Can you see who's ignoring you?

[njee20]

A comment from a member on another thread that I should "look at how many people ignore me" made me wonder! I assumed not. We could have a league table...

[Tank]

Or maybe you need to wonder what needs to change to stop people ignoring you?

[njee20]

I don't know if anyone is ignoring me. Repeat ad infinitum. You're never going to please everyone in life, I know some here find me argumentative. I've not been banned, so I presume I'm not fundamentally doing anything wrong?

FWIW there are members I find immensely irritating, but I'd never ignore them. Says more about the ignorer than the ignoree IMO.

I take it's a no?

[Tank]

Banning is for those who are extreme.  The moderating team do have a list of members who we monitor if their posts are reported by others frequently, or if their attitude doesn't quite fit.

I don't ignore anyone on here, but I do have a rather nice big red button next to each members name...!   

There is no way of knowing who is ignoring you.

[broadsword]

Can we have a league table of those who do the most reporting and those who are most reported on? 

A bit like Glengarry Glenross, top one gets a car, 2nd top gets a set of golf clubs,
3rd top gets the  boot !

[njee20]

It would be very interesting to see that! Particularly most reported. I imagine the busiest reporter may wish to remain anonymous.

[Tank]

To be honest, there are no real repeat reporters.  We do get reports of the same culprits though, who think they've done nothing wrong, yet dig themselves a hole.  Maybe I should be harsher with some people?

[njee20]

I'm unlikely to fair well if you do

You know my thoughts about all of this, so I won't retread old ground. Do you send warnings to members? I've never received one officially, but I know a lot of forums do.

[dannyboy]

I've received a 'Polite Warning' this evening from Tank for a post early in this thread that has now been removed.

At least it was not the  ........ 'Red Button' 

[REGP]

@Tank can you please clarify a point about "ignoring" that puzzled me for some time.

I very occasional come across a post which simply says "why are you ignoring me" or words to that effect, although I have not knowingly taken any action to ignore that post.

By clicking on the unignore button I can then see the original post.

Does this mean I have inadvertently hit an ignore button or was something done centrally?

Regards

Ray

[Newportnobby]

Ray - that question is generally asked when someone thinks you haven't responded within their perceived timescale. They can't know if you are 'officially' ignoring them.

[Newportnobby]

There is no way of knowing who is ignoring you.

Sorry, but I thought this answered that question. Agree with the rest of your post, though.

[daffy]

I can see everything but thats cause I write the code ☝️😂😂

Now I wonder, is that a blessing or a curse?



BTW - I never knew I could 'ignore' somebody before this thread. Not that I ever would, though I don't always read every post here (are there enough hours in the day? ), so I may seemed to have done so inadvertently, but see from my Profile that I don't have anyone so accidentally 'sent to Coventry' through careless (carefree?) screen tapping.

But if someone is so deserving as to be put an anyone's 'Ignore List' then I would hope that the Mods would have acted accordingly anyway, negating the need to use such a facility. But then again................