Curiosity tinged Eli's question, "Sylvie, as a woman and as a Trevelver, a future Lady of Trevelver Castle and future Queen of the Karadow, what qualities do you find most attractive in a man?"

Thoughtfully, Sylvia replied, "That's a very good question, Eli. Regardless of how you look at it, the one quality that is most important to me is resourcefulness."

Intrigue laced Eli's voice, "Resourcefulness?"

Sylvia nodded emphatically, "Yes. This is all about a man's ability to adapt and protect, not just in the physical sense but also when navigating life's complexities."

Her brown eyes took on a warm glow as she shared her thoughts, "I'm drawn to a man with an adventurous spirit, one who can think innovatively to create solutions and seize opportunities. I value self-sufficiency and the ability to take on challenges, meaning a partner who can navigate unforeseen circumstances with grace. It's not about material wealth – as a Trevelver and a partner in our agency, I already have enough. What attracts me is his spirit of resilience, his talent for problem-solving, and his ability to use his skills, intelligence, and creativity to thrive in any situation. Such a man can provide stability, enrich our journey together with excitement, and give our relationship lasting depth and resilience. This indicates a shared adventure towards an enticing future," she concluded, her voice taking on a dreamier lilt.

With an interested tone, Eli nodded understandingly and said, "That sounds quite comprehensive. So, you value a man with emotional depth as well as practical abilities. I see. It's not just about man, the provider and protector."

Smiling, Sylvia explained emphatically, "Precisely. I'm captivated by a man's emotional intelligence – his self-awareness, empathy, and ability to connect intimately.

Curiosity tinged Eli's question again, "So, how can a man use his resourcefulness to keep things exciting and unpredictable, and keep some mystery alive?"

Sylvia's expression became contemplative, her dark eyes shining with the spark of imagination. "A truly resourceful man can captivate by weaving an aura of dynamic unpredictability. He engages in creative planning to craft unique, tailored experiences that surprise and delight. His innovative problem-solving skills are like a talented artist's brush, adeptly handling any challenge with flair."

She continued, her voice taking on a husky allure, "He also embraces adaptability with a sense of daring adventure. Change doesn't rattle him, but instead stokes his passion for transforming each situation into something extraordinarily special."

Leaning closer, Eli stated, "It seems he needs to adopt an approach that is both complex and varied."

I asked Fran about this at the recent NEC show and he, reluctantly, said there had been no further progress on N scale so far, since the original statement.

He did say that it was still in the future plans, but nothing current.

Quote from: Bingley Hall on Yesterday at 06:43:12 AMA year gone by and just tumbleweeds......

In their recent video update (which really needed sub titles in places) during their 'open house' at Rails of Sheffield, not even the faintest whiff of N in the air.

They have dipped a toe into O Gauge, but in spite of inviting interest in shrinking OO models to N and some other hints too, I agree the silence has been deafening.

Personally I don't think Accurascale will be producing any N models in the foreseeable future.

Roy

An intrigued tone coloured Eli's voice, "So, you're saying that understanding these questions and how they shape a woman's perception of a man can give a man an edge in this complex game of attraction?"

Sylvie nodded emphatically, "Exactly. Instead of passively waiting for her to answer these questions on her own, a man can subtly influence her perception of him by being dynamically unpredictable, thus maintaining a degree of mystery."

Curiosity laced Eli's words again, "How does he do that?"

Sylvie's tone turned explanatory, "By occasionally sending mixed signals—showing interest at times and stepping back at others—he can keep her intrigued and thinking about him. It's not about playing 'hard to get', but rather being 'hard to define'."

A puzzled look crossed Eli's face, "'Hard to define'?"

Sylvie smiled knowingly again, "Yes. Playing 'hard to get' often risks him appearing aloof or detached, which can be unattractive to us women. This tactic can suggest a lack of interest or an inability to engage meaningfully, pushing women away from him rather than drawing them closer."

With a nod of understanding, Eli replied, "Yes, I see. But what does it mean being 'hard to define'?"

An excited tone entered Sylvie's voice, "By maintaining an 'elusive' persona, he fosters an air of intrigue and complexity that is naturally captivating. We are attracted to the excitement of the unknown and the exhilaration of solving a mystery. This behaviour signals a man who commands his surroundings but decides when and how to disclose himself, thereby igniting our curiosity and a competitive urge to learn more about him."

Eli laughed with amusement, "Well, that sounds like a game I wouldn't mind playing!"

Sylvie nodded in agreement, "You're absolutely right, Eli. It's the excitement of the chase, driven by the attraction of mystery, that we find captivating. It promises depth, unpredictability, and a journey worth embarking on. It's not just about the destination, but also the journey and the experiences along the way. That's what makes the game of attraction so fascinating and worthwhile."

"Definitely, Sylvie!" laughed Eli.

Sylvie broke the comfortable silence with a casual statement, "You know, Eli, I've been pondering..."

Eli's voice held a note of intrigue, "About what, Sylvie?"

Her friend's expression turned thoughtful, "About men, Eli. How some men try too hard, which can make them appear desperate or needy, and how they often fall short in showing social and romantic maturity, among the other attributes that women appreciate."

Eli nodded, "Yes, I know what you mean. And then there are the men who try to play it too cool, you know? Act like they are 'hard to get'. But they just come across as distant or withdrawn. Like they are not really engaged or in control of the situation. Kind of mentally... how do you say... spaced out."

With a thoughtful air, Sylvie replied, "Absolutely, Eli. Attraction is more dependably nurtured within the delicate balance that lies between these two extremes. It's not about being too excited or too distant, but rather about discovering that perfect balance in the middle."

Curiosity laced Eli's words, "But how does someone find that balance?"

Sylvie explained, "A very good question, Eli. It involves understanding and navigating the range that exists between excessive eagerness and extreme aloofness. It's about cultivating self-awareness, confidence, empathy, active listening skills, authenticity, and respect."

Eli nodded again, "That makes a lot of sense. So, it's not just about what the man does, but also about how he makes the woman feel."

Sylvie smiled, "Exactly, Eli. It's about making the woman feel valued, respected, and comfortable. That's the real secret to attraction."

"Very true."

With a thoughtful expression, Sylvie asked, "Eli, have you ever thought about what makes a man attractive? Not just physically, but on a deeper level?"

Eli nodded, "Yes, I have. It's not just about looks, is it? There's so much more to it."

Sylvie agreed, "Absolutely. When we first get to know a man, whether as a potential dating partner or even as a fun, casual lover, we ask ourselves a series of questions about him. It's like an internal dialogue."

Curiosity piqued Eli's voice, "Hmm. I think I know what you mean. What sort of questions, Sylvie?"

Sylvia's dark brown eyes took on a distant, reflective look as she explained, "Those questions help determine how we categorize a man – is he just a platonic friend, someone who could be a romantic partner, or a person best avoided? We analyse all the little things."

She ticked them off on her long fingers. "Is he kind and respectful, or does he act entitled and crass? Does he make me feel safe and cherished when I'm with him?"

"We notice if he has a generous spirit, if he goes out of his way to help others without wanting praise. Does he constantly interrupt when I speak, or does he listen attentively? How does he treat service staff and strangers - with kindness or dismissive rudeness?"

A wistful smile played across her lips. "And, of course, does he have the capacity for the emotional intimacy and vulnerability true partnership requires?"

She let out a breathy laugh. "It's like we're constantly grading them, studying each interaction like a spell we must decipher to discern their true character."

Eli nodded in understanding, "I see. So, knowing these questions and how their answers change the way we see a man can help us do better in the complicated game of attraction."

Sylvie smiled knowingly, "Absolutely. Rather than passively hoping for a positive outcome while we answer these questions on our own, a man who grasps this concept can actively shape how we perceive him."

Eli laughed lightly, "Well, that's a secret we should keep to ourselves, Sylvie!"

With a grin, Sylvie replied, "Agreed, Eli. Our little secret."

A year gone by and just tumbleweeds......

In their recent video update (which really needed sub titles in places) during their 'open house' at Rails of Sheffield, not even the faintest whiff of N in the air.

Two-up: that is quite correct.

Quote from: Bealman on April 25, 2024, 11:16:15 PMTwo up is nothing to do with bowls. It's a game which was played by the Diggers in WWI. It's basically heads or tails played with three coins tossed up in the air from a purpose made wood shoe. Hence the phrase "Come in spinner".

If you want to bet $10 on heads, you just wave it in the air and yell "$10 on heads" and another crowd member matches it by giving you $10 to hold. If you win, you keep it, if you lose, you give him/her the $20.

I thought it's was called Two-up for using two coins, but maybe refers to two coins having the same side "up". The three coin variation is to ensure a result every toss in that 2 of the coins will match (either heads or tails) each time.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Two-up

I only played it as a kid and certainly not for cash. I think the currency was lollies, probably Minties.
Mark

Aurora Australis was visible from the bus stop last night

Quote from: crewearpley40 on May 15, 2024, 10:41:14 PMAre you trying to recreate the events of August 8 1963 mick

No, but the lights on the TPO coaches impressed a few who'd not seen/heard of them, bearing in mind Heatherley is strictly a DC layout