 AM
Mead!! Now there's a thought! I love mead but haven't had any for years and years because Mrs Papyrus doesn't like it, but I may have to indulge myself. I used to like Lindisfarne mead - I see it is still made. Thank you @Dorsetmike (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=2855) for giving me the idea.

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on April 20, 2021, 09:46:19 PM
The electricity supply to our house has been off throughout the day. Not really a problem, as we did get a weeks notice, so I was prepared - things like plenty of gas for the camping stove, rechargeable drill and saw fully charged, you know, the important things. It came back on about 5.10pm, hooray. It is amazing how often you go into a room without a window, (like the train room), and switch the light on and nowt happens! Still, I managed to get some work done with the help of a torch - take some measurements and use said rechargeable tools in a room that does have natural light - it has rained today, so no outside playing. So why unhappy you ask - nobody said it would go off again! Not much fun sat in the dark for an hour!  :no: (Even if it was with the lovely Louisa - she could not watch 'Holby'  :thumbsdown:).

What makes me even more unhappy is the fact that I have not had time to find any 'groaners' for all you forumites who look forward to them!  ;D ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on April 20, 2021, 10:25:59 PM
every cloud has a silver lining  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on April 20, 2021, 10:50:20 PM
So sad.😪
















A day without a groaner to ... er..... groan over.😭
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on April 20, 2021, 10:51:46 PM
Holb
y was good tonight too Danny
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on May 02, 2021, 12:18:53 AM
All my railway money is disappearing :(

First the (much repaired) washing machine gave up and cost £315 to replace. Next, my wife spent a load of money on her sister's birthday. Then I was working on my kit car and spent too much money - followed by another £127 on an after-market ECU. Today my youngest son's computer stopped working and needs a new SSD! And my wife wants to redecorate too  :worried:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: njee20 on May 02, 2021, 11:12:02 AM
I've been using Kingspec SSDs from Ali Express. £20 for a 250GB and £60 for a 1TB, they seem great, and perform well in tests.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on May 02, 2021, 11:19:25 AM
Quote from: stevewalker on May 02, 2021, 12:18:53 AM
All my railway money is disappearing :(


I know the feeling well! On top of the €600 paid on Friday for the JCB and driver, I have the car booked in for two new tyres on Wednesday. On top of all that, the central heating stopped working yesterday. From enquiries made on the internet, it may possibly be the diverter valve that is not err .... diverting, as the boiler appears to be able to provide hot water. The boiler uses Calor Gas and there are not many service engineers who will service a LPG boiler for some reason. A few telephone calls to make on Tuesday.  :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: thebrighton on May 02, 2021, 04:34:46 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on May 02, 2021, 11:19:25 AM

I know the feeling well! On top of the €600 paid on Friday for the JCB and driver, I have the car booked in for two new tyres on Wednesday. On top of all that, the central heating stopped working yesterday. From enquiries made on the internet, it may possibly be the diverter valve that is not err .... diverting, as the boiler appears to be able to provide hot water. The boiler uses Calor Gas and there are not many service engineers who will service a LPG boiler for some reason. A few telephone calls to make on Tuesday.  :(

Spooky, we had no hot water this morning rather than no heating but definitely the diverter valve which did the same thing 7-8 years ago. Bit annoying as we only had a new boiler installed in December but it's not part of the boiler so no go with the guarantee and an indeterminate wait for our plumber to sort it!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on May 03, 2021, 03:38:03 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on May 02, 2021, 11:19:25 AM
Quote from: stevewalker on May 02, 2021, 12:18:53 AM
All my railway money is disappearing :(


I know the feeling well! On top of the €600 paid on Friday for the JCB and driver, I have the car booked in for two new tyres on Wednesday. On top of all that, the central heating stopped working yesterday. From enquiries made on the internet, it may possibly be the diverter valve that is not err .... diverting, as the boiler appears to be able to provide hot water. The boiler uses Calor Gas and there are not many service engineers who will service a LPG boiler for some reason. A few telephone calls to make on Tuesday.  :(
I couldn't find a  lpg boiler man , I eventually found out Vailient have their own mobile boiler service team. So you may have to go to your boiler manufacturers website...
Our diverter valve is inside the boiler.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: talisman56 on May 08, 2021, 11:38:20 AM
In here rather than the Angry thread becuase an annoyance rather than a 'lose your head' event.

I have had the bank cards for both my bank accounts renewed in the past couple of months. Previously, I could distinguish the cards for the current account (with 'contactless') [spending money] and household account (not 'contactless') [monthly bills] very easily as they had a different design. Now they both look the same and the number of times I have tried to pay contactless with the household account card...   :censored: :doh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TrevL on May 08, 2021, 11:43:25 AM
Quote from: talisman56 on May 08, 2021, 11:38:20 AM
In here rather than the Angry thread becuase an annoyance rather than a 'lose your head' event.

I have had the bank cards for both my bank accounts renewed in the past couple of months. Previously, I could distinguish the cards for the current account (with 'contactless') [spending money] and household account (not 'contactless') [monthly bills] very easily as they had a different design. Now they both look the same and the number of times I have tried to pay contactless with the household account card...   :censored: :doh:

Yep, done that. So I've written HMA (home management account) in big letters with a permanent marker on it.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on May 08, 2021, 11:47:46 AM
1 of mine has the word "Joint" on a Dymo label stuck to it. That's because it's our joint account not because it's for buying joints.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 08, 2021, 11:50:01 AM
Quote from: Trainfish on May 08, 2021, 11:47:46 AM
1 of mine has the word "Joint" on a Dymo label stuck to it. That's because it's our joint account not because it's for buying joints.

Visit the butcher's often, do You, John? :angel:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on May 08, 2021, 12:08:45 PM
Yes, I go to the bloke in the market who doesn't take cards so I have to go to the cashpoint first. Hence why I need to have my card marked  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on May 08, 2021, 12:09:57 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on May 08, 2021, 12:08:45 PM
Yes, I go to the bloke in the market who doesn't take cards so I have to go to the cashpoint first. Hence why I need to have my card marked  :D

I went to the cashpoint around the corner from him a few weeks ago but forgot to take the cash out but strangely that story belongs in the happy thread  :hmmm:

EDIT: And I have no idea why I replied to my own post above rather than just editing it  :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Fardap on May 08, 2021, 12:22:08 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on May 08, 2021, 12:09:57 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on May 08, 2021, 12:08:45 PM
Yes, I go to the bloke in the market who doesn't take cards so I have to go to the cashpoint first. Hence why I need to have my card marked  :D

I went to the cashpoint around the corner from him a few weeks ago but forgot to take the cash out but strangely that story belongs in the happy thread  :hmmm:

EDIT: And I have no idea why I replied to my own post above rather than just editing it  :'(

Quoting yourself is surely the ultimate in self confidence  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on May 11, 2021, 12:04:06 PM
just had a look on Hattons website for some supply vehicles for the 1/76 wargames supply columns, and found that as Bachmann has apparently bought out EFE, Hattons no longer list new stock, only pre-owned.

when will these two sort out their problems ?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on May 11, 2021, 03:32:31 PM
Well another cat has died today. Even though we did have, at one time, 13 cats, we had 4 this morning - we now have 3, but it does not get any easier. He had been 'off colour' the last few days so I told Louisa that I would ring the Vet' this morning. I did that and then had to ring back a bit later to cancel. The cat lovers out there will have an idea of what I feel like at the moment. Trouble is, I will feel worse in an hour or so, when I pick Louisa up from work and she says, "how's the cat?". He and his 2 remaining siblings, was about 14 years old, yet Bella, the one eyed wonder cat, is still going strong and she is about 20 years old. Now when she goes ............
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on May 11, 2021, 03:50:06 PM
@dannyboy (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=4209),
while I will admit to never having been a 'cat person', I accept that others think of their feline friends as I do about my canine friends.

as such, I hope that this, sent to me by another member when I / we lost Coco, will in some small way help / comfort you.

 Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge. 

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. 
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. 
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable. 

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. 
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind. 

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster. 

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart. 

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together.... 


hopefully though, not too soon.

HB sends his condolences, though he is still chomping on a bonio
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 11, 2021, 04:22:53 PM
Every pet lover on the forum will know that gut wrenching sorrow, David.
Such small animals leave a huge hole in our lives.
Best to you and Louisa
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: lil chris on May 11, 2021, 06:37:59 PM
Sorry to hear of your loss David, we have two cats, clue in my avatar. One of mine was from a old friend who died he had 12 cats, we have only had one of them. She is a lovely little cat and about 14 years old, she has a couple of problems but she is still active playing etc. We heard the Rspca would have put her down so we took her in, much to the annoyance of our own cat.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on May 12, 2021, 08:22:00 AM
We used to have 2 cats , they were from the RSPCA. They had a tough life before we had them, but were loved and cared for by us. When they go, it's like losing a close family member. We had to stop the car on the way back from the vets when the last one went as I couldn't see properly.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on May 12, 2021, 09:53:59 AM
David, sorry I missed this news yesterday.

My condolences from myself, the wife, Chaos and Penfold. It sucks, there's no worse, gut wrenching feeling.

Thinking of you and yours. All the best mate.

Michael.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on May 12, 2021, 10:28:54 AM
Many thanks for your replies to my previous post - they are appreciated.  :thumbsup:

On a happier note, (even though this is the 'Unhappy' thread), we have had two stray cats hanging about for months and they have become quite friendly and both will come in through the kitchen window for a bite to eat. I decided a few weeks ago that one was female, as she was obviously 'with kitten'. About two weeks ago, I realised that she had had her kittens. I went searching and found at least three kittens in the shed, but left them alone, so Mother would not be put off by human smells. We worked out when they might have been born and decided it had to be 23rd April, (St Georges day as we are from Yorkshire  :)). When I went to look last week there was no sign of the kittens - cue Louisa being upset again. After yesterdays sad event, I went looking for the kittens and found them! The Mother had obviously moved them to the other side of the shed, it has a dividing wall about four feet high and the kittens were under an old chair in a nice little bed which I presume was made by the Mother. I am guessing that the kittens were moved because of the noise made by the JCB and chainsaw used in the garden last week.

So, if a certain lady of this parish gets her way, I can see there being at least one new addition to the household in the near future.  :doh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 12, 2021, 11:05:43 AM
Booooooo! You can't separate them! :no: :telloff:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on May 12, 2021, 11:26:59 AM
I did say "at least one new addition". I am quite confident that when 'push comes to shove' in relation to animals and "a certain lady of this parish", I know the limits of my bravery, (and stupidity  ;)).

I just hope that there are only three!!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob G on May 12, 2021, 11:32:50 AM
Quote from: dannyboy on May 12, 2021, 10:28:54 AM
Many thanks for your replies to my previous post - they are appreciated.  :thumbsup:

On a happier note, (even though this is the 'Unhappy' thread), we have had two stray cats hanging about for months and they have become quite friendly and both will come in through the kitchen window for a bite to eat. I decided a few weeks ago that one was female, as she was obviously 'with kitten'. About two weeks ago, I realised that she had had her kittens. I went searching and found at least three kittens in the shed, but left them alone, so Mother would not be put off by human smells. We worked out when they might have been born and decided it had to be 23rd April, (St Georges day as we are from Yorkshire  :)). When I went to look last week there was no sign of the kittens - cue Louisa being upset again. After yesterdays sad event, I went looking for the kittens and found them! The Mother had obviously moved them to the other side of the shed, it has a dividing wall about four feet high and the kittens were under an old chair in a nice little bed which I presume was made by the Mother. I am guessing that the kittens were moved because of the noise made by the JCB and chainsaw used in the garden last week.

So, if a certain lady of this parish gets her way, I can see there being at least one new addition to the household in the near future.  :doh:

David
I'm sorry I missed your sad news. You should have said something last night.
I do hope the kittens become part of your household.
Take care
Bob (human) and Obi (cat).
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on May 12, 2021, 01:09:50 PM
Quote from: Bob G on May 12, 2021, 11:32:50 AM
You should have said something last night.


Thanks Bob. I could not say a right lot last night as Louisa was sat a few feet away from me and would have needed the tissues - again - if I had said owt!  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Foxhound on May 12, 2021, 01:13:08 PM
David, sincere condolences from Becky and I.
Although I'm owned by a dog, I have always been fond of cats and, if we lived somewhere safer for them, (the roads around here are a bit notorious), I would have one happily.
When we lost our foxhound a few years ago now (8 and a bit ay last count) I thought I might lose my mind with sorrow. We often both have a little cry about her even now. Upon reading your news I had to go and cuddle the current furry spotty idiot just to be sure she was 'just asleep'.
Nothing can completely heal the hurt, but with the chance of some new little ones in your life, there will be more love to give (and receive!) in time.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on May 12, 2021, 01:59:21 PM
David.
I'm so sorry to hear your news.
Although I'm not a cat lover, I fully understand how much of an effect the loss of any pet can have on us mere humans.
But...of course, with the end of one life there comes a new beginning for another. Although in your case that new beginning could involve several it seems!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: grumbeast on May 12, 2021, 03:37:21 PM
SO sorry for your loss, its one I understand, we lost our Bumpy Cat a few years ago while we still lived in the UK, she was our constant companion. We have Jelly now, an RSPCA rescue who came from Newport and had had a none too good life before us, so we brought her to Canada with us.  They are such an important part of our lives, so I'm thinking good thoughts for you
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Graham on May 15, 2021, 12:30:54 AM
So last week we were told it would be unlikely that Australia will open our borders until mid next year. Had plans to be in Europe mid next year so have had to put that on hold again just in case
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on May 31, 2021, 10:12:45 AM
Quote from: Graham on May 15, 2021, 12:30:54 AM
So last week we were told it would be unlikely that Australia will open our borders until mid next year. Had plans to be in Europe mid next year so have had to put that on hold again just in case

Sorry to hear that. It may be that the UK will be available to you earlier though as, with our vaccine rollout, the UK may well be considered a viable option before a general opening of your borders.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on May 31, 2021, 10:22:54 AM
I really can't see that happening. I'm booked on a flight to Adelaide on Friday, and just travelling interstate here in Australia is problematic.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on May 31, 2021, 06:46:52 PM
Funny that, we never had any problem sending our bad guys!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Graham on May 31, 2021, 11:23:56 PM
Quote from: Bealman on May 31, 2021, 10:22:54 AM
I really can't see that happening. I'm booked on a flight to Adelaide on Friday, and just travelling interstate here in Australia is problematic.
hopefully you will make it, I am starting to worry for Sept when my next trip is booked given our track record in Melbourne.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on June 03, 2021, 08:02:46 PM
I had an email from my electricity and gas company this morning saying that due to me owing them £109 they would raise my direct debit from £108 per month to £166 to cover the debt. I did of course call them and after listening to Oasis singing She's Electric, Eddy Grant singing Electric Avenue, Phil Oakey singing Together in electric dreams numerous times whilst spending 40 minutes on hold I finally spoke to a human being. He was clueless and I had to point out to him that if I totalled up my bills for October to March which are the 6 coldest months, multiplied it by 2 then divided it by 12 the amount still came nowhere near the £166 a month quoted. He agreed, even though he couldn't work it out himself, and said he would change my payment to £110 per month.

So initially unhappy but now happy. Hopefully this is in the correct thread  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on June 03, 2021, 08:10:47 PM
used to have the same problem, different music, when we were with OVO.

changed to Octopussy, and had no problems whatsoever.

mind you, they don't seem to be money-grabbing  :censored:, just flog me leccy and gas, and will no doubt bill me if I owe them at the end of the year.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on June 03, 2021, 08:39:21 PM
Some companies put some ridiculous sounding music on their 'hold' system, but at least your utility company were playing appropriate music (Unless of course, you've swapped your outfit for the 'Joker').
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on June 03, 2021, 08:55:25 PM
At least they weren't playing 'Jumpin' Jack Flash!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on June 03, 2021, 10:13:44 PM
Thankfully they didn't play this either especially as I'm an electrician



I log my gas and electric use on a spreadsheet (I have a spreadsheet for everything, soon I'll need a spreadsheet for the spreadsheets) with comparison graphs and also the monthly cost which is why I was 'shocked' (sorry) when I saw the proposed increase. I think the poor guy on the other end of the phone soon realised this which was why he backed down  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: zwilnik on June 14, 2021, 01:12:11 PM
This is probably more "Doh!" than unhappy, but near enough..

My Kato GWR Class 800 arrived this morning after its travels through the Spanish customs and excise system and it looks great. The problem is, with all the building work on my layout, the track to test it on didn't look so great so I spent half an hour taking all the various bits of debris, tools, materials etc. off the layout and giving it a quick sweep over. Then ran my Tomix track cleaner round behind a Warship in both hoover and track scrubbing mode to get all the bits of plaster and scatter off the track.

After a few (noisy) loops of that, I thought I'd run the Warship round light engine just to make sure it's all smooth. All great until it hits the far curve right at the back corner of the layout behind the mountain. ie the bit where I have to take the mountain off and fold away my workbench (which requires cleaning stuff off it first) to get to, and I hear the "CLUNK" of a Warship falling off the track. It wasn't even going that fast either. I think it just felt like it :/

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on June 14, 2021, 02:19:52 PM
Warships huh.

::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: zwilnik on June 14, 2021, 06:51:49 PM
Quote from: emjaybee on June 14, 2021, 02:19:52 PM
Warships huh.

::)

This one gets a pass. I noticed that the Javelin was clonking going round that corner too after the hill was replaced and it looks like a section of its structure gets a bit too close to the track if it's not placed exactly right.

It probably got round previously because of the weight of the track cleaner it was pulling and the noise of said track cleaner drowned out any bumping noise :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on June 14, 2021, 08:20:49 PM
That's the trouble with GWR stuff! No stamina.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on June 26, 2021, 07:20:08 AM
Two week lockdown for Bealman.  :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Graham on June 26, 2021, 08:12:50 AM
Just saw that on the headlines, sorry to hear it NSW had done so well up to now. Still think of all the modelling you can get done over the next 2 weeks.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: crewearpley40 on June 26, 2021, 08:16:01 AM
Plus all those jobs that you have been meaning to do at home with / for Mrs B
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on June 26, 2021, 09:13:05 AM
I'm thinking of the money I'm gonna save not going to the bowling club  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: wombat457 on June 26, 2021, 09:25:30 AM
Quote from: Bealman on June 26, 2021, 09:13:05 AM
I'm thinking of the money I'm gonna save not going to the bowling club  :D

Hmm, money you can NOW spend on TRAINS!!!!   :laugh3:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on June 26, 2021, 09:51:23 AM
Maybe time to get on with the restoration of the layout.
Then again, I'm just being silly, aren't I? ::) :P
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on June 27, 2021, 12:43:03 AM
Quote from: Bealman on June 26, 2021, 07:20:08 AM
Two week lockdown for Bealman.  :(

The lockdown only applies to Sydney, Newcastle, the Blue Mountains and Wollongong.

About 7 or 8km SE of Chez Bealman lies the Windang bridge across the access to the sea from Lake Illawarra. This bridge must have mysterious powers, enabling it to stop the delta covid variant, as the City of Shellharbour and everything south is lockdown - free.

Stuffed if I'm gonna drive all the way for a schooner of VB!

Actually, it wouldn't surprise me if there are police blockades at the bridge checking your address.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: wombat457 on June 27, 2021, 12:48:40 AM
Quote.....everything south is lockdown

Stuffed if I'm gonna drive all the way for a schooner of VB!.....

Then Sir - go North Young Man ............. Go North !!!!!    :D

Good that you escaped the lock down though  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on June 27, 2021, 01:12:04 AM
No, Tony, we are in lockdown.  :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: wombat457 on June 27, 2021, 01:15:11 AM
Sorry mate, misunderstood something ...... :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Webbo on June 29, 2021, 01:01:08 AM
Our local government head honcho has decided that everyone in Canberra is to wear masks at indoor public venues including supermarkets and pubs. Probably not a bad idea considering the brilliance (not) of our leaders in rolling out vaccinations. Drinking beer through a mask is a skill that I will need to master, urgently.

Webbo
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on June 29, 2021, 01:08:59 AM
 :laughabovepost:

That's actually what happened here a few days before lockdown. You had to wear a mask wherever you were in the club, but you had to be seated to drink, when you could remove the mask.

Anyway that's all academic at the moment, but I don't care.... I know I'm saving money  ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Platy767 on June 29, 2021, 02:40:53 AM
This should probably be in the happy thread, but it's related to the current NSW lockdown. The daughter was to be married in July 2020, but that got postponed to July 4th 2021, which is now a no go. Fortunately the NSW premier, when announcing the current NSW lockdown from Saturday 26th June said that weddings could proceed on the 26th and 27th June. Anyway, mad scramble with celebrant, flowers, hair and makeup and venue on Saturday night gave way to a beautiful, intimate ceremony on Sunday afternoon. No reception and only a small masked up, socially distanced crowd, but the wedding couple were happy! Lovely weather on the day.
Apparently many other intending couples in Sydney did the same.
Mark
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on June 29, 2021, 02:47:29 AM
Good to hear everything went well and the newly weds were happy. Sometimes less is more!  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on June 29, 2021, 01:07:37 PM
Well, following a visit to hospital for my tests, my wife has now reached the milestone of being under the GP and four different Consultants - all for different things! She hardly needs food anymore, as she's so full of pills. Lungs, heart, joints, digestive system, kidneys ... nothing works right! And still only in her fifties. I'm sure they'll manage to fix something eventually.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on June 29, 2021, 01:47:52 PM
sounds like you wouldn't get much in part exchange  :-[

seriously, hope all does end up going well.

in spite of still dealing with covid, the NHS is managing to really get stuck into other things, I was absolutely shocked by how quickly SWMBO was diagnosed, tested, referred, and sorted.

so, fingers crossed, and best wishes for both of you.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: grumbeast on June 29, 2021, 04:54:17 PM
Fourth day of our heatwave.. only forecast to be 35 today yay :(  have been sleeping on a campbed in the basement for days now, no AC, the mainfloor of the house is unihabitable (Its not dipped below 30C even at night, it generally hovers around 37 during the day.  Did venture out to get a watermelon yesterday and the car was 44C!   hoping for relief tomorrow, the high is expected to be 29. with 16 at night, I hope to be able to sleep finally!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Webbo on June 30, 2021, 07:30:25 AM
Graham

You should thank your lucky stars you don't live in Lytton, British Columbia. It exceeded Canada's previous record high temperature of 45 for three days in a row: Sunday (46.6), Monday (47.5) and Tuesday (over 49).

Deadwood, my layout set in south central BC, is predicted to get to 42 tomorrow.

Webbo
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: wombat457 on June 30, 2021, 07:38:05 AM
 :thumbsup:  that is a tad warm .........  :jawdropping:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on June 30, 2021, 09:54:53 AM
Quote from: Platy767 on June 29, 2021, 02:40:53 AM
This should probably be in the happy thread, but it's related to the current NSW lockdown. The daughter was to be married in July 2020, but that got postponed to July 4th 2021, which is now a no go. Fortunately the NSW premier, when announcing the current NSW lockdown from Saturday 26th June said that weddings could proceed on the 26th and 27th June. Anyway, mad scramble with celebrant, flowers, hair and makeup and venue on Saturday night gave way to a beautiful, intimate ceremony on Sunday afternoon. No reception and only a small masked up, socially distanced crowd, but the wedding couple were happy! Lovely weather on the day.
Apparently many other intending couples in Sydney did the same.
Mark
And the Dads Pocket should be happy ... no huge celebration dinner to pay for...
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Platy767 on June 30, 2021, 12:43:08 PM
Quote from: The Q on June 30, 2021, 09:54:53 AM

And the Dads Pocket should be happy ... no huge celebration dinner to pay for...

Ah, not quite. Only the final 5k payment wasn't made, but the deposit and previous progress payments were. Still working out how much and how long the credit will last and when and what kind of party the young couple will have.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: grumbeast on July 02, 2021, 03:28:17 PM
Quote from: Webbo on June 30, 2021, 07:30:25 AM
Graham

You should thank your lucky stars you don't live in Lytton, British Columbia. It exceeded Canada's previous record high temperature of 45 for three days in a row: Sunday (46.6), Monday (47.5) and Tuesday (over 49).

Deadwood, my layout set in south central BC, is predicted to get to 42 tomorrow.

Webbo

Yeah, and whats happened in Lytton is a tragedy, one of my Colleague's family is from there and they've lost everything.  There are about 6 'Wildfires of Concern' in the interior right now, about 60000 Hectares worth.   We have a wildfire season here but I think its going to be a bad one this year.  we're not so vulnerable on the Island, but we did have one get pretty to the city last year, it plays hell with my Asthma
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on July 03, 2021, 07:06:36 PM
sent a wargames mate a message earlier today ...
just had a reply from his SWMBO ...
he collapsed thursday, blue light to hospital, no further info..
know him since Brize in the early 70s,
he could hear the kettle go on from there when our quarter was in Bampton !
had our ups and downs since then, but always made up...
and he's 5 years younger than me..

shocked.....

if you can spare a few minutes, have a thought for him, and her as well.

thank you.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on July 24, 2021, 01:06:34 PM
Where do you find a carpenter?

We want to renovate our staircase, so I have contacted 6 local carpenters for estimates. One (who was recommended by a neighbour) hasn't bothered to respond to my messages. One turned up two days after his appointment and gave a very casual "could do it for two or three hundred, mate", which didn't fill us with confidence. The other four came, were friendly enough, measured up and went away, never to be heard from again. I know a lot of them are very busy right now, but if they aren't going to send an estimate, why go to the trouble of visiting you in the first place?

As there is no 'Grrr' smiley, this will have to do :headbutt:

Cheers, 

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on July 24, 2021, 01:14:14 PM
@class37025 (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=311)
For some reason I missed your post Alan regarding your mate - I hope things are okay now.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on July 24, 2021, 01:33:53 PM
@dannyboy (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=4209),
thank you for asking.

he is home now, though with further tests still to be done, as they do not know what happened.
apparently his blood pressure just went through the floor and he collapsed.
no ambulance available, but luckily when he left the RAF he went to the London Ambulance Service, and still had contacts after retiring. his SWMBO called one and they scrambled a scratch crew to collect him and convey to hospital.
most likely saving his life.
so many ambulance services are under huge pressure at the moment so can understand all units deployed locally to his location.

hopefully the tests will decide what happened and enable treatment to prevent further recurrences.

regards
alan

while meaning nothing to me, apparently his BP was 75/40 on their arrival.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 24, 2021, 05:30:35 PM
Quote from: class37025 on July 24, 2021, 01:33:53 PM

while meaning nothing to me, apparently his BP was 75/40 on their arrival.

@class37025 (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=311) Alan, the figure you quote is horribly low and I'm not surprised he collapsed. Generally my BP is around the 140/75 mark.

Quote from: Papyrus on July 24, 2021, 01:06:34 PM
Where do you find a carpenter?


@Papyrus (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=2975) Chris - in Lankyshire we have a website called 'Safe Traders' which is vetted by the Trading Standards Office. Should someone turn up, measure up and then not quote the Trading Standards will act if informed. It's a prestigious site to be listed on.
I know on TV 'Trust a Trader' is advertised but I really don't know if that system is monitored as strictly.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on July 26, 2021, 12:25:34 PM
Our eldest son is due to start university in September and not only does he want to have the Covid vaccine first, but there are now suggestions that it may be mandatory to be allowed to access physical lectures, but his 18th birthday is not until next month. He may not even be allowed into the halls of residence without vaccination.

His GP will not deal with any Covid vaccination questions at all ... they are now only dealing with people who have missed 2nd doses. The online system will let him book, but won't let him get the second dose before he starts university (and even then he may not be able to attend lectures or stay in halls until two weeks after) and won't deal with the two doses being in separate cities. The 119 phone service won't deal with under 18s at all - despite it being announced that anyone within 3 months of their 18th birthday or having a vulnerable household member (he qualifies for both) can book now!

Arrrghhhh!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on July 26, 2021, 12:29:20 PM
Book hid first ASAP and when he goes for it they can book his second there, and they have discretion at the vax centre to move it forward.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on July 26, 2021, 02:11:05 PM
We have got his first tomorrow, so we'll ask them. Thanks for that.

It's just a pity that they didn't announce that under 18's could get their vaccinations 3 months before their 18th birthday, at least 3 months before the beginning of September - as those born on 31st August are the youngest likely to be going to university this year.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on July 29, 2021, 12:57:55 PM
Just decided to do a little polystyrene cutting during my lunch break. Went out to the shed and made two cuts. Towards the end of the second, the batteries were obviously getting a little low, so it was taking a little bit more effort. Got to the end of the cut, the pressure was released and the wire pinged off somewhere.

I moved a load of stuff, but couldn't find it. Suddenly thought that I still had a spare, took a look and there it was. So I fitted it.

I turned to start again, realised I'd left a box out from the search, picked it up and as I put it away, caught the cutter on a leg of the board and pinged that wire off too!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TrevL on July 29, 2021, 01:04:23 PM
Sod's Law!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on August 17, 2021, 08:11:22 PM
We appear to have lost control of our fridge...

The family came for dinner on Sunday. Including us there were 7 individuals, two of them toddlers. Somehow we have ended up with 5 part-drunk bottles of wine in the fridge and SEVEN pots of cream (one real, six Elmlea imitation), four of them opened. How did we manage that?

Fortunately, fake cream has a long use-by date, and the wine we can manage  :D . I can't even blame Mrs Papyrus as I do the shopping  :hmmm: . Ah well.

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on August 18, 2021, 11:17:27 AM
Are those part used bottles of wine in fact that mythical beast....left over wine, often mentioned in recipes?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on August 19, 2021, 06:36:33 AM
Just learned of the death of Sean Lock.  Bummer!
One of his jokes I really loved:
"I hear voices in my head; but I just ignore them and carry on killing."
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 19, 2021, 09:32:57 AM
I saw that news yesterday. I found him a bit 'Marmitey' but whichever way you look at it 58 is too young to go :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 05, 2021, 05:16:53 PM
Just tried to order 8 x code 55 curved points + some Peco switches and accessories.
First port of call, my go-to, Rails of Sheffield. Only one of each point in stock. Ordered them and most of the switches etc
Second port of call, Hattons. Rest of the items in stock. Jolly good. After getting several times the message "something has gone wrong - please refresh the page or try later" I gave up and went to Model Railways Direct who, though not the cheapest, had all the rest of the items in stock and their website was easy to navigate/search.
Hattons lost £100 worth of order and Rails could have done better if they had the stock.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Nbodger on September 05, 2021, 09:15:52 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on September 05, 2021, 05:16:53 PM
Just tried to order 8 x code 55 curved points + some Peco switches and accessories.
First port of call, my go-to, Rails of Sheffield. Only one of each point in stock. Ordered them and most of the switches etc
Second port of call, Hattons. Rest of the items in stock. Jolly good. After getting several times the message "something has gone wrong - please refresh the page or try later" I gave up and went to Model Railways Direct who, though not the cheapest, had all the rest of the items in stock and their website was easy to navigate/search.
Hattons lost £100 worth of order and Rails could have done better if they had the stock.

@Newportnobby (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264)
Mick,

That interesting regards Hatton, I purchased some things from there last week, there website failed in four attempts to pay, never taking me to the payment page. Ended up phoning them to buy the items and informed them of the problem, this was last Wednesday and Thursday.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 05, 2021, 09:21:36 PM
In total I spent some £185 before postage costs* and would have preferred to source from a single retailer. Hattons just ruled themselves out with a faulty website, but Rails were charging £12.50 for the points whereas MRD were at £15.23. That's a big difference but Rails just didn't have the stock :(

@Nbodger (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=8543) Please do not attempt this with MrsN looking over your shoulder :no:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Flange Squeal on September 05, 2021, 10:47:39 PM
I don't understand why you didn't order the whole lot from RoS and put the out of stock items on back order. Is Peco stuff becoming a rare commodity? I blame brexit!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 06, 2021, 10:09:38 AM
Quote from: Flange Squeal on September 05, 2021, 10:47:39 PM
I don't understand why you didn't order the whole lot from RoS and put the out of stock items on back order.

Because I need the points now, not when Peco decide to pull their finger out :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jpendle on September 06, 2021, 02:21:30 PM
Quote from: Flange Squeal on September 05, 2021, 10:47:39 PM
I don't understand why you didn't order the whole lot from RoS and put the out of stock items on back order. Is Peco stuff becoming a rare commodity? I blame brexit!

As I understand things, it IS a rare commodity. Because of Covid. They were shut down for quite a while, lots of people started doing model railways, and I think for a while they re-purposed themselves to do some Covid related stuff. Stock levels still haven't got back to normal.

Regards,

John P
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on September 06, 2021, 03:56:05 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on September 06, 2021, 10:09:38 AM
Quote from: Flange Squeal on September 05, 2021, 10:47:39 PM
I don't understand why you didn't order the whole lot from RoS and put the out of stock items on back order.

Because I need the points now, not when Peco decide to pull their finger out :)

It's the ol' "Six P's" rhyme...

...Poor Planning Prevents Proper Point Purchasing.

:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 06, 2021, 08:52:29 PM
Quote from: emjaybee on September 06, 2021, 03:56:05 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on September 06, 2021, 10:09:38 AM
Quote from: Flange Squeal on September 05, 2021, 10:47:39 PM
I don't understand why you didn't order the whole lot from RoS and put the out of stock items on back order.

Because I need the points now, not when Peco decide to pull their finger out :)

It's the ol' "Six P's" rhyme...

...Poor Planning Prevents Proper Point Purchasing.

:D

That doesn't rhyme at all, and the only 6Ps I'm aware of are Jubilees, Clans and rebuilt Patriots :P
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 09, 2021, 11:22:24 AM
Dentists

Rather than hijack the 'Hillsden' thread, I decided I would start a separate thread.  I thought, following yesterdays comments from Mike and Martin, ( @Nbodger (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=8543) and @port perran (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=230) ), I would tell you about my visit to the Dentist. I only have one molar left, which is one of my lower set of teeth, so it gets a lot of use. About twelve months ago, I visited the Dentist as it was giving me 'a bit of bovver'. The Dentist said it needed to come out, but as it was my only molar, she would try and save it and filled it. I went to the Dentist a month ago and the Dentist said, sorry, but the molar has to come out, so an appointment was made for earlier this week. A couple of my front teeth on the lower set, (I have a plate for my upper set), were loose and one of them in particular was very loose and I kept catching it on the upper plate, so chewing started to get a bit awkward, (not to say painful). When I got to the Dentist and told her about the loose teeth, she decided that one had to come out there and then, but she would delay pulling the molar for a month. She has decided that a couple more of my lower set have to come out, so I have to have a partial plate for the lower set, which will be anchored to the couple of remaining teeth and the first impression was made. Once that was all done, the Dentist told me that the bill will be in the region of €700  :o. As you are probably aware, there is no National Health Service in Ireland, but I was told that I could pay a bit on each of my next three or four visits - thanks! ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Nbodger on September 09, 2021, 11:48:04 AM
David @dannyboy (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=4209)

Thank you for your post, you have cheered me up no end, even the pains gone, at least I didn't have to shell out that much, however it is a private dentist I go to.

My problems go back to when I was 17 to 24 when I avoided the dentist like the plague after a very bad experience and feeling quite ill afterwards.

However, just after Mrs N and I got married, she made me go to her dentist, which I had to go to for quite a few weeks sorting my self inflicted problems out, these early problems are now really coming home to roost, but the first teeth I have lost in forty plus years.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on September 09, 2021, 12:02:54 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on September 09, 2021, 11:22:24 AM
As you are probably aware, there is no National Health Service in Ireland, but I was told that I could pay a bit on each of my next three or four visits - thanks! ;)

NHS dentistry in the UK is barely worthy of the name either. NHS dentists are few and far between (I felt like saying they are like hen's teeth but thought better of it...) and mine has just told me he is going private. So I either have the choice of stumping up more money when I need treatment or paying for a 'care plan' which seems to cost more than what you get back. I'll probably just end up going less often and hoping for the best. Ho hum.

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob G on September 09, 2021, 12:13:03 PM
@Nbodger (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=8543) @Newportnobby (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264) @emjaybee (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=5604) @dannyboy (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=4209) Don't get me started on teeth  :o

Most of my molars have had root canal treatment (sometimes on repeat occasions). This was because of acid reflux not being treated properly by NHS. Solved mainly by having my gall bladder out privately 30 years later.

My two front teeth are crowns due to a bicycling incident following 15 vodka and limes, and I really did sing "All I want for Christmas..."
Those crowns have lasted me 40 years - I had a great NHS dentist in Exeter called Mr Hacker (honest). He took his time to get them right and get the colour match to the right level of nicotine staining at the time.
One started playing up during lockdown. Doctors wouldn't see me so it went undiagnosed (try inhaling Vick to clear your sinuses) and these might (one day) need two implants ($$ouch$$).

That takes me back to the initial incident. I was found unconscious in a hedge on university grounds, picked up in a police car and taken to hospital.
I had concussion from hitting my teeth and face on a lamppost and I was sick in the back of the police car on the way to hospital. Kept in hospital for 2 days to sober up, recover from concussion, and get my head stitched up (w/out anesthetic btw).   

Got a letter from Devon and Cornwall Police a few weeks later that if I had made it to the public highway I would have been charged DIC pushbike. To any police out there, I am sorry I was ill in the cop car, but I am even sorrier that I didn't keep the letter.

The moral of the tale is I learned a salutary lesson that I was not immortal (or above the law). So these days I don't live life quite so hard and fast as I did in my 20s.
I sold the bike a few years ago on EBay for restoration.

Bob
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 09, 2021, 12:26:16 PM
Quote from: Nbodger on September 09, 2021, 11:48:04 AM
Thank you for your post, you have cheered me up no end, even the pains gone,

Glad I have my uses.  :D (That 'smiley' seems rather appropriate at the moment!).
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on September 09, 2021, 12:54:28 PM
Quote from: Bob G on September 09, 2021, 12:13:03 PM
@Nbodger (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=8543) @Newportnobby (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264) @emjaybee (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=5604) @dannyboy (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=4209) Don't get me started on teeth  :o

Most of my molars have had root canal treatment (sometimes on repeat occasions). This was because of acid reflux not being treated properly by NHS. Solved mainly by having my gall bladder out privately 30 years later.

My two front teeth are crowns due to a bicycling incident following 15 vodka and limes, and I really did sing "All I want for Christmas..."
Those crowns have lasted me 40 years - I had a great NHS dentist in Exeter called Mr Hacker (honest). He took his time to get them right and get the colour match to the right level of nicotine staining at the time.
One started playing up during lockdown. Doctors wouldn't see me so it went undiagnosed (try inhaling Vick to clear your sinuses) and these might (one day) need two implants ($$ouch$$).

That takes me back to the initial incident. I was found unconscious in a hedge on university grounds, picked up in a police car and taken to hospital.
I had concussion from hitting my teeth and face on a lamppost and I was sick in the back of the police car on the way to hospital. Kept in hospital for 2 days to sober up, recover from concussion, and get my head stitched up (w/out anesthetic btw).   

Got a letter from Devon and Cornwall Police a few weeks later that if I had made it to the public highway I would have been charged DIC pushbike. To any police out there, I am sorry I was ill in the cop car, but I am even sorrier that I didn't keep the letter.

The moral of the tale is I learned a salutary lesson that I was not immortal (or above the law). So these days I don't live life quite so hard and fast as I did in my 20s.
I sold the bike a few years ago on EBay for restoration.

Bob

Woah!

Don't drag me into your OAP gummy worlds, my teeth are doing just fine!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on September 09, 2021, 12:58:36 PM
while I was not aware of it at the time, I was very lucky when I was in Northern Ireland.

I was covering a guardroom evening shift for one of the station guys, who was using the time to get an extra day to travel to the mainland for leave, when there was a 'disturbance' in the NAAFI.
we responded, and not knowing better, I was the first through the door .....
and the first on the floor  :'(

for some reason, the penguins and matelots who were having a ruck both turned on us snowdrops as soon as we went in.

anyway, a night in sick quarters, and a couple of days later I was on the ferry to go to RAF Hospital Cosford. where I had dental surgery and partial dentures. as I was in a surgical ward, we all received a bottle of stout each evening  :beers:

some years later, with further dental problems, I was admitted to RAF Hospital Wroughton where my remaining teeth were removed and I received full dentures.

these lasted me until about ten years ago, when SWMBO brought me a stick of rock back from a holiday with the daughter and grandsons, and I broke a front tooth, after about 45 years of use.

managed to get a new set made, but most definitely not up to the standard of those old RAF ones.

since demob, only once come into contact with a so called NHS dentist, when I dropped SWMBO off one time for an appointment.

receptionist 'you aren't registered with us'
me 'er, no'
receptionist 'would you like me to register you and book you in for a dental check?'
me 'er, ok. I'm a bit busy over the next week or so but if I leave them with you on tuesday could I collect them thursday ?'
receptionist 'pardon'
I removed my dentures and offered them to her.

for some reason she declined my kind offer, and I've never been asked again to register.
not sure why  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on September 09, 2021, 01:06:48 PM
This is a health warning for all young people in the Midlands and the North of England.

DON'T EAT PORK SCRATCHINGS !

If you do you'll have no molars left by the time you're 60.

Dr Joe
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Nbodger on September 09, 2021, 01:09:45 PM
Quote from: joe cassidy on September 09, 2021, 01:06:48 PM
This is a health warning for all young people in the Midlands and the North of England.

DON'T EAT PORK SCRATCHINGS !

If you do you'll have no molars left by the time you're 60.

Dr Joe

Hey Dr Joe,

I once broke a tooth eating a salad prepared by my mother in law   :doh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on September 09, 2021, 01:13:17 PM
Are/were you on good terms with her ?

Could've been deliberate.

Another thing to be wary of is paella - broken bits of crab shell.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 09, 2021, 02:21:12 PM
I don't know why @Bob G (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=1517) dragged me into his tale of debauchery but on the subject of dentists:-

When I lived in Northampton I had a (not unattractive) female dentist who informed me a tooth had to come out. She ended up kneeling on my chest (many would have paid for this experience) whilst just cracking bits of the tooth off with a pair of pliers until she could final dig it out :o The good old NHS days.
When I had my triple by pass op they had to resuscitate me somewhat urgently evidently, but it was only when I got out I found they had smashed 4 of my top front teeth doing so. I could only get in at a private dentist when I moved to Lancashire so that was a £2000 bill for crowns.
Better than the alternative, though, as I probably wouldn't have had need for teeth :uneasy:

@joe cassidy (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=1484)
I used to frequent now and then what was claimed to be the oldest pub in England which was 'The Falkland Arms' in Great Tew (Cotswolds) and they used to have a cat that ate pork scratchings. It was a wonder to observe!!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob G on September 09, 2021, 02:32:55 PM
Quote from: joe cassidy on September 09, 2021, 01:13:17 PM
Another thing to be wary of is paella.

I know. The Spanish get very touchy how you pronounce it. It is definitely not PIE-ELLA but PIE-AY-A (and not with a northern accent either)  :P
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TrevL on September 09, 2021, 02:36:02 PM
Quote from: Nbodger on September 09, 2021, 01:09:45 PM
I once broke a tooth eating a salad prepared by my mother in law   :doh:

I bet she put nuts in it (M6, 2BA, ¼Whitworth.) :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on September 09, 2021, 05:56:13 PM
My very first dentist when I was a little boy was called, and I kid you not, Mr Howley!
I was terrified of him and his breath always smelled of stale whisky.

I now have a private dentist who is, by far, the best one I have ever had.

Cheers
Martin
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Nbodger on September 09, 2021, 06:35:46 PM
Quote from: Bob G on September 09, 2021, 02:32:55 PM
Quote from: joe cassidy on September 09, 2021, 01:13:17 PM
Another thing to be wary of is paella.

I know. The Spanish get very touchy how you pronounce it. It is definitely not PIE-ELLA but PIE-AY-A (and not with a northern accent either)  :P

Wats tha mean lad
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on September 09, 2021, 09:24:50 PM
Quote from: port perran on September 09, 2021, 05:56:13 PM
My very first dentist when I was a little boy was called, and I kid you not, Mr Howley!

Along the same lines I had a locum GP when I broke 5 ribs. Then when my hemmor haemor emmaroids piles flared up again I asked to see him for those. I think the receptionist thought I was joking when I asked if I could see Dr Hole but that really was his name  :o
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob G on September 09, 2021, 10:14:16 PM
 :laughabovepost:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 09, 2021, 10:17:55 PM
There must be a 'hole in one' joke somewhere.  :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on September 09, 2021, 10:47:15 PM
That would be par for the course  :doh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on September 10, 2021, 01:29:26 AM
An Engineer rather than a Doctor, but back in the '90s, I had to keep phoning an Austrian Engineering company and asking for Herr Dumfart - apparently it's a common Austrian name.

I also had to regularly phone a London company and ask for Charlie Brown.

There was also a Richard Herring that none of us would call, as everyone around would chant "Red, red, red" and we knew that we'd say it eventually!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Platy767 on September 10, 2021, 02:29:25 AM
This century, NSW parliament had a minister called Richard Face.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: LASteve on September 10, 2021, 03:07:09 AM
Quote from: port perran on September 09, 2021, 05:56:13 PM
My very first dentist when I was a little boy was called, and I kid you not, Mr Howley!
My first dentist was a gentleman (I use the designation as a polite alternative to the real noun) in Leeds named Dr. Cotton.

He was at least 80 years old, and his drill was a foot-operated treadle machine that looked for all the world, and probably was, the same mechanism as me old mum's Singer sewing machine. His torture chamber surgery was actually overlooking the street on the ground floor, so you could see the pitied looks of passers-by as they gathered around the window to watch the fun.

You pretty much got strapped down in the chair while he drilled out your teeth and packed 'em full of lead, or whatever that toxic amalgam was. No anaesthetic.

When I hear people jibing about the state of a British person's teeth, I recount my experience of dentistry in the 1960's and I get shudders, looks of horror and a slow dawning of understanding.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on September 10, 2021, 05:21:47 AM
This weird.... I just picked me missus up from the dentist!

Two teeth out, but anaesthetic in the arm.

Things have changed somewhat! I'm currently in the chemist warehouse waiting to pick up the painkillers he gave her, though.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bad Raven on September 10, 2021, 06:31:29 AM
A very unhappy recent experience.  Both of us double COVID jabbed with second in June.

On a tour of the far north of Scotland and Orkney (visiting various preserved railways).

Train to Aberdeen from London, we had a dedicated 1st class coach. 39 people plus two tour managers

Couple of days in that area with road coach to railways and other public place visits.

Then ferry to Orkney.

Couple of days visiting places on the island "mainland" with same coach.

At evening meal wife could not eat her meal, one of her favourites. On return to room the due time after I made her do an FLT and she showed positive for COVID. Left it an hour and again, positive.

I went and found the main tour manager. He agreed that there had been people from day one sniffling and coughing, and he arranged to get everyone FLT tested.

It then became evident that many had NOT done or logged the prior to tour start test required, and we'd already commented that the tour manager was not doing temp tests as stated in the tour papers.

Despite being told to immediately isolate in rooms we were later told by the hotel manager that a number came down to public reception to ask how to DO the test, some TWICE despite being told to stay in room, and nearly all had to be provided with test kits.

8 of the 39 showed positive, 7 of which having a partner sharing room who at that time showed negative (inc me). It was pretty clear however that some if not most of the others were lying as to the "result".

The Tour was due to leave Orkney the following morning, and the decision was apparantly made for the "negative" couples, etc, to carry on. Both tour managers left with them. Scotland Health (SH) had been contacted and someone was coming 08:30 the following morning to do PCR tests.  They arrived three hours late, and despite being told 13 people, arrived with only seven kits. They came back a further three hours later to test the rest.

About three hours after testing, my wife received a mobile text stating she was Positive, followed ten minutes later by a text stating she was negative (!!!)  I received a text stating I had been in close contact and must isolate (which I already was). It did NOT state I was negative.

We learned over time in isolation that one person became so bad they had to be airlifted from Orkney to Aberdeen, as the (NEW!) hosptial on Orkney did not have the right ventilator eqpt.

Scotland Health caught up with the rest of the tour at Inverness (after two more visits by them en route to public places) and they were told to isolate at Inverness. We believe all ignored this instruction and decamped so left the tour there against instructions and made their own way home (by train or plane). One tour manager resigned and left against instruction from company and SH.  The coach driver was instructed by his company to ignore isolation and return the coach to depot.

Wife did have flu type symptoms, then two days after her start so did I, and I had a couple of days flat out, likely as my exposure to the virus was greater than hers.

Tour company got us home after isolation ended (with an overnight in Inverness), but it was now Bank Holiday weekend and the train from there was heaving, very unpleasant journey.  Despite COVID protocols we were told that the rail company could still sell more tickets than seats, and would not reserve us seats (as originally booked) as the limit for reserved seating had been filled. Nor would they transfer our booking. so the tour company had to pay for us again. Apparantly only one coach on the train was unreserved!

At Inverness a railway person was trying to stop us joining the train to get a seat while others not in our group wandered straight past him. After several people bypassed with no comment (or any ticket display) I took charge and told the group we were joining as he was not properly in control or being fair, so we did get seats.

After being told our Saga insurance would cover the extra hotel costs (£1600), they have now stated the costs were "not medical", which we are still fighting.

And THEN................

On the evening of the 30th now back at home in Kent my wife and I received mobile texts from SH stating, and I quote, "as you approach the end of your isolation period on 25th" (yes, five days late!!) and advising us to undertake vaccination.  One wonders what would have happened if we had turned up to do that, would they have overdosed us?  Seems likely!!

SO, let there be no doubt, all data output by NHS/Govt is seriously flawed, with the situation being most likely WORSE than stated.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on September 10, 2021, 10:05:38 AM
Sadly Dave, your tale will have countless echoes across the entire world.

I do hope you and your wife achieve a full and lasting recovery.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 10, 2021, 10:25:07 AM
Sadly the tale has all the elements of a Brian Rix farce (that shows my age somewhat :-[)
I'd put in a good word for Saga, except I'd be banned as a result.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 10, 2021, 10:29:19 AM
That would be funny if it was not so ridiculous. As NPN says, worthy of a Brian Rix farce, (I remember them as well!).  Hopefully you are both improving and Saga do the right thing.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: talisman56 on September 10, 2021, 02:38:57 PM
Going back to the apt names, when I was in Secondary School the head music teacher was Mr Treble. Those who know musical terms will understand where he got his nickname: 'Cleffy'...
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 10, 2021, 09:25:19 PM
When I lived in Wolverton there was a coach company named Richard Sole & Sons. As the business developed he bought a couple of mini buses but there wasn't room on the back of them for the full name.
Unfortunately he shortened it to yes, you've guessed, R.Sole & Sons :doh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bad Raven on September 10, 2021, 09:57:00 PM
At my last senior school, my english teacher was Mr Pardon, History was Mr Hastie, and the Head was Mr Coward (Dudley Coward)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on September 10, 2021, 10:03:46 PM
I can't remember what subjects they taught but we had Miss Little and Mrs Bigger. From memory though (and it was a LONG time ago) Mrs Bigger was smaller than Miss Little which confused things somewhat.

I also had an engineer work for me called Clive Peacock. He always made sure he wrote his full christian name rather than abbreviate it to his 1st initial  :goggleeyes:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob G on September 10, 2021, 10:45:48 PM
My RE teacher was Rev AJM Winterbotham aka numb-bum when we were kids.
My Latin teacher was D. Ive. Dive???
And my history teacher was AJC Reger, who dictated everything and so was called "the great dictator".
I was not turned on to history and failed at O level twice. He was a sh*t teacher!!
But I have O level Latin.

Bob


Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: crewearpley40 on September 10, 2021, 10:52:04 PM
Worst teacher miss twitchett taught English, Mrs Mitchell biology, Mrs choake who smoked 40 cigarettes a day yellow teeth ugh, and Don nunn art an absolute no go, he picked on people no wonder I lost the plot with him. Best Mr Hughes ex Welsh guards maths and miss griggson I won't say publicly what happened one kid put a pencil somewhere awkward on here.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 11, 2021, 08:52:24 AM
Back in Wolverton at the Grammar School we had a Drama teacher by the name of Mr. Tibbles, and at the Northampton Grammar we had an Aussie French master who, needless to say, we called Skippy after the TV prog of the time. The headmaster there always had his head cocked to one side side he was nicknamed 'Isaiah' as one eye was always higher than the other :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on September 11, 2021, 09:09:52 AM
Considering this is the unhappy thread, it's making me chuckle a lot!

In 1981, I got stranded in a place called Bulahdelah here in NSW. Stuck there, I wandered around the place, and found the local doctor's place. The plaque said Dr Michael Coqueshard. I kid you not.

I just hope his mates didn't call him Mike!  :worried:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TrevL on September 11, 2021, 09:45:27 AM
Just be grateful his surname wasn't "Hunt" :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on September 11, 2021, 09:48:17 AM
....as Basil Brush would say, "Boom boom!"

..... and with that, I think perhaps this thread should go back to being unhappy  ;) :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on September 11, 2021, 11:00:28 AM
Quote from: TrevL on September 11, 2021, 09:45:27 AM
Just be grateful his surname wasn't "Hunt" :D

I used to deal with a contract manager called that. He preferred to be called Michael of course  :thumbsup:

Quote from: Bealman on September 11, 2021, 09:48:17 AM
..... and with that, I think perhaps this thread should go back to being unhappy  ;) :thumbsup:

He was always unhappy if someone called him Mike  :doh:

I'll say no more. It will be difficult but I'll do my best not to  :-X
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on September 12, 2021, 01:45:20 AM
I bought a Dapol 9F at TINGS on Saturday. It was priced at £79 and labelled as Tested and In Good Condition.

When I unpacked it at home, I noticed that the wheelsets have been removed and replaced in the wrong order, so the middle drive axle, with the flangeless wheels, has been moved to the fourth driving axle position.

Removing the blanking plug and replacing with a decoder, showed that it programmed okay on the (limited current) programming track, but when moved to the running track, it immediately shorted out the power.

Further investigation showed that the motor mounting cradle is not attached to the tender chassis and the motor is free to move around as speed and loads change.

So much for Good Condition!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on September 12, 2021, 02:00:35 AM
Quote from: Bad Raven on September 10, 2021, 06:31:29 AM
On a tour of the far north of Scotland and Orkney (visiting various preserved railways) ... The coach driver was instructed by his company to ignore isolation and return the coach to depot.

It sounds like you booked a tour with a bunch of (selfish?) idiots and with a company unable to follow simple instructions, followed by officials not having a clue either!

I have no real problem with the driver though - driving alone and able to get back without being in contact with anyone.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 16, 2021, 10:02:40 PM
(Imagine this post starting in the 'Unhappy' thread and them moving to the 'Angry' thread).
On 1st August, I ordered a piece of rolling stock from a seller in America via ebay and a further item a couple of weeks later. I was following the tracking and the first item arrived in Dublin, went back to America, came to Dublin again and was returned to America. The second item has arrived in Dublin, but been sent back to America.  :thumbsdown:. These things happen so I put in a 'item not received' claim for the first item to ebay. I have today received notification that the seller has refunded my money for the non-arrival of the first item. The second item is shown as being delivered today - to the seller!! The seller has emailed to say that he has received the second item, but has not got the first item. Now this is where we should really move to the 'Angry' thread. The claim for the first item is now marked as closed, but the second item is shown as being refunded. So, I can not claim for the first item, as the case is closed and can not claim for the second item, because it has been refunded even though it is shown as delivered!  >:(. Cue missive to ebay tomorrow morning! Incidentally, the seller informs me that he has been told that Ireland are not now accepting First Class mail from America, which is probably why my two items have racked up thousands of miles in their travels. The cynic in me says this is a ploy by An Post to force buyers of goods from America to use the 'drop off' system. This system costs €15.99 and everything goes via the Irish Customs, so VAT at 23% and, if necessary duties, plus €3.50 collection fee have to be paid.  :censored:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on September 17, 2021, 12:40:44 AM
Following my previous post about the shortcomings of the 9F (which when looking again was actually labelled as being in "Very Good Condition"), Rails have got back to me, offering a discount of a grand total of £10 - so it's going back for a full refund instead!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on September 17, 2021, 09:55:30 AM
Hi Danny, do you know someone north of the border to whom your American stuff could be delivered?. They could then forward it or you could nip\over the border to collect.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 17, 2021, 12:39:15 PM
Further to my rant yesterday, (reply #2357), I have received an email from the seller informing me that he has refunded the money for the second item, (which has been confirmed by PayPal), so I am a happy bunny again. Having said that, the fluctuating exchange rate means I have lost just over €3, but it could have gone the other way, so I am not complaining.  :).

@steve836 (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=3057) I have a brother and a sister in the UK, so I will see what I can find out about having items sent to one of them. It still means that once an item arrives in the Republic, it could get intercepted by Customs. The item could be sent to me as a 'gift', so, depending on the value, VAT and duties may still have to be paid and, of course, I would have to pay any USA taxes when I buy an item, plus send my brother or sister the postage money. There is a lot to look at when buying from outside the EU these days and it seems a lot worse than it used to be!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jon898 on September 17, 2021, 01:31:36 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on September 17, 2021, 12:39:15 PM
of course, I would have to pay any USA taxes when I buy an item,

Sales taxes here are set by each state (there is no federal sales tax) and most of those are what are termed "destination taxes", which means if an item is sent out of the state of origin, no tax is owed in the state it's sent from.  There are a few states that still work on a "origin tax" basis.  Of the (50 plus DC), 12 are still origin based (AZ, CA, IL, MI, MO, NM, OH, PA, TN, TX, UT, VA), but note that the sales tax here is usually significantly lower than a VAT in Europe.  Of the 12 greedy states noted, the state tax ranges from Missouri's 4.23% to California's 7.5%.  There are also some local, county and city taxes which up it a bit (here in NC, they add another 2.25%), but some of those don't apply to out-of-state sales (e.g. in California, state tax is "origin" but local taxes are "destination")

If we order something from out of state, from a "destination" state, we're required to declare it on the annual state tax return (or certify we haven't bought anything where we were not charged tax) and pay up with the other taxes owed, and I'm sure everyone dutifully does that  :uneasy:

Jon
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 17, 2021, 01:38:06 PM
@Jon898 (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=3998)
That would explain why only some of the items I buy from America have tax added.  :thankyousign:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 18, 2021, 04:01:19 PM
Earlier on I ordered 4 x Berko 2 aspect signals from Online Models (they were the only ones who had what I wanted) and when it got to payment it said 'Pay via Paypal. If you don't wish to you can pay by debit/credit card' but I could see no way to pay by card so had to go for Paypal. It's been so long since I used Paypal I had a job remembering my password but it came to me eventually. Then, of course, their security system meant I needed a number to access my account so I had to turn my mobile on, wait for it to wake up and then go up the garden and wave the phone about to get a signal to get the text from Paypal. :doh:
They do like making life difficult for old codgers like me ::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on September 18, 2021, 11:46:11 PM
Yeah, I find those SMS passwords extremely tiresome, as me phone is usually across the other side of the house from me computer.

I know I could move my phone and the password is added security, but when I'm just trying to log on to the local council to check the rates, it's hardly high risk!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 19, 2021, 06:23:26 AM
If I could have paid by card I'd never have needed to get paypal involved and it would have been easy peasy lemon squeezy.
It's like my internet banking - I have to enter my unique number, then 3 digits of my PIN, then 3 letters of my password. I then get sent a text to my mobile with a 6 digit access number to my account. Of course, the last bit involves more phone waving up the garden. And, at the end of the day and after all this security, there could be some scrote with a gun at my head while I go through all this rigmarole ::)
We all need security but it's no wonder some folks keep their dosh under the mattress ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on September 19, 2021, 06:43:56 AM
If I kept all me money under the mattress, at least I'd get a good night's sleep -

'Cos there wouldn't be any lumps!  :no:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on September 19, 2021, 11:20:59 AM
Quote from: Bealman on September 19, 2021, 06:43:56 AM
If I kept all me money under the mattress, at least I'd get a good night's sleep -

'Cos there wouldn't be any lumps!  :no:

Yep, those old white fivers really smooth out the bumps.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on September 19, 2021, 11:49:12 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on September 18, 2021, 04:01:19 PM
Earlier on I ordered 4 x Berko 2 aspect signals from Online Models (they were the only ones who had what I wanted) and when it got to payment it said 'Pay via Paypal. If you don't wish to you can pay by debit/credit card' but I could see no way to pay by card so had to go for Paypal. It's been so long since I used Paypal I had a job remembering my password but it came to me eventually. Then, of course, their security system meant I needed a number to access my account so I had to turn my mobile on, wait for it to wake up and then go up the garden and wave the phone about to get a signal to get the text from Paypal. :doh:
They do like making life difficult for old codgers like me ::)

Mick, looking at the Online Models website I notice they have the usual checkout wording/layout of many sites: (actual OM site order/checkout page shown)

(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/114/5634-190921113255.jpeg) (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=gallery;sa=view&id=114056)

In my experience clicking in the right-hand of the two PayPal links shown above with the Credit Card symbols, (the PayPal wording in white on the left is the one that takes you to PayPal sign in, so I suspect that is the one you inadvertently selected) should bring up a screen allowing you to choose to pay with the CC of your choice without logging in to your PayPal account. I have done this a lot even though I have a PayPal account. I'd be surprised if that Online Models link doesn't do just that, but without entering my personal details on a trial basis, I can't tell.

Hope this helps. :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 19, 2021, 12:14:28 PM
That is exactly the screen I had, Mike, but when I tried to click on the 'Mastercard' symbol nothing happened at all. As Online Models were the only source of the signals I wanted I therefore had to use the Paypal method. Thanks anyway. :thankyousign:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on September 21, 2021, 06:49:49 AM
For work-related reasons I have to have a conference call around this time most days with co-workers based in a hot country famous for its curry. I am pretty sure one of them works out of the local zoo, one is sitting at a major road intersection, another is submersed in a pool speaking through a scuba tube, and the last person is based in a loudspeaker feedback research institute.

???
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 07, 2021, 01:38:32 PM
Expensive morning. Firstly the fang doctor relieved my wallet of £158 (with another £50 to go next Monday) and then petrol at Tescos at £134.9/litre so £200 gone all too quickly.
That's 2 N gauge locos (nearly)!!
Or one Farish MK1 coach :-X
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on October 07, 2021, 01:49:36 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on October 07, 2021, 01:38:32 PM
petrol at Tescos at £134.9/litre

:goggleeyes: :goggleeyes: :goggleeyes:

I heard energy prices were bad in the UK mind you...
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 07, 2021, 02:02:34 PM
I filled up this morning at €1.649 per litre at the garage I normally use, which, on todays exchange rate is near enough £1.40p, so petrol here is not too bad compared with the UK. What is a bit annoying though, is the fact that when I last filled up, on 23rd September, the petrol was €1.569. An 8 cent a litre increase in the space of two weeks - and we do not appear to have any problems with supplies!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 07, 2021, 03:42:15 PM
Quote from: railsquid on October 07, 2021, 01:49:36 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on October 07, 2021, 01:38:32 PM
petrol at Tescos at £134.9/litre

:goggleeyes: :goggleeyes: :goggleeyes:

I heard energy prices were bad in the UK mind you...

Someone on the Kawasaki forum posted a few garages were selling at around the £2.40 /litre and still running out! :o
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on October 07, 2021, 03:49:56 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on October 07, 2021, 03:42:15 PM
Quote from: railsquid on October 07, 2021, 01:49:36 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on October 07, 2021, 01:38:32 PM
petrol at Tescos at £134.9/litre

:goggleeyes: :goggleeyes: :goggleeyes:

I heard energy prices were bad in the UK mind you...

Someone on the Kawasaki forum posted a few garages were selling at around the £2.40 /litre and still running out! :o

I'm pretty sure the garages in Kawasaki price their petrol in yen  ???
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on October 07, 2021, 05:52:30 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on October 07, 2021, 01:38:32 PM
Expensive morning. Firstly the fang doctor relieved my wallet of £158 (with another £50 to go next Monday) and then petrol at Tescos at £134.9/litre so £200 gone all too quickly.
That's 2 N gauge locos (nearly)!!
Or one Farish MK1 coach :-X

£200? A piddling sum! I just had to pay the first 40% of my eldest son's university accommodation costs today ... £2548.24 - eeek! Two installments of £1800-ish in January and April :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 07, 2021, 09:07:44 PM
Yeah but I doubt your son is having a wisdom tooth put in :no:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on October 07, 2021, 09:21:41 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on October 07, 2021, 09:07:44 PM
Yeah but I doubt your son is having a wisdom tooth put in :no:

So Mick, once this wisdom is 'put in', are we to expect new and astounding insights and percipience from you on a diverse range of subjects? :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 08, 2021, 09:52:10 AM
Considering the cost of it, Mike, I hope so!! :laugh3:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 12, 2021, 10:08:07 AM
See reply #2371
I have been tricked.  No wisdom tooth put in but a tooth forcibly removed, so am now on a diet of salt water and pain killers until the chasm the fang doctor created has healed enough. I hate this making a coffee and then letting it cool down before I can drink it :( Whilst the kettle has boiled I have to dissolve a teaspoon of salt in a mug of water and then let that cool down before using it (I don't have to swallow it, thank goodness)
All this for the cost of a new loco :doh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 12, 2021, 10:19:12 AM
@Newportnobby (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264)
From what the Fang Doctor said to me a couple of weeks ago, I think I am going to be in the same situation tomorrow afternoon as you are now Mick.  :worried:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TrevL on October 12, 2021, 10:24:22 AM
Hey Mick, just have them all out and have seats put in, then you can be the Forums official coach :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on October 12, 2021, 10:52:37 AM
You need to see a different dentist Mick. I've heard Phil McCavity does good remedial work. :D

Sorry to hear you are suffering. I've been waiting for years for a compound wisdom tooth I have to finally reach the 'needs to come out, Sir' stage, and I fear that day is not so far away. Sadly my jaw won't take an implant. :(

After an extraction I use salt washes four times a day for a few days until the blood clot has stabilised then Corsodyl to keep infections at bay and help healing.

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: mickeyflinn on October 12, 2021, 11:43:34 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on October 12, 2021, 10:08:07 AM
See reply #2371
I have been tricked.  No wisdom tooth put in but a tooth forcibly removed, so am now on a diet of salt water and pain killers until the chasm the fang doctor created has healed enough. I hate this making a coffee and then letting it cool down before I can drink it :( Whilst the kettle has boiled I have to dissolve a teaspoon of salt in a mug of water and then let that cool down before using it (I don't have to swallow it, thank goodness)
All this for the cost of a new loco :doh:

That's nothing.

About 20 years ago I had both my upper wisdom teeth out, but had to go to Manchester Royal Infirmary to have it done. It was a general anaesthetic procedure and not only did I wake up two teeth shorter than I went in with, I also had a foot shaped bruise on my chest!!!  :o
I think the little blighters liked it in my mouth and didn't want to leave.

I have just been informed by SWMBO that I was in the theatre for most of the day and also had no neck as I was so swollen after the extraction.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on October 12, 2021, 12:52:40 PM
most of you will have two roots to each tooth.. my little sister has 3... it's major surgery to get  one out...
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on October 12, 2021, 01:37:47 PM
A crown that was fitted to a post drilled into the root snapped off. The post is still in there and will require surgery to remove it. It isn't doing any harm, apart from spoiling my youthful good looks, so it's staying put.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: thebrighton on October 12, 2021, 02:42:35 PM
I had a wisdom tooth extracted at the dentist around 25 years ago. When at reception waiting to pay the plug in the hole popped out and my mouth filled with blood which I swallowed. The next thing I knew I was being brought round in the waiting room post faint! Of course it could have been the size of the bill that caused it.....
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 12, 2021, 04:08:30 PM
Quote from: thebrighton on October 12, 2021, 02:42:35 PM
I had a wisdom tooth extracted at the dentist around 25 years ago. When at reception waiting to pay the plug in the hole popped out and my mouth filled with blood which I swallowed. The next thing I knew I was being brought round in the waiting room post faint! Of course it could have been the size of the bill that caused it.....

I wasn't sure which 'rate' to use then - the laugh one or the sad one.
I do recall when I lived in Northampton the lady dentist literally ended up kneeling on my chest while she snapped pieces off a tooth in attempts to remove it :o

I still can't watch the Mr. Bean episode when he did his own teeth without cringing :no:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on October 12, 2021, 09:13:12 PM
Quote from: Malc on October 12, 2021, 01:37:47 PM
A crown that was fitted to a post drilled into the root snapped off. The post is still in there and will require surgery to remove it. It isn't doing any harm, apart from spoiling my youthful good looks, so it's staying put.

You may be lucky. I needed work done and the dentist had to remove the crown to do it, but he then found that despite multiple attempts, he could not remove the post and (as it was titanium), he couldn't grind it out either. He referred me to the dental hospital, but a few days later, the post just fell out!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on October 14, 2021, 12:03:48 PM
Quote from: stevewalker on October 12, 2021, 09:13:12 PM

You may be lucky. I needed work done and the dentist had to remove the crown to do it, but he then found that despite multiple attempts, he could not remove the post and (as it was titanium), he couldn't grind it out either. He referred me to the dental hospital, but a few days later, the post just fell out!
You were lucky. Unfortunately about two weeks before it snapped, it fell out. So I visited the emergency dentist who glued it back in. I don't know what glue he used but it defied the best efforts of my dentist to get it out. After 15 years it's shown no signs of dropping out.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 15, 2021, 12:04:15 AM
You need to find out what that glue was. It could possibly be used on Peco sleepers as nothing else sticks those to anything  :confused1:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on October 25, 2021, 01:11:45 AM
Huge (around 2.5m, thick as my forearm, living in the garden) carpet python killed my cat last night.
Buried her this morning. :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on October 25, 2021, 08:41:02 AM
I'm so sorry to hear that. My condolences.

Michael.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 25, 2021, 09:43:17 AM
There's nothing we can say will make the loss anything less, but rest assured every pet owner on the forum (and there are lots) feels so sad for you.
6 months on and the loss of my cat is still very raw.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 25, 2021, 11:18:46 AM
Mick @Newportnobby (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264) is spot on with his comments. It is always upsetting to loose a pet, but to loose your cat that way is a bit beyond my comprehension, living as I do in Ireland.  :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on October 25, 2021, 05:26:53 PM
Our youngest cat (2 years old) has disappeared. We've not seen him for just over a week and searching, knocking on doors, putting on the local area Facebook forum and leafletting the area has done no good. Hope is fading  :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 25, 2021, 05:59:14 PM
One of our very first cats when we moved to Ireland regularly used to go missing. He was a youngish cat and, once we got used to it, (and Louisa learned not to get upset!), we used to say he had gone 'walkabouts'. The longest he was 'missing' was about six weeks and he looked rather bedraggled when he eventually came home. Hopefully, your cat is just out exploring Steve.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on October 30, 2021, 11:41:29 PM
It's a good job my son's school trip to the battlefields of Alsace has been cancelled, as despite applying for a passport renewal months in advance, he still hasn't received it - although his older brother received his well over a month ago.

To add insult to injury, they now want more money off us, because the delay has meant that he has turned 16! Oh well, at least he'll get a 10 year one.

His passport was valid when the trip was due to take place, but then it was put back due to Covid. Again it was still due to be valid, but then it was put back again - and that meant that he'd have had less than three months left at the new date and it needed to be renewed.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob G on October 30, 2021, 11:51:24 PM
Quote from: stevewalker on October 30, 2021, 11:41:29 PM
It's a good job my son's school trip to the battlefields of Alsace has been cancelled, as despite applying for a passport renewal months in advance, he still hasn't received it - although his older brother received his well over a month ago.

To add insult to injury, they now want more money off us, because the delay has meant that he has turned 16! Oh well, at least he'll get a 10 year one.

His passport was valid when the trip was due to take place, but then it was put back due to Covid. Again it was still due to be valid, but then it was put back again - and that meant that he'd have had less than three months left at the new date and it needed to be renewed.

I've been lucky. I've just got a new passport after just 4 weeks. But I'm still waiting for my old one and my supporting info to be returned.
The new passport cover is rubbish compared to the previous one. Its already curled up and doesn't look like it will last a year let alone ten.

Hope you get your son's passport sorted out.

Bob
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on November 06, 2021, 07:32:13 AM
Not looking forward to my new passport (whenever I get round to renewing it...)

Meanwhile... an exciting afternoon burnt to a cinder looking around for a new smartphone, trying to work out what is available at the "sweet point" between not-too-expensive and not-too-carp. I swear the average size is getting bigger every time I need to get a new one.

Annoying thing was, I was supposed to get one for Mrs. Railsquid as well, but not sure if the one I got would suit, so will if she decides it doesn't I'll have to send her out with instructions what kind of thing to look for (now I have an idea what's currently on the market).
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on November 06, 2021, 08:59:33 AM
It is bewildering. Changed mine last year, trying to change the wife's this year, and yes, they are getting bigger.

It's a veritable pita.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: thebrighton on November 06, 2021, 09:37:18 AM
There appeared to be a race to produce the smallest phone possible then suddenly it was all about the biggest screen possible. I'm sure there are now phones out there bigger than a tablet!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on November 06, 2021, 09:50:23 AM
makes me glad I'm still a luddite.

I still use a flip phone, if it's good enouth for Jethro, it's good enough for me.

brrr, brrr 'hello'

tap actual keys  brr brr

simples, like me.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: GAD on November 06, 2021, 09:55:52 AM
I agree they're getting bigger, but there's a good reason.

The big earner for the providers is data and the larger the screen the easier interwebby pages are read.

I bought the very first 'smartphone' that Orange made available*, it was their own 'brand', I've no doubt made for them by one of the big manufacturers.
The screen was tiny and only 30-40% of the size of the phone, so text was difficult to read.
That would be around about the year 2000. So as computers are getting smaller and tablets do many things computers used to do, so phones are getting larger and do most of the things tablets used to do.

*I worked for them and there was a huge subsidy on the staff rate.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Dorsetmike on November 06, 2021, 11:09:13 AM
Quote from: class37025 on November 06, 2021, 09:50:23 AM
makes me glad I'm still a luddite.

I still use a flip phone, if it's good enouth for Jethro, it's good enough for me.

brrr, brrr 'hello'

tap actual keys  brr brr

simples, like me.
Sorry, a real luddite (like myself) does not have any form of "mobile" phone, pad, pod nor tablet: I've managed without one for 87 years so see no reason to start now.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on November 06, 2021, 12:48:01 PM
Quote from: Dorsetmike on November 06, 2021, 11:09:13 AM
Quote from: class37025 on November 06, 2021, 09:50:23 AM
makes me glad I'm still a luddite.

I still use a flip phone, if it's good enouth for Jethro, it's good enough for me.

brrr, brrr 'hello'

tap actual keys  brr brr

simples, like me.
Sorry, a real luddite (like myself) does not have any form of "mobile" phone, pad, pod nor tablet: I've managed without one for 87 years so see no reason to start now.

I bet if you go back to the mid 1840s you'd find people muttering about having managed without a working postal service all their life and not having any intention of starting with those new-fangled Penny Blacks... :D

If it's any consolation, I managed without a mobile phone until 2008 when I came to Japan, and only got my first smartphone in 2014 for unavoidable work reasons. I could happily go back to flip-phones as long as I can keep the mobile internet connection for my laptop. Don't have a landline so some form of mobile connection is essential (we did consider getting one as a fall-back in case of emergencies, but as the POTS is no more and "landlines" are VOIP it seemed a bit pointless).
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on November 06, 2021, 02:08:54 PM
Quote from: Dorsetmike on November 06, 2021, 11:09:13 AM
Quote from: class37025 on November 06, 2021, 09:50:23 AM
makes me glad I'm still a luddite.

I still use a flip phone, if it's good enouth for Jethro, it's good enough for me.

brrr, brrr 'hello'

tap actual keys  brr brr

simples, like me.
Sorry, a real luddite (like myself) does not have any form of "mobile" phone, pad, pod nor tablet: I've managed without one for 87 years so see no reason to start now.

do you still carry two two pence pieces in your pocket in case you need to use a phone box, always assuming you could find one  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on November 06, 2021, 03:25:30 PM
A few years ago, I took my sons to Crich Tram Museum. We had to phone home, just so we could say that we were using the only Button A/Button B payphone still connected to the telephone system. I'm pretty sure that it had been upgraded to larger denomination coins though.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on November 07, 2021, 06:33:29 AM
I still carry around some Japanese telephone cards in case of emergency...

Meanwhile, let me talk about the exciting world of USB connectors and the evolving design thereof. Or maybe not, it would be another long rant.  :censored:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on November 07, 2021, 06:43:29 AM
Editorial in latest Silicon Chip mag says they're being standardised. I'll check details when I get home.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on November 07, 2021, 07:06:26 AM
Oh gawd, not another standard... "USB-C" seems to be the current thing, which means I now need 3 (three) different sets of cables to charge my various devices.

Obligatory XKCD (https://xkcd.com/927/):
(https://imgs.xkcd.com/comics/standards.png)

Putting the positive hat on, I suppose it's better than the proprietary wall wart chaos of the early 2000s...

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on November 07, 2021, 07:52:32 AM
Ok, I'm home now. Here's the jist of what it says....

The new standard will be USB-C. this will also support the upcoming USB4. it is easier to connect and remove. It is sturdier. It has higher power delivery capability. It has higher data transfer rates. Cables will be symmetrical with the same connectors at each end.

Overall the editor thinks it's a fantastic idea.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on November 07, 2021, 08:22:20 AM
OK, those USB-C connectors have been around a couple of years, so hopefully that means the growing collection thereof will not end up obsolete, until it does.

Slight plus side of having a now surplus Android device - I can use it to have another crack at getting the Wifi-based Tomix camera car system working  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on November 07, 2021, 09:58:09 AM
Quote from: railsquid on November 07, 2021, 07:06:26 AM
Putting the positive hat on, I suppose it's better than the proprietary wall wart chaos of the early 2000s...

Aw, c'mon. Where would we have been without our wall posters? Staring at someone's idea of great wallpaper, I s'pose :thumbsdown:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on November 07, 2021, 10:23:16 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on November 07, 2021, 09:58:09 AM
Quote from: railsquid on November 07, 2021, 07:06:26 AM
Putting the positive hat on, I suppose it's better than the proprietary wall wart chaos of the early 2000s...

Aw, c'mon. Where would we have been without our wall posters? Staring at someone's idea of great wallpaper, I s'pose :thumbsdown:

Can't work out if you misread, or if you're on such a tangent that I don't get it.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on November 07, 2021, 10:28:24 AM
 :oopssign:
My 'early morning eyes' read Squiddy's post as 'wall chart chaos' :-[
Maybe I should only post in the afternoons :sorrysign:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on November 07, 2021, 10:34:20 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on November 07, 2021, 10:28:24 AM
:oopssign:
My 'early morning eyes' read Squiddy's post as 'wall chart chaos' :-[
Maybe I should only post in the afternoons :sorrysign:

Or maybe put on one's pince-nez?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TrevL on November 10, 2021, 12:01:53 PM
Just had the devastating news that Bilbo (my avatar) has cancer in the mouth.  He's not in any pain and is eating without issue, but the time is not far away when all that will change.  Not looking forward to this at all.
(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/116/5583-101121120125.jpeg) (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=gallery;sa=view&id=116066)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on November 10, 2021, 12:06:18 PM
So sorry to hear that Trev. It is always, at the very least, upsetting to know that our pets are 'not right'. Not sure what else to say.  :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on November 10, 2021, 12:15:00 PM
100% agree with @dannyboy (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=4209),
I've always found it so difficult to make the decision, you want to spend more time with your pet, but you also know you have to consider if he is in pain.

made that decision too many times over the years, always said we'd never have another dog cause we didn't want to go through that again,
but surprise
not long after another hairy beast would join our family to make it complete once again.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on November 10, 2021, 12:34:15 PM
So, so sorry to hear that Trev :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on November 10, 2021, 01:05:35 PM
That sucks Trev. Our thoughts are with you.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on November 10, 2021, 03:43:33 PM
Really sorry to hear that, Trev. We've been lucky that all our pets have lived to a ripe old age and not been taken early by a dreadful disease like that, but it still hurts like hell when they go. Just keep him comfortable and happy for as long as you can.

All the best,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TrevL on November 11, 2021, 06:12:47 AM
Thank you all for your kind thoughts.  My two previous boxers lived to ten years,  but Bilbo is now eleven and hopefully twelve in March, so he had more than most of the breed.  Still likes his twice daily walks (although not as far as we used to) and always has a sleep with his head in my lap whilst I'm watching TV on the sofa.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on November 11, 2021, 09:27:10 AM
Our Labrador had a similar issue which got bad, so we had her put down. Sad, but better than the suffering.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on November 12, 2021, 10:29:31 AM
Not sure if I should be in the 'Angry' thread for this. Last week I made an offer on an item from Rails of Sheffield via ebay, which was accepted. The charges from ebay for delivery to my home, including postage and VAT, were reasonable, so I opted for that route for simplicitys sake. The other day I received a demand from Irish Customs for a VAT payment, which I duly paid. On checking, I realised that the charge was for the Rails item.  ???. I got on to ebay who were very helpful and suggested that I contact Customs and ask for my money back and if this failed, they gave me a contact email at ebay, who could refund the VAT I had paid to them. I contacted Customs and let them know that I had already paid the VAT, so could I have my money back please. The reply that I received was to the effect that Rails had failed to quote the IOSS* number, so Customs did not know that VAT had been paid. It was suggested that I contacted Rails and get them to supply the IOSS number to ebay, who could then contact Irish Customs to let them know that the VAT had been paid. What a palaver!  :thumbsdown:. I have now sent an email to ebay asking them to refund the VAT I paid to them, so we will see what happens. Never had this problem before Brexit .............  ;)

*Import One Stop Shop
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on November 12, 2021, 10:59:02 AM
David. Perhaps Ireland should leave the EU, then we could make a trade agreement and end this palaver.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Delboy on November 12, 2021, 11:05:45 AM
Quote from: TrevL on November 10, 2021, 12:01:53 PM
Just had the devastating news that Bilbo (my avatar) has cancer in the mouth.  He's not in any pain and is eating without issue, but the time is not far away when all that will change.  Not looking forward to this at all.
(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/116/5583-101121120125.jpeg) (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=gallery;sa=view&id=116066)

@TrevL (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=5583) . Trev, so sorry to hear your sad news. Hope he continues to cope for a long time yet. I am sure you will make the right decision when you have to.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on November 12, 2021, 11:07:39 AM
Quote from: steve836 on November 12, 2021, 10:59:02 AM
Perhaps Ireland should leave the EU

Over the last 20 years or so, Ireland has had a lot out of the EU, so I don't think that the Irish Government would even contemplate doing that! But that is getting political.  :).

Actually, the problem would not have arisen if Rails had done things correctly at their end. (That is of course, presuming that the information I have been given is correct).
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on November 12, 2021, 11:16:34 AM
Just so we don't start something political, my comment was "tongue in cheek"
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on November 12, 2021, 11:19:57 AM
I thought it probably was, but I like the idea!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on November 12, 2021, 01:22:44 PM
two places reserved on the step, would you like to put in your orders for biscuits and beverages ?  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Nbodger on November 12, 2021, 01:39:33 PM
Quote from: class37025 on November 12, 2021, 01:22:44 PM
two places reserved on the step, would you like to put in your orders for biscuits and beverages ?  :smiley-laughing:

Looks like naughty stairs will soon be required  :no:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on November 13, 2021, 01:30:41 AM
If it gets too busy we may need to implement this scheme

(https://i.pinimg.com/564x/b8/a2/ec/b8a2ec88f9b61a4dc07c8a5d572b11ed.jpg)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on November 13, 2021, 10:21:35 AM
just so long as it doesn't require sitting in a class room with some idiot advising how to resolve issues and your response to them. :'(

would rather the good old fashioned, remember the Sean Connery film The Hill, 'right you horrible lot, that pile of sand needs moving from there over to there. move it !

right, now move it back !

of course, depending upon the seriousness of ones transgressions, one would be issue with a shovel, spade, entrenching tool, ....

or in my case ......

teaspoon  :-[
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on November 16, 2021, 02:45:11 PM
yes it's me again .....

yesterday we had a call from the surgery to 'review' SWMBO's prescriptions, most likely translates a "She's cost how much ???????"

anyway, tried to be nice, went through them all... though mostly it was a case of

"Why is she taking that ?"

"Cause the doctor said she needed to !"  :D

"Do you manage her medication ?"
"Yes, she'd probably get confused, so I sort it!"
Do you need any help with managing her medication ?"

very tempted to suggest that an 18 year old nyphomaniac in a pvc mini nurses uniform and boots would be a great help  >:D

but in the end just replied
"No thank you, I can manage"

and it went on, and on, and on  :veryangry:

finally it stopped.  :thumbsup:

this morning, another call to 'review' my medication  :help:

"do you need any help with managing your medication ?"

"I take two, a daily statin, and as required pain killers for my back. I can, seeing as how I manage SWMBO's numerous assorted medications, I'd assume I could manage my TWO"

then we went on to
diet - meat - veg - salad - burgers - kibab etc
smoking - no - not since 1970
drinking - yes - and about to start if this lasts much longer

do you exercise .....
I'VE GOT AN 8 YEAR OLD HUSKY  :'( OF COURSE I EXERCISE

finally, after over half an hour, it was over ........
except for the text asking me to advise my height and weight  :'(

still, hopefully it will be another year before I have to go through this all again.

they mean well, but if you phone up to try to make an appointment to speak to, or heaven forbid see, a doctor it's over three weeks, by which time you'll either be
still waiting for the ambulance,
or
on a trolley in the corridor at A&E
or
still waiting for a bed to come free on a ward
or
dead
or got over whatever it was, and be walking the  :censored:  HUSKY.

think I'd better pack my biccies and coffee ready  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TrevL on November 16, 2021, 02:51:38 PM
Jaffa cakes Alan?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on November 16, 2021, 02:53:28 PM
cheers, and if you've got the kettle on a coffee, nato, please
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on November 16, 2021, 03:33:19 PM
Quote from: class37025 on November 13, 2021, 10:21:35 AM
just so long as it doesn't require sitting in a class room with some idiot advising how to resolve issues and your response to them. :'(

would rather the good old fashioned, remember the Sean Connery film The Hill, 'right you horrible lot, that pile of sand needs moving from there over to there. move it !

right, now move it back !

of course, depending upon the seriousness of ones transgressions, one would be issue with a shovel, spade, entrenching tool, ....

or in my case ......

teaspoon  :-[

some twenty odd or more years ago, while on the AA, I remember being taken off the road one day to go to the local [about an hour or so away] operations centre for a course ...

electronic ignition ?
fuel management systems ?
recovery and winching ?

no  >:(

a pile of us, ok about 10 of us, being told how communications work  :censored:

" control, this is Delta 623, over" always worked for me, but now some ADMINISTRATOR / TRAINER needed bodies for a course to keep up their figures.

we all sit in a circle and the 'trainer' has a ball of string [no comments please] which they use to explain how the system works.

member - call handler - deployment operator - attending patrol - deployment operator - recovery operator - recovery patrol "I'm heading base, sorry booked to finish on time today"  :-[

did these people
a. think we couldn't work out how it worked
b. think we were too thick to work out how it worked

AS WE DID IT ON A DAILY BASIS  :censored:

I'm sure half of this  :poop: is just designed to give people who can't do the job a chance to justify their job by telling people who do the job on a daily basis, how to do what they do.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on November 16, 2021, 03:48:01 PM
Quote from: class37025 on November 16, 2021, 03:33:19 PM

I'm sure half of this  :poop: is just designed to give people who can't do the job a chance to justify their job by telling people who do the job on a daily basis, how to do what they do.

.... and it is only going to get worse. I am glad I have finished working for a living!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on November 16, 2021, 07:38:43 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on November 16, 2021, 03:48:01 PM
Quote from: class37025 on November 16, 2021, 03:33:19 PM

I'm sure half of this  :poop: is just designed to give people who can't do the job a chance to justify their job by telling people who do the job on a daily basis, how to do what they do.

.... and it is only going to get worse. I am glad I have finished working for a living!
Me too. Towards the end of my time as a coach driver some nebulous wierdo (probably in the EU) decreed that we all (truck drivers too) had to take a series of one day "courses" at the end of which time we would be issued a separate licence which we had to carry while at work (despite not being required to carry our normal licence). This would be ok except that there was no test, we only had to be there, no need to even listen although I did participate as a way to relieve the boredom.
Rant over.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on November 16, 2021, 08:52:01 PM
obviously you did at least errr 'tick the box' :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on November 17, 2021, 03:30:14 AM
For my sins it looks like I'll have to sit through a 4 or 5 hour online "Ethics and Compliance Training" course, which will presumably finally provide an answer to the question of whether I am permitted to export nuclear weapons components to dodgy regimes. On the plus side there's a "Workplace Harassment Training Module", which is great as I've always been wondering how to correctly harass people in the workplace.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Yet_Another on November 17, 2021, 08:01:23 AM
Quote from: railsquid on November 17, 2021, 03:30:14 AM
For my sins it looks like I'll have to sit through a 4 or 5 hour online "Ethics and Compliance Training" course, which will presumably finally provide an answer to the question of whether I am permitted to export nuclear weapons components to dodgy regimes. On the plus side there's a "Workplace Harassment Training Module", which is great as I've always been wondering how to correctly harass people in the workplace.
It's good to know. My life was going nowhere until I had to do "How To Do Fraud Properly" training (AKA "Anti-Fraud & Money Laundering").
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on November 17, 2021, 10:32:10 AM
Quote from: Yet_Another on November 17, 2021, 08:01:23 AM
Quote from: railsquid on November 17, 2021, 03:30:14 AM
For my sins it looks like I'll have to sit through a 4 or 5 hour online "Ethics and Compliance Training" course, which will presumably finally provide an answer to the question of whether I am permitted to export nuclear weapons components to dodgy regimes. On the plus side there's a "Workplace Harassment Training Module", which is great as I've always been wondering how to correctly harass people in the workplace.
It's good to know. My life was going nowhere until I had to do "How To Do Fraud Properly" training (AKA "Anti-Fraud & Money Laundering").

So is a short or long spin cycle better?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on November 17, 2021, 11:27:59 AM
Quote from: railsquid on November 17, 2021, 03:30:14 AM
For my sins it looks like I'll have to sit through a 4 or 5 hour online "Ethics and Compliance Training" course, which will presumably finally provide an answer to the question of whether I am permitted to export nuclear weapons components to dodgy regimes. On the plus side there's a "Workplace Harassment Training Module", which is great as I've always been wondering how to correctly harass people in the workplace.
luckily ours are online and somewhat shorter.. also most of them you can click through to the stupid questions at the end and just do them..
I do like the fact they have now added a "what do you think of the course" at the end..

Had great fun on their anti racism course by pointing out everything on there was American, the laws quoted were American, and so was the statue of liberty shown at the end.. I said the whole course was racist.. :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on November 17, 2021, 11:44:28 AM
Many years ago when I was working in Wolverton Works, some charlie thought it was a good idea to get in a company to teach us how to work using the "Kaizen" principles.

Ten minutes into the first session of the day, they were (supposed to be) doing about four sessions a day for a week, the blokes from the lifting shop (think: dirtiest, filthiest job imagineable, where the principle delicate tool was a 2lb hammer) said, "So you're trying to teach us how to use common sense?". Much laughter ensued, ten minutes later most of the blokes walked out and went back to work.

The next session only got to fifteen minutes before the blokes started ridiculing the 'facilitator' before most decided it was far better for the company if they just got back to work and did something productive.

The next session only had two blokes turn up, as they were on a late shift and hadn't heard what a waste of time it was, and that was the end of 'Kaizen' teaching in the railway works.

Nobody got disciplined and we never heard any more about it, so I don't know if they got paid for the week, or if they refused to continue or what. Even the office staff thought it was a complete nonsense.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Calnefoxile on November 17, 2021, 12:18:14 PM

I currently work for the Ambulance Service, I'm not in a front line role but work in the IIT Team as a Radio & Data Systems Engineer, so can someone please explain to me why my ' Compulsory Training' includes:

Safeguarding Adults
Safeguarding Children
Preventing Radicalisation
Infection Prevention & Control
Dementia
Identifying & Supporting Victims of Modern Slavery

Did point all this out when I joined, but was told that it was standard NHS Training Package!!!

Regards

Neal.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on November 17, 2021, 12:37:09 PM
Quote from: The Q on November 17, 2021, 11:27:59 AM
Quote from: railsquid on November 17, 2021, 03:30:14 AM
For my sins it looks like I'll have to sit through a 4 or 5 hour online "Ethics and Compliance Training" course, which will presumably finally provide an answer to the question of whether I am permitted to export nuclear weapons components to dodgy regimes. On the plus side there's a "Workplace Harassment Training Module", which is great as I've always been wondering how to correctly harass people in the workplace.
luckily ours are online and somewhat shorter.. also most of them you can click through to the stupid questions at the end and just do them..
I do like the fact they have now added a "what do you think of the course" at the end..

Had great fun on their anti racism course by pointing out everything on there was American, the laws quoted were American, and so was the statue of liberty shown at the end.. I said the whole course was racist.. :D

Yeah, the mothership is a US entity, though the promised Workplace Harassment training is apparently tailored for each specific locale.

Though come to think of it I work from home anyway, probably means I'll have start creating some imaginary co-workers to hassle.  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on November 17, 2021, 12:54:42 PM
Quote from: railsquid on November 17, 2021, 12:37:09 PM

Though come to think of it I work from home anyway, probably means I'll have start creating some imaginary co-workers to hassle

Could always get a cat ... or dog  ???
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on November 17, 2021, 01:04:45 PM
We used to have great fun with the card they give you to write your name on and place on the table in front of you. It was a constant source of amazement and amusement that these folks attended.....

Ed Winchester
Unlucky Alf
Dave Angel
Jesse
Carl Hooper

(If you missed the entire Fast Show series you'll not have a clue what I'm blathering about)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on November 17, 2021, 02:55:38 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on November 17, 2021, 12:54:42 PM
Quote from: railsquid on November 17, 2021, 12:37:09 PM

Though come to think of it I work from home anyway, probably means I'll have start creating some imaginary co-workers to hassle

Could always get a cat ... or dog  ???

Yeah, but that would mean I'd have to find space on the desk for an additional keyboard for the cat to sleep on (in the olden days it was less of a problem because the cat could just plonk itself on the CRT monitor and occasionally swipe its tail across the screen, but these days it would just fall off, unless it was a very 2-dimensional cat).
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: jpendle on November 17, 2021, 03:10:13 PM
Quote from: Calnefoxile on November 17, 2021, 12:18:14 PM

I currently work for the Ambulance Service, I'm not in a front line role but work in the IIT Team as a Radio & Data Systems Engineer, so can someone please explain to me why my ' Compulsory Training' includes:

Safeguarding Adults
Safeguarding Children
Preventing Radicalisation
Infection Prevention & Control
Dementia
Identifying & Supporting Victims of Modern Slavery

Did point all this out when I joined, but was told that it was standard NHS Training Package!!!

Regards

Neal.

Most of those courses should come in useful in your interactions with the other members of this forum

Safeguarding Adults                 How to prevent our significant others finding out how much we spend on trains
Safeguarding Children              How to get our children/grandchildren playing with trains instead of video games
Preventing Radicalisation          Stopping conversions to 2mm
Infection Prevention & Control   Not allowing any Orribly Overscale to infect the site
Dementia                                Nuff said
Identifying & Supporting Victims of Modern Slavery

:D

John P
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on November 17, 2021, 04:31:45 PM
We too had the usual courses - time management, disability awareness etc, but the best one I did was fire officer training. We got to set things alight and play with hoses and fire extinguishers.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on November 17, 2021, 07:18:00 PM
Quote from: Calnefoxile on November 17, 2021, 12:18:14 PM

I currently work for the Ambulance Service, I'm not in a front line role but work in the IIT Team as a Radio & Data Systems Engineer, so can someone please explain to me why my ' Compulsory Training' includes:

Safeguarding Adults
Safeguarding Children
Preventing Radicalisation
Infection Prevention & Control
Dementia
Identifying & Supporting Victims of Modern Slavery

Did point all this out when I joined, but was told that it was standard NHS Training Package!!!

Regards

Neal.

@Calnefoxile (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=619) @Tank (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=2)
Sounds the perfect induction to becoming a Moderator :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on November 17, 2021, 08:21:41 PM
Quote from: Malc on November 17, 2021, 04:31:45 PM
We too had the usual courses - time management, disability awareness etc, but the best one I did was fire officer training. We got to set things alight and play with hoses and fire extinguishers.

best couple of days when I was in the RAF was the GDT training every 6 months IIRC, ...
watch the film on the Dakota crash with all the fake injuries and blood
first aid training, with resussi annie amongst other things
then fire fighting
and lastly, the range and a chance to brass up targets with your designated weapons  :bounce:

first aid was good
fire fighting was good

range was  :censored: great, as long as you didn't get the idiot whose weapon jammed, and then turned to tell the instructor  :censored:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Calnefoxile on November 18, 2021, 08:51:48 AM
Quote from: class37025 on November 17, 2021, 08:21:41 PM
range was  :censored: great, as long as you didn't get the idiot whose weapon jammed, and then turned to tell the instructor  :censored:

Going completely OT here, but.....

On my Mechs Course at Locking we had a WRAF who did that with her SMG.

After we'd blatted away with our SLR's, killing those nasty Soviets from 25 yards  ;) ;) She calmly walked up to the firing point with her SMG (Sterling Sub-machine Gun based on the WW2 Sten gun) and started loosing off at the Target, not getting anywhere near it because 25 yards was probably too far even for that, anyway the damn thing kept jamming on her, not unheard of for that type of weapon, so she was getting quite angry with it.

Me and one of the lads where still on the range counting brass when the weapon jammed again and she just turned round with it and shouted "This  :censored: gun has jammed again!!" Me and my oppo just hit the deck shouting her name followed by "What the  :censored: are you doing!!" Which was also what the the Rock Cpl shouted, however this didn't have the desired effect of her turning round to face down the range again, oh no!!! What she did was just drop the weapon on the floor and go into full female scream & cry mode!!!

Needless to say she was escorted off the range and stayed as a Non-Combatant member of the WRAF, of which Females in the WRAF had the choice in those days.

Right I'll get off the sandbag and stop the lantern swinging now, back to normal service if you please  ;) ;)

Cheers

Neal. 
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on November 18, 2021, 09:45:22 AM
We had a training film about electrical safety which was called "don't let him die", suitably renamed by the course,"don't let him fry". The health and safety film was a bit gruesome with lots of fake blood and bandages, so much so that one lad fainted.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on November 18, 2021, 10:17:02 AM
counting brass  :'(

and of course the

"I have no live rounds or spent casings in my possession, Corporal"

before you could leave the range.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TrevL on November 18, 2021, 10:38:25 AM
The "spent cases" blurb always amused me, as a rigger for a time on VAS, canberrra starter cartidges were always available.  They do look nice polished up, one either side on the fireplace hearth. ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on November 18, 2021, 12:14:37 PM
Quote from: TrevL on November 18, 2021, 10:38:25 AM
The "spent cases" blurb always amused me, as a rigger for a time on VAS, canberrra starter cartidges were always available.  They do look nice polished up, one either side on the fireplace hearth. ;)

Trev, as a fellow Rigger, you must've shared my enthusiasm for the flight safety quote "Not me Chief, I'm Airframes!"  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on November 18, 2021, 12:19:04 PM
Quote from: TrevL on November 18, 2021, 10:38:25 AM
The "spent cases" blurb always amused me, as a rigger for a time on VAS, canberrra starter cartidges were always available.  They do look nice polished up, one either side on the fireplace hearth. ;)

might be my memory leading me astray, but didn't the Hunters have a cartridge starter as well ?

seem to remember trying to get hold of a couple when I was out in the Gulf, but they'd all gone home by the time we started patrol along the Hunter line, and of course none left laying around as FOD  :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Calnefoxile on November 18, 2021, 01:08:55 PM
Quote from: RailGooner on November 18, 2021, 12:14:37 PM
Trev, as a fellow Rigger, you must've shared my enthusiasm for the flight safety quote "Not me Chief, I'm Airframes!"  :)

You need to be careful here, because to me a Rigger is an Aerial Erector  ;) ;)

Regards

Neal
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: RailGooner on November 18, 2021, 01:39:11 PM
Quote from: Calnefoxile on November 18, 2021, 01:08:55 PM
Quote from: RailGooner on November 18, 2021, 12:14:37 PM
Trev, as a fellow Rigger, you must've shared my enthusiasm for the flight safety quote "Not me Chief, I'm Airframes!"  :)

You need to be careful here, because to me a Rigger is an Aerial Erector  ;) ;)

Regards

Neal

And in the West End they put up stage lighting. But which came first though Neal?!  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on November 18, 2021, 02:00:21 PM
Quote from: Malc on November 18, 2021, 09:45:22 AM
We had a training film about electrical safety which was called "don't let him die", suitably renamed by the course,"don't let him fry". The health and safety film was a bit gruesome with lots of fake blood and bandages, so much so that one lad fainted.

Ours was a 1 hour long (IIRC) programme, featuring a guy deciding to check a few measurements on a railway bridge that his office was preparing for work on, on his way home. The wind caught his steel tape, dropped the end over the parapet and onto the OHLE. The difference with this film was that the whole story was true, the guy was an employee of the company (although in a different office to us) and the last half was about him being in hospital, in a coma and his wife having to give permission for his limbs to be amputated, one by one as infection set in. He still died in the end. His wife took part in the filming. Very nasty.

On a lighter note, we all get the corporate management speak in emails and presentations, so:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GyV_UG60dD4 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GyV_UG60dD4)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on November 19, 2021, 01:51:58 PM
Quote from: Calnefoxile on November 18, 2021, 08:51:48 AM
Quote from: class37025 on November 17, 2021, 08:21:41 PM
range was  :censored: great, as long as you didn't get the idiot whose weapon jammed, and then turned to tell the instructor  :censored:

Going completely OT here, but.....

On my Mechs Course at Locking we had a WRAF who did that with her SMG.

After we'd blatted away with our SLR's, killing those nasty Soviets from 25 yards  ;) ;) She calmly walked up to the firing point with her SMG (Sterling Sub-machine Gun based on the WW2 Sten gun) and started loosing off at the Target, not getting anywhere near it because 25 yards was probably too far even for that, anyway the damn thing kept jamming on her, not unheard of for that type of weapon, so she was getting quite angry with it.

Me and one of the lads where still on the range counting brass when the weapon jammed again and she just turned round with it and shouted "This  :censored: gun has jammed again!!" Me and my oppo just hit the deck shouting her name followed by "What the  :censored: are you doing!!" Which was also what the the Rock Cpl shouted, however this didn't have the desired effect of her turning round to face down the range again, oh no!!! What she did was just drop the weapon on the floor and go into full female scream & cry mode!!!

Needless to say she was escorted off the range and stayed as a Non-Combatant member of the WRAF, of which Females in the WRAF had the choice in those days.

Right I'll get off the sandbag and stop the lantern swinging now, back to normal service if you please  ;) ;)

Cheers

Neal.
Ah RAF Locking where if you missed the range to the left or right you were aiming at the M5....
Yep I've shot at that range a few times (1977-79)

SWMBO had her marksmans badge when the WRAFs were non combatant... Then they brought in WRAFs being combatant, but at first didn't increase their wages.. So she dropped being qualified, as she didn't need to having signed on before that requirement..
One very upset Rocky , because she had made such a fuss to be allowed to shoot in the first place..

Dad started a Canberra in the mid 1970's, he had been a civilian 12 years by then.. The aircraft broke down on Benbecula (with the aircrew conveniently having fishing rods and spare clothing on board),. The ground crew came up and "fixed" the aircraft, and then left for the ferry .. So the aircraft needed someone to start engines ... Dad hadn't played with Canberras since the late 1950s
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on November 30, 2021, 07:00:48 PM
I went to the Doctors this afternoon and had my booster jab. So why is this in the 'Unhappy' thread? The nurse said my arm might be a bit sore later, so when I asked if she could give me a letter explaining that I could not make the tea today as I might have a sore arm, she just laughed!  :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: GAD on December 01, 2021, 10:26:36 AM
Quote from: class37025 on November 18, 2021, 12:19:04 PM
Quote from: TrevL on November 18, 2021, 10:38:25 AM
The "spent cases" blurb always amused me, as a rigger for a time on VAS, canberrra starter cartidges were always available.  They do look nice polished up, one either side on the fireplace hearth. ;)

might be my memory leading me astray, but didn't the Hunters have a cartridge starter as well ?

seem to remember trying to get hold of a couple when I was out in the Gulf, but they'd all gone home by the time we started patrol along the Hunter line, and of course none left laying around as FOD  :hmmm:

One, at least, of the Hunter Marks had them. I remember Raymond Baxter commentating on a Farnborough show and he pointed out that the 'new' Hawker version of the Hunter would start with a bang. Which mark it was will take a bit of Googling. Hunter
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on December 01, 2021, 10:46:21 AM
we had 8 & 208 there, and both sdns had FGA.9s with a couple of T.7s and IIRC a couple of FR.10s
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on December 07, 2021, 10:19:51 AM
08:30 this morning SWMBO's phone went off with a text from NHSvaccines.

apparently according to their records she is eligible for a covid-19 booster, but hasn't had one.

oh, hang on, what was it we both went up to Haywards Heath for a few weeks ago ?

that's right, our boosters  :veryangry:

mind you at the time I was told I hadn't had my first and second doses so couldn't have a booster, even though NHSvaccines had texted me to book my booster  :veryangry:

luckily I had my cards from my first and second jabs, and common sense prevailed.

just another example of how, once anything gets into the hands of NHS administrators it is totally  :censored:

front line staff and volunteers  :thumbsup:

pen pushers  :thumbsdown:

brewery, bottles open, organise, booze up  :'(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on December 07, 2021, 12:33:02 PM
Yes, my wife and I have both had that text message too. Sounds like a 'puter error to me.

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on December 07, 2021, 12:46:33 PM
it's ok as long as it doesn't happen to someone flying somewhere, and they show as not having been boostered or jabbed.

I'd assume that one system downloaded the list to another to send out the texts, so is that system actually correct, or is it the texting sytem that has failed ?

or perhaps the NHS just can't manage to get two systems to talk to one another.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 10, 2021, 08:29:12 PM
For the last couple of days, I have been feeling 'a bit under the weather', with problems in the 'waterworks' department.  I went to the Doctors this morning and told him that I thought I had another bladder infection, as the symptoms were very similar to the last time. He took my temperature - yes, we were looking at a fever. He then tested a 'sample' - yes, blood present.  :'(. So the upshot is I am now on a two week course of antibiotics. Louisa asked me a while ago how I was feeling. I replied that I felt like an old man tonight, which elicited the reply, "You are an old man".  I mean, who needs enemies!  ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on December 10, 2021, 08:40:32 PM
Bad time to be on antibiotics as they tell you not to drink. Fortunately this is a fallacy they told this to soldiers who had a specific condition to stop them getting drunk and being reinfected,
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Invicta Alec on December 10, 2021, 08:41:47 PM
David,

fingers crossed for a swift recovery.

Alec.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on December 11, 2021, 01:42:09 AM
Quote from: dannyboy on December 10, 2021, 08:29:12 PM
Louisa asked me a while ago how I was feeling. I replied that I felt like an old man tonight,

I would have told you to go and find one then.

I hope you're better soon though and I've never stayed off alcohol when on antibionics. My theory is that the alcohol will kill off the baddies and the more alcohol you have the more baddies you kill off  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Railwaygun on December 11, 2021, 02:55:21 AM
Quote from: Malc on December 10, 2021, 08:40:32 PM
Bad time to be on antibiotics as they tell you not to drink. Fortunately this is a fallacy they told this to soldiers who had a specific condition to stop them getting drunk and being reinfected,

Flagyl / metronidazole is the only antibiotic where drinking alcohol is not advised - it causes nausea / vomiting, this is because it is related to a drug used for treating alcoholism
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on December 11, 2021, 09:52:41 AM
Quote from: Trainfish on December 11, 2021, 01:42:09 AM
Quote from: dannyboy on December 10, 2021, 08:29:12 PM
Louisa asked me a while ago how I was feeling. I replied that I felt like an old man tonight,

I would have told you to go and find one then.

I hope you're better soon though and I've never stayed off alcohol when on antibionics. My theory is that the alcohol will kill off the baddies and the more alcohol you have the more baddies you kill off  :thumbsup:

well said that man.
if alcohol [wipes / sprays] kill germs on the surface, then surely alcohol [whisky / rum / gin / vodka etc] will do the same inside you.

I have a theory that the 'daily unit limit' was actually put in place by germs, so if you exceed it, you will definitely kill the bugs  :beers:

stay safe, and 'sanitise '  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 11, 2021, 05:15:38 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on December 11, 2021, 01:42:09 AM

I would have told you to go and find one then.


I wondered who would be the first!  ;D

As has been pointed out, if alcohol kills germs on the surface, why not use it for killing germs on the inside?  ??? As Louisa has just said, if it has taken me until after 5pm to switch the computer on, I must be poorly but thank you all for the comments.  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on December 11, 2021, 08:48:10 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on December 11, 2021, 05:15:38 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on December 11, 2021, 01:42:09 AM
I would have told you to go and find one then.
I wondered who would be the first!  ;D

But did you guess who would be first?  :D :P
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on December 11, 2021, 09:14:18 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on December 10, 2021, 08:29:12 PM
For the last couple of days, I have been feeling 'a bit under the weather', with problems in the 'waterworks' department.  I went to the Doctors this morning and told him that I thought I had another bladder infection, as the symptoms were very similar to the last time. He took my temperature - yes, we were looking at a fever. He then tested a 'sample' - yes, blood present.  :'(. So the upshot is I am now on a two week course of antibiotics. Louisa asked me a while ago how I was feeling. I replied that I felt like an old man tonight, which elicited the reply, "You are an old man".  I mean, who needs enemies!  ;)

Sorry to hear you are under the weather David. Having had a bad UTI two years ago I know just how you must be feeling. Here's hoping it all clears up before the festive season begins. For now take it easy on the alcohol as it might make you forget to take the antibiotics. :D 
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 11, 2021, 09:40:35 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on December 11, 2021, 08:48:10 PM

But did you guess who would be first?  :D :P

Let's just say you were in the top two!  :)

Quote from: daffy on December 11, 2021, 09:14:18 PM
Here's hoping it all clears up before the festive season begins. For now take it easy on the alcohol as it might make you forget to take the antibiotics. :D 

The Doctor gave me a 14 day supply of antibiotics, so,  taking the first tablet on 10th, 14 days supply = last tablet on the 23rd = roll on Christmas.  ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TrevL on December 13, 2021, 12:34:34 PM
Have you had a blood test David?
I, like you was often stuck with a UTI. Finally the Doc sent me for a "shuftyscope" but all was ok. However a bloodtest revealed I was pre-diabetic, and UTI's are a symptom. I lost 10% of my body weight which had the effect of putting my blood/sugar levels back to normal, hence no more pre-diabeties.  I've kept the weight off for almost two years now, and have had no more UTI's.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 13, 2021, 12:57:28 PM
Quote from: TrevL on December 13, 2021, 12:34:34 PM
Have you had a blood test David?

I have a blood test every six months or so, (thinking about it, I am probably due one in the new year), as I have to have my PSA levels checked regularly. Whilst I was at the Doctors on Friday, he did mention something that sounds like your "shuftyscope". If it is the same thing, I do not mind having the inside of my bladder looked at, but I most certainly do not fancy the route to get there, as described by the Doctor!  :goggleeyes:. It is interesting you mentioning diabetes, as my Sister has type 1, although diabetes has never been mentioned in previous results.  In more pleasant news, I am pleased to say that there is a, (very), slight improvement in my 'condition', but I still took a walk, (read 'fast trot'), along the hallway six times last night.  :)

Addit: Well done on losing the weight, it certainly would not do me any harm to lose a bit!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on December 13, 2021, 01:36:27 PM
Not had a 'shuftyscope' per se but have had a catheter which involves pretty much the same procedure of a long flexible tube going where even Captain Kirk has never boldly gone.

For me the insertion process was just odd, not uncomfortable, though a little disconcerting. Like all such insertions (I had a colonoscopy some years back), the procedure should really be viewed* as a great way to check all is a.o.k.
If it proves otherwise, it was better by far than alternatives involving knives and large gloved hands, :o

* The view of my colonoscopy was very real as I was watching the cameras' progress on 21 inch screen right next to me.!  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 13, 2021, 03:20:50 PM
Quote from: daffy on December 13, 2021, 01:36:27 PM
The view of my colonoscopy was very real as I was watching the cameras' progress on 21 inch screen right next to me.!  :)

Watching just what was happening would make it a lot more bearable - and interesting, for me.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on December 13, 2021, 03:38:12 PM
Just don't expect to see Raquel Welch, in or out of the Proteus. Most you'll see is body tissue in various shades of pink.  :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 13, 2021, 03:41:49 PM
Shucks! But are the advert's any good?  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on December 13, 2021, 04:01:57 PM
Best we can expect at our age is ads for equity release, stair lifts and cremation or funeral plans. Usual cheerful stuff.

But they might offer to play you good music instead.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on December 13, 2021, 04:12:42 PM
Can I just say I met @TrevL (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=5583) at the Warrington Show in 2019 and I have seen more fat on a butcher's pencil. I can only imagine, like many of us, he may have put on some timber during the Covid lockdowns (my excuse and I'm adhering to it) :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 13, 2021, 04:13:05 PM
 :laughabovepost:

Only problem with that offering is that they don't seem to do equity release in Ireland and I live in a bungalow, but the cremation/funeral plans may be of interest ........  :no:

addit: NPN posted just before me, so the 'laugh at above post' is meant for @daffy (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=5634)  and @Newportnobby (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264) - can I use your excuse please?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on December 13, 2021, 04:15:44 PM
Not had a colonoscopy for over 30yrs but have had several endoscopes  over the last 3. Not so interesting, they usually give me a sedative and I sleep through the whole thing.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on December 13, 2021, 07:16:17 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on December 13, 2021, 03:20:50 PM
Quote from: daffy on December 13, 2021, 01:36:27 PM
The view of my colonoscopy was very real as I was watching the cameras' progress on 21 inch screen right next to me.!  :)

Watching just what was happening would make it a lot more bearable - and interesting, for me.

I've had several colonscopes colonospocies colonopscies cameras up the bum and watched every one of them. The sedative helped and it was great viewing on the screen next to me. The weird thing if though that you don't feel anything inside due to the lack of nerve endings. Oh and removing polyps is also weird. They just get 'plucked off' again with no sense of feeling whatsoever  :o
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 13, 2021, 09:00:37 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on December 13, 2021, 07:16:17 PM

cameras up the bum and watched every one of them.

Glad I have finished my tea!  :sick2:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on December 13, 2021, 09:21:21 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on December 13, 2021, 07:16:17 PM
I've had several cameras up the bum

It's the camera crew I feel sorry for :worried:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on December 13, 2021, 09:26:33 PM
I can't wait for my next one!  :no:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on December 13, 2021, 09:28:15 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on December 13, 2021, 07:16:17 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on December 13, 2021, 03:20:50 PM
Quote from: daffy on December 13, 2021, 01:36:27 PM
The view of my colonoscopy was very real as I was watching the cameras' progress on 21 inch screen right next to me.!  :)

Watching just what was happening would make it a lot more bearable - and interesting, for me.

I've had several colonscopes colonospocies colonopscies cameras up the bum and watched every one of them. The sedative helped and it was great viewing on the screen next to me. The weird thing if though that you don't feel anything inside due to the lack of nerve endings. Oh and removing polyps is also weird. They just get 'plucked off' again with no sense of feeling whatsoever  :o

That's all well and good, but have you ever had any for medical reasons?

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on December 13, 2021, 10:51:53 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on December 13, 2021, 09:21:21 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on December 13, 2021, 07:16:17 PM
I've had several cameras up the bum

It's the camera crew I feel sorry for :worried:

I should have been clearer, it was only ever 1 camera at a time.

Quote from: emjaybee on December 13, 2021, 09:28:15 PM
That's all well and good, but have you ever had any for medical reasons?

I'm not telling you.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on December 14, 2021, 10:24:35 AM
Try telling your fans not to be so keen with their 'upskirting'
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on December 14, 2021, 10:54:33 PM
You've given me an idea Mick. Next time I get the same appointment it will be so much easier to wear a skirt. No more stripping off and putting on the backwards robe (once they gave me a robe with 3 arm holes for some reason). Just walk in, lay down, flip up the skirt, in goes the camera, 5 minutes of filming, whip out the camera, drop skirt back down and off I go. You're a genius, thanks  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on December 14, 2021, 11:14:26 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on December 14, 2021, 10:54:33 PM
You've given me an idea Mick. Next time I get the same appointment it will be so much easier to wear a skirt. No more stripping off and putting on the backwards robe (once they gave me a robe with 3 arm holes for some reason). Just walk in, lay down, flip up the skirt, in goes the camera, 5 minutes of filming, whip out the camera, drop skirt back down and off I go. You're a genius, thanks  :thumbsup:
Perhaps you could pretend to be Scottish and wear a kilt
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on December 14, 2021, 11:21:03 PM
No way, that would be far too embarrassing! I never want to be mistaken for a Scotsman. They speak funny up there  :goggleeyes:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on December 15, 2021, 05:53:24 AM
Quote from: Trainfish on December 14, 2021, 10:54:33 PM
once they gave me a robe with 3 arm holes for some reason

@Trainfish (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=262)  Stupid boy, Pike. You'd put it on upside down ::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on December 15, 2021, 07:53:06 AM
He's right. Stupid boy.

It would be upside down here anyway  ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on December 15, 2021, 06:37:22 PM
I suffered with repeated bladder infections and my GP sent me to see a urologist. He did various tests including peeing into a bucket and a camera job. In the middle of the procedure he turned the monitor towards me to see the inside of my bladder. He pointed the camera back towards the point it entered the bladder. "This is what we call the J manoeuvre " I said,"do me a favour and straighten it out before you remove it" Not a flicker of a smile.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on December 15, 2021, 08:52:30 PM
Are these the same cameras that some members of this forum use for "drivers eye" videos of their layouts ?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 15, 2021, 08:56:16 PM
Quote from: joe cassidy on December 15, 2021, 08:52:30 PM
Are these the same cameras that some members of this forum use for "drivers eye" videos of their layouts ?

I  :censored: hope not!  :goggleeyes:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on December 15, 2021, 09:30:20 PM
Quote from: Malc on December 15, 2021, 06:37:22 PM
I suffered with repeated bladder infections and my GP sent me to see a urologist. He did various tests including peeing into a bucket

Why would the urologist pee into a bucket? :confused2:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 15, 2021, 09:35:22 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on December 15, 2021, 09:30:20 PM

Why would the urologist pee into a bucket?

So he could do his 'Punch' impression -

"That's the way to do it".  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: railsquid on December 16, 2021, 01:38:19 AM
Quote from: joe cassidy on December 15, 2021, 08:52:30 PM
Are these the same cameras that some members of this forum use for "drivers eye" videos of their layouts ?

Yup, just take your layout along to the appointment. :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on December 16, 2021, 12:38:58 PM
I had a colonoscopy, followed a few days later by a gastroscopy. I asked the guy doing the procedure if it was the same kit they used for the colonoscopy. He said it was but they did give it a wipe with a greasy rag first.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on December 16, 2021, 12:56:44 PM
What goes up must come down  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on December 25, 2021, 03:44:20 AM
Not a great start to my Christmas day.  Got bitten in my armpit by an assassin bug, must have picked it up while getting some blueberries from the bush in the garden.  Startling pain, chunk taken out my skin, swelling and persistent throbbing pain which can last for a day or so.

Oh well, novel experience, never bitten by one before.  About the same as a sting from a Bull Ant (big primitive ant about an inch long).
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on December 25, 2021, 10:30:36 AM
So glad I don't live in Oz, most of the native fauna seems to hate people!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 25, 2021, 12:00:55 PM
Quote from: NinOz on December 25, 2021, 03:44:20 AM
Startling pain, chunk taken out my skin, swelling and persistent throbbing pain which can last for a day or so.


Hopefully it soon improves.  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on December 25, 2021, 12:39:17 PM
Ah well, Christmas will be a quiet affair today as the other grand-dad has tested positive for Covid! :veryangry:

The reason for the anger is that they (the other grandparents) had the grandkids over to stay for three days last week just after the oldies had been on a trip to Norwich for a few days, and after the kids went home they went out to a Pub quiz night! :o. Worst of all they knew a lateral flow test was positive on Thursday morning, with a confirmation PSA result given yesterday. Jeezus H! :censored:

So we can't go over to see the grandkids today as planned and so will have to make do with a makeshift dinner at home as all our Christmas-type food is still in the freezer. :(

I'm really angry about it as Sheila has not been able to see them other than through windows or via Facetime for over a year now, and this Christmas  the rest of us had been so very careful to make sure all was as safe as possible.

Ah well, another Christmas will be conducted via the iPad and cold turkey and bubble and squeak will be on the menu at the grandkids house for rather longer than usual as dinner for nine had already been prepared.     

Heigh ho! And other words of Christmas joy.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on December 25, 2021, 06:06:47 PM
So sorry, Mike. That is just plain irresponsible behaviour from folks old enough to know better. Very selfish ::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob G on December 31, 2021, 07:32:31 PM
I've never posted to this thread, but yesterday we got back from a well earned holiday and had arranged to talk to my mum in her care home at 4pm today.

Because we were away for 2 weeks including over Christmas we had already had an early Christmas dinner with her on our Wedding Anniversary (6 Dec). We collected her and brought her home. She is only 3 miles away but because of lockdown we have hardly seen her other than on Skype. She would have good days, and bad days.

She was not at all there on 6 Dec. In fact she wanted to eat her dinner on the couch rather than at the table. She didn't remember our wedding anniversary, and when told about it did not congratulate us on it. She didn't even want to eat with us. It was like sitting with a hollow shell of a person.

While we were away, the care home went into total lockdown. We tried to talk with her but today she would not not get out of bed or talk to us on Skype. We can't visit her.

In reality I lost my mum ten years ago when she had a bladder infection and after that she lost a lot of who she was. But she always used to recognise us and would participate in family activities. However she is now almost gone as a person.

It is an awful way to lose someone who had so much fight in her as a younger woman.

Bless you all, and whatever your faith, long may you be bright as stars. I would not wish this fate on anyone.

Bob

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: paulbeckwith on December 31, 2021, 07:55:10 PM

so  sorry  to  hear  this  bob  at  this  time  of  the  year  ........ when  all / most  of  us  will  be  celebrating  the  new  year  in 

  there s   not  much  anyone  can  say  to  cheer  you  up  ...  hope  the  care  home  lockdown  ends  soon  and  you  can  visit  again

   paul
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on December 31, 2021, 08:36:22 PM
So sorry to hear that, Bob - I know exactly how you are feeling. My mother went the same way a few years ago. She was in a care home that she liked, in fact she chose it, but she had a stroke and they weren't equipped to take care of her so she had to move to a nursing home which she never liked. I used to visit her every day but each time I went a little bit more was missing until eventually I was visiting an elderly stranger in bed - my Mum had long gone. She finally died just before Christmas 6 years ago. I wouldn't wish it on anybody, and you have my heartfelt sympathies for what you are going through.

All good wishes,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 31, 2021, 08:45:10 PM
That is so sad Bob. Before my Mum passed away, she had periods of 'not being there'. She lived on her own in a sheltered housing place, so there was a warden who used to check on Mum a couple of times a day. My sister visited most days and my brother and myself would telephone 2 or 3 times a week, on alternate days. Yet it was quite heart breaking when she was talking to me and say things like, "Michael has not rung for weeks", when I knew that he had telephoned the day before. She used to make the same complaint to Michael about me never ringing. I won't go on, but there were lots of things that made us feel that we were losing her, as our Mum, slowly but surely. Take care and treasure what you do have.  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on January 01, 2022, 02:00:29 PM
So sorry to hear about your mum. My sister-in-law died a couple of years ago from early onset altzheimers. It was not nice to see someone so vivacious become a hollow shell with only an occasional flash of recognition.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on January 03, 2022, 12:50:17 PM
Well that's a great start to 2022.

Just noticed a damp patch on the floor next to a wall, behind which is our shower.

Hoping it's just some sealant no longer doing it's job, got a guy coming Wednesday.

However I really struggle with this sort of thing.

It sets me off and I start panicking.

2nd fault in the new house as well.

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on January 03, 2022, 02:59:19 PM
If it's just a damp patch then don't panic too much Adam. If it's spurting out of the wall then it's time to panic  :goggleeyes:

I'm sure it's nothing major and as you say, possibly some sealant needs replacing. Or possibly the waste pipe needs tightening. Have you cleaned out the trap in the shower?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on January 03, 2022, 03:25:17 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on January 03, 2022, 02:59:19 PM
If it's just a damp patch then don't panic too much Adam. If it's spurting out of the wall then it's time to panic  :goggleeyes:

I'm sure it's nothing major and as you say, possibly some sealant needs replacing. Or possibly the waste pipe needs tightening. Have you cleaned out the trap in the shower?

Funny enough we have not long de-clogged the waste pipe with some draino stuff.

I am sure it's not too bad, the damp is retreating rather than expanding so the leak must be from either the tray or the waste pipe (as the shower is obviously not on now).

If I was more confident I would try and tackle it myself but I will trust the pro who did my in-laws bathroom I think.

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on January 03, 2022, 03:52:57 PM
Aha, so you have used a chemical type unblocker? You have to be very careful with those as some are rather violent and can cause leaks by dissolving the solvent used to join the pipes. Whatever you do make sure they are flushed through thoroughly within the time limits specified or you can create problems mate. I often use industrial strength unblockers in my job but am very careful with them for this reason. I always use a plunger before resorting to Dambuster, One shot etc as it will very often solve the issue with hair etc clogging up the drain. Either way it shouldn't be an expensive job for someone to fix as long as the shower tray doesn't have to come out. Hopefully not.

Hair (and I've seen your hair) and grease are your biggest enemies with drains/traps and on a domestic level I find that this product (https://www.diy.com/departments/instant-power-drain-opener-1l/262416_BQ.prd) from B&Q is a good one for at home use. Again, use it exactly as per the instructions though  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on January 08, 2022, 04:33:57 PM
Today we went to Enniskillen, so I had to visit the model shop - I wanted some plastic cement for a kit that arrived from Germany last week anyway - well that was my excuse  ;). I was really looking forward to the trip, as it must be at least six months since I was last in the shop, but what a disappointment  :(. The display cabinet that, in the past, has had three or four shelves showing n gauge rolling stock, had just one shelf of stuff. It was virtually all GF UK stuff, along with five identical 'foreign' wagons. The owner opened the cabinet for me and I looked at the 'foreign' wagons - they were 'Arnold' and represented European wagons - nothing at all American themed. The owner was saying how difficult it is to get any n gauge stuff these days, either from the UK or anywhere else. So I came away having spent just over £15!! I know the lack of stock has saved me some money - but I wanted to spend!   :(

( @Tank (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=2), the 'Cry' emoticon don't work Chris  :'( )
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Tank on January 08, 2022, 06:56:45 PM
Very odd!  It just won't work no matter what I do.  Will investigate further!  Thanks for letting me know.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TrevL on January 08, 2022, 07:02:14 PM
If you press the windows key and colon key together, you can find this😢 (as a temporary measure)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 08, 2022, 08:30:13 PM
Quote from: TrevL on January 08, 2022, 07:02:14 PM
If you press the windows key and colon key together, you can find this😢 (as a temporary measure)

I'm sure the medicos would have told me if I had a key on my colon :confused2:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 08, 2022, 09:04:42 PM
in due course, Mick, you'll probably be digitised, and the key will be changed to give you yet another combination to remember  >:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on January 08, 2022, 09:12:44 PM
Quote from: class37025 on January 08, 2022, 09:04:42 PM
in due course, Mick, you'll probably be digitised, and the key will be changed to give you yet another combination to remember  >:D

No the Anti-Virus software would leap on it   :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 08, 2022, 09:17:28 PM
oooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh errrr mrs

that would make his eyes water  >:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on January 10, 2022, 04:03:40 PM
I have finally got the dreaded lurgy got a positive lateral flow test at work this morning so I had to hastily arranged PCR test call Clare to come home from work as she works with venerable children 
now feeling very unwell But Clare has had a negative LFT test but has to get a PCR test to be on the safe side

John
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on January 10, 2022, 05:34:41 PM
Hopefully, you'll just have a mild dose and soon be over it. Good luck.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on January 11, 2022, 08:48:40 AM
I know 3 or 4 people who have had this new variant after being vaccinated. They report that it is a bit like a bad cold. Hopefully you will soon be over it and your better half doesn't succumb. My wife didn't when I came down with the original virus in February. I didn't get any of the supposed symptoms so she didn't isolate. I ended up in hospital, she was fine.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: thebrighton on January 11, 2022, 10:19:59 AM
Aaaaargh!
Now over the years I've painted, lined and added transfers to probably thousands of models but every now and again this hobby annoys the hell out of me.
Just finished all the above on a coach, using all the same combinations of primers, top coat, lining etc that I always do until the final act, a dusting of varnish to seal it all in and the varnish decided to react with the top coat and craze. It did it once before a few years back, just the once, but has decided today it will do it again, not a couple of days ago when I varnished another coach in the rake using all the same combination of paints, but today. Why, doesn't it like Tuesdays?
A visit to the paint stripper and start again :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on January 11, 2022, 12:47:35 PM
got our results this morning we both tested positive
i feel like i have very bad cold but i have never had a cof this bad
Clare has very mild symptoms
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Hailstone on January 11, 2022, 01:58:21 PM
Quote from: thebrighton on January 11, 2022, 10:19:59 AM
Aaaaargh!
Now over the years I've painted, lined and added transfers to probably thousands of models but every now and again this hobby annoys the hell out of me.
Just finished all the above on a coach, using all the same combinations of primers, top coat, lining etc that I always do until the final act, a dusting of varnish to seal it all in and the varnish decided to react with the top coat and craze. It did it once before a few years back, just the once, but has decided today it will do it again, not a couple of days ago when I varnished another coach in the rake using all the same combination of paints, but today. Why, doesn't it like Tuesdays?
A visit to the paint stripper and start again :(

It might just be the damp in the air, as I have to do my spray painting out in the lean to, I never paint until there have been dry conditions for at least 2 days

Regards,

Alex
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: thebrighton on January 18, 2022, 03:40:29 PM
Quote from: thebrighton on January 11, 2022, 10:19:59 AM
Aaaaargh!
Now over the years I've painted, lined and added transfers to probably thousands of models but every now and again this hobby annoys the hell out of me.
Just finished all the above on a coach, using all the same combinations of primers, top coat, lining etc that I always do until the final act, a dusting of varnish to seal it all in and the varnish decided to react with the top coat and craze. It did it once before a few years back, just the once, but has decided today it will do it again, not a couple of days ago when I varnished another coach in the rake using all the same combination of paints, but today. Why, doesn't it like Tuesdays?
A visit to the paint stripper and start again :(

I probably should move this to the angry thread as the coach has now been fully repainted, lined and lettered again and, yep,  the varnish reacted again.
All I can think of is for this coach I had to open a new tinlet of Precision Teak, my old tin having finally met its maker. Beginning to wonder if Precision have tweaked their ingredients :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 22, 2022, 11:31:02 AM
I mentioned in another thread I had to return a very noisy Hymek to Osborns Models. They sent me a returns label which I duly shrank to size. Bought Mum a paper and some groceries this morning so popped into her local Post Office with the parcel only to be told it was a Royal Mail label, they couldn't scan it and so couldn't accept it, and that I had to take it to a RM sorting office. I duly did that on my journey home.
No doubt some knowledgeable soul will tell me the logic behind all of this. I'm not fussed about the time lost but everyone talks about carbon footprint these days and this hasn't helped.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on January 22, 2022, 11:53:52 AM
Royal Mail and the Post Office are separate companies with independent Boards. Royal Mail is the company that delivers parcels and letters – the provider of the universal postal service. The Post Office is the nationwide network of branches offering a range of postal, Government and financial services.

So there  :P
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 22, 2022, 12:21:26 PM
oh for the days of the old GPO,
one set of 'management' managed to deal with mail, post offices and telephones if my memory serves me correctly.

obviously better managers in those days, worked up from the ranks and not a university degree among them, but they could do the job. :veryangry:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on January 22, 2022, 12:37:04 PM
It seems particularly daft, as you can walk into a post-office, present a parcel, pay for its sending there and then - and then Royal Mail pick it up from the post-office!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 22, 2022, 01:44:27 PM
Quote from: stevewalker on January 22, 2022, 12:37:04 PM
It seems particularly daft, as you can walk into a post-office, present a parcel, pay for its sending there and then - and then Royal Mail pick it up from the post-office!

Exactly, Steve. And then they have the nerve to call it 'progress'. Pah!! ::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 27, 2022, 11:18:18 AM
I had reason to visit the Devil's own DIY shed (B & Q) this morning for various items for the layout. Let me start by saying how gladdened I was to still see a good 50% of customers still wearing a mask.
Small spirit level - into the basket
7.5mm drill bit (the one bought from Station Baseboards wouldn't get through a Weetabix ::)) - none
Cable clips 7mm - sign pointing to 'Electrical' sent me down an aisle full of paints. Every employee I approached scuttled off in the opposite direction so I must be pretty scary at 09.15 :worried: Eventually tracked the clips down to another 'Electrical' aisle so into the basket they went.
15mm x 15mm stripwood (Seep points for the use of) - into the basket
3mm x 25mm screws (100 or 200) point motors for the use of - nada, nix, zilch, rien, zero. Seems the world and it's brother had been buying the same thing so I had to come away with a couple of expensive packs of 20s >:(

Next time I'll head for Screwfix but I was calling on Mum as well today.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on January 27, 2022, 12:17:01 PM
Typical B&Q these days Mick - and I don't mean due to Covid or Brexit - so I only go there for the odd bag of cement and paints (when the latter are on offer) and some wood (if I can find a bit that isn't related to a barley twist or a banana!).

Screwfix can be a lot better for many hardware items, and as both chains are owned & operated by Kingfisher the lack of stock at B&Q while the same items are in stock at SF seems odd.

I use Toolstation mostly these days anyway, especially as they have a free next day delivery for lower order value (£25) if I need to spend that much.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on January 27, 2022, 12:40:43 PM
Quote from: daffy on January 27, 2022, 12:17:01 PM
Typical B&Q these days Mick - and I don't mean due to Covid or Brexit - so I only go there for the odd bag of cement and paints (when the latter are on offer) and some wood (if I can find a bit that isn't related to a barley twist or a banana!).

Screwfix can be a lot better for many hardware items, and as both chains are owned & operated by Kingfisher the lack of stock at B&Q while the same items are in stock at SF seems odd.

I use Toolstation mostly these days anyway, especially as they have a free next day delivery for lower order value (£25) if I need to spend that much.

I tend to favour Toolstation. They are quicker, more reliable and easier to work with, much like Screwfix used to be.

But then the reason for that is that Toolstation is run by the guy who started Screwfix. He sold Screwfix, but the lawyers neglected to put a clause in the sale contract to stop him doing the same again, so when Screwfix started to slide with their range and service, he started Toolstation!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on January 27, 2022, 12:42:03 PM
Never use screwup as their screws are rubbish. When I used them I found that half the time the head would come off and I woul have to use pliers to extract the screw before I could put another in. Dearer screws are well worth the extra.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on January 27, 2022, 02:04:17 PM
Agreed re using dearer screws after many years of trial and error. Best screws for me - inside and outside - are the 'Cutter' range by the German manufacturer Reisser. From Toolstation. Expensive perhaps, but well worth it IMHO as I've never had one strip it's head slots or break and they don't need a pre-drilled hole or c/sink (though I do both if I want best finished look.)

No links to any of afore-named companies except as satisfied customer.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on January 27, 2022, 06:17:31 PM
Quote from: emjaybee on January 27, 2022, 12:40:43 PM
... Toolstation is run by the guy who started Screwfix. He sold Screwfix, but the lawyers neglected to put a clause in the sale contract to stop him doing the same again, so when Screwfix started to slide with their range and service, he started Toolstation!

I don't think that they forgot. I am pretty sure that when Toolstation opened, it was revealed that there was such a clause, but it lapsed after 5 years or something like that.

I do prefer Toolstation to Screwfix, the staff are much friendlier - at least that's the case locally.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on January 28, 2022, 10:45:24 AM
Curious that you have issues Steve, because I have used Screwfix since they used to run ads in Exchange and Mart in the 70s. I've done all sorts of building work and never ever had a problem with their screws snapping.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on January 28, 2022, 11:45:53 AM
Maybe I was unlucky, Malc, but I used to do a lot of screwing when I was a driver/handyman at a school and found that cheap screws always caused trouble and as they say "time's money". I, therefor, used Spax screws, dearer but well worth the extra.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on January 28, 2022, 12:16:06 PM
Quote from: Malc on January 28, 2022, 10:45:24 AM
Curious that you have issues Steve, because I have used Screwfix since they used to run ads in Exchange and Mart in the 70s. I've done all sorts of building work and never ever had a problem with their screws snapping.

Same here. I usually use Goldscrews from Screwfix both at home and at work as I do a lot of screwing these days  :goggleeyes: Never had a problem and I highly recommend both the screws and Screwfix  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: mickeyflinn on January 28, 2022, 12:29:43 PM
We're quite lucky where we live, as we've got 2 independent timber merchants within a 15 minute drive from us. Generally use them for wood, screws, glue, etc and they're often cheaper and always top quality. Also, if we need timber, its all loose and cut to different lengths so we can pick and choose our own.

Have found it best to always compare the prices at B&Q and Screwfix, as although Screwfix is generally cheaper, sometimes B&Q is for exactly the same thing.

If I'm going to Screwfix, I always check Toolstation too as the nearest ones to us are next door to one another.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on January 28, 2022, 03:44:19 PM
I like Screwfix because I can order on line and get a text telling me when my order is ready to collect. They are 5 mins drive away.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on January 30, 2022, 01:21:18 PM
Not hugely unhappy but a little annoyed with the Post Office. They put a card through the door on Friday to say I have a small package  :goggleeyes: and the sender has underpaid the postage. Not a huge problem except that I now have to go to the delivery office, pay 80p to park to collect it and then £1.50 to retrieve it. It may be that I don't want it but I don't know that until I see where it has come from. Why can't they put something on the card they left to say where it is from. And another thing, they say they will keep it for I think 18 days or something and then send it back to the sender. If they're happy to incur their own costs to do that then on a small value item why does it cost me £1.50 to retrieve it when I'm saving them the cost of returning it? I don't even know what it is, where it's from or if I even want it  :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on January 30, 2022, 02:19:22 PM
Trainfish .
Are you sure its a genuine Post Office card ?
There is a scam going  around asking to pay  extra postage on line .
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 30, 2022, 02:43:32 PM
there is also the official RM scam where they charge you £8 to do all the work yourself on line to collect a couple of £s as customs duty....

so...
your parcel gets delayed....
YOU have to do all their work to pay a few pounds to HMC&E ...

and RRM charge you £8 for the privilage, as an 'ADMIN CHARGE' for which they do nothing as far as I can see.

@Trainfish (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=262), if you are not expecting a parcel, and have no idea who it is from, I'd be inclined to let RM pay to send it back.

had one of these a year or so ago, so on top of everything else reduced sorting office times to collect, wasn't expecting a parcel, and when I got there didn't recognise the sender address.

"nothing to do with me mate, send it back !"
"you can't do that, you have to pay the charge !"

yeah, right. exit stage left, and never heard any more about it.

probably went in the bin with any other 'return to sender' mail.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on January 30, 2022, 02:54:50 PM
Quote from: Bob Tidbury on January 30, 2022, 02:19:22 PM
Trainfish .
Are you sure its a genuine Post Office card ?
There is a scam going  around asking to pay  extra postage on line .
Bob Tidbury

Definitely a genuine card as I saw her put it through the letterbox. @class37025 (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=311) will tell you that when my postlady visits you always remember  :heart:

I will go and check some time to see if it has a sender's name on it. I'm in no rush though.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: thebrighton on January 30, 2022, 03:11:51 PM
Quote from: class37025 on January 30, 2022, 02:43:32 PM
there is also the official RM scam where they charge you £8 to do all the work yourself on line to collect a couple of £s as customs duty....

so...
your parcel gets delayed....
YOU have to do all their work to pay a few pounds to HMC&E ...

and RRM charge you £8 for the privilage, as an 'ADMIN CHARGE' for which they do nothing as far as I can see.

Sorry but utter tosh. RM have to have whole departments to deal with imported parcels which they have to pay for themselves. They also handle far more than other carriers as they have the Universal License yet charge less than many of the others.
So they have to pay for dedicated departments and then have to collect the customs charge on behalf of HMRC rather than HMRC doing it themselves. Oh, and to speed up the process for the customer RM pay the HMRC in advance of you paying so the parcel is released more quickly and then, of course, lose money when the customer decides not to pay.
Have a read here as to the process so you can have some facts before ranting: https://personal.help.royalmail.com/app/answers/detail/a_id/7208/~/help-with-paying-customs-fees#:~:text=For%20items%20sent%20through%20the,item%20as%20quickly%20as%20possible.&text=This%20shows%20how%20much%20you,our%20%C2%A38%20handling%20fee.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on January 30, 2022, 03:42:37 PM
 :-[ :sorrysign:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 30, 2022, 10:07:21 PM
Meanwhile, back on the subject of screws............
Sadly my supply of 200 x 2.5mm x 12mm pozi screws is fast running out. The ones I have were bought from B & Q a couple of years back and the reference is 'Rapidrive' with a label stating 'Code: AVF-857669.
There is no manufacturer shown on the box - just 'specially made for B & Q'
I've searched the net and the only source found is Amazon but they are cheap looking zinc thingies which include a drill bit (no bad thing)
It seems no one stocks such a thing anymore. I've checked B & Q, Screwfix and Toolstation but they all start at 3mm
I've found these screws incredibly useful in holding code 55 track in place while I work on relaying the layout and also in fixing Seep point motors to 15mm stripwood.
Total shot in the dark but should anyone see any residual packs in B & Q please buy them for me and I'll pay gladly.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: crewearpley40 on January 30, 2022, 10:16:51 PM
Mick @Newportnobby (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264) have you tried screwfix and  https://www.accu.co.uk/en/plastite-45-pozi-pan-head-screws/24138-SPP45-2-5-12-A2?post=1 (https://www.accu.co.uk/en/plastite-45-pozi-pan-head-screws/24138-SPP45-2-5-12-A2?post=1)       and DIY.com ?    I  can ask in my local DIY store, I know the manager well. Also https://www.amazon.co.uk/2-5mm-Small-Steel-Countersunk-Screws/dp/B07T91F2N3/ref=asc_df_B07T91F2N3/?tag=googshopuk-21&linkCode=df0&hvadid=280289510317&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=14639915808122318205&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=m&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=1007177&hvtargid=pla-778515275469&psc=1 (https://www.amazon.co.uk/2-5mm-Small-Steel-Countersunk-Screws/dp/B07T91F2N3/ref=asc_df_B07T91F2N3/?tag=googshopuk-21&linkCode=df0&hvadid=280289510317&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=14639915808122318205&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=m&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=1007177&hvtargid=pla-778515275469&psc=1)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on January 30, 2022, 10:19:06 PM
Any good? (https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/124888496912?hash=item1d13ef3b10:g:e-IAAOSwKodhMovl) I don't know the manager at all  :*(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: crewearpley40 on January 30, 2022, 10:24:00 PM
It's like an aladdins cave, all I have to ask is what I'm wishing to buy and he is very helpful and I can see what I can gain and buy. That's another option https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/124888496912 (https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/124888496912)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 30, 2022, 10:47:02 PM
Thanks for the replies. I should have stated countersunk is what I'm after not panhead.
@crewearpley40 (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=3894) Chris - Diy.com is B & Q
The Amazon link looks promising if I get desperate.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Yet_Another on January 30, 2022, 10:49:31 PM
https://www.wickes.co.uk/Spax-Pz-Countersunk-Yellox-Screws---2-5x12mm-Pack-Of-100/p/225959?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&adpos=&scid=scplp225959&sc_intid=225959&gclid=Cj0KCQiAi9mPBhCJARIsAHchl1wt1mlB5EVKyHEg4DjhEScHik6j6yK00D9skTTDmC0vny2SqdleU1MaAkQMEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds (https://www.wickes.co.uk/Spax-Pz-Countersunk-Yellox-Screws---2-5x12mm-Pack-Of-100/p/225959?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&adpos=&scid=scplp225959&sc_intid=225959&gclid=Cj0KCQiAi9mPBhCJARIsAHchl1wt1mlB5EVKyHEg4DjhEScHik6j6yK00D9skTTDmC0vny2SqdleU1MaAkQMEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds)

Six in stock in the Preston branch, apparently.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 31, 2022, 09:41:41 AM
Quote from: Yet_Another on January 30, 2022, 10:49:31 PM
Six in stock in the Preston branch, apparently.

Make that 4. 2 packs click and collect :D  :thankyousign:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: crewearpley40 on January 31, 2022, 04:35:53 PM
Hope you have found those countersunk  screws Mick @Newportnobby (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264) , sorry had an early start at work so needed my sleep. I was hoping countersunk was what you needed and I knew DIY.com was b and q. Twas just a thought. No pins or nailing today as knackered and up since 5 am at work ugh
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on February 02, 2022, 03:39:19 PM
Quote from: crewearpley40 on January 31, 2022, 04:35:53 PM
Hope you have found those countersunk  screws Mick

See my post preceding yours, Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on February 03, 2022, 12:40:38 AM
Quote from: Trainfish on January 30, 2022, 01:21:18 PM
Not hugely unhappy but a little annoyed with the Post Office. They put a card through the door on Friday to say I have a small package  :goggleeyes: and the sender has underpaid the postage. Not a huge problem except that I now have to go to the delivery office, pay 80p to park to collect it and then £1.50 to retrieve it. It may be that I don't want it but I don't know that until I see where it has come from. Why can't they put something on the card they left to say where it is from. And another thing, they say they will keep it for I think 18 days or something and then send it back to the sender. If they're happy to incur their own costs to do that then on a small value item why does it cost me £1.50 to retrieve it when I'm saving them the cost of returning it? I don't even know what it is, where it's from or if I even want it  :hmmm:

An update to this. I went to the delivery office and asked to see this small package. It turns out it is an A5 sized envelope which won't fit through their 5mm 'letterbox' and only had a 1st class stamp on it. I asked how much it should cost to send it. I was told £1.29. How come then I asked you want to charge me £1.50. It's the rules etc etc was the response. So I asked what would happen to it if I didn't pay. They told me they would return it to the sender at no cost to them. The sender could then put the correct postage on and send it again  :hmmm:
So, they will now send it back at their cost and the sender will pay £1.29 to send it to me if they so choose. Whereas they could have asked for £1.29 from me and saved themselves the hassle of sending it 2 ways. Am I missing something here or does this not make sense?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on February 03, 2022, 09:39:12 AM
Quote from: Trainfish on February 03, 2022, 12:40:38 AM
Am I missing something here or does this not make sense?

In this day and age it is pointless to think sense comes into anything.
In the name of 'progress' all sense went down the toilet ::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: thebrighton on February 03, 2022, 10:24:23 AM
Quote from: Trainfish on February 03, 2022, 12:40:38 AM

An update to this. I went to the delivery office and asked to see this small package. It turns out it is an A5 sized envelope which won't fit through their 5mm 'letterbox' and only had a 1st class stamp on it. I asked how much it should cost to send it. I was told £1.29. How come then I asked you want to charge me £1.50. It's the rules etc etc was the response. So I asked what would happen to it if I didn't pay. They told me they would return it to the sender at no cost to them. The sender could then put the correct postage on and send it again  :hmmm:
So, they will now send it back at their cost and the sender will pay £1.29 to send it to me if they so choose. Whereas they could have asked for £1.29 from me and saved themselves the hassle of sending it 2 ways. Am I missing something here or does this not make sense?

This is a tricky one as where do you draw the line? During your parcels journey it has to be checked to ensure it has the correct postage, a system that costs and requires a docket to be drawn up and delivered to you. RM are a business and someone has to pay for it. Sometimes the sender isn't known but RM could just return all items straight back to the sender but that would delay you receiving it even more. If some business's knew they could just underpay and there was no penalty anywhere more would do it. As it is the recipient will normally get on the phone to the sender to get their money back but I do agree it is a bizarre process.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jack on February 03, 2022, 10:28:57 AM
Quote from: Trainfish on February 03, 2022, 12:40:38 AM
Am I missing something here or does this not make sense?

I'm beginning to think that "common sense" went the way of "military intelligence", into an oxymoron...   :worried: :( 
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on February 03, 2022, 10:37:03 AM
Quote from: Trainfish on February 03, 2022, 12:40:38 AM
So, they will now send it back at their cost and the sender will pay £1.29 to send it to me if they so choose. Whereas they could have asked for £1.29 from me and saved themselves the hassle of sending it 2 ways. Am I missing something here or does this not make sense?

I understand  ;) the ERNIE people send out the £1,000,000 Premium Bond Monthly Prize in an unprepossessing A5 envelope these days. If it's returned to sender unopened it gets sent out again to the next person on their prizes list, which I think might be me! :claphappy:

:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on February 04, 2022, 12:27:03 AM
Quote from: thebrighton on February 03, 2022, 10:24:23 AM

This is a tricky one as where do you draw the line? During your parcels journey it has to be checked to ensure it has the correct postage, a system that costs and requires a docket to be drawn up and delivered to you. RM are a business and someone has to pay for it. Sometimes the sender isn't known but RM could just return all items straight back to the sender but that would delay you receiving it even more. If some business's knew they could just underpay and there was no penalty anywhere more would do it. As it is the recipient will normally get on the phone to the sender to get their money back but I do agree it is a bizarre process.

I agree to an extent but why couldn't they ask me for the £1.29 which it would cost the sender rather than incur costs themselves in sending it back etc? If they had done that I would have probably paid it.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on February 13, 2022, 09:35:42 PM
Why don't cafés and restaurants sell proper coffee any more?

Until a few years ago, if you asked for a coffee you would be asked "Milk or cream, sir?" I like my coffee with a dash of cream, but if I ask for that now all I get is a blank look. Instead, you now have to make a choice from a list of American-style brews with pseudo-Italian names, which mostly seem to consist of a mug of frothy milk with a dash of coffee added to give it a bit of flavour. And why would you want to put flavoured syrup in it? That's not coffee!  :veryangry: The final straw came last week when a café in town was advertising 'spiced pumpkin latte'!  :sick2: :sick:

Why isn't there a coffee equivalent of Camra?

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on February 13, 2022, 09:54:46 PM
Last time I was in M & S (admittedly pre Covid) you could still request, and get, cream for filter coffee. Now you're lucky to be asked if you want hot or cold milk. Being a coffeeholic, on the rare occasions I venture out I do appreciate a decent cup, especially as heart issues means I drink 100% decaff at home.
Sadly now they're just of bunch of baristas ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on February 13, 2022, 11:35:14 PM
A bunch of what?

Oh.... baristas  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on February 14, 2022, 01:13:31 AM
Quote from: Papyrus on February 13, 2022, 09:35:42 PM

Why isn't there a coffee equivalent of Camra?

Cheers,

Chris

There is here (https://www.facebook.com/thecampaignforrealcoffee/) on Fakebook  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on February 16, 2022, 03:09:00 PM
Ah, well, I don't subscribe to Faceache, which explains why I haven't seen it.

I think you are right about M&S, Mick. Our nearest one is in Crawley (12 miles, but we avoid Crawley like the plague) or Brighton (20 miles), but we haven't been in either for months.

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on February 23, 2022, 08:51:15 PM
I have today had to have the newest member of our household put to sleep. The fuller story can be seen here -

https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?topic=55746.msg751153#msg751153 (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?topic=55746.msg751153#msg751153)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on February 23, 2022, 08:58:10 PM
so sorry to read your post. take care. alan
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Webbo on February 24, 2022, 07:29:26 AM
Hi David

My condolences for the loss of your little cat. I know very well how distressing it is to lose a pet cat or dog. There lives are too short!

Best wishes
Webbo
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: NinOz on March 02, 2022, 02:24:48 AM
Wow, the local south east Queensland flooding sure is having an impact.  Worst I have seen since 1974.  Main roads cut all over the place in SE QLD and Northern NSW as the rain depression moves south.
The local Coles supermarket is practically bare.  No fruit, half a dozen potatoes, no fresh vegetables beside some cauliflower, very little milk and eggs.
Canned and bottled food are diminishing.  Plenty of meat though.
A massive distribution centre for Coles is only about 1km away in a non-flooded area so it must be emptying also.
Northern NSW is a mess.

Good luck to Sydney. :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on March 02, 2022, 02:33:28 AM
Yes, we've been seeing it here on the news. I was married in Casino and know the Lismore area very well. It is indeed a mess.

At the moment here in Wollongong, it's not even raining, but it rained heavily through the night, and some parts of the Illawarra have had roads closed.

My sympathies to all in the north. Houses underwater up to the roof! And most of those are built on stilts!

Good luck!  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on March 02, 2022, 02:39:54 AM
Just watching some guy on the news, rescued 40 people in his little tin fishing boat. But the death toll appears to be mounting.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on March 06, 2022, 06:46:23 AM
Not out of it yet.... creek alongside Chez Bealman this afternoon

(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/120/255-060322064313-120243713.jpeg)

(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/120/255-060322064925-120251196.jpeg)

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Graham on March 06, 2022, 07:28:15 AM
how far is that from your fenceline? that would worry me, if it is anything like my local creek which goes from a gentle trickle to raging torrent after a downpour.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on March 06, 2022, 08:19:08 AM
A couple of metres. But all is usually OK. The creek came up in three minutes, but when the rain stops, it drains quickly.

I just wish the council would clear the bloody thing out once every 20 years  :worried:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on March 06, 2022, 09:48:54 AM
Quote from: Bealman on March 06, 2022, 08:19:08 AM
A couple of metres. But all is usually OK. The creek came up in three minutes, but when the rain stops, it drains quickly.

I just wish the council would clear the bloody thing out once every 20 years  :worried:

You can't rely on councils to do their job, howabout getting some neighbours to help and DIY.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on March 06, 2022, 09:57:33 AM
Several reasons why that is not feasible.

That creek is the bottom end of an escarpment where the water comes from.

It is a hell of a lot to clear away. It couldn't be done by hand even with an army of neighbors.

It will take an excavator.

Add to that, I'm not as spritely as I once was, and I ain't gonna do the councils job for them
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest311 on March 07, 2022, 12:05:28 PM
it's been one of those days ....

walking HB up though the woods and a squirrel took off from the brambles on the right, across the path in front of us, and up a tree.

result, I'm on the ground, HB is trying to climb the tree, ....

at home I get one of those annoying 'SMS?' phone calls, which I know is going to be some  :censored: trying to con me.....

and then I check the post, and HMRC [otherwise known as Her Majesty's Robbing  :censored:] have sent me my tax codes for the year, gloating no doubt on how much of my pensions, which I worked for all my life from 16 to 68, they are managing to screw out of me.......

I wish I hadn't woken up this morning......

and don't even start me on the fact that when, for the first time in years, the month used to calculate pension increases for the following year actually meant a decent increase, the goalposts were moved so we once again got sod all. :veryangry: :veryangry: :veryangry: :veryangry:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on March 07, 2022, 05:25:38 PM
Grrrr. I spent a load of money that I shouldn't have at the Preston Show on Saturday.

Then, on Saturday night, our cat was limping badly. We hung on 'til Sunday morning and he was still not using his left-front paw at all, so off to the emergency vet, at extortionate cost ... only for him to walk around on all fours and have no sign of any problem when we got there!

Today I have been WFH, only to have my work (and pay) interrupted by me having to deal with the truck driver, then his company and our insurance company, as a passing truck removed the rear bumper from my wife's parked car.

On top of that, my wife is now at the dentist for a crown.

My wallet is crying :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on March 07, 2022, 10:42:07 PM
Quote from: stevewalker on March 07, 2022, 05:25:38 PM

On top of that, my wife is now at the dentist for a crown.

My wallet is crying :(

Sell the crown and your wallet will soon cheer up  :thumbsup:

(https://content.api.news/v3/images/bin/d442e4a22842c02af39f9562f5e17e28)

I'm full of bright ideas. One day I may let one of them out  :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on March 08, 2022, 08:17:39 AM
Please allow me time to don my HazMat suit :worried:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on March 16, 2022, 11:30:42 AM
Day 4 of Covid infection isolation

Run out of marmalade...

...all hope is lost.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: tutenkhamunsleeping on March 16, 2022, 11:34:51 AM
Quote from: emjaybee on March 16, 2022, 11:30:42 AM
Run out of marmalade...

In emergencies, Rowntree's Orange Jelly mixed with wood shavings can see you through ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on March 16, 2022, 11:37:53 AM
Or Marmite, sprinkled with sugar ?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on March 16, 2022, 12:14:24 PM
Quote from: joe cassidy on March 16, 2022, 11:37:53 AM
Or Marmite, sprinkled with sugar ?

:sick:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on April 02, 2022, 12:09:30 PM
I seem to be going through one of my phases of Incredible Stupidity.

I've put in a bid for a loco on eBay. It wasn't till after I'd done it that I realised it was an unpowered dummy. I can only hope that I am outbid by somebody even stupider than I am. I am also going to write out 100 times "I will read all eBay descriptions thoroughly."

Drat and double drat.

:dunce: :dunce: :dunce: :dunce: :dunce: :dunce: :dunce: :dunce: :dunce: :dunce: :dunce:

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on April 02, 2022, 12:15:59 PM
A bid can be retracted under certain circumstances Chris. I forget exactly how it is done, but have a look at the ebay Help pages. I seem to recall getting the seller to cancel my bid once when I did something similar, (incredibly stupid I know  ;)).

Addit: Have a look here -
https://www.ebay.co.uk/help/buying/bidding/retracting-bid?id=4013&st=3&pos=1&query=Retracting%20a%20bid&intent=retract%20a%20bid&context=9010_BUYER&lucenceai=lucenceai&docId=HELP1021 (https://www.ebay.co.uk/help/buying/bidding/retracting-bid?id=4013&st=3&pos=1&query=Retracting%20a%20bid&intent=retract%20a%20bid&context=9010_BUYER&lucenceai=lucenceai&docId=HELP1021)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on April 02, 2022, 12:26:39 PM
@dannyboy (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=4209) Thanks, David, I didn't know you could do that. If you weren't so far away I would hug and kiss you...

I have, I hope, successfully retracted the bid. I'm putting it down to today's learning experience.

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on April 02, 2022, 12:37:56 PM
Quote from: Papyrus on April 02, 2022, 12:26:39 PM
If you weren't so far away I would hug and kiss you...


Err ............. 'thank you' will do!  ;D.

Talking of 'incredibly stupid', my brother got me into online betting with Ladbrokes a few months ago. Long story short, I deposited €20 and I am still playing with their money. However, one day last week, I put a total of 40 cent on a double. It was not until I was checking my balance a bit later, that I realised there was a chunk of money missing. When I looked at the bets placed, I saw that my 40 cent bet was actually €40, the '.' had obviously not registered - and it did not win!  :doh:. Fortunately, as I said, it was their money I 'lost', so not much of a disaster. Moral of the story, as in your case, read everything, (preferably twice), before hitting that 'Enter' button.  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 06, 2022, 12:29:11 PM
Just before April 1st I received a letter from my works pension provider stating in a recent review they'd discovered several folks had been overpaid and I was one of them. They stated this was not legal so would have to be addressed but wouldn't know the outcome until the end of May.
So I phoned them.
"Do you know how long this has been going on for?"......................"No"
"Do you know the amount involved?"......................."No"
"So basically I have to worry about this for another 2 months before you can tell me anything?"....."Yes. I'm sorry"
Having been paid a pension since April 2007 I've no idea how much this is going to cost or how often they review these things. At the moment I'm not using the 'Angry' thread but we'll see what transpires.
It does seem like the Inland Revenue, though. You mess it up, you pay. We mess it up, you pay ::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on April 06, 2022, 12:51:45 PM
 Not a good way for them to deal with it Mick, with so many 'unknowns' for you.

One crumb of comfort may be from a line I've seen in a number of pension advice websites (they all seem to be quoting the same thing):

"It's usually reasonable to allow you to repay an overpayment over the same period it was paid. For example, if you've been overpaid for two years, you should be allowed two years to repay."

Here's hoping it was a small overpayment, and it was over many, many years!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 06, 2022, 09:22:13 PM
I guess the only silver lining in this cloud is that if I've been overpaid pension wise then I've overpaid tax wise so should get a rebate, although who is going to work all this out is beyond me.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 08, 2022, 06:31:40 PM
Sad news this morning in that my 89 year old mother had a fall and, from what I am now told, has fractured her right hip :( At 08.30 this morning she was putting a sweater on her hall radiator when she tripped and had to drag herself into the lounge to get to her phone. When she did get through to 999 she was told the ambulance could take up to 11½ hours to reach her. She called my eldest sister who then called me, and we got there and made her as comfortable as possible without physically moving her. So she remained prone in the lounge doorway until an ambulance did arrive at 14.00. Two hulking Irish paramedics got her onto a stretcher and thence a trolley and they were great. Wicked humour which alternatively had Mum laughing then moaning in pain and gentle as could be. I admit to being surprised when they asked me where the nearest hospital was but it turned out they'd come from Blackpool, and that Blackpool was covering the whole of the North west, hence the long estimate time. Bear in mind please Chorley Hospital is just 5 miles down the road.
It's pointless me putting this in the Angry Thread as we all know the state of the NHS at present but, should I meet the Health Secretary, I'd have more than a few choice words for them
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on April 08, 2022, 06:57:13 PM
Sorry to hear about your Mum Mick, hopefully she will be okay. Even though we do not know her, apart from your previous comments, you can tell her that she has a lot of friends on the forum wishing her well. As regards the rest of your post, (apart from the paramedics), absolutely  :censored: ridiculous - and that is putting it mildly!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 08, 2022, 07:00:41 PM
Thanks, David. I moved what furniture I needed to allow the trolley to be brought in but when I saw the size of the two blokes I had to move more!! Big beggars, they were :goggleeyes:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: crewearpley40 on April 08, 2022, 07:01:04 PM
We're all thinking of your mum Mick. Hope she receives the best treatment and makes a speedy recovery.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 08, 2022, 07:12:19 PM
Mum is being transferred to Preston hospital tonight but this shambles is what she's heading into :worried:

https://www.lep.co.uk/health/ae-staff-at-royal-preston-hospital-left-crying-with-frustration-as-patients-die-without-dignity-in-crowded-waiting-rooms-3639916 (https://www.lep.co.uk/health/ae-staff-at-royal-preston-hospital-left-crying-with-frustration-as-patients-die-without-dignity-in-crowded-waiting-rooms-3639916)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Nbodger on April 08, 2022, 07:16:07 PM
Sorry to hear about your mum Mick, hope she makes a good recovery, take care and look after yourself, she will need you when they discharge her.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 08, 2022, 07:20:29 PM
From where she fell, I can only surmise she tripped somehow on her slippers. I know a few folks who have had accidents down to slippers and wonder what sort of percentage such falls make up of the total. The clue might be in the name. I do struggle with my own at times but then again my clothes try to kill me every morning and night :uneasy:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: daffy on April 08, 2022, 11:07:36 PM
Very sad to hear this Mick. Strength to you and best wishes for your Mum for a speedy recovery.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on April 09, 2022, 12:05:35 AM
My grandmother broke her hip when she was 93. She was soon up and about after surgery. So all the best to your mother.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 10, 2022, 10:01:09 AM
An update for anyone interested.........
Mum was due an op Saturday but it got bumped to today. Now they've decided to do an echogram but they don't do those on Sundays so echogram tomorrow then op to be decided on.
Visiting is limited to 1 person between 1pm and 3pm but only for 1 hour max, so my eldest sis and self can't go together. It also means everyone visiting will be funnelled into a 2 hour time gap and parking at Preston was a nightmare at the best of times ::)
I am, however, happy she's getting an echogram as she's been waiting on Chorley hospital for months for one. There has to be a silver lining in this cloud but a shame it took something drastic to get this test.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on April 10, 2022, 10:13:23 AM
Sounds like a horrible long hospital waiting game.

Best of luck with this, Mick. Good luck! Neither of us are strangers to surgery, and if it cheers you up, I had to laugh about the battle with your clothes, I have the same problem with me socks  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: paulbeckwith on April 10, 2022, 10:44:16 AM

hi  mick

we  are  all  interested  on  peoples  problems ,...  you  know  we  are  a  noisy  lot   ...   hope  for  a  speedy  result  for  your  mum

  paul
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Crash-Box on April 10, 2022, 10:49:02 AM
I know the NHS do their best and glad of it, but hospitals are a pain at the moment mainly due to Covid precautions. I've had to go to ours more than I would have liked recently. One occasion recently when the weather was at it's most severe, my wife was feeling unwell so 'phoned 111 at 8.30 pm who said a doctor would ring back. At 4.00 am next morning one did and said she should go to A and E straight away. I took her, was there before 5, a big waiting area with only one other couple but they wouldn't let me stay with her, said I'd have to wait in the car. it was dark, pouring, blowing a hooley and freezing. I could see her through the glass, when nothing had happened after over a hour, I texted her and told her I'd go home, give me a ring. It was another couple of hours before I got the call (fortunately to fetch her home).
Then a couple of weeks ago I had an appointment for a ten minute procedure at the same hospital. Three days before I had to drive the 16 miles each way for a 30-second drive through covid test and then isolate until the treatment. Despite having lateral flow test kits here and having tested negative only a few days before on the ongoing ONS random test scheme - what happened to "living with covid"?
(No complaints about the treatment or the people doing it BTW, or our GP practice which is superb.)
Bernard

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 10, 2022, 10:49:58 AM
Quote from: Bealman on April 10, 2022, 10:13:23 AM
if it cheers you up, I had to laugh about the battle with your clothes, I have the same problem with me socks  :beers:

Yeah - this getting old malarkey really sucks >:(
My main issue is my balance is shot so standing on one leg is not easy (but storks make it look so). Thus socks, underdungees and jeans etc all plot to make me dive headlong into the wall, bedside table etc :ouch:
I'm not too proud to sit on my bed and don/remove socks but do try to stand for everything else and that could be the source of my danger :uneasy:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on April 10, 2022, 11:05:14 AM
I too have problems balancing (especially when I've had a couple or three) but find that I can put my socks on ok if I have one foot on the floor and one on the foot of the bed, but  SWMBO always has to  come to me to put her socks on.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: tutenkhamunsleeping on April 10, 2022, 11:20:54 AM
Quote from: steve836 on April 10, 2022, 11:05:14 AM
but find that I can put my socks on ok if I have one foot on the floor and one on the foot of the bed

I tried that once, but being in the top bunk was never going to be a good starting point :no:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 10, 2022, 11:53:46 AM
Quote from: tutenkhamunsleeping on April 10, 2022, 11:20:54 AM
Quote from: steve836 on April 10, 2022, 11:05:14 AM
but find that I can put my socks on ok if I have one foot on the floor and one on the foot of the bed

I tried that once, but being in the top bunk was never going to be a good starting point :no:

:laughabovepost: :laughabovepost: :smiley-laughing:
Oh Lordy. Thanks, Steve. That's just made my day (and caused a small escape of wee) :-[
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on April 10, 2022, 01:12:15 PM
I've only just caught up with your latest saga, Mick. Sorry to hear your troubles, and I hope your Mum is up and about again soon. My Mum did a similar thing some years ago - lost her balance and fell over on to our Christmas tree and broke her hip. Her 90th birthday it was, too. Brighton A&E were brilliant - patched her up and she lived another 6 years. That generation were a sturdy lot.

All the best,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Graham on April 10, 2022, 11:20:57 PM

[/quote]

Yeah - this getting old malarkey really sucks >:(
[/quote]
As my better half always says getting old is not for the youngsters as they couldn't handle it.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: thebrighton on April 11, 2022, 04:41:18 PM
Quote from: Redcap244 on April 11, 2022, 04:37:47 PM
why is it that this forum seems to be 'page unresponsive' so much of the time.

looks like a waste of time joining.
I've been on here numerous times a day for years and have never had 'page unresponsive' come up. How about asking if there is a problem rather than your first post saying the forum is a waste of time?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: woodbury22uk on April 11, 2022, 04:50:17 PM
@Redcap244 (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=10040) I have been on the site on three different devices through 3 different wi-fi and phone links without a single issue at all. Are you sure the problem is not with your device or internet service? Seems odd that you should have a problem when the site seems to be working well for me. Must be my Magic Mike powers. :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on April 11, 2022, 05:24:33 PM
@Redcap244 (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=10040) I'm looking at the Forum on Samsung tablet, phone and a laptop, never had that message.

I suspect a problem with your comms, rather than the Forum.

Let's hope you can sort it out.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on April 11, 2022, 05:36:20 PM
I seldom have a problem getting on, so must be at your end not the forum.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: crewearpley40 on April 11, 2022, 05:49:43 PM
I'm on my phone. No problems here.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on April 11, 2022, 06:40:02 PM
I've never ever had that message.
Maybe the problem is at your end so perhaps check that in the first instance.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on April 11, 2022, 06:53:32 PM
@Redcap244 (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=10040)

I live in a very rural part of Ireland and, whilst I do occasionally get that message, it is extremely rare. And if I get that sort of message in relation to the forum, I know it is because I am not on 4G - more like 1G  and other sites have difficulty in loading, if at all :). Somebody mentioned a while back that there was something called 5G  ??? Wonder when that will get here.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 12, 2022, 11:12:31 AM
Mum's hip operation keeps being bumped - Sat>Sun>Mon>today............maybe.

In the meantime youngest niece was due to head for Bristol last night for her Covid delayed Graduation Day but yesterday tested positive. Poor kid :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: PaulCheffus on April 12, 2022, 11:58:04 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on April 12, 2022, 11:12:31 AM
In the meantime youngest niece was due to head for Bristol last night for her Covid delayed Graduation Day but yesterday tested positive. Poor kid :(

Hi

That is sad as the graduation day for me was the best part. I also gave the student speech at my most recent one in 2017.

Cheers

Paul
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on April 13, 2022, 01:30:54 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on April 12, 2022, 11:12:31 AM
Mum's hip operation keeps being bumped - Sat>Sun>Mon>today............maybe.

In the meantime youngest niece was due to head for Bristol last night for her Covid delayed Graduation Day but yesterday tested positive. Poor kid :(

Bummer on both counts.  :thumbsdown:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on April 13, 2022, 09:08:38 AM
Quote from: dannyboy on April 11, 2022, 06:53:32 PM
@Redcap244 (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=10040)

I live in a very rural part of Ireland and, whilst I do occasionally get that message, it is extremely rare. And if I get that sort of message in relation to the forum, I know it is because I am not on 4G - more like 1G  and other sites have difficulty in loading, if at all :). Somebody mentioned a while back that there was something called 5G  ??? Wonder when that will get here.
Here  in Coastal Norfolk we only get 1g if we stand upstairs in the  bathroom facing the right way. The amazon tracker of deliveries, stops when the van goes to the estate lower down from us about a mile to the north..
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on April 13, 2022, 10:49:47 AM
This should really be in the 'Happy Thread', but in view of the current posts, I thought I would put it here. Yesterday I was in contact with my Broadband provider, 'Three', who said that, as there was still no date for 5G getting to my area, if I agreed to stay with them for another six months, I could have one month free of charge. I thought about it, (for about five seconds), and said "Yes please".  :) . The six months contract is no problem, as none of the other broadband providers are any better, so I might as well have one month free.  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on April 13, 2022, 10:52:25 AM
Quote from: The Q on April 13, 2022, 09:08:38 AM
we only get 1g if we stand upstairs in the  bathroom facing the right way.

Do you get puddles if you face the wrong way?  :-X
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on April 13, 2022, 11:48:20 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on April 13, 2022, 10:49:47 AM
..................... if I agreed to stay with them for another six months, I could have one month free of charge.

Did you get to pick which month is free?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on April 14, 2022, 08:42:52 AM
Quote from: Trainfish on April 13, 2022, 11:48:20 PM

Did you get to pick which month is free?

I have chosen 7 days in May, 4 in June, 5 in July .............  ;). The free month is the next one due, so that will be May, which will give me more spending money for my trip back home.  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on April 14, 2022, 05:53:47 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on April 13, 2022, 10:52:25 AM
Quote from: The Q on April 13, 2022, 09:08:38 AM
we only get 1g if we stand upstairs in the  bathroom facing the right way.

Do you get puddles if you face the wrong way?  :-X
Not if I've pulled the plug out of the bath...
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest10040 on April 16, 2022, 07:12:40 PM
why is it that if you go on the Mcdonalds website, they can give you all the sites, all the menus, but no prices ?

is it so they can con you when you get there ?

surely a happy meal [for the grandson] should be the same wherever you are, or do they add bits on depending where you are ?

off to KFC, who actually will tell me how much it will cost.

grandson will I'm sure eat it, but McD can get  :censored:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: woodbury22uk on April 16, 2022, 07:22:33 PM
Quote from: Redcap244 on April 16, 2022, 07:12:40 PM
why is it that if you go on the Mcdonalds website, they can give you all the sites, all the menus, but no prices ?

is it so they can con you when you get there ?

surely a happy meal [for the grandson] should be the same wherever you are, or do they add bits on depending where you are ?

off to KFC, who actually will tell me how much it will cost.

grandson will I'm sure eat it, but McD can get  :censored:

Like most national companies in the leisure/food market, they selectively price according to location. Once they know the location you will be at, they can price what you want. KFC, Wetherspoons, Burger King, Greggs,  etc all do the same, as do cinemas and similar businesses.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on April 17, 2022, 07:34:45 AM
Yep MK used to belong to Sainsbury's, three of them, none of the other big supermarket chains.
The day Tesco's opened in MK Sainsbury's dropped the price of a bag of sugar by 30p, it and a lot of other prices dropped and stayed down.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 17, 2022, 09:49:05 AM
Now if only someone could cause the same effect on Farish................................. :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TrevL on April 18, 2022, 03:21:21 PM
Last Tuesday (12/04) I had full fibre fitted.  I didn't particularly want it, but my ISP was offering it at no cost increase so why not?  When I was getting broadband through the telephone wire, I was getting never less than 60Mbps at any time.  Since this so called upgrade, when it's working I get upto 75Mbps, but it is nowhere near as reliable. It sometime starts buffering, or dropping out completely, on quite a few occasions I can't even do a speed test 'cos it won't connect.  So much fror progress :(
Edit:  Mods, if this belongs in the computer sub forum, please feel free to move it there.
Title: Not sure if I'm angry or unhappy
Post by: geofff on April 23, 2022, 11:58:51 AM
For my 50th wedding anniversary my wife bought me a 2 car chocolate and cream Pullman, EMU. It ran really well up to Xmas when it started to stutter and resist first radius curves.

I contacted both the manufacturer and the retailer – the retailer broke the world record in the time he took to refuse any help. I then used the web contact form to contact the manufacturer. I received an instant acknowledgement of the contact form.

Between then and the beginning of April 2022 I spoke to the UK division on four occasions and was told each time that I need to wait as the European division need to contact me to resolve the problem. They never offered to put me through to the European division.

At the beginning of April 2022 I eventually received an e-mail from the European division asking me what the problem is with the model. I replied and they then said that it is a retailer's problem. I told the European division that the retailer refused to help.

Last week I had a very helpful e-mail from the European General Manager stating that he would arrange for the UK division to collect the model and investigate the problem.

The UK division contacted me and said that they would replace the model and arranged for a courier to collect the item from my home address. A few more administrative issues, but the courier collected the model and it was on its way.

I phoned the UK division on Wednesday to determine when I would receive the new model, only to be told that the couriers have lost it the item that I returned.

I have now been informed that another model is on its way and the couriers informed me that the model would arrive on 22nd April 2022 – yesterday. The courier website states that the item has yet to be collected from the UK division.

What else can go wrong?


Title: Re: Not sure if I'm angry or unhappy
Post by: Trainfish on April 23, 2022, 12:18:00 PM
Quote from: geofff on April 23, 2022, 11:58:51 AM
What else can go wrong?

They could send you a blue/grey version?  :doh:
Title: Re: Not sure if I'm angry or unhappy
Post by: Jon898 on April 23, 2022, 01:11:30 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on April 23, 2022, 12:18:00 PM
Quote from: geofff on April 23, 2022, 11:58:51 AM
What else can go wrong?

They could send you a blue/grey version?  :doh:

In OO not N...
Title: Re: Not sure if I'm angry or unhappy
Post by: geofff on April 26, 2022, 06:52:49 PM
Quote from: Jon898 on April 23, 2022, 01:11:30 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on April 23, 2022, 12:18:00 PM
Quote from: geofff on April 23, 2022, 11:58:51 AM
What else can go wrong?

They could send you a blue/grey version?  :doh:

In OO not N...

No - a HO TGV train set sent by special delivery.
Title: Re: Not sure if I'm angry or unhappy
Post by: dannyboy on April 26, 2022, 07:59:17 PM
Quote from: geofff on April 26, 2022, 06:52:49 PM
Quote from: Jon898 on April 23, 2022, 01:11:30 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on April 23, 2022, 12:18:00 PM
Quote from: geofff on April 23, 2022, 11:58:51 AM
What else can go wrong?

They could send you a blue/grey version?  :doh:

In OO not N...

No - a HO TGV train set sent by special delivery.

Delivered by Hermes - to your bin.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on April 26, 2022, 10:52:08 PM
And photographed by Hermes too. Only it's not your bin, it's somebody else's  :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest10040 on April 27, 2022, 09:36:55 AM
I gather that Herpes have rebranded themselves as Evri

as in evri parcel lost, delayed, misdelivered or damaged  :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on April 27, 2022, 12:18:28 PM
Could be a whole lot worse.................

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3328577/Overly-enthusiastic-delivery-man-surprises-customer-leaving-parcel-waiting-ROOF.html (https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3328577/Overly-enthusiastic-delivery-man-surprises-customer-leaving-parcel-waiting-ROOF.html)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Graham on May 06, 2022, 12:14:16 AM
still waiting for notification my 320's have been despatched, the team at Revolution must be having real trouble sending to Aus at the moment.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on May 08, 2022, 12:31:11 AM
After many years of good service, my satnav is getting past it. The holder falls off the windscreen, the microphone cable (for hands-free phone access) is fraying, the suckers for the cable are useless and the memory is too small to fully install the up to date maps. I don't want to use my phone, as I don't always carry it or the battery can be low, but a proper satnav can be kept in the car and always available.

I am not looking at the cheap end of the market - the old one over £400, but lasted about 14 years.

I have £97.50 of Tesco vouchers to put towards a new one ... but Tesco have recently stopped selling them! :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 08, 2022, 10:02:29 AM
I bought my Siesta 7 years ago with a built in jobbie (optional extra). I guess the maps were out of date within a couple of years
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on May 08, 2022, 10:04:22 AM
I think you will find that dedicated satnavs are going the way of betamax etc. I never used one until recently and now use google maps on my phone. I know you say that you don't always carry your phone, but how about keeping a spare in the car mainly for use as a satnav, but would give friends and family a way to get hold of you in an emergency. I have a Samsung E20 with an account on 3 costs £22 per month and gives unlimited calls, texts and data.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: njee20 on May 08, 2022, 10:16:00 AM
Have to agree, particularly the 'high end' area of the market, what do you get spending £400 over a base model? I note (because curiosity got the best of me!) that TomTom now only do 3 models. Get a phone charger in the car and start carrying the phone. Never out of date, and saves you £400 (or £395 once you've bought an in-car charger!).
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 08, 2022, 10:21:25 AM
Quote from: stevewalker on May 08, 2022, 12:31:11 AM
I am not looking at the cheap end of the market - the old one over £400, but lasted about 14 years.


Quote from: steve836 on May 08, 2022, 10:04:22 AM
I know you say that you don't always carry your phone, but how about keeping a spare in the car mainly for use as a satnav, but would give friends and family a way to get hold of you in an emergency. I have a Samsung E20 with an account on 3 costs £22 per month and gives unlimited calls, texts and data.

:hmmm: Replacement satnav for £400 or Samsung E20 @ £22 per month over 14 years = £3696.
Bargain!! ;)
(From a smartphone hater)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on May 08, 2022, 10:25:21 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on May 08, 2022, 10:21:25 AM
Quote from: stevewalker on May 08, 2022, 12:31:11 AM
I am not looking at the cheap end of the market - the old one over £400, but lasted about 14 years.


Quote from: steve836 on May 08, 2022, 10:04:22 AM
I know you say that you don't always carry your phone, but how about keeping a spare in the car mainly for use as a satnav, but would give friends and family a way to get hold of you in an emergency. I have a Samsung E20 with an account on 3 costs £22 per month and gives unlimited calls, texts and data.

:hmmm: Replacement satnav for £400 or Samsung E20 @ £22 per month over 14 years = £3696.
Bargain!! ;)
(From a smartphone hater)
The phone cost £100. Even if you bought a satnav you would need to pay out a fee to keep it updated.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on May 08, 2022, 10:35:49 AM
Quote from: steve836 on May 08, 2022, 10:25:21 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on May 08, 2022, 10:21:25 AM
Quote from: stevewalker on May 08, 2022, 12:31:11 AM
I am not looking at the cheap end of the market - the old one over £400, but lasted about 14 years.


Quote from: steve836 on May 08, 2022, 10:04:22 AM
I know you say that you don't always carry your phone, but how about keeping a spare in the car mainly for use as a satnav, but would give friends and family a way to get hold of you in an emergency. I have a Samsung E20 with an account on 3 costs £22 per month and gives unlimited calls, texts and data.

:hmmm: Replacement satnav for £400 or Samsung E20 @ £22 per month over 14 years = £3696.
Bargain!! ;)
(From a smartphone hater)
The phone cost £100. Even if you bought a satnav you would need to pay out a fee to keep it updated.

I already have a smartphone. It's my emails, my internet, my yellow pages, my materials suppliers, and my satnav. As previously mentioned, Google maps is constantly updated, so no need for paid map updates or subscriptions.

From someone who is not a trogal troglody trogod trodilyt smartphone hater.

:-*
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Graham on May 08, 2022, 10:44:28 AM
Just got a notice from Garmin, my lifetime of maps ends next year. Anoying as I had US, UK and Aus/NZ maps on mine for travelling.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on May 08, 2022, 10:56:20 AM
Quote from: Graham on May 08, 2022, 10:44:28 AM
Just got a notice from Garmin, my lifetime of maps ends next year. Anoying as I had US, UK and Aus/NZ maps on mine for travelling.

Cripes! Were you aware your life was ending next year?

:o
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 08, 2022, 11:29:29 AM
Quote from: emjaybee on May 08, 2022, 10:35:49 AM
From someone who is not a trogal troglody trogod trodilyt smartphone hater.

:-*

Luddite is far easier to spell :P
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on May 08, 2022, 12:09:17 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on May 08, 2022, 11:29:29 AM
Quote from: emjaybee on May 08, 2022, 10:35:49 AM
From someone who is not a trogal troglody trogod trodilyt smartphone hater.

:-*

Luddite is far easier to spell :P

THAT's what I was trying to spell!

???
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on May 08, 2022, 01:37:33 PM
Quote from: steve836 on May 08, 2022, 10:25:21 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on May 08, 2022, 10:21:25 AM
Quote from: stevewalker on May 08, 2022, 12:31:11 AM
I am not looking at the cheap end of the market - the old one over £400, but lasted about 14 years.


Quote from: steve836 on May 08, 2022, 10:04:22 AM
I know you say that you don't always carry your phone, but how about keeping a spare in the car mainly for use as a satnav, but would give friends and family a way to get hold of you in an emergency. I have a Samsung E20 with an account on 3 costs £22 per month and gives unlimited calls, texts and data.

:hmmm: Replacement satnav for £400 or Samsung E20 @ £22 per month over 14 years = £3696.
Bargain!! ;)
(From a smartphone hater)
The phone cost £100. Even if you bought a satnav you would need to pay out a fee to keep it updated.

A satnav with maps for Europe and lifetime updates can be had from around a £100.  Prices have fallen since I bought all those years ago - in fact our very first one cost £950. For £160, you can get one with European maps, Bluetooth hands free for your phone, voice activation ... even Alexa for queries on the move. And if they last as long as my previous one, that's a one-off payment for 14 years of service! I have used my phone for navigation on occasion, but find that it doesn't work as well handsfree as dedicated kit with an external microphone and its own speaker, with voices being harder to make out in both directions.

New cars seem to be coming with satnav built in, but often with only a single map update included, with future ones costing a couple of hundred pounds a time!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on May 09, 2022, 10:06:27 AM
Unfortunately Lifetime Updates last only as long as the manufactures deem the life of the equipment is.. not whether the equipment is still working..
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 23, 2022, 09:33:54 PM
For reasons I won't go into (but it may become clear to some in the know) I am having to sell my Mother's car. However, I had informed the Government website - Tell Us Once. Now this is a helpful site as they inform all government departments e.g. DWP, DVLA etc. So far so good .........BUT.....
All the places I've tried to sell the car require me to drive it to them for valuation but the 'Tell Us Once' site has been too good. Not only have they removed Mother as the registered keeper of the vehicle but they have also refunded a balance of the road tax (exactly as they should)
It now looks as if I'll have to register myself as the new keeper, tax the car again so I can hawk it around for a deal and collect a tax refund if/when the car sells.
I tried to phone the DVLA today to see if there is an alternative but gave up after being on hold for 18.17 minutes and being told they have a high volume of calls ::)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on May 24, 2022, 12:47:25 AM
In my experience you will get a better price selling privately if that's an option with the added bonus that the potential buyers will come to you. Also Mick keep an eye on what the Tell Us Once team do. 5 years ago (they were called the one-stop shop when I dealt with them and I don't mean the small Tesco stores as they were) the DWP were informed but made payments to my mother which they shouldn't have done. The DWP then chased me for the money to be paid back at a later date. I ignored them and they went away in the end.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 24, 2022, 09:22:58 AM
Problem is private buyers will want a road test and the car's not taxed. I can't afford all the inevitable time wasters either :no:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest10040 on May 24, 2022, 09:29:04 AM
Mick,
just a thought, but if you are taking it to a dealer that does MOTs, you should IIRC be able to drive it to a prebooked MOT without it being taxed.
otherwise, perhaps the dealer would collect it on trade plates ?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 24, 2022, 09:37:27 AM
I had thought of that, Alan, but the fuzz know whether a car has an MOT or not so, if I was stopped, I wouldn't have much of a defence. At present, dealers won't do home visits to check/value a car, I've found so far.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on May 24, 2022, 09:49:08 AM
Here in Oz you can legally drive your car unregistered to get it registered (equivalent to your MOT).

However, you're encouraged to do it all online these days.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 24, 2022, 10:03:29 AM
 ???
The car is MOT'd until Jan next year.
I can't tax it on line as, although I have the registration document (V5C), it is in my Mother's name and the DVLA have removed her as the owner :doh:

TBH - I wish I'd left using 'Tell Us Once' until after the car had been sold, knowing what I know now
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Nbodger on May 24, 2022, 11:23:06 AM
So, who is the owner?
Does this also mean it no longer has a valid insurance?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 24, 2022, 11:28:25 AM
Ask me one on knitting, Mike :dunce:

If someone at the DVLA would just pick up the phone I might be able to learn the first bit.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on May 24, 2022, 10:09:17 PM
Inflation??

I have been reading a couple of news items today about inflation. I know, as I normally do the grocery shopping, that it is happening, but we went to Enniskillen last Saturday for our monthly 'outing' and did our shopping at Asda. We noticed an increase in the cost of some items, but Louisa is partial to 'Lurpak' butter, so we always get a tub. Normally it is £3.75p, with the occasional reduction in price, (but not often). How much was it this time? £5.00p.  :o. I know things are not good with the supply of some ingredients, but a 33.33% rise? It seems to me that somebody is extracting the urine. I don't know who is to blame, Asda or Arla Foods, (the makers of Lurpak), but I can not see how such an increase can be justified. Has anybody else noticed any ridiculous price rises?  ???
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 24, 2022, 10:19:06 PM
That's a bummer as Lurpak is my dairy spread of choice.
I'll check it at Tesco tomorrow morning. :uneasy:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on May 24, 2022, 10:28:20 PM
I have just being doing a bit of 'research' on line. Aldi do an almost identical butter called 'Nordpak'. One review I have just read says that the two are almost indist indish indeshin identical. I have permission from Louisa to buy a tub from Aldi when I do the shopping on Friday for her to test, so I will let you know Mick.
@Newportnobby (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Ossian on May 25, 2022, 07:01:33 AM
From recent experience, the "Nordpak Spreadable" is excellent, and on a par with the "brand that shall not be named"    The regular version is also spreadable - with mechanical assistance!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 25, 2022, 03:11:17 PM
@dannyboy (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=4209) I hate to be the bearer of bad tidings but the standard (not offer) price at Tesco today was £3.59 for 500g tub. Soz.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on May 25, 2022, 03:24:44 PM
@Newportnobby (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264)  Huh - must be old stock.  :). I have a news feed on my phone and one of the pieces was from an Asda worker. One of his jobs is apparently putting the prices on the shelf edges and he remarked that the biggest increase he has seen this last week is Lurpak going from £3.80p to £5.05p.  :hmmm:. Fortunately, I do not mind the el cheapo, €/£1.00p 'spreads' - it's Louisa who wants the Lurpak, but we will see what she thinks to the Aldi alternative at the weekend. Just having a quick check on t'web shows quite a variety in price, the Asda website shows £4.50p, but the search results show Lurpak at Asda costing £5.00p! Makes even more sense now to shop around if convenient.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on May 25, 2022, 05:53:58 PM
Morrisons had an offer on Lurpac two weeks ago for £3.00. Might be worth checking. We bought 2 and froze one.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on May 25, 2022, 05:57:06 PM
But do the clones come in slightly salted and unsalted?  :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on May 25, 2022, 06:41:52 PM
Quote from: Bealman on May 25, 2022, 05:57:06 PM
But do the clones come in slightly salted and unsalted?  :hmmm:

Nordpak, (Aldi), certainly comes in slightly salted. If I remember on Friday, I will see if there is an unsalted version.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: geofff on May 25, 2022, 06:55:01 PM
I'd love some butter - but Mrs G decided to use Flora 30 years ago!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on May 25, 2022, 08:40:05 PM
Quote from: geofff on May 25, 2022, 06:55:01 PM
I'd love some butter - but Mrs G decided to use Flora 30 years ago!
That sounds like grounds for divorce :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on May 25, 2022, 09:13:06 PM
Quote from: steve836 on May 25, 2022, 08:40:05 PM
Quote from: geofff on May 25, 2022, 06:55:01 PM
I'd love some butter - but Mrs G decided to use Flora 30 years ago!
That sounds like grounds for divorce :D

Sadly we're not likely to hear Flora's point of view
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Graham on May 26, 2022, 12:25:10 AM
could you use Costco, buy in bulk and freeze it.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on May 27, 2022, 06:10:37 PM
@Newportnobby (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264)  Going back to my posts regarding 'Lurpak' and the Aldi equivalent - guess what? Aldi Ireland do not sell 'Nordpak'.  :(

And on the subject of inflation, at Tesco today - large packet of 'Value' ( ???) ham is up from €1.99 to €2.60 and a ready meal I particularly like, up from €3.00 to €3.50, although it is in a different container to previous and it does say on the shelf edge 'New'.  :hmmm:. I know inflation is at a record high, but some of the price increases .........
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Jon898 on May 27, 2022, 06:20:25 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on May 27, 2022, 06:10:37 PM
@Newportnobby (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264)  Going back to my posts regarding 'Lurpak' and the Aldi equivalent - guess what? Aldi Ireland do not sell 'Nordpak'.  :(

And on the subject of inflation, at Tesco today - large packet of 'Value' ( ???) ham is up from €1.99 to €2.60 and a ready meal I particularly like, up from €3.00 to €3.50, although it is in a different container to previous and it does say on the shelf edge 'New'.  :hmmm:. I know inflation is at a record high, but some of the price increases .........

Also watch out for "the amazing shrinking package" particularly when something is labelled "new".  Suddenly the 460g package is only 400g, but is the same physical dimensions.

Jon
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on May 31, 2022, 11:33:42 AM
My sister (in the UK) is planning to send me (in France) some money  :).

However, she has been quoted exorbitant fees for doing this by bank transfer - 2.5% by Nationwide and 3.55% by Lloyd's.

Does anyone know of a cheap method of sending money overseas ?

Thanks in advance.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on May 31, 2022, 11:44:24 AM
I have not used it recently, but I have in the past sent money from Ireland to my sister in the UK using PayPal. I think you need the 'Friends and Family', (or something like that), section. But, like everything, there are fees to pay but it might be cheaper.  :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on May 31, 2022, 11:45:55 AM
Paypal?

Cheers,

Chris

PS. @dannyboy (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=4209) just beat me to it!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on May 31, 2022, 11:49:21 AM
Thanks guys.

Is it easy to get money out of Paypal into a "proper" bank account ?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on May 31, 2022, 11:51:53 AM
Have a look at this bit, it should give you the information -

https://www.paypal.com/ie/smarthelp/article/how-do-i-transfer-money-to-my-bank-account-faq1189 (https://www.paypal.com/ie/smarthelp/article/how-do-i-transfer-money-to-my-bank-account-faq1189)

Addit: I don't think my sister had any problems, but it does take a few days (?) to transfer.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: zwilnik on May 31, 2022, 12:37:46 PM
Quote from: joe cassidy on May 31, 2022, 11:33:42 AM
My sister (in the UK) is planning to send me (in France) some money  :).

However, she has been quoted exorbitant fees for doing this by bank transfer - 2.5% by Nationwide and 3.55% by Lloyd's.

Does anyone know of a cheap method of sending money overseas ?

Thanks in advance.

I have a Revolut account that lets you transfer to and from UK banks for no fee and exchange and keep money in multiple currencies with no fee (and pretty good exchange rates). They started purely as a money transfer service and online debit card but have switched to being an actual bank (EU based) recently.

The other one I use is Wise (formerly Transferwise) which is another online money exchange/ debit card service that does very good exchange rates and low fees.

With both you can setup a UK account and other people transfer into it as if it was a UK bank, then it's up to you what you want to exchange and where to send it etc. With Revolut, if you both have Revolut accounts you can send money to one another immediately for no fee (it gets used here a lot for settling up restaurant bills etc. ;) ).
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Dorsetmike on May 31, 2022, 12:47:59 PM
I used Paypal to transfer money to a friend who did some shopping for me, quick and easy to do, don't recall much delay in the transfer.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on June 12, 2022, 11:54:59 AM
I can't access the forum with my iphone.

When I try I get a message "Safari can't open the page because there are too many redirections".

Anyone know how I can get round this ?

Thanks in advance.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on June 28, 2022, 09:03:00 PM
 I'm not really unhappy so this is just a general observation.
Outside of railways, another of my interests is malt whisk(e)y. The bracketed e is there to illustrate that  my interest is not limited to Scotch whisky (no e you'll notice).
But I digress......I read several Whisk(e)y related magazines and have just taken out a subscription to another which is fine.
Then I get an email from The Debit Finance Collection Service confirming my direct debit.
Surely that company could have come up with a rather more imaginative name. I thought at first it was either a scam or that I seriously owed someone some money.
As I said, I'm not at all unhappy but this collection service company really does show a lack of thought.....or is it just me getting too old.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on June 28, 2022, 10:07:06 PM
Maybe it's them getting old and can't come up with anything better, Martin
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on June 30, 2022, 03:42:52 PM
Those of you who have read my dogbone thread https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?topic=56129.0 (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?topic=56129.0) will know that I have been forced into a radical re-organisation of my railway activities to accommodate a pair of bunk beds and the prospect of a couple of small grandsons coming to spend the night. Progress has been made - the half-built layout is safely wrapped up and in the loft, and I have bought a cheap desk off Gumtree to use as a workbench. I have also bought a storage cabinet that I can put locks on to keep sharp tools and fragile stock away from tiny fingers. I have taken the opportunity to have a grand tidy up, sort my tools more logically, and have fewer boxes of stuff lying around. So far, so good. I'm now in a position to start building a new layout; I just need to buy a bit more track. Only one thing spoiling this happy prospect....

My controller's disappeared!!!!

It can't have gone far - this is only a small house, and everything is so tidy it should have surfaced by now. It must be somewhere not obvious because I've looked in all the obvious places (fridge, boot of the car, dog's bed...). I'm starting to get worried  :worried: .

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on June 30, 2022, 04:27:40 PM
Hmmm. I smell a conspiracy.

Have you tried interrogating your significant other?

:hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on June 30, 2022, 05:49:19 PM
Quote from: emjaybee on June 30, 2022, 04:27:40 PM

Have you tried interrogating your significant other?


I think it is more likely to be the dog!  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Nbodger on June 30, 2022, 06:10:17 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on June 30, 2022, 05:49:19 PM
Quote from: emjaybee on June 30, 2022, 04:27:40 PM

Have you tried interrogating your significant other?


I think it is more likely to be the dog!  :)

Any disturbed ground in the garden, we all know dogs like to bury bones  ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on June 30, 2022, 06:51:01 PM
I find that asking SWMBO gets the response "I've not touched it." but if you mention that you can't find it but you are thinking that perhaps it's time to go digital as you've been thinking about it, it's going to cost a bob or two though. Your significant other will find it almost immediately with the comment that it was in the bathroom cabinet or some such and why didn't you think to look there as it was such an obvious place.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on July 01, 2022, 12:27:43 PM
Quote from: emjaybee on June 30, 2022, 04:27:40 PM
Hmmm. I smell a conspiracy.

Have you tried interrogating your significant other?

:hmmm:

I don't think Mrs P can be the culprit. You can't cook with it, knit with it or play a tune on it. I've just checked the loft and it's not there either. Perhaps @dannyboy (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=4209) and @Nbodger (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=8543) are right, but the dogs tend to dig things up rather than bury them. I'm not really worried; it'll turn up sometime, just like that steel rule which reappeared just after I had bought a replacement.

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Hailstone on July 01, 2022, 07:42:20 PM
Quote from: Papyrus on July 01, 2022, 12:27:43 PM
Quote from: emjaybee on June 30, 2022, 04:27:40 PM
Hmmm. I smell a conspiracy.

Have you tried interrogating your significant other?

:hmmm:

I don't think Mrs P can be the culprit. You can't cook with it, knit with it or play a tune on it. I've just checked the loft and it's not there either. Perhaps @dannyboy (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=4209) and @Nbodger (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=8543) are right, but the dogs tend to dig things up rather than bury them. I'm not really worried; it'll turn up sometime, just like that steel rule which reappeared just after I had bought a replacement.

Cheers,

Chris

Look for something else and it will appear in front of you, that's how I have found most of the things that have gone missing

Regards,

Alex
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on July 02, 2022, 04:32:44 PM
Panic over, people, it's turned up. Not anywhere ridiculous, but in a drawer which I had looked in twice before and not seen it. The drawer is full of layout wire and I thought, no, it won't be in there...

There'll be dancing on the streets of Lindfield tonight.

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 04, 2022, 05:01:36 PM
Monday 4th July
I went to Blackpool hospital for a pre-exam for the procedure of changing the battery in my internal defibrillator (S-ICD). Weight, height, blood samples and swabs (in case I have MRSA) were taken and I was told the procedure would take place Weds 20th July under a full anaesthetic*. The old wound would be re-opened, the wires left in place and a new unit fitted. If all went well and I was OK I might be home the same day but, if not, a bed would be reserved for me anyway. I won't be able to drive myself there and back, and won't be able to drive for a week afterwards but will be arranging hospital transport each way. I will also have to have a Covid test prior to going in. Hopefully all will be OK on the day.

*Full anaesthetic – my worst nightmare. Following my triple bypass where they had to resurrect me twice I had an adverse reaction to the full anaesthetic and thought all the staff were trying to kill me. I had to be restrained from pulling all the pipes etc out of me and had nightmares for about 3 years afterwards. I did try to get some sort of counselling but despite promises by the NHS nothing ever happened. Even now I wake up in a cold sweat about it every now and then.
I was bricking it in case it was to be a full job and actually ended up in tears in front of the poor sister as it all flooded back to me. The only consolation is the procedure obviously won't be as long as the bypass so I shouldn't be swimming in anaesthetic like last time. She has made notes and the anaesthetist on the day and myself will be able to discuss things. Maybe they can use something else rather than the same one. :uneasy:
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Post by: Bob G on July 04, 2022, 05:27:11 PM
They could try a hammer, or a baseball bat, perhaps. Definitely no chance of an allergic reaction to a drug!
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Post by: joe cassidy on July 04, 2022, 05:29:37 PM
I hope alll goes well Mick.
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Post by: Bob G on July 04, 2022, 05:38:41 PM
Quote from: joe cassidy on July 04, 2022, 05:29:37 PM
I hope alll goes well Mick.
Well of course I mean that as well. We need our Mick.
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Post by: guest10040 on July 04, 2022, 05:54:13 PM
hi Mick,
firstly, all the best to you, we would be lost without you.

HB has suggested a box of Bonios [the proper ones, not T*s*o] might help with your recovery !

secondly, did I read it right, open old wound, remove old device leaving wires in place, fit new device to wires  :hmmm:

I really hope their soldering is better than mine  :-[
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Post by: dannyboy on July 04, 2022, 05:56:46 PM
You mention that you were "bricking it" Mick. If they used two bricks, one in each hand brought swiftly together, there would be no need for the hammer or baseball bat as suggested by Bob.  ;D. Thinking about it, can they not leave the wires sticking out and put a connector on the ends of the wires? That way, all you would have to remember is to swap the PP3 over when you put on a clean shirt.

Seriously, I hope all goes well Mick - as Bob also pointed out, ""we need our Mick".
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Post by: Newportnobby on July 04, 2022, 06:26:53 PM
Thanks, Chaps. I did ask if they could just leave a flap so it would be easier next time. Undo the zip, out with the old batteries and in with the new. Seems not, for some strange reason :unimpressed:
Likewise, they told me the battery life would be 8-10 years when I first had the thing fitted but it's only 6 or so, so I've told them not to use cheapo batteries this time round.
Not exactly helpful, are they?
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Post by: Bob G on July 04, 2022, 06:36:02 PM
So how do you know when the batteries start to f......
.......
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Post by: Nbodger on July 04, 2022, 07:13:59 PM
Hope all goes well, if you do end up with an overnight stay, enjoy the hospital food  :)
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Post by: guest10040 on July 04, 2022, 07:40:12 PM
don't you think he's got enough to worry about, without the thought of that  >:D
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Post by: Graham on July 04, 2022, 11:54:31 PM
good luck for the OP Mick, but please no show and tell with battle scars. :smiley-laughing:
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Post by: Trainfish on July 05, 2022, 01:24:42 AM
Why do you need annsthetic aneasfetic anaesitic stuff to make you go to sleep when you could just read @dannyboy (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=4209) 's groaner thread from start to .....zzzzzzzzzz
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Post by: Bealman on July 05, 2022, 01:53:06 AM
 :laughabovepost: :laughabovepost:

Should all be over now (11am Tues Aus time). Hope it all went well, Mick.  :thumbsup:
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Post by: Trainfish on July 05, 2022, 02:02:06 AM
I hope it's not all over, he doesn't go in until July 20th  :goggleeyes:
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Post by: Bealman on July 05, 2022, 03:08:52 AM
Oh yeah, yet another example of dementia setting in here  :worried:
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Post by: port perran on July 05, 2022, 06:58:20 AM
I do hope it goes well Mick.
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Post by: crewearpley40 on July 05, 2022, 07:01:58 AM
Everybody is thinking of you mick.
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Post by: Bob Tidbury on July 05, 2022, 08:22:28 AM
Good luck Mick  everything crossed for you mate .
Bob Tidbury
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Post by: Bealman on July 05, 2022, 08:55:22 AM
Hopefully not everything, could be more painful than Mick's procedure  ;D
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Post by: guest10040 on July 05, 2022, 09:13:43 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on July 04, 2022, 06:26:53 PM
Thanks, Chaps. I did ask if they could just leave a flap so it would be easier next time. Undo the zip, out with the old batteries and in with the new. Seems not, for some strange reason :unimpressed:
Likewise, they told me the battery life would be 8-10 years when I first had the thing fitted but it's only 6 or so, so I've told them not to use cheapo batteries this time round.
Not exactly helpful, are they?

I take it you have considered other power methods,

solar panels ?

a wind turbine ?

both would negate the need for battery changes, and I'm not sure the AA could help if you got a flat battery.

of cousre, if you went for the wind turbine, you'd need to avoid low bridges  :D
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Post by: Papyrus on July 05, 2022, 09:37:44 AM
Why not rechargeable batteries? You could just plug yourself in for a couple of hours while you watch TV of an evening...

Seriously, Mick, we all wish you well. We hope it is just a quick, painless procedure and that you'll be back moderating with renewed vigour in no time.

All the best,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 05, 2022, 09:56:15 AM
Quote from: Redcap244 on July 05, 2022, 09:13:43 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on July 04, 2022, 06:26:53 PM
Thanks, Chaps. I did ask if they could just leave a flap so it would be easier next time. Undo the zip, out with the old batteries and in with the new. Seems not, for some strange reason :unimpressed:
Likewise, they told me the battery life would be 8-10 years when I first had the thing fitted but it's only 6 or so, so I've told them not to use cheapo batteries this time round.
Not exactly helpful, are they?

I take it you have considered other power methods,

solar panels ?

a wind turbine ?


I already have a solar panel. It's the bald patch on my head :-[
I am a one man wind turbine myself :o
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Post by: TrevL on July 05, 2022, 09:59:18 AM
Best of luck Mick :thumbsup:
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Post by: guest10040 on July 05, 2022, 10:05:49 AM
Quote from: Papyrus on July 05, 2022, 09:37:44 AM
Why not rechargeable batteries? You could just plug yourself in for a couple of hours while you watch TV of an evening...

I shudder to think where the socket would be fitted  :*(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 05, 2022, 10:16:50 AM
Quote from: Redcap244 on July 05, 2022, 10:05:49 AM
Quote from: Papyrus on July 05, 2022, 09:37:44 AM
Why not rechargeable batteries? You could just plug yourself in for a couple of hours while you watch TV of an evening...

I shudder to think where the socket would be fitted  :*(

You'd shudder!! I reckon I'd do more than shudder :worried:
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Post by: steve836 on July 05, 2022, 10:41:57 AM
Good luck Mick. I've got an op. too on the 14th. Following surgery in 2019 I got a cough and started to come apart at the seams so the surgeon is going to cut me open and stick some wire netting in to reinforce the join.
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Post by: Newportnobby on July 05, 2022, 11:14:21 AM
Hope that all goes well for you, Steve.
Luckily this defibrillator has never been triggered as it's an instant loss of driving licence for a year :uneasy:
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Post by: Graham on July 05, 2022, 11:15:46 AM
Quote from: Redcap244 on July 05, 2022, 10:05:49 AM
Quote from: Papyrus on July 05, 2022, 09:37:44 AM
Why not rechargeable batteries? You could just plug yourself in for a couple of hours while you watch TV of an evening...

I shudder to think where the socket would be fitted  :*(
The technology is there, my wife has a TENS machine in her spine to stop pain, that has an induction charging system, which she charges about every 5 days.
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Post by: Bob G on July 05, 2022, 11:16:10 AM
Quote from: steve836 on July 05, 2022, 10:41:57 AM
Good luck Mick. I've got an op. too on the 14th. Following surgery in 2019 I got a cough and started to come apart at the seams so the surgeon is going to cut me open and stick some wire netting in to reinforce the join.
Make sure it is titanium, otherwise you might end up with a magnetic personality  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob G on July 05, 2022, 11:17:16 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on July 05, 2022, 11:14:21 AM
Hope that all goes well for you, Steve.
Luckily this defibrillator has never been triggered as it's an instant loss of driving licence for a year :uneasy:
Says the man who just got a nearly new Qashqai!!!!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 05, 2022, 11:21:02 AM
Quote from: Bob G on July 05, 2022, 11:17:16 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on July 05, 2022, 11:14:21 AM
Hope that all goes well for you, Steve.
Luckily this defibrillator has never been triggered as it's an instant loss of driving licence for a year :uneasy:

Says the man who just got a nearly new Qashqai!!!!
Quote from: Graham on July 05, 2022, 11:15:46 AM
Quote from: Redcap244 on July 05, 2022, 10:05:49 AM
Quote from: Papyrus on July 05, 2022, 09:37:44 AM
Why not rechargeable batteries? You could just plug yourself in for a couple of hours while you watch TV of an evening...

I shudder to think where the socket would be fitted  :*(
The technology is there, my wife has a TENS machine in her spine to stop pain, that has an induction charging system, which she charges about every 5 days.

No external electrical devices allowed for me so TENS machine or that thing Beefy and Eamon Holmes advertise to electrically stimulate your legs are verboten. Likewise, jacuzzis are off limits.
I can, however, sit in a bath and fart.........................................carefully!

Quote from: Bob G on July 05, 2022, 11:17:16 AM

Says the man who just got a nearly new Qashqai!!!!

Yeah, it had better not go off when they temporarily disconnect it!!! :worried:
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Post by: Bob G on July 05, 2022, 12:10:12 PM
Lets face it Mick, you have to choose where you get your thrills now.
Jacuzzis are out, but N gauge might just be the only safe thing left for you  :smiley-laughing:
I certainly would steer clear of DCC. That is almost as dangerous as a Jacuzzi.
Bob
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Post by: Snowwolflair on July 05, 2022, 12:21:39 PM
Tell them to fit a DCC chip it will give you 28 new functions  :goggleeyes: >:D :D
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Post by: joe cassidy on July 05, 2022, 12:24:13 PM
DCC with sound please  ;)
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Post by: guest10040 on July 05, 2022, 12:25:30 PM
HB says please do not include "steal HB's Bonios" as an optional function  :-[
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Post by: guest10040 on July 05, 2022, 12:40:25 PM
Quote from: Snowwolflair on July 05, 2022, 12:21:39 PM
Tell them to fit a DCC chip it will give you 28 new functions  :goggleeyes: >:D :D

as Mick keeps telling us, he's a Luddite.

so I think he has enough trouble with the functions he already has ...
including moderating my posts  :-[

28 more could definitely overload his dodgy ticker  :-[
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Post by: zwilnik on July 05, 2022, 12:41:27 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on July 05, 2022, 11:14:21 AM
Hope that all goes well for you, Steve.
Luckily this defibrillator has never been triggered as it's an instant loss of driving licence for a year :uneasy:

Brain in 'practical' mode here.. If you wore a light chainmail vest, wouldn't that work as a Faraday cage and protect you from any external electrical influence?
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Post by: guest10040 on July 05, 2022, 12:45:04 PM
Quote from: zwilnik on July 05, 2022, 12:41:27 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on July 05, 2022, 11:14:21 AM
Hope that all goes well for you, Steve.
Luckily this defibrillator has never been triggered as it's an instant loss of driving licence for a year :uneasy:

Brain in 'practical' mode here.. If you wore a light chainmail vest, wouldn't that work as a Faraday cage and protect you from any external electrical influence?

and set off any / every metal detector within range, resulting in tons of robo cops having to leave their coffee and doughnuts and leap into their BMW 4x4s to respond  >:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: zwilnik on July 05, 2022, 12:48:37 PM
Quote from: Redcap244 on July 05, 2022, 12:45:04 PM
Quote from: zwilnik on July 05, 2022, 12:41:27 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on July 05, 2022, 11:14:21 AM
Hope that all goes well for you, Steve.
Luckily this defibrillator has never been triggered as it's an instant loss of driving licence for a year :uneasy:

Brain in 'practical' mode here.. If you wore a light chainmail vest, wouldn't that work as a Faraday cage and protect you from any external electrical influence?

and set off any / every metal detector within range, resulting in tons of robo cops having to leave their coffee and doughnuts and leap into their BMW 4x4s to respond  >:D

I'd guess the defibrillator would do that anyway :) Face it Mick you're a cyborg :) (although I think the PC term is "Enhanced Human" )
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Post by: Flange Squeal on July 05, 2022, 01:02:42 PM
Does anyone know how to mute threads on here?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest10040 on July 05, 2022, 01:10:40 PM
Mick, The Terminator >:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 05, 2022, 01:31:06 PM
Quote from: Snowwolflair on July 05, 2022, 12:21:39 PM
Tell them to fit a DCC chip it will give you 28 new functions  :goggleeyes: >:D :D

Can't manage the ones I've got now :-[

Quote from: Redcap244 on July 05, 2022, 12:40:25 PM
so I think he has enough trouble with the functions he already has ...


Like wot he said.

Quote from: zwilnik on July 05, 2022, 12:48:37 PM
Face it Mick you're a cyborg :) (although I think the PC term is "Enhanced Human" )

Can someone pair me up with Gemma Chan to make 'Synth' children, please?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on July 05, 2022, 01:42:04 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on July 05, 2022, 01:31:06 PM
Quote from: Snowwolflair on July 05, 2022, 12:21:39 PM
Tell them to fit a DCC chip it will give you 28 new functions  :goggleeyes: >:D :D

Can't manage the ones I've got now :-[

Quote from: Redcap244 on July 05, 2022, 12:40:25 PM
so I think he has enough trouble with the functions he already has ...


Like wot he said.

Quote from: zwilnik on July 05, 2022, 12:48:37 PM
Face it Mick you're a cyborg :) (although I think the PC term is "Enhanced Human" )

Can someone pair me up with Gemma Chan to make 'Synth' children, please?

You will definitely need all 28 functions for that  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest10040 on July 05, 2022, 04:49:17 PM
and a surgical team on standby, with a battery charger  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob G on July 05, 2022, 04:53:10 PM
Quote from: Redcap244 on July 05, 2022, 04:49:17 PM
and a surgical team on standby, with a battery charger  :smiley-laughing:
Poor Mick. We are taking the Michael a step too far, I think. HAHAHA
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest10040 on July 05, 2022, 04:56:52 PM
but he'd have a smile on his face  :o
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Post by: Snowwolflair on July 05, 2022, 04:58:12 PM
Quote from: Redcap244 on July 05, 2022, 04:56:52 PM
but he'd have a smile on his face  :o

That's F8   8)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on July 12, 2022, 03:57:16 PM
Quote from: Snowwolflair on July 05, 2022, 01:42:04 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on July 05, 2022, 01:31:06 PM
Quote from: Snowwolflair on July 05, 2022, 12:21:39 PM
Tell them to fit a DCC chip it will give you 28 new functions  :goggleeyes: >:D :D

Can't manage the ones I've got now :-[

Quote from: Redcap244 on July 05, 2022, 12:40:25 PM
so I think he has enough trouble with the functions he already has ...


Like wot he said.

Quote from: zwilnik on July 05, 2022, 12:48:37 PM
Face it Mick you're a cyborg :) (although I think the PC term is "Enhanced Human" )

Can someone pair me up with Gemma Chan to make 'Synth' children, please?

You will definitely need all 28 functions for that  :smiley-laughing:

Good news Mick, the latest Lenz DCC software will give you 64 functions, so their is hope for your yet  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on July 12, 2022, 04:26:00 PM
What I don't understand, with modern technology, why don't they use a cell phone battery? Then you could just sit next to a charging coil for an hour to top up. It works with my iPhone.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 12, 2022, 04:28:44 PM
Quote from: Malc on July 12, 2022, 04:26:00 PM
What I don't understand, with modern technology, why don't they use a cell phone battery? Then you could just sit next to a charging coil for an hour to top up. It works with my iPhone.

Boring :sleep:
A visit from Liz Hurley would have the same effect.
(Sadly unlikely though :*()
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on July 12, 2022, 04:32:34 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on July 12, 2022, 04:28:44 PM
Quote from: Malc on July 12, 2022, 04:26:00 PM
What I don't understand, with modern technology, why don't they use a cell phone battery? Then you could just sit next to a charging coil for an hour to top up. It works with my iPhone.

A visit from Liz Hurley would have the same effect

Especially if  she gave you a fast charge, that would bring you battery up quickly (and possibly other parts)  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on July 12, 2022, 04:33:24 PM
I don't know Mick. Have you tried emailing her? She might be lonely.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 12, 2022, 05:15:54 PM
Quote from: Malc on July 12, 2022, 04:33:24 PM
I don't know Mick. Have you tried emailing her? She might be lonely.

I hope not. Mr. Callan says Lonely stinks :worried:
(Oh Gawd - that's showing my age)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on July 12, 2022, 05:18:55 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on July 12, 2022, 05:15:54 PM
Quote from: Malc on July 12, 2022, 04:33:24 PM
I don't know Mick. Have you tried emailing her? She might be lonely.

I hope not. Mr. Callan says Lonely stinks :worried:
(Oh Gawd - that's showing my age)

When you mentioned Liz Hurley you were already showing your age  :goggleeyes:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 17, 2022, 03:37:42 PM
Just got back from a PCR test at Preston Hospital drive-thru prior to a planned op on Wednesday.
Blimey Guv! He shoved the swab so far up my schnoz I reckon he cleaned the lower half of my brain cell :o. Needless to say, he also caused a nose bleed but luckily I'd thought that might happen and had a tissue handy. :)
On the way back down the M6 the car temperature gauge read 31. I'm not too good with such temperatures but at least in my little bungalow the indoor reads 23.5 so a bit more comfortable.
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Post by: Papyrus on July 17, 2022, 03:50:57 PM
Ooooch!

Hope whoever does the op is a bit more careful... Hope it all goes well on Wednesday.

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 17, 2022, 03:56:07 PM
Thanks, Chris. I was ready for it because I'm on strong blood thinners (not Warfarin), which I have to stop taking 2 days before the op. If I blow my nose too hard I just know blood will flow, and it sometimes happens when I sneeze so I always have a pack of tissues around.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: guest10040 on July 17, 2022, 04:15:19 PM
both HB and I will have our fingers / claws crossed for you on wednesday....
we are sure you will come through, after all, who would dare to cross @Newportnobby (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=264) ..

all the best, my 'friend' if I may go so far.

we cannot afford to lose you, so new battery, and you will be ready to take on anything..

or so HB says.

take care
alan
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: crewearpley40 on July 17, 2022, 04:20:20 PM
Good luck Wednesday mu
I know. Stay cool
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on July 17, 2022, 04:39:35 PM
Blood thinners are great at preventing clots. I'm on Apixaban and had to stop it before I had a wisdom tooth out. I also had to stop my leukaemia meds two days before and two days after. It's a pain getting old. Mind you when I was in my drinking days, I never expected to get to 30, never mind 70+
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 17, 2022, 09:02:19 PM
Quote from: Malc on July 17, 2022, 04:39:35 PM
Mind you when I was in my drinking days, I never expected to get to 30, never mind 70+

Strewth! That's a scary thought, Malc :worried:

Thanks for all the good wishes. If all goes well I should be out of hospital the next day............
Enough anyway. I reckon folks are getting fed up with the subject.
Obviously I'll post an update as soon as poss - can't have that crewearpley40 catching me up post-wise :P
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 21, 2022, 12:25:49 PM
Back home about an hour ago, so only about 28 hours in Blackpool hospital for a 20 minute op.
All appears to have gone well but time will be the judge. Nursing staff, anaesthetic team, cutter and food all extremely good. Patient Transfer System worked superbly, getting me there and bringing me back in short time. I'm sore, especially when moving about and, being a somewhat hirsute type, think the nurse wielded her razor over enthusiastically, which will no doubt result in much careful scratching over the next month or so.
If I'm still about for the next unit change I'll not be worried :no:
(They change the entire unit not the batteries. The unit is about the size of a 20 ciggy pack)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on July 21, 2022, 12:30:55 PM
Glad all went okay Mick, you seem to have been well looked after.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: crewearpley40 on July 21, 2022, 12:34:57 PM
Plenty of rest mick. You will soon be up working in Kimbolted and hope you have plenty to read
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Nbodger on July 21, 2022, 12:36:36 PM
Glad everything went well for you Mick, more scratching over the next month, where the hell did they shave you so enthusiastically.

Take it easy

Best Wishes
Mike H
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: zwilnik on July 21, 2022, 12:42:43 PM
Glad to hear it went well Mick. As a person of hirsuteness myself, I feel your pain/itch :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on July 21, 2022, 12:53:25 PM
There's nothing much you can do to stop the hair growing back. I had to wear an ECG for 72 hours and needed an extensive shave. I had to be careful which polo shirts I put on as some caught the fledgling hairs and made them itch more. Glad the procedure went well and you're good to go for a few more years.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on July 21, 2022, 02:10:26 PM
Good to hear that it all went well. I'm sure that Blackpool is very nice at this time of year for a mid-week break.

Take it easy for a few days and keep playing trains.

All the best,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on July 21, 2022, 07:10:11 PM
Great news that all went according to plan Mick.
You seem to have been well looked after.
Let's hope that after a few days rest you'll be back to normal.

Cheers
Martin
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Graham on July 21, 2022, 11:14:48 PM
good to hear all went well,
cheers
Graham
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: lil chris on July 22, 2022, 10:59:11 AM
Pleased everything went well for you Mick, will see you at the Wigan show. I was getting worried ordered my ticket and still not received it, apparently they send them out in batches nearer to the time.

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on July 22, 2022, 07:58:36 PM
Well, we've had some entertainment here.

At about 17:30, we had an ASDA delivery. The driver has since told me that their company rules are that the van must remain fully in sight at all times, except when delivering to flats and if it must be parked facing the wrong way, it should be parked so that no cars can pass to avoid them being hit by a passing car when accessing the side doors.

Anyway, he delivered two crates and went back for the other two, when a large, black, 4x4 appeared and the driver started telling him to move. We are on a residential road, not a main road and he only needed to get the two crates together. He tried to explain that he'd only be two minutes and she started shouting. Then her daughter appeared and started having a go. I went to the end of the drive to suggest that she either wait a couple of minutes or go through the next road. At that point her male passenger jumped out and tried to assault the delivery driver, but thought better of it when the driver took a swing at him in self-defence (and missed) and the woman started turning her car around and shouting that the van had CCTV (whereupon the passenger put his hood up) and for them to get back in the car.

In the midst of turning, she jumped out to shout again, leaving her car in drive and having it hit my car! I tried to get my camera on on my phone, but was too slow. Then she drove off, but I had memorised her registration.

About 90 minutes later, I saw her outside and went out. She was very apologetic and had already left her phone number under my wiper, but too late, the ASDA driver had reported them to the police for assault and I'd spoken to them on the same call about her leaving the scene of an accident.

The insurance company can chase her about the repairs.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: crewearpley40 on July 22, 2022, 08:02:35 PM
What entertainment steve
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on July 23, 2022, 05:31:16 AM
Just caught up with this, Mick. Glad it all went well!  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on July 29, 2022, 09:03:59 PM
Quote from: stevewalker on July 22, 2022, 07:58:36 PM
Well, we've had some entertainment here.

At about 17:30, we had an ASDA delivery. The driver has since told me that their company rules are that the van must remain fully in sight at all times, except when delivering to flats and if it must be parked facing the wrong way, it should be parked so that no cars can pass to avoid them being hit by a passing car when accessing the side doors.

Anyway, he delivered two crates and went back for the other two, when a large, black, 4x4 appeared and the driver started telling him to move. We are on a residential road, not a main road and he only needed to get the two crates together. He tried to explain that he'd only be two minutes and she started shouting. Then her daughter appeared and started having a go. I went to the end of the drive to suggest that she either wait a couple of minutes or go through the next road. At that point her male passenger jumped out and tried to assault the delivery driver, but thought better of it when the driver took a swing at him in self-defence (and missed) and the woman started turning her car around and shouting that the van had CCTV (whereupon the passenger put his hood up) and for them to get back in the car.

In the midst of turning, she jumped out to shout again, leaving her car in drive and having it hit my car! I tried to get my camera on on my phone, but was too slow. Then she drove off, but I had memorised her registration.

About 90 minutes later, I saw her outside and went out. She was very apologetic and had already left her phone number under my wiper, but too late, the ASDA driver had reported them to the police for assault and I'd spoken to them on the same call about her leaving the scene of an accident.

The insurance company can chase her about the repairs.

Some further information - it's with the insurance companies now and the police are not taking it further, because she came back. However, we have since found out that she is the headmistress of a primary school! What chance have the kids got with staff like that?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on August 12, 2022, 01:35:15 AM
A sad day in the Trainfish household.
We had to make a big decision on Wednesday evening. It wasn't an easy decision by any means but it was 100% the right decision. We can now remember the good times with Buki. She hasn't been well for a little while but she still had lots of love and care from us and most importantly quality of life. Once we knew she was about to lose that there was only 1 decision to make. We took her to the vet on Thursday morning and I have to say that Tomasz the vet was great. He had all the time in the world for us and even when we left Buki looked so peaceful and exactly how I will always remember her little face. She was a great little friend for over 19 years, spoilt rotten and always got her own way. One good thing to come out of this is that we will save a fortune on Lick-e-lix. RIP Buki my little friend for so long  :*(

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Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on August 12, 2022, 09:49:25 AM
 :sorrysign:  To hear that sad news ,people like us regard our pets as important members of the family .
Wehad the same decision to make a few years ago with our little dog Buster he had the dog equivalent of Dementure and lost the use of his back legs as well ,the decision came after he bit my grandsons arm when he went to stroke him something he had never ever done before .
I was like a bear with a soar head for about a week after leaving him with the Vet who was really kind and we stayed and held Buster ro the end .
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Webbo on August 12, 2022, 11:42:41 AM
Hi John,

Unfortunately, dogs and cats don't live long enough. I know very well how you are feeling about your loss.

Best wishes
Webbo
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on August 12, 2022, 12:24:02 PM
So sorry to hear your tale John. Having gone through the same, with cats and dogs, I know how you must be feeling. As Bob says, they are members of our family. A sad day, but you have your memories.  Our dog 'Blue' is losing the use of his back legs and, half the time, is walking almost sideways - we have tablets from the Vet', but I dread what is coming, probably sooner rather than later.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on August 12, 2022, 12:39:06 PM
When we had to have our male cat put to sleep, the vet told us not to bother with his bill as we were obviously upset.  A few days later we got a condolences card from the practice with the bill attached.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on August 12, 2022, 01:17:42 PM
Thanks everyone. Just to fill you in a little more, Buki had had thyroid issues for around 18 months and was on an increasing dose of Thyronorm twice a day. She was also on Metacam which is a strong painkiller once a day. Then for the past week she was on another painkiller. In May last year she weighed 3.05kg, 3 weeks ago she weighed exactly 2kg and on Monday she was 1.63kg. From this you can see she was in decline even though she was eating anything and everything (sometimes my fingers if I wasn't quick enough) and there was only 1 option. The amazing thing is that she was almost in the same pose when she was put to sleep as she is in the original post with her eyes open and it didn't seem real to know she was no longer with us, she just looked like she was resting.

Here she is at 7 weeks old with her big brother Bruce from the same litter. Bruce sadly had to be put down 9 or 10 years ago as his asthma got really bad and he was spending a night in the oxygen tent at the vets on a monthly basis.

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We do still have Bella though. This is her (the black & white cat) 9 years ago with her brother Boris (grey) who sadly got run over 5 years ago, I think I may have posted about him previously.

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Before them we also had Brian (anyone spotted the trend yet?) who got so spooked 1 night that he came through the cat flap at about 200mph, smashed it off the hinges, shot upstairs and collapsed with a head injury. He was taken to the vet at about 2am and didn't come home. Here's Brian.

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We will look to have 2 more kittens after our holiday in October just as we always do when we're down to 1 cat. It's great to see 2 grow up together and I would never do it any other way. Maybe closer to the time we will have a competition on here to decide names using the same trend used previously  8)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on August 12, 2022, 01:35:11 PM
So sorry to hear another good cat has gone, but she lived to a good age.

Quote from: Trainfish on August 12, 2022, 01:17:42 PM
In May last year she weighed 3.05kg, 3 weeks ago she weighed exactly 2kg and on Monday she was 1.63kg. From this you can see she was in decline even though she was eating anything and everything

Our cat Jasmine has gone this route too, but amazingly, 2 years later, she is still with us! Her weight has hovered around 2kg for ages, but the vet gives her an antibiotic every 2 weeks which has kept her going. Her back legs hardly work, but she still eats well and has quality of life. We let her out if she wants - if she succumbs to heat stroke, it's probably a good way to go.

All the best,

Chris

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on August 12, 2022, 01:53:36 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on August 12, 2022, 01:17:42 PM
Before them we also had Brian (anyone spotted the trend yet?)

We're like that - we currently have Josie and Jenna (both 13 years old, but not sisters) and Jaffa (3 years old and a ginger male). Jenna was a replacement for Jemimah (Josie's sister), who died under the anaesthetic during neutering - we needed a replacement, as each cat belonged to one of our toddler sons and we didn't want one of them losing out. Jaffa belongs to our third son.

The cat prior to those though, was Felix - I hadn't got married then and so the J naming hadn't started!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on September 19, 2022, 08:09:23 PM
Just as that nice Mr Biden announced that the covid pandemic is over, I tested +ve for the first time this morning :*( . Ohhhhh bother... Left me feeling weak as a kitten - haven't even got the energy to do anything on t' railway.

Cheers,

Chris

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on September 20, 2022, 08:42:39 AM
Its very ironic  really ,We started wiping and washing everything that came in to the house with sanitiser wipes ,we never went out of the house the whole of lockdown ,now that things are relaxed and we have started to go out ,I cought the dreaded Covid and was really rough for three days last week ,still not feeling that great  now my Wife and son have both got it so at least we three sat and watched the Queens funeral yesterday ,what a really moving ceremony .
I was so rought on Tuesday ,Wednesday and Thursday that I was asleep most of the time which is very unusual for me once I wake up I have to get up even though I have nothing to do .
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 20, 2022, 09:38:47 AM
@Papyrus (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=2975) @Bob Tidbury (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=3442)

I hope you both, (and your families), are soon back to normal. I get the feeling that Covid, like Flu', will never totally go away.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on September 20, 2022, 10:09:36 AM
I'm of the same mind. I've stopped wearing masks for that reason. They're not mandatory on public transport here from tomorrow.

However, my sympathies to Chris and Bob.  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on September 20, 2022, 10:12:57 AM
Thanks Bealman and dannyboy at least we have some jokes to cheer us up .
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on September 22, 2022, 11:11:38 AM
My sympathy to Chris and Bob also.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on September 22, 2022, 01:51:29 PM
I thought at first I had caught Covid at T I N G S but now  it appears I caught it from a visitor on the Sunday afternoon after T I N G S not very happy about that after all the care we were taking during lockdown .
My wife has just done a test and is now negative but me and my son are still testing positive though we are both feeling a bit better .
I still dont feel like going down the shed even though I have a lot of things to do ,The idea of sitting there with a hot soldering iron making wire trees and then having a coughing fit and dropping the soldering iron or worse burning my self does not appeal to me .
Now the walling is here I have now got everything I need to crack on with the module I am building for the club and I am looking forward to being fit enough next week to that .
Every thing has been against me building this module ,first the extreme heat ,then helping to look after my granddaughters during the summer holiday then catching Covid I just wonder what else is going to stop me finishing it ,I made a really good start and was hoping to have finished it by now .But I am NOT going to rush it and spoil it .I hope to do some work on it every day I go down the shed and do every steadily and get it right .
I will be posting photos of my progress next week on the Facebook page and I expect Crewearply40 will transfer them on to the main page for me .
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 22, 2022, 02:03:14 PM
Sorry to hear about the Covid Bob, but at least you are feeling a bit better now. As for the soldering iron - leave it in the cupboard for now.  ;)
Title: Sadly departed.
Post by: emjaybee on October 04, 2022, 12:28:39 AM
Monday 3rd October

I took the decision this morning to have our cat, Chaos, put to sleep. She fell asleep in my arms at home this morning.

She'd had quite the life, the equivalent of 90 human years. She, and her late sister Mayhem, came to us as five week old feral kittens via the local vets way back in 2004. Over the last few years she'd been diagnosed with stage 3 kidney disease, hyperthyroidism, irritable bowel disease, she'd thrown two blood clots, and had a small stroke. Despite all that, she still had a good quality of life and loved being around us. The last few weeks her mobility had decreased and age finally caught up with her.

Chaos was a very affectionate cat, and loved nothing more than a cuddle and was content to be carried around the house or draped across me on the sofa. Many of you knew her from the Tuesday Zoom sessions where she frequently made an appearance.

She will leave a big hole that will fill with all the happy memories she has given us.

Sadly missed, but never to be forgotten.

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Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on October 04, 2022, 12:50:49 AM
So sad. We have only lost two (three including my childhood cat) and are dreading anything happening to any of our three.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Nbodger on October 04, 2022, 07:03:22 AM
So Sorry to here of your loss Michael, we will all miss her antics on a Tuesday
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 04, 2022, 08:17:55 AM
So sorry to hear that Mike. Our animals are more than just pets, they are part of the family. As you say, you have your memories.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Skyline2uk on October 04, 2022, 08:34:37 AM
Go in peace kitty.

I am especially fond of cats and it's never easy saying goodbye.

Wishing you the best

Skyline2uk
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Train Waiting on October 04, 2022, 08:59:25 AM
So sorry to hear this.

With all good wishes.

John
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on October 04, 2022, 10:22:58 AM
Not a fan of cats, but can sympathise with your loss. Losing a pet is like losing a family member.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on October 04, 2022, 12:33:20 PM
Very sorry to hear that, @emjaybee (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=5604) . She was a handsome cat (but then, I've had 3 all-black cats, so I'm biased...) and you obviously gave her a good life.

All best wishes,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: grumbeast on October 04, 2022, 05:09:05 PM
So sorry for your loss, We lost Bumpy earlier this year so my heart goes out to you.

Graham
Title: Re: Sadly departed.
Post by: Hailstone on October 06, 2022, 03:53:55 PM
Quote from: emjaybee on October 04, 2022, 12:28:39 AM
Monday 3rd October

I took the decision this morning to have our cat, Chaos, put to sleep. She fell asleep in my arms at home this morning.

She'd had quite the life, the equivalent of 90 human years. She, and her late sister Mayhem, came to us as five week old feral kittens via the local vets way back in 2004. Over the last few years she'd been diagnosed with stage 3 kidney disease, hyperthyroidism, irritable bowel disease, she'd thrown two blood clots, and had a small stroke. Despite all that, she still had a good quality of life and loved being around us. The last few weeks her mobility had decreased and age finally caught up with her.

Chaos was a very affectionate cat, and loved nothing more than a cuddle and was content to be carried around the house or draped across me on the sofa. Many of you knew her from the Tuesday Zoom sessions where she frequently made an appearance.

She will leave a big hole that will fill with all the happy memories she has given us.

Sadly missed, but never to be forgotten.

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So sorry to hear of this Mike, I hope that you will in time find another companion for your other cat

All the best,

Alex
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on October 15, 2022, 03:41:26 PM
RIP Jasmine...

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Today we took the Queen of the House, the Alley-cat that thought she was a Princess, the Goddess who turned all furnishings white, on her final one-way journey to the vet. She was probably about 17; we got her from the Cats Protection League at about 2 years old. She had been found as a pregnant stray and produced 4 all-white kittens before she came to us. She was always still semi-wild. It took literally months before she settled down enough that we could let her out without terrorising some neighbour's cat twice her size. Fortunately, our dog at the time, a 40kg Spinone, was big enough to look after himself and they more or less ignored each other, but she gave each new dog that came into the house a few swipes around the face to put them in their place! She grew quite fond of our next dog, Markie, and used to catch small rodents and give them to him, whereupon he would carry it round with a thin tail dangling from his mouth!

Our biggest regret was that she never curled up on anybody's lap. She remained a very aloof, self-contained cat until about 2 years ago when her health started to fail and she lost half her body weight. The vet kept her going with fortnightly antibiotic injections and she suddenly became much more affectionate. Then about a week ago, her appetite dropped off completely and she ate little more than a teaspoonful of food at a time. It was obvious her zest for life had gone so we took the decision that the time had come to say goodbye. Fortunately, we still have 2 dogs so the house won't feel too empty, but we shall miss her.

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 15, 2022, 03:51:41 PM
So sorry to hear that Chris. There comes a time in just about every pet lovers life when 'that' decision has to be made. It never gets any easier, no matter how many times it happens. 'Jasmine' was a lovely looking cat and seems to have had a good life - her way!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on October 15, 2022, 10:50:12 PM
Chris,

So sorry to hear your news. Take comfort from the knowledge that you gave her a safe and happy home and a comfortable life.

Best regards,

Michael.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 21, 2022, 12:26:20 AM
Most of us are unhappy to return from holiday but to return from a week in Egypt with an unexpected souvenir wasn't what I had planned. Been feeling pretty crap for the past 3 days or so and this is the reason why:

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Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 22, 2022, 09:01:54 PM
2 days later and I'm adding to my unwanted collection

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Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on October 23, 2022, 12:58:50 AM
Are you still feeling crook? Those things could be past their use by date.

You're supposed to turf them, by the way, not collect them  ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 23, 2022, 10:48:58 AM
I'm not sure if I'm still feeling 'crook' as I don't what that means. I am however feeling pretty damn rough.

My wife is a nurse who is also part of the vaccination booster program, she stabs people (that's what I call it anyway) twice a week when not on holiday and has done over 1000 in the past few weeks. I had a jab scheduled for Thursday but had to cancel it of course and now I'm banned from there for at least 4 weeks apparently. Do you really think I would be allowed to use out of date tests? These have an expiry date of January 2024.

I'm not really collecting them as such but I do need to send pictures to my employer as proof  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on October 23, 2022, 11:09:55 AM
OK John, no offense meant.

Crook in Australia means sick or at least not well.

The only reason I stuck use by date on there is because I regularly take stuff that's been in the cupboard for years.

Anyway, more to the point, how're feeling?

Hopefully better soon! :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 23, 2022, 11:19:05 AM
No offence taken George although it may have read that way.

It appears thay yes, I am feeling crook then.

Back when Covid was 'fashionable' we were able to claim 2 packs of 7 tests twice a week so that's what I did. I tested twice a week so of course I had some surplus. I have given some to others who need them as we have to pay for them these days but I still have enough left  :thumbsup:

I won't go into graphic detail but believe me when I say I'm feeling rough from top to bottom. Read into that what you will  :goggleeyes:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on October 23, 2022, 11:20:54 AM
Get well soon. :thumbsup: :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: MinZaPint on October 23, 2022, 11:23:17 AM
When I had my brush with the bug I had 1 day really rough 2 days not so good and the rest of the time like a bad bout of flu, lasted about a fortnight. Worst bit was it knackered my Beer buds for a while, all back to normal now, just off to the pub to check  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 23, 2022, 11:23:31 AM
Quote from: Trainfish on October 23, 2022, 11:19:05 AM

I won't go into graphic detail but believe me when I say I'm feeling rough from top to bottom. Read into that what you will  :goggleeyes:

Hopefully it won't be too long before your top and bottom stop feeling rough.  ;)

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 23, 2022, 11:24:00 AM
Quote from: Trainfish on October 23, 2022, 10:48:58 AM
I'm not really collecting them as such but I do need to send pictures to my employer as proof  :thumbsup:

Hopefully you don't feel obliged to send your employer pictures of your idea of company uniform :no: :worried:
Get well soon, Sir
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 23, 2022, 11:43:37 AM
Quote from: MinZaPint on October 23, 2022, 11:23:17 AM
When I had my brush with the bug I had 1 day really rough 2 days not so good and the rest of the time like a bad bout of flu, lasted about a fortnight. Worst bit was it knackered my Beer buds for a while, all back to normal now, just off to the pub to check  (I'm jealous) :beers:

I started feeling rough last Saturday after flying to Egypt a week ago Wednesday. Had a couple of rough days whilst there but it's worse now since returning on Wednesday/Thursday. People tell me to rest up but I find that very difficult and need to be doing something or I get very very bored. I try not to get down and miserable when not well but this one is testing my patience but trying like mad to keep my odd sense of humour. I have had 2 beers since returning from holiday but didn't really enjoy them which is rather worrying  :goggleeyes:

At least the other 3 who I went with are ok and showing negative  :thumbsup:

Quote from: dannyboy on October 23, 2022, 11:23:31 AM
Hopefully it won't be too long before your top and bottom stop feeling rough.  ;)
I hope you're right  :moony:

Quote from: Newportnobby on October 23, 2022, 11:24:00 AM
Hopefully you don't feel obliged to send your employer pictures of your idea of company uniform :no: :worried:
Get well soon, Sir

Thanks Mick. Did I ever show you a picture of my online interview outfit where they could only see my top half?  :-[
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 23, 2022, 12:49:37 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on October 23, 2022, 11:43:37 AM
Thanks Mick. Did I ever show you a picture of my online interview outfit where they could only see my top half?  :-[

:stop: :stop: :stop: :computerangry: :computerangry: :sick2:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 24, 2022, 12:54:13 PM
Still feeling as rough as a badger's  :moony: so no surprise that I now have a hat trick  :*(

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Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on October 24, 2022, 01:01:02 PM
You may be on the mend at least - that last one looks a little less solid. People who've had it (we've managed to keep it out of this house) have told me that the test line is not simply solidly there or not, but becomes lighter as your viral load lessens.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on October 24, 2022, 01:02:52 PM
Have you tried the hair of the dog - Egyptian Stella ?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: port perran on October 24, 2022, 01:03:01 PM
The T line seems to be getting fainter so perhaps that's a good sign.
Get well soon.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 24, 2022, 01:08:16 PM
The T line is a lot darker in real life than on the screen although it is very slightly lighter than the other 2. I'll do another test on Wednesday which will be from a new box which I think may be more conclusive. In all honesty I don't really care what the lines say, I just want to feel better. I get breathless just going up the stairs at the moment so I can't even get into the loft.
On a brighter note I have managed to buy 3 more container wagons with 2x 30' Ford containers on each over the past couple of days  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 24, 2022, 01:12:38 PM
Quote from: joe cassidy on October 24, 2022, 01:02:52 PM
Have you tried the hair of the dog - Egyptian Stella ?

Hell no! I doubt I had more than 6 pints of that when I was over there. I got bitten to death (well, not quite death) by insects the first couple of days so I drank a lot of gin and tonic as someone told me there is quinine in the tonic. I have no idea if that's true but I did get bitten a lot less after switching to it  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on October 24, 2022, 02:35:40 PM
Tonic was the British East India Company's Soldiers' way of taking quinine in a more palatable form - mixed with soda water and sugar. Later it was discovered that it made it so much better that it was actually enjoyable, when gin was added.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 26, 2022, 09:56:20 AM
And on we go. Not feeling quite as rough but still get tired easily and am rather snotty. I'm bored with this now  :(

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Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on October 26, 2022, 10:21:21 AM
my brother tested positive for 18 days....
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 26, 2022, 10:25:53 AM
Well that's uplifting then. I reckon I'm on day 12 now as I didn't take any test kits with me to Egypt.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob G on October 26, 2022, 10:57:44 AM
Time to buy some more Yeoman hoppers, perhaps?

Get well soon
Bob

EDIT - I read recently that statins (which I take to keep cholesterol low) improves outcomes with Covid. Just a thought. You need the pills, not the low dose spreads which my doctor friend said was a total waste of space.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 26, 2022, 11:33:40 AM
Quote from: Bob G on October 26, 2022, 10:57:44 AM

EDIT - I read recently that statins (which I take to keep cholesterol low) improves outcomes with Covid.

That's good. I've been on statins since 1995 :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob G on October 26, 2022, 11:53:01 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on October 26, 2022, 11:33:40 AM
Quote from: Bob G on October 26, 2022, 10:57:44 AM

EDIT - I read recently that statins (which I take to keep cholesterol low) improves outcomes with Covid.

That's good. I've been on statins since 1995 :D

Last year the BHF wrote this: https://www.bhf.org.uk/informationsupport/heart-matters-magazine/news/behind-the-headlines/covid-and-statins (https://www.bhf.org.uk/informationsupport/heart-matters-magazine/news/behind-the-headlines/covid-and-statins)

Statins are prescribed to millions in the UK to help lower levels of bad cholesterol in the blood. These drugs have also been associated with reducing inflammation and blood clotting, both of which can be features of severe cases of Covid. So there was already interest from scientists in whether statins may be helpful in treating severe Covid.
In this latest study, scientists at the Karolinska Institute in Sweden followed nearly a million people aged 45 or over between March and November 2020, looking at data from death registers and prescription records.
When they adjusted for other factors, such as existing health conditions, they found that taking statins was associated with a "moderately lower risk" of dying from Covid-19 – about a 12 per cent reduction in risk. This was true across different age groups and sexes.
The researchers stressed that this does not prove cause and effect and that randomised trials would be needed to prove that Covid deaths could be reduced by taking statins.
But this is useful reassurance that if you're taking a statin, it won't make things any worse if you get Covid and might even help.


I like the bit at the end of the BHF article where they have a dig at the Daily Excess :)

The Daily Express also ran sensational headlines, saying "Covid breakthrough as 'wonder' statins cut risk of death – millions of Brits may get them" and "MIRACLE drugs statins have emerged as the surprise weapon in the fight against COVID-19". These might wrongly give the impression that doctors will soon start prescribing statins as a treatment for Covid, which is unlikely, especially as much more research is needed in this area. A 12 per cent reduction in risk is certainly important, but not necessarily the "miracle" these headlines suggest.

Go forward a year, and this is the findings of a US study.

https://www.news-medical.net/news/20221024/Regular-statin-use-may-reduce-the-risk-of-death-and-severity-of-COVID-19.aspx (https://www.news-medical.net/news/20221024/Regular-statin-use-may-reduce-the-risk-of-death-and-severity-of-COVID-19.aspx)

The retrospective study is one of the most extensive of regular statin use in patients with COVID-19. Researchers analyzed the electronic medical records of 38,875 patients hospitalized for COVID-19 at 185 hospitals in the United States between Jan. 1 and Sept. 30, 2020. Of those patients, 30% regularly used statins to treat high cholesterol. Statin users had a 37% lower risk of dying from COVID-19 than those who didn't use statins. In addition, regular statin users were significantly less likely to be discharged to hospice, be admitted to the intensive care unit (ICU) or develop blood clots. They also had shorter hospital stays and spent less time on a ventilator.

That's good news for me! No unhappy thread here!

Bob
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Yet_Another on October 26, 2022, 12:56:40 PM
What a miserable set of analyses. Risk of death isn't exactly the most upbeat way of looking at covid statistics. It doesn't address duration or severity of infection for anyone at all.

And 30% of people admitted were taking statins? That's a huge percentage. Sounds like if you're taking statins, you're more likely to be admitted.

Gotta love statistics  ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 26, 2022, 01:42:00 PM
I've added statins to the wife's shopping list for when I send her out to Morrisons next  :thumbsup:

After reading the post from @Yet_Another (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=4156) I'll ask her to get the 30% off version to be on the safe side. I just hope it's the right 30% which has been removed.

Quote from: Bob G on October 26, 2022, 10:57:44 AM
Time to buy some more Yeoman hoppers, perhaps?

Get well soon
Bob

Thanks Bob. I have a funny feeling that when my 10 hoppers are delivered tomorrow (if the postmen/women aren't on strike) I will decide almost immediately that I need some more and you know what that means as I do have a bit of a 'thing' for Yeoman hoppers.......................

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Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 26, 2022, 03:20:26 PM
 :goggleeyes: :goggleeyes:

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Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 26, 2022, 03:25:13 PM
You are as always absolutely correct. There are only 77 Yeoman hoppers in that picture but my spreadsheet says I have 94. I need help in finding the missing 17 hoppers  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob G on October 26, 2022, 04:40:31 PM
Quote from: Yet_Another on October 26, 2022, 12:56:40 PM
What a miserable set of analyses. Risk of death isn't exactly the most upbeat way of looking at covid statistics. It doesn't address duration or severity of infection for anyone at all.

And 30% of people admitted were taking statins? That's a huge percentage. Sounds like if you're taking statins, you're more likely to be admitted.

Gotta love statistics  ;)

if you are taking statins, then you need them, Covid or not, so we are really in the statin club whether we like it or not.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Dorsetmike on October 26, 2022, 05:31:06 PM
Quoteso we are really in the statin club whether we like it or not.

That's statin(g) the obvious
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 26, 2022, 06:18:04 PM
If I didn't have a station then my trains wouldn't have anywhere to stop

I would get my coat but I'm far too hot to wear it right now  :*(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Graham on October 26, 2022, 11:07:28 PM
just come back from holiday to find a leaking pipe in the garden, and a $4000 bill to get the whole pipe renewed from the water meter to the house, and a wrecked front lawn to boot as part of the repair. not happy.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on October 26, 2022, 11:55:30 PM
How much?! How about hiring a labourer to dig a trench and then put in a new pipe yourself?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Graham on October 27, 2022, 04:01:16 AM
If I was capable, or if my father was still alive (he was a plumber) and I was 20yrs younger not a problem. Beyond me now I am afraid, and when you have water pouring out like a full tap turned, you just need it fixing asap. the trench was close to 25mtrs.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 28, 2022, 03:11:57 PM
It's a good job I built up a good stock of these....................

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Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on October 28, 2022, 04:27:49 PM
It looks like you had a massive exposure to the viral load. From what I understand, the higher the viral load you're exposed to, the 'worse' your case of the infection. All hail the vaccines, heaven knows what you'd have been like without it.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 29, 2022, 02:35:24 AM
Having lost a very good friend and a couple of acquaintances to Covid before the vaccines came out I agree, I probably/possibly wouldn't be here to type this if we rolled back 2 or 3 years. I have had 3 doses of the vaccine and had an appointment for the 4th on the 1st day I tested positive, this was cancelled of course. My wife had her 4th last month and although she felt a bit rough for a couple of days last week she never tested positive which is lucky as she is actually administering the vaccines and has been for a couple of months. I think her 4th dose kept this one at bay.
This is more frustrating than anything and I'm now used to not feeling great and not sleeping when I should etc but at least I'm still here and still have my warped sense of humour. If I ever lose that then it's time to worry  :worried:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on October 29, 2022, 05:18:19 AM
Keep on batting. I'm sure you'll shake it.  :beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on October 29, 2022, 10:33:41 AM
I ended up with a 6 day stay in hospital due to catching covid when I went to get my first vaccination. Talk about ironic. Thank god for the NHS.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 29, 2022, 10:53:09 AM
Thanks George, I'm a trier if nothing else. I managed 3 beers spread out over the whole of yesterday evening/night which is the most I've had since this ruddy thing came along. Maybe I should try harder to kill it off with alcohol?

Sorry to hear that Malc but at least you made it out of there. Totally agree with the respect for the NHS. Easy for me to say having lived with a nurse for the past 23 years but hearing some of the stuff she has gone through in the paediatric area of the profession I really don't blame her for now taking the easier route towards full retirement by handing out vaccine doses a couple of times a week. Good on her  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 30, 2022, 03:57:24 PM
Another 2 days passed, another positive. Line is definitely fainter this time so hopefully when I test again on Tuesday it will either be gone or nearly gone. I hope so as I'm going stir crazy here and want/need to get back to the gym  :thumbsup:

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Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Hiawatha on October 30, 2022, 04:54:45 PM
So the gym also has a location in your neighbourhood? ;)

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Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 30, 2022, 05:03:18 PM
If only............

:beers:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on November 01, 2022, 01:32:47 PM
I'm not updating my Covid status on this thread any more. This is why (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?topic=670.msg778645#msg778645)

Quote from: Trainfish on October 30, 2022, 03:57:24 PM
Another 2 days passed, another positive. Line is definitely fainter this time so hopefully when I test again on Tuesday it will either be gone or nearly gone. I hope so as I'm going stir crazy here and want/need to get back to the gym  :thumbsup:

(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/127/262-301022155509-1271711538.jpeg)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on November 01, 2022, 11:13:12 PM
I don't know what is going on tonight. I nipped out to pick up a take-away. During the journey there (about a mile), I was waiting at traffic lights, in the right turn lane, indicating right and when the lights went green, a black cab overtook me, on the wrong side of the road, nearly hitting an oncoming cyclist; then I had a dark car coming towards me, with no lights on; on the way back, I passed a van illegally parked on the zig-zags of a crossing, facing the wrong way, sticking out and with its headlights on, dazzling me on the approach to the crossing; then a double-decker bus crossed a mini-roundabout, entirely on the wrong side of the road.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on November 02, 2022, 01:26:49 AM
Sounds like there's a new version of Grand Theft Auto out  :confused1:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on November 02, 2022, 03:06:27 AM
Or at the very least a full moon
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on November 02, 2022, 09:34:04 AM
Looks like Mancunians are learning London driving habits.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on November 02, 2022, 11:40:38 AM
Sounds like everyone was trying to avoid "The Purge" :worried:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob G on November 05, 2022, 06:38:27 PM
Oh dear. A bad couple of days in the BobG extended household.
First the man from AO didn't turn up at his promised time yesterday to deliver the new fridge freezer.

That meant Bob couldn't find his lunch in the freezer bags which were by now in the garden. Wife had gone off with refugee family for driving practice.

Then the cat ate a bee. Or at least tried to eat a bee. Got stung in the mouth. Quick trip to vets for a steroid jab up the bottom. The almost instant success of this treatment leads me to believe that we should all have one.

This morning Bob woke up with food poisoning. Blaming the fridge delivery man.
Spent today with griping pain and unmentionable smells from the loo.

And to top it all, the 4 year old fell over in the cow slurry on a visit to the farm opposite.  :*(  :*(  :*(  Not sure if this is the right thread or not for that event as it did bring a smile to my face as I lay in bed holding my still griping belly  :no: 
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on November 05, 2022, 06:45:48 PM
Well the saying goes that bad luck comes in threes and you have had your three. No wait, that's four ......oh dear!  ;)

(Hope the food poisoning thing is short lived).
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob G on November 05, 2022, 07:01:55 PM
Maybe the results were 3-1.
Definitely recommend Victoria sponge cake to soothe a poorly tum and make a fall in the sh*t quickly forgotten.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on November 06, 2022, 03:49:22 AM
Quote from: Bob G on November 05, 2022, 06:38:27 PM

Spent today with griping pain and unmentionable smells from the loo.


Too late - you mentioned them.
Sorry you're all having a  :poop: time
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob G on November 06, 2022, 09:10:20 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on November 06, 2022, 03:49:22 AM
Quote from: Bob G on November 05, 2022, 06:38:27 PM

Spent today with griping pain and unmentionable smells from the loo.


Too late - you mentioned them.
Sorry you're all having a  :poop: time
It sounds very appropriate in Ukrainian too:
Poorly tummy translates to
"Pohano zhyvit"
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on November 06, 2022, 09:40:32 AM
Quote from: Bob G on November 06, 2022, 09:10:20 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on November 06, 2022, 03:49:22 AM
Quote from: Bob G on November 05, 2022, 06:38:27 PM

Spent today with griping pain and unmentionable smells from the loo.


Too late - you mentioned them.
Sorry you're all having a  :poop: time
It sounds very appropriate in Ukrainian too:
Poorly tummy translates to
"Pohano zhyvit"

Well, as they say, " you're always in the zhyvit, it's only the depth that varies..."
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on November 18, 2022, 11:10:22 PM
Sorry to moan on here, but I'm absolutely fed up with people whinging about the prices of things these days.
£1.50 for tea, £1.75 for coffee, £3 for a slice of cake and £2.50 per hour for parking.
Any more complaints and honest to god I will stop inviting people to my house!





Yes I know this could go in the joke section but I thought it could start its life here  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TrevL on November 19, 2022, 07:26:18 AM
Shirley, you could get more for parking, that's cheap. :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on November 19, 2022, 07:51:29 AM
Don't you worry. When that big world championship cycling race was on in my town in September, local council banned local residents from making money out of charging for parking outside their place.

Bloody shame that. When the race went past the bottom of my street, they parked across me driveway anyway. Not that it really mattered... the race went past in a flash, then the parkers rakked off.

I wised up to the men's final, though, and stuck the bum of me car halfway out of the driveway  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on November 19, 2022, 09:59:43 AM
It always annoys me that people are allowed to race bikes on public roads but not cars. After all roads are financed by motor vehicles so bikes are guests and should behave as such.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on November 19, 2022, 10:35:45 AM
Roads are actually financed through council tax not VED more commonly known as 'Road tax'. I do agree with your point though. We had the Tour of Britain through Devizes a few years ago and they were definitely doing more than 30mph near me and I hate to thing what speed they were doing in the 20mph zone near the school. Didn't stop at the pedestrian crossing either even though the kids kept pressing the button  :goggleeyes:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: javlinfaw7 on November 19, 2022, 10:50:20 AM
To be fair the Formula 1 cars at Monaco were also doing more than 30 mph and not stopping for any thing
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on November 19, 2022, 11:04:36 AM
Outrageous!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 05, 2022, 06:45:10 PM
Well it's that time of year again. Yes, home insurance renewal time. I received the renewal quote, did my usual and checked a couple of other insurance companies, telephoned my provider - and got €40 knocked off! Why oh why do I have to contact them to get a bit knocked off? Why don't they just send me the cheaper quote in the first place?  ???. Yeh, yeh, I know - that's how they work. Still makes me unhappy that I have to do it every year.

Car insurance renewal due in a week or two ..........
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on December 05, 2022, 07:26:48 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on December 05, 2022, 06:45:10 PM
Car insurance renewal due in a week or two ..........

And the same will apply i.e. they'll attempt to rip you off.
If I find a cheaper equivalent quote I just call the original insurer to say I won't be insuring with them and tell them I've been quoted cheaper. If they suddenly 'find' a loyalty bonus or some other excuse to match, then I just say 'No' as they tried it on. As you say, I expect their best quote - not what they think I will pay to avoid switching.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: woodbury22uk on December 05, 2022, 08:41:13 PM
@dannyboy (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=4209) I know what you mean. When my wife died, the insurers put up the monthly premium by £1. We were both on the policy. When the renewal was due it came at some ridiculous high figure. So I challenged it. The sales agent struggled to explain that when we reran the numbers the quoted premium went down to about half of what I was paying when she was alive. Her being female and younger should have kept the premium down anyway. I now have insurance cheaper than for 20 years.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 10, 2022, 05:33:00 PM
Further to my comments in reply #2880

The car renewal quote has come through today by email. The figure quoted does not seem too bad, until you look at it in detail! Included in the cost is a €50 'renewal fee'  ???. I can not ever recall being charged a 'renewal fee' in the past - has anybody else had to pay a 'renewal fee'? I can understand a change of vehicle, or similar, fee, but this charge is a bit like Tesco charging me to enter their store to get some milk!  :o. Guess who will probably be changing insurance companies next month?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on December 10, 2022, 10:57:09 PM
My car registration is due in early January - $1000. I am ineligible for a state pension (I've been knocked back twice). Registration costs nowt for pensioners.  >:(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Graham on December 10, 2022, 11:21:16 PM
Quote from: Bealman on December 10, 2022, 10:57:09 PM
My car registration is due in early January - $1000. I am ineligible for a state pension (I've been knocked back twice). Registration costs nowt for pensioners.  >:(
In the same boat, work all your life pay your taxes, save like we were taught, and then no pension cause you've been good and saved some money  :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: njee20 on December 11, 2022, 12:03:37 AM
A renewal fee sounds like an absolute swindle. I'd be moving my business on principal.

They're now not allowed to quote more for renewal than for a new business quote in equal terms (ie the days of checking a new business quote and finding it cheaper are theoretically gone). Be interesting to see how that works in practice.

Quote from: steve836 on November 19, 2022, 09:59:43 AM
It always annoys me that people are allowed to race bikes on public roads but not cars. After all roads are financed by motor vehicles so bikes are guests and should behave as such.

You're only allowed to race on closed roads, hence there's nearly always a rolling road block. So speed limits don't apply. Just like the Monaco GP as said, and various rally events countrywide. Can't even be bothered to go down the 'finances by motor vehicles' bit.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on December 11, 2022, 10:12:21 PM
Unofficially, bikes are raced on open, public roads - using things like the Strava app. Riders try to beat each other's times for the same route, on different days or even to beat their own times.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on December 11, 2022, 10:21:48 PM
Why does everything go wrong at once?

On Friday, my car failed its MOT (both track-rod end joints had worn and one of the four pads on the rear brakes had stuck and worn) - I spent Friday afternoon fixing it, on the drive ... and it was *COLD*!

Then the satellite TV boxes lost a load of channels, so I spent time on the conservatory roof, changing the LNB. The problem remained, so I had to go under the hall floor to deal with the faulty multi-switch.

Next the heating cut out, which turned out to be a terminal that had loosened over time.

Fixing the terminal disturbed another wire, so later on, the shower pump wasn't working.

I've still got to find one of my spare synchronous motors to fix the motorised valve under the floor, that supplies the kitchen kick-space heater and a spare microswitch to properly repair the motorised valve for the hot-water cylinder.

Meanwhile I'm trying to fit in some repainting (bathroom) and fitting worktop to wall edgings, ready for Christmas visitors.

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: woodbury22uk on December 11, 2022, 10:43:00 PM
Quote from: stevewalker on December 11, 2022, 10:21:48 PM
Why does everything go wrong at once?

On Friday, my car failed its MOT (both track-rod end joints had worn and one of the four pads on the rear brakes had stuck and worn) - I spent Friday afternoon fixing it, on the drive ... and it was *COLD*!

Then the satellite TV boxes lost a load of channels, so I spent time on the conservatory roof, changing the LNB. The problem remained, so I had to go under the hall floor to deal with the faulty multi-switch.

Next the heating cut out, which turned out to be a terminal that had loosened over time.

Fixing  the terminal disturbed another wire, so later on, the shower pump wasn't working.

I've still got to find one of my spare synchronous motors to fix the motorised valve under the floor, that supplies the kitchen kick-space heater and a spare microswitch to properly repair the motorised valve for the hot-water cylinder.

Meanwhile I'm trying to fit in some repainting (bathroom) and fitting worktop to wall edgings, ready for Christmas visitors.

"So it was on the Monday morning that the Gasman came to call". :-)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on December 12, 2022, 09:14:35 AM
Quote from: stevewalker on December 11, 2022, 10:21:48 PM
Then the satellite TV boxes lost a load of channels, so I spent time on the conservatory roof, changing the LNB. The problem remained, so I had to go under the hall floor to deal with the faulty multi-switch.

I've still got to find one of my spare synchronous motors to fix the motorised valve under the floor, that supplies the kitchen kick-space heater

Sorry for your troubles but why is everything so hard to access i.e. under floors and on roofs?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on December 15, 2022, 03:51:52 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on December 12, 2022, 09:14:35 AM

Sorry for your troubles but why is everything so hard to access i.e. under floors and on roofs?
If it was on the floor, you'd trip over it.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on December 15, 2022, 05:38:19 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on December 12, 2022, 09:14:35 AM
Quote from: stevewalker on December 11, 2022, 10:21:48 PM
Then the satellite TV boxes lost a load of channels, so I spent time on the conservatory roof, changing the LNB. The problem remained, so I had to go under the hall floor to deal with the faulty multi-switch.

I've still got to find one of my spare synchronous motors to fix the motorised valve under the floor, that supplies the kitchen kick-space heater

Sorry for your troubles but why is everything so hard to access i.e. under floors and on roofs?

Because those are the sensible places for them.

The LNB is, of course, on the satellite dish, which needs to be high enough to see over obstructions and can only go on one wall of the house, to get line of sight, hence it has to go on the wall, above the conservatory.

The multi-switch connects the four cables from the LNB (plus a 5th from a terrestrial aerial), to 7 pairs of cables (one pair to the conservatory and others to the kitchen, three bedrooms and one pair at each end of the living room). Not all are used, but some are for future options. The cables all have to run under the floor to hide them away, so it makes sense for the multi-switch to be where the cables are. There are dozens of network, phone and alarm cables down there too, plus the hi-fi speaker cables. Until recently, there was an air ring main even! That used to connect the air pumps (in a kitchen cupboard to keep the buzzing out of the living toom) to the fish-tanks in the living room. The mains wiring, water, central-heating and gas pipes are down there too.

The motorised valves are down there because that is where the pipes split to feed the various radiators and one section of underfloor heating.

There's no point bringing pipes, wires and cables up, to install all the connections above the floor, when everything would just fill up valuable cupboard space and be very cramped to work on.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on December 15, 2022, 11:08:49 PM
You have posted on the Happy Thread and the Unhappy Thread the same day.

Your life is a roller coaster ride  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on December 16, 2022, 07:52:55 AM
Life's full of ups and downs, but that's fine, as long as we don't go off the rails!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Graham on December 22, 2022, 04:48:14 AM
As an old advert on Aussie TV used state "NOT HAPPY JAN"
(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/128/1058-221222044509.jpeg) (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=gallery;sa=view&id=128675)
I just went to pull my favourite mug out of my bag to take to the train club tonight and found this  :*( :*( :*(
After getting all the way home from TINGS in 2016 and it surviving the journey round the world this happens.
Will have to work out how to get a new one now.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on December 22, 2022, 04:55:36 AM
Fill it up with VB and that won't happen  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Graham on December 22, 2022, 05:12:09 AM
I only ever put tea in it, honest vicar!  ;) ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on December 22, 2022, 06:29:41 AM
 :laughabovepost: :laughabovepost:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on December 22, 2022, 09:57:22 AM
That looks mendable to me - it's only in 3 pieces. Araldite or decent quality superglue should do it. All right, you wouldn't want to risk drinking out of it again, but you could use it to store paint brushes or the like.

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on December 22, 2022, 10:05:16 AM
Quote from: Bealman on December 22, 2022, 04:55:36 AM
Fill it up with VB and that won't happen  :D

It was filling it with VB that caused it to happen :o
Imagine what it's doing to your innards >:D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Graham on December 22, 2022, 11:20:51 AM
Quote from: Papyrus on December 22, 2022, 09:57:22 AM
That looks mendable to me - it's only in 3 pieces. Araldite or decent quality superglue should do it. All right, you wouldn't want to risk drinking out of it again, but you could use it to store paint brushes or the like.

Cheers,

Chris

Ah but there were about 100 other splinters which are not shown. Will have to get one ordered from @Tank (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=2) and delivered to my brother in the UK so I can pick it up mid next year when I am over.

Quote from: Newportnobby on December 22, 2022, 10:05:16 AM
Quote from: Bealman on December 22, 2022, 04:55:36 AM
Fill it up with VB and that won't happen  :D

It was filling it with VB that caused it to happen :o
Imagine what it's doing to your innards >:D

It has been a long time since I drank a VB, never quite found it to my taste. prefer a good IPA, or a glass of wine, maybe it is an age thing.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Tank on December 22, 2022, 11:27:02 AM
Oh no!  Lovely to hear that it was your favourite mug....but, a tragic ending.  Currently there are only mugs from one of the links above.  I've sold absolutely nothing since last April I think....!   ;D  Prices I imagine.

I could see if I can find a company who is willing to print a load, and then then them straight to everyone's addresses.  I'll make a thread in the new year to see if there is interest.  Hopefully no more than £10 delivered.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: steve836 on December 22, 2022, 07:12:22 PM
Reminds me of a mug we had when I worked (part time) in the goods depot at Brentwood station. It was in two pieces, the side without the handle was towards the drinker if the person was right handed. As a practical joke we woul "glue" the two parts together with condensed milk then leave it by the fire to dry. The "joke" was that it was possible to fill it with tea and for it to be picked up, but as the victim tilted it to drink the side would fall off.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: zwilnik on January 24, 2023, 03:35:35 PM
Big dental appointment today to remove the root of a tooth that had snapped and pop the socket for an implant into the hole it left.
Unfortunately, due to the nerve being super sensitive and a lingering infection hidden away in the dead tooth the anaesthetic wasn't strong enough to do anything beyond removing the old tooth and the dentist has had to pack it with bone, sew it up and send me on my way with painkillers and antibiotics to come back in 5 months after the bone's had time to regrow :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on January 24, 2023, 03:40:17 PM
Rather you than me!  :goggleeyes: :uneasy:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on January 24, 2023, 04:28:50 PM
Quote from: zwilnik on January 24, 2023, 03:35:35 PM
Big dental appointment today to remove the root of a tooth that had snapped and pop the socket for an implant into the hole it left.
Unfortunately, due to the nerve being super sensitive and a lingering infection hidden away in the dead tooth the anaesthetic wasn't strong enough to do anything beyond removing the old tooth and the dentist has had to pack it with bone, sew it up and send me on my way with painkillers and antibiotics to come back in 5 months after the bone's had time to regrow :(

:sick2:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on January 27, 2023, 12:11:03 PM
About the middle of last year I received a letter from Chorley Hospital asking me to attend an appointment in March this year at the Neurology Department. Now, it's distinctly possible I do need my bumps feeling but I rang them to see who had made this appointment as I believed it was a mistake and someone else was missing out. Needless to say, after 20 minutes or so no one had picked the phone up so I e mailed them instead to the effect that a failure to advise me who had made the appointment and why would result in me not turning up.
This morning I had a letter advising me the March appointment had been cancelled and a new one made for October (don't people use the word 'postponed' any more? ::)) so again I telephoned them and got through after about 10 minutes. I explained to the chap I thought it was a mistake and he agreed when he saw I'd never been to Neurology from my extensive medical records. He has said he'll have a word with the consultant involved and cancel the October appointment.
I'm tempted to put money on me getting a postponement letter in about 6 months time :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: zwilnik on January 27, 2023, 12:49:59 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on January 27, 2023, 12:11:03 PM

I'm tempted to put money on me getting a postponement letter in about 6 months time :hmmm:

by which point they'll have done your head in enough that you'll actually need a neurology appointment.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on January 27, 2023, 03:04:44 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on January 27, 2023, 12:11:03 PM
This morning I had a letter advising me the March appointment had been cancelled and a new one made for October (don't people use the word 'postponed' any more? ::))

I know the answer to this one, it makes the figures look better. If it's postponed then it will be in the late appointments category when numbers are published. If it's cancelled and a new appointment made it doesn't  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: pinball on January 29, 2023, 03:15:56 PM
Despite reading the forum most days, I still have some sort of word blindness to the word "gauge" and keep spelling it as "guage". For some other reason I always like to type the whole url out at the top, I can't get on with stuff like bookmarks or whatnot. It is probably why I prefer driving good honest BREL or Brush designed traction, rather than any of this newfangled stuff with a "Train Management System".

The amount of times I've put www.nguageforum.co.uk (http://www.nguageforum.co.uk) in and been rewarded with "Hmm. We're having trouble finding that site." on Firefox and wondered why the site is down yet again have run into at least triple figures now!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on January 29, 2023, 03:37:41 PM
I don't have trouble with the spelling but I do have my browser set up to open the forum in 3 separate tabs whenever it opens so I don't have to type it in. Depends what browser you use but it's a relatively simple task which someone, possibly me, can talk you through if it helps  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: pinball on January 30, 2023, 07:20:15 PM
Cheers! I should really bookmark it. I use Firefox.

Given it's a word I use both on duty and on here a lot, I am surprised it still hasn't sunk in!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: harper on January 30, 2023, 08:20:58 PM
Your not the only, anyway back to my seatch for n guage track.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Yet_Another on January 30, 2023, 10:01:39 PM
Royal Mail delivered what I assume is my Revolution Zander orders today. Why is this in the unhappy thread? Because I told them, on Saturday, to deliver on Wednesday, when I'll actually be there.

Nothing like the sinking feeling of seeing a photograph of a parcel outside your front door when you're 90 miles away.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on February 01, 2023, 08:08:44 AM
I've a 6ft length of aluminium tube being delivered next week. Now I'm retired it's not a problem. But when I was working I'd be very worried what they'd do with it..

A couple of weeks ago I had a new boom for my little sailing boat delivered. I asked for it to be left behind the boat if not in, ( clearly visible in the yard). I was out walking the dog so where did they leave it?
Standing on end against the back wall.. a gust of wind and it could have blown down onto the concrete and damaged..
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on February 01, 2023, 08:57:56 AM
I'd be a bit worried about wot they were gonna do with a 6' length of tube as well  ;) ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob Tidbury on February 01, 2023, 10:07:02 AM
Bealman
Knowing our delivery drivers they would poke it through the letter box .
Bob Tidbury
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on February 01, 2023, 11:47:22 AM
It would make one helluva peashooter, something I was infamous for as a kid >:D
Batchelor's dried peas, anyone? ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on February 01, 2023, 11:53:36 AM
DRIED peas ?

That explains why my peashooter always got bunged up.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on February 01, 2023, 12:03:48 PM
 :laughabovepost: :smiley-laughing:

Somewhere quite close they are obviously building more housing and this week has been a time of piledriving from 08.30 - 17.00 virtually non stop. This reverberates through my little hovel and I end up taking painkillers each day for the headaches it causes. In this day and age can't someone invent a relatively 'quiet' way of building. It's OK if you're out at work all day but if you're retired it's like someone banging on the wall all through the day :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on February 02, 2023, 02:25:26 PM
Quote from: Bealman on February 01, 2023, 08:57:56 AM
I'd be a bit worried about wot they were gonna do with a 6' length of tube as well  ;) ;D
What did they do with the tube?
Delivered it to my neighbour.. I was sitting in the house with a muggacoffee, he didn't even knock on our front door!!! Mind you it's not due till the 8th!!

Anyway what is it for?


A jib club... Any wiser?


A jib club is the equivalent of a boom on a mainsail.


A boom is the  the horizontal bit of wood or metal at the bottom of the mainsail.

This is for a sailing boat I designed and built myself 25 to 27 years ago. I've rebuilt it over the last few years had one season of sailing since and am now doing some more changes.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on February 05, 2023, 09:42:14 PM
I nipped around to see my parents this afternoon and got the news that my sister has breast cancer and is due to start chemo in two weeks. It does not sound good to me as she already has two secondaries, one on her spine and another on a lung.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on February 05, 2023, 10:24:51 PM
I am so sorry to hear that Steve. I do have a good idea of what you and your family are feeling, having gone through the same with my sister. I hope there is a happy outcome for you all and my thoughts are with you. By pure coincidence, I have just watched the last episode of 'Happy Valley' and the likeness of my sister to Sarah Lancashire is uncanny and I always think of Diane when I see Sarah Lancashire.  :*(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on February 28, 2023, 03:33:39 PM
Last week my hard drive decided it didn't want to play ball any more such that last Saturday it took 1½ hours to boot up and then refused to do anything anyway. This was my second Toshiba laptop whose hard drive decided to fail. My computer guru has managed to save a lot but sadly all my opera speed dials have gone and I had about 100 of them :*(
It took me years to collect them and now I have to start again on my 'new' second hand Dell, which at least is far speedier than the Toshiba which was about 10 years old and I was the 3rd owner.
Grrrrr
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on February 28, 2023, 08:08:16 PM
Ah, be philosophical.... look on it as a fresh start.  ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on February 28, 2023, 09:17:56 PM
I've remembered 28 sites without too much thinking but it's some of the more 'obscure' ones which will take the time
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on February 28, 2023, 09:34:42 PM
I must admit I'd hate to lose all the photos I've got on there, that's why I've got an external drive. Mind you, I've been too lazy lately to even transfer them to that!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on February 28, 2023, 09:48:54 PM
I have USB drives for pics, vids and documents and am quite good at keeping 'em up to date so that wasn't a worry :sweat:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Graham on February 28, 2023, 09:54:46 PM
I used to have a ritual, back up 1st of every month. Then 4yrs ago I went away on business with a new PC swapped to "one drive" as part of the new pc set up and forgot the back ups at home. Sure enough 18mths ago, home pc data drive decided to die, I had not backed up for 2&1/2 yrs. Luckily I managed to recover most things but it took a lot of effort.
Home pc now fully backed up to "one drive", for a small fee each year I dont have to worry as it automatically goes onto all pc's.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on February 28, 2023, 10:04:34 PM
I have my laptop hooked up to BackBlaze. It's a permanent backup that works in the background. It costs me $130 for two years (yes, it's in US Dollars). It has unlimited capacity.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob G on February 28, 2023, 11:28:06 PM
Let me give you a clue about unhappy.
The most expensive holiday of my life.
First the cruise doesn't go to NZ but stays on the east Australian coast.
Not too bad given the weather in NZ.
But now the Indian Pacific train will not be leaving from Sydney as there was a health emergency last night on the train before the train had reached the Blue Mountains. They left the train somewhere in the back of beyond and we are leaving Sydney by bus for a 3 hour drive through the Blue Mountains rather than travelling through them by train.
Didn't know about this until after breakfast.
Absolutely fed up with non existent Aussie crisis management systems and want to come home for a British Rail Sandwich.
Bob
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Snowwolflair on February 28, 2023, 11:32:00 PM
Quote from: Bob G on February 28, 2023, 11:28:06 PM
Let me give you a clue about unhappy.
The most expensive holiday of my life.
First the cruise doesn't go to NZ but stays on the east Australian coast.
Not too bad given the weather in NZ.
But now the Indian Pacific train will not be leaving from Sydney as there was a health emergency last night on the train before the train had reached the Blue Mountains. They left the train somewhere in the back of beyond and we are leaving Sydney by bus for a 3 hour drive through the Blue Mountains rather than travelling through them by train.
Didn't know about this until after breakfast.
Absolutely fed up with non existent Aussie crisis management systems and want to come home for a British Rail Sandwich.
Bob

Sorry but I can hear your cat laughing from here  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on March 01, 2023, 12:16:14 AM
Quote from: Bob G on February 28, 2023, 11:28:06 PM
Let me give you a clue about unhappy.
The most expensive holiday of my life.
First the cruise doesn't go to NZ but stays on the east Australian coast.
Not too bad given the weather in NZ.
But now the Indian Pacific train will not be leaving from Sydney as there was a health emergency last night on the train before the train had reached the Blue Mountains. They left the train somewhere in the back of beyond and we are leaving Sydney by bus for a 3 hour drive through the Blue Mountains rather than travelling through them by train.
Didn't know about this until after breakfast.
Absolutely fed up with non existent Aussie crisis management systems and want to come home for a British Rail Sandwich.
Bob

It could be worse, a colleague is going on a cruise tomorrow, that his wife booked before telling him. Not only does the cruise cost a fortune in itself, but as a contractor he loses pay for each day off ... she's booked a 7-week cruise!!!!

Not only that, but they picked up a new Land Rover Discovery at the weekend.

No wonder he's looking at working past retirement age!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Graham on March 01, 2023, 06:21:04 AM
Quote from: Bob G on February 28, 2023, 11:28:06 PM
Let me give you a clue about unhappy.
The most expensive holiday of my life.
First the cruise doesn't go to NZ but stays on the east Australian coast.
Not too bad given the weather in NZ.
But now the Indian Pacific train will not be leaving from Sydney as there was a health emergency last night on the train before the train had reached the Blue Mountains. They left the train somewhere in the back of beyond and we are leaving Sydney by bus for a 3 hour drive through the Blue Mountains rather than travelling through them by train.
Didn't know about this until after breakfast.
Absolutely fed up with non existent Aussie crisis management systems and want to come home for a British Rail Sandwich.
Bob
luckily you should only miss going through the suburbs of Sydney, you will have all the best bits to come.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on March 01, 2023, 06:49:54 AM
It shouldn't take three hours to cross the Blue Mountains by road, but even if you slept through it, you're not missing anything.

Sorry, but I've never been impressed by the Blue Mountains, and I guess it shows. Sorry!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on March 01, 2023, 08:44:42 AM
Quote from: Bob G on February 28, 2023, 11:28:06 PM
Let me give you a clue about unhappy.
The most expensive holiday of my life.
First the cruise doesn't go to NZ but stays on the east Australian coast.
Not too bad given the weather in NZ.
But now the Indian Pacific train will not be leaving from Sydney as there was a health emergency last night on the train before the train had reached the Blue Mountains. They left the train somewhere in the back of beyond and we are leaving Sydney by bus for a 3 hour drive through the Blue Mountains rather than travelling through them by train.
Didn't know about this until after breakfast.
Absolutely fed up with non existent Aussie crisis management systems and want to come home for a British Rail Sandwich.
Bob

Poor 'Not-Julia'. You seem to attract misadventure and error in spades.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: martyn on March 01, 2023, 09:05:10 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on February 01, 2023, 12:03:48 PM
:laughabovepost: :smiley-laughing:

Somewhere quite close they are obviously building more housing and this week has been a time of piledriving from 08.30 - 17.00 virtually non stop. This reverberates through my little hovel and I end up taking painkillers each day for the headaches it causes. In this day and age can't someone invent a relatively 'quiet' way of building. It's OK if you're out at work all day but if you're retired it's like someone banging on the wall all through the day :(

A bit late with the reply, but think what I used to feel like when I was on 'nights' and road or building works started about 0800, just as I went to sleep......and 50% of my working life was nights.

Martyn
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: zwilnik on March 03, 2023, 10:36:30 AM
My Revolution Class A tanks (3 pack) arrived unexpectedly this morning. I must have forgotten to ask them to change my shipping address to my friend's in the UK for my pre-orders. €25 import charge. At least it wasn't the Pendolino!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: zwilnik on March 03, 2023, 10:41:37 AM
Quote from: emjaybee on February 28, 2023, 10:04:34 PM
I have my laptop hooked up to BackBlaze. It's a permanent backup that works in the background. It costs me $130 for two years (yes, it's in US Dollars). It has unlimited capacity.

I also use Backblaze on all my computers. Stupidly cheap for what it does and quite literally fire and forget.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on March 03, 2023, 11:04:26 AM
Quote from: zwilnik on March 03, 2023, 10:41:37 AM
Quote from: emjaybee on February 28, 2023, 10:04:34 PM
I have my laptop hooked up to BackBlaze. It's a permanent backup that works in the background. It costs me $130 for two years (yes, it's in US Dollars). It has unlimited capacity.

I also use Backblaze on all my computers. Stupidly cheap for what it does and quite literally fire and forget.

Do you recall who put me onto them...?

Thanks fella.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on March 03, 2023, 11:11:49 AM
Quote from: zwilnik on March 03, 2023, 10:36:30 AM
My Revolution Class A tanks (3 pack) arrived unexpectedly this morning. I must have forgotten to ask them to change my shipping address to my friend's in the UK for my pre-orders. €25 import charge. At least it wasn't the Pendolino!

Presumably Revolution deducted the UK VAT ?

Yesterday I paid import charges of 9 euro on a packet containing :

2 Dapol Schools class buffers
1 Dapol 9F class draw bar

:(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: zwilnik on March 03, 2023, 11:25:39 AM
Quote from: joe cassidy on March 03, 2023, 11:11:49 AM
Quote from: zwilnik on March 03, 2023, 10:36:30 AM
My Revolution Class A tanks (3 pack) arrived unexpectedly this morning. I must have forgotten to ask them to change my shipping address to my friend's in the UK for my pre-orders. €25 import charge. At least it wasn't the Pendolino!

Presumably Revolution deducted the UK VAT ?

Yesterday I paid import charges of 9 euro on a packet containing :

2 Dapol Schools class buffers
1 Dapol 9F class draw bar

:(

I don't think they did deduct the VAT actually :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Mito on March 03, 2023, 08:27:56 PM
I've stopped buying from the UK now because of import duties. It makes an expensive hobby even more expensive.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on March 03, 2023, 08:32:56 PM
Quote from: Mito on March 03, 2023, 08:27:56 PM
I've stopped buying from the UK now because of import duties. It makes an expensive hobby even more expensive.

I was looking at something on ebay yesterday. Purchase price was about £20, postage and duties was £50+ on top  :goggleeyes:.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Graham on March 03, 2023, 10:33:31 PM
Quote from: emjaybee on March 03, 2023, 11:04:26 AM
Quote from: zwilnik on March 03, 2023, 10:41:37 AM
Quote from: emjaybee on February 28, 2023, 10:04:34 PM
I have my laptop hooked up to BackBlaze. It's a permanent backup that works in the background. It costs me $130 for two years (yes, it's in US Dollars). It has unlimited capacity.

I also use Backblaze on all my computers. Stupidly cheap for what it does and quite literally fire and forget.

Do you recall who put me onto them...?

Thanks fella.
FYI, Office 365 which includes the One Drive functionality is AU$90 /yr about US$60. same thing I just set and forget.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: zwilnik on March 03, 2023, 10:43:51 PM
Quote from: Graham on March 03, 2023, 10:33:31 PM
Quote from: emjaybee on March 03, 2023, 11:04:26 AM
Quote from: zwilnik on March 03, 2023, 10:41:37 AM
Quote from: emjaybee on February 28, 2023, 10:04:34 PM
I have my laptop hooked up to BackBlaze. It's a permanent backup that works in the background. It costs me $130 for two years (yes, it's in US Dollars). It has unlimited capacity.

I also use Backblaze on all my computers. Stupidly cheap for what it does and quite literally fire and forget.

Do you recall who put me onto them...?

Thanks fella.
FYI, Office 365 which includes the One Drive functionality is AU$90 /yr about US$60. same thing I just set and forget.
One Drive is more of a straight Cloud Drive rather than a constant backup. So it will only keep whatever you put on it, whereas BackBlaze backs up everything on your computer (unless you say otherwise). Also if you suffer a complete disaster, not only can you recover your data online from BackBlaze, you even have the option for them to send you your data on a physical hard drive.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on March 06, 2023, 07:03:48 AM
42 degrees C in my back garden today.  :sweat: >:(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Platy767 on March 06, 2023, 07:18:42 AM
39 degrees C here today and an aircon that has already had 2 attempts to be fixed. Never again will I do a fully ducted system that has single points of failure. I will start with a split in the lounge and decide what else is needed after that.

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on March 06, 2023, 07:31:27 AM
Apart from fully ducted, I'm not really sure what the rest means, but I sympathise. We never had air con for years and when we did finally get it, couldn't work out why we hadn't done it earlier. A bit like an automatic garage door, actually, which is relatively new at Chez Bealman.

Anyway the air conditioner wasn't working great, but I dragged the instructions out (I actually kept em), and cleaned the filters.

Good as new!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on March 06, 2023, 10:02:42 AM
Quote from: Bealman on March 06, 2023, 07:03:48 AM
42 degrees C in my back garden today.  :sweat: >:(

6 degrees here ... and grey ... and drizzle
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Webbo on March 11, 2023, 08:08:40 AM
We recently fitted a garage roller door too and I agree with your comment totally with regards to this device. As for the installation of AC, it was a bit like the transition between BC and AD in historical terms. With AC, summers were no longer a time of year to be feared in our house.

Webbo
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread - here for a short whinge ( Kato/Lemke spares... )
Post by: cmason on March 16, 2023, 10:56:32 AM
So when I was in Switzerland a year or so back, as is my wont when on business trips I visited a couple of model shops to get myself some souvenirs. Not really bargain hunting and not things necessarily in line with my own modelling themes.

On that trip I got a second hand short rake of 4 Arnold Rheingold coaches with a full brake - very nice - and a new Kato Re 620 - carrying the name "Linthal" in the SBB-Cargo X-Rail alliance livery. All very nice models. The Re620 is actually produced by Kato for distribution by Lemke in Gemrany.

However when I got me back home here to Japan I discovered that one of the buffers on the Re620 had fallen off. They are not secured, just a push fit. And subsequently another fell off and bounced away to be eaten by the carpet monsters.

What to do? I know I thought - a visit to Mr Kato's fine emporium up in Tokyo ( https://www.hobbycenterkato.com/ (https://www.hobbycenterkato.com/) ) - and so, this week I was up in town - a rarity since the start of the pandemic (historically I would have been up a few times in a week - recently more like once a month if that... ) - and I popped in.

And now my Grrrrrr.... unlike for regular Kato, they don't carry the spares for the Lemke models  for retail in Japan - they make them here in Japan ( and do actually sell them here ) but to get the buffers I would have to bring the model in and it would then be sent away for "repair" - just to have a couple of buffers plugged in...

Anyway I am not doing that - seems more likely that I will order the spares from Lemke and have them shipped *back* to Japan....

Ahhh well...such larks... plus side was I go to look round the Kato centre where amongst other things you can see Peco streamline at outrageous import prices - although one thing I am very happy they distribute is Peco flexitrack which is a bit difficult to sensibly ship by post so I am happy to pay their distribution premium for that  - the other UK origin products they are distributing here are the Deluxe Materials range which from observation they now appear to have made available through quite a few Japanese retailers - again quite useful as the liquids would probably cause issues when sent by ordinary parcel services.

Anyway time to contact Lemke,

Colin.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Browning 9mm on March 16, 2023, 11:33:43 AM
Quote from: dannyboy on March 03, 2023, 08:32:56 PM
Quote from: Mito on March 03, 2023, 08:27:56 PM
I've stopped buying from the UK now because of import duties. It makes an expensive hobby even more expensive.

I was looking at something on ebay yesterday. Purchase price was about £20, postage and duties was £50+ on top  :goggleeyes:.
@dannyboy (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=4209)
is there any advantage in having orders sent to a recidivist mate in uk, who then would post on, at cost, to you as a 'gift' ?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on March 16, 2023, 12:14:32 PM
@Browning 9mm (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=10229)
Thanks for the thought Alan.  :beers:. I do have a brother and sister in the UK, so, if I wanted something in particular from the UK, I could always use one of them as a 'forwarding agent'  ;). I do not know if it is just the sort of stuff I am looking at or not, but 'eBay' does seem to be getting expensive these days. 'Amazon' is quite often better value and the thing with 'Amazon' is that the price I pay at the checkout is it - nothing else is added - the UK VAT is deducted, then Irish VAT added and, being a Prime member, usually there is no postage to pay. One of the main problems with eBay is that a lot of sellers now use the Global Shipping service, which is always expensive! On 3 or 4 occasions, I have bought through eBay and paid the cost, including the Irish VAT. The item arrives in Ireland and I get a bill from Customs!  :(. I tell them I have already paid but get a standard reply that there was 'something wrong' with the paperwork, so I have to pay. I then have the faff of getting the VAT/Duty back from eBay, which can take weeks.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Browning 9mm on March 16, 2023, 12:17:54 PM
no probs, it was just a thought.
regards
alan
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Mito on March 16, 2023, 08:40:59 PM
Unfortunately gifts are subject to duty here in Spain. My sister-in-law sent my wife a gift and the duty was more than the item cost in the UK! :( The only way I think is for somebody to bring things out in their luggage but that could be problematical too.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on March 27, 2023, 11:15:36 AM
Last week I transferred some money, electronically, from an external account to a savings account I have with another bank. After three days the external bank rang me to say that it was an "unauthorised transaction", so the money had been returned to them. They were very nice about it and explained that there probably were restrictions on the amounts that could be transferred. Today I rang the bank that has my savings account, just to ask if there were any such restrictions. I was told that I could only transfer a maximum of €1,000 per month, but there were no restrictions on transferring to my current account. No problem, I will transfer the money from the external account, to my current account and then do an internal transfer to the savings account. Fortunately there is no rush to get the transfer done. What puts this in the 'Unhappy' thread is the fact that it is so long since I opened the accounts, I had forgotten about any restrictions - so unhappy with myself. But the main reason we are in this thread is that the telephone call took ten minutes and fifty four, (54), keyboard presses just to get to speak to a real person.  :o. The hoops we have to jump through to speak to a human being these days is absolutely reedikulus!  :goggleeyes:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on March 27, 2023, 11:58:34 AM
And I still haven't received the dosh! :no: ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on March 27, 2023, 01:20:22 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on March 27, 2023, 11:58:34 AM
And I still haven't received the dosh! :no: ;)

I will be trying again tomorrow Mick - but don't hold your breath!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on March 28, 2023, 02:16:27 AM
You're sending Mick in excess of €1,000 ?  :goggleeyes:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: emjaybee on March 28, 2023, 08:30:21 AM
Quote from: Trainfish on March 28, 2023, 02:16:27 AM
You're sending Mick in excess of €1,000 ?  :goggleeyes:

Hush money.

8)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on March 28, 2023, 10:43:44 AM
Quote from: emjaybee on March 28, 2023, 08:30:21 AM
Quote from: Trainfish on March 28, 2023, 02:16:27 AM
You're sending Mick in excess of €1,000 ?  :goggleeyes:

Hush money.

8)

:zippedmouth: :angel:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Browning 9mm on March 29, 2023, 08:56:27 AM
Quote from: Trainfish on March 28, 2023, 02:16:27 AM
You're sending Mick in excess of €1,000 ?  :goggleeyes:

aka Colonel Prince Umbagumba of the Nigerian army  :hmmm:  :smiley-laughing:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on March 29, 2023, 09:58:11 AM
Quote from: Browning 9mm on March 29, 2023, 08:56:27 AM
Quote from: Trainfish on March 28, 2023, 02:16:27 AM
You're sending Mick in excess of €1,000 ?  :goggleeyes:

aka Colonel Prince Umbagumba of the Nigerian army  :hmmm:  :smiley-laughing:

Oh, I thought it was just me he had invited to his palace. I was going to use the money to pay for my travelling expenses, apparently once I get there, everything is free.  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: paulbeckwith on March 29, 2023, 04:00:57 PM

  how  is  it  everyone   knows  my  cousin  ....   aka  colonel  prince  umbagumba      ?????

   paul
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on March 29, 2023, 06:39:49 PM
Quote from: paulbeckwith on March 29, 2023, 04:00:57 PM

  how  is  it  everyone   knows  my  cousin  ....   aka  colonel  prince  umbagumba      ?????

   paul

Because he used to keep e mailing people :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on May 28, 2023, 12:54:28 PM
First World Problems, or Irritations with Modern Life No. 263: Car Keys

Why do they make life so difficult? When I went out in the car on Friday, a message on the dashboard said the key battery needed changing. Not a difficult job, I've done it before, so I did it when I got home again. Yesterday, we planned on going out for the day to the Weald and Downland Living Museum (well worth a visit), but when I went to get the car out of the garage it unlocked OK, but when I got in and tried to switch on the ignition it said 'Key not present'. OK... Opened the car door to get out again and set the car alarm off! My wife hasn't driven since lockdown, so her key was dead too, and a new battery in hers still didn't work. We had 3 spare batteries altogether, all theoretically well within their expiry date, but only the 'key not present' one seemed to work in any way. By using a trick Mrs P. found on the internet, I managed to drive to the supermarket to buy some more batteries and we now have 2 working keys again. I got enough to have some spares available, but I will never trust the alleged long expiry dates again.

Why does it have to be so complicated? What was wrong with having a proper key you stuck in a hole in the door and turned? From stories you read in the papers, it seems as if electronic systems are easily bypassed making the cars just as easy to steal. We did eventually get to the Museum, but it was an afternoon out instead of the whole day.

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on May 28, 2023, 01:04:16 PM
Not sure what car you have but with my Ford Kuga it doesn't like cheap batteries. I have to use Duracell or the equivalent. Mine can also start with either a flat fob battery or even no battery if you hold the fob in the correct place on the steering column.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on May 28, 2023, 02:33:27 PM
We have a Skoda Fabia and, yes, they were Duracell batteries (expiry date 2031). The method you used to start your car sounds very similar to the way I found on YouTube. Can't understand why it's not mentioned in the owner's manual.

Cheers

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: PaulCheffus on May 28, 2023, 04:09:11 PM
Quote from: Papyrus on May 28, 2023, 02:33:27 PM
We have a Skoda Fabia and, yes, they were Duracell batteries (expiry date 2031). The method you used to start your car sounds very similar to the way I found on YouTube. Can't understand why it's not mentioned in the owner's manual.

Cheers

Chris

Hi

It's mentioned in my car manual (Hyundai).

(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/132/982-280523161639.png)

Cheers

Paul
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on May 28, 2023, 04:32:52 PM
Quote from: PaulCheffus on May 28, 2023, 04:09:11 PM

It's mentioned in my car manual (Hyundai).


And there is something very similar in mine (Toyota).
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: mickeyflinn on May 28, 2023, 08:35:47 PM
Quote from: Papyrus on May 28, 2023, 02:33:27 PM
We have a Skoda Fabia and, yes, they were Duracell batteries (expiry date 2031).

We have a Nissan Leaf, and got the fob battery low message. Replaced the batteries with brand new Duracell ones I use with our other car and it wouldn't even unlock!! Replaced the low ones back into the fob and it unlocked again. Ended up going and buying some cheap Panasonic batteries to get it to work.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on May 29, 2023, 07:01:37 AM
Quality batteries such as Duracell are Alkaline which have a nominal operating voltage of 1.2V
Cheap batteries are normally carbon based and have a nominal voltage of 1.5V.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on June 02, 2023, 10:44:52 AM
I was not sure whether to put this in the 'Happy' or 'Unhappy' thread.

I buy Calor Gas in bulk about twice a year. I have just received a letter from Calor telling me that they are reducing, (makes a change), the price by 5 cent a litre as of 5th June.  :).  A price reduction is always good news, but I had 826 litres delivered just two weeks ago!  :doh:. Oh well, only another six months before I feel the benefit of the price cut.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on June 02, 2023, 01:22:22 PM
Demand (and price) will have gone up again by then  ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on June 02, 2023, 01:25:04 PM
Quote from: stevewalker on June 02, 2023, 01:22:22 PM
Demand (and price) will have gone up again by then  ;D

The Law of Sod!  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on June 02, 2023, 08:33:01 PM
Last time I was at Carnforth station (and that was pre Covid) the car park was pay and display i.e. using coins of our realm.
Today it was purely a mobile phone/app job and I hate it. I dare say 'RingCo' are a well established and honourable business but I intensely dislike giving my card details over the phone to someone I've never heard of before.
Sure, they texted me as promised to let me know my parking ran out in 10 minutes but there's no receipt and until I check my online banking I haven't a clue if they only charged me the £2.20 stated :uneasy: I'm sure it won't equate to the £1000 fine if you don't cough up.
And they call this progress.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Dorsetmike on June 02, 2023, 09:17:48 PM
How are those of us luddites without mobile phones supposed to deal with that?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on June 02, 2023, 09:44:40 PM
It's becoming more and more widespread, to the extent town/city retailers blame some drop in trade as folks just don't want to/can't comply
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on June 02, 2023, 09:58:05 PM
On the other hand my cousin in the city of Dublin told me that the buses in Dublin are cash-only, in fact coin-only, with a tariff of 2 euro per trip.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on June 03, 2023, 09:24:18 AM
@Dorsetmike (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=2855)
There was a section on BBC news this morning about cashless parking etc and, basically, about 2.4 million people will just be stuffed as there's no way councils etc will revert to cash machines as they have to pay someone to empty them at the very least.
If the technology breaks down and, let's face it, it appears to do so quite regularly, they don't give a damn. They're just happy to get a percentage of the fine for anyone parking illegally.
It's one of the reasons I finally had to give in and get a smart phone but even then it's a complete PITA
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Nbodger on June 03, 2023, 10:34:23 AM
I appreciate this has nothing to do with car parking but is of a similar vane

Yesterday morning when I was crossing our local station footbridge, there was an elderly lady looking bemused outside the ticket office. I had to explain to the lady that the railways were on strike and virtually no trains. The lady was Turkish and only spoke broken English. She was going into Hull to meet her sister, there was a train the Hull Trains Service but she couldn't purchase a ticket as the ticket office was closed and the two tickets machines only accept card payment, unfortunately the lady only used cash.

Yes in theory she could purchase a ticket on the train but quite often you do not see the guard as they don't always check tickets as there are ticket barriers at Hull.

She did catch the train, I hope she got sorted and was treated fairly

I didn't have any means of payment on me at the time else I would have purchased a ticket for her.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Browning 9mm on June 03, 2023, 09:32:29 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on June 03, 2023, 09:24:18 AM
@Dorsetmike (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=2855)
There was a section on BBC news this morning about cashless parking etc and, basically, about 2.4 million people will just be stuffed as there's no way councils etc will revert to cash machines as they have to pay someone to empty them at the very least.
If the technology breaks down and, let's face it, it appears to do so quite regularly, they don't give a damn. They're just happy to get a percentage of the fine for anyone parking illegally.
It's one of the reasons I finally had to give in and get a smart phone but even then it's a complete PITA

when SWMBO was in hospital over christmas, before she passed, there was only 1 parking machine working in the carparks.
in the end I got fed up and instead of playing 'hunt the one that works'  I took a pic of the out of service messages in the end, and chanced it.
with the situation as it was, my least worry was a parking ticket.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on June 03, 2023, 10:10:48 PM
That's exactly what I have done in Betws-y-Coed tonight. Stuck car in church car park there and took picture of machine not in use.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on June 04, 2023, 10:26:16 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on June 03, 2023, 09:24:18 AM
@Dorsetmike (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=profile;u=2855)
There was a section on BBC news this morning about cashless parking etc and, basically, about 2.4 million people will just be stuffed as there's no way councils etc will revert to cash machines as they have to pay someone to empty them at the very least.
If the technology breaks down and, let's face it, it appears to do so quite regularly, they don't give a damn. They're just happy to get a percentage of the fine for anyone parking illegally.
It's one of the reasons I finally had to give in and get a smart phone but even then it's a complete PITA

it took me 3/4 of an hour to get the app to work for Crawley railway station it wanted full details of the car our address then if refused to accept the first card i put in  :veryangry:
missed 3 trains in process good job it was not an important trip

i have found out from station staff that you can get a parking ticket from the train ticket machine but they don't tell you this on the parking notices

John
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on June 04, 2023, 02:37:06 PM
Parking in Brighton is going the same way, with many streets having the machines removed, forcing you to use the phone app. I've never managed to get this to work, and like Mick, I'm very reluctant to give my card details away to an unknown company. One day, I'm going to leave my car with a sign in the window saying "Unable to pay due to no machine accepting coins" and see what happens.

The Dartford Crossing annoys me too. All right, I know the reason they got rid of the barriers, but you now have the faff of paying online by the next day. Meanwhile, anybody with a foreign registration heading for Dover can drive off into the foreign without paying because nobody is going to try and chase them for payment. Would have made more sense just to abolish the tolls altogether.

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bob G on June 04, 2023, 03:18:37 PM
When we were in Sydney Australia we had our travel on the ferries just tapping in and tapping out. The only downside is you have no idea how much you are paying for your travel. Bars didn't want cash either.

Then we went to Brisbane and to travel on the ferries you had to get a card, but you couldn't get a card from any of the boarding piers. Only at special shops that sold the cards. Madness. One of the ferry crew said to us "just get on and get off where you want and if any inspectors get on, just say you are a tourist!" So ferries in Brisbane were free because we couldn't figure it any other way.

Bob
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Graham on June 05, 2023, 01:54:26 AM
only works for international tourists, not us local tourists unfortunately.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on June 05, 2023, 05:34:55 AM
Ok it's not like Im living in the Highlands and Islands of Scotland as I used to do, where MRCs are nearly non existent as are shows.
But here in Norfolk, planning this year's show visit schedule is a problem when you live out on the coast when over half of the area you live in is north sea. (it's approaching 2/3rd sea).
It means higher milages across country in a county with no motorways, so the travelling to show time becomes high.

But then two shows I had to dismiss were both town centre shows without their own parking.
One I dismissed because it's phone app only payment, and at the time I only had a phone that could make phone calls.
With travelling costs added to parking costs added to show entry costs even a small show becomes expensive.
Both would involve a considerable walk from  free parking areas outside their town centres.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on June 22, 2023, 08:36:27 PM
My Home & Contents insurance renewal notice came through a couple of days ago and they want 40% extra - an additional £70 a year.
My attempts to use comparison sites led me to believe that, despite answering all the questions, the cover I was then offered came nowhere near matching what I was getting from the current insurer. There were things I wanted to add in but couldn't as they weren't on the forms and their required excesses were radically different. As an example, for items insured outside the home I could choose between laptop or bicycle. Not both, oh no :no: (And before some joker points it out I'm unlikely to pedal off down the road with my laptop slung over my shoulder :D)
A mate recommended NFU Mutual as they are not on comparison sites but I spoke to a surly bloke who asked me only a few questions and asked when my renewal date was. When I replied "End of this month" he asked "What - the 31st?"
I don't think he liked me pointing out there was no such date so quoted me £550, which is twice my next year's premium :o
I just told him he doesn't want the business and bid him a fond farewell >:(

I have come to the conclusion my current insurer got the price wrong last year for a very good package and is levelling things up so will be leaving it with them
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on June 22, 2023, 09:21:25 PM
We use Saga for the car and household insurance and I got a 3 year fixed price deal. Have a squint at them.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on June 22, 2023, 09:22:38 PM
I have found Mick that when I am shopping around for new house and contents insurance, I can usually find one or two companies that are a bit cheaper then the current company. However, the cover is usually not as good, or, as you say, the required excess is a lot more. Once I have a couple of cheaper quotes, I ring the current company up and tell them that I can get new cover for a bit less and they usually match the figure I quote, or at least get near. I have found that I have not had to change the insurance company, (Allianz), since we bought the house in 1999! Mind you, they might just be being nice to me because I have only ever had one claim.  :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on June 22, 2023, 10:05:58 PM
Quote from: Malc on June 22, 2023, 09:21:25 PM
We use Saga for the car and household insurance and I got a 3 year fixed price deal. Have a squint at them.

I used to use Saga until I found they were more than £200 over my current car insurer. When I spoke to them they tried to offer all sorts of reductions like a 'loyalty bonus' but I just said they had not been loyal to me so even if they matched the new insurer I would not use them again. Their 3 year fixed rate just meant I'd have been £600 or so out of pocket.
Hasn't stopped their junk mail, though
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on June 23, 2023, 12:19:39 AM
I do similar to Dannyboy and even if I don't get a cheaper quote I tell my current insurer that I did. Mind you, this year I didn't need to. I threatened to look elsewhere and they knocked it down immediately, I didn't need to look elsewhere. I can't remember how much they knocked off but I think I mentioned it in this thread somewhere.

EDIT: I just checked and I put it in the happy thread because they knocked off almost 25% of the renewal cost so I'm paying £620 to insure 2 cars and the buildings & contents which is just £12 more than in 2022. I'm quite happy with that.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on June 23, 2023, 09:36:53 AM
Quote from: Trainfish on June 23, 2023, 12:19:39 AM

EDIT: I just checked and I put it in the happy thread because they knocked off almost 25% of the renewal cost so I'm paying £620 to insure 2 cars and the buildings & contents which is just £12 more than in 2022. I'm quite happy with that.

So basically they were trying to rip you off and you still gave them your business
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on June 23, 2023, 11:28:28 AM
Yes but on looking around I couldn't find it cheaper anyway. If I didn't have to insure the cars I wouldn't have done so.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Browning 9mm on June 23, 2023, 02:19:40 PM
unfortunately there are quite a few who don't.

several years ago there was a suggestion the the cost of 3rd party insurance be added to the cost of fuel, worked out by average mileage etc.
then you would chose to add fire and theft, fully comp etc through a separate policy with your company of choice, but no driver would actually be uninsured on the road.

needless to say, too stupid to see the light of day, after all the insurance companies make millions by adding on an extra bit to cover for accidents involving uninsured drivers.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on June 23, 2023, 03:22:27 PM
I've always thought that insurance, VED etc should be added to the fuel cost so that those who use the roads more pay more and as you say everyone would pay (apart from fuel thieves of course). I guess it's not that simple though as if you've been driving for 50 years without making a claim then you should expect to pay less than the scrote who has just passed his test and buys an old BMW then tears around the town with loud music emanating above the sound of screeching tyres.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: thebrighton on June 23, 2023, 03:32:22 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on June 23, 2023, 03:22:27 PM
....you should expect to pay less than the scrote who has just passed his test and buys an old BMW then tears around the town with loud music emanating above the sound of screeching tyres.

Or the 40+ year old scrote who's been driving for years and thinks a few pints won't affect their competence behind the wheel....
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on June 23, 2023, 03:54:12 PM
Er yes but not really the point I was trying to make.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Graham on June 24, 2023, 12:49:10 AM
Quote from: Browning 9mm on June 23, 2023, 02:19:40 PM
several years ago there was a suggestion the the cost of 3rd party insurance be added to the cost of fuel, worked out by average mileage etc.
then you would chose to add fire and theft, fully comp etc through a separate policy with your company of choice, but no driver would actually be uninsured on the road.
In the state I live in 3rd party insurance is part of your annual road tax, makes the annual road tax a bit expensive but at least everyone is covered. if you want cover your own car then you need to add a comprehensive policy on top. Not sure if all states are the same in Australia as each has their own rules.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on June 24, 2023, 12:44:44 PM
The trouble is that the big costs that an insurer may face ARE the third party costs (deaths, lifelong injury, adapted homes and lifelong care, loss of a lifetime's income, etc.) and putting the cost on fuel, road, tax or anything like that takes no account of individual risk. Having the insured pay individually for the cover means that the insurers can load premiums for higher risk drivers (young, inexperienced, previous incidents, driving record, etc.)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on June 24, 2023, 01:21:13 PM
When I watch TV programmes where the police catch uninsured drivers, the fines they get are sometimes less than the insurance premium. They might get banned for 12 months, but often they don't have a license in any case. It pushes up the premiums for us honest drivers and doesn't incentivise them to get insurance.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: javlinfaw7 on June 25, 2023, 01:39:04 AM
The cars do tend to get impounded though ,so that should be expensive and inconvenient
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TeeCee on June 25, 2023, 11:00:05 AM
Not really, they just go out and buy another rust bucket.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on June 25, 2023, 11:15:48 AM
Usually the stereo costs more than the car and drowns out the rubbish engine
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Malc on June 25, 2023, 04:28:45 PM
Quote from: TeeCee on June 25, 2023, 11:00:05 AM
Not really, they just go out and buy another rust bucket.
Buy?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on July 08, 2023, 01:01:11 PM
I am meant to be at Hampton court flower show today but the car would not start this morning
so call the recovery company i am a member of had some one out with 30 minutes
the starter motor has gone bang so nothing he could do 
no chance of getting it fixed
the recovery company got us a hire car but was to late to arrive make setting off worth it
so that's £114.00 quid wasted

:veryangry:

John 
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 23, 2023, 10:28:11 PM
Anyone out there know St. Swithin's address?
I'd like to send a hit squad round there as I'm starting to develop webbed feet ::)  :rain:  :rain:  :rain:  :rain:  :rain:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on July 24, 2023, 09:53:15 AM
Or send him down here for a holiday... All the rain seems to miss us in the Mid-Sussex dustbowl  :( .

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on July 24, 2023, 10:23:05 AM
I think you're all making stuff up. I was there 5 weeks and it didn't rain once!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 24, 2023, 11:07:19 AM
Feels like it's rained every day in July, and sometimes for 24 hours
It certainly rained all day/night on Saturday and then we had more all day Sunday, but Sunday's I blame on the Aussies :laugh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: PaulCheffus on July 24, 2023, 11:24:45 AM
Hi

Definitely has been very wet for the last few months. Image below from my weather website which gets its data from the weather station in the back garden.

(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/133/982-240723112314.png) (https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/index.php?action=gallery;sa=view&id=133889)

Cheers

Paul
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Graham on July 24, 2023, 04:29:52 PM
Quote from: Bealman on July 24, 2023, 10:23:05 AMI think you're all making stuff up. I was there 5 weeks and it didn't rain once!
I think it is because I arrived in the UK. should be ok for the last test as I leave tomorrow for 4 weeks.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 24, 2023, 06:57:25 PM
According to local news Preston got 111mm of rain over the weekend, more than a normal July month total

Quote from: Newportnobby on July 23, 2023, 10:28:11 PMI'm starting to develop webbed feet 

Maybe they'll be useful, yet :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on July 24, 2023, 11:56:35 PM
Quote from: Papyrus on July 24, 2023, 09:53:15 AMOr send him down here for a holiday... All the rain seems to miss us in the Mid-Sussex dustbowl  :( .

Cheers,

Chris

Don't worry, I'll bring him down there tomorrow  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on July 25, 2023, 10:51:53 AM
Quote from: Papyrus on July 24, 2023, 09:53:15 AMOr send him down here for a holiday... All the rain seems to miss us in the Mid-Sussex dustbowl  :( .

Cheers,

Chris
(https://www.ngaugeforum.co.uk/SMFN/gallery/133/2975-250723104836.jpeg)

See what I mean!?

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on July 25, 2023, 08:15:03 PM
I'm currently (2014 hrs) sat in a garden near Hailsham so not quite mid-Sussex but I am still wearing a T-shirt and shorts. I think it rained earlier though before I got here.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TeeCee on July 26, 2023, 10:13:21 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on July 24, 2023, 11:07:19 AMFeels like it's rained every day in July, and sometimes for 24 hours
It certainly rained all day/night on Saturday and then we had more all day Sunday, but Sunday's I blame on the Aussies :laugh:
Are you quacking much?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on July 26, 2023, 10:16:04 PM
Quote from: TeeCee on July 26, 2023, 10:13:21 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on July 24, 2023, 11:07:19 AMFeels like it's rained every day in July, and sometimes for 24 hours
It certainly rained all day/night on Saturday and then we had more all day Sunday, but Sunday's I blame on the Aussies :laugh:
Are you quacking much?

I try not to, but I do tend to waddle
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Dorsetmike on July 26, 2023, 11:13:36 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on July 26, 2023, 10:16:04 PMI try not to, but I do tend to waddle

Always thought you were quackers!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on July 27, 2023, 01:01:01 AM
Ah, we'll sort him out at the Oval  :D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TeeCee on July 28, 2023, 08:46:02 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on July 26, 2023, 10:16:04 PM
Quote from: TeeCee on July 26, 2023, 10:13:21 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on July 24, 2023, 11:07:19 AMFeels like it's rained every day in July, and sometimes for 24 hours
It certainly rained all day/night on Saturday and then we had more all day Sunday, but Sunday's I blame on the Aussies :laugh:
Are you quacking much?

I try not to, but I do tend to waddle
:D  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on August 03, 2023, 05:50:52 PM
Why can't you....

      ....get hold of a plumber?? I need to replace our bath and if I was 20 years younger I would do it myself, but I'm not and I can't. I've tried phoning 6 local plumbers including 2 recommended by neighbours. I left messages with 4 but they never phoned back. I got replies from 2 who came and measured up. One came back with an estimate so ridiculous it's obvious he doesn't really want the job. The other, a long-established firm, still hasn't given me an estimate despite reminders. I'm obviously going to start the whole process again.

And another thing. I answered a post on Freecycle from someone who wanted a baby gate and we have one we don't need. They said they would like it, since when there has been complete radio silence. What is the matter with people?

 :headbutt:

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: kesdrive on August 03, 2023, 06:23:30 PM
No easy answer.
I have a brilliant plumber who fitted my central heating, services it annually (much cheaper than The large well known companies) and I recently had a new bathroom fitted. I had to wait 3 months for that to be fitted because he is so busy. The ones who can come immediately obviously aren't very busy, or can't be bothered with small jobs.
Busy or not I can call on my plumber if I have an emergency and he will come asap.

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on August 03, 2023, 06:58:43 PM
Yes we used to have a tame plumber like that but he called it a day when COVID hit. Good news though - Freecycle bloke has finally got back to me.

Cheers

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 03, 2023, 09:38:51 PM
In our area there are so many new houses being built it's extremely difficult to get plumbers, sparkies etc and, as said, they'll quote stupid prices in order not to get your business.
The one saving grace is a website run by our Trading Standards which is a bit like Check a Trader except I suspect they actually monitor it. Certainly if a company registered with Safe Trader doesn't respond they get penalised for it and could lose their membership
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Browning 9mm on August 14, 2023, 09:16:18 AM
waiting for a parcel to be delivered by Yodel :-[

tracking shows

14 Aug 2023
1:00am
Your parcel has arrived at the local delivery depot
GATWICK HOME DELIVERY (YODEL)
11 Aug 2023
2:13pm
Your parcel has arrived at the local delivery depot (Gatwick Service Centre (yodel))
GATWICK SERVICE CENTRE (YODEL)
11 Aug 2023
2:05am
Your parcel is in transit
HATFIELD T
10 Aug 2023
10:30pm
Your parcel is at our national hub
HATFIELD T
8 Aug 2023
11:00pm
We're expecting your parcel from your sender. We will provide updates here once we receive it.
NORTHAMPTON SERVICE CENTRE
11 Aug 2023
7:51pm
Tracking number provided

what a load of round spherical objects,
sent on the 8th by yokel 24, but tracking number only supplied on the 11th.

looks like a driver caught his braces somewhere, as it arrived at Gatwick on both the 11th, and then the 14th, or perhaps some clot put it back on the truck :hmmm:

to me, and I know I'm old fashioned, but yodel 24 implies next day delivery, not next week.

do these firms not enter into a contract when they take people's money, or is a case of 'maybe we'll deliver it sometime' ?

or perhaps I'm mistaken, yodel 24 doesn't mean 24 hours, it's 24 days. :veryangry:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: mickeyflinn on August 14, 2023, 09:31:14 AM
Quote from: Browning 9mm on August 14, 2023, 09:16:18 AM...... yodel 24 doesn't mean 24 hours, it's 24 days. :veryangry:

Or how many pieces it's guaranteed to be in if it has to be lobbed over your fence.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 14, 2023, 10:21:19 AM
I might be misreading it but looks like it started its journey in Northampton on 11.8.23 and then time travelled to arrive in Hatfield the day before :confused1:
It then took 3 days to be transferred between Gatwick Service Centre (Yodel) and Gatwick Home Delivery (Yodel).
Maybe the Service Centre didn't Yodel "It's arrived" loud enough for the Home Delivery folks to hear
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on August 14, 2023, 11:06:38 AM
Fortunately, Yodel only operate in the UK. However, DPD is used a lot here in Ireland and if I am expecting a parcel via DPD, I always hope that the email notification I get from DPD tells me that a driver called Jason is delivering it, otherwise, it is a fairly confident bet that the parcel will be delayed by at least 24 hours. The usual excuse being that my location can not be found, yet they always manage to find it a day or two later! Our Eircodes, (postcode) are unique to each address, so there is no excuse.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 14, 2023, 12:10:22 PM
Strangely enough, my local Amazon Prime driver is named Jason
The lad does gad about a bit, eh?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Browning 9mm on August 14, 2023, 12:51:36 PM
parcel just arrived with label on it
'MON to SAT 48'
so can't understand still why if it was at Gatwick on friday, when I 'chatted' with them saturday I was told it would not be delivered till today.

luckily I was laying gridwork in the drive when it arrived so no danger of it going over the gat / in the bins / or on the roof  :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on August 14, 2023, 12:53:06 PM
Our Amazon driver is also called Jason, I think they only employ people called Jason. My beer deliveries from Plain Ales are also delivered by Jason but that's a different Jason.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Browning 9mm on August 14, 2023, 12:58:01 PM
I'm confused with all these Jasons, though not as much as the time I had an e-mail from DPD telling me 'Dave' would deliver my parcel, and opened the door to very nice young lady...

'hello Da.... ahhh' :-[
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 14, 2023, 01:05:03 PM
Quote from: Browning 9mm on August 14, 2023, 12:58:01 PM'hello Da.... ahhh' :-[

....rling ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on August 14, 2023, 01:07:12 PM
Quote from: Browning 9mm on August 14, 2023, 12:58:01 PMI'm confused with all these Jasons, though not as much as the time I had an e-mail from DPD telling me 'Dave' would deliver my parcel, and opened the door to very nice young lady...

'hello Da.... ahhh' :-[

Well it is 2023 now. She/he/they may well have been called Dave.

Almost makes me want to dig out my doorcam video of our post lady...........
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on August 14, 2023, 01:09:46 PM
I suppose 'Jason is to couriers, as 'Mick/Mike' is to certain forums.  ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Nbodger on August 14, 2023, 01:30:06 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on August 14, 2023, 01:09:46 PMI suppose 'Jason is to couriers, as 'Mick/Mike' is to certain forums.  ;)

You taking the Michael  :veryangry:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 14, 2023, 01:50:52 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on August 14, 2023, 01:09:46 PMI suppose 'Jason is to couriers, as 'Mick/Mike' is to certain forums.  ;)

 :unimpressed:  :P
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Foxhound on August 14, 2023, 02:22:55 PM
Quote from: Browning 9mm on August 14, 2023, 12:58:01 PMI'm confused with all these Jasons, though not as much as the time I had an e-mail from DPD telling me 'Dave' would deliver my parcel, and opened the door to very nice young lady...

'hello Da.... ahhh' :-[

I have a work colleague called Davina, and everyone calls her Dave at her insistence.  :confused1:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on August 14, 2023, 02:28:41 PM
We received a parcel Saturday
According to the supplier it was picked up Wednesday..
Herpes / Evri only acknowledged that on the tracker Saturday. It got delivered before it left the depot!!!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Foxhound on August 14, 2023, 02:31:34 PM
Quote from: The Q on August 14, 2023, 02:28:41 PMWe received a parcel Saturday
According to the supplier it was picked up Wednesday..
Herpes / Evri only acknowledged that on the tracker Saturday. It got delivered before it left the depot!!!


Not unusual! I have recently purchased stuff from an online site and selected Not Next Day as I was going to be at work. Returned home to find a 'Delivery failed' card and then got an email saying it was out for delivery. It turned up again next day, but the failed delivery card didn't tell me that either!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Foxhound on August 14, 2023, 02:32:15 PM
Amazon Prime - Next day delivery.

Or, in practice, four days time.

*Grrr*

 :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on August 14, 2023, 02:36:29 PM
Generally if it's UK stock you will get it next day delivery with prime. But if it's from the EU 4 days is about normal.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 14, 2023, 03:38:25 PM
Quote from: Foxhound on August 14, 2023, 02:22:55 PM
Quote from: Browning 9mm on August 14, 2023, 12:58:01 PMI'm confused with all these Jasons, though not as much as the time I had an e-mail from DPD telling me 'Dave' would deliver my parcel, and opened the door to very nice young lady...

'hello Da.... ahhh' :-[

I have a work colleague called Davina, and everyone calls her Dave at her insistence.  :confused1:

Is her real name Rodney?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 22, 2023, 10:58:20 AM
I've had a mail from BT to say landlines are being phased out over the next months and I will need to plug my home phone into my router to receive the digital version of the landline.
They say the price will reman the same and I say "Why?"
Having paid a monthly landline fee all these years and as I'm paying them for my broadband anyway I would have thought no landline = a saving for me :confused1:  :scowl:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Foxhound on August 22, 2023, 12:30:38 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on August 22, 2023, 10:58:20 AMI've had a mail from BT to say landlines are being phased out over the next months and I will need to plug my home phone into my router to receive the digital version of the landline.
They say the price will reman the same and I say "Why?"
Having paid a monthly landline fee all these years and as I'm paying them for my broadband anyway I would have thought no landline = a saving for me :confused1:  :scowl:
Ah, capitalism.  ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on August 22, 2023, 12:42:55 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on August 22, 2023, 10:58:20 AMI would have thought no landline = a saving for me :confused1:  :scowl:

Don't be silly - they still want their money from some source. I do not know anything about it, but there is a free way of making telephone calls over the internet - no doubt someone will know what I am talking about.  ???
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 22, 2023, 01:22:19 PM
I get free calls to most numbers (apart from mobiles) anyway but will wait and see what the deal is. If push comes to shove I'll do what many do and sling the home phone and just use my mobile.
That way, all I'd be paying BT for is my broadband and BT Sports
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: chrism on August 22, 2023, 01:26:03 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on August 22, 2023, 10:58:20 AMI've had a mail from BT to say landlines are being phased out over the next months and I will need to plug my home phone into my router to receive the digital version of the landline.
They say the price will reman the same and I say "Why?"
Having paid a monthly landline fee all these years and as I'm paying them for my broadband anyway I would have thought no landline = a saving for me :confused1:  :scowl:

It's not that landlines are physically being phased out, we'll still have (and need) the physical connection to the exchange.

What is changing is the way that voice transmission happens.

Currently, a microphone in your phone's handset sends electric impulses down the line to the exchange, where their route is set, via other exchanges, to send them to a small loudspeaker in the handset of the phone you're calling so that they can be heard.

The switching arrangement in the exchanges, along with the rest of the voice network, is well past its sell-by date and highly inefficient for modern times so it's being phased out in favour of internet technology.

What will happen post-switchover is that your phone's microphone will only send its impulses as far as your broadband router which will digitise them and send them, via internet routing protocols, to the broadband router of the person you're calling. That will extract the voice data from the rest of the data that it's receiving and convert it back to voice electrical impulses, sending those to the loudspeaker in their phone handset so they can hear what you're saying.

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Railwaygun on August 22, 2023, 01:38:11 PM
The major problem is that old POTs use the 50v current from the exchange . This means that they should still work during a power cut.

Your internet connection runs off 240v, so when the lights go off, so will the phone!




Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 22, 2023, 01:41:08 PM
Quote from: chrism on August 22, 2023, 01:26:03 PMCurrently, a microphone in your phone's handset sends electric impulses down the line to the exchange, where their route is set, via other exchanges, to send them to a small loudspeaker in the handset of the phone you're calling so that they can be heard.

What will happen post-switchover is that your phone's microphone will only send its impulses as far as your broadband router which will digitise them and send them, via internet routing protocols, to the broadband router of the person you're calling. That will extract the voice data from the rest of the data that it's receiving and convert it back to voice electrical impulses, sending those to the loudspeaker in their phone handset so they can hear what you're saying.

And if the person I'm calling doesn't have broadband??
Not everyone has it/wants it (ooh - suit you, Sir)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 22, 2023, 01:42:49 PM
Quote from: Railwaygun on August 22, 2023, 01:38:11 PMThe major problem is that old POTs use the 50v current from the exchange . This means that they should still work during a power cut.

Your internet connection runs off 240v, so when the lights go off, so will the phone!

My cordless sets don't work without power, anyway :no:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Railwaygun on August 22, 2023, 01:49:11 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on August 22, 2023, 01:42:49 PM
Quote from: Railwaygun on August 22, 2023, 01:38:11 PMThe major problem is that old POTs use the 50v current from the exchange . This means that they should still work during a power cut.

Your internet connection runs off 240v, so when the lights go off, so will the phone!
Plug a real phone into the master socket with an adapter as a backup ( until the 50v  power goes down for good!)
My cordless sets don't work without power, anyway :no:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: chrism on August 22, 2023, 01:51:20 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on August 22, 2023, 01:41:08 PM
Quote from: chrism on August 22, 2023, 01:26:03 PMCurrently, a microphone in your phone's handset sends electric impulses down the line to the exchange, where their route is set, via other exchanges, to send them to a small loudspeaker in the handset of the phone you're calling so that they can be heard.

What will happen post-switchover is that your phone's microphone will only send its impulses as far as your broadband router which will digitise them and send them, via internet routing protocols, to the broadband router of the person you're calling. That will extract the voice data from the rest of the data that it's receiving and convert it back to voice electrical impulses, sending those to the loudspeaker in their phone handset so they can hear what you're saying.

And if the person I'm calling doesn't have broadband??
Not everyone has it/wants it (ooh - suit you, Sir)

They will be supplied with an adapter to go between the wall socket and the phone - they may have to ask for one rather than it being supplied automatically.

Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Michael Shillabeer on August 22, 2023, 02:19:47 PM
Quote from: Railwaygun on August 22, 2023, 01:38:11 PMThe major problem is that old POTs use the 50v current from the exchange . This means that they should still work during a power cut.

Your internet connection runs off 240v, so when the lights go off, so will the phone!
You won't be able to charge your car either, or power your heat pump. We're heading towards a single point of failure...
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 22, 2023, 02:26:35 PM
Quote from: Michael Shillabeer on August 22, 2023, 02:19:47 PM
Quote from: Railwaygun on August 22, 2023, 01:38:11 PMThe major problem is that old POTs use the 50v current from the exchange . This means that they should still work during a power cut.

Your internet connection runs off 240v, so when the lights go off, so will the phone!
You won't be able to charge your car either, or power your heat pump. We're heading towards a single point of failure...

None of which I will ever have, but I'm already at a single point of failure. If my leccy fails, everything fails :worried:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: chrism on August 22, 2023, 02:33:43 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on August 22, 2023, 02:26:35 PM
Quote from: Michael Shillabeer on August 22, 2023, 02:19:47 PM
Quote from: Railwaygun on August 22, 2023, 01:38:11 PMThe major problem is that old POTs use the 50v current from the exchange . This means that they should still work during a power cut.

Your internet connection runs off 240v, so when the lights go off, so will the phone!
You won't be able to charge your car either, or power your heat pump. We're heading towards a single point of failure...

None of which I will ever have, but I'm already at a single point of failure. If my leccy fails, everything fails :worried:

As are most people .....
Oh, but I've got gas central heating, not electric - fine, what makes the pump work?    ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on August 22, 2023, 04:26:33 PM
Quote from: Railwaygun on August 22, 2023, 01:38:11 PMThe major problem is that old POTs use the 50v current from the exchange . This means that they should still work during a power cut.

Your internet connection runs off 240v, so when the lights go off, so will the phone!


My parents, being classed as vulnerable, have been supplied with a VOIP ( voice over internet protocol) phone, that has a built in battery and will keep working even if the mains goes off.
This is what is supplied if the user doesn't have broadband as well. Though without the battery backup unless you ask for it.

As it is my parents have internet as well and the phone Tees off the cable before the router.

My last workplace had changed to VOIP phones some years ago, 99% of the time you notice no difference.



We still have a multi fuel stove, more than once when the power goes off in the winter we've settled down in the living room to sleep on the sofa and reclining chair for the night, after an evening meal cooked on the top of the stove , because the gas central heating has failed. Considering having a gas hob next time.
PS we're on tank gas, not mains..
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on August 22, 2023, 11:13:06 PM
Quote from: chrism on August 22, 2023, 02:33:43 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on August 22, 2023, 02:26:35 PM
Quote from: Michael Shillabeer on August 22, 2023, 02:19:47 PM
Quote from: Railwaygun on August 22, 2023, 01:38:11 PMThe major problem is that old POTs use the 50v current from the exchange . This means that they should still work during a power cut.

Your internet connection runs off 240v, so when the lights go off, so will the phone!
You won't be able to charge your car either, or power your heat pump. We're heading towards a single point of failure...

None of which I will ever have, but I'm already at a single point of failure. If my leccy fails, everything fails :worried:

As are most people .....
Oh, but I've got gas central heating, not electric - fine, what makes the pump work?    ;D

The central heating won't work in a power cut, but the gas fire will still provide heating when that is all you've got in an extended failure. In our case, we could set up lighting from 12V batteries and cooking on a camping cooker fueled from a gas cylinder.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on August 23, 2023, 09:10:01 AM
Living where I do, we are prone to power cuts, in fact we had one as we were going to bed last night, although the power was back on before 3am. We have Calor gas central heating, but, as has been pointed out, electricity is still needed. If it is cold, we have a coal fire and I have numerous rechargeable lights, (must put them back on charge!) and a portable gas ring. I also have a small petrol generator which is brought into use if the power is going to be off for a long time, so I can keep the fridge and freezer going.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on August 23, 2023, 09:20:31 AM
Ah well, some people do choose to live out in the sticks  ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on August 26, 2023, 10:00:21 AM
I thought while I was out for a paper this morning I'd get some 'essentials' for the layout.
7mm drill bit needed to fit switches into a mimic panel, and a top up of 2.5mm x 12mm screws which I use to temporarily secure track.
Screwfix - 7mm drill bit, yes - screws, no
B & Q - 7mm drill bit, yes - screws, no
Wickes - 7mm drill bit, no - screws, yes

So my carbon footprint was Newsagent > Wickes > Screwfix ::)

Edit:- before some joker says it, the Newsagents had neither drill bit nor screws :P
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Nbodger on August 26, 2023, 10:36:55 AM
Quote from: Newportnobby on August 26, 2023, 10:00:21 AMI thought while I was out for a paper this morning I'd get some 'essentials' for the layout.
7mm drill bit needed to fit switches into a mimic panel, and a top up of 2.5mm x 12mm screws which I use to temporarily secure track.
Screwfix - 7mm drill bit, yes - screws, no
B & Q - 7mm drill bit, yes - screws, no
Wickes - 7mm drill bit, no - screws, yes

So my carbon footprint was Newsagent > Wickes > Screwfix ::)

Edit:- before some joker says it, the Newsagents had neither drill bit nor screws :P

But did you get a paper!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on August 26, 2023, 09:31:38 PM
Quote from: Newportnobby on August 26, 2023, 10:00:21 AMEdit:- before some joker says it, the Newsagents had neither drill bit nor screws :P

You know me too well  ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: mickeyflinn on September 03, 2023, 01:16:30 PM
Not an avid fan of cycling (unlike a certain mod), but thought I'd watch the Tour Of Britain as they were due to ride very close to our house. Watching on ITV4 and what should happen, ADVERTS!!! Started at least 2 miles from where we live and then back to the race 1/2 a mile after. Can you imagine the outcry if they did this on a live football match!!!!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 03, 2023, 01:52:33 PM
Overdosing today. Am in the 4th hour of MotoGP, then will be watching the 3rd T20 v the Kiwis then recording La Vuelta while the F1 is on
 :goggleeyes:  :goggleeyes:  :goggleeyes:
Oops - this should be in the Happy thread maybe
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on September 03, 2023, 02:03:26 PM
You obviously don't have time to read the Forum then, so I conclude that your post was written by an AI chatbot...

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 03, 2023, 02:59:02 PM
Drat and double drat. Rumbled.
We AI bots have no sense of forum etiquette :no:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on September 07, 2023, 01:05:35 PM
Last month I spent a long weekend in London, city of my birth, which was very nice.

However, I was disappointed to discover that there there is now an entry fee of £23 per person (outside of office hours) to visit St. Paul's cathedral. It used to be free.

What happens to this money ?

Has the king's shilling become the king's £23 ?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 07, 2023, 02:49:28 PM
Took my car through a car wash on Monday. Went out to it this morning and it was plastered in muck so I just took it again. Nose to tail in the car wash this time and one of my neighbours was 4 cars in front.
I believe we had some rain last night and it must have brought some filth in it, maybe from the desert.
Anyone further sarf suffer??
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Browning 9mm on September 07, 2023, 03:16:36 PM
not here ;D
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 07, 2023, 03:44:20 PM
Well I am further west, does that count? We had some rain late yesterday afternoon. When I picked Louisa up from work, she remarked on the dirty windows. As I said to her, "we have just had some mucky rain".

In fact we have had thunder rolling about the sky for the last hour or so and it has just started pis raining heavily - hopefully this will be 'clean' rain.  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 07, 2023, 03:52:45 PM
Belay the foregoing - ruddy great hailstones are coming down now. There is that much water that the gutters at the back of the house are not coping, there is a river running down the drive and the TV has lost the satellite signal - and there is still thunder about! Hopefully we don't get the lightning which has a habit of knocking out the ..... no I won't say it!  ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on September 07, 2023, 09:24:56 PM

Quote from: joe cassidy on September 07, 2023, 01:05:35 PMLast month I spent a long weekend in London, city of my birth, which was very nice.

However, I was disappointed to discover that there there is now an entry fee of £23 per person (outside of office hours) to visit St. Paul's cathedral. It used to be free.

What happens to this money ?

Has the king's shilling become the king's £23 ?

Does the pope charge £23 to visit the Vatican ? No - he has an even better scam. He would have us believe that the Vatican is an indepedent sovereign state with its own postal service. So, you buy your postcards and stamps from the Vatican post office, you send them to your nearest and dearest,and they disappear into - who knows where ?

ps My daughter was on holiday in Sicily last month. I'm still waiting for the postcard
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 07, 2023, 09:59:23 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on September 07, 2023, 03:52:45 PMHopefully we don't get the lightning which has a habit of knocking out the ..... no I won't say it!  ;)

Me and my big mouth! Ten minutes after posting this - yup - there was a huge clap of thunder, (I thought to myself, "Heck, that was loud" or words to that effect), and the electric went off. It came back on about 6.30pm so it wasn't too bad this time.  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 07, 2023, 10:16:19 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on September 07, 2023, 09:59:23 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on September 07, 2023, 03:52:45 PMHopefully we don't get the lightning which has a habit of knocking out the ..... no I won't say it!  ;)

Me and my big mouth! Ten minutes after posting this - yup - there was a huge clap of thunder, (I thought to myself, "Heck, that was loud" or words to that effect), and the electric went off. It came back on about 6.30pm so it wasn't too bad this time.  :thumbsup:

You and Louisa should have held your hands up because, as we all know, many hands make light work
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on September 08, 2023, 01:49:20 AM
Are you two having a competition or something  :doh:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Browning 9mm on September 08, 2023, 08:54:26 AM
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Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 08, 2023, 09:40:35 AM
I thought next door was having a BBQ but it must have been the smell of those Tuareg campfires
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Browning 9mm on September 08, 2023, 10:12:23 AM
not wanting to worry you Mick @Newportnobby ...

but I have heard rumours that a Foreign Legion company is marching in your direction to build a fort to protect your little oasis from marauding Bedouin.
better lay in a stock of red wine.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on September 11, 2023, 10:58:15 AM
I have a partial bottom dental plate which decided it would break. Of course, this was Saturday teatime when I could do nowt about it. So, this morning, I am outside the dentist before they opened and walked in as soon as I saw signs of life. The receptionist was not too happy that I had just turned up, rather than make an appointment, telling me that Catherine, (the lady dentist that looks after me), was very busy. Yet, within five minutes, I was sat in the chair with Catherine saying it was 12 months since it last broke. Whilst in the chair, she took a slight sharp edge off the one molar I have left. The tooth is not in the best of condition, but she does not want to do too much with it because it is my only molar. A few minutes later I am with the receptionist again, who was as nice as pie - probably because she was asking me for €100, (for five minutes work)  :goggleeyes: . Even though I have a free medical card, trying to find a dentist here who will give 'free' treatment is a bit like trying to find an NHS dentist in England  :no: . Anyways, I have arranged to collect the repaired denture - and pay - Wednesday morning. Just thought I would have a moan.  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on September 11, 2023, 12:09:18 PM
When I moved into this area some 15 years ago I couldn't find an NHS dentist so had to go private. I dread to think what I've shelled out in those 15 years, not least for 4 crowns where the medics smashed my teeth trying to intubate me during my bypass op. I guess the alternative could have been a lot worse :worried:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Browning 9mm on September 13, 2023, 10:01:41 AM
another Yokel drama

hope they don't charge by the mile, but seems to have had a nice ride around sussex yesterday

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Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on September 14, 2023, 10:15:16 PM
Our neighbour has been away and was due back today, but we have seen no sign of him yet, so I went down the path at the side of his house to check whether his bins needed putting out tonight (they didn't). As I walked down the path in the dimming light, I walked into a huge spider's web, across my face, causing me to fling my hand up. That made my wedding ring fly off, hit the fence and disappear. Myself and two of my sons searched for it by the "torches" on our mobile phones, but the whole area is badly overgrown and we couldn't find it. I've ended up ordering a cheap metal detector for delivery tomorrow.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 11, 2023, 12:43:28 AM
We're still waiting. Did the metal detector find the ring?  :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 11, 2023, 12:50:15 AM
The insurance on 1 of our 3 cats has almost run out. The new quote, £96.60 is almost exactly 50% more than last year £64.43. Apparently it's due to her now being just over 10 years old. I've had a look around but only found 1 quote about £2 cheaper.

Plus, and this is the worst part, it seems now that whoever you use they have an excess PLUS you have to pay 20% of the remaining amount! Seeing as we've just claimed on 1 of the younger ones, Betty who is of course black, for an ear infection where the cost was about £1000 with a £125 excess so that's all we paid. A similar claim next year will cost me £300! Scandalous. They know you won't let a pet suffer but this is outrageous. It almost went in @Browning 9mm's angry thread  :veryangry:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: The Q on October 11, 2023, 08:50:20 AM
We gave up with dog medical insurance when we had 6 collies, we just put the amount demanded into an account, and saved that.. it's paid for itself many times over, even though we just have the one dog now.

Strangely when you pay the vet yourself the bill is mysteriously smaller than when the insurance company is supposed to pay.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 11, 2023, 09:52:45 AM
@Trainfish I'm damned sure they do the same to humans with motor insurance. They just want to get us oldies off the road
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: njee20 on October 11, 2023, 10:46:14 AM
Pet insurance is a pretty immoral industry! They effectively pray on the fact that people love their pets, so they just hike the premiums knowing people will likely pay. People get het up about the motor insurance industry and what a racket it is, but the profit margins on pet are astronomical, and it basically never makes a loss!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Browning 9mm on October 11, 2023, 10:59:35 AM
the first dog SWMBO and I had was Jet, an ex RAFP dog, in 1970, and ever since we have always, with the exception of the odd couple of weeks where we have been looking for a replacement for a lost one, had at least one, and often two dogs.

I did look at pet insurance, but found it far too expensive, and we never insured any of our dogs.

over the years, even with the occasional bill having to be paid, we must have saved thousands.

we just opened a savings account, and paid a small amount in each month. when a bill was due, it was paid from the ballance.

worked for us, and I've heard horrendous stories over the years of insurance claims and excesses.

just my experience, but I agree with @The Q
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 11, 2023, 11:29:00 AM
I think pet insurance is probably the most expensive form of insurance anyone could buy. We have had 3 dogs and I don't know how many cats over the years we have lived in Ireland. Apart from the first couple of years, we have never had pet insurance. As has been stated, if and when one of our pets has needed treatment, the cost came out of our savings. Even when our cat, Bella, had to have an eye removed, which was expensive, the cost was a lot less than what we would have paid in premiums over the years. Incidentally, Bella is still with us and she is 23 years old now.  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on October 11, 2023, 11:57:43 AM
Yes, it's quite the conundrum. I've often felt I should try 'self-insurance' but never quite had the bottle to take the plunge. I just feel that, knowing my luck, as soon as I cancelled the insurance one of the dogs would be hit by a car and need a trip to Noel Fitzpatrick... Also, during the last 2 years of our old cat's life she was on fortnightly injections and we were getting more money back from the insurance company than we were paying in premiums, and they never quibbled. But yes, on balance we have paid out far more than we got back, but that is the way of insurance.

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on October 11, 2023, 03:32:11 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on October 11, 2023, 12:43:28 AMWe're still waiting. Did the metal detector find the ring?  :hmmm:

Sorry, I'd forgotten that I'd posted it on here.

No it didn't.

However, a call out for help on the local area's Facebook group soon found someone with a better detector and practice using it and he finally found it. It took him an hour and a half and he did say that he was happy to do it just for the fun of it and to help out, but I gave him £40 for his time and effort.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 11, 2023, 08:54:05 PM
Great stuff. £40 is a lot cheaper than a divorce I'm told. I've never been divorced (yet) so this may be just hearsay  :hmmm:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on October 11, 2023, 09:00:26 PM
I can assure you that it is not hearsay!  :no:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 11, 2023, 10:36:24 PM
Quote from: dannyboy on October 11, 2023, 09:00:26 PMI can assure you that it is not hearsay!  :no:

Didn't they have a hit with 'Pure and Simple'? :confused1:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on October 11, 2023, 11:13:00 PM
I waited a short while for someone to say something like that. Thankfully I couldn't tell you the name of a single song by them but it seems @Newportnobby probably has some of their CDs.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Bealman on October 12, 2023, 01:21:22 AM
The ring couldn't have been too tight on the finger!  ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 12, 2023, 11:03:46 AM
Quote from: Trainfish on October 11, 2023, 11:13:00 PMI waited a short while for someone to say something like that. Thankfully I couldn't tell you the name of a single song by them but it seems @Newportnobby probably has some of their CDs.

Stuff that. I Googled it :P
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Fardap on October 18, 2023, 03:30:53 PM
The only thing I would say about pet insurance is that I have a dog now, previously had two cats, with the cats I did the put the money aside and pay the vets as and when.

With the dog (soppy Lab) I have the insurance not only as the potential treatment bills could be huge and happy to pay a small excess on that, but that it also provides public liability insurance so if the dog caused an accident or issue I won't have to pay out my own pocket and settle what could become a significant claim.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 18, 2023, 03:44:46 PM
I had the same issue with my ex, who was very quick to savage people :uneasy:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: TeeCee on October 18, 2023, 05:47:21 PM
Have you always lived dangerously?
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on October 18, 2023, 05:54:11 PM
Quote from: TeeCee on October 18, 2023, 05:47:21 PMHave you always lived dangerously?

Oh,yes. I'm surprised I survived this long ;)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Graham on October 31, 2023, 12:03:40 AM
Revolution have shipped my last 2 Pendolino's, great, Royal Mail got them to Heathrow ready for departure in a day. Handed them to Australia Post, and they have now sat for almost 2weeks waiting for space on a plane to get to Aus. I was hoping to run them this week, at this rate I may get them by Christmas  :(  :(
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: acook on October 31, 2023, 05:19:08 PM
I ordered and paid for a Tomix 3 lane engine shed from Hobby Search In Japan just after the Tokyo Olympics. (2020).
It was picked and posted just in time for all flights in and out of Japan to be grounded.
So it has spent the last 3 years living like Tom Hanks at Tokyo Nagoya.
Moch to my surprise it arrived last week.

So wrong thread really, but I ve typed all this now so it can stay here now.

Alan
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on November 28, 2023, 12:03:44 PM
A bit long-winded - sorry. I have just spent two hours trying to pay a bill! What a palaver. I firstly transferred money from my savings account to my current account, on line, no problem. Then I tried to set up a new payee so I could pay the invoice I had received, which is from a company in Scotland. I received a message that the IBAN was wrong.  :doh: . So I checked the 'Help' pages which said, for an International payment, I had to visit my branch. I was loathe to do this, as it is a 50 mile round trip and I have a tooth giving me bother, so I need to get that sorted. I rang the helpline and a young lady, (not sure where, but she was certainly not Irish), eventually suggested that I check the IBAN and if necessary, would have to visit the branch.  :*( . Checked the IBAN with the receiving company - I had it correct. I rang the helpline again and a gentleman said he would set it all up for me. So I gave him all the details, but even he could not set it up! I rang the company again and the man I am dealing with gave me details for a bank in France that should accept my payment in Euros. Put all the details into my bank for a new payee, made the transfer and no problem. Now I am not blaming Brexit,  :no: , but, to pay a company in Scotland, I had to send the money via France!  :(
Now to ring the Dentist.  :worried: .
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Trainfish on November 28, 2023, 02:01:03 PM
I think we should bring back the cheque-book
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on November 28, 2023, 02:19:24 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on November 28, 2023, 02:01:03 PMI think we should bring back the cheque-book

Cash...

Cheers,

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Browning 9mm on November 28, 2023, 02:26:08 PM
typical of banks, and building societies, close all the local branches to increase profits 'save money and give a better service', then tell you you need to go to a branch.
probably find they have shares in oil companies and trying to increase their dividends  :veryangry:  :censored:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on November 28, 2023, 04:46:18 PM
Don't forget the postage stamp  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: mrobs2002 on November 28, 2023, 04:52:33 PM
Quote from: Trainfish on November 28, 2023, 02:01:03 PMI think we should bring back the cheque-book
Puzzled? Still got - and regularly use - mine.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on November 28, 2023, 09:41:11 PM
In my opinion a cheque, sent by post, is a more secure method of payment than a "card not present" transaction via internet.

My cards have been pirated several times but I have never had a problem with cheque fraud.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JulianO on November 30, 2023, 04:30:23 AM
Cheques became obsolete in NZ several years ago so not an option for us!
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: joe cassidy on November 30, 2023, 11:10:33 AM
Spend all your banknotes before they become obsolete too  :)
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: stevewalker on December 03, 2023, 07:37:53 PM
This has been the weekend from hell for us. On Friday our cat was run over and killed and, this morning, my wife received a phone call from her sister, to tell her that she went to hospital on Friday because of breathing difficulties and got her scan results on Saturday night, showing that she has terminal cancer ... both of their parents died of similar cancers, within 9 and 5 weeks of diagnosis.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: crewearpley40 on December 03, 2023, 07:39:21 PM
Sorry to hear this everyone's thoughts prayers best wishes are with you and your family.  Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 03, 2023, 07:58:33 PM
So sorry to hear that Steve - don't know what else to say.
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Papyrus on December 04, 2023, 04:52:35 PM
There's never a good time to receive news like that, but just before Christmas is the worst time of all. Sincere good wishes to you, your family, and especially your sister-in-law.

Chris
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: JBQFC on December 29, 2023, 05:05:26 PM
so over Christmas i had a bit of tooth that was giving me some pain so today a visit to the dentist I need a wisdom tooth out due to the fact the the roots are bent they need to be taken out by a dental surgeon as I am not classed as an emergency due to only having minor pain so a 20 to 30 week NHS wait  :veryangry: i don't want to wait that long so i opted to go private so having it out on the 9 of Jan but It will  cost £400 no new models for a while Thankfully the cap the also came out over Christmas could just be glued back in

John 
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: Newportnobby on December 29, 2023, 05:16:04 PM
I'm still on the waiting list to have a wisdom tooth put in :-[  :dunce:
Title: Re: Unhappy Thread
Post by: dannyboy on December 29, 2023, 05:29:11 PM
You have my sympathies @JBQFC . I was experiencing pain in my one remaining molar for a few days at the begining of December. I got an emergency appointment with my Dentist - 8 days later! When I got there, the Dentist said that there was an infection so gave me a prescription for antibiotics and strong painkillers. I returned a week later and had it extracted. The nurse was stood behind the chair, gripping my head and jaw, (think she was a wrestler in a previous life  ;) ), and Catherine said the tooth would probably break as it had long roots. Fortunately it came out in one piece after a lot of pulling and twisting. The gum was sore for a week after but, touch wood, (ouch), it has settled down nicely now. Compared to you, I got off lightly, €240, (about £210). I hope all goes well for you.